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blacktgirls
08-31-2009, 10:36 AM
is there really a bisexual part of the lgbt community ? i've never seen a bisexual group march at the parade. do they really exist and if they do are bisexuals a hole in the theory of being born gay ?

Nicole Dupre
11-13-2009, 02:58 PM
is there really a bisexual part of the lgbt community ? i've never seen a bisexual group march at the parade. do they really exist and if they do are bisexuals a hole in the theory of being born gay ?

Maybe you didn't see them because you were too busy daydreaming about sucking dick and getting fucked in the ass. Just a "theory" about a "hole", Or, in your case, an 'A' -hole. lol

archineer
11-13-2009, 03:59 PM
Thats because we're not really part of the community. Predominatley gay bisexuals tend to claim to be gay/lesbian as its easier- there's alot of skepticism and mistrust from the community to us. Lesbians in particular mistrust bisexual women as they often have bad experiences with them, usualy being left for a man. Not everyone is like this of course, maybe two thirds are accepting, but alot see us as part timers, or gays that need to just 'come out fully'.

Mostly straight bisexual men tend to live in the closet, marry a woman and sleep with guys on the side- you'll find loads of them on gaydar. Straight women are really put off by bi men (they're worried we'll run off with a guy) so it understandable. Its also often percieved as submissive/unmasculine.

Mostly straight bisexual women tend to marry men and only come out to their husbands and close friends. They have fewer acceptance issues though.

Openly bisexual people often tend to be part of the fetish/swinging scene. They tend to be more 50/50 in preference and usualy marry each other too. I've only met one 50/50 bisexual man- though he wasn't part of the swinging scene and led a 'normal' life. He was out and in a gay relationship when I knew him. He took alot of flak though off his gay friends.

I'm generalising of course, everyones different. I'm a 75% straight bisexual (a kinsey 2 maybe?) yet i'm out. Thats mostly because I prefer tgirls and If found they're nore accepting of bi's than gay's and straights often are.

peggygee
11-13-2009, 09:04 PM
Thats because we're not really part of the community. Predominatley gay bisexuals tend to claim to be gay/lesbian as its easier- there's alot of skepticism and mistrust from the community to us. Lesbians in particular mistrust bisexual women as they often have bad experiences with them, usualy being left for a man. Not everyone is like this of course, maybe two thirds are accepting, but alot see us as part timers, or gays that need to just 'come out fully'.

Mostly straight bisexual men tend to live in the closet, marry a woman and sleep with guys on the side- you'll find loads of them on gaydar. Straight women are really put off by bi men (they're worried we'll run off with a guy) so it understandable. Its also often percieved as submissive/unmasculine.

Mostly straight bisexual women tend to marry men and only come out to their husbands and close friends. They have fewer acceptance issues though.

Openly bisexual people often tend to be part of the fetish/swinging scene. They tend to be more 50/50 in preference and usualy marry each other too. I've only met one 50/50 bisexual man- though he wasn't part of the swinging scene and led a 'normal' life. He was out and in a gay relationship when I knew him. He took alot of flak though off his gay friends.

I'm generalising of course, everyones different. I'm a 75% straight bisexual (a kinsey 2 maybe?) yet i'm out. Thats mostly because I prefer tgirls and If found they're nore accepting of bi's than gay's and straights often are.

Pretty good synopsis, and one that I have heard articulated before.

I feel that the "B" was added much like the "T" to bolster the ranks of the
"GL" community.

And you're right about how I would feel about being in a relationship
with a bisexual man, I would tend to be worried about him needing to
have his "dick itch' scratched. :?

As to me, I am more of a 1 to 1.5 if we could fractionalize the Kinsey
rating scale, much prefer the sausage to the taco, though the personality
of the individual really swings the vote.

http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/images/rating-scale.jpg

0- Exclusively heterosexual with no homosexual
1- Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2- Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3- Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4- Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5- Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6- Exclusively homosexual

cadcad
11-13-2009, 09:11 PM
I would tend to be worried about him needing to
have his "dick itch' scratched. :?


hahahaaha dick itch I'm gonna use that

peggygee
11-13-2009, 09:14 PM
I would tend to be worried about him needing to
have his "dick itch' scratched. :?


hahahaaha dick itch I'm gonna use that

I knew someone was going to pick that one up, and run with it.

:lol:

sugdaddie69
11-13-2009, 09:15 PM
Shit the transgender community on this forum can't get along.Whether its girls transitioning vs. girls who already have, vs. crossdresser, vs. tranny chasers vs. escorts vs. porn stars, vs. web stars vs. tranny parties, vs. tops vs. bottoms, vs. straight vs. gay, vs. bi, vs. tri...( try anything sexually)........ahhh shut up!!! ok i will.

archineer
11-13-2009, 11:14 PM
Thats because we're not really part of the community. Predominatley gay bisexuals tend to claim to be gay/lesbian as its easier- there's alot of skepticism and mistrust from the community to us. Lesbians in particular mistrust bisexual women as they often have bad experiences with them, usualy being left for a man. Not everyone is like this of course, maybe two thirds are accepting, but alot see us as part timers, or gays that need to just 'come out fully'.

Mostly straight bisexual men tend to live in the closet, marry a woman and sleep with guys on the side- you'll find loads of them on gaydar. Straight women are really put off by bi men (they're worried we'll run off with a guy) so it understandable. Its also often percieved as submissive/unmasculine.

Mostly straight bisexual women tend to marry men and only come out to their husbands and close friends. They have fewer acceptance issues though.

Openly bisexual people often tend to be part of the fetish/swinging scene. They tend to be more 50/50 in preference and usualy marry each other too. I've only met one 50/50 bisexual man- though he wasn't part of the swinging scene and led a 'normal' life. He was out and in a gay relationship when I knew him. He took alot of flak though off his gay friends.

I'm generalising of course, everyones different. I'm a 75% straight bisexual (a kinsey 2 maybe?) yet i'm out. Thats mostly because I prefer tgirls and If found they're nore accepting of bi's than gay's and straights often are.

Pretty good synopsis, and one that I have heard articulated before.

I feel that the "B" was added much like the "T" to bolster the ranks of the
"GL" community.

And you're right about how I would feel about being in a relationship
with a bisexual man, I would tend to be worried about him needing to
have his "dick itch' scratched. :?

As to me, I am more of a 1 to 1.5 if we could fractionalize the Kinsey
rating scale, much prefer the sausage to the taco, though the personality
of the individual really swings the vote.

http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/images/rating-scale.jpg

0- Exclusively heterosexual with no homosexual
1- Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2- Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3- Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4- Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5- Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6- Exclusively homosexual

I'm more into the person than anything else too. If i'm in love no one else matters- I could give up guys for the right girl. Don't you find bi men are more accepting of your t status, don't have the hang ups of straight men and are more willing to be seen in public with you?

BeardedOne
11-14-2009, 12:00 AM
Interesting discussion. Though there are some truly bisexual people in the world (I refer to them as 'genuine' bi as opposed to 'ersatz' bi ), my personal experience has been that more women fall into the genuine category while most men lie about it. The latter operating on the belief that any ass/mouth will do in a storm as long as they don't do the dreaded 'reach around' that is oft referred to here on the forums (Because that would defeat the illusion that they are still 'straight').

I've seen bisexual groups at some of the larger rallies and Pride events, but they are typically a minor showing in the warm body count. I haven't been to a major event in some years (The last being the March on Washington...In the last century), but would not be too surprised to discover that the trans groups significantly outnumber the openly bisexual people.

Generally, true bisexuals will be forever branded as undecided fence-sitters by the communities that we feel more comfortable in because said communities (GBT) are predetermined to define our sexual/emotional activities by our birth gender. If a guy likes cock, he's gay and if a woman likes kitty, she's a dyke. Anything that crosses outside of these black and white boundaries is either a 'phase' or 'denial'.

We've heard it all. "She's a four-year lesbian" and "He's just bi-curious". To this day, my ex/mother of my son, believes that I am 100% gay because I like to suck cock. Never mind the nights of torrid love-making when I pounded her into the sheets and licked her into blissful oblivion. Yah, that' sooo gay. :roll:

Would that we could all see it thusly:

**Spoiler alert** I've told this tale a dozen times here and elsewhere. If you've read it before, just look away.

Some years ago I knew (And am still in touch with the woman) a politically active couple from the mid-Atlantic region of the Eastern US. She defined herself as a lesbian while there was never any title placed or claimed on the man (Though I would rate him around a Kinsey 1-3, based on personality). They were very open about their sexuality and socio-sexual political leaning (Very pro-GLBT).

At a press conference in Richmond, I believe, a reporter approached the woman and in the line of questioning discovered that she was married. Though same-sex marriage was as yet unheard of, the reporter assumed "Oh! To a woman!" to which my friend replied <Pointing across the room> "No, to that man, there!". Intrigued at the possibility of greater spectacle, the reporter darted across the room to her husband.

In the ensuing interview, the reporter naturally made the assumption that since my friend was male and his wife female (Her dykeism aside) that he was heterosexual. "Oh, I'm not heterosexual." was the reply. "Oh...Then you're bisexual." was the next progression of blind guessing. "No, I'm not bisexual" was the reply, which led the reporter to the only logical conclusion (Or so he thought): "Ah, I see, you are also homosexual!".

The straightforward and very honest reply, which confused the hell out of the reporter, was simply "I'm just sexual!".

There are, quite possibly, millions of variations in the color spectrum. Why do we keep seeing things in just black and white?

Flash92
11-14-2009, 12:08 AM
I'm in a mixed category...

I'm in the category of guys who are attracted to cock but don't find the male body attractive at all.

I've dated mostly girls but had a versatile tgirl girlfriend for almost 8 months my 2nd year of college and loved it. Currently I've been happily with my girl for 2 years, but miss having a cock to play with (other than my own lol)

Distance
11-14-2009, 12:19 AM
Maybe you didn't see them because you were too busy daydreaming about sucking dick and getting fucked in the ass. Just a "theory" about a "hole", Or, in your case, an 'A' -hole. lol

Your day job for 45 years till now. :lol:


In any case, for me: bisexuals...are just gay and afraid to admit it, like an alibi of some sort.

flabbybody
11-14-2009, 12:20 AM
I'm in a mixed category...

I'm in the category of guys who are attracted to cock but don't find the male body attractive at all.

I've dated mostly girls but had a versatile tgirl girlfriend for almost 8 months my 2nd year of college and loved it. Currently I've been happily with my girl for 2 years, but miss having a cock to play with (other than my own lol)

well put flash92
I think that's a fairly succint description of chasers

archineer
11-14-2009, 12:30 AM
Double post

archineer
11-14-2009, 12:33 AM
Maybe you didn't see them because you were too busy daydreaming about sucking dick and getting fucked in the ass. Just a "theory" about a "hole", Or, in your case, an 'A' -hole. lol

Your day job for 45 years till now. :lol:


In any case, for me: bisexuals...are just gay and afraid to admit it, like an alibi of some sort.

This is exactly what i'm on about. Bisexual people exist. While some gay men claim to be bi initialy, we're not all closet gays.

Nicole Dupre
11-14-2009, 02:20 AM
Maybe you didn't see them because you were too busy daydreaming about sucking dick and getting fucked in the ass. Just a "theory" about a "hole", Or, in your case, an 'A' -hole. lol

Your day job for 45 years till now. :lol:


In any case, for me: bisexuals...are just gay and afraid to admit it, like an alibi of some sort.

What's up with the dumb guestimate on my age, sissy? Yuh know, I wouldn't listen to chimps in wigs everytime they pass you a banana, you uptight homo.

Yes, I called you a homo. Go ahead and deny it, you cum-licking fruit.

Distance
11-14-2009, 09:49 PM
Maybe you didn't see them because you were too busy daydreaming about sucking dick and getting fucked in the ass. Just a "theory" about a "hole", Or, in your case, an 'A' -hole. lol

Your day job for 45 years till now. :lol:


In any case, for me: bisexuals...are just gay and afraid to admit it, like an alibi of some sort.

What's up with the dumb guestimate on my age, sissy? Yuh know, I wouldn't listen to chimps in wigs everytime they pass you a banana, you uptight homo.

Yes, I called you a homo. Go ahead and deny it, you cum-licking fruit.

Tell us your age then, Mister. Do it once again...

Ooh, gay? Coming from the almighty fucked up gay lord, this is a true compliment. Now go get that cucumber back in your stinky ass, will ya? :roll:

blckhaze
11-14-2009, 10:19 PM
If ur on this forum, your not 100% straight anymore. Sorry.


Now ur not what I deem a classic bisexual, but like the graph posted earlier, we're all somewhere in the 1-3 range, some even 4 or higher (you cock bandits know who u are)

BrendaQG
11-14-2009, 11:08 PM
I used to be in the "gay straight or lying" camp. Now that I'm older I think that real bissexuals exist.

By real bissexuals I mean people who are attracted to both men and women at the same time, in the same period of their life. For that period they are bisexual they are really bisexual.

Some will discover that they like men more than occasionally and will come out as gay. Some will not and will remain bisexual.

Just as some people start out on the TG spectrum thinking oh I just like to dress every once in a while, or "I'm just a drag queen not one of those strange transsexuals" ... Then they come out as transsexual.

That said there is one thing I don't buy. That is that gender transition can change ones sexual orientation. It's possible for them to change at the same time. It's wrong to think that taking hormones can "unlock the female within" who of course as a true woman must like men. Some studies have been done where hormones were used to try and make gay men straight, that never worked.

blacktgirls
11-15-2009, 01:02 AM
I used to be in the "gay straight or lying" camp. Now that I'm older I think that real bissexuals exist.

By real bissexuals I mean people who are attracted to both men and women at the same time, in the same period of their life. For that period they are bisexual they are really bisexual.

Some will discover that they like men more than occasionally and will come out as gay. Some will not and will remain bisexual.

Just as some people start out on the TG spectrum thinking oh I just like to dress every once in a while, or "I'm just a drag queen not one of those strange transsexuals" ... Then they come out as transsexual.

That said there is one thing I don't buy. That is that gender transition can change ones sexual orientation. It's possible for them to change at the same time. It's wrong to think that taking hormones can "unlock the female within" who of course as a true woman must like men. Some studies have been done where hormones were used to try and make gay men straight, that never worked.if what you are saying is that sexuallity is a choice and can stay the same or change over time depending on the desires of each individual person then i agree with your point ......i don't believe that at birth a person's sexuality is already determined .

IMISSHER
11-15-2009, 02:14 AM
my attraction is 50/50, always has been, never wavers. we are a real. legitimate group. i prefer women and t/g, but a certain male look really turns me on. i strictly top and have no interest in bottom. i use to think that i was just gay in denial, bit having reached middle age with mi bi status affirmed. i know exactly what i am.

question for the board. do you think we are legitimate?

BrendaQG
11-15-2009, 07:02 AM
I used to be in the "gay straight or lying" camp. Now that I'm older I think that real bissexuals exist.

By real bissexuals I mean people who are attracted to both men and women at the same time, in the same period of their life. For that period they are bisexual they are really bisexual.

Some will discover that they like men more than occasionally and will come out as gay. Some will not and will remain bisexual.

Just as some people start out on the TG spectrum thinking oh I just like to dress every once in a while, or "I'm just a drag queen not one of those strange transsexuals" ... Then they come out as transsexual.

That said there is one thing I don't buy. That is that gender transition can change ones sexual orientation. It's possible for them to change at the same time. It's wrong to think that taking hormones can "unlock the female within" who of course as a true woman must like men. Some studies have been done where hormones were used to try and make gay men straight, that never worked.if what you are saying is that sexuallity is a choice and can stay the same or change over time depending on the desires of each individual person then i agree with your point ......i don't believe that at birth a person's sexuality is already determined .

Not exactly.

What I personally belive is that when it comes to any complex behavior there is an element of biology, choice, and chance. For example a man can be biologically born gay, he or she has a choice on how to express that (they either come out and embrace a gay identity, or go on the down low). Sheer chance comes into play because, suppose a man is attracted to men but finds the occasional woman attractive too? Say he's 90% more likely to be with a man than a woman is he bissexual? Is he gay?

I have advocated this very expalination for years. That all of these things are discrete spectra, neither bimodal like a coin toss, or smoothly varied like a rainbow, more like a box of crayons. A variety of colors or shades of gender and sexuality combined in a large but finite number of ways.

I guess villification is my award for laying down too much natural philosophy. :-?

blacktgirls
11-15-2009, 07:48 AM
I guess villification is my award for laying down too much natural philosophy. :-?it's the unfortunate chance meeting of the kind of people in this world that wreak destruction down upon the kind of heart . it always sucks to meet and be taken advantage of by these sorts of people . look at Rihanna even she got burned . she said afterwards that even the sound of Chris Brown's voice made her ill and thats when she knew that she had to leave that relationship .on the bright side Brenda , you have an intelligence that even i am envious of and an education that most people never achieve .

HP1000
11-15-2009, 09:54 AM
:D

tsmandy
11-15-2009, 01:01 PM
Bi-sexuals don't have much community per se, but the queer community is large and very open to fluidity with gender expression and sexuality. Generally queers are supportive of each other fucking whomever as long as they are not straight. Most people that are truly bi-sexual end up in queer community at some point, because it is really the only place that makes sense.

I'm really lucky to have queer community. Queer community is also generally very supportive of polyamory, gender fuck, BDSM, and most importantly for me sex workers. So many of my queer family has at one point or another been involved in the sex trade (largely because we have less issues confusing sex with love and less hangups about sex in general).

I tell straight people I'm bi-sexual but thats kind of a misnomer. I would never be in a relationship with a straight man or woman for that matter. I love fucking men and women regardless of their sexualities (kind of a prerequisite for sex work), but I only date queer people.

SarahG
11-15-2009, 04:16 PM
if what you are saying is that sexuallity is a choice and can stay the same or change over time depending on the desires of each individual person then i agree with your point ......i don't believe that at birth a person's sexuality is already determined .

Suppose for argument's shake that it was not determined at birth.

The logic does not hold that this would make it a choice.

A great many things can happen after birth that are not a choice- like developmental problems (I don't mean to imply that bisexuality is a pathology- more trying to say that the body can do things people have no control over after birth), or socialization (which acts subliminally over time). Most people are socialized to some extent without even realizing it, thus the effects of which are not always under ones' control... or not under control in all ways at all times. Whether this be cultural norms like clothing/fashion, or mannerisms, or language- how people act has a lot to do with their environment, and not always as the result from stopping to question ones' practices.

Do you know why you talk the way you do? Does everyone with an accent choose to have an accent or was that simply the effects of their environment, out of their influence?

Nicole Dupre
11-15-2009, 06:10 PM
Maybe you didn't see them because you were too busy daydreaming about sucking dick and getting fucked in the ass. Just a "theory" about a "hole", Or, in your case, an 'A' -hole. lol

Your day job for 45 years till now. :lol:


In any case, for me: bisexuals...are just gay and afraid to admit it, like an alibi of some sort.

Is 45 how old your grandfather was when he fondled your little penis? That's fucking sick. But, regardless, it's not my age. I'll be 30 in just under 2 months, as if you'd know that anyway. Go back and remind Hara that she was born in 1969, and is still fixated on Madonna. <~ Talk about "old". lol

(10, 9, 8, 7, 6. 5....)

Oh, and bisexual is an activity status, you moron. It means that you're generally attracted to more than one gender. BTW straight guys would NEVER even bother posting what you just did. They wouldn't care, you fag.

Btw, don't keep using that laughing icon every time you say something stupid. People will start to think you're gay AND retarded, and that's no way for a queer like you to go through life. We already know you can't speak or spell in English well. You're really batting zero so far.

peggygee
11-16-2009, 05:31 AM
Thats because we're not really part of the community. Predominatley gay bisexuals tend to claim to be gay/lesbian as its easier- there's alot of skepticism and mistrust from the community to us. Lesbians in particular mistrust bisexual women as they often have bad experiences with them, usualy being left for a man. Not everyone is like this of course, maybe two thirds are accepting, but alot see us as part timers, or gays that need to just 'come out fully'.

Mostly straight bisexual men tend to live in the closet, marry a woman and sleep with guys on the side- you'll find loads of them on gaydar. Straight women are really put off by bi men (they're worried we'll run off with a guy) so it understandable. Its also often percieved as submissive/unmasculine.

Mostly straight bisexual women tend to marry men and only come out to their husbands and close friends. They have fewer acceptance issues though.

Openly bisexual people often tend to be part of the fetish/swinging scene. They tend to be more 50/50 in preference and usualy marry each other too. I've only met one 50/50 bisexual man- though he wasn't part of the swinging scene and led a 'normal' life. He was out and in a gay relationship when I knew him. He took alot of flak though off his gay friends.

I'm generalising of course, everyones different. I'm a 75% straight bisexual (a kinsey 2 maybe?) yet i'm out. Thats mostly because I prefer tgirls and If found they're nore accepting of bi's than gay's and straights often are.

Pretty good synopsis, and one that I have heard articulated before.

I feel that the "B" was added much like the "T" to bolster the ranks of the
"GL" community.

And you're right about how I would feel about being in a relationship
with a bisexual man, I would tend to be worried about him needing to
have his "dick itch' scratched. :?

As to me, I am more of a 1 to 1.5 if we could fractionalize the Kinsey
rating scale, much prefer the sausage to the taco, though the personality
of the individual really swings the vote.

http://www.kinseyinstitute.org/resources/images/rating-scale.jpg

0- Exclusively heterosexual with no homosexual
1- Predominantly heterosexual, only incidentally homosexual
2- Predominantly heterosexual, but more than incidentally homosexual
3- Equally heterosexual and homosexual
4- Predominantly homosexual, but more than incidentally heterosexual
5- Predominantly homosexual, only incidentally heterosexual
6- Exclusively homosexual

I'm more into the person than anything else too. If i'm in love no one else matters- I could give up guys for the right girl. Don't you find bi men are more accepting of your t status, don't have the hang ups of straight men and are more willing to be seen in public with you?

A man that is prone to cheating will cheat no matter what I do.

But if he's bi and creeping then that's twice as many people I have to be
on guard for.

I can keep him pussy whipped and keep the hoochies away from him, but
if he is craving dick that he is out of luck, cause I'm not doing a strap on.

As to the being out in public, that's never been an issue.

tsHillary
11-16-2009, 05:35 AM
That chart is honestly horribly, horribly retarded.

No offense, Peggy.

peggygee
11-16-2009, 05:42 AM
Do you know why you talk the way you do? Does everyone with an accent choose to have an accent or was that simply the effects of their environment, out of their influence?

I figure I talk the way i do because of environment.

I've got a New York accent and hand gestures, because I'm a native New
Yorker , even thoough I've lived and or been around the world.

What's interesting is that family and my Mother's friends often confuse me
for her on the phone, which is great, cause they could be confusing me
for my Father. :lol:

phobun
11-16-2009, 05:50 AM
I'm more into the person than anything else too. If i'm in love no one else matters- I could give up guys for the right girl. Don't you find bi men are more accepting of your t status, don't have the hang ups of straight men and are more willing to be seen in public with you?
Lots of guys here think they are approaching relationships with an advantage... that they are more accepting of the girls than other men. And why do these guys feel it is necessary to point this out?

Implicit in his statement is the assumption the transsexual woman is somehow "less than"... that her trans-status taints her and makes her less desirable to be seen in public with.

The reality is that most of the guys here are less likely to find a mutually loving relationship with a transwoman than vice-versa.

phobun
11-16-2009, 05:52 AM
That chart is honestly horribly, horribly retarded.

No offense, Peggy.
How so?

SarahG
11-16-2009, 05:54 AM
Do you know why you talk the way you do? Does everyone with an accent choose to have an accent or was that simply the effects of their environment, out of their influence?

I figure I talk the way i do because of environment.

I've got a New York accent and hand gestures, because I'm a native New
Yorker , even thoough I've lived and or been around the world.

What's interesting is that family and my Mother's friends often confuse me
for her on the phone, which is great, cause they could be confusing me
for my Father. :lol:

So what day did you wake up, get out of bed, and decide to have a New Yorker accent? Or did it just kind of happen, on its own?

peggygee
11-16-2009, 05:56 AM
That chart is honestly horribly, horribly retarded.

No offense, Peggy.

Me take offense, nah, we have this man, noted sexologist
Alfred Charles Kinsey to blame or credit, as the case may be. :) (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_Reports)

http://en.academic.ru/pictures/enwiki/65/Akintervw.jpg

peggygee
11-16-2009, 06:18 AM
Do you know why you talk the way you do? Does everyone with an accent choose to have an accent or was that simply the effects of their environment, out of their influence?

I figure I talk the way i do because of environment.

I've got a New York accent and hand gestures, because I'm a native New
Yorker , even thoough I've lived and or been around the world.

What's interesting is that family and my Mother's friends often confuse me
for her on the phone, which is great, cause they could be confusing me
for my Father. :lol:

So what day did you wake up, get out of bed, and decide to have a New Yorker accent? Or did it just kind of happen, on its own?

Interesting that you asked, as I have always been fascinated by
languages and dialects, and have at times conscioously and not, adopted
the accents of the environments that I have been in.

I guess that I would say that I am a capable and cunning linguist.

gotchagood
11-16-2009, 06:31 AM
We all have urges, it's just a matter of acting on them or "not". There are "some" men out there with feminine gestures and effeminate looks, but you don't go around trying to stick your d*ck in em because of it. Those qualities doesn't mean that "they" are gay. IMO, as far as bisexuals, no matter how you slice it, you are making a conscious choice who to put in your bed at night or to take home, or to date.

I'm sure the "homosexual" community don't want "bisexual" questions popping up while trying to convince society of gay marriage, because if bisexual "is what it is", then that's a whole new different can of worms that I'm sure they "really" don't want to open.

Women can walk around claiming bisexual and living that lifestyle because for some reason society has given them a pass and acceptance, but for men society still wants to keep us oppressed in the "male" gender role, so it still remains sexual taboo for many.(sexism)

Have a great day

Nicole Dupre
11-16-2009, 10:49 AM
I'm more into the person than anything else too. If i'm in love no one else matters- I could give up guys for the right girl. Don't you find bi men are more accepting of your t status, don't have the hang ups of straight men and are more willing to be seen in public with you?
Lots of guys here think they are approaching relationships with an advantage... that they are more accepting of the girls than other men. And why do these guys feel it is necessary to point this out?

Implicit in his statement is the assumption the transsexual woman is somehow "less than"... that her trans-status taints her and makes her less desirable to be seen in public with.

The reality is that most of the guys here are less likely to find a mutually loving relationship with a transwoman than vice-versa.Please tell us more about your relationships w/ TS.

dun kingggg
11-16-2009, 10:53 AM
I'm in a mixed category...

I'm in the category of guys who are attracted to cock but don't find the male body attractive at all.


YEAH ME TOO WTF IS UP WITH THAT SHIT??

its the female form that gets me... i think its just the intrigue...

yeah lets chalk it up to that.

Nicole Dupre
11-16-2009, 10:59 AM
I decide my sexuality one fuck at a time. People, who actually dwell on what their sexuality supposedly is, need to fuck a lot more. They're too uptight, and very annoying.

dun kingggg
11-16-2009, 11:05 AM
I decide my sexuality one fuck at a time. People, who actually dwell on what their sexuality supposedly is, need to fuck a lot more. They're too uptight, and very annoying.

oui.... but uptightness begets more NOT fucking.... ahhh a vicious cycle in which the sexually repressed live.

Musclehead_tsluvr
11-16-2009, 11:06 AM
I decide my sexuality one fuck at a time. People, who actually dwell on what their sexuality supposedly is, need to fuck a lot more. They're too uptight, and very annoying.

This is the greatest thing ever. U said it all? Yes who are u to question? Who gives a fuck? Do a girl opens her skirt here suck my pussy. Am I gonna say NO? Fuck that. BUT Do I luv tranny cock? Do I want it? Fuck yes. So call me whatever the fuck u want. U rock Nikki

rocklob
11-16-2009, 10:36 PM
I am bisexual in the sense that I like cock, but not masculinity. This is such an old discussion. I am commenting here because I've often fantasized about getting with a tgirl along with my wife. Trouble is, with a tgirl I'm very submissive. I prefer to serve orally and be the bottom. Thia would definitely turn off my wife, who wants me dominant, which I am with her.
Oh well, that's why I get with tgirl escorts periodically.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
11-17-2009, 09:51 PM
Go back and remind Hara that she was born in 1969, and is still fixated on Madonna. <~ Talk about "old". lol



Quite an interesting reply denouncing your AGE, Fag! You wish I was old as you. lol Unfortunately, you can OD on female hormones, yet that won't change your MANLY mug, hater!

Here, let me remind you and everyone else how ANCIENT you really are! :lol:

http://harajukutgirl.blogspot.com/

Don't hate DINOSAUR! lol

~Kisses.

HTG

Nicole Dupre
11-17-2009, 10:38 PM
Go back and remind Hara that she was born in 1969, and is still fixated on Madonna. <~ Talk about "old". lol



Quite an interesting reply denouncing your AGE, Fag! You wish I was old as you. lol Unfortunately, you can OD on female hormones, yet that won't change your MANLY mug, hater!

Here, let me remind you and everyone else how ANCIENT you really are! :lol:

http://harajukutgirl.blogspot.com/

Don't hate DINOSAUR! lol

~Kisses.

HTG

Oh, look who crawled from under their rock! lol

What's up, baldy. Wanna get together sometime, and have a nice chat?

How's that forum and blog doing? ;)

Nicole Dupre
11-17-2009, 10:45 PM
World's Most Awesome TS BLOG! Read it, or everyone will know that you're gay!

http://www.nikki-dupre.com/uncategorized/hara-bald-crossdresser/

Nicole Dupre
11-17-2009, 10:53 PM
P.S. Hold on to your wig! I will be sharing the Hara Yum pics with HA soon! No fabrications, no made up quotes, no nonsense! Kisses, motherfucker! LMFAO!!!\

Hara_Juku Tgirl
11-17-2009, 11:08 PM
Lmao..At least, I know It's gotten some guys off and that shoot in particular - made me plenty of 'coins' from right after I did them. It's served its purpose. ;)

But how about you? Did you made any 'coins' after your 2006 shoot? Probably NOT! Hmm, I wonder why?!? :lol: But nice try, FAGGOT!

~Kisses.

HTG

Nicole Dupre
11-17-2009, 11:17 PM
BLOG!!!


http://www.nikki-dupre.com/uncategorized/hara-bald-crossdresser/


http://www.poster.net/chan-jackie/chan-jackie-photo-xl-jackie-chan-6232533.jpg

Hara_Juku Tgirl
11-17-2009, 11:39 PM
The CROW! lol

http://harajukutgirl.blogspot.com/

http://i11.photobucket.com/albums/a152/PerfectIsJustADream/TheCrow6.jpg

:lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

Nicole Dupre
11-17-2009, 11:39 PM
Lmao..At least, I know It's gotten some guys off and that shoot in particular - made me plenty of 'coins' from right after I did them. It's served its purpose. ;)

But how about you? Did you made any 'coins' after your 2006 shoot? Probably NOT! Hmm, I wonder why?!? :lol: But nice try, FAGGOT!

~Kisses.

HTG

Don't get pissed, dude. We'll simply look at the pics and take it from there. I mean, you'd think if you were so over this place and had your own forum, you'd have better things to do. Obviously not though.

So lets see how much progress you've made over the past 10 years. I think that's plenty fair. I mean, you've hated plenty on girls who transitioned long after you started calling yourself a TS. You were ready to publicly crucify Bella for being "untrue" when she's lightyears beyond you. But she's got current content, and will only get more and more popular. Even Monica has had her SRS already. Truth is, plenty of girls who transitioned after you have left you in the dust. You look like hammered shit, and you just started hormones a few months ago. So congrats on NOTHING!!!


Now scrub the poo from under your nails, and don't hate.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
11-17-2009, 11:49 PM
Lmao..At least, I know It's gotten some guys off and that shoot in particular - made me plenty of 'coins' from right after I did them. It's served its purpose. ;)

But how about you? Did you made any 'coins' after your 2006 shoot? Probably NOT! Hmm, I wonder why?!? :lol: But nice try, FAGGOT!

~Kisses.

HTG

Don't get pissed, dude. We'll simply look at the pics and take it from there. I mean, you'd think if you were so over this place and had your own forum, you'd have better things to do. Obviously not though.

So lets see how much progress you've made over the past 10 years. I think that's plenty fair. I mean, you've hated plenty on girls who transitioned long after you started calling yourself a TS. You were ready to publicly crucify Bella for being "untrue" when she's lightyears beyond you. But she's got current content, and will only get more and more popular. Even Monica has had her SRS already. Truth is, plenty of girls who transitioned after you have left you in the dust. You look like hammered shit, and you just started hormones a few months ago. So congrats on NOTHING!!!


Now scrub the poo from under your nails, and don't hate.

Pissy? Not even close. Again though, I know exactly why you're MAD! Cos after all the surge you've had, you're really not making those coins you hope will turn your life around and give IT meaning! I mean, pffff..you don't even got your own place (lease to your name) and is rooming with someone. lol Talk about being pretentious. And unlike you SIR, I never hated other girls. I'm NOT thee one who talks about them and their business behind their backs! YOU do! You are the one light years from being a woman much less passing as one! Let's be honest here, You've gotten breast so you can lay off hormones, am I correct? Because you told me that you had to buy Selagra (sp? generic viagra) just to keep up with some alleged clients. LMAO

You're a joke and your whole life was a lie, FAG. Just admit it!

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Nicole Dupre
11-17-2009, 11:58 PM
Lmao..At least, I know It's gotten some guys off and that shoot in particular - made me plenty of 'coins' from right after I did them. It's served its purpose. ;)

But how about you? Did you made any 'coins' after your 2006 shoot? Probably NOT! Hmm, I wonder why?!? :lol: But nice try, FAGGOT!

~Kisses.

HTG

Don't get pissed, dude. We'll simply look at the pics and take it from there. I mean, you'd think if you were so over this place and had your own forum, you'd have better things to do. Obviously not though.

So lets see how much progress you've made over the past 10 years. I think that's plenty fair. I mean, you've hated plenty on girls who transitioned long after you started calling yourself a TS. You were ready to publicly crucify Bella for being "untrue" when she's lightyears beyond you. But she's got current content, and will only get more and more popular. Even Monica has had her SRS already. Truth is, plenty of girls who transitioned after you have left you in the dust. You look like hammered shit, and you just started hormones a few months ago. So congrats on NOTHING!!!


Now scrub the poo from under your nails, and don't hate.

Pissy? Not even close. Again though, I know exactly why you're MAD! Cos after all the surge you've had, you're really not making those coins you hope will turn your life around and give IT meaning! I mean, pffff..you don't even got your own place (lease to your name) and is rooming with someone. lol Talk about being pretentious. And unlike you SIR, I never hated other girls. I'm NOT thee one who talks about them and their business behind their backs! YOU do! You are the one light years from being a woman much less passing as one! Let's be honest here, You've gotten breast so you can lay off hormones, am I correct? Because you told me that you had to buy Selagra (sp? generic viagra) just to keep up with some alleged clients. LMAO

You're a joke and your whole life was a lie, FAG. Just admit it!

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

lol Would you like me to destroy you with photos of a closet FULL of couture?

What makes you think I ever gave anyone, especially you, anything more than a glimpse into the reality of my life? Don't you think you tipped your hand ages ago? lol

I know exactly what you are. Trust me, Pookie. You were never even close to being an insider. ;)

Nicole Dupre
11-18-2009, 12:04 AM
Oh, and just let me know when we need to lock down this thread because you're going to start talking about the personal business of the mods. Or was that just for me?

That's the best part. The people at the top of HA know the real deal.

Put a fork in your crossdressing ass cuz you're DONE.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
11-18-2009, 12:27 AM
Lmao..At least, I know It's gotten some guys off and that shoot in particular - made me plenty of 'coins' from right after I did them. It's served its purpose. ;)

But how about you? Did you made any 'coins' after your 2006 shoot? Probably NOT! Hmm, I wonder why?!? :lol: But nice try, FAGGOT!

~Kisses.

HTG

Don't get pissed, dude. We'll simply look at the pics and take it from there. I mean, you'd think if you were so over this place and had your own forum, you'd have better things to do. Obviously not though.

So lets see how much progress you've made over the past 10 years. I think that's plenty fair. I mean, you've hated plenty on girls who transitioned long after you started calling yourself a TS. You were ready to publicly crucify Bella for being "untrue" when she's lightyears beyond you. But she's got current content, and will only get more and more popular. Even Monica has had her SRS already. Truth is, plenty of girls who transitioned after you have left you in the dust. You look like hammered shit, and you just started hormones a few months ago. So congrats on NOTHING!!!


Now scrub the poo from under your nails, and don't hate.

Pissy? Not even close. Again though, I know exactly why you're MAD! Cos after all the surge you've had, you're really not making those coins you hope will turn your life around and give IT meaning! I mean, pffff..you don't even got your own place (lease to your name) and is rooming with someone. lol Talk about being pretentious. And unlike you SIR, I never hated other girls. I'm NOT thee one who talks about them and their business behind their backs! YOU do! You are the one light years from being a woman much less passing as one! Let's be honest here, You've gotten breast so you can lay off hormones, am I correct? Because you told me that you had to buy Selagra (sp? generic viagra) just to keep up with some alleged clients. LMAO

You're a joke and your whole life was a lie, FAG. Just admit it!

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

lol Would you like me to destroy you with photos of a closet FULL of couture?

What makes you think I ever gave anyone, especially you, anything more than a glimpse into the reality of my life? Don't you think you tipped your hand ages ago? lol

I know exactly what you are. Trust me, Pookie. You were never even close to being an insider. ;)

The answer to that lies in your BIG MOUTH! You obviously have NO troubles opening and spewing hate as much as sharing details of your gay life back when you lived back east! lol ;)


Oh, and just let me know when we need to lock down this thread because you're going to start talking about the personal business of the mods. Or was that just for me?

That's the best part. The people at the top of HA know the real deal.

Put a fork in your crossdressing ass cuz you're DONE.

Going to start? If I remember correctly, NYCe don't like you (he banned your ass, remember?)! And the only mod you speak of (talking about his personal life) was YOU! Didn't you post that all over HD's anonymous section? ;)

So there you go..crossdresser with boobs! :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

archineer
11-18-2009, 12:54 AM
I'm more into the person than anything else too. If i'm in love no one else matters- I could give up guys for the right girl. Don't you find bi men are more accepting of your t status, don't have the hang ups of straight men and are more willing to be seen in public with you?
Lots of guys here think they are approaching relationships with an advantage... that they are more accepting of the girls than other men. And why do these guys feel it is necessary to point this out?

Implicit in his statement is the assumption the transsexual woman is somehow "less than"... that her trans-status taints her and makes her less desirable to be seen in public with.

The reality is that most of the guys here are less likely to find a mutually loving relationship with a transwoman than vice-versa.

Yeah right. Now I didn't phrase that question well, but you're reading FAR too much into it. I think it should be pretty obvious I veiw transwomen as women by now. Implying I don't is a bit rich coming from you. I was commenting on what i've been told, that most 'straight' guys into ts' keep it as a closeted secret. It was an honest question on what her perception was. Nothing more.

And to imply that I post here to find a relationship- lol.

Nicole Dupre
11-18-2009, 01:00 AM
Going to start? If I remember correctly, NYCe don't like you (he banned your ass, remember?)! And the only mod you speak of (talking about his personal life) was YOU! Didn't you post that all over HD's anonymous section? ;)

So there you go..crossdresser with boobs! :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

"NYCe don't like you"? English, motherfucker!!! Do you speak it?!? Not very well, obviously. lol

Actually, NYCe and I are getting along as far as I know. Ask him yourself. Then, ask him what he thinks of you. And then, ask the other mods. ;)

Hara_Juku Tgirl
11-18-2009, 01:08 AM
Going to start? If I remember correctly, NYCe don't like you (he banned your ass, remember?)! And the only mod you speak of (talking about his personal life) was YOU! Didn't you post that all over HD's anonymous section? ;)

So there you go..crossdresser with boobs! :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

"NYCe don't like you"? English, motherfucker!!! Do you speak it?!? Not very well, obviously. lol

Actually, NYCe and I are getting along as far as I know. Ask him yourself. Then, ask him what he thinks of you. And then, ask the other mods. ;)

Lmao, Yes..that's it! Dance my donkey! Dance when I post donkey, you simply must reply! Isn't that right? :lol: You may know English, but you certainly could clearly read and understand what I'm saying to you! lol

So amuse us more Donkey face! ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

blacktgirls
11-18-2009, 01:09 AM
Go back and remind Hara that she was born in 1969, and is still fixated on Madonna. <~ Talk about "old". lol



Quite an interesting reply denouncing your AGE, Fag! You wish I was old as you. lol Unfortunately, you can OD on female hormones, yet that won't change your MANLY mug, hater!

Here, let me remind you and everyone else how ANCIENT you really are! :lol:

http://harajukutgirl.blogspot.com/

Don't hate DINOSAUR! lol

~Kisses.

HTGi'm sooooo happy to see you Hara :D i thought Nicole used one of her voodoo dolls on you !

Nicole Dupre
11-18-2009, 01:20 AM
Lmao, Yes..that's it! Dance my donkey! Dance when I post donkey, you simply must reply! Isn't that right? :lol: You may know English, but you certainly could clearly read and understand what I'm saying to you! lol

So amuse us more Donkey face! ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

I'm not done abusing you. Now stfu.

And those Yum pics will be here soon. Let me know if you need to gag on my clothing, and I'll snap a few photos, ragpicker.

Nicole Dupre
11-18-2009, 01:22 AM
i'm sooooo happy to see you Hara :D i thought Nicole used one of her voodoo dolls on you !

Omg, it's a loser convention.

Dollar store wigs and fruit punch now being served. :roll:

blacktgirls
11-18-2009, 01:30 AM
i'm sooooo happy to see you Hara :D i thought Nicole used one of her voodoo dolls on you !

Omg, it's a loser convention.

Dollar store wigs and fruit punch now being served. :roll:..

Distance
11-18-2009, 01:46 AM
Maybe you didn't see them because you were too busy daydreaming about sucking dick and getting fucked in the ass. Just a "theory" about a "hole", Or, in your case, an 'A' -hole. lol

Your day job for 45 years till now. :lol:


In any case, for me: bisexuals...are just gay and afraid to admit it, like an alibi of some sort.

Is 45 how old your grandfather was when he fondled your little penis? That's fucking sick. But, regardless, it's not my age. I'll be 30 in just under 2 months, as if you'd know that anyway. Go back and remind Hara that she was born in 1969, and is still fixated on Madonna. <~ Talk about "old". lol

(10, 9, 8, 7, 6. 5....)

Oh, and bisexual is an activity status, you moron. It means that you're generally attracted to more than one gender. BTW straight guys would NEVER even bother posting what you just did. They wouldn't care, you fag.

Btw, don't keep using that laughing icon every time you say something stupid. People will start to think you're gay AND retarded, and that's no way for a queer like you to go through life. We already know you can't speak or spell in English well. You're really batting zero so far.

You stupid lame fuck. :lol:


You get lower and lower through every reply...one can tell you walked the streets and pavements for the last 35 years of your life - you're just a bad smell to anyone here, really.


As for my grandfather, he'd have probably shotguned your fucked face...you look like a degenerated mongoloid peacock.
Ok, I am retarded queer, uptight etc. But that's fine by me, dude. Your words don't hurt, Nicolas. I just enjoy seeing you how many enemies you keep making here. Watch it though...karma is a bitch, just like you. ;)


I just don't care what you say or think about me, really...you just keep digging your own hole here and elsewhere. No one could care less about your hara fixation anyways, sort yourself out mate. You're obviously full of cheap crack and on a bad come down again. :roll:

Nicole Dupre
11-18-2009, 02:18 AM
You stupid lame fuck. :lol:


You get lower and lower through every reply...one can tell you walked the streets and pavements for the last 35 years of your life - you're just a bad smell to anyone here, really.


As for my grandfather, he'd have probably shotguned your fucked face...you look like a degenerated mongoloid peacock.
Ok, I am retarded queer, uptight etc. But that's fine by me, dude. Your words don't hurt, Nicolas. I just enjoy seeing you how many enemies you keep making here. Watch it though...karma is a bitch, just like you. ;)


I just don't care what you say or think about me, really...you just keep digging your own hole here and elsewhere. No one could care less about your hara fixation anyways, sort yourself out mate. You're obviously full of cheap crack and on a bad come down again. :roll:

"Mate"? Your fugly momma's a "mate" to a 3rd World soccer team, you rabid fruit. lol

But you sure do spend lots of time doing bad guess work, and making a federal case out of how much my "words don't hurt". ;)

Now let's hear more about how much you don't care. I love that story. lol