Ts Adult film actresses for LTR?

[Olivialove]

Would you want to have Long Term Relationship with ts in adult industries? why or why not?

[rockabilly]

I would ... Work is work and at the end of the day she would be coming home to me. But i imagine it must be difficult ... to maintain a LTR and work.

[raybbaby]

LMAO! I didn't look at who authored this thread, I was going to weigh in, and then I thought "hey, who wants to know"? OMG I'm still laughing.

[hippifried]

No, but it's only because I don't want a long term relationship with anybody. If I ever change my mind (unlikely), I don't believe it would matter what they did for a living. Now if a couple of days or a week were considered long term, I could deal. :)

[Olivialove]

LMAO! I didn't look at who authored this thread, I was going to weigh in, and then I thought "hey, who wants to know"? OMG I'm still laughing. Whats soo funny about this ??? Its just a general question. Never know u may learn something new from this lmao. oh i forgot ure still kinda slow up there... :roll:

[Quiet Reflections]

I'm not a jealous man but if i did date a Ts in the biz i think it might become an issue for me. If it was solo vids and pics i could deal with it far longer than i could if it was sex. I could date a stripper long term. I did once date a hooker right after she got out of the biz but we didn't last because she wanted kids and at the time I wasn't ready for that(shes got three now and works as a social worker).

[worldbro]

fuck that; bitches gonna cheat on you anyways, might as well cheat on you with people who are routinely tested for STDs

[Alyssa87]

fuck that; bitches gonna cheat on you anyways, might as well cheat on you with people who are routinely tested for STDs

lol.

[Quiet Reflections]

fuck that; bitches gonna cheat on you anyways, might as well cheat on you with people who are routinely tested for STDsnot all of them do. there are still some good ones out there

[sugdaddie69]

My concern would be Hiv/Aids --Herpes--Std's
Is it a open LTR,are we committed?Are we swingers in a LTR.Or are we so in love its just us, and the hundreds of hunks she"works" with.
WTF,who am i kidding,i'm to jealous...NO

[CaptainGeech]

I don't think I could. I respect a persons right to work in the industry and treat it professionally but in all honesty it would bother me. Maybe I'm not mature enough. Maybe I'm too selfish. Maybe I'm not confident enough in myself. In the end it would bother me enough that I couldn't deal with it even if I truly loved the person. The thought of other guys touching her and having her do the same. Whenever I kissed her I would be thinking to myself "where have those lips been?". Same thing goes for escorts or other people in the sex industry. Just couldn't do it. When I am with someone I am totally devoted to them and expect them to do the same. It wouldn't be fair but to stay together I would demand she quit.

[rockabilly]

Thats what part of me thinks as well but after working and having faux intimacy these ladies must really crave true intimacy and ... love. To be able to come home to a bf/gf and do what couples do , movies , dinner and just watch tv , dont they deserve that? Maybe i'm naive ... i dont know.

[giovanni_hotel]

IF I were to pursue a LTR daily thing with a a girl in the 'business', come on, let's be real.

At some point she would have to quit.

IF we're fucking each other AND other folks, we're friends, cool, but not a serious couple.

It would also mean I might like ya alright, but it's not a LOVE joint.

Naw, LTR means one on one.

[Alyssa87]

i think Kelly had a good policy.

she would only fuck a guy in porn.

she saved her ass for her man.

[rockabilly]

Compromise ... The cornerstone of most relationships.

[tsmandy]

Only if she did double anal.

[rockabilly]

Only if she did double anal.

:what: :jawdrop :whoa :oops: Mandy ...

[Quiet Reflections]

Only if she did double anal.
Do you?

[AverageJob]

fuck that; bitches gonna cheat on you anyways, might as well cheat on you with people who are routinely tested for STDs :roll: what a misconception porn performers are safer:lol:

[AverageJob]

LOL I remember Bianca did a photo shot with lesions on her penis

[BlkJewels]

Well, IF it got 2 that point why not, she working.

[Justawannabe]

Agree in general with the sentiment that it would be hard.

Two aspects currently bug me most, one is the chemistry behind relationships. We're not just some nebulous collection of experience and emotional growth, we're also a chemical system. You get off with folks and your body gets rewarded with feel good drugs. We're wired to bond with the folks we get off with, so I would want my special someone to keep that between us.

It's only part of the story, but why fight an uphill battle to keep your relationship intact if you don't absolutely have to.

Second one is the Kelly thing. If you can save something for your special someone, that really can help, but does it then take other things off the table for when your being together? Does it make a whole list of things 'feel like going to work?'

Just really hard to do. Girl would have to be really special to risk her just not being able to bond

[2009AD]

i think Kelly had a good policy. she would only fuck a guy in porn. she saved her ass for her man.

Yea, but she sucked plenty of schlongs on camera. :wink:

[MrF]

I have nothing against the sex industry, otherwise I wouldn't participate in this forum and enjoy the lovely pics. However, on topic :

I don't accept the argument that "it's just a job". If you're in porn you're having sex with other people. Considering that I'd have plenty of other choices for a potential LTR, it's easy enough to avoid this trouble.

But this is very hypothetical ! Not only do I already have a special someone, but I'll also admit that at my age it's very doubtful I would even attract a young porn starlett (LOL). So, hypothetically, I could imagine if she quit porn it might work out. Of course, I'm not thinking of LTR with them when I watch the vids. :)

[rameses2]

i think Kelly had a good policy. she would only fuck a guy in porn. she saved her ass for her man.

Yea, but she sucked plenty of schlongs on camera. :wink:37? :wink: Anyway, I would totally be amenable to having a LTR with a girl in porn. I've dated exotic dancers before and yes, it was harder than "civilian" dating, but if it is a strong connection it should transcend petty squabbles and minor shit-fits!

[alpha2117]

I maybe could but it's like having a gf who is a working girl, it's not easy to deal with. It tends to be hard for most people to cope with their significant other having sex with someone else. A lot of people fantasise screwing a porn star but few fantasise about going grocery shopping with them.

[LAGent4ts]

You don't know until you try. I'd be willing to give it a go, good communication would be key, however I would probably prefer short answers to questions like, "How was work today hun"?

Better check to see if Rosetta Stone has Sign Language course just in case?

[rockabilly]

[/quote]

Yea, but she sucked plenty of schlongs on camera. :wink:[/quote]37? :wink: Anyway, I would totally be amenable to having a LTR with a girl in porn. I've dated exotic dancers before and yes, it was harder than "civilian" dating, but if it is a strong connection it should transcend petty squabbles and minor shit-fits![/quote]
"37 ...In a row? " lol

[scroller]

Sure.

[tsmandy]

Only if she did double anal.
Do you?

Only if I'm lucky

[raybbaby]

Only if she did double anal.
Best answer on here!

[raybbaby]

Only if she did double anal.
Do you?

Only if I'm lucky
Ooops, should have read whole thread, you've outdone yourself!

[raybbaby]

Would you want to have Long Term Relationship with ts in adult industries? why or why not?The bitch about this question is that 95%, and that's a conservative estimate, of TS adult performers are also "working girls" which is another can of worms altogether. This can and will complicate things way further than an occasional fit of jealousy....

[dgs925]

LOL I remember Bianca did a photo shot with lesions on her penis

Sounds hot, got any pics from that set?

[yosi]

Would you want to have Long Term Relationship with ts in adult industries? why or why not?

would a ts in adult industries accept a guy who is willing to have Long Term Relationship with her?

Long Term Relationship is possible only if both answer : yes 8)

[rockabilly]

Would you want to have Long Term Relationship with ts in adult industries? why or why not?

would a ts in adult industries accept a guy who is willing to have Long Term Relationship with her?

Long Term Relationship is possible only if both answer : yes 8)
Good answer +1

[bte]

Would you want to have Long Term Relationship with ts in adult industries? why or why not?

To be honest, my cock says yes, but my heart says no. I just couldn't get over the fact that every few weeks or whatever, some guy will be fucking my girl in the ass or sucking on her dick. Kind of unnerving and at the end of the day, yeah it's a job but then I would say "Well if you love me then you would quit" and all that drama. So no I wouldn't.

[tsmandy]

What if the girl only did girl on girl or solo? Would you guys change your mind?

[rockabilly]

Yes

[OEMEnemyNum1]

If you get to know them and hit it off why not? I'm sure there will be a few situations where they love the look, but then get to know eachother and it's not quite a good match.

[TsVanessa69]

fuck that; bitches gonna cheat on you anyways, might as well cheat on you with people who are routinely tested for STDs

Is that why 90% of the men I see as an escort are MARRIED men or men with GIRLFRIENDS. :roll:
And about 70% of those MARRIED men want to suck my cock and get fucked in their asses?
AND they are PAYING me to do it, then go home and kiss their wives in the mouth after!

[TsVanessa69]

Would you want to have Long Term Relationship with ts in adult industries? why or why not?The bitch about this question is that 95%, and that's a conservative estimate, of TS adult performers are also "working girls" which is another can of worms altogether. This can and will complicate things way further than an occasional fit of jealousy....

Do you guys realize what being a working girl has done to some of us??
I don't trust men at all. I know thier games, lies and tricks like I know the back of my hand.
I know men are not faithful, thats why I get paid as much as I do as often as I do. So please do not come in here and say because a girl is smart and not being used that she is not worthy of a relationship.
Thats straight up bullshit.
If men weren't as big of cheaters as they are, I wouldn't have as much as I have today.

[rockabilly]

Not all men cheat , some of us want a ltr .

[raybbaby]

Would you want to have Long Term Relationship with ts in adult industries? why or why not?The bitch about this question is that 95%, and that's a conservative estimate, of TS adult performers are also "working girls" which is another can of worms altogether. This can and will complicate things way further than an occasional fit of jealousy....

Do you guys realize what being a working girl has done to some of us??
I don't trust men at all. I know thier games, lies and tricks like I know the back of my hand.
I know men are not faithful, thats why I get paid as much as I do as often as I do. So please do not come in here and say because a girl is smart and not being used that she is not worthy of a relationship.
Thats straight up bullshit.
If men weren't as big of cheaters as they are, I wouldn't have as much as I have today.
OK, no where in my post did I say if a woman is smart and not being used she's not worthy of a relationship. I didn't even say working girls are unworthy of relationships. By "whole other can of worms", I'm saying you are getting into another set of complications entirely than if your girl is shooting a couple times a week with other performers. And it's true. It just is.

[TsVanessa69]

Would you want to have Long Term Relationship with ts in adult industries? why or why not?The bitch about this question is that 95%, and that's a conservative estimate, of TS adult performers are also "working girls" which is another can of worms altogether. This can and will complicate things way further than an occasional fit of jealousy....

Do you guys realize what being a working girl has done to some of us??
I don't trust men at all. I know thier games, lies and tricks like I know the back of my hand.
I know men are not faithful, thats why I get paid as much as I do as often as I do. So please do not come in here and say because a girl is smart and not being used that she is not worthy of a relationship.
Thats straight up bullshit.
If men weren't as big of cheaters as they are, I wouldn't have as much as I have today.
OK, no where in my post did I say if a woman is smart and not being used she's not worthy of a relationship. I didn't even say working girls are unworthy of relationships. By "whole other can of worms", I'm saying you are getting into another set of complications entirely than if your girl is shooting a couple times a week with other performers. And it's true. It just is.
At least what we do is out in the open.
Guys sneak and pay us.
Now thats why I don't believe in relationships at all.

[raybbaby]

At least what we do is out in the open.
Guys sneak and pay us.

Ok, not really. Your second statement contradicts your first. It all happens on the hush. Porn is legal, if frowned on. It's available for consumption by the public. Liasons with escorts not so much.

[Alyssa87]

i think Kelly had a good policy. she would only fuck a guy in porn. she saved her ass for her man.

Yea, but she sucked plenty of schlongs on camera. :wink:


i didnt say anything about saving her mouth.

[yosi]

Do you guys realize what being a working girl has done to some of us??
I don't trust men at all. I know thier games, lies and tricks like I know the back of my hand.
I know men are not faithful, thats why I get paid as much as I do as often as I do. So please do not come in here and say because a girl is smart and not being used that she is not worthy of a relationship.
Thats straight up bullshit.
If men weren't as big of cheaters as they are, I wouldn't have as much as I have today.


the guys you never meet , are the guys who never cheat :wink:

look Vanessa , if I take what YOU wrote here : "I don't trust men at all. I know thier games, lies and tricks like I know the back of my hand.
I know men are not faithful".
I will make only a minor change , replacing the word : "men" with "transexuals" , you will probably want to ban me from this site :wink:

[raybbaby]

can we re-rail a de-rail? This thread is supposed to be about wether or not somebody would date a TS girl who worked in the adult industry.

[fordly66]

I really wouldn't think most people that work in the biz are looking for LTR's, and if they are, they have illusions. I wouldn't date a person be it woman or transsexual that is in the biz. LTR I think would mean there is actual love between the two. That would really play with my emotions knowing my lover is having sex with someone else, even if there isn't an emotional connection between the two doing the scene.

[timxxx]

can we re-rail a de-rail? This thread is supposed to be about wether or not somebody would date a TS girl who worked in the adult industry.

Back on track
Only if l didn't have a job,then l could be her "manager" as well. :wink:

[puller]

yup i would but only after they r done , reason why is .... i dont mind living in an old house , i just dont want everyone else living there with me
( let it sit for a sec u will get it ) :P

[kensterling]

I got no problem with it, as long as she does not mine that I still escort at well. So yes, I would def get into a long term relationship with a TS that does adult films.

[ashymon]

What matters is not what the person does for a living or who the person is, what matters is whether or not the people love and care for one another. If you have that, everything else becomes simple.

Reality is it takes two open and understanding people to make a LTR work.

[tsmandy]

Seriously though, I've been in a relationship with the same woman since I started adult work (we used to work together). Sex still feels very different with my sweetheart then it does with anyone else I've shot with.

Adult performers are perfectly capable of good loving relationships. I'd rather date someone in the porn industry for an LTR then many other occupations which thoroughly ruin peoples relationships.

[raybbaby]

Hmmm... how about chairman of the RNC?

[LAGent4ts]

I do not think that it mattes if the person in the adult industry is a TS or GG, it takes a special person to accept the fact that when you head to the office, your partner is heading to the set to have sex with someone other than you. Guys are pretty damn jealous, and I think one better be a very secure and self confident person to truly believe that the line between performing sexually in front of the camera and making love with the one you love when you get home exists.

If a man falls in love with a TS, I think it is right back to how secure a man is with himself. If he accepts that he has fallen in love with a TS woman and does not care who knows or finds out that the woman he loves is a TS, then it is a matter of honesty, trust, strength of friendship and communication between the individuals, like any relationship. How bad do both parties want to be in a comitted relationship will dictate how successful it will be, imo. If one cannot accept the career choice, one best move along, because your going into this with your eyes open and cannot be thinking, she'll change for me down the line.

[HP1000]

Yes, it could be possible, but would I have to hide my wallet at night because I have few credit cards with a max limit around $100K ?

[phobun]

I do not think that it mattes if the person in the adult industry is a TS or GG, it takes a special person
I think it takes a loser with no self esteem.
There are plenty of TS women who live normal lives doing respectable jobs. To open every orifice for strangers takes no special skill or knowledge... so why would a guy settle for that, unless the guy is a loser or gimp.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bdEYIRyWx_M

If a man falls in love with a TS, I think it is right back to how secure a man is with himself. If he accepts that he has fallen in love with a TS woman ...
I don't belief that most chasers fall in love with the TS woman if she has a dick.
I think the chasers fall into lust with the dick.
The guys are deceiving themselves, and the poor girls who crave a straight man's love, they know, deep down, why the dudes are with them.

[indeed]

a real girl yes. My TS encounters are still deep cover

[phobun]

a real girl yes. My TS encounters are still deep cover

Deep cover = down low

You're ashamed of your lust for cock.

[indeed]

a real girl yes. My TS encounters are still deep cover

Deep cover = down low

You're ashamed of your lust for cock.Dont really think about it. What i do is really only my business

[freak]

Will she support me? Maybe bring home a few T-girl friends once in a while.
Only if she does the above.

[macjay18]

No way, just a type of porn that is different than the other mainstream stuff, why not just be with a girl i would say a small percentage of ts are hot- like a few on this site, but in reality if you look around most are pretty average i say go genetic girl so much better. TS for most would be like a hot single milf you would definitely bang her but you wouldnt be her boyfriend (usually is the case)

[LAGent4ts]

I do not think that it mattes if the person in the adult industry is a TS or GG, it takes a special person
I think it takes a loser with no self esteem.
There are plenty of TS women who live normal lives doing respectable jobs. To open every orifice for strangers takes no special skill or knowledge... so why would a guy settle for that, unless the guy is a loser or gimp.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bdEYIRyWx_M



If a man falls in love with a TS, I think it is right back to how secure a man is with himself. If he accepts that he has fallen in love with a TS woman ...
I don't belief that most chasers fall in love with the TS woman if she has a dick.
I think the chasers fall into lust with the dick.
The guys are deceiving themselves, and the poor girls who crave a straight man's love, they know, deep down, why the dudes are with them.


Well, we are all entitled to our opinions and perspectives and you have yours and I have mine.

That said, are you saying that individuals in the adult industry are not entitled to, or have the ability to have a fulfilling and loving relationship simply because of their career choice?

I think the question was "Would you want to have a Long Term Relationship with ts in adult industries? why or why not?"

I am not commenting on if I could or could not, because unless it happens I'll never know. I'm simply saying what, IMO, would be necessary if a friendship led down the path to a relationship with an individual working in the adult entertainment industry.

What we want and what we get are often far apart and yet bring us happiness. I wanted to be a doctor and ended up an attorney. I love what I do, am successful and could not be happier with the decision I made.

[raiku9909]

I would, definitely. I don't think I would be in love with the idea of her banging other dudes, but as long as she has diverse interests and a plan for if/when she gets out of the game, I say more power to her.

[shemale-411]

Been there twice, it's tough as hell on both parties if you really care about each other. I never really understood what I call "pimp mentality". Hanging out completely oblivious while your s.o. bangs another for money. We called them suitcase pimps when I was in the business, the managers who would carry the models bags in, and cool their heels while their gf is doing a scene. If you love someone that should be a hard thing to deal with, on both sides.

[MrsKellyPierce]

Lol at the judgemental comments and assumptions of what and why a porn girl does what she does. I always laugh at people that can't see past the end of their own nose but claim to be openminded. Bottom line we have hearts, feelings, and want love like anyone else.

[buckjohnson]

Would you want to have Long Term Relationship with ts in adult industries? why or why not?The bitch about this question is that 95%, and that's a conservative estimate, of TS adult performers are also "working girls" which is another can of worms altogether. This can and will complicate things way further than an occasional fit of jealousy....

Do you guys realize what being a working girl has done to some of us??
I don't trust men at all. I know thier games, lies and tricks like I know the back of my hand.
I know men are not faithful, thats why I get paid as much as I do as often as I do. So please do not come in here and say because a girl is smart and not being used that she is not worthy of a relationship.
Thats straight up bullshit.
If men weren't as big of cheaters as they are, I wouldn't have as much as I have today.

[buckjohnson]

Would you want to have Long Term Relationship with ts in adult industries? why or why not?The bitch about this question is that 95%, and that's a conservative estimate, of TS adult performers are also "working girls" which is another can of worms altogether. This can and will complicate things way further than an occasional fit of jealousy....

Do you guys realize what being a working girl has done to some of us??
I don't trust men at all. I know thier games, lies and tricks like I know the back of my hand.
I know men are not faithful, thats why I get paid as much as I do as often as I do. So please do not come in here and say because a girl is smart and not being used that she is not worthy of a relationship.
Thats straight up bullshit.
If men weren't as big of cheaters as they are, I wouldn't have as much as I have today.Right on point about men. But I believe that there is an evolutionary aspect that works against monogamy. As even with a high societal price for cheating, (divorce, alimony, loss of custody of kids, child support, scorn, guilt, etc...) men will and do still cheat.

Finally, when men are rewarded for being cheaters, they are given the title of "player". But I believe anyone can have multiple partners. But a real player can keep and have one woman for a LTR and keep her happy!!!That’s a real player

[fitz207]

I do not think that it mattes if the person in the adult industry is a TS or GG, it takes a special person
I think it takes a loser with no self esteem.
So you are calling the ladies here that do porn losers? So how do you fill about being on a site dedicated to "losers"? Could you be anymore narrow minded?

[rockabilly]

dbl post

[rockabilly]

I think phobun meant only a loser dates a pornstar ... lets see him call Tito Ortiz a loser to his face or call Evan Seinfeld a loser.

[TsVanessa69]

I'm afraid of TsVanessa.
Why??

[Ryz]

none of em

[Ben]

Lol at the judgemental comments and assumptions of what and why a porn girl does what she does. I always laugh at people that can't see past the end of their own nose but claim to be openminded. Bottom line we have hearts, feelings, and want love like anyone else.

:claps :claps :claps :claps :claps :claps :claps

[runamok]

fuck that; bitches gonna cheat on you anyways, might as well cheat on you with people who are routinely tested for STDsnot all of them do. there are still some good ones out there


HAW! That's a good one. :lol:

[armando57]

I would not have a problem having a LTR with a TS porn star. Olivia Love, I love you!!

[kensterling]

I don't see what the big problem is here. If you can't handle what she does for a living, don't date her. If you can deal with it, then date her. I can tell you from working as an escort, you really do appreciate the rare person who can deal with your situation. Ours can be a lonely business, so we do want relationships as well. But I also understand if someone does not want to deal with it. Just say so. It sucks when someone says they are understanding of it and then holds it against you.
Tough spot for all, I agree, but I can deal with it because it is two different emotions, work and love.

[fred41]

I have and still do date TS "working girls". I also have fallen in love. To say that you couldn't fall in love with a person..ANY person (and not just the cock- as was stated earlier) is absolutely absurd. You can fall in love with anyone. People fall in love...it's human.

..for that reason though, I wouldn't date a porn star ..or someone that has sex on the internet. Once it's out there for everyone to see..I couldn't handle that. Everyone has their own tolerance level and internal mechanisms for dealing with things that they find hard to cope with. ..that would be beyond my capabilities.