Friend To Foe-Reasons To Hate A Friend?

[elo]

I have seen this more then once on HA.Two friends love each other to death.Then somethings happens and they hate each other till death or at least can´t stand each other.They start to call each other a crossdresser,boy in drag,fag...

I wonder what is the reason for such a radical change of feelings?

[rockabilly]

" Cocaines a hell of a drug " lol

[BeardedOne]

Speaking from personal experience:

One loaned the other a significant amount of money to help out their 'friend'.

The 'friend' either bolted on the loan or paid it back so long/late that it caused financial distress to the lender.

When the lender needed assistance, the aforementioned deadbeat said "Aw, what a shame" instead of stepping up to repay the favor.

In a perfect world, as in mine, said deadbeat would be in another financial bind and you'd be able to say (As I did), "Aw, what a shame" and hang the hell up of the irresponsible, unreliable, incompetent motherfucker.

Um...But that's just a random scenario.

[rockabilly]

What goes around comes around BeardedOne. Karma

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Elo I respect you and you're a great user in the forums but threads like this only lead to drama......

Eventually in this very thread some chicks will go for each others throats and it'll go on 10 pages or longer in senseless drama

I would though like to share my input on this:

Hormones + Weed + Alcohol + Cocaine + Heroin + Rent due + duct taped genitals DO NOT MIX!!!!!!!!!!!!!

JWBL

[BellaBellucci]

I blame this:

http://static.howstuffworks.com/gif/women-more-migraine-3.jpg

~BB~

[elo]

Thank you JWBL.I respect you too.I was aware of the problem but the curiosity won.Besides every thread can cause drama.Drama hits you on HA when you don´t expect it. :shrug

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Drama on HA is pale in comparison to drugged up drunken muhfuckas in realtime acting a fool when they see you in person and you've written them off.

But that's a twitter story for a twitter time ;)

[elo]

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Come on!Please don´t be so shy.This is a serious topic.I really want to know your reasons.

[peggygee]

Hormones + Weed + Alcohol + Cocaine + Heroin + Rent due + duct taped genitals DO NOT MIX!!!!!!!!!!!!!

JWBL

Oh no he didn't!

http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/popcorncrop.jpg

That one is signature worthy.


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Come on!Please don´t be so shy.This is a serious topic.I really want to know your reasons.

My take on it is drugs, money, personality quirks, and perceived slights.

If a women, with a fragile ego isn't being "ooh and ahhed" over and
another girl is, then you have a volatile situation.

Couple that lack of attention translating into lost revenue for the woman,
throw in some substance abuse, and you've now gone "nucular", as this
thread assuredly will. :P

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

If a women, with a fragile ego isn't being "ooh and ahhed" over and
another girl is, then you have a volatile situation.

Couple that lack of attention translating into lost revenue for the woman,
throw in some substance abuse, and you've now gone "nucular", as this
thread assuredly will. :P

THAT'S SIGNATURE WORTHY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I fuckin ADORE YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[BeardedOne]

What goes around comes around BeardedOne. Karma

If Karma worked as it should, my 'friends' would self-combust. :evil:

[rockabilly]

maybe they are 'feeling the burn' in another way. :shrug:

[BellaBellucci]

You all should remember too that sometimes girls aren't really friends - they're more like passive-aggressive business partners that you can't buy out because the niche is so small. That said, many friendships here are based on business ties and when that business goes sour or ends girls either steal each other's ideas or get jealous of one another.

Moral of the story? Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.

~BB~

[rockabilly]

Well a true friend stabs you in the front.

[BellaBellucci]

Well a true friend stabs you in the front.

I totally agree. People are selfish and if one ever wants any friends they just have to deal with that as best they can. I think people overlook a lot of flaws in the way people treat each other in the name of 'friendship.'

~BB~

[rockabilly]

Well i treat everyone nice and am kind to everyone. Treat others as you would want to be treated.

[BellaBellucci]

Well i treat everyone nice and am kind to everyone. Treat others as you would want to be treated.

Then I suggest you never get into the porn business. lol

~BB~

[rockabilly]

Yeah i'd be too much for you. ;) I'm a behind the scenes player , my performances are private affairs. ;) Ever had a " Peppermint Fatty " ?

[BrendaQG]

Hormones + Weed + Alcohol + Cocaine + Heroin + Rent due + duct taped genitals DO NOT MIX!!!!!!!!!!!!!

JWBL

Oh no he didn't!

http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/popcorncrop.jpg

That one is signature worthy.


Bump!

Come on!Please don´t be so shy.This is a serious topic.I really want to know your reasons.

My take on it is drugs, money, personality quirks, and perceived slights.

If a women, with a fragile ego isn't being "ooh and ahhed" over and
another girl is, then you have a volatile situation.

Couple that lack of attention translating into lost revenue for the woman,
throw in some substance abuse, and you've now gone "nucular", as this
thread assuredly will. :P

Nuclear? Don't you mean salavage? lol

But that has to be THE best example of what this post is talking about, me Vanessa, and Mimi were the 3 musketeer's for a while there. Then the badness happened. It wasn't any one thing it was little things here an there, each being a different persons fault. Usually all of our faults at the same time. All of us had/have insecurities which could play off eachother in a good way, or a bad way. What I will say was my fault is that I lack the ability to small talk, or you know BS around or read for fun. When I talk I have to have a point, and all to often the way I express it is unnecessarily sharp.

I have forgiven all that happened back then and moved on. The last time I saw either of them was almost one year ago. :_(

[elo]

You all should remember too that sometimes girls aren't really friends - they're more like passive-aggressive business partners that you can't buy out because the niche is so small. That said, many friendships here are based on business ties and when that business goes sour or ends girls either steal each other's ideas or get jealous of one another.

Moral of the story? Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.

~BB~Could it be that you have,saying this,well known party girls on your mind,Bella?

[BellaBellucci]

You all should remember too that sometimes girls aren't really friends - they're more like passive-aggressive business partners that you can't buy out because the niche is so small. That said, many friendships here are based on business ties and when that business goes sour or ends girls either steal each other's ideas or get jealous of one another.

Moral of the story? Keep your friends close and your enemies closer.

~BB~Could it be that you have,saying this,well known party girls on your mind,Bella?

Huh? lol

~BB~

[elo]

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[blacktgirls]

a reason to hate a friend when a blunt smoking , giggling , ass and legs of a man , horse toothed jackass , loose wig during a photo shoot , Drag Queen blogs that her best friend has HIV / AIDS what's more pathetic is when the friend who was wronged and the other TS girls still talk with and hang out with this former NBA star who dated Madonna .

[freak]

They never really loved each other, they just like the others company. If you love someone it takes a lot to hate, hate is a very strong feeling.
And if they are just internet friends then they really don't even know if they like that person at all. I do hate a few peoples views on this board but I can not say I hate them as a person.

[mtbazz]

I dropped who I thought was my best friend of over 20 years this time last year. We grew up together, I went to college and got a good job. He didnt and when he is not unemployed is driving a truck.

The guy never really had much, and I loaned him money from to time, and also gave him things I no longer had use for (not junk either, things that were expensive new, and were still in excellent working and cosmetic shape).

From time to time I would ask for help in return, not often, and not anything major. A ride someplace, help moving furniture around my place....He helped, but never really for free, and I always had to practically beg for help when I needed it.

Eventually it got to the point where I realized I only saw this person when they needed money, or at dinner time when he would show up to eat, and than run.

The straw that broke the camels back was that on the day my Mother died, he drove by my house, saw me and stopped, and when I told him what happened the dude stepped on the gas and drove off without saying anything. Havent spoken to him since, and I have no interest in every seeing or hearing from him again.

Some people just don't realize that a friendship is a two way street, and is based on mutual respect.

[elo]

I dropped who I thought was my best friend of over 20 years this time last year. We grew up together, I went to college and got a good job. He didnt and when he is not unemployed is driving a truck.

The guy never really had much, and I loaned him money from to time, and also gave him things I no longer had use for (not junk either, things that were expensive new, and were still in excellent working and cosmetic shape).

From time to time I would ask for help in return, not often, and not anything major. A ride someplace, help moving furniture around my place....He helped, but never really for free, and I always had to practically beg for help when I needed it.

Eventually it got to the point where I realized I only saw this person when they needed money, or at dinner time when he would show up to eat, and than run.

The straw that broke the camels back was that on the day my Mother died, he drove by my house, saw me and stopped, and when I told him what happened the dude stepped on the gas and drove off without saying anything. Havent spoken to him since, and I have no interest in every seeing or hearing from him again.

Some people just don't realize that a friendship is a two way street, and is based on mutual respect.It seems that you never had a friendship with this guy.He realized that he can utilise you fully.So he utilised you fully.Now you realized how he really is.Lesson learned.

[elo]

After reading through some pages:BUMP!