So my girlfriend broke up with me because of the tranny porn

[cadmium]

You've seen the threads like this, but this happened to me tonight. My girlfriend of 15 months broke up with me. It wasn't exactly just the tranny porn, but that I promised I wouldn't look at it, and a month later, she saw the history of my browser and saw I didn't keep my promise. So I feel like a schmuck because I broke my promise, but it was one I didn't want to keep. The complete repulsion she had that I looked at this knd of porn though was a complete bummer. I know this wouldn't be as big of a deal if it was gg porn from our conversation. What's wrong with the girl with a cock fantasy? As I often feel at these times, I'm not sure to be depressed or liberated.

[phobun]

You've seen the threads like this, but this happened to me tonight. My girlfriend of 15 months broke up with me. It wasn't exactly just the tranny porn, but that I promised I wouldn't look at it, and a month later, she saw the history of my browser and saw I didn't keep my promise. So I feel like a schmuck because I broke my promise, but it was one I didn't want to keep. The complete repulsion she had that I looked at this knd of porn though was a complete bummer. I know this wouldn't be as big of a deal if it was gg porn from our conversation. What's wrong with the girl with a cock fantasy? As I often feel at these times, I'm not sure to be depressed or liberated.
From a long term perspective this is good for you. Only 15 months is a blip in time compared to some broken relationships. She could not handle it and learned about it early. You didn't get married and have a kid, then have it end like this. You're not going to stop looking at what you like, so be happy man.

[speedstick112]

I feel you bro. My gf broke up with me because I was becoming too much of a man. And she's a friggin tranny.

[cadcad]

Your GF spied on you and broke your level of privacy. Someone that does that early in a relationship will always do that until they learn how fucked up it is to do.

No one wants to be with someone that they need to hide their tracks with and pretend to be someone they are not. You are better off for her not accepting you for you and even more so because she spies on you WTF!

[Dinand]

Be glad at least now you can do in life what you want!

[Buddy Wood]

Liberated!! You're free my brother!!

Now you can look at all the tranny porn you want. Maybe even indulge in a little real life activity if you want...

But for now...www.buddywood.com

[Dino Velvet]

If you don't mind me asking, why did you let her use your computer? I never let anyone I date anywhere near my computer even if they "just want to check their E-Mail".

[Dino Velvet]

Liberated!! You're free my brother!!

Now you can look at all the tranny porn you want. Maybe even indulge in a little real life activity if you want...

But for now...www.buddywood.com

I got a bunch of trailers from your movies on my computer. No way in Hell I'm going to let someone I date know about that. No offense, Buddy. Your movies make my wiener smile.

[yodajazz]

You are liberated. Many women don't understand men and porn period. I would only add, that next time, think about what you really want before you make promises that you can't keep. We've all done it at one time or another. But you can even ask for time to think about things, if you need; so that you are sure you can make and keep promises like that.

Let me also say that I shared by attraction to t stuff to my gg s.o. At times we have been able to use story telling or watching videos as a way to stimulate our sex life. And sometimes coming clean, tells a woman that you love her enough, so you dont want to hide a part of yourself.

[Bob's Tgirls]

If you don't mind me asking, why did you let her use your computer? I never let anyone I date anywhere near my computer even if they "just want to check their E-Mail".

Exactly. To me a computer is private like a wallet or a purse. Even when girls or girlfriends lived with me, we had our own computers. I didn't use theirs and they didn't have access to mine.

[Willie Escalade]

If you don't mind me asking, why did you let her use your computer? I never let anyone I date anywhere near my computer even if they "just want to check their E-Mail".


Exactly. To me a computer is private like a wallet or a purse. Even when girls or girlfriends lived with me, we had our own computers. I didn't use theirs and they didn't have access to mine.
Werd. I have shown some people my computer's contents...but that's because we have the same stuff on them. Other than that, it's no one else's business.

Fortunately for me I'm the computer nerd of the family. :oops:

[speedstick112]

Erase your history. Or I would have said it's a virus.

[baileyandkc]

Think of the future alimony you just saved!

[Felicia Katt]

Not getting caught in a lie isn't the equivalent of telling the truth. The relationship was doomed as soon as he made a promise he knew he couldn't keep. It was just a matter of time. Privacy is one thing, trust is another, and its easier to get past someone being nosy than it is someone being dishonest.

FK

[kmod]

It's no easy feat hiding the 1TB of TS porn I have on one of my HD's. Luckily, the first 2TB of straight Porn seem to do the job :)

Every relationship I've gone into I've been pretty clear with the GG that I've worked in the (straight) industry and have plenty of content I would be proud to show off to her, especially the 22K photos I captured for a collection of production companies. All this overwhelms and/or excites the girl enough that she doesn't dare explore my OTHER HDs.

So my solution: Flood them with the shit from the beginning and they tend to accept it, roll their eyes and carry on. A living's a living. If they're still curious I will allow SUPERVISED viewing of my photo albums. If they want to watch video I'll take them to the porn shop and rent one. They're NOT going through my shit without me knowing. Plus, I hide things well enough that the average user wouldn't find anyways.

Clear your history at the end of every session (which I don't do, cus again, the girl's not accessing anything unless I'm there)
Don't make promises with your mouth that your penis can't keep. After all, that's the guy in charge when you're doing those sinful things! lol

[Distance]

Not getting caught in a lie isn't the equivalent of telling the truth. The relationship was doomed as soon as he made a promise he knew he couldn't keep. It was just a matter of time. Privacy is one thing, trust is another, and its easier to get past someone being nosy than it is someone being dishonest.

FK

Yeah. Why make such a promise anyway, were you ashamed? Mind you, if you are, that's one thing, but lying and also letting someone check your personal computer...besides that, everyone has fantasies...you bet she has hers as well. Don't let anyone control your freedom. It failed not only because you lied, but also because you accepted that encaging control. Big brother turned to big sister, all puns intended. :lol:

[Silcc69]

Yeah you shoulda deleted that history and used one of those shredder programs. Or just don't let he on the pc. But I guess it's to late for all that.

[Bunzee]

she never loved you to begin with, if you love someone, you wouldn't break up with them just because of that

[elo]

Liberated!! You're free my brother!!

Now you can look at all the tranny porn you want. Maybe even indulge in a little real life activity if you want...

Amen!Personally i wouldn´t want to be with a girl that thinks she can tell me what i can do and what not.

[Iori]

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[bte]

You've seen the threads like this, but this happened to me tonight. My girlfriend of 15 months broke up with me. It wasn't exactly just the tranny porn, but that I promised I wouldn't look at it, and a month later, she saw the history of my browser and saw I didn't keep my promise. So I feel like a schmuck because I broke my promise, but it was one I didn't want to keep. The complete repulsion she had that I looked at this knd of porn though was a complete bummer. I know this wouldn't be as big of a deal if it was gg porn from our conversation. What's wrong with the girl with a cock fantasy? As I often feel at these times, I'm not sure to be depressed or liberated.

You're an idiot. Don't you ever delete your browsing history? I got it setup to everytime I close the browser, the history is deleted. A lot of people don't understand the appeal of TS porn. Some people just figure TS porn to be guys who wants to be women, so that makes the porn gay. You are better off. Now you can pursue a relationship with a TS instead of just looking at TS porn. There's an important lesson to be learned and that is always delete your browsing history.

[raybbaby]

Liberated!! You're free my brother!!

Now you can look at all the tranny porn you want. Maybe even indulge in a little real life activity if you want...

But for now...www.buddywood.com
OMG laughing my ass off at this post!

[sheyum]

isnt it sad that people in relationships are not allowed to LOOK at soemthing they find arousing..?

Is it possible to be in a relationship--and still feel free??

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

You've seen the threads like this, but this happened to me tonight. My girlfriend of 15 months broke up with me. It wasn't exactly just the tranny porn, but that I promised I wouldn't look at it, and a month later, she saw the history of my browser and saw I didn't keep my promise. So I feel like a schmuck because I broke my promise, but it was one I didn't want to keep. The complete repulsion she had that I looked at this knd of porn though was a complete bummer. I know this wouldn't be as big of a deal if it was gg porn from our conversation. What's wrong with the girl with a cock fantasy? As I often feel at these times, I'm not sure to be depressed or liberated.

I don't blame her. I mean, what girl wants a man who wants chicks with dicks? Even chicks with dicks has a hard time admitting that the man they're dating likes dicks! lol Ironic isn't it? Like a double edged sword. What girl wants to be bothered thinking if her bf is blowing another guy while she is at work? Do you feel me? ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

[BeardedOne]

...and a month later, she saw the history of my browser and saw I didn't keep my promise.

*Snip*

As I often feel at these times, I'm not sure to be depressed or liberated.

Liberated. She clearly didn't trust you (Whether justified or not) and spied on you.

Bitch-be-gone.

Go to the nearest Hooters and catch a game while chowing down on strips, tots, and Key Lime Pie and the thought that Holly Sweet was once a Hooter's gurl.

[Cubpocalypse]

Not getting caught in a lie isn't the equivalent of telling the truth. The relationship was doomed as soon as he made a promise he knew he couldn't keep. It was just a matter of time. Privacy is one thing, trust is another, and its easier to get past someone being nosy than it is someone being dishonest.

FK

Well, if she had trusted him, she wouldn't have invaded his privacy. And not every lie is the same. If we told our g/fs, "yes, that dress does make you look fat", we'd never get any. The lie he told was way down the scale and perhaps warranted a day at a spa or getting to pick the next 2 movies. Personally, I think the relationship was doomed when he decided to date a crazy, controlling, jealous, mistrustful loon.

[cadmium]

Not getting caught in a lie isn't the equivalent of telling the truth. The relationship was doomed as soon as he made a promise he knew he couldn't keep. It was just a matter of time. Privacy is one thing, trust is another, and its easier to get past someone being nosy than it is someone being dishonest.

FK

You're right. I should not have made that promise. I did break a trust we established, however ridiculous it is in my own mind, it was important to her. We weren't living together so I thought when we would live together my porn use would eventually diminish and be minimal or go away.

On the subject of sharing computers, I thought I had my bases covered. I was using Safari in Private Browsing mode, but clicked on some .wma videos that launched Microsoft Video Player and those videos showed up in Internet Explorer's history which ironically I never use, but she did when she used my pc.

[cadmium]

isnt it sad that people in relationships are not allowed to LOOK at soemthing they find arousing..?

Is it possible to be in a relationship--and still feel free??

good point. seems we give up some freedoms to be a couple, which is tough to do.

[cadmium]

Not getting caught in a lie isn't the equivalent of telling the truth. The relationship was doomed as soon as he made a promise he knew he couldn't keep. It was just a matter of time. Privacy is one thing, trust is another, and its easier to get past someone being nosy than it is someone being dishonest.

FK

Yeah. Why make such a promise anyway, were you ashamed? Mind you, if you are, that's one thing, but lying and also letting someone check your personal computer...besides that, everyone has fantasies...you bet she has hers as well. Don't let anyone control your freedom. It failed not only because you lied, but also because you accepted that encaging control. Big brother turned to big sister, all puns intended. :lol:

no i'm not ashamed of the images. which is be part of why I don't get why it is such a big deal. I made the promise because I wanted to make things better the easy way, not the realistic way and not being true to myself. Shame on me for breaking my promise. One I won't so easily make in the future.

[Ts CinthyaNY]

Honey, you will get over soon... So what she did not respect your privacy, even if you both had a relationship it does not give her a right to look into your stuff or to judge, so good you off her...

Now you back in the market and there must be a few TS woman that have caught your attention... You now ready for the dating game and try ( not all TS's are nut jobs like some men here want you to believe) to explore more of our Trangender world... If she see you with a TS or you ever comeback to her and she realize you been with a TS you can always tell her that it her fault for leaving you at our mercy and push you to lust on TS ... :wink:

Enjoy as much of your time while you can...

Love...

Cinthya.

[Felicia Katt]

Well, if she had trusted him, she wouldn't have invaded his privacy. And not every lie is the same. If we told our g/fs, "yes, that dress does make you look fat", we'd never get any. The lie he told was way down the scale and perhaps warranted a day at a spa or getting to pick the next 2 movies. Personally, I think the relationship was doomed when he decided to date a crazy, controlling, jealous, mistrustful loon.
Telling a little white lie to spare someone's feelings or some insincere flattery to get in their pants is not even close to the same as a breaking a promise made as a condition to being in a relationship. But since you would go against the facts to try to make him the victim and her the villain, I guess the truth is a pretty flexible commodity to you, and you probably spend a lot on spas and movie tickets LOL

FK

[fred41]

You've seen the threads like this, but this happened to me tonight. My girlfriend of 15 months broke up with me. It wasn't exactly just the tranny porn, but that I promised I wouldn't look at it, and a month later, she saw the history of my browser and saw I didn't keep my promise. So I feel like a schmuck because I broke my promise, but it was one I didn't want to keep. The complete repulsion she had that I looked at this knd of porn though was a complete bummer. I know this wouldn't be as big of a deal if it was gg porn from our conversation. What's wrong with the girl with a cock fantasy? As I often feel at these times, I'm not sure to be depressed or liberated.

I don't blame her. I mean, what girl wants a man who wants chicks with dicks? Even chicks with dicks has a hard time admitting that the man they're dating likes dicks! lol Ironic isn't it? Like a double edged sword. What girl wants to be bothered thinking if her bf is blowing another guy while she is at work? Do you feel me? ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

How would that be any worse than thinking you bf is fucking another woman while you're at work?!

[drock]

go out and do your thang

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

You've seen the threads like this, but this happened to me tonight. My girlfriend of 15 months broke up with me. It wasn't exactly just the tranny porn, but that I promised I wouldn't look at it, and a month later, she saw the history of my browser and saw I didn't keep my promise. So I feel like a schmuck because I broke my promise, but it was one I didn't want to keep. The complete repulsion she had that I looked at this knd of porn though was a complete bummer. I know this wouldn't be as big of a deal if it was gg porn from our conversation. What's wrong with the girl with a cock fantasy? As I often feel at these times, I'm not sure to be depressed or liberated.

I don't blame her. I mean, what girl wants a man who wants chicks with dicks? Even chicks with dicks has a hard time admitting that the man they're dating likes dicks! lol Ironic isn't it? Like a double edged sword. What girl wants to be bothered thinking if her bf is blowing another guy while she is at work? Do you feel me? ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

How would that be any worse than thinking you bf is fucking another woman while you're at work?!

I actually consider both to be in the same boat/offense level. And I wasn't comparing. Just was saying though how most tg's feel. ;)

That's all.

~Kisses.

HTG

[transmaven]

Brings up an important point. Make sure you know how to browse anonymously and clean your computer. Alas, neither is truly easy unless you know your way around said computer. Secure tunneling, tor, etc. If you don't recognize those words you need to pay for protection.

Anonymizer TNS is a *very good* program. Very easy to configure for all your browsing, email and posting needs. 100 bucks a year well spent.

Window Washer is a decent cleaning program. Make sure you configure it correctly. Make sure you wash your slack and free space.

Beyond that always have Zone Alarm and AVG antivirus running and updated. Then you're pretty much covered.

When you need to toss a computer or make sure nobody will ever see what's on your HD, think about something like drivecrypt. In the end, you must encrypt and toss the key. :wink:

And of course your computer shd. be password protected from the desktop. Create a strong password: important sport game teams and scores are decent and easy to remember. Remember: digital information is for life. Best to keep it secure.

http://www.securstar.com/home.php

[Fudge]

Dude, stop crying over a woman you never really wanted in your life anyways. The cunt was spying on you then using what she found to control your actions. Fuck her, I could imagine what your life would have been like if she went on to marry you. Just a matter of time and she would have gained 100 pounds, had at least two if not three kids then bam, divorced you for support till the kids were 25.

This cunt deserves to be alone with herself.

Now your free to do whatever you want pal and the first thing you need to do is download this free program that cleans the browser and then some called ccleaner.

Second thing is invite a TS over for a night of fun to celebrate your release from her fucking snooping fucking controlling.

Lets face it Dude, you never wanted her around in the first place. You got your wish. Cool how you got rid of her. She will come back on her knees and when she does get her to blow you all night long then send her packing.

[xskyex]

transmaven you seem more than a little paranoid... if you set your browser to delete cookies, history etc. when you close it no girlfriend, friend or anyone else using your computer is going to find anything... sure techincally they could.. but if someone is going to those lengths to find out what you have on your computer they are bordering on psychotic and you're better off without them anyway.. you're making it out like you're committing a crime.. sheesh..

[redtiger]

You're better off w/o her dude! Now you don't have to be looking over your shoulder or hiding anything. Having a gf around can be fun, at least until they move in with you. Then you find out who they really are. Besides, your relationship was doomed from the beginning. Your computer was your own and it's contents are private unless otherwise stated. The fact that she went snooping on your computer twice should tell you that she was always gonna be a pain in the ass. These are always the people who say, "trust me" and then stab you in the back by ransacking your private stuff. I bet she didn't let you go snooping on her computer! Bit the biatch adieu!!!

[dc_guy_75]

Happened to me, and in retrospect, it was the best thing that could happen... she had a perspective on human sexuality that was way too black and white.

Deal with it as best you can and move on... its best it happened now as opposed to having marriage and children in the equation

[transmaven]

transmaven you seem more than a little paranoid... if you set your browser to delete cookies, history etc. when you close it no girlfriend, friend or anyone else using your computer is going to find anything... sure techincally they could.. but if someone is going to those lengths to find out what you have on your computer they are bordering on psychotic and you're better off without them anyway.. you're making it out like you're committing a crime.. sheesh..

"Bordering on psychotic" is an excellent description of many young women! :P

Let me explain something. A person with very little knowledge of computers can google "find deleted pics" and with extraordinary speed download a nasty piece of code that will expose more than you ever nightmared possible.

Hard discs are naughty by nature, esp. with an OS like Windows. Shit never goes away and in any case can always be sniffed out. We're not talking electron microscopy and NSA data-forensics here -- as I mentioned above -- anyone with a quarter of a brain can google and to their mischievous delight find out everything you've ever done. Fast. And many things you didn't realize you'd done. Surfing the web is like driving drunk. Always.

"Better safe than sorry" is such an annoying phrase b/c it is so hellishly true. And the easy as pie ways to protect onself listed above are hardly paranoid. Just plain solid horse-sense.

[gotchagood]

consider yourself lucky, now you're free to date. Anyway, she's probably a hypocrite; slamming you while she goes off and enjoy "lesbian" porn or humping some other chick on the dance floor.