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BellaBellucci
10-05-2009, 01:49 AM
So many of you guys come on here talking about how you just want a 'normal' relationship with a tranny but then someone starts a thread about who's 'wifey material' and everyone posts pics of the hottest models they can find. I don't know about anyone else, but to me 'wifey material' refers to someone with both beauty and brains and someone with whom you have a lot in common. She's a person with whom you could settle down but also someone who could settle down with you. That's the problem with the models you all so enthusiastically proclaim you want to marry.

You all talk about not only the fact that the glamor girls that you so desire won't give you the time of day but that the girls here with 'normal' lives with whom you speak almost daily don't turn you on as much and so their names never appear on your 'who I want to marry' lists. You all talk about how you like trannies because you enjoy the 'lost femininity of a woman' as you continue to simultaneously complain about hyper-femininity, plastic surgery, fakeness, etc. to the point where you probably wouldn't even introduce one to your friends in reality, let alone marry one. So what gives?

With whom do you REALLY think you could spend the rest of your life?

~BB~

blonde_sweetheart
10-05-2009, 01:56 AM
So many of you guys come on here talking about how you just want a 'normal' relationship with a tranny but then someone starts a thread about who's 'wifey material' and everyone posts pics of the hottest models they can find. I don't know about anyone else, but to me 'wifey material' refers to someone with both beauty and brains and someone with whom you have a lot in common. She's a person with whom you could settle down but also someone who could settle down with you. That's the problem with the models you all so enthusiastically proclaim you want to marry.

You all talk about not only the fact that the glamor girls that you so desire won't give you the time of day but that the girls here with 'normal' lives with whom you speak almost daily don't turn you on as much and so their names never appear on your 'who I want to marry' lists. You all talk about how you like trannies because you enjoy the 'lost femininity of a woman' as you continue to simultaneously complain about hyper-femininity, plastic surgery, fakeness, etc. to the point where you probably wouldn't even introduce one to your friends in reality, let alone marry one. So what gives?

With whom do you REALLY think you could spend the rest of your life?

~BB~

Very well said! I am sick to DEATH of guys going at the throats of any transwoman who DARES to get breast implants,a nosejob or SRS.It's maddening but I won't hijack your thread here..

rockabilly
10-05-2009, 01:57 AM
Quite a conundrum is'nt it Bella ? I know the girl that i would like to have a deep relationship w/ and if it worked out , would love to marry. But out of respect to her i won't mention her name ... besides she knows who she is and that's what matters. :)

Andrew Johnson
10-05-2009, 01:58 AM
Nice topic!

Let's not forget that this is an internet forum....basically a place for a bunch of windbags to blow. I'd say most of what anyone says on a message board is total BS.

It'll be interesting to watch this thread. :D

BellaBellucci
10-05-2009, 01:58 AM
So many of you guys come on here talking about how you just want a 'normal' relationship with a tranny but then someone starts a thread about who's 'wifey material' and everyone posts pics of the hottest models they can find. I don't know about anyone else, but to me 'wifey material' refers to someone with both beauty and brains and someone with whom you have a lot in common. She's a person with whom you could settle down but also someone who could settle down with you. That's the problem with the models you all so enthusiastically proclaim you want to marry.

You all talk about not only the fact that the glamor girls that you so desire won't give you the time of day but that the girls here with 'normal' lives with whom you speak almost daily don't turn you on as much and so their names never appear on your 'who I want to marry' lists. You all talk about how you like trannies because you enjoy the 'lost femininity of a woman' as you continue to simultaneously complain about hyper-femininity, plastic surgery, fakeness, etc. to the point where you probably wouldn't even introduce one to your friends in reality, let alone marry one. So what gives?

With whom do you REALLY think you could spend the rest of your life?

~BB~

Very well said! I am sick to DEATH of guys going at the throats of any transwoman who DARES to get breast implants,a nosejob or SRS.It's maddening but I won't hijack your thread here..

No hon, it's ok. Speak your mind. I'm all about the First Amendment.

~BB~

eclipsemint
10-05-2009, 01:59 AM
Yeah, it reminds me of the FMK game on the internet. Fuck, Marry, Kill is played by having to choose from three women, one for each category. I think a lot of men confuse the fuck and marry categories.

Personally, I have a giant crush on Ashley at present. She is totally hot and will make some young man a great girlfriend. But she is much to young and at an entirely different stage of life to me - so not marriage material. It's just a little crush.

For marriage material, there are several women on HA I would consider...the two Alyssa's, SarahG and Peggygee; I respect their hearts and minds and always value reading what they have to say. There are probably others too but they're who come to mind straight away.

loren
10-05-2009, 02:01 AM
:popcorn

giovanni_hotel
10-05-2009, 02:10 AM
You're over-analyzing the term 'wifey', IMO Bella.

Wifey material just means a girl is so hott/sexxy that she could make a guy consider chilling long term in a monogomous relationship.

Most guys here on HA probably aren't groom material anyway, LOL!!

blonde_sweetheart
10-05-2009, 02:12 AM
Yeah, it reminds me of the FMK game on the internet. Fuck, Marry, Kill is played by having to choose from three women, one for each category. I think a lot of men confuse the fuck and marry categories.

Personally, I have a giant crush on Ashley at present. She is totally hot and will make some young man a great girlfriend. But she is much to young and at an entirely different stage of life to me - so not marriage material. It's just a little crush.

For marriage material, there are several women on HA I would consider...the two Alyssa's, SarahG and Peggygee; I respect their hearts and minds and always value reading what they have to say. There are probably others too but they're who come to mind straight away.

Your such a sweeetheart!!!!!! :oops:

mcdicez73
10-05-2009, 02:16 AM
you think for a moment that a Working MODEL gyrrl won't alwayz revert
to being a PROVIDER?????case in point look @ the 64 yrs old chic in houston still tricking

as much as Men want diversity in woman woman want easy money until their last dying breathe




Yeah, it reminds me of the FMK game on the internet. Fuck, Marry, Kill is played by having to choose from three women, one for each category. I think a lot of men confuse the fuck and marry categories.

Personally, I have a giant crush on Ashley at present. She is totally hot and will make some young man a great girlfriend. But she is much to young and at an entirely different stage of life to me - so not marriage material. It's just a little crush.

For marriage material, there are several women on HA I would consider...the two Alyssa's, SarahG and Peggygee; I respect their hearts and minds and always value reading what they have to say. There are probably others too but they're who come to mind straight away.

Your such a sweeetheart!!!!!! :oops:

evilernie
10-05-2009, 02:17 AM
Ashley is definitely the one. Cute, adorable and a virgin(!). Who can be better to portray a blushing bride?

BellaBellucci
10-05-2009, 02:18 AM
you think for a moment that a Working MODEL gyrrl won't alwayz revert
to being a PROVIDER?????case in point look @ the 64 yrs old chic in houston still tricking

as much as Men want diversity in woman woman want easy money until their last dying breathe

So what's the alternative? We all become lumberjacks and construction workers? lol

~BB~

rockabilly
10-05-2009, 02:20 AM
you think for a moment that a Working MODEL gyrrl won't alwayz revert
to being a PROVIDER?????case in point look @ the 64 yrs old chic in houston still tricking

as much as Men want diversity in woman woman want easy money until their last dying breathe

So what's the alternative? We all become lumberjacks and construction workers? lol

~BB~
Bella you can jack my lumber anytime. :twisted: lol

BellaBellucci
10-05-2009, 02:21 AM
Ashley is definitely the one. Cute, adorable and a virgin(!). Who can be better to portray a blushing bride?

But can she cook? ;)

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y1ZJiBHh-Yw

~BB~

evilernie
10-05-2009, 02:25 AM
From the things that I read from HA. Possible second careers:
ClericalNurse/TherapistPharmacistSoftware DeveloperSalon/Beauty Shop

Ryz
10-05-2009, 02:25 AM
Ashley is definitely the one. Cute, adorable and a virgin(!). Who can be better to portray a blushing bride?
I know rite.

loren
10-05-2009, 02:28 AM
Quite a conundrum is'nt it Bella ? I know the girl that i would like to have a deep relationship w/ and if it worked out , would love to marry. But out of respect to her i won't mention her name ... besides she knows who she is and that's what matters. :)Wow, she is one lucky girl. :D

eclipsemint
10-05-2009, 02:30 AM
I would pay double to have my house built by a team of tg women, especially if they felled the trees as well. Triple, if Kalena was the Foreman. Err...Foreperson.

http://www.shemalejobs.com/front.php?nats=MjM3Mzo0OjEw,0,0,0,0

evilernie
10-05-2009, 02:31 AM
But can she cook? ;)

If she can't, I can. As long as she can operate the microwave, toaster and coffee maker, we're all set.

Oh yeah, I meant to compliment you on this pic.
http://c4.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/57/l_c22fc0fabb5348f7a12ab7429bd914db.jpg
The girl knows how to tease.

I just kept getting distracted by the actual thread. :lol:

Silcc69
10-05-2009, 02:33 AM
EAZY MONEY!

eclipsemint
10-05-2009, 02:45 AM
I would totally marry this girl. But she is not on this forum. Maybe that's part of the reason why?? She's just an ordinary tgirl you might meet in real life. Not a pornstar.

She is bubbalicious.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bE9Q2-KItIw

rockabilly
10-05-2009, 03:03 AM
Quite a conundrum is'nt it Bella ? I know the girl that i would like to have a deep relationship w/ and if it worked out , would love to marry. But out of respect to her i won't mention her name ... besides she knows who she is and that's what matters. :)Wow, she is one lucky girl. :D

To be w/ her , would make me the lucky one.

BellaBellucci
10-05-2009, 03:06 AM
But can she cook? ;)

If she can't, I can. As long as she can operate the microwave, toaster and coffee maker, we're all set.

Oh yeah, I meant to compliment you on this pic.
http://c4.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images02/57/l_c22fc0fabb5348f7a12ab7429bd914db.jpg
The girl knows how to tease.

I just kept getting distracted by the actual thread. :lol:

Oh, thank you. It's from one of my favorite movies ever: Jawbreaker. :)

~BB~

Random532
10-05-2009, 03:15 AM
Hmm, honestly none that I've met yet. I've dated a few, but the only t-girl that I would have considered marrying was killed tragically a couple of years back. I don't think I woulda had a chance anyway sadly, because she seemed to think she needed a sugar daddy and at that time I couldn't have done that...

Not ruling it out but I think it's pretty unlikely these days.

Silcc69
10-05-2009, 03:37 AM
I would totally marry this girl. But she is not on this forum. Maybe that's part of the reason why?? She's just an ordinary tgirl you might meet in real life. Not a pornstar.

She is bubbalicious.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bE9Q2-KItIw

She's cute.

muhmuh
10-05-2009, 07:32 AM
erm... what did you expect?

as you said yourself

and brains and someone with whom you have a lot in common.

how exactly is anyone supposed to properly judge that through the intarblag?

buckjohnson
10-05-2009, 04:43 PM
It is an interesting thread BellaBellucca . And i agree with giovanni_hotel that most of the men who post here are not groom material. And I am one of the cats who do not glorify the glamour girls here. In my personal life I have been with 'glamour' girls and 'normal, round' the way girls', with the glamour girls too much high maint and the normal girls too much baggage and mental disorders, as well as self esteem issues. So unfortunetly, given the choice, most guys will choose the glamour girls because it is eaier to deal the the high maintenance issue then the dysfunctional issues.

rockabilly
10-05-2009, 04:53 PM
What defines "groom material" ?

buckjohnson
10-05-2009, 05:14 PM
I don't know what groom material will. Coming from a man who is a brother, uncle, son, etc. to many female relatives, I know I have frown on, shunned, and even beat up some their potentials groom. The beatings were all deserve. I think any groom material will first have be defined of knowing the difference between a glamour unattainable girl (and in the context of this forum/thread, might not even be a HA but a poser) and a normal girl who is not an appendage to someone's fantasy

phobun
10-05-2009, 05:36 PM
So many of you guys come on here talking about how you just want a 'normal' relationship with a tranny but then someone starts a thread about who's 'wifey material' and everyone posts pics of the hottest models they can find. I don't know about anyone else, but to me 'wifey material' refers to someone with both beauty and brains and someone with whom you have a lot in common. She's a person with whom you could settle down but also someone who could settle down with you. That's the problem with the models you all so enthusiastically proclaim you want to marry.

You all talk about not only the fact that the glamor girls that you so desire won't give you the time of day but that the girls here with 'normal' lives with whom you speak almost daily don't turn you on as much and so their names never appear on your 'who I want to marry' lists. You all talk about how you like trannies because you enjoy the 'lost femininity of a woman' as you continue to simultaneously complain about hyper-femininity, plastic surgery, fakeness, etc. to the point where you probably wouldn't even introduce one to your friends in reality, let alone marry one. So what gives?

With whom do you REALLY think you could spend the rest of your life?

~BB~
Anyone who comes on to a transsexual porn forum seriously entertaining thoughts of marriage is a naif.

BellaBellucci
10-05-2009, 06:34 PM
It is an interesting thread BellaBellucca . And i agree with giovanni_hotel that most of the men who post here are not groom material. And I am one of the cats who do not glorify the glamour girls here. In my personal life I have been with 'glamour' girls and 'normal, round' the way girls', with the glamour girls too much high maint and the normal girls too much baggage and mental disorders, as well as self esteem issues. So unfortunetly, given the choice, most guys will choose the glamour girls because it is eaier to deal the the high maintenance issue then the dysfunctional issues.

Wait a sec! You're telling me that the high maintenance girls don't have issues? You don't think Gucci, Prada, and Chanel are compensation for a messed up childhood? Oh, I'm pretty sure they are.

I think what you MEANT to say is that a lot of you guys will OVERLOOK issues that a girl has because she's just that damn hot. ;)

~BB~

buckjohnson
10-05-2009, 06:50 PM
It is an interesting thread BellaBellucca . And i agree with giovanni_hotel that most of the men who post here are not groom material. And I am one of the cats who do not glorify the glamour girls here. In my personal life I have been with 'glamour' girls and 'normal, round' the way girls', with the glamour girls too much high maint and the normal girls too much baggage and mental disorders, as well as self esteem issues. So unfortunetly, given the choice, most guys will choose the glamour girls because it is eaier to deal the the high maintenance issue then the dysfunctional issues.

Wait a sec! You're telling me that the high maintenance girls don't have issues? You don't think Gucci, Prada, and Chanel are compensation for a messed up childhood? Oh, I'm pretty sure they are.

I think what you MEANT to say is that a lot of you guys will OVERLOOK issues that a girl has because she's just that damn hot. ;)

~BB~

BellaBellucci

All females have maintenace issues, glamour or not. Just my personal experience has been they do not have the dysfunctional assocatied challenges that normal girls have. They may desire Chanel and Prada, but will settle for Target' if some other basic attention issues are satisfied. It also depends where you live. High maintenace in NYC is different than high maintenanace in Zanesville OH. Also competation plays a factor. Glamour girls in Chicago, LA, and NYC are plentiful and quite frankly, easy to pick up. Glamour girls in Des Moines IA, are in demand and require a lot more attention and motivation from the fellows. Which means you have to bring a higher "A game". My stroll in Chicago is completly different then how I stroll in a small town in PA or OH. Though the product line in Chicago is higher rated,, the effort require to acquire is much less. I hope this makes sense, as I am trying to explain a complicated economic model (supply and demand) in a porn forum while using woman in my analogies. Probably not the most productive attempt.

Merkurie
10-05-2009, 07:24 PM
Actually quite a few girls who post on this board seem pretty cool. LTR or marriage should be about compatibility not looks or size of the wallet.

Pretty soon, within the next decade, some high profile celeberity is going to openly date or marry a t-girl. Then in the resultant media scrum it will come out that ordinary people have done so as well. I doubt all those high school and college age tgirls are spending all of their time alone.

SarahG
10-05-2009, 07:38 PM
What defines "groom material" ?

That depends on what people want/are looking for.

BellaBellucci
10-05-2009, 08:01 PM
What defines "groom material" ?

That depends on what people want/are looking for.

Well for starters, one would hope people wouldn't marry somebody JUST because they're attractive as the men here seem to be saying they would.

~BB~

SarahG
10-05-2009, 09:46 PM
What defines "groom material" ?

That depends on what people want/are looking for.

Well for starters, one would hope people wouldn't marry somebody JUST because they're attractive as the men here seem to be saying they would.

~BB~

He was talking about groom material/potential which is somewhat different from the issue of appearances.

Money does play a role of some kind. I'm not saying someone has to be Bill Gates to have good potential as a groom- but if his finances are so in the toilet that people are repossessing his stuff, that's not a good sign. Why? Because a marriage isn't just two people who (in theory) love each other forming a partnership, but it blends their finances together... which would mean that if the groom's finances are in the toilet, the wife will have to worry about whether they try to put a lean on HER house that she already had, or whether or not her car will get repo'd. She could lose everything, not just her credit. The way our country deals with marriages makes them very different from two people who are an unwed couple. All of those ramifications should be kept in mind.

But that just factors into the bigger issue of stability. Its not a good thing if the groom or the bride is a mess (substance abuse/addiction problems for instance, not taking care of their health, etc.). If its meant to be then it wouldn't be a problem if a couple stays as an unwed LTR until they can get their shit together.

baileyandkc
10-05-2009, 09:58 PM
Sexxxy Jade, Nautica, Johanna B and Alyssa because they seem like they're fun to be with...all the rest goes right out the window..
but hey its a 2 way street, tough enough to have one wide open lane...the odds of both lanes bein open aren't good...thus divorce..
but if you find those open lanes, don't hesitate..the Big M beats single life any day of the week!

2009AD
10-05-2009, 10:00 PM
Anyone who comes on to a transsexual porn forum seriously entertaining thoughts of marriage is a naif.

Correct, which is why this thread is so funny.

As Mimi Plastic would say "Why so serious?"

It's a porn forum.

DL_NL
10-05-2009, 10:20 PM
Quite frankly it'd take more than text on a screen, however intelligent and well-worded, for me to decide I'd like to marry someone. I don't think this is the place to find someone, though there are several girls here whom I admire greatly.