JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
08-03-2009, 01:45 PM
Felt the need to start off a new HA week with a thread like this (even though I'm on vacation). I've been in this scene for quite a long time and on this board long enough to read various threads to know that racism & discrimination will never truly be dead; which is sad, but I've grown to live with it. It's not something that is HA specific and many times on alot of these threads we users of HA's forums tend to make it seem like it is......
Focusing on HA's community though here's what I've witnessed over the past decade (and please correct me if you think I am wrong).
You have women of a nationality who bleach their hair blonde and suddenly want to call themselves Caucasian when they're not because they don't appreciate where they came from.
You have men who won't see a TS/TV/CD because of their nationality
You have women who won't see men because of their nationality (and the excuses are plentiful, believe me)
You have men & women who won't see each other due to religious beliefs.
You have men & women who won't see each other due to the weight of the other person. (i.e. the dude walks into the door and when you peekaboo from behind it you see he's twice your mass and width and getting to his pecker might be a challenge for you)
You have women who label men who are frequent partygoers or event supporters as chasers and refuse to see them (at least when their so-called girlfriends are around, but those chasers can give you a ride home in their car so you don't have to pay $45 for a cab ride)
You have men who avoid a female because she's associated with another female you know to be an abusive drug user.
and this is just to name a few...........
IMO it's crazy but it's become so common in this lifestyle unless I sat down and wrote it out there's a few folks that would never know all of this existed. Someone asked me to start writing the threads I used to write a few years ago, which I mainly stopped because I was getting emails from women constantly asking if I was talking about them just not mentioning their name, which I wasn't.
I see now things like this need to be said, because I now know there's alot of guys out there that don't see the lifestyle like this. Many of you dudes sit on this forum and daydream but haven't actually seen a cluster of transgendered women socializing in person. Many of you dudes haven't had the pleasure of seeing one as a client. And many of the women know of at least one TS/TV/CD that has warned them of "a particular type" of client they should shy away from based on their own mishaps with an individual, foolishly taking potential $$$ away from another woman.
Reply to this thread or don't, I've written it and put it out there. To those that read it, sorry it was so long, but shit like this needs to be said, sometimes the wrong things to learn about individuals gets thrown out into Gen. Discussion and we need to work on preventing that in the future.
JWBL
*goes back on vacation*
Focusing on HA's community though here's what I've witnessed over the past decade (and please correct me if you think I am wrong).
You have women of a nationality who bleach their hair blonde and suddenly want to call themselves Caucasian when they're not because they don't appreciate where they came from.
You have men who won't see a TS/TV/CD because of their nationality
You have women who won't see men because of their nationality (and the excuses are plentiful, believe me)
You have men & women who won't see each other due to religious beliefs.
You have men & women who won't see each other due to the weight of the other person. (i.e. the dude walks into the door and when you peekaboo from behind it you see he's twice your mass and width and getting to his pecker might be a challenge for you)
You have women who label men who are frequent partygoers or event supporters as chasers and refuse to see them (at least when their so-called girlfriends are around, but those chasers can give you a ride home in their car so you don't have to pay $45 for a cab ride)
You have men who avoid a female because she's associated with another female you know to be an abusive drug user.
and this is just to name a few...........
IMO it's crazy but it's become so common in this lifestyle unless I sat down and wrote it out there's a few folks that would never know all of this existed. Someone asked me to start writing the threads I used to write a few years ago, which I mainly stopped because I was getting emails from women constantly asking if I was talking about them just not mentioning their name, which I wasn't.
I see now things like this need to be said, because I now know there's alot of guys out there that don't see the lifestyle like this. Many of you dudes sit on this forum and daydream but haven't actually seen a cluster of transgendered women socializing in person. Many of you dudes haven't had the pleasure of seeing one as a client. And many of the women know of at least one TS/TV/CD that has warned them of "a particular type" of client they should shy away from based on their own mishaps with an individual, foolishly taking potential $$$ away from another woman.
Reply to this thread or don't, I've written it and put it out there. To those that read it, sorry it was so long, but shit like this needs to be said, sometimes the wrong things to learn about individuals gets thrown out into Gen. Discussion and we need to work on preventing that in the future.
JWBL
*goes back on vacation*