I don't get men that like transsexuals?

[MrsKellyPierce]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

[rockabilly]

Good question ...
1. Honesty
2. Commitment
3. And corny as it sounds ... love.
I don't see it any differently than settling down w/ a gg.

[shemale-411]

Kelly the guy has to accept himself before he can accept the girl. I did that a long time ago and have had some great relations with transgendered girls, everything from dating to being engaged. You got issues with yourself, you are going to transfer those to the girl. But if the guys ever get past all that, and love the girl more than anything, and that means family, friends etc...it just might be the best thing they ever imagined.

[MrsKellyPierce]

I agree with that shemale-411 :) but neither of you answered my questions :P

[rockabilly]

Ok you changed the question. mmkay

Since i see you as women and i'm a man ... I'm straight but don't like being labeled , i like who i like and that's good enough for me.

I don't know why i'm attracted to tg's , it began in college when i saw pics of Danielle Foxx.
Have'nt had sex yet but why would i be ashamed if i wanted to do it?

[edward almond]

Women are prettier,and men to me are ugly.But I find male genitals hotter and sexier. When you combine the two, perfection.

[Mjchitown]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?


I don't post too often, but I figured this would be a good one to respond to. So, here goes:

1. I think that my family would have to be comfortable with me dating a TS because if we were to settle down, family would still be in my life. Also, for me and my sanity, she would have to stop escorting (or never have started), and stop any physical relationships with others (ie - non solo porn, and/or cheating). This should be a given because we would both be in a committed relationship.

2. As for fantasy and admitting it is nothing more, this is different for everyone. I dont feel that my experiences were fantasy, so I dont think I can answer this one too well.

3. I view myself as a young man that is interested in both GG and TS. I have recently been open to the GG's that I have dated that I also had interest in TS. And the experiences I have had with TS just did not work out due to the second reason in my response to Q1 (and a little of the first part).

4. I think that the reason I like TS is that there was an immediate attraction when I was first introduced to TS porn. But, the reason I love them is that over the years I have learned about their struggles and that they are people too and that they deserve respect, the same as anyone else. Also, while growing up, I learned to view any TS as a person with feelings and emotions instead of just an object for sexual gratification, the same can be said for my views to GG (just a part of growing up I think).

5. I would say that I had a genuine interest at about the age of 16 (I'm now 25).

6. I am not personally ashamed before/during/or after having sex with a TS....However I haven't become comfortable enough with my family to have any long lasting relationship, but that is something that I have to work on.

That is my perspective on your questions. I hope that helps Kelly.

[fred41]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

1. If by settling down you mean marriage, then- I would have to be ready to get married again..which right now is too soon after my divorce. However...to be married to me , she would have to quit escorting (all the girls I know..or at least most of them ..are escorts). Living together is one thing ..but at least to me..marriage is a deeper, and total commitment..so at that point she would have to commit to being 100% faithful to me. She also couldn't be involved in pornography.
2. Doesn't apply since I'm willing to settle at some point.
3. Usually using a mirror..lol.
4. Probably for the same reasons I like everyone else. Sorry I can't give you a deeper answer than that...I could never be sure my answer was 100% accurate anyway. I will say that at this point in my life I know some of the girls pretty well and am comfortable with them so...that happens to be the dating pool for me.
5. It was a later on in life thing. I don't psycho-analyze myself over it anymore. It may have just been something new and totally different.
6. Nope. never been ashamed and never will be. No point in being ashamed for having sex with another consenting adult.

[MrsKellyPierce]

OOh I like your post MJCHI

And Fred I don't believe in marriage, I think it ruins the relationship. I think you be committed with out some ring on your finger.

But thank you to both gentleman for answering honestly and candidly :)

[ScottyBabe]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

good post kelly,

1. Not a lot really. if we got on really well and it felt like it was meant to be, then nothing can stop that. so long as we were both faithful and commited, bring it on! i do have a desire to have kids though, but that is no different from settling down with a GG who couldn't have kids. i wouldn't leave because of that. we'd just have to start down the road of adoption etc, which isn't a problem for me.

2. for me it's not just a fantasy. to me, it's no different than liking/dating/thinking/fucking etc. someone else that you are attracted to. (be it man or woman). i don't lie if someone askes me if i like transsexual women...by the same token though i don't broadcast it because it's my business.

3. my sexuality doesn't define or influence me or my decisions. i like what i like and i'm happy with that. if anyone has a problem, they can go fvck themselves.

4. i can't actually answer that i don't think. i just do. same way i like steak or cars or beer or drumming. it just fits me. it isn't something that i think of as wierd or needing to be justified.

5. since i discovered sexual maturity/porn probably, about the age of 12/13. it's a normal way of life to me and, as i said, not something i think of as "quirky" or "wierd"

6. never have done, but i had sex with a guy once, the only guy i've ever been attracted to and i never felt bad after that. it was right for me at the time and i would do it again.

can i ask you though, does it bother you that women like you are objectified so much, or do you get used to the "attention" (even if you feel it's good or bad)?

SB

[Mjchitown]

OOh I like your post MJCHI

And Fred I don't believe in marriage, I think it ruins the relationship. I think you be committed with out some ring on your finger.

But thank you to both gentleman for answering honestly and candidly :)

Anytime Kelly :)

[MrsKellyPierce]

OOh I like your post MJCHI

And Fred I don't believe in marriage, I think it ruins the relationship. I think you be committed with out some ring on your finger.

But thank you to both gentleman for answering honestly and candidly :)

Anytime Kelly :) Why does your family need to know she is a transsexual? When you take your girlfriend home do you tell your mom she has a pussy?

[fred41]

OOh I like your post MJCHI

And Fred I don't believe in marriage, I think it ruins the relationship. I think you be committed with out some ring on your finger.

But thank you to both gentleman for answering honestly and candidly :)

Anytime.

By the way..if you are talking about a living arrangement (instead of a marriage)..then my first answer would be very different depending upon the individual I am seeing at the time.

[Mjchitown]

OOh I like your post MJCHI

And Fred I don't believe in marriage, I think it ruins the relationship. I think you be committed with out some ring on your finger.

But thank you to both gentleman for answering honestly and candidly :)

Anytime Kelly :) Why does your family need to know she is a transsexual? When you take your girlfriend home do you tell your mom she has a pussy?

My family does not need to know she is TS, but not all girls are as passable as others. So if the topic came up, I would want to be comfortable enough with the person I'm with to be honest about things that can be as trivial as that to my family (they are a bit on the closed mind side).

[cadcad]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

1. Her to be passable and for us both to be in love for several years.

2. Men lie women lie it's something that some people do to get what they want

3. I view myself as Bi, I like pampering a girl and making her feel special but I also like it when someone does that to me guy or girl.

4. Girls are way more attractive to me but I like to be on the receiving end at times too and strap ons just aren't the same.

5. When I first got a computer and discovered porn at 12 or so I was already looking at transgirls. Although at the time I didn't understand it too well and thought some were born girls that had surgery to get a penis heh.

6. Ashamed? why would I be? Although I do feel awkward when a girl is phobic about her penis and doesn't want to use it or even have it seen in the bedroom.

[MrsKellyPierce]

OOh I like your post MJCHI

And Fred I don't believe in marriage, I think it ruins the relationship. I think you be committed with out some ring on your finger.

But thank you to both gentleman for answering honestly and candidly :)

Anytime.

By the way..if you are talking about a living arrangement (instead of a marriage)..then my first answer would be very different depending upon the individual I am seeing at the time. I don't even think you have to live together babe. I think a commitment, means you are committed to that one person. Like me I stopped doing hardcore for my bf. I committed to him entirely. But we didn't live together etc.

[Distance]

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

* Not much, really. Just no prostitution stuff. That's just not something liveable for me. I'd have to accept the woman I love can get hurt physically every day, get potentially lethal diseases, sell her body to an endless cohort of men. No thank you.

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

* It's not a fantasy, really - unless making love to a beautiful woman is a fantasy. In fact, what attracts most men to transexuals I think -penis- is just NOT a fantasy of mine. I am attracted to sharp intelligence, feminity and beauty.

How do you view yourself?

* Pretty chilled and thoughful. Strong willed and clever. And er, handsome :lol:

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

* As above. Beauty of the heart and soul, intelligence are world values, not gender specific. If it comes in the shape of a beautiful woman, I will be running pretty fast. I see ts as women, and these 'gg's' terminolgies, and sometimes, the deeply rooted jealousy some women display here feels quite disgusting, really.

When did you start liking transsexuals.

* In my 20's, cannot really recall (in my early30's now).

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

* No. But I'd be ashamed to have sex with a stupid and ugly, whoever that would be. :lol:

[MrsKellyPierce]

OOh I like your post MJCHI

And Fred I don't believe in marriage, I think it ruins the relationship. I think you be committed with out some ring on your finger.

But thank you to both gentleman for answering honestly and candidly :)

Anytime Kelly :) Why does your family need to know she is a transsexual? When you take your girlfriend home do you tell your mom she has a pussy?

My family does not need to know she is TS, but not all girls are as passable as others. So if the topic came up, I would want to be comfortable enough with the person I'm with to be honest about things that can be as trivial as that to my family (they are a bit on the closed mind side). I got ya :P :)

[MrsKellyPierce]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

1. Her to be passable and for us both to be in love for several years.

2. Men lie women lie it's something that some people do to get what they want

3. I view myself as Bi, I like pampering a girl and making her feel special but I also like it when someone does that to me guy or girl.

4. Girls are way more attractive to me but I like to be on the receiving end at times too and strap ons just aren't the same.

5. When I first got a computer and discovered porn at 12 or so I was already looking at transgirls. Although at the time I didn't understand it too well and thought some were born girls that had surgery to get a penis heh.

6. Ashamed? why would I be? Although I do feel awkward when a girl is phobic about her penis and doesn't want to use it or even have it seen in the bedroom. I like these answers, and I don't mind a bisexual guy at all. I think what matters...is if the man in question acts like a man and stands beside you. And you both communicate and enjoy each other's times.

[MrsKellyPierce]

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

* Not much, really. Just no prostitution stuff. That's just not something liveable for me. I'd have to accept the woman I love can get hurt physically every day, get potentially lethal diseases, sell her body to an endless cohort of men. No thank you.

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

* It's not a fantasy, really - unless making love to a beautiful woman is a fantasy. In fact, what attracts most men to transexuals I think -penis- is just NOT a fantasy of mine. I am attracted to sharp intelligence, feminity and beauty.

How do you view yourself?

* Pretty chilled and thoughful. Strong willed and clever. And er, handsome :lol:

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

* As above. Beauty of the heart and soul, intelligence are world values, not gender specific. If it comes in the shape of a beautiful woman, I will be running pretty fast. I see ts as women, and these 'gg's' terminolgies, and sometimes, the deeply rooted jealousy some women display here feels quite disgusting, really.

When did you start liking transsexuals.

* In my 20's, cannot really recall (in my early30's now).

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

* No. But I'd be ashamed to have sex with a stupid and ugly, whoever that would be. :lol: I usually enjoy your post :) and how did you make your avatar so big? I hate that mine is so small lol

[callahac]

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? = I would if I had met the right one before I met my wife. I'm in love with the person, not the gender

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay? It is more than a fantasy it is part of my sexuality, but as I said I am married so settling down with a TS is not in the picture.

How do you view yourself? I view myslef as a guy that is attracted to many different things, so I would say I am bisexual

Why do you think you like transsexuals? As I mentioned a lot of things attract me. I find women beautiful, but I also enjoy gay sex, and love to bottom and suck. To me it feels better than straight sex. So a TS completes the package for me- beauty and a penis.

When did you start liking transsexuals. I discovered I liked guys when I was a teenager. But masculinity never was a turn on, just the sex. Then when I was in college saw a porn advertisement with a TS and was hooked.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why? Not at all. My sexuality is part of who I am.

[MrsKellyPierce]

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? = I would if I had met the right one before I met my wife. I'm in love with the person, not the gender

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay? It is more than a fantasy it is part of my sexuality, but as I said I am married so settling down with a TS is not in the picture.

How do you view yourself? I view myslef as a guy that is attracted to many different things, so I would say I am bisexual

Why do you think you like transsexuals? As I mentioned a lot of things attract me. I find women beautiful, but I also enjoy gay sex, and love to bottom and suck. To me it feels better than straight sex. So a TS completes the package for me- beauty and a penis.

When did you start liking transsexuals. I discovered I liked guys when I was a teenager. But masculinity never was a turn on, just the sex. Then when I was in college saw a porn advertisement with a TS and was hooked.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why? Not at all. My sexuality is part of who I am. thats awesome you found a wife that will support you. Unconditional love! I love that.

[Distance]

I usually enjoy your post :) and how did you make your avatar so big? I hate that mine is so small lol

Cheers. Another universal question: 'how come yours is so big and mine so small?' :lol:

Can't tell you online. Face to face I may reveal the technique. :wink:

[callahac]

quote] thats awesome you found a wife that will support you. Unconditional love! I love that.[/quote]

That's right Kelly. She has known about my sexual needs for well over 15 yrs and we are now in a very good place. At first it was a bombshell, and for a few years it was very dicey, but we worked through it. Now she like I just view it as part of who I am.

[fred41]

OOh I like your post MJCHI

And Fred I don't believe in marriage, I think it ruins the relationship. I think you be committed with out some ring on your finger.

But thank you to both gentleman for answering honestly and candidly :)

Anytime.

By the way..if you are talking about a living arrangement (instead of a marriage)..then my first answer would be very different depending upon the individual I am seeing at the time. I don't even think you have to live together babe. I think a commitment, means you are committed to that one person. Like me I stopped doing hardcore for my bf. I committed to him entirely. But we didn't live together etc.

I understand. Right now I am in a committed relationship with my (ts) GF. I thought by using the term "settling down" you meant more than that. Sorry.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Thats awesome Callahac I am sure a lot of men would want to be in your place that are scared to face society. They get to lead what society wants, but get to dabble in the things that they are also attracted to honestly and openly!


Fred, I don't base love on society and/or biblical views. Every love is different, and it can't be explained to the next person. Love is love. It comes in all forms. As long as you are happy that is all that should matter. We all compromise and we all love once or twice.

[jld1]

1. A compatible personality.

2. n/a

3. I see myself as straight as I am not attracted to masculine individuals or the male form as a whole.

4. Honestly, I don't know. It could just be that I like things to be a little different every once in a while.

5. At a pretty young age, actually. 13 or 14 maybe. I stumbled on t-girl porn and thought it was pretty hot.

6. No. Nor am I ashamed when I have sex with a g-girl. There's very little difference to me.

[bte]

1. What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? In all honesty, chemistry. It has nothing to do with the fact that the woman is transsexual or not, it all depends on if I am attractive to the woman. We can't help what we like sexually.

2. And if not settling, why can't you be honest that its just a fantasy and nothing more? I don't think my attraction to transsexuals is a fantasy. I have been in relationships with transsexual women and I never viewed them as a fantasy or some type of novelty act.

3. How do I view yourself? I view myself as being bisexual. Transsexual women in my eyes are women, but I have had relationships with guys in the past.

4. Why do you think you like transsexuals? Good question, but why do I like women and men? I don't know, perhaps its my brain that tells me so. I think all women are beautiful whether genetic or trans. I honestly don't know why I like transsexuals.

5. When did you start liking transsexuals? It was about age 12 or 13. I didn't like them in a sexual way till I was 18. Before that it was more about admiring their beauty and how drastic of a change that could be had from them looking like a guy in the beginning to them looking like a woman. I always thought that what true beauty really is.

6. Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why? The only time I was ashamed after having sex, was having drunk sex, but that was with a genetic girl. So the answer is no. Why be ashamed of it? If a person is ashamed of having sex, then that person has issues beyond belief.

[blonde_sweetheart]

Ohhh love , BLAHHHHHHHH.

[scroller]

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more?

I've known since a very early age, like 12 or so, that I would never "settle down" or get married. Not a fantasy.

[phandabehr]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? = No, It is a sexual preference, dont get offended. Im not looking to settle down at all!

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay? No Lies here, it is all about sexual desires and fantasy.

How do you view yourself?
I am a bit hyper-sexual. But who here isn't. I am completely strait. I am not attracted to the male look at all. I am into complete femininity. There is something about a girl with extra suprises that I can't resist.

Why do you think you like transsexuals? It is purely sexual.

When did you start liking transsexuals.
In the early 90's in high school, I am still turned on mostly by GG's.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?
I have never had sex with a transexual. I have never met a girl that has not been an escort. I dream about it everyday but I have never been brave enough to go to an escort. I have always desired to experience my fantasy with a beautiful transexual woman.

[rocklob]

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman?

I never will. I am married to a gg

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

It isn't a fantasy that I want to and do have sex with tgs. I am honest about this desire but I am obviously cheationg on my wife when I do it. My only rationalization is that she hasn't got the equipment to satisfy this desire. If this makes me less than the most honorable guy out there, I'll live with that.

How do you view yourself?

I am bisexual only with tgs. Men who stay men do not interest me. I also have no desire to cheat with other ggs.

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

I'm not sure. Perhaps, having been raised almost exclusively by and around females I respond to the feminine. I always liked the way slender, femmy boys were but was afraid to be associated with them as a kid. I didn't want to share in their persecution (though I'm proud to say I always stood up for them against the bullies).
When I was 18 I met a tranny for the first time. She was working the street on the Bowery. We became friends and tried to have sex, but the fact that she hated her genitals kinda ruined it for me, as I wanted her cock as much as her feminine qualities.

When did you start liking transsexuals.
See above.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

Never ashamed, always a little guilty about not being faithful to my wife.

[Ecstatic]

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman?
For my wife to have been born a transgendered male rather than a genetic female? Really the only barrier for me is that I am already married. If the person I fell in love with and I were compatible on many levels, then her status as gg, pre-op or post op wouldn't matter to me.

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

Yes, it started as a fantasy, more years ago than I can remember. When I first fulfilled the fantasy, it was the most incredible rush ever. But that was a long time ago, and there's so much more going on.

How do you view yourself?

Easy answer, to quote Gia Darling: "labels are for luggage." On the GLBT spectrum, I'm bi, but attracted to women (gg and tg) and not to men.

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When I was in my 20s I discovered that sex with a guy can be incredibly satisfying (I already knew that sex was a woman was). But I have never been attracted to men: looking a a guy does nothing for me, but a beautiful woman always draws my eye. So for me, a pre-op transsexual offers the best of both worlds: the beauty and presence of a woman with the equipment of a man. As to why I'm also attracted to a post op woman? Simple: she's a woman, and I've always been attracted to women.

When did you start liking transsexuals.

When I was in college, about six presidencies ago.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

Absolutely not.

[MrsKellyPierce]

I like your answers ^^^^

[cookiepuss]

Kelly, when it all comes down to it... all that matters is who you hold in your arms when you fall asleep and have the feeling! For me, TG, or GG!

[MrsKellyPierce]

Kelly, when it all comes down to it... all that matters is who you hold in your arms when you fall asleep and have the feeling! For me, TG, or GG! very good answer I wish more people thought that way :) I would and have given up a lot for love...

[eclipsemint]

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman?
- Physically she is attractive. Nice eyes. Nice smile.
Personality and character, we enjoy each other's company and have fun together. Have the same interests. Love and respect each other.
It wouldn't take much to settle down with a transsexual woman. Whether she was in stealth or openly transgender, wouldn't bother me either way.
Unfortunately, the only personal experiences I have had with ts women is prostitutes, which clouds my judgement that they would require a rich boyfriend to take care of them, pay for any upcoming surgery or medical treatments, clothes, etc.


And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?
- Men generally have a phobia to commitment. It doesn't just apply to ts women. Men are afraid of the "forsaking all others" part of committing to one girl. Wouldn't bother me, though, personally.

How do you view yourself?
- 100% straight. Not attracted to men at all. I like ts women because they are feminine. Whether they have a cock or post-op pussy would not factor into it.

Why do you think you like transsexuals?
- I like transsexuals who are feminine and beautiful.
I like that sometimes they are actively into fucking, as well as passively receiving as all other women are. But this is not essential to the fantasy. I like the mystery and magic involved in revealing that this beautiful woman has a male sex organ. I look at porn containing someone like Shantal aka Bruna Cabral, and when my visual focus moves from her sex organ to the rest of her body, my mind does backflips and that is kind of fascinating and a turn on.

When did you start liking transsexuals.
About 15 years ago. I noticed transsexual magazines in an Adult Book Store. I had my first sexual experience with a transsexual prostitute at a brothel not long after that.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?
- No. If there is any regret, it is only that I have paid for sex, and that the encounter was purely physical. I find sex without emotional contact not as satisfying.

[cadcad]

To the guys who said they are 100% straight yet like Transgirls I can only sigh at.

If you can't even admit over the internet that you may be even slightly Bi because you like Transgirls then I just hope that you eventually realize no one cares what your sexuality is anymore. Maybe if you're older it does still because those people grew up in a different age.

The last anonymous poll done at my college was 20%straight/67%Bi or at one time Bi curious/13%gay.

[eclipsemint]

To the guys who said they are 100% straight yet like Transgirls I can only sigh at.

If you can't even admit over the internet that you may be even slightly Bi because you like Transgirls then I just hope that you eventually realize no one cares what your sexuality is anymore. Maybe if you're older it does still because those people grew up in a different age.

The last anonymous poll done at my college was 20%straight/67%Bi or at one time Bi curious/13%gay.

Cadcad,

It is your mind that you need to expand.

Let me ask your question in reverse...Why is it so important to you that people who like transsexual women identify themselves as Bi? What does it matter?

In my point of view, to be Bi, I would have to be attracted to men as well as women, and I'm just not. For you to paint me as Bi, means that you are assuming all trans women are really men. Is that what you are trying to say?

[cadcad]

To the guys who said they are 100% straight yet like Transgirls I can only sigh at.

If you can't even admit over the internet that you may be even slightly Bi because you like Transgirls then I just hope that you eventually realize no one cares what your sexuality is anymore. Maybe if you're older it does still because those people grew up in a different age.

The last anonymous poll done at my college was 20%straight/67%Bi or at one time Bi curious/13%gay.

Cadcad,

It is your mind that you need to expand.

Let me ask your question in reverse...Why is it so important to you that people who like transsexual women identify themselves as Bi? What does it matter?

In my point of view, to be Bi, I would have to be attracted to men as well as women, and I'm just not. For you to paint me as Bi, means that you are assuming all trans women are really men. Is that what you are trying to say?

I specificly added in the 100% and even a little statements on purpose.

If you think being ok with a penis on a girl makes you 100% straight and not Bi at all then you're only fooling yourself.

[eclipsemint]

To the guys who said they are 100% straight yet like Transgirls I can only sigh at.

If you can't even admit over the internet that you may be even slightly Bi because you like Transgirls then I just hope that you eventually realize no one cares what your sexuality is anymore. Maybe if you're older it does still because those people grew up in a different age.

The last anonymous poll done at my college was 20%straight/67%Bi or at one time Bi curious/13%gay.

Cadcad,

It is your mind that you need to expand.

Let me ask your question in reverse...Why is it so important to you that people who like transsexual women identify themselves as Bi? What does it matter?

In my point of view, to be Bi, I would have to be attracted to men as well as women, and I'm just not. For you to paint me as Bi, means that you are assuming all trans women are really men. Is that what you are trying to say?

I specificly added in the 100% and even a little statements on purpose.

If you think being ok with a penis on a girl makes you 100% straight and not Bi at all then you're only fooling yourself.

I see. So its all about the penis, then.

For me it is immaterial whether she has a penis or vagina, I am attracted to her because she is a woman, albeit a trans woman.

So, if I understand you correctly, what you're saying is that until a trans woman has had SRS surgery, she cannot be regarded as a 100% girl?

[rockabilly]

Why the need for labels? :shrug:

[phobun]

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? She'd have to be educated with a real career, brains and ambition, also have a va-jay-jay. My standards have not varied for any girl I've pursued seriously.

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?The guys who say that aren't real men, just cockbandits.

How do you view yourself?With a mirror.

Why do you think you like transsexuals? When did you start liking transsexuals.?I saw a story on Tula Cossey (who was pictured in a bikini) when I was a horny teen. I started ruminating about her pussy, then saw the Playboy story in 1991 and talk shows with her and others. I thought those women were pretty sexy. Since then, having met real individuals and gotten to know them, I have found other non-physical reasons to appreciate women who have a transsexual history.
Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?So long as the girl wants it and has fun no one need feel any shame.

[eclipsemint]

Why the need for labels? :shrug:

Because labels imply meaning, and convey meaning from sender to receiver. This promotes understanding of each other's point of view. It is not just the label which is offensive, but the point of view behind it. Shemale = bad. Trans girl = acceptable. etc.

That is why we all have "names", which we chose for ourselves. Rockabilly. Eclipsemint. Cadcad.

[rockabilly]

Gender is more than what's between a persons legs , that's all i'm saying .

[eclipsemint]

Cadcad,

Question persists...

So when you look at this photo, you see a man and consider yourself Bi? Because she has a penis.

When I look at this picture, I see a woman, and identify myself as heterosexual.

WHY is it so important to you that I look at this person and consider them to be a male? And therefore identify myself as Bi? What is it that you think I am fooling myself about? That she has a penis? I KNOW she has a penis, it doesn't matter. That therefore I like men's penises? I don't. I don't like men. I am interested in knowing why it is so important to you. If you please, sir.

[cadcad]

To the guys who said they are 100% straight yet like Transgirls I can only sigh at.

If you can't even admit over the internet that you may be even slightly Bi because you like Transgirls then I just hope that you eventually realize no one cares what your sexuality is anymore. Maybe if you're older it does still because those people grew up in a different age.

The last anonymous poll done at my college was 20%straight/67%Bi or at one time Bi curious/13%gay.

Cadcad,

It is your mind that you need to expand.

Let me ask your question in reverse...Why is it so important to you that people who like transsexual women identify themselves as Bi? What does it matter?

In my point of view, to be Bi, I would have to be attracted to men as well as women, and I'm just not. For you to paint me as Bi, means that you are assuming all trans women are really men. Is that what you are trying to say?

I specificly added in the 100% and even a little statements on purpose.

If you think being ok with a penis on a girl makes you 100% straight and not Bi at all then you're only fooling yourself.

I see. So its all about the penis, then.

For me it is immaterial whether she has a penis or vagina, I am attracted to her because she is a woman, albeit a trans woman.

So, if I understand you correctly, what you're saying is that until a trans woman has had SRS surgery, she cannot be regarded as a 100% girl?

You are stuck on the 100% girl thing so you can justify it to yourself. You have now 3 times tried to push that statement onto me so I will respond in someway that will make you satisfied.

[eclipsemint]

Cadcad,

Question persists...

So when you look at this photo, you see a man and consider yourself Bi? Because she has a penis.

When I look at this picture, I see a woman, and identify myself as heterosexual.

WHY is it so important to you that I look at this person and consider them to be a male? And therefore identify myself as Bi? What is it that you think I am fooling myself about? That she has a penis? I KNOW she has a penis, it doesn't matter. That therefore I like men's penises? I don't. I don't like men. I am interested in knowing why it is so important to you. If you please, sir.

ooops. dble post.

[tygren1@yahoo.com]

Kelly Shore: So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman?

a.For her to understand me and my needs and to accept that/them.
Me and her have to gel.

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

a.Its not a fantasy its part of my sexuality. is being with guys a fantasy or fetish for you?

How do you view yourself?

a.I do what I feel and I know what I want

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

a. Because theyre girls. I like transsexuals just as much as genetic females. Unlike some admirers/chasers, being ts isnt enough for me, you must actually be attractive to me in order for me to be attracted. In fact, some of the girls who are worshiped on this board, I'm not feelin at all.

When did you start liking transsexuals.

a. 15

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

a. No. I love it :)

[russtafa]

i love tgirls and im going out with one now and in very very happy .nothing better than a girl with something extra

[talldudeil]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

I would have to find a woman that I was physically and mentally attracted to and felt the same way about me.

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

Is it still a fantasy if you have been enjoying it for over 25 years?

How do you view yourself?

Straight

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

I find transsexuals to be a woman with a mans sex drive. I know that there are emotional concerns with anyone who has grown up feeling they are not the right person that they think they should be. If you can find one who is sexually OK with themselves then you have a win win situation.

When did you start liking transsexuals.

I would saw around 17 or 18

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

Heavens no, I enjoy it before during and after. I am an oral top so I have sex with a TG the same (well almost the same :D as I would with a GG.

[dderek123]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =
Many things honesty, trust, chemistry, understanding, good sex, and less drama/head games than average.

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more?
Some people deal with things differently than others. For me it was pretty difficult sussing out my feelings about transsexuals on my own in a small town (which was chock full of homophobes). It's not so cut and dry as being gay or straight so when I felt this it was difficult to figure out other things in my life as well. I even went to see a shrink a few times who tried his best to "un-gay" me which looking back now is hilarious to think of.

Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?
I think some men who feel that they are very attracted to TS let their penis do the thinking for a little while but afterwards they may get frightened of actually pursuing a relationship with a TS. For me I am certain that this is not just a fantasy. Maybe it's more like an obsession =D But sincerely I have continually challenged myself on who I am as a person and what I want to do with my life and here I am now typing this message on a TS porno board. That's the short answer to that question...

How do you view yourself?
I think I am an all around pretty good guy.... sure why not?

Well I see myself as Bi but not attracted to men or anything that is quite masculine. I am certain of this because I tried having gay sex and I nearly threw up in my own mouth. I am more attracted to TS for the reasons I will state in my answer below. But most if not all of the times I have been with a GG in bed I kept thinking to myself I would rather be with a TS and that I should just be honest myself rather than messing around with GGs.

And while figuring all of this out I have made peace with the fact that I am different than other people and that my preferences in life are out of the ordinary. I am mindful that my sexual behaviour would make most people at my job pretty uncomfortable if they heard about it (this has happened just recently ...). So I just go about my business and keep these things to myself unless I am out and about with people who don't mind it or who have similar interests. It's none o' yo' business! (old salt n peppa song)

Why do you think you like transsexuals?
Well, many reasons. First and foremost I am more sexually attracted to TS than GG. A beautiful woman with a nice penis is just fantastic. A GG with a strap-on is just not the same at all. I love how most TS are a little bit more aggressive not just sexually I mean socially as well. I get a long well with TS usually unless they have some sort of attitude problem. Oh yes and mind blowing sex is something I very much enjoy.

When did you start liking transsexuals.
Was surfing the web for porn when I was 17 and stumbled upon a picture gallery of a TS doing a reverse cowgirl and I've been fascinated ever since.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?
Depends if she was attractive or not. If I slayed a dragon the night before I usually hang my head in shame. But if I wake up next to a beautiful girl-next-door type of TS I am happy as fuck!

[dderek123]

For me it is immaterial whether she has a penis or vagina, I am attracted to her because she is a woman, albeit a trans woman.

shenanigans

[cookiepuss]

To the guys who said they are 100% straight yet like Transgirls I can only sigh at.

If you can't even admit over the internet that you may be even slightly Bi because you like Transgirls then I just hope that you eventually realize no one cares what your sexuality is anymore. Maybe if you're older it does still because those people grew up in a different age.

The last anonymous poll done at my college was 20%straight/67%Bi or at one time Bi curious/13%gay.

When I see comment like this, I also sigh......Sorry bro, I don't view these girls as male. When I see Kelly, the last thing I think of is a dude. I see her as a very attractive lady. Sorry you can't understand that. So please don't put me in some "Bi" category. Being with a dude is not for me at all!

[rockabilly]

+1 to cookiepuss , achievement unlocked.

[cadcad]

To the guys who said they are 100% straight yet like Transgirls I can only sigh at.

If you can't even admit over the internet that you may be even slightly Bi because you like Transgirls then I just hope that you eventually realize no one cares what your sexuality is anymore. Maybe if you're older it does still because those people grew up in a different age.

The last anonymous poll done at my college was 20%straight/67%Bi or at one time Bi curious/13%gay.

When I see comment like this, I also sigh......Sorry bro, I don't view these girls as male. When I see Kelly, the last thing I think of is a dude. I see her as a very attractive lady. Sorry you can't understand that. So please don't put me in some "Bi" category. Being with a dude is not for me at all!

Why do people keep assuming I said being even SLIGHTLY Bi means they have to like guys? Oh that's right it's how they keep justifying they are 100% straight because they only like a penis when it's on a girl.

[cookiepuss]

To the guys who said they are 100% straight yet like Transgirls I can only sigh at.

If you can't even admit over the internet that you may be even slightly Bi because you like Transgirls then I just hope that you eventually realize no one cares what your sexuality is anymore. Maybe if you're older it does still because those people grew up in a different age.

The last anonymous poll done at my college was 20%straight/67%Bi or at one time Bi curious/13%gay.

When I see comment like this, I also sigh......Sorry bro, I don't view these girls as male. When I see Kelly, the last thing I think of is a dude. I see her as a very attractive lady. Sorry you can't understand that. So please don't put me in some "Bi" category. Being with a dude is not for me at all!

Why do people keep assuming I said being even SLIGHTLY Bi means they have to like guys? Oh that's right it's how they keep justifying they are 100% straight because they only like a penis when it's on a girl.

Well, it appears you like to put people in categories and percentages. So where do you "put" people who admire post-op TG's? Would you label them as TRI???
Like I said, I see TG's not as men! (Am I wrong ladies?) Not wanting to argue with you, but please don't put a label on me! Thanks!

[phobun]

So where do you "put" people who admire post-op TG's? Would you label them as TRI???
Oh, they like pussy, so they're real pervs. The worst of all.

[fred41]

To the guys who said they are 100% straight yet like Transgirls I can only sigh at.

If you can't even admit over the internet that you may be even slightly Bi because you like Transgirls then I just hope that you eventually realize no one cares what your sexuality is anymore. Maybe if you're older it does still because those people grew up in a different age.

The last anonymous poll done at my college was 20%straight/67%Bi or at one time Bi curious/13%gay.

When I see comment like this, I also sigh......Sorry bro, I don't view these girls as male. When I see Kelly, the last thing I think of is a dude. I see her as a very attractive lady. Sorry you can't understand that. So please don't put me in some "Bi" category. Being with a dude is not for me at all!

Why do people keep assuming I said being even SLIGHTLY Bi means they have to like guys? Oh that's right it's how they keep justifying they are 100% straight because they only like a penis when it's on a girl.

...because there is no such thing as "slightly" bi...you're either bisexual or you are not.

[phobun]

...because there is no such thing as "slightly" bi...you're either bisexual or you are not.
He may be a hemidemisemiqueer.

[cadcad]

...because there is no such thing as "slightly" bi...you're either bisexual or you are not.

Says who? you? or the other people that want to be able to keep claiming I'm 100%straight!

I'm assuming you don't really know much about the LGBT community or talk to many people face to face straight forward about it. I'll let you all in on your nickname a lot of us like to call all the 100%straight guys. You are referred to as Gaybe's when you're not around.

[rockabilly]

Gaybe's ? I thought that was a toy store in malls. Why bother w/ labels cad? Does it really matter how people perceive themselves?

[cadcad]

Gaybe's ? I thought that was a toy store in malls. Why bother w/ labels cad? Does it really matter how people perceive themselves?

No it doesn't at all. I simply made a statement and people took it their own way. Some got offended and some tried several times to white knight the girls which was especially funny to see.

I'm sorry Kelly for hijacking your thread it wasn't what I intended.

[rockabilly]

To each his own , love who you want. :shrug:

[DL_NL]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =
I'd need to find someone who'd push all my buttons, just the same as a GG.


And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?
N/A


How do you view yourself?
As a (straight?) male who's confident in his sexuality. I'm not interested in men.


Why do you think you like transsexuals?
I like women who understand men, rather than women who think they understand men. We are not as simplistic as we're made out to be. I admire people who go through all this trouble and heartache to be who they want to be, rather than live a miserable life. That's a quality that says something about a person. The rest of my motives is still not clear even to me, and might be based on my experiences so far, which are projected on others.


When did you start liking transsexuals.
When I met a T-girl and got to know her. I knew about T-girls before then and was interested, but not as much as I am now.


Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?
No, very aroused if anything.

[ed_jaxon]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman?

HER TO BE RICH AS HELL.

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

BECAUSE ITS NOT JUST A FANTASY FOR SOME. SOME LIKE HANGING OUT AND FEELING A PART OF THE SCENE.

How do you view yourself?

NOT BI. BI DUDES LIKE BOTH AND I DON'T LIKE DUDES. I AM ATTRACTED TO ALL KINDS OF BEAUTIFUL WOMEN. AND I GRAVITATE TO THE FREAKIER SIDE OF LIFE.

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

SOME ARE EXTRAORDINARILY BEAUTIFUL AND FUN TO HANG OUT WITH. I JUST DON'T CARE THAT THEY HAVE A DICK.

When did you start liking transsexuals.

AT AGE 12 WHEN ONE WENT BY ON ROLLER SKATES IN A BLUE BIKINI BY THE LAKE IN CHICAGO.

LONG HAIR AND LONG PRETTY LEGS. DID NOT CARE SHE WAS TS. SHE WAS FINE AND SEXY AS HELL.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

ONLY THE UGLY ONES. J/K.... THERE ARE NO UGLY ONES.

[fred41]

...because there is no such thing as "slightly" bi...you're either bisexual or you are not.

Says who? you? or the other people that want to be able to keep claiming I'm 100%straight!

I'm assuming you don't really know much about the LGBT community or talk to many people face to face straight forward about it. I'll let you all in on your nickname a lot of us like to call all the 100%straight guys. You are referred to as Gaybe's when you're not around.

I'll let you in on the nickname people like me have for you too. Come a little closer...that's good...-"You're an idiot!".

..now if you would just read instead of preparing your defensive answer in advance..you'd realize something - by definition..you cannot be a touch bisexual. Bisexual means that you are attracted to both sexes. It doesn't mean that you have to like all men and all women, you can still have a physical preference. Just like all homosexuals don't necessarily like all male types - some like bears ..some like manly men..some like twinks, etc...just like hetero..nevermind, I think you get the picture. So you see ,you can't just be a little bit bisexual the word doesn't have a percentage gauge.Preferences are already assumed.

What you want to say is that you're a "bit homosexual", which by definition would still be inaccurate...but if you were to give a humorous slang definition to the word bisexual...then a touch "homosexual" would fit the bill.

Having said all that, I could give a flying fuck what you label yourself or anyone else labels themselves on here. It simply doesn't matter. It's all one persons opinion against another anyway.That's all. Just an opinion. so get over it. If you're happy labeling yourself a bisexual..than fine but don't try to shove it down someone else's throat.I sleep just fine whether you're comfortable with your sexuality or not. I'm fine with myself.

Oh..and never assume that you represent the LGBT community....there are plenty of Gay people who don't believe bisexuality really exists.....really.

[MrsKellyPierce]

lol ooh I like that so many gentleman are taking a part!

I think you only decide how you view yourself..noone else can label you!

[Jericho]

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman?

Hard drugs and a lobotomy. :shrug

[archineer]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

1: Finding someone I was really into and vice versa.

2: I'm happy to settle down with a ts, infact I can't see myself with a genetic girl. I've broken off 2 relationships with ts' simply because there was no spark between us, no other reason. No lies.

3: I take it you mean am I straight? I am bi/poly/pansexual. I prefer non op ts' over other genders, no reason why its just the way my brains wired. I suppose its got something to do with the mixing of genders....

4: 11. Its been there for as long as I can remember and wasn't due to exposure to porn or anything.

5: God no, i'm out and proud of my missus. Sex is fantastic lol

[southern81]

my answers

1-what it would take new town
2-i would be happy to just Date a TS b/c thats just what us guys think girls what to hear
3-me i see myself as a gemini free going
4-don't knowwhy do anyone like any one
5-about 13 years old
6- never been w/ one live in a shity part of the country

[blckhaze]

1) Sanity. or as crazy as me.
2) View myself as me. Straight identified man. I like women, ts or gg (depending on whos not nuts that week)
3) Beat me, but i think a girl with a wang is as hot as a girl with a vag.
4) @ 17
5) no. Why should i be? Its fun, and its my sex life. noone in my life is forced to screw my gfs, and some of my guy friends would prolly sell all their earthly possessions to find girls as hot.

[cookiepuss]

lol ooh I like that so many gentleman are taking a part!

I think you only decide how you view yourself..noone else can label you!

Thanks! :wink:

I give you a compliment and "cadcad" call's it "white-knighting".

[cadcad]

I give you a compliment and "cadcad" call's it "white-knighting".

no that was eclipsemint I was referring to.

[scubaman]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.


What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =
Not much. No escorting and chemistry between us.


And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more?
It's about sex. Some people you just want to have sex with while others you want more.


Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?
I don't know since I don't.


How do you view yourself?
In a mirror. Seriously as a straight man that like women (both TS and GG)


Why do you think you like transsexuals?
Who can say why you like anyone. . If I'm attracted to them I like to get to know them better and whether they are a TS or a GG is irrelevant.


When did you start liking transsexuals.
When I was around 15. I met a post-op at a party I was at and was intrigued from there.


Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?
No. Should I be?

[Coroner]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

That´s not gonna happen here. There´re not many transsexuals here and if, then escorts from somewhere else. I´m not necessarily looking for TS women but if I happen to meet a nice and smart one, why not. However, I noticed that my interest in TS women dropped during the last year. I don´t know exactly why but my attraction to GGs has always been bigger, so this might be one of the causes.


And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

People fuck and go. Some actions speak for themselves, so words ain´t necessary. I´m pretty sure that TS women are a fetish in many cases but I won´t speak for others. For me, it´s some curiosity but I´m not chasing trannies.


How do you view yourself?

As a sexual individual like anybody else. I like GGs and passable TS women. I´m not attracted to men but I can´t say I´m straight either. Just the fact that I´m attracted to a woman with a penis makes labeling completely senseless.


Why do you think you like transsexuals?

I don´t know, it´s just this different kind of girls...... it still remains a mystery to me, even after so many years.


When did you start liking transsexuals.

When I was 12.


Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

Never had this experience, so I´m sorry, can´t answer this.....

[Transhunter]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

I honestly don't know

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

I never have

How do you view yourself?

i feel i don't need to view myself

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

exciting and erotic

When did you start liking transsexuals.

after seeing the ladyboys of bangkok in 2004

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

No , I just want to do it again but I don't have enough money

[MrF]

1. To settle down with a TS ? There are barriers (social, family response) but if the girl was very special then I'd do the work to overcome them.
2. Honest ? Sure, I've always been honest about my intentions towards TS. It's important not to build false expectations or exploit vulnerabilities.
3. I view myself as "straight with a twist", but I acknowledge that others would call me gay for liking TS. Doesn't really matter.
4. It's pretty complex why I like TS, but one reason is the strong sex drive I've tended to find in them, and another reason is that they have strong convictions to commit to their transformation, which I admire.
5. Not ashamed.

Good questions !

[alexvela80]

How do you view yourself?
I view my self as a person whom likes the good stuff. money, cars, women, good sex, good food, nice restaurants, etc......

Why do you think you like transsexuals?
i don't like them all, only some....I do like women, NOT men!!, I like hot transsexuals, but YES, into some point NOW DAYS it is only a fantasy for most men...why???...society is not ready yet, I'll still take some years untill it becomes normal to see a transsexual walking around a shopping mall like any other person....

When did you start liking transsexuals.
I didn't like transsexuals untill I had my first experience, I when out like any other normal night, after leaving a club I saw this beutiful women weaving at me, so I stop, I knew she was a prostitute but I couldn't resist, so we went to my appartment, while we where kissing and touching each other she started asking me gay questions, and then she said I'm a transsexual, I didn't knew what to say........I was speachless it was a huge surprise for me, she looked very hot!!!, I couldn't belive it, I've always been open to new experiences so I said to my self why not, we had sex and everything, I was 19 years old back then, after that day I been attracted to them but not to all of them...

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?
No, never....

[eclipsemint]

I give you a compliment and "cadcad" call's it "white-knighting".

no that was eclipsemint I was referring to.

Bisexual = gay + straight, attracted to both men and women.

If you are not attracted to men, then how can you be Bi?

Everyone knows that gay men are not attracted to transsexual women because they are too feminine. They dress and act like women and are percieved by men as women. Sure they can be active in the bedroom, but so can a straight woman with a straight man, using toys etc.

All of this is debatable, depending on your starting point.

I never did get a satisfactory answer to my question, though.

WHY is it so important to you that if I am attracted to transgender women that I therefore identify myself as Bisexual? What does it cost you if straight men are attracted to transsexual women?

[JINNOGO]

I feel ashamed for having sex with a t-girl.
I feel like I disappoint my love ones who had pass away. I feel like they watch me do every move.

[dj4monie]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

1) An Abandoning of the desire to have children because adoption is not a first choice option

2) No reason to lie I just told the truth, if it hurts....

3) View myself? In what way? I assume you mean sexually - STRAIGHT

4) I like the naughty, forbidden nature of transexuals. I love post op girls like any other GG, the advantage of pre-ops is anal sex is the ONLY option. So instead of begging and pleading a GG to have anal sex, I opt for TS

5) After seeing pictures on IRC photo serve

6) Ashamed? No, a close friend knows nobody else needs too

[cookiepuss]

I give you a compliment and "cadcad" call's it "white-knighting".

no that was eclipsemint I was referring to.

My apologies then! :wink: Good discussion thou....!

Cheers!

[eclipsemint]

...because there is no such thing as "slightly" bi...you're either bisexual or you are not.

Says who? you? or the other people that want to be able to keep claiming I'm 100%straight!

I'm assuming you don't really know much about the LGBT community or talk to many people face to face straight forward about it. I'll let you all in on your nickname a lot of us like to call all the 100%straight guys. You are referred to as Gaybe's when you're not around.


Yes, WE, who claim to be 100% straight because we like women are the foolish ones, and YOU, who claim to be Bi because you regard transsexual women as male are all sooo wise...why?

Because you have really clever names that you can call straight people when they're not around? What??

Is this the best argument you can come up with? How lame!

[eclipsemint]

I give you a compliment and "cadcad" call's it "white-knighting".

no that was eclipsemint I was referring to.

Bisexual = gay + straight, attracted to both men and women.

If you are not attracted to men, then how can you be Bi?

Everyone knows that gay men are not attracted to transsexual women because they are too feminine. They dress and act like women and are percieved by men as women. Sure they can be active in the bedroom, but so can a straight woman with a straight man, using toys etc.

All of this is debatable, depending on your starting point.

I never did get a satisfactory answer to my question, though.

WHY is it so important to you that if I am attracted to transgender women that I therefore identify myself as Bisexual? What does it cost you if straight men are attracted to transsexual women?

Still waiting for a satisfactory answer to this question, too.

[cadcad]

eclipsemint I chose to stop derailing Kelly's thread awhile ago and going in circles with you. I forgot what type of forum I was posting on for awhile.

[AngelinaTorres]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

You so right !

It's just a fantasy nothin more !

[archineer]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

You so right !

It's just a fantasy nothin more !

Sooooooooooooo wrong!!!! I've gone off genetic girls and guys.

[archineer]

I give you a compliment and "cadcad" call's it "white-knighting".

no that was eclipsemint I was referring to.

Bisexual = gay + straight, attracted to both men and women.

If you are not attracted to men, then how can you be Bi?

Everyone knows that gay men are not attracted to transsexual women because they are too feminine. They dress and act like women and are percieved by men as women. Sure they can be active in the bedroom, but so can a straight woman with a straight man, using toys etc.

All of this is debatable, depending on your starting point.

I never did get a satisfactory answer to my question, though.

WHY is it so important to you that if I am attracted to transgender women that I therefore identify myself as Bisexual? What does it cost you if straight men are attracted to transsexual women?

You are polysexual/ heteroqueer. lol

[eclipsemint]

eclipsemint I chose to stop derailing Kelly's thread awhile ago and going in circles with you. I forgot what type of forum I was posting on for awhile.

Yeah, I figured as much. When you have no argument, what else can you do but retreat from the arena.

Next time, think twice before you gaybash the straight people on this forum.

[AngelinaTorres]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

You so right !

It's just a fantasy nothin more !

Sooooooooooooo wrong!!!! I've gone off genetic girls and guys.

in that case all the men DISAPPOINTED me

[eclipsemint]

I give you a compliment and "cadcad" call's it "white-knighting".

no that was eclipsemint I was referring to.

Bisexual = gay + straight, attracted to both men and women.

If you are not attracted to men, then how can you be Bi?

Everyone knows that gay men are not attracted to transsexual women because they are too feminine. They dress and act like women and are percieved by men as women. Sure they can be active in the bedroom, but so can a straight woman with a straight man, using toys etc.

All of this is debatable, depending on your starting point.

I never did get a satisfactory answer to my question, though.

WHY is it so important to you that if I am attracted to transgender women that I therefore identify myself as Bisexual? What does it cost you if straight men are attracted to transsexual women?

You are polysexual/ heteroqueer. lol

I'm a blade of grass. I'm a wristwatch. I'm a ... but I don't go around labelling other people.

But if you're asking, (and the OP of this thread WAS asking) I'm quite happy to tell you my sexual preferences...I like WOMEN!

What the fuck is your problem? Why is it so hard for you all to admit that straight men are attracted to transsexual women? Are YOU afraid it will make you NOT gay if you admit you are attacted to women? That they have a penis, is that a consolation to you...you tell yourself they are really men?

[archineer]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

You so right !

It's just a fantasy nothin more !

Sooooooooooooo wrong!!!! I've gone off genetic girls and guys.

in that case all the men DISAPPOINTED me

What do you mean hun?

[AngelinaTorres]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

You so right !

It's just a fantasy nothin more !

Sooooooooooooo wrong!!!! I've gone off genetic girls and guys.

in that case all the men DISAPPOINTED me

What do you mean hun?

Sorry, i had a bad day

[archineer]

I give you a compliment and "cadcad" call's it "white-knighting".

no that was eclipsemint I was referring to.

Bisexual = gay + straight, attracted to both men and women.

If you are not attracted to men, then how can you be Bi?

Everyone knows that gay men are not attracted to transsexual women because they are too feminine. They dress and act like women and are percieved by men as women. Sure they can be active in the bedroom, but so can a straight woman with a straight man, using toys etc.

All of this is debatable, depending on your starting point.

I never did get a satisfactory answer to my question, though.

WHY is it so important to you that if I am attracted to transgender women that I therefore identify myself as Bisexual? What does it cost you if straight men are attracted to transsexual women?

You are polysexual/ heteroqueer. lol

I'm a blade of grass. I'm a wristwatch. I'm a ... but I don't go around labelling other people.

But if you're asking, (and the OP of this thread WAS asking) I'm quite happy to tell you my sexual preferences...I like WOMEN!

What the fuck is your problem? Why is it so hard for you all to admit that straight men are attracted to transsexual women? Are YOU afraid it will make you NOT gay if you admit you are attacted to women? That they have a penis, is that a consolation to you...you tell yourself they are really men?

Label yourself straight if you want, I really don't care. Except think on this- the truly straight guys I know would NEVER go with a ts. I see ts' as transexual women, different to genetic women but women none the less. I would add far better as well ;) Anyway, despite my preference for ts' i'm pansexual I suppose, I see people rather than gender. Its more fun than being straight, lol. Besides I was joking, labels who cares?

BTW polysexual= attracted to multiple genders, and not necessarily men. If you like g girls and ts girls, well they may both be girls, but different types of girls none the less. That sounds polysexual to me. Heteroqueer- Mostly straight but liking certain aspects of gay sex. (ie- cock)

[eclipsemint]

I give you a compliment and "cadcad" call's it "white-knighting".

no that was eclipsemint I was referring to.

Bisexual = gay + straight, attracted to both men and women.

If you are not attracted to men, then how can you be Bi?

Everyone knows that gay men are not attracted to transsexual women because they are too feminine. They dress and act like women and are percieved by men as women. Sure they can be active in the bedroom, but so can a straight woman with a straight man, using toys etc.

All of this is debatable, depending on your starting point.

I never did get a satisfactory answer to my question, though.

WHY is it so important to you that if I am attracted to transgender women that I therefore identify myself as Bisexual? What does it cost you if straight men are attracted to transsexual women?

You are polysexual/ heteroqueer. lol

I'm a blade of grass. I'm a wristwatch. I'm a ... but I don't go around labelling other people.

But if you're asking, (and the OP of this thread WAS asking) I'm quite happy to tell you my sexual preferences...I like WOMEN!

What the fuck is your problem? Why is it so hard for you all to admit that straight men are attracted to transsexual women? Are YOU afraid it will make you NOT gay if you admit you are attacted to women? That they have a penis, is that a consolation to you...you tell yourself they are really men?

Label yourself straight if you want, I really don't care. Except think on this- the truly straight guys I know would NEVER go with a ts. I see ts' as transexual women, different to genetic women but women none the less. I wuld add far better as well ;) Anyway i'm pansexual I suppose, I see people rather than gender. Its more fun and way cooler than being straight lol Besides I was joking, labels who cares?

I totally accept your assessment of yourself in terms of your self-professed sexual preferences. I'm simply asking for the same courtesy.

I have no beef with bi people, gay people, pan people etc. can find a beautiful ts woman attractive and want to be with her. I'm just saying that, as a straight person, I also find a beautiful trans woman attractive.
And I have been totally clear with my reasons why.

This thread did invite people to disclose there sexual preferences. So it really gets my goat when rude people chime in saying "No you can't, you must be gay or at least bi, or pan..." or whatever. They think they are just being funny, but they are being rude and discourteous.

But, archineer, even your straight friends would admit being attracted to a beautiful ts woman until they found out she was ts, because they see her as a woman, at least initially.

[rockabilly]

How do you feel about "pod people" and " pan pizza" ? lol

[Helvis2012]

HA HA HA HA HA!

[eclipsemint]

How do you feel about "pod people" and " pan pizza" ? lol

I respect you no matter what you are, you pod-person-pan-pizza, you. I promise not to break your eggs, nor will I bring attention to the fact that, as a pan pizza, you have a thicker crust. Many of us also have thicker crusts, especially as we get older.

You can't be both, though, Rock. You have to choose, if you're coming out; so which one is it?

Are you a pod people? Or a pan pizza?

[rockabilly]

Alot of my posts are cheesy and spicy ... so i admit ... i am a big sausage pan pizza ... :cry: i ... feel so liberated now.

[eclipsemint]

Alot of my posts are cheesy and spicy ... so i admit ... i am a big sausage pan pizza ... :cry: i ... feel so liberated now.


big sausage pan pizza?


Now you're just trying to impress the ladies.

[cadcad]

ugh eclipsemint just couldn't let it go. Why is it so important to you that a good majority of people believe being a man and liking penis in anyway makes you somewhat bisexual?

The only reason you can be so adamant about it is that you see it as a bad thing. The fact that you can't just shrug off another persons view and instead pushed the argument to others show's even worse values of you.

[eclipsemint]

ugh eclipsemint just couldn't let it go. Why is it so important to you that a good majority of people believe being a man and liking penis in anyway makes you somewhat bisexual?

The only reason you can be so adamant about it is that you see it as a bad thing. The fact that you can't just shrug off another persons view and instead pushed the argument to others show's even worse values of you.



You were the one who attacked my sexuality when I generously contributed my answers about my sexual experiences to Kelly's OP. Remember way back on page 4? Let me refresh your memory...

To the guys who said they are 100% straight yet like Transgirls I can only sigh at.

If you can't even admit over the internet that you may be even slightly Bi because you like Transgirls then I just hope that you eventually realize no one cares what your sexuality is anymore. Maybe if you're older it does still because those people grew up in a different age.

The last anonymous poll done at my college was 20%straight/67%Bi or at one time Bi curious/13%gay.


And since then I have clearly explained to you why I hold my opinions about my sexuality. Not yours. Not anybody else's. Just mine.

I asked you to back up your claims, and you never have been able to. You just keep making the same attacks without any basis to your viewpoint. When you can't produce any sound argument you resort to name-calling and ridicule.

You're just blabbering now, cadcad. You lost the argument already. 2 pages ago. Just let it go and save yourself further embarrassment.

Next time, though, just think before you attack other people's sexuality, especially on a porn site forum dedicated to transsexuals. You will encounter all types of people here with the whole spectrum of sexuality. Or had you forgotten what type of forum you were on!

[cadcad]

ugh I really planned never to post this but I will on this one occasion. I am a MtF and am dating a post op MtF.

If you think my opinion of how me and my GF and our friends view guys who like us is invalid then go right ahead.

[eclipsemint]

ugh I really planned never to post this but I will on this one occasion. I am a MtF and am dating a post op MtF.

If you think my opinion of how me and my GF and our friends view guys who like us is invalid then go right ahead.


So what you are saying, is that just because you are a male to female transsexual, then you don't have to have a solid premise to back your previous claims for denying that straight men can be attracted to transsexual women? It's some kind of free pass that allows you to hold whatever opinion you want and attack the sexuality of whomever you want.

And that doesn't strike you as lame?

You should really think before you post, if you want to avoid further embarrassment.

To try and give your post some semblance of credibility, what you are attempting to do is make an argument by selective observation. You are trying to say that: because you know some men who are bi and are attracted to transsexuals, therefore, all men who are attracted to transsexuals must also be bi, and that the ones who claim to be straight are therefore fooling themselves.

It just doesn't follow. It is a logically fallacious argument.

It is based on hit and miss observation. You are only counting the men who are bi, only the men you know, and purposely ignoring all the instances of straight men being attracted to transsexuals. For instance, me. And others like me.

Understand now?

[cadcad]

You should really think before you post, if you want to avoid further embarrassment.

Yes I need to. I am the straight male on a tranny chaser forum.

[eclipsemint]

You should really think before you post, if you want to avoid further embarrassment.

Yes I need to. I am the straight male on a tranny chaser forum.

To try and give your post some semblance of credibility...

1. What you are attempting to do is make an argument by selective observation. You are trying to say that: because you know some men who are bi and are attracted to transsexuals, therefore, all men who are attracted to transsexuals must also be bi, and that the ones who claim to be straight are therefore fooling themselves.

It just doesn't follow. It is a logically fallacious argument.

It is based on hit and miss observation. You are only counting the men who are bi, only the men you know, and deliberately ignoring all the instances of straight men being attracted to transsexuals. For instance, me. And others like me.

2. By claiming to be a mtf transsexual yourself, you are also making an argument based on authority, ie that you are an expert and your opinion should be trusted by everybody, that you know more about the subject than everybody else in the room.

It's another example of a logically fallacious argument.

3. Irony or sarcasm (Yes I need to. I am the straight male on a tranny chaser forum.) can be humorous, but is also a fallacious argument. It doesn't make you suddenly right.

Understand now?

[cadcad]

For instance, me. And others like me.

Understand now?

PS: Irony or sarcasm (Yes I need to. I am the straight male on a tranny chaser forum.) can be humorous, but is also a fallacious argument. It doesn't make you suddenly right.

Your argument has changed my mind. Someone on the internet has finally changed my real world perspective of my 8 years being a girl. thank you Eclipsemint for opening my eyes good sir.

[eclipsemint]

For instance, me. And others like me.

Understand now?

PS: Irony or sarcasm (Yes I need to. I am the straight male on a tranny chaser forum.) can be humorous, but is also a fallacious argument. It doesn't make you suddenly right.

Your argument has changed my mind. Someone on the internet has finally changed my real world perspective of my 8 years being a girl. thank you Eclipsemint for opening my eyes good sir.

1. By claiming to be a mtf transsexual yourself, you are also making an argument based on authority, ie that you are an expert and your opinion should be trusted by everybody, that you know more about the subject than everybody else in the room.

It's another example of a logically fallacious argument.

2. Irony or sarcasm (Yes I need to. I am the straight male on a tranny chaser forum. thank you Eclipsemint for opening my eyes good sir.) can be humorous, but is also a fallacious argument. It doesn't make you suddenly right.


You really should ask yourself why it is so difficult for you to accept that straight men can also be attracted to transsexuals.

[eclipsemint]

PS: Fallacious has nothing to do with Fellatio.

(Just thought I'd get in first with that...urm...head that one off...urm...never mind.)

[farang]

I like Transsexual girls as many of them are very beautiful and have all the features of a gorgeous girl. However they also have a cock and this is what in combination attracts me.
I don't know why some people deny that they are attracted to Trannsexual girls because of their cocks.
I do not consider myself Gay as I am not attracted to Men. I suppose I am Bisexual as I like sex with both Females and Transsexuals. After all Bi means 2 .
I like many others will not be marrying a Transsexual as I am married already to a Female.
After sex with a Transsexual I have the same feelings that I have after sex with a Female. I am certainly not ashamed.
I first became attracted to Transsexuals after visiting Thailand.

[eclipsemint]

I like Transsexual girls as many of them are very beautiful and have all the features of a gorgeous girl. However they also have a cock and this is what in combination attracts me.
I don't know why some people deny that they are attracted to Trannsexual girls because of their cocks.
I do not consider myself Gay as I am not attracted to Men. I suppose I am Bisexual as I like sex with both Females and Transsexuals. After all Bi means 2 .
I like many others will not be marrying a Transsexual as I am married already to a Female.
After sex with a Transsexual I have the same feelings that I have after sex with a Female. I am certainly not ashamed.
I first became attracted to Transsexuals after visiting Thailand.

Bisexuality is sexual behavior with or physical attraction to both sexes (male and female), or a bisexual orientation. It encompasses both heterosexual and homosexual behaviour. (Wikipedia)

By asserting that you are bisexual because you are attracted to transsexual women, you are saying that you regard transsexual women as appearing predominately male to you. Understandable, if you focus on the fact that they still possess a penis. Their attraction is an extension of both the bisexual's heterosexual and homosexual nature.

However, some men who are straight and who are attracted to transsexuals focus on their femininity, not on their penis. They regard them as predominantly female. Their attraction is an extension of the straight man's heterosexual nature. Some straight men do not find transsexuals attractive, because they focus on the male genital aspect of a transsexual and they regard them as male, not female.

All types of men and women from different sexuality backgrounds may be attracted to transsexuals, however, generally speaking gay men are not attracted to transsexuals, because of their feminine nature and appearance. Bisexual men who are attracted to transsexuals are usually also attracted to men.

OMG, we should frame this. Or Sticky it. Or make a Venn diagram for it.

[farang]

I like Transsexual girls as many of them are very beautiful and have all the features of a gorgeous girl. However they also have a cock and this is what in combination attracts me.
I don't know why some people deny that they are attracted to Trannsexual girls because of their cocks.
I do not consider myself Gay as I am not attracted to Men. I suppose I am Bisexual as I like sex with both Females and Transsexuals. After all Bi means 2 .
I like many others will not be marrying a Transsexual as I am married already to a Female.
After sex with a Transsexual I have the same feelings that I have after sex with a Female. I am certainly not ashamed.
I first became attracted to Transsexuals after visiting Thailand.

Bisexuality is sexual behavior with or physical attraction to both sexes (male and female), or a bisexual orientation. It encompasses both heterosexual and homosexual behaviour. (Wikipedia)

By asserting that you are bisexual because you are attracted to transsexual women, you are saying that you regard transsexual women as appearing predominately male to you. Understandable, if you focus on the fact that they still possess a penis. Their attraction is an extension of both the bisexual's heterosexual and homosexual nature.

However, some men who are straight and who are attracted to transsexuals focus on their femininity, not on their penis. They regard them as predominantly female. Their attraction is an extension of the straight man's heterosexual nature. Some straight men do not find transsexuals attractive, because they focus on the male genital aspect of a transsexual and they regard them as male, not female.

All types of men and women from different sexuality backgrounds may be attracted to transsexuals, however, generally speaking gay men are not attracted to transsexuals, because of their feminine nature and appearance. Bisexual men who are attracted to transsexuals are usually also attracted to men.

OMG, we should frame this. Or Sticky it. Or make a Venn diagram for it.

Another fool in denial that he likes a girl with a cock. You are not straight but it doesn't mean you are Gay .

[eclipsemint]

I like Transsexual girls as many of them are very beautiful and have all the features of a gorgeous girl. However they also have a cock and this is what in combination attracts me.
I don't know why some people deny that they are attracted to Trannsexual girls because of their cocks.
I do not consider myself Gay as I am not attracted to Men. I suppose I am Bisexual as I like sex with both Females and Transsexuals. After all Bi means 2 .
I like many others will not be marrying a Transsexual as I am married already to a Female.
After sex with a Transsexual I have the same feelings that I have after sex with a Female. I am certainly not ashamed.
I first became attracted to Transsexuals after visiting Thailand.

Bisexuality is sexual behavior with or physical attraction to both sexes (male and female), or a bisexual orientation. It encompasses both heterosexual and homosexual behaviour. (Wikipedia)

By asserting that you are bisexual because you are attracted to transsexual women, you are saying that you regard transsexual women as appearing predominately male to you. Understandable, if you focus on the fact that they still possess a penis. Their attraction is an extension of both the bisexual's heterosexual and homosexual nature.

However, some men who are straight and who are attracted to transsexuals focus on their femininity, not on their penis. They regard them as predominantly female. Their attraction is an extension of the straight man's heterosexual nature. Some straight men do not find transsexuals attractive, because they focus on the male genital aspect of a transsexual and they regard them as male, not female.

All types of men and women from different sexuality backgrounds may be attracted to transsexuals, however, generally speaking gay men are not attracted to transsexuals, because of their feminine nature and appearance. Bisexual men who are attracted to transsexuals are usually also attracted to men.

OMG, we should frame this. Or Sticky it. Or make a Venn diagram for it.

Another fool in denial that he likes a girl with a cock. You are not straight but it doesn't mean you are Gay .


HELLO! Where have you been the last five pages?

At what stage did I ever deny that I love a girl with cock? I ADORE a beautiful, feminine, transsexual woman. Why else would I be here, dummy!

I am making no claims about your sexuality, sir, and I kindly ask you to pay me the same courtesy.

The operative word in your statement FOR ME is the word "girl", therefore this falls within the realms of my heterosexual attraction; the operative word in your statement FOR YOU, by your own self-admission, is the word "cock". You can make of that what you will. That is up to you to claim. Not me.

You run the risk of using the words Straight and Gay as terms of verbal abuse towards other forum members. That is sexual vilification. I am not trying to be malicious and offensive to others who have a different sexual preference to me...you are. As so, it is you who should be ashamed of your behaviour, and appear foolish.

Of all places in the world, I hope that HA becomes one place where this sort of sexual discrimination towards others because of their sexual preferences is rare, not commonplace. I am so often disappointed in this hope.

I know your true agenda. You seek to drive all the straight men away from HA, so that ONLY openly gay and bisexual men lurk here. That way you have increased opportunity to pick up each other, if you fail to connect with a transsexual woman.

It won't work. We straight men love transsexuals too, and we are here to stay.

[Teydyn]

The operative word in your statement FOR ME is the word "girl", therefore this falls within the realms of my heterosexual attraction; the operative word in your statement FOR YOU, by your own self-admission, is the word "cock". You can make of that what you will.
Yes, exactly. For most people its "cock -> gay", for me its "woman (whatever between her legs) -> woman".

I just dont define people by their genitalia.

[callahac]

Jeez, this is getting old. Listen guys it doesn't make you less of a man if you like to suck cock or be fucked up the ass. What makes a real man is a guy that tries to always do the right thing, honor, integrity, strong work ethic, respect for women, the use of violence as a last resort and so on.

Focus on improving some of these parts of your life and don't get hung up on your sexual proclivities. Whether you like pussy or cock doesn't really matter if all you are is a dirtbag, you know what I mean?

[eclipsemint]

Jeez, this is getting old. Listen guys it doesn't make you less of a man if you like to suck cock or be fucked up the ass. What makes a real man is a guy that tries to always do the right thing, honor, integrity, strong work ethic, respect for women, the use of violence as a last resort and so on.

Focus on improving some of these parts of your life and don't get hung up on your sexual proclivities. Whether you like pussy or cock doesn't really matter if all you are is a dirtbag, you know what I mean?

But I like getting hung up on sexual proclivities. Especially if the mistress doesn't take it too extreme.

Thanks, callahac. Your points are well taken, even if they do have nothing do with what has been said.

To get the thread back on topic, did ya all contribute to Kelly's questionnaire? Ta.

[farang]

I like Transsexual girls as many of them are very beautiful and have all the features of a gorgeous girl. However they also have a cock and this is what in combination attracts me.
I don't know why some people deny that they are attracted to Trannsexual girls because of their cocks.
I do not consider myself Gay as I am not attracted to Men. I suppose I am Bisexual as I like sex with both Females and Transsexuals. After all Bi means 2 .
I like many others will not be marrying a Transsexual as I am married already to a Female.
After sex with a Transsexual I have the same feelings that I have after sex with a Female. I am certainly not ashamed.
I first became attracted to Transsexuals after visiting Thailand.

Bisexuality is sexual behavior with or physical attraction to both sexes (male and female), or a bisexual orientation. It encompasses both heterosexual and homosexual behaviour. (Wikipedia)

By asserting that you are bisexual because you are attracted to transsexual women, you are saying that you regard transsexual women as appearing predominately male to you. Understandable, if you focus on the fact that they still possess a penis. Their attraction is an extension of both the bisexual's heterosexual and homosexual nature.

However, some men who are straight and who are attracted to transsexuals focus on their femininity, not on their penis. They regard them as predominantly female. Their attraction is an extension of the straight man's heterosexual nature. Some straight men do not find transsexuals attractive, because they focus on the male genital aspect of a transsexual and they regard them as male, not female.

All types of men and women from different sexuality backgrounds may be attracted to transsexuals, however, generally speaking gay men are not attracted to transsexuals, because of their feminine nature and appearance. Bisexual men who are attracted to transsexuals are usually also attracted to men.

OMG, we should frame this. Or Sticky it. Or make a Venn diagram for it.

Another fool in denial that he likes a girl with a cock. You are not straight but it doesn't mean you are Gay .


HELLO! Where have you been the last five pages?

At what stage did I ever deny that I love a girl with cock? I ADORE a beautiful, feminine, transsexual woman. Why else would I be here, dummy!

I am making no claims about your sexuality, sir, and I kindly ask you to pay me the same courtesy.

The operative word in your statement FOR ME is the word "girl", therefore this falls within the realms of my heterosexual attraction; the operative word in your statement FOR YOU, by your own self-admission, is the word "cock". You can make of that what you will. That is up to you to claim. Not me.

You run the risk of using the words Straight and Gay as terms of verbal abuse towards other forum members. That is sexual vilification. I am not trying to be malicious and offensive to others who have a different sexual preference to me...you are. As so, it is you who should be ashamed of your behaviour, and appear foolish.

Of all places in the world, I hope that HA becomes one place where this sort of sexual discrimination towards others because of their sexual preferences is rare, not commonplace. I am so often disappointed in this hope.

I know your true agenda. You seek to drive all the straight men away from HA, so that ONLY openly gay and bisexual men lurk here. That way you have increased opportunity to pick up each other, if you fail to connect with a transsexual woman.

It won't work. We straight men love transsexuals too, and we are here to stay.

What a load of old drivel. I am attracted to Females and Transsexuals not Gay men.
You really are so confused and unsure of your own sexuality that you are making silly statements.
Go back and re read my posts.

[alyssats]

Jeez, this is getting old. Listen guys it doesn't make you less of a man if you like to suck cock or be fucked up the ass. What makes a real man is a guy that tries to always do the right thing, honor, integrity, strong work ethic, respect for women, the use of violence as a last resort and so on.

Focus on improving some of these parts of your life and don't get hung up on your sexual proclivities. Whether you like pussy or cock doesn't really matter if all you are is a dirtbag, you know what I mean?

+1000 points to you baby :wink:

[callahac]

Jeez, this is getting old. Listen guys it doesn't make you less of a man if you like to suck cock or be fucked up the ass. What makes a real man is a guy that tries to always do the right thing, honor, integrity, strong work ethic, respect for women, the use of violence as a last resort and so on.

Focus on improving some of these parts of your life and don't get hung up on your sexual proclivities. Whether you like pussy or cock doesn't really matter if all you are is a dirtbag, you know what I mean?

But I like getting hung up on sexual proclivities. Especially if the mistress doesn't take it too extreme.

Thanks, callahac. Your points are well taken, even if they do have nothing do with what has been said.

To get the thread back on topic, did ya all contribute to Kelly's questionnaire? Ta.

Hi Eclipse,
I contributed earlier and answer Kelly's questions. What Iwas trying to do in my last post is cut off at the pass the "Am I gay" direction this thread was about to go down.

[GRocks]

Thought it about it a bit and I think a lot of the reason men are attracted to transsexuals is that they are hoping it's a woman with a man's libido. In other words looks like a woman talks like a woman but has the sexual mentality of a man. I think that's a big reason for me at least. With that subconscious attraction the physical attraction develops. I can say that the initial physical things that attracted me at first are not necessarily the things that continue to turn me on.

[pablovitalrocks]

i wouldnt get anyone who likes a bad boobjob either LOL.

[MrsKellyPierce]

I love your phoney name :) Pablo :)

To the men though...

My question was how you view yourself not how others view you?

Only you can tell yourself how you feel at the end of the day...fuck labeling and societies views of you.

At the end of the day what you think of yourself is the only thing that matters!!!

Grasp that :) and we would all be a lot better off!!

Sweet Kisses

Kelly

[dderek123]

I love your phoney name :) Pablo :)

To the men though...

My question was how you view yourself not how others view you?

Only you can tell yourself how you feel at the end of the day...fuck labeling and societies views of you.

At the end of the day what you think of yourself is the only thing that matters!!!

Grasp that :) and we would all be a lot better off!!

Sweet Kisses

Kelly
indeed

[seaport]

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

My 2nd post ever...okay, so I've thought about how I got liking transsexual women and I think it started after watching so much porn...in porn you see a lot of penis...then I saw Vaniity on HBO and was dumbfounded. So I'm thinking if I'm gonna watch penises in porn why not have it include the form of a female. haha I do consider my self straight, but again, I kinda do have to blame porn, I can now watch gay porn and understand the attraction even though in real life I probably couldn't go through with cruising a dude for sex. I perhaps consider sex is sex regardless of gender, but it's the female form I'm ultimately drawn to so I guess that's why I appreciate the struggle of a transsexual.

Settling down? I don't know. One, I've never known a tranny. Two, there are areas of life I'd either like to get into (jobs or whatever), and I would probably not be welcomed if it were to come out that I was dating a tranny. So in that sense, a long term thing is probably a no go and I realize that's immature, but I am honest. Three, physically she'd have to be beyond passable, and supremely discrete. I have recently considered seeking a transsexual escort, but even that scares me. Not the physical part, but my mind starts going places like, "What if she start blabbing? What if she writes a book? What if I were to become well known, and she comes out the wood work?" I know it's crazy fucked up.

Perhaps what I'm really drawn to is the idea of a secret and I would be torn up if people found out. But in the end, yeah, if my mother and father found out they would freak the hell out and that's something I wouldn't want to put them through. There you go. I don't know if I made any sense.

[moscowradcliffe]

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

My 2nd post ever...okay, so I've thought about how I got liking transsexual women and I think it started after watching so much porn...in porn you see a lot of penis...then I saw Vaniity on HBO and was dumbfounded. So I'm thinking if I'm gonna watch penises in porn why not have it include the form of a female. haha I do consider my self straight, but again, I kinda do have to blame porn, I can now watch gay porn and understand the attraction even though in real life I probably couldn't go through with cruising a dude for sex. I perhaps consider sex is sex regardless of gender, but it's the female form I'm ultimately drawn to so I guess that's why I appreciate the struggle of a transsexual.

Settling down? I don't know. One, I've never known a tranny. Two, there are areas of life I'd either like to get into (jobs or whatever), and I would probably not be welcomed if it were to come out that I was dating a tranny. So in that sense, a long term thing is probably a no go and I realize that's immature, but I am honest. Three, physically she'd have to be beyond passable, and supremely discrete. I have recently considered seeking a transsexual escort, but even that scares me. Not the physical part, but my mind starts going places like, "What if she start blabbing? What if she writes a book? What if I were to become well known, and she comes out the wood work?" I know it's crazy fucked up.

Perhaps what I'm really drawn to is the idea of a secret and I would be torn up if people found out. But in the end, yeah, if my mother and father found out they would freak the hell out and that's something I wouldn't want to put them through. There you go. I don't know if I made any sense.


Hope these help:

http://slippery-digit.blogspot.com/2009/10/shemales-are-you-gay.html
http://slippery-digit.blogspot.com/2009/10/heres-whats-up-with-straight-guys-into.html

[eclipsemint]

I like Transsexual girls as many of them are very beautiful and have all the features of a gorgeous girl. However they also have a cock and this is what in combination attracts me.
I don't know why some people deny that they are attracted to Trannsexual girls because of their cocks.
I do not consider myself Gay as I am not attracted to Men. I suppose I am Bisexual as I like sex with both Females and Transsexuals. After all Bi means 2 .
I like many others will not be marrying a Transsexual as I am married already to a Female.
After sex with a Transsexual I have the same feelings that I have after sex with a Female. I am certainly not ashamed.
I first became attracted to Transsexuals after visiting Thailand.

Bisexuality is sexual behavior with or physical attraction to both sexes (male and female), or a bisexual orientation. It encompasses both heterosexual and homosexual behaviour. (Wikipedia)

By asserting that you are bisexual because you are attracted to transsexual women, you are saying that you regard transsexual women as appearing predominately male to you. Understandable, if you focus on the fact that they still possess a penis. Their attraction is an extension of both the bisexual's heterosexual and homosexual nature.

However, some men who are straight and who are attracted to transsexuals focus on their femininity, not on their penis. They regard them as predominantly female. Their attraction is an extension of the straight man's heterosexual nature. Some straight men do not find transsexuals attractive, because they focus on the male genital aspect of a transsexual and they regard them as male, not female.

All types of men and women from different sexuality backgrounds may be attracted to transsexuals, however, generally speaking gay men are not attracted to transsexuals, because of their feminine nature and appearance. Bisexual men who are attracted to transsexuals are usually also attracted to men.

OMG, we should frame this. Or Sticky it. Or make a Venn diagram for it.

Another fool in denial that he likes a girl with a cock. You are not straight but it doesn't mean you are Gay .


HELLO! Where have you been the last five pages?

At what stage did I ever deny that I love a girl with cock? I ADORE a beautiful, feminine, transsexual woman. Why else would I be here, dummy!

I am making no claims about your sexuality, sir, and I kindly ask you to pay me the same courtesy.

The operative word in your statement FOR ME is the word "girl", therefore this falls within the realms of my heterosexual attraction; the operative word in your statement FOR YOU, by your own self-admission, is the word "cock". You can make of that what you will. That is up to you to claim. Not me.

You run the risk of using the words Straight and Gay as terms of verbal abuse towards other forum members. That is sexual vilification. I am not trying to be malicious and offensive to others who have a different sexual preference to me...you are. As so, it is you who should be ashamed of your behaviour, and appear foolish.

Of all places in the world, I hope that HA becomes one place where this sort of sexual discrimination towards others because of their sexual preferences is rare, not commonplace. I am so often disappointed in this hope.

I know your true agenda. You seek to drive all the straight men away from HA, so that ONLY openly gay and bisexual men lurk here. That way you have increased opportunity to pick up each other, if you fail to connect with a transsexual woman.

It won't work. We straight men love transsexuals too, and we are here to stay.

What a load of old drivel. I am attracted to Females and Transsexuals not Gay men.
You really are so confused and unsure of your own sexuality that you are making silly statements.
Go back and re read my posts.

Look this is the last time I am going to try and explain this. So listen carefully.

Check. I've gone back and reread your posts. Here's what you said:

" I do not consider myself Gay as I am not attracted to Men. I suppose I am Bisexual as I like sex with both Females and Transsexuals. After all Bi means 2 ."

Here is how I answered:

"Bisexuality is sexual behavior with or physical attraction to both sexes (male and female), or a bisexual orientation. It encompasses both heterosexual and homosexual behaviour. (Wikipedia)"

Your error is in misusing the word Bisexual. By saying that transsexual women are NOT WOMEN but a different gender, you therefore consider them to be male. THERE IS NO THIRD GENDER. There is only male and female. Hermaphrodites are born with sexual organs of TWO genders - male and female. MTF transsexual women are born into the body of one gender (male) and transition to the other gender (female) by the use of hormones and surgery. They don't become a third sex in between. There is no middle sex. They may at some have the breasts and appearence of a female, while still having the sexual organs of a male, but this doesn't transform them into some third sex.

Bisexual means you are saying you are attracted to both males and females, not transsexuals and females. If being attracted to transsexuals makes you FEEL bisexual, then you are saying you are attracted to the aspects of the transsexual that encompass both male and female characteristics.

As a straight person, I am attracted to the female aspects of a transsexual woman. I couldn't care less whether she had a vagina or a cock. If she went post-op I would still be attracted to her. If she was only passive and not active during sex, I would still be attracted to her. Her cock is not the focus of my attraction.

If you haven't got it by now, you'll never understand. And that is a shame.

You'll go on mislabelling and insulting some of the men on this this forum.

I would like to be a fly on the wall the first time you tell a transsexual woman she is not really a woman.

[Coroner]

With all due respect, eclipsemint, I think you´re too obsessed with other people´s self-identifications.

[eclipsemint]

With all due respect, eclipsemint, I think you´re too obsessed with other people´s self-identifications.

Thank you.

[farang]

I like Transsexual girls as many of them are very beautiful and have all the features of a gorgeous girl. However they also have a cock and this is what in combination attracts me.
I don't know why some people deny that they are attracted to Trannsexual girls because of their cocks.
I do not consider myself Gay as I am not attracted to Men. I suppose I am Bisexual as I like sex with both Females and Transsexuals. After all Bi means 2 .
I like many others will not be marrying a Transsexual as I am married already to a Female.
After sex with a Transsexual I have the same feelings that I have after sex with a Female. I am certainly not ashamed.
I first became attracted to Transsexuals after visiting Thailand.

Bisexuality is sexual behavior with or physical attraction to both sexes (male and female), or a bisexual orientation. It encompasses both heterosexual and homosexual behaviour. (Wikipedia)

By asserting that you are bisexual because you are attracted to transsexual women, you are saying that you regard transsexual women as appearing predominately male to you. Understandable, if you focus on the fact that they still possess a penis. Their attraction is an extension of both the bisexual's heterosexual and homosexual nature.

However, some men who are straight and who are attracted to transsexuals focus on their femininity, not on their penis. They regard them as predominantly female. Their attraction is an extension of the straight man's heterosexual nature. Some straight men do not find transsexuals attractive, because they focus on the male genital aspect of a transsexual and they regard them as male, not female.

All types of men and women from different sexuality backgrounds may be attracted to transsexuals, however, generally speaking gay men are not attracted to transsexuals, because of their feminine nature and appearance. Bisexual men who are attracted to transsexuals are usually also attracted to men.

OMG, we should frame this. Or Sticky it. Or make a Venn diagram for it.

Another fool in denial that he likes a girl with a cock. You are not straight but it doesn't mean you are Gay .


HELLO! Where have you been the last five pages?

At what stage did I ever deny that I love a girl with cock? I ADORE a beautiful, feminine, transsexual woman. Why else would I be here, dummy!

I am making no claims about your sexuality, sir, and I kindly ask you to pay me the same courtesy.

The operative word in your statement FOR ME is the word "girl", therefore this falls within the realms of my heterosexual attraction; the operative word in your statement FOR YOU, by your own self-admission, is the word "cock". You can make of that what you will. That is up to you to claim. Not me.

You run the risk of using the words Straight and Gay as terms of verbal abuse towards other forum members. That is sexual vilification. I am not trying to be malicious and offensive to others who have a different sexual preference to me...you are. As so, it is you who should be ashamed of your behaviour, and appear foolish.

Of all places in the world, I hope that HA becomes one place where this sort of sexual discrimination towards others because of their sexual preferences is rare, not commonplace. I am so often disappointed in this hope.

I know your true agenda. You seek to drive all the straight men away from HA, so that ONLY openly gay and bisexual men lurk here. That way you have increased opportunity to pick up each other, if you fail to connect with a transsexual woman.

It won't work. We straight men love transsexuals too, and we are here to stay.

What a load of old drivel. I am attracted to Females and Transsexuals not Gay men.
You really are so confused and unsure of your own sexuality that you are making silly statements.
Go back and re read my posts.

Look this is the last time I am going to try and explain this. So listen carefully.

Check. I've gone back and reread your posts. Here's what you said:

" I do not consider myself Gay as I am not attracted to Men. I suppose I am Bisexual as I like sex with both Females and Transsexuals. After all Bi means 2 ."

Here is how I answered:

THERE IS NO THIRD GENDER. There is only male and female. Hermaphrodites are born with sexual organs of TWO genders - male and female. MTF transsexual women are born into the body of one gender (male) and transition to the other gender (female) by the use of hormones and surgery. They don't become a third sex in between. There is no middle sex. They may at some have the breasts and appearence of a female, while still having the sexual organs of a male, but this doesn't transform them into some third sex.

.



If you haven't got it by now, you'll never understand. And that is a shame.

You'll go on mislabelling and insulting some of the men on this this forum.

I would like to be a fly on the wall the first time you tell a transsexual woman she is not really a woman.

Everyone can see what I posted and in no way have I insulted anyone. I have used the words Transsexual and Women to describe people I am attracted to. It is perfectly acceptable to refer to a Transsexual as a Transsexual and a Female as a Female. Nowhere in my post do I declare that a Transsexual Woman is not a Woman.
You are the one who has declared that there is no 3rd sex and that there are only Male and Females. I believe you are the one insulting people.
You are begining to make a fool of yourself.

[archineer]

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

My 2nd post ever...okay, so I've thought about how I got liking transsexual women and I think it started after watching so much porn...in porn you see a lot of penis...then I saw Vaniity on HBO and was dumbfounded. So I'm thinking if I'm gonna watch penises in porn why not have it include the form of a female. haha I do consider my self straight, but again, I kinda do have to blame porn, I can now watch gay porn and understand the attraction even though in real life I probably couldn't go through with cruising a dude for sex. I perhaps consider sex is sex regardless of gender, but it's the female form I'm ultimately drawn to so I guess that's why I appreciate the struggle of a transsexual.

Settling down? I don't know. One, I've never known a tranny. Two, there are areas of life I'd either like to get into (jobs or whatever), and I would probably not be welcomed if it were to come out that I was dating a tranny. So in that sense, a long term thing is probably a no go and I realize that's immature, but I am honest. Three, physically she'd have to be beyond passable, and supremely discrete. I have recently considered seeking a transsexual escort, but even that scares me. Not the physical part, but my mind starts going places like, "What if she start blabbing? What if she writes a book? What if I were to become well known, and she comes out the wood work?" I know it's crazy fucked up.

Perhaps what I'm really drawn to is the idea of a secret and I would be torn up if people found out. But in the end, yeah, if my mother and father found out they would freak the hell out and that's something I wouldn't want to put them through. There you go. I don't know if I made any sense.

Seriously mate i've been out for 2 years now- nobody cares. Unless your parents are homophobic they'll accept it (mine have). In work its just a non issue, though I can see that dating an escort would be however. Maybe in the US its different but the discrimination is no worse than that faced by a gay couple. I'd argue less actualy because people tend to see a conventional straight couple, even if they know about her trans status.

[carlingtop08]

i love both gg and ts and i try to stop watching ts porn but i always seem to come back to it, i feel ashamed but i know i shouldnt...

[MaxFactor]

My attraction to transexuals snuck up on me when I stumbled upon TS porn and felt an inexplicable wave of desire. I was puzzled, embarrassed, and even a little freaked out.

Why did I have this reaction? A lifetime of socialization and strict gender categorization. This indoctrination occurs from infancy and extends over one's life.

This so called third gender, challenges everything we've been taught to believe about the boundaries of sexuality.

Discovering that these boundaries are fictional was a revelation for me. And yet...here's the rub. I a loathe the idea of coming out in a way that would break the collective hearts of my family. Does that make me a coward or just sensitive? Bit o' both, I suspect.

[brickcitybrother]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman?

The same it would take to get me to settle down with a regular woman. The fact that she's transsexual is little more than a private issue between me and her.

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

That's a man vs. woman issue, not a man vs. transsexual issue. Men lie to women, hell I'm sure they lie to men. So the real question is, what will it take to get men to be honest? I'm not sure what' the sure for that will be. However, I can say most men don't understand that a woman decides very early if she is going to sleep with a man... and that it is NOT necessary for a man to lie to achieve that result.

How do you view yourself?

I'm me. If you are questioning my sexuality? Hell I don't get to say what's straight or gay vis-a-vis' society's opinion. So I'm a straight man and if society disagrees that's ok. I get more shit and grief from being black then ANYTHING ELSE - so my opinion is generally going to be different than that of the majority population.

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

Honestly... its something in the upbringing and something in the genes and something in my life experience. So its like guys who perfer blondes or prefers boobs, etc.

When did you start liking transsexuals.

17 years old

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?


No more or less than after I have sex with a woman. Meaning, if fornication/adultery/cheating is wrong ... does it matter who you do it with? But if you are a single person who believes there is nothing wrong with consensual sex among consenting adults... shame has no part in it. Now if you are asking me am I put off when the person I'm bedding is bigger - well while I'm not focusing on it and would not be taking it ... I have wished from time to time that I was the big man on campus ... LOL.

[brickcitybrother]

P.S. I don't like people who don't like people who like them and then take their money all the while having an inner hatred.

If you don't like men who like transsexuals; then become a lesbian transsexual who is honest and not down for the money that men bring. I don't like pedophiles... and I wouldn't take their money for anything and I would never take their money and assist them in their pedophilic desires.

Oh well - life goes on.

[MrsKellyPierce]

P.S. I don't like people who don't like people who like them and then take their money all the while having an inner hatred.

If you don't like men who like transsexuals; then become a lesbian transsexual who is honest and not down for the money that men bring. I don't like pedophiles... and I wouldn't take their money for anything and I would never take their money and assist them in their pedophilic desires.

Oh well - life goes on. Darling not understanding someone and liking someone is two different things. Men and women haven't understood each other for years. I just wanted a little light shed on the situation.

Good Grief!!!

Sweet Kisses,

Kelly

[etkratek]

Romance, adventure: a couple of fears in common.
...no bullshit and lots of love and may be adoption...later

I'm reasonably attractive, very resourceful when wisely motivated...quite possibly gifted...

t-girls and t-women are beautiful evolutions of human sexuality. I have known this since high school. I'm 48 now.

Good sex is never shameful. And although I generally like to orgasm with all the women and men I have made love with and screwed, I have yet to meet and enjoy the company of a lovely young woman who also happens to have a nice sized cock.

Currently I am single and celibate. I hope this answers your question Ms Shore. :)

[blackrob]

So I am going to ask a bunch of questions...we transsexuals get these questions constantly.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman? =

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?

How do you view yourself?

Why do you think you like transsexuals?

When did you start liking transsexuals.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?

I dont know if I can answer all your questions but what I can tell you is that I find you so sexy boo and want some of that ass!!

[bulldog]

Ok you changed the question. mmkay

Since i see you as women and i'm a man ... I'm straight but don't like being labeled , i like who i like and that's good enough for me.

I don't know why i'm attracted to tg's , it began in college when i saw pics of Danielle Foxx.
Have'nt had sex yet but why would i be ashamed if i wanted to do it?



That statement right there is something I agree with 150%! They are what they say they are, I will treat people how they want to be treated. No offense, but fuck what society says they are, its that persons individual right to choose what they wish to be labeled and what they wish to live as. (Though why there HAS to be labels I am not quite sure)

Also I can relate with the virgin aspect, 100% virgin myself, gg and tg, not really by choice, just by.....well seclusion mostly, I dont get out much and am quite shy, but you are correct, there is no shame in it as long as you are both agreeing adults and it feels good to the both of you, damned what other people think!

[GrimFusion]

I'm gonna ask you a bunch of questions and I want to have them answered immediately.

What would it take to settle down with a transsexual woman?
Love. Like, not the fetish, sexual sort of love, but actual strong emotional attachment would be a big deal. Respect, communication, honesty... everything that's required in a normal relationship, I guess. Realistically, I doubt I'd ever be in any sort of relationship with a tgirl. I'm not trying to. All I've ever said is that I'd be open-minded enough to accept.

And if not settling why can't you be honest that it is just a fantasy and nothing more? Why do men feel telling this lie is okay?
They think it betters their chance for freebies and discounts? lol. It is a fantasy for those of us who inexplicably waste tissues to t-girl porn. A few of us are just a little more motivated, and a lot less respectful.

How do you view yourself?
I'm pretty happy with me. I just got a new job I think will work out well. My relationship's going a little smoother. Things are looking on the up and up.
If you wanted to get a little more sexual, I guess I'm bi, but I don't really dig a male physique. My girlfriend knows, but she's a generic tranny chaser. I don't really chase. I just don't mind conversation, and everybody needs buds, whether they're e-buds or not.

Why do you think you like transsexuals?
I was about the only dude who'd talk to an early-transitioning tgirl back in high school. I guess Kathy had a crush on me, but I really didn't even want to notice. Her and I had a lot in common, but I was way too closed-minded to consider "us". She moved off to Wisconsin with her 'rents, and I sort of felt like a dick because a relationship probably would have worked. That was more or less my introduction.

Years later, poking around the internet, I discovered tranny porn. I really can't explain WHY I get wood. I really don't think any dude could explain it. What works just works, and it did. I usually kick around GG porn, but every now and then, I break out the transsexual stuff.

When did you start liking transsexuals.
Uh... my parents have caught me with it before I moved out of the house at 19. I think that was about when it started.

Are you ashamed after you have sex with a transsexual and why?
I haven't, but I really wouldn't be. If people aren't going to accept me because they're fucking nosy about my sexual life, screw 'em. That's such a little, stupid issue and if people over react, I'd rather not have them around anyhow.

[Beaner]

Darling not understanding someone and liking someone is two different things. Men and women haven't understood each other for years. I just wanted a little light shed on the situation.

Good Grief!!!

Sweet Kisses,

Kelly

Why do you think were attracted to transexuals pull your panties off and that should tell you why men like trannys.