Freaking stuck up ts women blow...

[MarkD]

Been stewing over this for the last couple day's and just need to vent.

So as some know I was in the millitary for 16 years and have served four tours in Iraq. My best friend was in the Marines serving in the infantry and during his third tour was protecting some kids caught up in the crossfire during an ambush. He covered two little girls with his body and took 8 shots one of which left him paralyzed from the waist down.

He was suppose to die on the ground but beat the odds and now lives a perfectly normal independent life on his own but uses a wheelchair to get around.

So a couple months ago I met my current GF (who is post op) and we decided to take a co-worker of mines small plane and fly up to San Fransisco for the long weekend and we took my friend along with us. Sat we decided to go to a TS bar for fun and picked a spot out. He jumps out of his chair and onto a seat and we move it his chair out of the way.

We shortly start getting approached by different TS women who are very interested in my friend but when they find out about his disability they can't get away fast enough. It happened four fucking times!

I think about so many of the posts I have read here from the ts women complaining about not being able to find a guy who their sexuality is not an issue, but when a real man and genuine American hero comes around who knows how to dress, drives a fun/fast car, is finishing his Masters in business and knows how to make a woman laugh comes around the one thing he can't control disqualifies him.

I know attraction is important, but especially ts women should know how bad it sucks to be judged on outward appearance and what they can not change but were the first to do it. I can't tell you how bad we felt as both my gf and I listened to him talk about the women and how interested they were in him before they found out about his disability and then how it felt to him as they walked away after he told them....I seriously don't get how shallow and materialistic some people can be especially coming from women who experience and live with it daily...and it fucking sucks.

End venting..

[tsmandy]

It's not just TS though, people in general are uncomfortable with people with disabilities, especially when it comes to hookups.

When I was escorting I had a couple clients who had similar disabilities, and I was more than happy to spend time with them. Maybe you could find a professional for your friend, it would probably be less depressing than dealing with randoms at a bar.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

That's just sad and I'm sorry to hear that. Though I *think you already knew subconsciously that meeting girls at bars (who are mostly pretty vain and shallow) isn't necessarily the best way for your friend to meet girls. I mean, it takes a strong special woman to date a guy like your friend and the chances of running into some girl that might have an inclination getting to know him are slim to none at bars.

EDIT ADD: I have a deaf and mute younger brother, and the same thing happens to him at bars when girls finds out. But he instead dated a girl from the same deaf school he attended and is now married and got 1 kid.

~Kisses.

HTG

[jjhill]

That's just sad and I'm sorry to hear that. Though I *think you already knew subconsciously that meeting girls at bars (who are mostly pretty vain and shallow) isn't necessarily the best way for your friend to meet girls. I mean, it takes a strong special woman to date a guy like your friend and the chances of running into some girl that might have an inclination getting to know him are slim to none at bars.

~Kisses.

HTG

I was just bout to say that :claps maybe the girls was looking for sex and not a relationship.

[2009AD]

Maybe you could find a professional for your friend, it would probably be less depressing than dealing with randoms at a bar.

LOL. Hmm, his friend is in a wheelchair, he's not deaf, blind and mute. LOL. If he wants a "professional," he's probably able to call one up and make his own arrangements.

You also assume that his friend is looking for a suck and fuck for bucks. Maybe he wants to meet someone he can develop a relationship with.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

That's just sad and I'm sorry to hear that. Though I *think you already knew subconsciously that meeting girls at bars (who are mostly pretty vain and shallow) isn't necessarily the best way for your friend to meet girls. I mean, it takes a strong special woman to date a guy like your friend and the chances of running into some girl that might have an inclination getting to know him are slim to none at bars.

~Kisses.

HTG

I was just bout to say that :claps maybe the girls was looking for sex and not a relationship.

Thanks! And if he is paralyzed from waist below..that wouldn't even be possible, could it (I'm just guessing here. I could be wrong)?

~Kisses.

HTG

[MarkD]

Just fyi we were not at the bar trying to find a woman for him as we were there just to have fun and enjoy the environment. The girs were the ones approacching him showing interest and iniating things..

And yes everything when it comes to sex still works just fine as I am surprised how many people ask him that even if they don't know him.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Yeah but TS bars are known for solicitation..either for lap dances or for client booking$. Hence why ts women were working the floor - as in working every guy inside the bar looking to make $?

Am I totally wrong or off base in my assumption?

~Kisses.

HTG

[droog]

perhaps your friend can take solace in the fact that shallow girls end up with shallow guys. and that combination imo = misery. i do not consider myself to be a shallow man, yet i have been with a few girls who were really shallow. yes they were hot, but i was never truly happy. yet i always found myself to be happiest when the girl i was with shared my interests and when we connected on a mental level. with all the good your friend has done, i'm sure fate will grant him happiness when he least expects it.

[2009AD]

That's ok Mark, some of us understood. You were all out having fun with friends. He sounds like a cool guy. I have no doubt he'll meet the right one.


Just fyi we were not at the bar trying to find a woman for him as we were there just to have fun and enjoy the environment. The girs were the ones approacching him showing interest and iniating things..

And yes everything when it comes to sex still works just fine as I am surprised how many people ask him that even if they don't know him.

[MarkD]

I have no clue about workng girls or not as I have honestly never needed their services.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I have no clue about workng girls or not as I have honestly never needed their services.

I'm sure any guy or girls that attends tg parties can enlighten you more about the subject. But as someone who's been at tg parties, that's always the case. There might be a girl or two who arent working and is there to generally have fun and pick up men.

But anyways, tell your friend not to sweat it out because those girls that walked away from him after finding the fact aren't the type of girls he needs to be messing with anyways. That's what I always tell my younger brother. If they can't get passed one's disability/ties then at least you knew upfront than finding out later on when you already got feelings for the bitch! ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

[tsmandy]

Just fyi we were not at the bar trying to find a woman for him as we were there just to have fun and enjoy the environment. The girs were the ones approacching him showing interest and iniating things..

And yes everything when it comes to sex still works just fine as I am surprised how many people ask him that even if they don't know him.

My bad, I misread your post. I thought you were out to get laid.

Guys shouldn't get all up in arms when I recommend hiring a professional, I think in many circumstances hiring a professional is the most pleasant way to get laid. Call me old fashioned.

Didn't mean to offend, sorry your buddy got treated that way.

[SarahG]

And yes everything when it comes to sex still works just fine as I am surprised how many people ask him that even if they don't know him.

I think it comes down to this, people see so many tv shows & movies where people who are paralyzed from spinal damage "can't feel anything from the waist down" that they assume that means they're unable to have sex.

Unless someone has spent enough time around people with those types of disabilities to know better (which, probably isn't all that common), they're probably not going to know better.

[tsntx]

a better title would be something ... why do men in the military feel everyone should worship them?

this story has nothing to do w/ ts women
this story has nothing to do w/ being stuck up
this story is about how ppl in a bar dont want to be a nurse or a caregiver

doesnt mean they are stuck up

if he wants something serious... try an online dating site and be up front and honest about his status... the same way a girl should be about hers

oh and try to use some kind of common sense

[Sulka_bewitched_me]

a better title would be something ... why do men in the military feel everyone should worship them?

this story has nothing to do w/ ts women
this story has nothing to do w/ being stuck up
this story is about how ppl in a bar dont want to be a nurse or a caregiver

doesnt mean they are stuck up

if he wants something serious... try an online dating site and be up front and honest about his status... the same way a girl should be about hers

oh and try to use some kind of common sense OUCH!!!! :crap

[droog]

a better title would be something ... why do men in the military feel everyone should worship them?

this story has nothing to do w/ ts women
this story has nothing to do w/ being stuck up
this story is about how ppl in a bar dont want to be a nurse or a caregiver

doesnt mean they are stuck up

if he wants something serious... try an online dating site and be up front and honest about his status... the same way a girl should be about hers

oh and try to use some kind of common sense

hmm.. what can i say about jen........

she's just sooo damn negative all the time.... i think i'm kind of attracted to it. :?

[Yoite]

He was posting in regards to a few things that lead to disgust for him, Jen:
first, was the shallowness of the girls at the club as they are unable to get over something like a wheel chair; second, that the girls are just as sex hungry as the boys as they approached his friend; meaning they cared for nothing more then a quick fuck, and when finding out that he's disabled assumed he's dick didn't work among other things that would have made having sex with him unappealing. It is something rather disgusting. The fact that he was in the military could have been left out and the situation stays the same. The military is how he got his disability and is irrelevant to the situation. As far as I can tell from the story he wasn't taking his friend out on the night as a tribute to his service. It does have relevance to t/s girls as well seeing as he said this was a ts establishment.

Advice to Jen: try to castigate others a bit less and learn to be a bit more insight full.

[tsntx]

i wasnt being negative... the op was

also, again, i dont think youre a shallow person bc you dont want to date a guy in a wheelchair

much like ure not shallow for not wanting to date a ts

there are terms for what you are.... but shallow isnt the right one

me be more insightful? what exactly did i miss? i screen capped you peeing on yourself... i dont miss much so let me know what part of the story i didnt get makes it that only ts women dont want the hassle of hooking up w/ a guy in a chair

[Yoite]

Since you can't read very well I will help you out just this once. It's a thread discussing his disgust.


a better title would be something ... why do men in the military feel everyone should worship them?


The fact that he was in the military could have been left out and the situation stays the same. The military is how he got his disability and is irrelevant to the situation.


this story has nothing to do w/ ts women


It does have relevance to t/s girls as well seeing as he said this was a ts establishment.



this story has nothing to do w/ being stuck up


shallowness of the girls at the club as they are unable to get over something like a wheel chair



this story is about how ppl in a bar dont want to be a nurse or a caregiver


that the girls are just as sex hungry as the boys as they approached his friend


There, now it is all nice and easy to read seeing as you can't dissect a simple paragraph. You are wrong on every account. You add nothing to the conversation. Nice spam post.

Shallow is the perfect word to describe them, though I would add hypocritical. Shallow because they misunderstand that just because he's in a wheel chair doesn't mean he needs you to be at his beck and call. People in wheel chairs are just as independent as anyone else. In stripping them of their independence in the assumption that they need someone else to help them is being superficial as a result of general social bias (this is being shallow, which proves that you are). He doesn't need some girl to be his nurse, he does just fine on his own.

I add hypocritical because: how is a ts girl unable to look past his own fault and expect him to look over hers? Generally, transgender girls want to be accepted by their partner as female which means looking past the fact that they have a penis and the genes for male. To expect him to treat them as they see themselves, yet unable to treat him with the same is hypocritical of them.

/thread

[phobun]

There are real transsexuals, and then there are the wannabes who have no concept of what it means to be a woman.
It is overly generous to refer to the latter as "ts women". Rather, these phonies are just glammed-up gay boys in skirts who are intoxicated by their own celebrity.
And they are some of the least empathetic people of all.
Unfortunately, there are old lechers who subsidize these queens and maintain the fiction that they are something more than self-absorbed Perez Hilton clones in drag. So the superficial mindset of people enamoured with themselves is rewarded.

Your friend is a hero and he deserves the very best in life.

[alyssats]

Sorry to hear about your friend I also had some disabled client before and theyve treated me very nicely and ive treated them the utmost respect also.

I think if you and your friend wants to meet TS girls better not go to bars. The best is look at TS internet dating sites and be honest about his situation so as to avoid those girls whos not into guys with disability.

[SexChangeTranny.com]

There are real transsexuals, and then there are the wannabes who have no concept of what it means to be a woman.
It is overly generous to refer to the latter as "ts women". Rather, these phonies are just glammed-up gay boys in skirts who are intoxicated by their own celebrity.
And they are some of the least empathetic people of all.
Unfortunately, there are old lechers who subsidize these queens and maintain the fiction that they are something more than self-absorbed Perez Hilton clones in drag. So the superficial mindset of people enamoured with themselves is rewarded.

Your friend is a hero and he deserves the very best in life.


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAH I chuckled a bit

[tsntx]

Since you can't read very well I will help you out just this once. It's a thread discussing his disgust.


a better title would be something ... why do men in the military feel everyone should worship them?


The fact that he was in the military could have been left out and the situation stays the same. The military is how he got his disability and is irrelevant to the situation.


this story has nothing to do w/ ts women


It does have relevance to t/s girls as well seeing as he said this was a ts establishment.



this story has nothing to do w/ being stuck up


shallowness of the girls at the club as they are unable to get over something like a wheel chair



this story is about how ppl in a bar dont want to be a nurse or a caregiver


that the girls are just as sex hungry as the boys as they approached his friend


There, now it is all nice and easy to read seeing as you can't dissect a simple paragraph. You are wrong on every account. You add nothing to the conversation. Nice spam post.

Shallow is the perfect word to describe them, though I would add hypocritical. Shallow because they misunderstand that just because he's in a wheel chair doesn't mean he needs you to be at his beck and call. People in wheel chairs are just as independent as anyone else. In stripping them of their independence in the assumption that they need someone else to help them is being superficial as a result of general social bias (this is being shallow, which proves that you are). He doesn't need some girl to be his nurse, he does just fine on his own.

I add hypocritical because: how is a ts girl unable to look past his own fault and expect him to look over hers? Generally, transgender girls want to be accepted by their partner as female which means looking past the fact that they have a penis and the genes for male. To expect him to treat them as they see themselves, yet unable to treat him with the same is hypocritical of them.

/thread



ok let me make myself clearer i guess... him being military - i also said was irrelevant
the girls in the story being ts - i was intending that them being "stuck up" had nothing to do w/ them being ts
not wanting to look past a physical handicap is not "stuck up" or "shallow"

its a thing of taste... he likes his chicks w/ dicks... she likes her men to stand and deliver ... he cant so hes not her type... that doesnt make her shallow or stuck up

i dont see my being a ts as a burden or a disability bc i can take care of myself and live a "normal" life alone ... but that doesnt mean others see it that way... kinda like he sees himself

i also dont think a physical handicap is the same compared to a mental handicap *being w/ a ts* as a fair or equal comparrission

u know in the wild the pack kills the weak or injured bc noone will mate with them... why would it be expected to be different in a bar

[phobun]

u know in the wild the pack kills the weak or injured bc noone will mate with them... why would it be expected to be different in a bar

Because some of us are human.

[MarkD]

a better title would be something ... why do men in the military feel everyone should worship them?

this story has nothing to do w/ ts women
this story has nothing to do w/ being stuck up
this story is about how ppl in a bar dont want to be a nurse or a caregiver

doesnt mean they are stuck up

if he wants something serious... try an online dating site and be up front and honest about his status... the same way a girl should be about hers

oh and try to use some kind of common sense

You have got to be one of the dumbest people I have ever come across as you have shown absolutely no reading comprehension nor sign of intelligence in your reply. So even replying to you would be worthless as you couldn't comprehend what I originally wrote so I would need to speak like I was explaining something to my two year old niece so you could keep up and comprehend what you are reading.

Your cold and ignorant post has exposed you for just how fucking stupid you are way better then a response from me ever could.

My friend has accomplished more in his short 25 years then you will your entire pethetic life and never asked for a thing in return. He is a decorrated soldier yet humble enough that unless you are in his inner circle you would never know the circumstances regarding his paralysis, nor his decorations from the many lives he saved there and before that in Iraq. He has gone back to school paying his own way by working two jobs and never complains. He finds time in his schedule during all of this to volunteer at the local va counseling recently disabled soldiers and never asks for a thing in return as it's what is right and he wants to help others.

He is completely independent needing no nursing or caretaking and the fact that you feel it a point of pride trying to be-little him because of it is disgusting and you should be ashamed of yourself for trying although it reveals just how insecure and how non-existent you self image is.

If you are so illiterate you could not comprehend where I wrote that we were not there to pick up trannies and trannies were picking up on him, and then leaving when he was perfectly upfront and honest with them, then you are a fucking moron. You probably get such hatred from your own lack of success in being worthy of someone as amaizing as my friend and have to lie to men just to get a moment of their time.

So go back to the fucking cave you live in and contemplate how much your life truly sucks and how worthless it is and think about how someone half your size has lived and accomplished twice what you could ever hope to or ever will.

Go ahead and put down someone who has touched more lives for good around the world while you are left touching yourself as any man worth a shit wouldn't pay you to touch them.

You truly are pathetic!

p.s...fuck off!

[tsntx]

a better title would be something ... why do men in the military feel everyone should worship them?

this story has nothing to do w/ ts women
this story has nothing to do w/ being stuck up
this story is about how ppl in a bar dont want to be a nurse or a caregiver

doesnt mean they are stuck up

if he wants something serious... try an online dating site and be up front and honest about his status... the same way a girl should be about hers

oh and try to use some kind of common sense

You have got to be one of the dumbest people I have ever come across as you have shown absolutely no reading comprehension nor sign of intelligence in your reply. So even replying to you would be worthless as you couldn't comprehend what I originally wrote so I would need to speak like I was explaining something to my two year old niece so you could keep up and comprehend what you are reading.

Your cold and ignorant post has exposed you for just how fucking stupid you are way better then a response from me ever could.

My friend has accomplished more in his short 25 years then you will your entire pethetic life and never asked for a thing in return. He is a decorrated soldier yet humble enough that unless you are in his inner circle you would never know the circumstances regarding his paralysis, nor his decorations from the many lives he saved there and before that in Iraq. He has gone back to school paying his own way by working two jobs and never complains. He finds time in his schedule during all of this to volunteer at the local va counseling recently disabled soldiers and never asks for a thing in return as it's what is right and he wants to help others.

He is completely independent needing no nursing or caretaking and the fact that you feel it a point of pride trying to be-little him because of it is disgusting and you should be ashamed of yourself for trying although it reveals just how insecure and how non-existent you self image is.

If you are so illiterate you could not comprehend where I wrote that we were not there to pick up trannies and trannies were picking up on him, and then leaving when he was perfectly upfront and honest with them, then you are a fucking moron. You probably get such hatred from your own lack of success in being worthy of someone as amaizing as my friend and have to lie to men just to get a moment of their time.

So go back to the fucking cave you live in and contemplate how much your life truly sucks and how worthless it is and think about how someone half your size has lived and accomplished twice what you could ever hope to or ever will.

Go ahead and put down someone who has touched more lives for good around the world while you are left touching yourself as any man worth a shit wouldn't pay you to touch them.

You truly are pathetic!

p.s...fuck off!

lmao

speaking of not comprehending... way to prove a point there soldier :roll:

all that stuff is fine and dandy but if the guy cant give me what i want why should i stick around any longer? it would be a waste of my time and his as well.... i would expect him to wheel away from my table if i wasnt what he wanted... why is it any different? you think bc hes a war hero hes entitled to pitty-fucks? i dont. but since u think hes so great y dont u throw some pom-poms on his chair and fuck him like ure the last cheerleader for all man kind

those girls sure dodged a bullet by avoiding a guy w/ such emotionally distraught, fucked in the head friends like you ... birds of a feather flock together

[MarkD]

Again you prove my point... absolute and complete lack of reading comprehension and intelligence.

[tsntx]

Again I prove your point... i have absolute and complete lack of reading comprehension and intelligence.




there fixed it for you... dont u have a sandbox to play in

[SexChangeTranny.com]

Ok, I dated a deaf guy when I was a boy, I also had a deaf painting teacher back in Brasil. I also had a pet hamster that my parents told me "ran away".

Anyway, I would have set down, had a few beers, if the conversation was good and he made me laugh, bought me a drink, etc... cool...

So now do I get to talk about sex? Ummmmmmm well, it would be hard to not have a man with a hard dick but... I can get myself off without one, and sometimes even with a dick I have to make myself cum by the guy eating me or by him sucking on my boobs.

There are many ways to get off but only one love in my book.

What he did was an incredible gesture and he deserves some good head for it. I would suck him so hard his toes would curl.

IF he was cute, claro. If he is ugly then we may have a problem. I am assuming that he wasn't since the girls were all over him.

[MarkD]

As I have stated before, we were not there to pick up women, but were there to enjoy a fun evening, and he was good looking enough to be approached many times. We don't wear our service on our sleeve but save it for those close to us.

He is able to achieve and keep an errection and able to be fully sexually active, so getting a blowjob he is more then capeable off receiving.

[SexChangeTranny.com]

As I have stated before, we were not there to pick up women, but were there to enjoy a fun evening, and he was good looking enough to be approached many times. We don't wear our service on our sleeve but save it for those close to us.

He is able to achieve and keep an errection and able to be fully sexually active, so getting a blowjob he is more then capeable off receiving.

Ok now lets talk size cause I like my meaty dicks...

[Solitary Brother]

Been stewing over this for the last couple day's and just need to vent.

So as some know I was in the millitary for 16 years and have served four tours in Iraq. My best friend was in the Marines serving in the infantry and during his third tour was protecting some kids caught up in the crossfire during an ambush. He covered two little girls with his body and took 8 shots one of which left him paralyzed from the waist down.

He was suppose to die on the ground but beat the odds and now lives a perfectly normal independent life on his own but uses a wheelchair to get around.

So a couple months ago I met my current GF (who is post op) and we decided to take a co-worker of mines small plane and fly up to San Fransisco for the long weekend and we took my friend along with us. Sat we decided to go to a TS bar for fun and picked a spot out. He jumps out of his chair and onto a seat and we move it his chair out of the way.

We shortly start getting approached by different TS women who are very interested in my friend but when they find out about his disability they can't get away fast enough. It happened four fucking times!

I think about so many of the posts I have read here from the ts women complaining about not being able to find a guy who their sexuality is not an issue, but when a real man and genuine American hero comes around who knows how to dress, drives a fun/fast car, is finishing his Masters in business and knows how to make a woman laugh comes around the one thing he can't control disqualifies him.

I know attraction is important, but especially ts women should know how bad it sucks to be judged on outward appearance and what they can not change but were the first to do it. I can't tell you how bad we felt as both my gf and I listened to him talk about the women and how interested they were in him before they found out about his disability and then how it felt to him as they walked away after he told them....I seriously don't get how shallow and materialistic some people can be especially coming from women who experience and live with it daily...and it fucking sucks.

End venting..


We all know many transexual girls are shallow thats not news.
Yeah they could have at least treated him like a human being but what do expect?
Everyone talks about this and that but when it comes to the "doing" part is where most people are lacking.
These girls bitch and whine and cry and complain about how they are treated but the sad point is your disabled friend is FAR more accepted in society than they are.....THATS THE SHADE.

This is a very shallow and hallow lifestyle look at the girls and look at the guys the persue them.

[Solitary Brother]

There are real transsexuals, and then there are the wannabes who have no concept of what it means to be a woman.
It is overly generous to refer to the latter as "ts women". Rather, these phonies are just glammed-up gay boys in skirts who are intoxicated by their own celebrity.
And they are some of the least empathetic people of all.
Unfortunately, there are old lechers who subsidize these queens and maintain the fiction that they are something more than self-absorbed Perez Hilton clones in drag. So the superficial mindset of people enamoured with themselves is rewarded.

Your friend is a hero and he deserves the very best in life.

Wow
Any military man wounded in combat should be treated with respect....anything else is ungrateful.
There whores anyways....dont let it bother you.

This whole thread unfortunately reinforces the stereotype that transexuals are sex starved creatures.
Thats why they get treated so bad.

I am so sorry for what happened to you and your friend.
You would have been treated better in a straight bar no question.

[SmashysmashY]

He should find a bitch that's in a wheelchair. That way when they have sex it can truly be pointless for all parties involved.

[2009AD]

a better title would be something ... why do men in the military feel everyone should worship them?

Uh? I did not get that from the OP's post. He simply recounted how his buddy was injured during an attack. Don't confuse respect with worship.

[phobun]

He should find a bitch that's in a wheelchair. That way when they have sex it can truly be pointless for all parties involved.

Uh, women aren't bitches you misogynist fool. And how do you justify your non-sequitur that the sex would "truly be pointless" if his partner is also in a wheelchair?

[MarkD]

Ok now lets talk size cause I like my meaty dicks...

I am not going to look but he did say he has never had any complaints from any woman in the past, so I don't think you would be very disapointed. ;)

[RubyTS]

i used to date a client who was paralyzed from the neck down. He quickly became a close friend. We went out often, and even attempted shopping in bloomingdales on 59st... I had no problem being seein with him, the only issue i had was having to empty his pee bag. *EeewW*

[SmashysmashY]

He should find a bitch that's in a wheelchair. That way when they have sex it can truly be pointless for all parties involved.

Uh, women aren't bitches you misogynist fool. And how do you justify your non-sequitur that the sex would "truly be pointless" if his partner is also in a wheelchair?
I didn't say anything about women so I guess you just did the exact thing you've accused me of. That's pretty funny.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Tried to avoid reading this thread, I know I write way too much on here but I felt obligated to give my .02 cents.......................here it is

If you break this down to it's simplest form it's nothing more than rejection.

Folks have made reality shows based on "similar" forms of rejection

http://www.wired.com/images_blogs/photos/uncategorized/picture_4_4.png

and movies were done in the past with "similar" forms of rejection

http://images.rottentomatoes.com/images/movie/coverv/25/134525.jpg

This whole thread is based on "rejection" and when you break the OP's post down you realize this could have been anywhere with anyone. Unfortunately for us, it happened in a bar with transsexual working girls.........

Some great comments were made about bars with working girls, and it's not really necessary for me to add to it, but I will say this.

Pickup bars are not places you even remotely want to consider seriously looking for an individual that wants a longing relationship. I, for the last couple of years, have stood at parties and listened to countless newbies lust after a chick that grabbed their testicles in a corner and flirted with them only to watch the dude leave and the chick grab a regular, hop in a cab, and hit up the $60 hotel spot as usual.....

This is not just a tranny thing, this happens in chica dance spots, it happens at low-key penthouse private meeting spots, and believe it or not sports bars and LMAO @ this one: the middle of the day in Hotels [ever seen a hot chick in a bar by herself enjoying Chardonnay and she flirts heavily with you??? yeah she's a ho]......

JWBL

[phobun]

He should find a bitch that's in a wheelchair. That way when they have sex it can truly be pointless for all parties involved.

Uh, women aren't bitches you misogynist fool. And how do you justify your non-sequitur that the sex would "truly be pointless" if his partner is also in a wheelchair?
I didn't say anything about women so I guess you just did the exact thing you've accused me of. That's pretty funny.

"I didn't say anything about women"... Well, I can tell from the context of your original comment that you weren't referring to dogs; most people are referring to women, transsexual or genetic, when they use the "bitch" epithet. But I understand that some gay men may call a submissive male fuck buddy a "bitch."

"I guess you just did the exact thing you've accused me of"... okay, another non-sequitur.

Your original comment "He should find a bitch that's in a wheelchair. That way when they have sex it can truly be pointless for all parties involved." remains a stupid one. Fuck off.

[JeniferTS]

i used to date a client who was paralyzed from the neck down. He quickly became a close friend. We went out often, and even attempted shopping in bloomingdales on 59st... I had no problem being seein with him, the only issue i had was having to empty his pee bag. *EeewW*

lololol.

[SmashysmashY]

He should find a bitch that's in a wheelchair. That way when they have sex it can truly be pointless for all parties involved.

Uh, women aren't bitches you misogynist fool. And how do you justify your non-sequitur that the sex would "truly be pointless" if his partner is also in a wheelchair?
I didn't say anything about women so I guess you just did the exact thing you've accused me of. That's pretty funny.

"I didn't say anything about women"... Well, I can tell from the context of your original comment that you weren't referring to dogs; most people are referring to women, transsexual or genetic, when they use the "bitch" epithet. But I understand that some gay men may call a submissive male fuck buddy a "bitch."

"I guess you just did the exact thing you've accused me of"... okay, another non-sequitur.

Your original comment "He should find a bitch that's in a wheelchair. That way when they have sex it can truly be pointless for all parties involved." remains a stupid one. Fuck off.
So you acknowledge that when someone says "bitch" they could be talking about a man, a woman, or something else yet you automatically assume they're talking about women with no need for clarification. I guess you just revealed yourself to be not only misogynistic but hypocritical as well. That's quite an accomplishment for someone in your condition.

[SarahG]

He should find a bitch that's in a wheelchair. That way when they have sex it can truly be pointless for all parties involved.

Uh, women aren't bitches you misogynist fool. And how do you justify your non-sequitur that the sex would "truly be pointless" if his partner is also in a wheelchair?
I didn't say anything about women so I guess you just did the exact thing you've accused me of. That's pretty funny.

"I didn't say anything about women"... Well, I can tell from the context of your original comment that you weren't referring to dogs; most people are referring to women, transsexual or genetic, when they use the "bitch" epithet. But I understand that some gay men may call a submissive male fuck buddy a "bitch."

"I guess you just did the exact thing you've accused me of"... okay, another non-sequitur.

Your original comment "He should find a bitch that's in a wheelchair. That way when they have sex it can truly be pointless for all parties involved." remains a stupid one. Fuck off.
So you acknowledge that when someone says "bitch" they could be talking about a man, a woman, or something else yet you automatically assume they're talking about women with no need for clarification. I guess you just revealed yourself to be not only misogynistic but hypocritical as well. That's quite an accomplishment for someone in your condition.

Ok now I am curious;

What condition would that be?

[drock]

i used to date a client who was paralyzed from the neck down. He quickly became a close friend. We went out often, and even attempted shopping in bloomingdales on 59st... I had no problem being seein with him, the only issue i had was having to empty his pee bag. *EeewW*

im curious what did you do with him when it came to sex if you dated him?

[ImN2Deep]

Yeah but TS bars are known for solicitation..either for lap dances or for client booking$. Hence why ts women were working the floor - as in working every guy inside the bar looking to make $?

Am I totally wrong or off base in my assumption?


~Kisses.

HTG

You are 100% correct in that assumtion many TS bars and TS parties are flooded with solicitation although there are a few who are not working.

I think Iam a nice attractive black male and also a gentleman . I buy a girl a drink and try to strike up conversation their first question is do u want a date when I say thats not what Iam here for, they immediately roll out. Iam offended too. It would be nice to go to nice TS club, bar or party and just have a good time and meet girls like other clubs.

But as someone stated before girls gotta make a living somehow. Sad but True. Quoting Larry Fishburn (Bumpy Johnson) in the Movie THE COTTON CLUB. Iam a criminal All I know is the street The white man has only left me the Underworld and Thats were I Dance". It's an excuse of course but Its relative to some TS girls situation.

Mostly due to lack of determination and will to seek higher education. Much easier to prostitute fast easy money. It's much like strippers and drug dealers at the end of the day MOST end of the day when they cant dance or stop selling drugs have nothing to show for it. Yea a few name brand outfits, shoes and purses and maybe a car but thats about it. Also Sad but True

[cadcad]

Sounds depressing but that's just how it is. If you're meeting people at a bar they are going to look for the best person they can get and someone in a wheelchair just isn't it.

I dated someone with a disability for awhile and I loved them, but when we broke up I realized how much easier it was being with someone without a disability. It takes work and a lot of effort on someone to be with someone disabled. Don't think everyone is being mean or snotty they probably just want things in a relationship that he can't do.

[slingblade]

that sucks but a lot of people are like that too not just ts