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Nassau
07-26-2009, 07:53 AM
(':?:')(':?:')

SarahG
07-26-2009, 08:51 PM
When they're old enough to form coherent thoughts.

trish
07-26-2009, 08:52 PM
When they're old enough to form coherent thoughts.

So around 44 years old or so?

SarahG
07-26-2009, 08:55 PM
When they're old enough to form coherent thoughts.

So around 44 years old or so?

Hmm, good point- that might be too high of a bar.

I would say "When they start walking" but that would cause a similar loop hole for kids stuck in wheel chairs.

Dravina
07-26-2009, 09:05 PM
"When it is the best time to talk to your kids about sex?"

about 4.30 to 5 pm

praetor
07-26-2009, 09:07 PM
When the puberty begins. When the hormones start to boil.

hippifried
07-26-2009, 10:26 PM
As soon as they start asking questions.

jjhill
07-26-2009, 10:29 PM
Last night was the first time, me and my father talked about protecting ones self by wearing condoms. Kinda funny lol

Quiet Reflections
07-27-2009, 06:31 AM
when they ask about it or you start to notice their intrests in boys or girls beyond just playing game and with toys. but do it before middle school

tslvrnyc
07-27-2009, 06:49 AM
When they go to the family computer and look through its browsing history and then ask "Daddy, what are Hung Angels?"

flabbybody
07-27-2009, 06:56 AM
don't talk to your kids about sex
they already learned it from the streets

LittleGuy
07-27-2009, 07:02 AM
tell them to watch porn........

BLKGSXR
07-27-2009, 10:42 AM
don't talk to your kids about sex
they already learned it from the streetsHaha, then should it be a talk about what will get someone an ass whuppin? :D I know that will be my talk if the day I have children comes-
Sit them down look them dead in the eyes and say when you live in my home respect my rules,fuck all you want after highschool-And be safe wrap the tool-

BellaBellucci
07-27-2009, 10:46 AM
As soon as they start asking questions.

Yeah, I agree with this opinion. True to my libertarian nature I like to let things flow naturally. When my son asks me questions, I try to answer in as technical a manner as possible. If he doesn't understand what I've said, then he's not ready to.

~BB~

BellaBellucci
07-27-2009, 10:48 AM
don't talk to your kids about sex
they already learned it from the streets

You know, by the way: yours is the sexiest avatar I think I've seen in forever. I would pretty much let David Duchovny do anything he wanted to me. lol

~BB~

JeniferTS
07-27-2009, 12:29 PM
what kids?

altarica
07-27-2009, 02:12 PM
Talk about the sex you're having, or the sex they're having?

flabbybody
07-27-2009, 02:29 PM
don't talk to your kids about sex
they already learned it from the streets

You know, by the way: yours is the sexiest avatar I think I've seen in forever. I would pretty much let David Duchovny do anything he wanted to me. lol

~BB~

Well I'm a Duchovny lookalike Bella B
Does that count for anything ?

BellaBellucci
07-27-2009, 02:31 PM
don't talk to your kids about sex
they already learned it from the streets

You know, by the way: yours is the sexiest avatar I think I've seen in forever. I would pretty much let David Duchovny do anything he wanted to me. lol

~BB~

Well I'm a Duchovny lookalike Bella B
Does that count for anything ?

Dunno. Post a pic.

~BB~

hippifried
07-27-2009, 02:32 PM
As soon as they start asking questions.

Yeah, I agree with this opinion. True to my libertarian nature I like to let things flow naturally. When my son asks me questions, I try to answer in as technical a manner as possible. If he doesn't understand what I've said, then he's not ready to.

~BB~
Yeeee-eah... But... If you talk over their head, you're not really answering the question. It's like you going to someone for professional advice & them talking to you in their trade jargon that you don't understand. Just like you probably wouldn't go back to a particular lawyer or doctor if you couldn't understand what they're saying, if your kids can't get an answer from you, why would they come back to you with the next question?

This can't be about parental comfort levels. You want your kids to trust you, & to do that, you need to give them factual information that they can understand. In sex especially, the more informed they are, the less likely they are to end up with a bunch of hangups. Too many parents shirk this responsibility. That's why we're a socio-neurotic mess.

BellaBellucci
07-27-2009, 02:41 PM
As soon as they start asking questions.

Yeah, I agree with this opinion. True to my libertarian nature I like to let things flow naturally. When my son asks me questions, I try to answer in as technical a manner as possible. If he doesn't understand what I've said, then he's not ready to.

~BB~
Yeeee-eah... But... If you talk over their head, you're not really answering the question. It's like you going to someone for professional advice & them talking to you in their trade jargon that you don't understand. Just like you probably wouldn't go back to a particular lawyer or doctor if you couldn't understand what they're saying, if your kids can't get an answer from you, why would they come back to you with the next question?

This can't be about parental comfort levels. You want your kids to trust you, & to do that, you need to give them factual information that they can understand. In sex especially, the more informed they are, the less likely they are to end up with a bunch of hangups. Too many parents shirk this responsibility. That's why we're a socio-neurotic mess.

Oh don't misunderstand. I'm conscious of what you're saying and I admit that he and I have a special relationship in that regard. He trusts me to always try to teach him things truthfully as best I can and he knows that if he doesn't understand something, when he's ready we can have the conversation again. In turn, I trust him to keep what I teach him to himself and he understands that every child's parents have different rules and ways to teach them. Accordingly, I must admit that this method doesn't work for every child.

~BB~

Helvis2012
08-14-2009, 11:46 PM
Whenever.

muhmuh
08-14-2009, 11:52 PM
if it ever comes to that i think i may have to look into how dutch schools handle sex ed
their system seems to work rather brilliantly

Felicia Katt
08-15-2009, 12:08 AM
not during. :)

FK

zukkobaby
08-15-2009, 12:25 AM
just start with something simple... when a man loves a tgirl... there are no pregnancy scares...

Helvis2012
08-16-2009, 08:10 PM
Yes...yes.