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evilernie
08-29-2009, 03:55 AM
Do you think you could have a lifelong monogamist relationship with a TG?

rockabilly
08-29-2009, 04:01 AM
It's all i want in the world ... to love and be loved. I want the relationship , the trust and commitment.

SarahG
08-29-2009, 04:15 AM
I know I can. But to affirm a post I read a minute ago, no TG can. Why would she? She has men chasing her 24/7 if she's attractive. Why commit to one man regardless of what a good man he may be when the next guy is a text or an e-mail away

Do you believe everything you read?

BellaBellucci
08-29-2009, 04:29 AM
No, a previous experience is what makes me say that. She got her way and I just got out of the credit card debt. You see she had "work" to return to after living with me for 8 months. Live and learn. lol

Wow. You gleaned all of that insight from one whole bad experience, huh? So because your ex-gf is a loser, we all are. OK. Check. Got it now. :roll:

~BB~

Sulka_bewitched_me
08-29-2009, 04:31 AM
Maybe you should re-word the question to include post-ops as well as I'm not sure I would want to be in a relationship with a permanent TG/TS due to the fact alot of them are in the sex trade/escort scene and I'm not sure if they would be able to conform to the normalicies of a monogamous relationship. I'm not saying that's an absolute though.

evilernie
08-29-2009, 04:33 AM
Sadly, rockabilly, the girls are not so optimistic. Look at the result of the accompanying poll.

Granted only 3 have replied so far.

evilernie
08-29-2009, 04:37 AM
Sulka_bewitched_me,

I wasn't referring to only "pre-op" as tg. Only well, i guess I have to be more explicit next time.

But yes.. I was referring to both pre-op and post-op. Sadly, I can't edit the options. At least, I don't know how to.

jjhill
08-29-2009, 04:40 AM
I know I can. But to affirm a post I read a minute ago, no TG can. Why would she? She has men chasing her 24/7 if she's attractive. Why commit to one man regardless of what a good man he may be when the next guy is a text or an e-mail away

Shit just happened to me, i was dating one for 3 months. Guys constantly chased her, and now she moved on to the next guy. Whore she is, NY guys look out. she's a heartbreaker lol. Shoot email or text away, just walking on the street guys would attempt to holler.

rockabilly
08-29-2009, 04:40 AM
Sadly, rockabilly, the girls are not so optimistic. Look at the result of the accompanying poll.

Granted only 3 have replied so far.

Never tell me the odds. I have always been told that good things come to those that wait. I only hope i meet her one day ... patience is a virtue . I hold to the saying that " there is someone for everybody " ... My girl is out there ... somewhere looking up at the same stars as me.

Silcc69
08-29-2009, 04:40 AM
No, a previous experience is what makes me say that. She got her way and I just got out of the credit card debt. You see she had "work" to return to after living with me for 8 months. Live and learn. lol

There are some legit gurls on here.

SXFX
08-29-2009, 04:43 AM
I don't think I can have one with a GG what chance to you think an emotional charged TG will have?

BellaBellucci
08-29-2009, 04:45 AM
It's a shame you guys are so jaded. :(

~BB~

SarahG
08-29-2009, 04:46 AM
I was the stupid one though. How stupid? $40k worth. LMAO :banghead :banghead :banghead

Holy crap. That's sad, no one should have to go threw that.

jjhill
08-29-2009, 04:56 AM
I was the stupid one though. How stupid? $40k worth. LMAO :banghead :banghead :banghead

your not the only one bro. trust me, i didn't lose money but yeaaa =/

BLKGSXR
08-29-2009, 05:07 AM
Sadly, rockabilly, the girls are not so optimistic. Look at the result of the accompanying poll.

Granted only 3 have replied so far.

Never tell me the odds. I have always been told that good things come to those that wait. I only hope i meet her one day ... patience is a virtue . I hold to the saying that " there is someone for everybody " ... My girl is out there ... somewhere looking up at the same stars as me.Man this its like driving a car imo- Some people can try as much as they want to drive stick then there are people born to.

giovanni_hotel
08-29-2009, 05:13 AM
Depends on the girl, doesn't it??

Sulka_bewitched_me
08-29-2009, 05:49 AM
It's a shame you guys are so jaded. :(

~BB~True or false: MOST (not all) are on here to promote themselves. Whether it be a website, their services (escorts), both or their movies. If GG or TS's/TG's see men as $$$$$$ then is it any wonder why we might be jaded? I'd like to find someone who's interested in me not what I might be able to do for them on a financial/professional level.

BellaBellucci
08-29-2009, 05:50 AM
It's a shame you guys are so jaded. :(

~BB~True or false: MOST (not all) are on here to promote themselves. Whether it be a website, their services (escorts), both or their movies. If GG or TS's/TG's see men as $$$$$$ then is it any wonder why we might be jaded? I'd like to find someone who's interested in me not what I might be able to do for them.

True, but while I too see 'men' as money, that doesn't mean that I wouldn't be committed if I were to have a relationship with just one man... or woman.

~BB~

Sulka_bewitched_me
08-29-2009, 05:52 AM
It's a shame you guys are so jaded. :(

~BB~True or false: MOST (not all) are on here to promote themselves. Whether it be a website, their services (escorts), both or their movies. If GG or TS's/TG's see men as $$$$$$ then is it any wonder why we might be jaded? I'd like to find someone who's interested in me not what I might be able to do for them.

True, but while I too see 'men' as money, that doesn't mean that I wouldn't be committed if I were to have a relationship with just one man... or woman.

~BB~WOW you JUMPED all over that one LOL I wasn't even able to edit it before you replied!

Sulka_bewitched_me
08-29-2009, 05:58 AM
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True, but while I too see 'men' as money, that doesn't mean that I wouldn't be committed if I were to have a relationship with just one man... or woman.

~BB~[/quote]I think you missed my point. I didn't accuse or suggest that you or anyone else couldn't commit but I did pose the question that being viewed as "just money" you can understand the jaded part right?

evilernie
08-29-2009, 01:19 PM
I think the ladies are not so optimistic about their chances. Probably because they assume that most men are naturally unfaithful and they don't want their heart broken. Specially, with the amount of effort they exerted to be a girl.

Here's the sister thread.

http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=48780

jaycanuck
08-29-2009, 03:00 PM
Chalk me up in the jaded category.

jcinva
08-29-2009, 03:20 PM
It's all i want in the world ... to love and be loved. I want the relationship , the trust and commitment.

Dude - congrats on making Gold Poster status in, what, a month, or something?

If you really, truly want a relationship. I mean, really, really, want it so very badly.

Try getting off the boards, moving your grandma out of the house, and going out and getting laid.

Just a thought.

The Droopy Dog Act: I do not think it is as attractive as you think it is.

SarahG
08-29-2009, 05:26 PM
I think the ladies are not so optimistic about their chances. Probably because they assume that most men are naturally unfaithful and they don't want their heart broken. Specially, with the amount of effort they exerted to be a girl.

Here's the sister thread.

http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=48780

Its kind of a role reversal if you think about it, girls are usually stereotyped as being more believing in romantics- but here it looks like the guys are far less jaded then the girls are.

BLKGSXR
08-29-2009, 05:52 PM
It's all i want in the world ... to love and be loved. I want the relationship , the trust and commitment.

Dude - congrats on making Gold Poster status in, what, a month, or something?

If you really, truly want a relationship. I mean, really, really, want it so very badly.

Try getting off the boards, moving your grandma out of the house, and going out and getting laid.

Just a thought.

The Droopy Dog Act: I do not think it is as attractive as you think it is.ouch...a bit salvage(as we like to say on HA)
Sad thing is I agree but damn.

bte
08-29-2009, 06:03 PM
It's all i want in the world ... to love and be loved. I want the relationship , the trust and commitment.

Dude - congrats on making Gold Poster status in, what, a month, or something?

If you really, truly want a relationship. I mean, really, really, want it so very badly.

Try getting off the boards, moving your grandma out of the house, and going out and getting laid.

Just a thought.

The Droopy Dog Act: I do not think it is as attractive as you think it is.

+1

bte
08-29-2009, 06:07 PM
Do you think you could have a lifelong monogamist relationship with a TG?

I think it really depends on the girl in my opinion. You have some girls who are in the sex industry on this board, who may not be all that trusting when it comes to men. They have experienced first hand men's infidelities, probably because most of their clients are married. I don't think I could be with a girl in the sex industry, because I think monogamist won't work if the girl is in the industry. If she is doing solos then I guess that's cool, but anything else would be a total turn off to me. I would give myself to her so I would expect her to give herself to me and that means not doing sex acts with other porn stars.

scroller
08-29-2009, 07:15 PM
"Till death do us part" != "capable of loving".

Quiet Reflections
08-29-2009, 08:50 PM
I could do it easily. This thread has been done to death and its safe to say that the guys that aren't closet cases would do it and the guys ashamed of themselves for whatever reason wouldn't ever

tsslutboy
08-29-2009, 11:06 PM
yeah i am fully capable of loving the right tgirl post or pre op. i will the have faith and trust in her that she will love me for who i am . i will love her for who she is no matter what she's got down there.

buckjohnson
08-30-2009, 12:09 AM
I am cool with the not getting into LTR TG thang. I have enough emotional roller coaster with GG females. Why would I want someone who purposefully takes chemicals to make them like the females who drive me crazy? Plus the HA's on this board are occasionally semi-mentally unstable and frequently emotionally unstable, and if they are representative of the TG's in the world, again I am cool not getting into a LTR. Finally, as a man, I am not programmed by evolution to be monogamous.

Intrepid
08-30-2009, 05:11 PM
LT monogamous relationship? Not likely. I like pussy too.

4ever_ngt
08-30-2009, 06:05 PM
Not to sound jaded or anything But I admit I used to be a tranny chasin douche bag, but then I grew up Found the Tg woman of my dreams & even tho we planned to marry, adopt kids & da whole 9..fate would not allow it..in between her indiscretions & finally her being sent to prison I've come to believe that Tg happy endings are like Shangri-La.."M nny have heard of them but fw have actually seen them'...Given da option though..yes I would try it again for a shot at something real..guess im a glutton for punishment..C'est la Vie

nicoleneuman24
08-31-2009, 12:45 AM
i could commit to a man.. if he was the right one!

evilernie
08-31-2009, 02:42 AM
Hi Susie/Nicole,

I think you may want to let your girl friends know that you're still hopeful.

http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=48780&start=0&postdays=0&postorder=desc

manbearpig
08-31-2009, 11:25 AM
I don't see why not. Assuming we had some mutual interests and such.

tsntx
08-31-2009, 10:39 PM
they cant even stay faithful to the wives they already have


y would a chick w/ a dick for a wife change that

rockabilly
08-31-2009, 10:55 PM
Well if a guy is single and wants to marry a tg then that argument is not valid tsntx.