Girls: Can you help yourself?

[evilernie]

If you befriend a nice, good looking guy. He knows that your a tg, do have enough self-control and not want to screw him? After all, I'm sure you still have the male libido.

I know, for us guys, it's very difficult to have a "platonic" relationship. Sex always creeps up our minds.

[Avagadro]

There are no such things as platonic relationships iyam (beyond acknowledgable acquantainces I mean).

[SarahG]

Are you being serious or sarcastic evilernie? I am getting both vibes from the wording of this o.p.

[evilernie]

I'm serious. I'm wondering if you can really take out the man from the girl. Guys are always horny and cannot keep a relationship with a girl to "just friends". He may not act on it, but he'll definitely explore it in his thoughts.

Many (dare I say majority) of girls (ggs) prefer shoes over sex.

[Dirky]

I can see this thread going over real well.

[SarahG]

Well, if you're serious- your question is based off of a false assumption.

"After all, I'm sure you still have the male libido. "

It's not that simple. There are some people who never had that "male libido" to begin with, there are people who have a male libido only when they go off of HRT (also remember not everyone goes off of hrt like that).

As to "taking the man out of the girl"- again its not that simple, for a lot of people they never were that "stereotypical man" to begin with.

[rockabilly]

The state of "Platonica" .... it's my own private Idaho.

[evilernie]

Oh well. I guess I need to rephrase then. I'm aiming for something like that old Seinfeld episode where they took a bet on how long one can go without masturbating. All guys thought that its not fair for Elaine to join such competition because she's a girl.

So are all tgirls nymphos?

[SarahG]

So are all tgirls nymphos?

All? Most definitely not.

[rockabilly]

Maybe in the mystical universe of porn ... but irl i doubt it.

[SarahG]

There are a LOT of trans girls out there who are as asexual as asexual gets. No sex drive what-so-ever.

I kinda think a lot of it is angst related, but I am just guessing.

[rockabilly]

"Teenage angst has paid off well , now i'm bored and old"

[CaptainGeech]

Yeah. That's one thing that I've heard before. That many are asexual and any advances in the bedroom will result in hesitation or flat out denial. I don't know if that's just how they are chemically/mentally programmed or if they are waiting to get a SRL and feel ashamed. Either way I think its a shame. You should enjoy yourself. And if you can find someone who enjoys you as well I think that's a good thing.

[SXFX]

Estrogen is the worlds greatest cock blocker.
It also scrambles a girls thought process.
And thus you can safely assume that your average TS girl is just slightly and I do mean slightly hornier than your average chick.
The only + on ts girls is that odds are their legs look better.

[SarahG]

on ts girls is that odds are their legs look better.

That made me lol

[SXFX]

Cellulite is a direct result of the underlying skin structure which is different in men than in women due to estrogen levels.
The more estrogen the more fibrous the underlying structure and the more "hail damage" is visible.

[SarahG]

Cellulite is a direct result of the underlying skin structure which is different in men than in women due to estrogen levels.
The more estrogen the more fibrous the underlying structure and the more "hail damage" is visible.

Weird, I always thought it was going off of estrogen (i.e. menopause) that causes it.

[SXFX]

Nope, that makes it worse in that the fat that once held the skin tight redistributes to the mid section.
Don't get me wrong Tgirls can get cellulite as well but it's never as bad nor as prevalent as it is with Ggirls.

[SarahG]

Nope, that makes it worse in that the fat that once held the skin tight redistributes to the mid section.
Don't get me wrong Tgirls can get cellulite as well but it's never as bad nor as prevalent as it is with Ggirls.

Breast cancer risks are lower too irrc.

[SXFX]

Estrogen is a very interesting hormone.
Then again so is testosterone.
But when it comes to sex drive testosterone wins out every time!
Want to find horny chicks? Go hang out at the Gym and check out the girl that is really working out.
Not the one there to look pretty.

[peggygee]

Of course transwomen are capable of platonic relationships with men.

Transwomen are not the sex crazed nymphos that the men on this forum,
or viewers of trans porn believe or fantasize them to be.

Transwomen, true transwomen are not men with tits, and do not
have the same libidinal urges as testosterone fueled men.

[BellaBellucci]

After all, I'm sure you still have the male libido.


I'm sorry. To whom are you referring? That's an awfully broad statement you've made there.

~BB~

[BellaBellucci]

Nope, that makes it worse in that the fat that once held the skin tight redistributes to the mid section.
Don't get me wrong Tgirls can get cellulite as well but it's never as bad nor as prevalent as it is with Ggirls.

Breast cancer risks are lower too irrc.

You know a lot about this kind of stuff and I hate to admit I have cellulite (baffles my doctors lol), but what do you recommend to get rid of it?

~BB~

[eclipsemint]

I misread this thread title entirely.

I thought he was asking: if there any desperate girls on this site who shag anything that moves, they might even be so hard up enough to jump his bones.



Now Ernie had a rival, an evil-looking man,
Called Two-Ton Ted from Teddington and he drove the baker's van.
He tempted her with his treacle tarts and his tasty wholemeal bread,
And when she seen the size of his hot meat pies it very near turned her head.

She nearly swooned at his macaroon and he said, "If you treat me right,
You'll have hot rolls every morning and crumpets every night."
He knew once she sampled his layer cake he'd have his wicked way,
And all Ernie had to offer was a pint of milk a day.

Poor Ernie, (Ernieeeeeeeeeee)
And he drove the fastest milk cart in the west.

[eclipsemint]

PS: No offense, Ern. Just playin, my friend!

[SarahG]

Nope, that makes it worse in that the fat that once held the skin tight redistributes to the mid section.
Don't get me wrong Tgirls can get cellulite as well but it's never as bad nor as prevalent as it is with Ggirls.

Breast cancer risks are lower too irrc.

You know a lot about this kind of stuff and I hate to admit I have cellulite (baffles my doctors lol), but what do you recommend to get rid of it?

~BB~

Don't some GG's get laser treatments for it? I can't remember if laser can treat that or if its just for spider veins.

[peggygee]

Nope, that makes it worse in that the fat that once held the skin tight redistributes to the mid section.
Don't get me wrong Tgirls can get cellulite as well but it's never as bad nor as prevalent as it is with Ggirls.

Breast cancer risks are lower too irrc.

You know a lot about this kind of stuff and I hate to admit I have cellulite (baffles my doctors lol), but what do you recommend to get rid of it?

~BB~

Don't some GG's get laser treatments for it? I can't remember if laser can treat that or if its just for spider veins.

I have some cellulite, and just accept that it is part of being a middle-aged woman. :shrug


Question: What Causes Cellulite and How Can I Get Rid of It?

Answer:

Ugggh, what is it with getting older? Cottage cheese pops up first on the backs of thighs, shows up later on the arms and eventually even on the calves (we saw a picture a couple years ago in US Weekly of Uma Thurman's cellulite calves!). So what is cellulite and how to get rid of it?

Contrary to popular belief, cellulite is not caused by excess weight. It's all in your genes, which explains why even skinny women can have it (hello Uma!). Cellulite is caused by clumps of fat cells that push up against surrounding fibrous connective tissue. "The inherent thinning of skin's support structure makes fat cells more obvious," according to *David J. Goldberg, MD, in the September, 2007, issue of Elle Magazine. This is what gives you dimples and what appears to be clumps of fat under your skin.

So how to get rid of it? Unfortunately, there's not much you can do ... for now. Much research is currently underway on laser therapies, but none of have proven completely viable (or we'd be lining up at our local dermatologists, with me heading up the line).
Until a "cure" is found, there are some options which some swear are minimally successful:

1. Exercise. Some personal trainers claim exercise can cut down on cellulite. Others suggest building up the muscles in the back of the leg and in the buttocks can mask cellulite.

2. Caffeine. Caffeine, the active ingredient in many cellulite creams, works by pushing water out of fat cells, temporarily reducing the apearance of dimples.

3. Treatments. Some people have found minimal success with Endermologie (not cheap at about $100 a session). This spa treatment rolls and suctions the skin breaking up fat tissue. The results can be significant, according to InStyle Magazine, but short-term.

4. Camouflage. Hide dimples with a fake tan. Self tanner darkens skin, effectively camouflaging dimples.

*Goldberg is clinical professor of dermatology and the director of laser research at Mt. Sinai School of Medicine in NYC.

[BellaBellucci]

I have some cellulite, and just accept that it is part of being a middle-aged woman. :shrug


Question: What Causes Cellulite and How Can I Get Rid of It?

Answer:

Ugggh, what is it with getting older? Cottage cheese pops up first on the backs of thighs, shows up later on the arms and eventually even on the calves (we saw a picture a couple years ago in US Weekly of Uma Thurman's cellulite calves!). So what is cellulite and how to get rid of it?

Contrary to popular belief, cellulite is not caused by excess weight. It's all in your genes, which explains why even skinny women can have it (hello Uma!). Cellulite is caused by clumps of fat cells that push up against surrounding fibrous connective tissue. "The inherent thinning of skin's support structure makes fat cells more obvious," according to *David J. Goldberg, MD, in the September, 2007, issue of Elle Magazine. This is what gives you dimples and what appears to be clumps of fat under your skin.

So how to get rid of it? Unfortunately, there's not much you can do ... for now. Much research is currently underway on laser therapies, but none of have proven completely viable (or we'd be lining up at our local dermatologists, with me heading up the line).
Until a "cure" is found, there are some options which some swear are minimally successful:

1. Exercise. Some personal trainers claim exercise can cut down on cellulite. Others suggest building up the muscles in the back of the leg and in the buttocks can mask cellulite.

2. Caffeine. Caffeine, the active ingredient in many cellulite creams, works by pushing water out of fat cells, temporarily reducing the apearance of dimples.

3. Treatments. Some people have found minimal success with Endermologie (not cheap at about $100 a session). This spa treatment rolls and suctions the skin breaking up fat tissue. The results can be significant, according to InStyle Magazine, but short-term.

4. Camouflage. Hide dimples with a fake tan. Self tanner darkens skin, effectively camouflaging dimples.

*Goldberg is clinical professor of dermatology and the director of laser research at Mt. Sinai School of Medicine in NYC.

Thank you. I intended to use a combination of all of these methods but was hoping maybe there was a cream or something. I should be so lucky.

~BB~

[loren]

Yes, it is possible to have a platonic relationship with a guy, although most guy are just interested in sex.

[alyssats]

yes im a certified nymphomaniac whenever i see cute boys my cock gets instantly hard and would love to rape all those cutie boys jeje

by the way on the serious note
when im on hormones i feel more behave,tame and girly
when im on no hormones i feel so fukcing horny my cock always hard 24 hours a day, i masterbate almost 2-3 times a day feel so good, so much surge of testosterone crazy!!!

[evilernie]

lol eclipse got it right. Although she'll have a very frustrating time.



I thought he was asking: if there any desperate girls on this site who shag anything that moves, they might even be so hard up enough to jump his bones.

Anyways, wonderful replies. I know being horny all the time is not my fault, it's biological.

[evilernie]

when im on no hormones i feel so fukcing horny my cock always hard 24 hours a day, i masterbate almost 2-3 times a day feel so good, so much surge of testosterone crazy!!!

I should have made that connection. So once a girl goes post-op, it's all over? Well, I'm assuming that the nuts comes off as well after the operation. But it feels so good to be horny, why give that up?

[SarahG]

when im on no hormones i feel so fukcing horny my cock always hard 24 hours a day, i masterbate almost 2-3 times a day feel so good, so much surge of testosterone crazy!!!

I should have made that connection. So once a girl goes post-op, it's all over? Well, I'm assuming that the nuts comes off as well after the operation. But it feels so good to be horny, why give that up?

Some postops go on low dosages of T to boost their sex drive.

Some GG's do the same thing when their sex drive dies.