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explicit
09-08-2009, 04:39 AM
I've recently met a pretty TS at school. She is very attractive and passes well. I am pretty sure the other students do not suspect anything. We have hung out together and she has made it clear that she is interested in me.

For what it's worth I am interested also. The question is. How do I tell her that I know? Do i just wait until she tells me? What if I decide to not peruse, should I still tell her that I know?

I need help from the HA here.

Thanks

AmyDaly
09-08-2009, 04:39 AM
You don't.

Wait for her to tell you.

jjhill
09-08-2009, 04:40 AM
Yea don't say shit! Let her bring it up

MrsKellyPierce
09-08-2009, 04:41 AM
I personally wouldn't say anything. You are into here too obviously. So that is all that matters. Give it time and let her come clean on her own.

2009AD
09-08-2009, 04:45 AM
I've recently met a pretty TS at school. She is very attractive and passes well. I am pretty sure the other students do not suspect anything.

Clearly it's a no brainer. You keep your mouth shut until she brings it up.

What makes you so sure she's a tgirl?

explicit
09-08-2009, 04:47 AM
I personally wouldn't say anything. You are into here too obviously. So that is all that matters. Give it time and let her come clean on her own.

Ok.. say when and if confession day comes. How do I act? I am the worst. Do I play it has I am shocked or play it cool? Do I say that I knew all along? How would she feel to know that she is attracted to a guy that likes TS girls?

I dont know what to do

explicit
09-08-2009, 04:49 AM
I've recently met a pretty TS at school. She is very attractive and passes well. I am pretty sure the other students do not suspect anything.

Clearly it's a no brainer. You keep your mouth shut until she brings it up.

What makes you so sure she's a tgirl?

What makes me so sure? I don't know how to explain it. I just know a tgirl when I see one. I've been a fan pretty much all my life. I have a keen eye.

Coroner
09-08-2009, 04:52 AM
You just stay patient and let her confess (in whatever way). :lol:

You mention school..... how old are you?

jjhill
09-08-2009, 04:55 AM
I personally wouldn't say anything. You are into here too obviously. So that is all that matters. Give it time and let her come clean on her own.

Ok.. say when and if confession day comes. How do I act? I am the worst. Do I play it has I am shocked or play it cool? Do I say that I knew all along? How would she feel to know that she is attracted to a guy that likes TS girls?

I dont know what to do

Act normal. How long have yall been talking? I know what you mean about having that eye. I have that eye too. Gotta love New York City.

explicit
09-08-2009, 04:56 AM
You just stay patient and let her confess (in whatever way). :lol:

You mention school..... how old are you?

lol. I go to college. Im 28

Coroner
09-08-2009, 04:58 AM
Ok, ok. Good luck with your girl.

JamesHunt
09-08-2009, 04:59 AM
What makes you so sure she's a tgirl?

he noticed the bulge in the changing rooms :lol:

Alyssa87
09-08-2009, 05:05 AM
shes gonna feel like an asshole when you tell her you already knew.lol

maybe yours if youre lucky.

canihavu
09-08-2009, 05:07 AM
Everyone here has pretty much hit the nail on the head. She will bring it up when she feels the time is right...

Sparky_Mark
09-08-2009, 05:09 AM
Take a ninja pic. We'll confirm your suspicions for you.

explicit
09-08-2009, 05:11 AM
Act normal. How long have yall been talking? I know what you mean about having that eye. I have that eye too. Gotta love New York City.

I've known her now for almost a year.


shes gonna feel like an asshole when you tell her you already knew.lol

I don't want her to feel that way.


Take a ninja pic. We'll confirm your suspicions for you.

I have pictures of her. And I don't think it'll be right to post them here without her consent.

jjhill
09-08-2009, 05:11 AM
Will you be dissapointed if she doesn't have a dick? lol

explicit
09-08-2009, 05:15 AM
Will you be dissapointed if she doesn't have a dick? lol

Not really. Im 100 % sure

Alyssa87
09-08-2009, 05:15 AM
shes gonna feel like an asshole when you tell her you already knew.lol

I don't want her to feel that way.





i was just guessing.


while honesty is the best policy,
you might not want to tell her that you already like tgirls. or that u post here.
girls like that tend to keep away from guys that already do it with tgirls.

AmyDaly
09-08-2009, 05:19 AM
I personally wouldn't say anything. You are into here too obviously. So that is all that matters. Give it time and let her come clean on her own.

Ok.. say when and if confession day comes. How do I act? I am the worst. Do I play it has I am shocked or play it cool? Do I say that I knew all along? How would she feel to know that she is attracted to a guy that likes TS girls?

I dont know what to do

Just say something like Oh wow, I would never of guessed. Don't tell her that you knew or you thought you knew. Do not do that.

Just say, wow, I never would of known. I don't care, I like you for you.

rockabilly
09-08-2009, 05:33 AM
Good advice Amy.

JamesHunt
09-08-2009, 05:53 AM
explicit is taking the piss :roll:

trish
09-08-2009, 05:56 AM
Amy and Alyssa had the correct initial reactions: don't tell her. Believe me, it's quite upsetting to be clocked. Just interact normally with her. Show her you're an understanding, open minded, amicable person. And don't be afraid to demonstrate, in a gentlemanly fashion, your interest in her. If things progress, when she's ready, she'll tell you.

worldbro
09-08-2009, 07:33 AM
fuck this advice OP, be a man and tell her you know and use the old country music methaphor;
you know tell her your attraction to her is like music, you know how you(or most people) have the attitude that I like all music except country, then you hear that one country song that is so pleasing to your ears you cannot honestly say that you dislike country music anymore
tell her her she is like that one country song that you heard and that she is so beautiful that she changed you mindset on what you thought you could be attracted to physically.
trust me my dude, this shit works, she will never suspect that you are a platinum member of shemaleyum
don't take these other peoples advice, unless you want to stay a virgin


ps: and after you take my advice, pics or it didn't happen!

BLKGSXR
09-08-2009, 07:43 AM
Dude im not going to say tell her dont tell her blah blah blah-Do what feels right to you. If your feeling her(interested in her) do what you think is correct-Yes Amy,Alyssa,and trish have good points but not everyone is alike so theirs either live with a lie burdening you inside of you or confessing you've known... Hope it helps if not I tried :D

flabbybody
09-08-2009, 07:52 AM
shes gonna feel like an asshole when you tell her you already knew.lol

maybe yours if youre lucky.

NEVER TELL HER YOU KNEW, EVER
it's essential to act shocked, but not to the point where it's over the top phoney cuz then she'll read you and you'll be as dead as a waterbug in the kitchen when the lights get turned on
u make like you've barely heard of transexuals but mention u saw Ru Paul once and thought she was talented
when u make your move stay away from ground zero. under no circumstances do u go near her man part until she's laughing at your jokes and watching NFL football games with u.

then it may be safe

and post her pics on HA so we can c if this is all worth it

BLKGSXR
09-08-2009, 07:53 AM
shes gonna feel like an asshole when you tell her you already knew.lol

maybe yours if youre lucky.

NEVER TELL HER YOU KNEW, EVER
it's essential to act shocked, but not to the point where it's over the top phoney cuz then she'll read you and you'll be as dead as a waterbug in the kitchen when the lights get turned on
u make like you've barely heard of transexuals but mention u saw Ru Paul once and thought she was talented
when u make your move stay away from ground zero. under no circumstances do u go near her man part until she's laughing at your jokes and watching NFL football games with u.

then it may be safe

and post her pics on HA so we can c if this is all worth ityou mean right-click SAVE! :lol:

Alyssa87
09-08-2009, 08:23 AM
all the deception and planning that im reading is a bit depressing. all that to get a piece of dick.
one of the top reasons i wish i wasnt transgender.

anyway


I say tell her how you feel. That youre interested. Ask her out formally.
I sense theres been some tension building between you two because both of you want each other, but no one is making the move.
A bold move like that will easily sweep her off her feet.

She should spill the t then, then tell her you just don’t care.
If she asks if you knew already, then shes asking for trouble.
More than she already has.

but all the lying and games is building a house on sand.
if your goal is to sit on her dick, then fib away.
But if she's as great as you make her out to be, i think she deserves a bit more than that.
This could be something great.

mealticket
09-08-2009, 08:33 AM
Hey I've actually had the same thing happen to me. I waited and she told me. But I think its good to be honest. Do you really want to start off a relationship by lieing? Tell her u like ts and find an eloquent way to say u knew. When the girl that I knew told me, I was like yeah I had a feeling but was waiting until you told me because I wanted you to have you privacy. I said its amazing we met cuz i actually like ts. Keep it positive and its good, but i dont believe in deception and saying you didnt know or that u dont like ts, just my two cents

AmyDaly
09-08-2009, 08:36 AM
all the deception and planning that im reading is a bit depressing. all that to get a piece of dick.
one of the top reasons i wish i wasnt transgender.


yea, but guys don't know that the heck they are doing

Alyssa87
09-08-2009, 08:37 AM
all the deception and planning that im reading is a bit depressing. all that to get a piece of dick.
one of the top reasons i wish i wasnt transgender.


yea, but guys don't know that the heck they are doing

you mean like, their game isnt that tight?

or they dont know the damage theyre causing?

giovanni_hotel
09-08-2009, 08:38 AM
If you tell her you already know that she's transgender, think about what it is you're REALLY telling her.

Either that you suspect she's not passable, or that you're interested in something more than her perceived femininity.

It's like if a GG/TG knew a guy had a 10 inch cock through the grapevine, but he didn't know she knew.
If the girl brings up prior knowledge about his endowment, and if the guy really likes her, it kind of starts everything off on the wrong foot.

BTW, it always kills me that so many TGs want men who aren't attracted to tgirls, yet those guys genuinely into TG women are rejected from jump.

That's twisted IMO.

Some dudes like blondes. Some brunettes.

Just because he likes you, doesn't mean he doesn't like YOU.

For some transgendered women to suggest there's something abnormal about men who are into tgirls, well, is really very sad.

And brah you're better off waiting until that moment of truth, because you could be WRONG.

Plenty of TGs in clothes look just like any GGs, and vice versa. It's not always the easiest call to make.

flabbybody
09-08-2009, 08:46 AM
men subtract 3 inches from their belt size
men subtract 15 pounds from their weight
men add 3 inches to their dick size
men subtract 8 years from their age
men add $25,000 to their salary
men say the have 5 more friends than the really know
men say they were always the one to end a relation
it's not something we do knowingly, it's beyond our control.
Every woman we meet is genetic, and when we find out otherwise it creates a great delima for us. Of course we've chased trannys all our adult lives, but men have very bad memories

AmyDaly
09-08-2009, 08:49 AM
all the deception and planning that im reading is a bit depressing. all that to get a piece of dick.
one of the top reasons i wish i wasnt transgender.


yea, but guys don't know that the heck they are doing

you mean like, their game isnt that tight?

or they dont know the damage theyre causing?
BOTH

Alyssa87
09-08-2009, 08:52 AM
all the deception and planning that im reading is a bit depressing. all that to get a piece of dick.
one of the top reasons i wish i wasnt transgender.


yea, but guys don't know that the heck they are doing

you mean like, their game isnt that tight?

or they dont know the damage theyre causing?
BOTH

hmm--
i think their game is pretty tight.
and even if it isnt, we want to believe it. because the lonelies will push you to.
and they could care less about the damage.

which is why so many new young girls that the guys all love become the jaded bitches they come to hate.
its not magical.

fred41
09-08-2009, 09:07 AM
It's funny how people overthink things sometimes.If you really wanted to start something with this girl, then you should have asked her out already.....because to me...asking these questions before hand on a site like this sometimes comes across as a bit too calculated. At 28 , you're old enough to know how to talk to a person and tell them how you feel about them....let sincerity be your guide. I can't tell you when you should tell her you know (about her being TS) because it all comes down to the type of relationship you have with her and the type of personality you are dealing with.If you really like her ..then you'll know how and when to tell her that you know (assuming, of course, that you are correct)..it'll just happen at some point. The thing you need to do, first and foremost, is -tell her how you feel about her!!!!...but like Alyssa says..don't let this be built on lies (just so you can bag a TS)..especially if you're really looking to be with this girl for purposes other than just sexual.

One other thing...if this works out and you develop something special....don't ever come back to this site again...because you won't have to...and never ever even think about posting private pics on here, no matter how things turn out.

phobun
09-08-2009, 10:57 AM
For what it's worth I am interested also. The question is. How do I tell her that I know? Do i just wait until she tells me? What if I decide to not peruse, should I still tell her that I know?
Go for it. But treat her like a gentleman would treat a woman regardless of what happens and don't bring it up.

explicit
09-08-2009, 01:42 PM
It's funny how people overthink things sometimes.If you really wanted to start something with this girl, then you should have asked her out already.....because to me...asking these questions before hand on a site like this sometimes comes across as a bit too calculated. At 28 , you're old enough to know how to talk to a person and tell them how you feel about them....let sincerity be your guide. I can't tell you when you should tell her you know (about her being TS) because it all comes down to the type of relationship you have with her and the type of personality you are dealing with.If you really like her ..then you'll know how and when to tell her that you know (assuming, of course, that you are correct)..it'll just happen at some point. The thing you need to do, first and foremost, is -tell her how you feel about her!!!!...but like Alyssa says..don't let this be built on lies (just so you can bag a TS)..especially if you're really looking to be with this girl for purposes other than just sexual.

One other thing...if this works out and you develop something special....don't ever come back to this site again...because you won't have to...and never ever even think about posting private pics on here, no matter how things turn out.

Good advise people. Thanks

Thanks Alyssa87

jcinva
09-08-2009, 03:02 PM
How do I tell her that I know?Thanks

If you're going to go that route, be subtle, sensitive, and considerate of everyone's feelings. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WgOIEGz7o_s)

fordly66
09-08-2009, 03:17 PM
Explicit, don't bring up the fact that you know she is transgendered. If she is stealth like you say, she will think other people can read her also. Just go with her instincts and she will tell you when it feels right for her. After a day or two, you tell her you did some research and found some forums to educate yourself on the subject. Then you can tell her about HA, and you won't seem like the tranny chaser that you are, he he. Do you even know if she is pre-op or post-op?

jaycanuck
09-08-2009, 04:33 PM
hmm--i think their game is pretty tight..

I think I'd classify my game as snakes and ladders.

CaptainGeech
09-08-2009, 07:36 PM
Interesting read. Good lucky buddy. I don't have any tips for you. Seems like dating a TS and appreciating her for her uniqueness (unicorn factor) is a lose lose situation. :shrug

tsntx
09-08-2009, 07:40 PM
sweetie... and im gonna be nice bc im fond of your signiture


just be yourself...if and when it comes out.... just do or say whatever feels naturally.... but to er on the side of better judgement... just stay calm and be supportive and thank her for her honesty

lilly_exohexoh
09-08-2009, 07:43 PM
this is exactly what you say:
oh what? i would have never guessed. i could care less, i dig you.

peggygee
09-08-2009, 08:27 PM
I've recently met a pretty TS at school. She is very attractive and passes well. I am pretty sure the other students do not suspect anything.

Clearly it's a no brainer. You keep your mouth shut until she brings it up.

What makes you so sure she's a tgirl?

What makes me so sure?

I don't know how to explain it.

I just know a tgirl when I see one.

I've been a fan pretty much all my life. I have a keen eye.

You're 28, in college, and looks like you've taken the "Spot The Tranny" class.

But you may have missed the follow up course, "What Do I Do When I
Find One."

Me-thinks, you may want to go back and take the pre-requisite corse
"Dating 101", because the process for dating her is the same as dating
any other woman.

I trust that you had that in junior high, or high school?

As to the paparazzi imploring you to submit a picture to see if she is worth
the effort, please tell the pic collectors to give it a rest.

http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/paparazzi400.jpg

:P

alyssats
09-08-2009, 08:32 PM
I've recently met a pretty TS at school. She is very attractive and passes well. I am pretty sure the other students do not suspect anything.

Clearly it's a no brainer. You keep your mouth shut until she brings it up.

What makes you so sure she's a tgirl?

What makes me so sure?

I don't know how to explain it.

I just know a tgirl when I see one.

I've been a fan pretty much all my life. I have a keen eye.

You're 28, in college, and looks like you've taken the "Spot The Tranny" class.

But you may have missed the follow up course, "What Do I Do When I
Find One."

Me-thinks, you may want to go back and take the pre-requisite corse
"Dating 101", because the process for dating her is the same as dating
any other woman.

I trust that you had that in junior high, or high school?

As to the paparazzi imploring you to submit a picture to see if she is worth
the effort, please tell the pic collectors to give it a rest.



:P

you sure you can spot a tranny?

can you spot the tranny/trannies here?

http://i26.tinypic.com/2iw7l1.jpg

careful the tranny youre talking about might be a gg :wink:

erty0
09-08-2009, 09:40 PM
they all look real to me
man i lost

muhmuh
09-08-2009, 09:53 PM
all the deception and planning that im reading is a bit depressing. all that to get a piece of dick.
one of the top reasons i wish i wasnt transgender.


yea, but guys don't know that the heck they are doing

we cant help it its in our genes
its impossible to multitask and thus impossible to know what were doing while were doing it

have you ever noticed how guys stop breathing when they think?


this is exactly what you say:
oh what? i would have never guessed. i could care less, i dig you.

i would forget about the 'exactly' if he does that it will sound rehearsed and ingenuine

Alyssa87
09-08-2009, 10:46 PM
Thanks Alyssa87

you are welcome.

i hope everything works out and you two fall in love with eachother.

BeardedOne
09-08-2009, 11:30 PM
Wow!

I am truly at a loss here. :shock:

:claps :claps :claps :claps :claps

"The Locker Room" steps up.

I am at once stunned and impressed that the advice given here, with some small exceptions, is not only spot on but well thought out.

I agree, that she should be the one to reveal the truth about her status. I also agree that you should temper your reaction (But not to the point of shock and disbelief). If she comes clean about herself, so should you: Keeping your interest in T-gurls a sekrit can come back to bite you on the ass someday. This is not to say that you should be blissfully shouting at her "That is sooo cool! Because I love shemales!".

But you wouldn't do that, I assume, because your polite demeanor here on the forum sez otherwise.

As far as pictures/proof of your relationship: I sincerely hope that you might someday post a pic or two of you and your mate having a nice dinner or romping on the beach on your honeymoon. Don't laugh, it's already happened. Good luck.

explicit
09-09-2009, 01:43 AM
How do I tell her that I know?Thanks

If you're going to go that route, be subtle, sensitive, and considerate of everyone's feelings. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WgOIEGz7o_s)

funny


Do you even know if she is pre-op or post-op?

good question. I don't know if she is pre or post. I really don't care either way.


sweetie... and im gonna be nice bc im fond of your signiture


just be yourself...if and when it comes out.... just do or say whatever feels naturally.... but to er on the side of better judgement... just stay calm and be supportive and thank her for her honesty

thanks Ms Justice


this is exactly what you say:
oh what? i would have never guessed. i could care less, i dig you.

Again, I am the worst actor. lol


i hope everything works out and you two fall in love with eachother.

Love? slow down lol. From the pace of this thread, we'll be married by the time it reaches 6 pages. :D

StaggerLee
09-09-2009, 02:09 AM
Shithell--I just spent an hour and 6 beers responding with my life story, only to have it timed out. I will not be doing that again...
Here is the abridged version, Explicit- While I see the points of the girls who responded here,and do understand...but perhaps this girl is waiting for you to initiate things.
My first real love was with a girl who was waiting for me to come to her about it.We had been friends for a while, I was just out of a relationship, and we spent a lot of time together. Soon I realized I was falling for her, and out of the blue one of her friends told me that she was TG. I had no idea about any of that, and assumed that meant she had had 'all the surgery'.
I had no fucking clue what to do or say, so of course I did nothing.
Then one time after a nite of drinking, I told her I had a friend who just had a sex-change operation. It was total BS, but I tried to act like it was no big deal, and I was Ok with it. Whatever that meant.
And then she says to me 'Oh..so you know?'
That was the icebreaker. She told me many times after that, that she would have never had the nerve to tell me if I hadn't first brought it up. Maybe that's true, we'll never know.
My point is this-She and I were together for almost three years,and I was very much in love with her. It was some of the best times of my life, and I wouldn't trade one week I had with her for anything in this world.
Sometimes you have to just go for it, or you could be spending the rest of your life wondering 'what if'?
I hope this helps you some-and doesn't just come across as drunken ramblings. But I know if I had it to do all over again, i would do it exactly the same...
Good Luck, my friend

explicit
09-09-2009, 02:15 AM
She and I were together for almost three years,and I was very much in love with her. It was some of the best times of my life, and I wouldn't trade one week I had with her for anything in this world.

If you don't mind me asking. What happened?

Alyssa87
09-09-2009, 02:19 AM
i hope everything works out and you two fall in love with eachother.

Love? slow down lol. From the pace of this thread, we'll be married by the time it reaches 6 pages. :D

slow down?

you dont want to be in love?

Yoite
09-09-2009, 02:34 AM
Pics or it didn't happen.

explicit
09-09-2009, 03:26 AM
slow down?

you dont want to be in love?

Yes. However, baby steps Alyssa. Baby steps.

Alyssa87
09-09-2009, 03:27 AM
slow down?

you dont want to be in love?

Yes. However, baby steps Alyssa. Baby steps.

i wasnt saying for it to happen tomorrow.

relax.
i could have wished for you to be alone untill you die.

explicit
09-09-2009, 04:01 AM
relax.
i could have wished for you to be alone untill you die.

please don't wish that on me. I'm a nice guy.

lordworm
09-09-2009, 04:38 AM
How exactly do you "spot" a tgirl?

SarahG
09-09-2009, 05:12 AM
Again, I am the worst actor. lol


That sounds like your big mistake; thinking you need to be acting.

You need to be doing the opposite; unless she point blank asks you "if you knew" (at which point your options are; tell the truth or lie) all you have to do is downplay it once you find out.

A simple "oh, like people can tell something like that these days" statement would probably suffice. Otherwise just react truthfully (which in this case would be "I really don't care what your genitalia is one way or another-").

dan_drade
09-09-2009, 09:24 AM
Here is the deal. You keep quiet about it until she brings it up. Once she tells you, you can politely tell her that you had a feeling that she was a transsexual woman. However, if you tell her that, you also have to come clean with her. What I mean by that is you have to tell her that you are an admirer. Once you both come clean with each other you can hopefully have a long relationship with her openly and honestly. I think most girls understand that guys like us have a little better t-dar than the average person.

JackLovesTSs
09-09-2009, 09:44 AM
Once for a girl working in a straight strip bar, I made an off hand remark, within earshot, about going to Chicago for the Miss Continental pageant. GGs don't know what it is, TSs then know your not a prejudiced redneck violent asshole which allows them to relax a bit around you. Then just so you don't offend her, if she's GG, and if she questions you about it, you just change the subject as you would if going was "your" secret. It's a subtle way to let her know your into it.

transmaven
09-09-2009, 11:16 AM
In all matters of the heart, no advice is the best advice.

Carpe diem always holds true, however. :wink:

explicit
09-09-2009, 01:21 PM
How exactly do you "spot" a tgirl?
Is that a general question for the board?

I can't explain how I can 'spot' them, I just can.

StaggerLee
09-09-2009, 06:26 PM
Explicit, we just grew apart. We blamed it on my family and then on her new job, whatever was going on at the time. The truth of it was that she fell in love with someone else...and they are still together, with a beautiful family--and my dog! So it was not meant to be, for me-but I still do not regret a thing (except maybe the dog).

Silcc69
09-09-2009, 06:54 PM
I'm not buying that someone can spot any TGIRL from a mile away.

collegeguy21
09-09-2009, 07:16 PM
Does anyone agree that she should probably tell him and not lead him on. She could be the most attractive fem passable tgirl on the planet and she could have an amazingly fun personality but she SHOULD TELL YOU. There are so many issues with keeping a secret like that.

Time to shift the conversation from should you tell her to why is she not telling you

JackLovesTSs
09-09-2009, 07:45 PM
Does anyone agree that she should probably tell him and not lead him on. She could be the most attractive fem passable tgirl on the planet and she could have an amazingly fun personality but she SHOULD TELL YOU. There are so many issues with keeping a secret like that.

Time to shift the conversation from should you tell her to why is she not telling you

It's her own personal business, besides he thinks he's figured it out.

Many issues, yeah, and all good. Personally my number one fantasy to meet a totally passable TS and not know until sex. And not just me, it's the subject of hundreds of Penthouse letters, movies, books. What TS lover wouldn't like that?

As for why she doesn't tell him, because she doesn't have to. Maybe it'll never get serious, in which case why would she want him to "know"? So he can "out" her to everyone? Assuming in this thread that he doesn't know for sure, then there's still the possibility that she ISN'T. Maybe she's AIS or XXY, maybe she just has some typically male features, which many print models have, and are sought after.

explicit
09-09-2009, 09:29 PM
I'm not buying that someone can spot any TGIRL from a mile away. I never said anything about her being a mile away. We have hung out together, taken a course together. Talked on phone etc... I can bet my right foot she is a TS.

Shifting now, I don't know if I agree with the idea that she SHOULD say something. I may decide to NOT persue her. I am just questioning whether I should say something first. I want to know or this case and pr future refrence.

tsntx
09-09-2009, 09:34 PM
Does anyone agree that she should probably tell him and not lead him on. She could be the most attractive fem passable tgirl on the planet and she could have an amazingly fun personality but she SHOULD TELL YOU. There are so many issues with keeping a secret like that.

Time to shift the conversation from should you tell her to why is she not telling you

unless the relationship becomes physical there is no obligation to tell someone that

kinda like an std

dan_drade
09-09-2009, 09:48 PM
I'm not buying that someone can spot any TGIRL from a mile away. I never said anything about her being a mile away. We have hung out together, taken a course together. Talked on phone etc... I can bet my right foot she is a TS.

Shifting now, I don't know if I agree with the idea that she SHOULD say something. I may decide to NOT persue her. I am just questioning whether I should say something first. I want to know or this case and pr future refrence.

Just fucking ask her out and quit lolligagging on this board moaning about it. The fact is that you are attracted to her and she may be attracted to you. You will never find out if you just hang out with her as friends and attlend your little classes together.

It sounds like she is a nice girl whether she is a TS or a GG. If she is a TS, she will probably tell you before things get physical, and if she does not tell you, its not like it would be a big surprise or you would be pissed off. You know you would love it is she pulled out a nice cock for you. So go out and ask her out already. :)

BTW, don't mention a fucking thing unless she does first. Don't act like you are the tranny master. Some girls get pissed of at that kind of shit. Just be cool and let her be the one to tell you. Jesus fucking christ, would you go up to a GG and tell her that you have great lesbian-dar and tell her that you know she has been with other girls? That could be down right offensive and so would telling a nice TS that you know what she is.

The next time you post on this thread, it should be to tell us all that you have met the girl of your dreams and that she is the greatest girl you have ever dated.

Git er done!!

SarahG
09-09-2009, 09:50 PM
I'm not buying that someone can spot any TGIRL from a mile away. I never said anything about her being a mile away. We have hung out together, taken a course together. Talked on phone etc... I can bet my right foot she is a TS.

Shifting now, I don't know if I agree with the idea that she SHOULD say something. I may decide to NOT persue her. I am just questioning whether I should say something first. I want to know or this case and pr future refrence.

Just fucking ask her out and quit lolligagging on this board moaning about it. The fact is that you are attracted to her and she may be attracted to you. You will never find out if you just hang out with her as friends and attlend your little classes together.

It sounds like she is a nice girl whether she is a TS or a GG. If she is a TS, she will probably tell you before things get physical, and if she does not tell you, its not like it would be a big surprise or you would be pissed off. You know you would love it is she pulled out a nice cock for you. So go out and ask her out already. :)

BTW, don't mention a fucking thing unless she does first. Don't act like you are the tranny master. Some girls get pissed of at that kind of shit. Just be cool and let her be the one to tell you. Jesus fucking christ, would you go up to a GG and tell her that you have great lesbian-dar and tell her that you know she has been with other girls? That could be down right offensive and so would telling a nice TS that you know what she is.

The next time you post on this thread, it should be to tell us all that you have met the girl of your dreams and that she is the greatest girl you have ever dated.

Git er done!!

That and if he does approach her, only for her to actually be a slightly masculine GG- saying "I think you were born with a dick" won't exactly go over well.

dan_drade
09-09-2009, 09:53 PM
I'm not buying that someone can spot any TGIRL from a mile away. I never said anything about her being a mile away. We have hung out together, taken a course together. Talked on phone etc... I can bet my right foot she is a TS.

Shifting now, I don't know if I agree with the idea that she SHOULD say something. I may decide to NOT persue her. I am just questioning whether I should say something first. I want to know or this case and pr future refrence.

Just fucking ask her out and quit lolligagging on this board moaning about it. The fact is that you are attracted to her and she may be attracted to you. You will never find out if you just hang out with her as friends and attlend your little classes together.

It sounds like she is a nice girl whether she is a TS or a GG. If she is a TS, she will probably tell you before things get physical, and if she does not tell you, its not like it would be a big surprise or you would be pissed off. You know you would love it is she pulled out a nice cock for you. So go out and ask her out already. :)

BTW, don't mention a fucking thing unless she does first. Don't act like you are the tranny master. Some girls get pissed of at that kind of shit. Just be cool and let her be the one to tell you. Jesus fucking christ, would you go up to a GG and tell her that you have great lesbian-dar and tell her that you know she has been with other girls? That could be down right offensive and so would telling a nice TS that you know what she is.

The next time you post on this thread, it should be to tell us all that you have met the girl of your dreams and that she is the greatest girl you have ever dated.

Git er done!!

That and if he does approach her, only for her to actually be a slightly masculine GG- saying "I think you were born with a dick" won't exactly go over well.

That would be embarassing for both of them.

jjhill
09-11-2009, 07:23 AM
Make sure she's not an escort

explicit
09-11-2009, 12:45 PM
Make sure she's not an escort
She's not. I know where she works. And i've browsed the ads and never seen her listed.

Jericho
09-11-2009, 01:14 PM
Make sure she's not an escort
She's not. I know where she works. And i've browsed the ads and never seen her listed.

Dude, better ask her out before you get arrested for stalking her! :shock:

explicit
09-11-2009, 01:16 PM
Make sure she's not an escort
She's not. I know where she works. And i've browsed the ads and never seen her listed.

Dude, better ask her out before you get arrested for stalking her! :shock:
Dude I have asked her already. We've been out several times.

dan_drade
09-12-2009, 08:50 AM
Make sure she's not an escort
She's not. I know where she works. And i've browsed the ads and never seen her listed.

Dude, better ask her out before you get arrested for stalking her! :shock:
Dude I have asked her already. We've been out several times.

We need details man. :)

explicit
09-12-2009, 03:36 PM
We need details man. :)

what would you like to know? We've gone out for drinks. Lots of tall and flirting from her. She's love to take pictures of herself. Her bedroom is 'too' pink. I found pink on pink.