Girls - Are you happy pre-op or do you want surgery???

[Danielle Foxx]

I wanted to ask the ladies if ya'll ever think about SRS, if you don't and are happy with being pre-op stand proud and voice your opinion and that goes to the girls who are considering it, and those who have fears, please explain your concerns.

Grab some tea and a cracker - Let's chat

[BellaBellucci]

I wanted to ask the ladies if ya'll ever think about SRS, if you don't and are happy with being pre-op stand proud and voice your opinion and that goes to the girls who are considering it, and those who have fears, please explain your concerns.

Grab some tea and a cracker - Let's chat

Wow - the eternally loaded question. Nobody answer! It's a trap! ;)

~BB~

[Danielle Foxx]

If you don't answer right this thread will detonate

[rockabilly]

It's a trap ... sorry i'll be ...over there...

[JHANIAH L0VE]

working on it right now!!!

[Nicole Dupre]

Honestly, I worry that the grass is always greener, that misery loves company, and that I'll need to dilate for the rest of my life. Also, having a cock is my main source of income.

The bottom line is, having awesome sex is one of the few things I'm accustomed to taking for granted in life. Therefore, I'm not ready right now, but I can never say "never".

[Nicole Dupre]

I'm not even considering it anytime soon, and I still watch some guys having minor meltdowns and getting paranoid; asking me if I'm going to "get it cut off someday".

Guys, we appreciate the advice and concern, but thats a major buzz kill. lol

[LibertyHarkness]

I will answer honestly as well ..

Ok my penis, well I neither like it or loathe it to be honest, its just part of me ...sure it feels nice to use sometimes etc but mostly i am passive with my own personal sex life...

in all the escort/shoots i do where i am needed fuck I have to take kamagra to assist with maintaining erections...

I have thought about grs and i feel at the moment in my life I would have no benefit from having a vagina instead of my penis so feel why risk surgery for the sake of it at this stage..... I am not ruling out i wont ever go Post OP maybe in 5years etc........I guess the time when i feel I cant stand my penis being there I will ...

Until that time I am happy as I am.....I am a girl having a femrod attached doesnt take that away from me I beleive anyway.

Just my thoughts.

[alyssats]

i love my cock especially playing with it and if someone is sucking it. it just feel so good unexplainable

but there is stll part of me that always think hope i have a pussy sometimes. like when i go clubbing or stroll in malls and met this cute guy, he didnt know im a TS girl. then we have intimate time together but i dont have any pussy to show him. i just feel so bad sometimes hope i have a pussy to make love romatincally or sometimes slutty in bed with him :roll:

[Nikka]

I love my cock

[rockabilly]

I love your cock too Aly , Nikka and Liberty :jerkoff: ;)

[JeniferTS]

contrary to what the other girls have said so far, i'd have it done in a heart beat..the only thing stopping me is the fact that i'm a poor latin girl :cry:

[rockabilly]

Dont be sad Jen ... now your gonna make me cry :cry:

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

i love my cock especially playing with it and if someone is sucking it. it just feel so good unexplainable

but there is stll part of me that always think hope i have a pussy sometimes. like when i go clubbing or stroll in malls and met this cute guy, he didnt know im a TS girl. then we have intimate time together but i dont have any pussy to show him. i just feel so bad sometimes hope i have a pussy to make love romatincally or sometimes slutty in bed with him :roll:

I use to feel that way also. But then again, the guys here are alot different than in the PI. Most men here that I've meet are 'open minded' and doesn't mind me having the extra down there. So majority of my run ins, it's not a deal breaker if or when discovered! lol I know I've had a few also that don't go there but oh well..life goes on..and some still goes for it after the initial shock wears off! ;)

So right now, I am happy and satisfied being pre-op..but who's to say what's to come?

Like Nicole, I've imagine myself dilating forever laying in bed or while bubble bathing..it just doesn't seem very appealing to me (too much work?). I've had a friend who was lazy doing it, and eventually her neo pussy closed shop. lol I just can't imagine myself still dilating when I'm in my 60's/70's or worst fucking random guys as a dilation substitute! lol

~Kisses.

HTG

[rockabilly]

:o

[rockabilly]

No need for a ramdnom guy , use me lol when the need arises.

[Ts CinthyaNY]

With all honestly I would love to have a vagina ( a real one ), a Neo Vagina it's just not for me.

I just to hate my "she cock" but I learn how to love it and accept as it is part of me and to take advantage of. My main source of income for now, my husband do not seem to have a problem with, bf love it and a all my clients live for it...

I would go for it, may be I will... when I know I would be ready to leave the escort life behind and may be to start a family, for now I do not consider the SRS...

A Neo Vagina do not make more of a woman that I am now... All due respect to the girls that have done it.


Love...

Cinthya.

[rockabilly]

What you have between your legs does not make you more or less a woman... It's how you feel in your heart and mind ... gender is just chromosones.

[Ts CinthyaNY]

What you have between your legs does not make you a woman... It's how you feel in your heart and mind ... gender is just chromosones.

You know that baby ... :wink: btw... visit NY , one hell of a place for a guy like you ...!! lol


Love...

Cinthya.

[rockabilly]

Time i take a bite outta the big apple ;)

[Tika]

I used to be pretty militant about not needing SRS to be "complete", that what was between one's legs doesn't make one a woman or man. However it gets tough when you're in love with another woman and she's a lesbian, and there's no way she wants to have anything to do with a penis.

Would SRS make things simpler? I guess. No more tucking, being able to wear anything and not worry about "ze bulge", going swimming in public... I kind of miss going swimming with other people. Mostly it's shitty to have someone love you but resign themselves to a sexless relationship because you have a penis. Just my luck to get the one lesbian in the world that can't deal with penetration. Ah well.

[Silcc69]

contrary to what the other girls have said so far, i'd have it done in a heart beat..the only thing stopping me is the fact that i'm a poor latin girl :cry:

Hence you should become a "working" gurl.

[rockabilly]

Or make some wise investments.

[alyssats]

i love my cock especially playing with it and if someone is sucking it. it just feel so good unexplainable

but there is stll part of me that always think hope i have a pussy sometimes. like when i go clubbing or stroll in malls and met this cute guy, he didnt know im a TS girl. then we have intimate time together but i dont have any pussy to show him. i just feel so bad sometimes hope i have a pussy to make love romatincally or sometimes slutty in bed with him :roll:

I use to feel that way also. But then again, the guys here are alot different than in the PI. Most men here that I've meet are 'open minded' and doesn't mind me having the extra down there. So majority of my run ins, it's not a deal breaker if or when discovered! lol I know I've had a few also that don't go there but oh well..life goes on..and some still goes for it after the initial shock wears off! ;)

So right now, I am happy and satisfied being pre-op..but who's to say what's to come?

Like Nicole, I've imagine myself dilating forever laying in bed or while bubble bathing..it just doesn't seem very appealing to me (too much work?). I've had a friend who was lazy doing it, and eventually her neo pussy closed shop. lol I just can't imagine myself still dilating when I'm in my 60's/70's or worst fucking random guys as a dilation substitute! lol

~Kisses.

HTG

goshhh thats scary

yes i have some few post op TS friends sometime theyll call me late at night panic mode and ask for my help to look for a random guy in the street that could fuck her pussy shes scared it might closed :roll:

[tsmandy]

I definitely hope to as soon as I can figure out how to make it all work. For me it is mostly needing to find a way out of the sex industry before I can make it happen.

If a large chunk of money fell into my lap, enough to do something different with my life, then I would do it soon. But it will probably be another 5 years or so, realistically speaking.

[Quiet Reflections]

What is the cost on average for SRS/GRS ?

[LibertyHarkness]

are you offering to pay for mine quiet :) heheh xxxxx

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

i love my cock especially playing with it and if someone is sucking it. it just feel so good unexplainable

but there is stll part of me that always think hope i have a pussy sometimes. like when i go clubbing or stroll in malls and met this cute guy, he didnt know im a TS girl. then we have intimate time together but i dont have any pussy to show him. i just feel so bad sometimes hope i have a pussy to make love romatincally or sometimes slutty in bed with him :roll:

I use to feel that way also. But then again, the guys here are alot different than in the PI. Most men here that I've meet are 'open minded' and doesn't mind me having the extra down there. So majority of my run ins, it's not a deal breaker if or when discovered! lol I know I've had a few also that don't go there but oh well..life goes on..and some still goes for it after the initial shock wears off! ;)

So right now, I am happy and satisfied being pre-op..but who's to say what's to come?

Like Nicole, I've imagine myself dilating forever laying in bed or while bubble bathing..it just doesn't seem very appealing to me (too much work?). I've had a friend who was lazy doing it, and eventually her neo pussy closed shop. lol I just can't imagine myself still dilating when I'm in my 60's/70's or worst fucking random guys as a dilation substitute! lol

~Kisses.

HTG

goshhh thats scary

yes i have some few post op TS friends sometime theyll call me late at night panic mode and ask for my help to look for a random guy in the street that could fuck her pussy shes scared it might closed :roll:

Finding random guys isn't a problem these days..It's finding the CLEAN (d/d) one's that's scarce! So it's better being safe and still use a rubber IMO. What's a pussy if it's got sores all around it? lol I'd guess, not a very pretty one. Rofl :wink:

~Kisses.

HTG

[rockabilly]

They dont get any cleaner than a virgin ladies. ;)

[JeniferTS]

contrary to what the other girls have said so far, i'd have it done in a heart beat..the only thing stopping me is the fact that i'm a poor latin girl :cry:

Hence you should become a "working" gurl.

:?: :?: :?:

[rockabilly]

Dont do it Jen. Think of the consequences weigh the pros and cons.

[Quiet Reflections]

are you offering to pay for mine quiet :) heheh xxxxx
I would love to if i could. I was just wondering because it seems like some girls work and save forever yet still come no closer. I guess it depends on what you do with the cash as you get it.

[Quiet Reflections]

Dont do it Jen. Think of the consequences weigh the pros and cons.
+1

[LibertyHarkness]

Quiet its not just srs a girl needs to save for though.. i will break down what i have to save/pay for below

Laser (face/body will take 18months ish) cost about £3k
Boob Job (Cost £2.5k)
FFS (facial Surgery tweaks - Cost £13k)
Ass/Hip Filling - (cost about £3.5k)
My hair - (cost me about £1.5k a year)
SrS - getting that designer Vagina - Cost variable from £6-15k

Thats not including any airfares/accom etc..

So you see it is very expensive to transistion privately...

Libb x

[Quiet Reflections]

Quiet its not just srs a girl needs to save for though.. i will break down what i have to save/pay for below

Laser (face/body will take 18months ish) cost about £3k
Boob Job (Cost £2.5k)
FFS (facial Surgery tweaks - Cost £13k)
Ass/Hip Filling - (cost about £3.5k)
My hair - (cost me about £1.5k a year)
SrS - getting that designer Vagina - Cost variable from £6-15k

Thats not including any airfares/accom etc..

So you see it is very expensive to transistion privately...

Libb x
all that plus Hormones,rent,etc would put anyone in the poor house

[rockabilly]

Thats why if a girl is thinking about having it done , you need a solid plan. Do the math expect price increases on everything , have a clearly defined exit plan. Plan your work then work your plan.
Some of us guys love you and accept you as you are ... is that not enough?

[LibertyHarkness]

well hormones are free as prescribed :)

but yes rent, food etc other bills etc.. but yes i agree some working girls can make alot of money.. but also alot of them have nasty habits that eat money away...

Libb x

[rockabilly]

Like shoes :lol:

[LibertyHarkness]

yes shoes :)

[rockabilly]

:) Having a sense of humor is a plus for me.

[Nicole Dupre]

Up until about the age of 16, I was pretty decided that nothing in life would give me more pleasure than having a man penetrate me between my legs, on the spot where a vagina woulda-coulda-shoulda been. But up until then, I was pretty limited in terms of sexual experience.

One thing is certain. Eventually I will get an orchi. Maybe not srs, although that too is likely years from now. But I am shutting down the testo factory for good some day. That, I know. They're not very productive anyway, and I'm pretty sick of taking Spiro.

[LibertyHarkness]

i think an orchi is a very sensible for those that want to stay preip as a lifetime on the mones will only shorten your span ultimately

[MacShreach]

Or make some wise investments.She is. She's studying. It's the best investment she can make.

[rockabilly]

Very true Mac , very true.

[Distance]

A moment of laughter, in such a cruel world:
http://s153139690.websitehome.co.uk/betty-sexchange.htm :lol:

[Suckalot1]

Or make some wise investments.She is. She's studying. It's the best investment she can make.

That was just about the corniest thing I've ever read.


Girls leave the penis please!!!!!

[RubyTS]

i get scared that if i get a sex change i will still get spooked/clocked and go crazy

im content with my penis, though i would be happier if it were thicker. Its the balls that drive me crazy, tucking is so uncomfortable. Im considerring getting castrated, not quite sure yet though

[Suckalot1]

I vote no castration and no removing of the penis or whatever they do. As natural as possible with little to no surgery...thats the way I love em.

[LuciaMiel]

I love my body.



Also, my dick is my meal ticket.
I think Orchi would be nice, once I get out of the game.
SRS is too expensive for results I would not be happy with.

Maybe stem cell research will provide better results one day.

[peggygee]

What is the cost on average for SRS/GRS ?

GRS averages about $5K to $20K domestically and abroad.

While I would not call the price of transitioning inexpensive it indeed is
doable if one is committed to seeing it through.

From a very early age I knew that I would have GRS, and I achieved
that goal, along with all the other accompanying surgeries.

I never enjoyed using my penis, and it was never my meal ticket, so not
having the use of it was no loss to me.

On the related topic of dilation, there are some misconceptions being
spread in this thread.

Dilation is really just having sex with your neo-vagina.

In the first weeks post operatively it is very important that a woman dilate
so that her neo-vagina does not close.

After that point, a woman merely needs to have sex with someone or to
masturbate with herself. Even then there is no mandated schedule and
she is not at risk of having her vagina close up on her.

Having GRS is a serious and personal decison, and if a woman enjoys her
penis and it doesn't cause her angst, then GRS very likely wouldn't be
indicated for her.

But whatever her decision I would hope that she is armed with accurate
data, so as to make an informed decision.

[rockabilly]

I vote no castration and no removing of the penis or whatever they do. As natural as possible with little to no surgery...thats the way I love em.
It's not up for vote , it's the girls choice ... you can either support her in it or get lost . She would do it for her self not your pleasure.

[TsJANIRA]

Honestly, i love my body including my package,,, I just love looking at myself in the mirror and seeing the femme and the masculine (penis) how it all blends together, and forms a unique beauty that is me. I have always gotten asked if I was going to go Post, I said No , I love how i look and I am very happy with having what i have. If Girls choose to go post, more power to them, as along as they are doing for the right reasons, and and have researched thoroughly

.http://img26.picoodle.com/img/img26/2/7/2/labellayoyo/f_47c44a842d2m_2029e4b.jpg (http://www.picoodle.com/)

[JHANIAH L0VE]

What you have between your legs does not make you more or less a woman... It's how you feel in your heart and mind ... gender is just chromosones. you did NOT!!! just say CHROMOSONES!!!!!!!!!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L5HoUOw6iPE :lol: :lol: :lol:

[Quiet Reflections]

Honestly, i love my body including my package,,, I just love looking at myself in the mirror and seeing the femme and the masculine (penis) how it all blends together, and forms a unique beauty that is me. I have always gotten asked if I was going to go Post, I said No , I love how i look and I am very happy with having what i have. If Girls choose to go post, more power to them, as along as they are doing for the right reasons, and and have researched thoroughly

.http://img26.picoodle.com/img/img26/2/7/2/labellayoyo/f_47c44a842d2m_2029e4b.jpg (http://www.picoodle.com/)

You are one of the few good things about Florida

[rockabilly]

Stop it Janira ... your pic is making me blush.
Jhaniah i meant no offence . :oops:

[Sulka_bewitched_me]

Honestly, i love my body including my package,,, I just love looking at myself in the mirror and seeing the femme and the masculine (penis) how it all blends together, and forms a unique beauty that is me. I have always gotten asked if I was going to go Post, I said No , I love how i look and I am very happy with having what i have. If Girls choose to go post, more power to them, as along as they are doing for the right reasons, and and have researched thoroughly

.http://img26.picoodle.com/img/img26/2/7/2/labellayoyo/f_47c44a842d2m_2029e4b.jpg (http://www.picoodle.com/)

You are one of the few good things about Florida Even though I wholeheartedly agree that ultimately it's up to each individual and whatever makes them happy, I also agree with Janira's statement that by chossing not to have the surgery ideally is what makes her and other's that choose not to so unique. I know not every TS woman has the looks or money to transform themselves but for the ones that can totally fool anyone that she's a GG, really who would know outside the bedroom? I've stated before on here that some of you girls put GG to shame in the looks department.

[Quiet Reflections]

Honestly, i love my body including my package,,, I just love looking at myself in the mirror and seeing the femme and the masculine (penis) how it all blends together, and forms a unique beauty that is me. I have always gotten asked if I was going to go Post, I said No , I love how i look and I am very happy with having what i have. If Girls choose to go post, more power to them, as along as they are doing for the right reasons, and and have researched thoroughly

.http://img26.picoodle.com/img/img26/2/7/2/labellayoyo/f_47c44a842d2m_2029e4b.jpg (http://www.picoodle.com/)

You are one of the few good things about Florida Even though I wholeheartedly agree that ultimately it's up to each individual and whatever makes them happy, I also agree with Janira's statement that by chossing not to have the surgery ideally is what makes her and other's that choose not to so unique. I know not every TS woman has the looks or money to transform themselves but for the ones that can totally fool anyone that she's a GG, really who would know outside the bedroom?
Was that directed towards me? My comment meant that she was beautiful and i hate Florida and she is in my opinion one of the few good thing about the whole state. but you statement is cool to but i don't know what it has to do with me

[Sulka_bewitched_me]

Honestly, i love my body including my package,,, I just love looking at myself in the mirror and seeing the femme and the masculine (penis) how it all blends together, and forms a unique beauty that is me. I have always gotten asked if I was going to go Post, I said No , I love how i look and I am very happy with having what i have. If Girls choose to go post, more power to them, as along as they are doing for the right reasons, and and have researched thoroughly

.http://img26.picoodle.com/img/img26/2/7/2/labellayoyo/f_47c44a842d2m_2029e4b.jpg (http://www.picoodle.com/)

You are one of the few good things about Florida Even though I wholeheartedly agree that ultimately it's up to each individual and whatever makes them happy, I also agree with Janira's statement that by chossing not to have the surgery ideally is what makes her and other's that choose not to so unique. I know not every TS woman has the looks or money to transform themselves but for the ones that can totally fool anyone that she's a GG, really who would know outside the bedroom?
Was that directed towards me? My comment meant that she was beautiful and i hate Florida and she is in my opinion one of the few good thing about the whole state. but you statement is cool to but i don't know what it has to do with me I was quoting her but somehow I think your quote got included so no I'm not dissin' you. It's all good from here.

[TsJANIRA]

Honestly, i love my body including my package,,, I just love looking at myself in the mirror and seeing the femme and the masculine (penis) how it all blends together, and forms a unique beauty that is me. I have always gotten asked if I was going to go Post, I said No , I love how i look and I am very happy with having what i have. If Girls choose to go post, more power to them, as along as they are doing for the right reasons, and and have researched thoroughly

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You are one of the few good things about Florida Even though I wholeheartedly agree that ultimately it's up to each individual and whatever makes them happy, I also agree with Janira's statement that by chossing not to have the surgery ideally is what makes her and other's that choose not to so unique. I know not every TS woman has the looks or money to transform themselves but for the ones that can totally fool anyone that she's a GG, really who would know outside the bedroom? I've stated before on here that some of you girls put GG to shame in the looks department.




I know some Post -ops that are not what others say,,,"Real", who have had the operation knowing that wont be able to convince the world that they were not ever male, They do it because it is what they have dreamed and longed for and want to do, and it does not matter what the world thinks of them , or wheather they pass or not, I feel the same about being Pre -op, I always got flack because of my 511 height, and am I supposed to crawl under a rock just because I dont in their eyes Fall into what is [Realness],,, To me realness is LIVING YOUR LIFE BEING WHO YOU WANT TO BE AND DOING WHAT YOU WANT TO DO , AND MAKING YOUR DREAMS............"REALITY that is what realness is to me.

[rockabilly]

Bravo Janira :) Keep it real sweety.

[TsJANIRA]

AND I HATE FLORIDA TOO....... LOLLL BEEN IN FLORIDA TOO LONGGGGGGGGGGGGGG

[rockabilly]

I hate South Carolina ... wer'e neighbors , well almost.

[TsJANIRA]

LEMEM REPHRASE..... I HATE THE SOUTH!!!!! LOLLLLL

[Sulka_bewitched_me]

Honestly, i love my body including my package,,, I just love looking at myself in the mirror and seeing the femme and the masculine (penis) how it all blends together, and forms a unique beauty that is me. I have always gotten asked if I was going to go Post, I said No , I love how i look and I am very happy with having what i have. If Girls choose to go post, more power to them, as along as they are doing for the right reasons, and and have researched thoroughly

.26/2/7/2/labellayoyo/f_47c44a842d2m_2029e4b.jpg[/img][/URL]

You are one of the few good things about Florida Even though I wholeheartedly agree that ultimately it's up to each individual and whatever makes them happy, I also agree with Janira's statement that by chossing not to have the surgery ideally is what makes her and other's that choose not to so unique. I know not every TS woman has the looks or money to transform themselves but for the ones that can totally fool anyone that she's a GG, really who would know outside the bedroom? I've stated before on here that some of you girls put GG to shame in the looks department.




I know some Post -ops that are not what others say,,,"Real", who have had the operation knowing that wont be able to convince the world that they were not ever male, They do it because it is what they have dreamed and longed for and want to do, and it does not matter what the world thinks of them , or wheather they pass or not, I feel the same about being Pre -op, I always got flack because of my 511 height, and am I supposed to crawl under a rock just because I dont in their eyes Fall into what is [Realness],,, To me realness is LIVING YOUR LIFE BEING WHO YOU WANT TO BE AND DOING WHAT YOU WANT TO DO , AND MAKING YOUR DREAMS............"REALITY that is what realness is to me. I never really was good at punctuation so let me try to rephrase. What I was trying to say was that there are a few TS/TG girls that are so attractive that they're able to fool a lot of people into believing they're GG. The only ones that would really know would be those select individuals that got into the bedroom with them. Danielle knows this as she's been on four seperate Maury shows where guests were trying to figure out (out of say 10 ladies) which were men and which were women and there were a lot of audience members who got it wrong.

[alyssats]

A moment of laughter, in such a cruel world:
http://s153139690.websitehome.co.uk/betty-sexchange.htm :lol:

ohhhh my goshhh :shock:

[rockabilly]

Janira i prefer New England or San Francisco ... Maybe Portland.

[TsJANIRA]

Honestly, i love my body including my package,,, I just love looking at myself in the mirror and seeing the femme and the masculine (penis) how it all blends together, and forms a unique beauty that is me. I have always gotten asked if I was going to go Post, I said No , I love how i look and I am very happy with having what i have. If Girls choose to go post, more power to them, as along as they are doing for the right reasons, and and have researched thoroughly

.26/2/7/2/labellayoyo/f_47c44a842d2m_2029e4b.jpg[/img][/URL]

You are one of the few good things about Florida Even though I wholeheartedly agree that ultimately it's up to each individual and whatever makes them happy, I also agree with Janira's statement that by chossing not to have the surgery ideally is what makes her and other's that choose not to so unique. I know not every TS woman has the looks or money to transform themselves but for the ones that can totally fool anyone that she's a GG, really who would know outside the bedroom? I've stated before on here that some of you girls put GG to shame in the looks department.




I know some Post -ops that are not what others say,,,"Real", who have had the operation knowing that wont be able to convince the world that they were not ever male, They do it because it is what they have dreamed and longed for and want to do, and it does not matter what the world thinks of them , or wheather they pass or not, I feel the same about being Pre -op, I always got flack because of my 511 height, and am I supposed to crawl under a rock just because I dont in their eyes Fall into what is [Realness],,, To me realness is LIVING YOUR LIFE BEING WHO YOU WANT TO BE AND DOING WHAT YOU WANT TO DO , AND MAKING YOUR DREAMS............"REALITY that is what realness is to me. I never really was good at punctuation so let me try to rephrase. What I was trying to say was that there are a few TS/TG girls that are so attractive that they're able to fool a lot of people into believing they're GG. The only ones that would really know would be those select individuals that got into the bedroom with them. Danielle knows this as she's been on four seperate Maury shows where guests were trying to figure out (out of say 10 ladies) which were men and which were women and there were a lot of audience members who got it wrong.


Sweety I know what you meant my love, It was just sharing a point of view,, But yes i do know what you mean.

[RubyTS]

realness is overrated
i know plenty of gg's who get mistaken for trannies
thats only because so many of us are doing our job right, we're confusing the shit outta these motherfuckers. Im 5'10 so i know where ur coming from. i know ts's who look like str8 up men in the face but dont get spooked cuz they're like 5'4. The taller girls draw a lot more attention so we gotta try harder to get by undetected

[BLKGSXR]

A moment of laughter, in such a cruel world:
http://s153139690.websitehome.co.uk/betty-sexchange.htm :lol:

ohhhh my goshhh :shock:He owes me a tacosalad for that one...

[rockabilly]

Your Amazon Goddeses , make those men bow down! :)

[TsJANIRA]

realness is overrated
i know plenty of gg's who get mistaken for trannies
thats only because so many of us are doing our job right, we're confusing the shit outta these motherfuckers. Im 5'10 so i know where ur coming from. i know ts's who look like str8 up men in the face but dont get spooked cuz they're like 5'4. The taller girls draw a lot more attention so we gotta try harder to get by undetected



Yes ma'am,,,,, Lemme tell you when I started my transistion, Omg,,,,They would call me mosquito cause i was so thin and tall, Olive oil,,, i mean it goes on,,lmaooo And i actually had a complex due to the constant ridicule , you know being at the time I was 15 yrs old, You tend to believe what the foolish girls say about you. But it was not untill a few years later that a Guy told me Tall women are far more striking than shorter women, and he just made me realize the beauty that is being a tall woman, since that day i saw myself in a new light, sure being Real, and short 5'4 - 5'8 is cute for those other girls .. but put a tall bitch in short dress & 5 inch heels standing 6'2 giving 41 inches and beyond of legs sweety ..... and see all havoc break loose!!!

[TsJANIRA]

realness is overrated
i know plenty of gg's who get mistaken for trannies
thats only because so many of us are doing our job right, we're confusing the shit outta these motherfuckers. Im 5'10 so i know where ur coming from. i know ts's who look like str8 up men in the face but dont get spooked cuz they're like 5'4. The taller girls draw a lot more attention so we gotta try harder to get by undetected



Yes ma'am,,,,, Lemme tell you when I started my transistion, Omg,,,,They would call me mosquito cause i was so thin and tall, Olive oil,,, i mean it goes on,,lmaooo And i actually had a complex due to the constant ridicule , you know being at the time I was 15 yrs old, You tend to believe what the foolish girls say about you. But it was not untill a few years later that a Guy told me Tall women are far more striking than shorter women, and he just made me realize the beauty that is being a tall woman, since that day i saw myself in a new light, sure being Real, and short 5'4 - 5'8 is cute for those other girls .. but put a tall bitch in short dress & 5 inch heels standing 6'2 giving 41 inches and beyond of legs sweety ..... and see all havoc break loose!!!

[TsJANIRA]

repost sorry

[hotvegasguy26]

i love my cock especially playing with it and if someone is sucking it. it just feel so good unexplainable

hot

[Nicole Dupre]

I know some Post -ops that are not what others say,,,"Real", who have had the operation knowing that wont be able to convince the world that they were not ever male, They do it because it is what they have dreamed and longed for and want to do, and it does not matter what the world thinks of them , or wheather they pass or not, I feel the same about being Pre -op, I always got flack because of my 511 height, and am I supposed to crawl under a rock just because I dont in their eyes Fall into what is [Realness],,, To me realness is LIVING YOUR LIFE BEING WHO YOU WANT TO BE AND DOING WHAT YOU WANT TO DO , AND MAKING YOUR DREAMS............"REALITY that is what realness is to me.

Janira, I notice that south FL is a place where lots of older trannys still talk about being "complete", as if its the logical conclusion of being TS, and that you are somehow incomplete until you are. lol Keep in mind though that, years ago, if you said you were a "girl trapped in a guy's body, you either immediately got an orchi, or they'd go right to EST and a lobotomy. I'm glad things aren't at all like that anymore, because I appreciate not being pressured into it. If and when I get it, it will be a true choice.

Because I do feel that I'm already "complete", and being post-op would not be "better than" what I am now; simply different. But I agree that being "complete" is not realness.

Also, I wouldn't feel ashamed of being 5'11". There are plenty of drop dead gorgeous GGs & TSs who are just as tall or taller. My guess is that you pass pretty easily, regardless. Tall girls always turn heads. People even clock real fish as TS at times. lol

[TsJANIRA]

I know some Post -ops that are not what others say,,,"Real", who have had the operation knowing that wont be able to convince the world that they were not ever male, They do it because it is what they have dreamed and longed for and want to do, and it does not matter what the world thinks of them , or wheather they pass or not, I feel the same about being Pre -op, I always got flack because of my 511 height, and am I supposed to crawl under a rock just because I dont in their eyes Fall into what is [Realness],,, To me realness is LIVING YOUR LIFE BEING WHO YOU WANT TO BE AND DOING WHAT YOU WANT TO DO , AND MAKING YOUR DREAMS............"REALITY that is what realness is to me.

Janira, I notice that south FL is a place where lots of older trannys still talk about being "complete", as if its the logical conclusion of being TS, and that you are somehow incomplete until you are. lol Keep in mind though that, years ago, if you said you were a "girl trapped in a guy's body, you either immediately got an orchi, or they'd go right to EST and a lobotomy. I'm glad things aren't at all like that anymore, because I appreciate not being pressured into it. If and when I get it, it will be a true choice.

But I do feel that I'm already "complete", and that being post-op would not be "better than" what I am now; simply different. But I agree that being "complete" is not realness.

Also, I wouldn't feel ashamed of being 5'11". There are plenty of drop dead gorgeous GGs & TSs who are just as tall or taller. My guess is that you pass pretty easily, regardless. Tall girls always turn heads. People even clock real fish as TS at times. lol





loll I know One time I was at subways and it was packed and there was snikkering and giggles and I was like oh ok w.e. , they know im a ts, but it turns out there was lady in behind me who was a gg but looked very very manly,,,loll and when I turned around I laughed to myself cause I actually thought they were doing it to me,,,loll So you see sometimes one may thing that she has been detected as they say , when you have not.

[rockabilly]

Could be worse ... I'm a chubby man who people assume is a butch lesbian!?! :shrug:

[loren]

I wanted to ask the ladies if ya'll ever think about SRS, if you don't and are happy with being pre-op stand proud and voice your opinion and that goes to the girls who are considering it, and those who have fears, please explain your concerns.

Grab some tea and a cracker - Let's chat
The thought has crossed my mind a couple of times. But, I'm happy with myself right now. For now, maybe some day, SRS is not for me. :)

[hotvegasguy26]

Honestly, i love my body including my package,,, I just love looking at myself in the mirror and seeing the femme and the masculine (penis) how it all blends together, and forms a unique beauty that is me.

i love that.... a girl who's happy and confident with her body is just plain sexy....especially if she has a cock

[Nicole Dupre]

Do you ever get up this way? Voodoo Lounge is kinda fun on Sunday nights, and there are lots of other TS-friendly clubs in Broward. And, NO, I am not talking about Trixies. ;) I can deal with Trixies maybe like once a year. lol

[hotvegasguy26]

nicole, what clubs are good besides voodoo? i just moved to south fla

[TsJANIRA]

And yeah Nicole I still hear the same ol' When i get complete I will be so happy & it will be the answer to al my problems......... "?"


I am not someone who is going Post -op or is so I cannot say much on this, but I will say How can some who are planning on Taking that step set them selves up for certain dissapointments , when after they have achieved their post -op status and find out their { Happy & Problem free life } is not so..

By all means there is nothing wrong with expecting , and wanting to achieve and live a happy life, W e all have some expectations on what we would love our life to be and fulfill and try to fulfill it .

[hotvegasguy26]

janira never get rid of yours its beautiful

[astridshayxxx]

I want to have the bottom surgery but wonder now if I will ever have the cash for it.

I think I am making peace with the possibilty of having my penis for a while it looks like which at other points in my life would have been a non starter.

As for being 5'10" and being clocked.......... well my brother always told me best thing to do is "look them in the eye and put on your best shit eating grin". Most times your not being clocked and its because your a 5'10" blonde or brunette that is in good shape and it makes you exotic in most places except super large cities.

I was living in Ft Lauderdale Miami area for a while because I swear that in 6 months I saw only 2 girls (outside of south beach that is) that were 5'10" all the girls in South Florida are like 5'3" because of the heavy South American population so 5'10" blondes stand out. I was thinking god I have been living as a girl for 10 years and how can I pass when i stick out like a sore thumb in comparison to other girls. Then as a hurricane approached the guy that I was living with at the time called from work and told me to go out and purchase Hurricane supplies. I was at Winn Dixie and Home Depot and such and that day I had no less than 6 guys come up to me and say "I just had to come up and tell you your possibly one of the most beautiful and striking women that I have seen". Its like hurricanes put guys on the make?

Now I dont presume to think that I am perfectly passable I know that I am not but really 95% of the time if your 5'10" and a woman your going to be looked at. Especially if you have a rack and such. Most times though its for the right reasons not the ones your thinking. Even if its not you have to live your life and fuck the rest. I think it was Ruby that said though "tall gurls like us have to up our game and be better because we know in most situations were going to be looked at and investigated more". Also she is right there is a bunch of confusion now because most TG's dont look the way that people have stereotypical views of us anymore.

have a good night all,

Astrid Shay

[TsJANIRA]

LOL THX YOU . The only drawback from having it is Tucking............. OH GOSH HOW I HATE IT.!!!!!!!............... ITS THE ULTIMATE WORST..... NO OFFENCE TO DANIELLE OR PEGGY, OR ANY OF THE OTHER GIRLS WHO ARE POST OP..... BUT FOR THE SAKE OF NOT HAVING TO TUCK EVER AGAIN I WOULD GET SRS,,,,LOLLL

[Nicole Dupre]

It depends on the night. Boardwalk is actually a gay bar. Trannys get in free and like to hang out there to see the male dancer's. There are usually always a few TS admirers there. Bill's Filling Station, Johnny's, Steel, Monkey Business, etc. Basically, wherever Misty Eyes or Erica Norell are performing, you will see a few TS. lol

[TsJANIRA]

voodoo was cute in the begining , but it is kinda getting very routine like..

[hotvegasguy26]

cool thanks....i'll probably check out voodoo....ive been to twist a couple times it was ok but not really my scene

[hotvegasguy26]

LOL THX YOU . The only drawback from having it is Tucking............. OH GOSH HOW I HATE IT.!!!!!!!............... ITS THE ULTIMATE WORST..... NO OFFENCE TO DANIELLE OR PEGGY, OR ANY OF THE OTHER GIRLS WHO ARE POST OP..... BUT FOR THE SAKE OF NOT HAVING TO TUCK EVER AGAIN I WOULD GET SRS,,,,LOLLL

lol i like a girl that tucks only when absolutely necessary.... sometimes me and my ex would go to get food or to rent movies or something and she'd stay untucked.... i think its hot personally

[loren]

I wanted to ask the ladies if ya'll ever think about SRS, if you don't and are happy with being pre-op stand proud and voice your opinion and that goes to the girls who are considering it, and those who have fears, please explain your concerns.

Grab some tea and a cracker - Let's chat
The thought has crossed my mind a couple of times. But, I'm happy with myself right now. For now, maybe some day, SRS is not for me. :)

[Nicole Dupre]

Down. Voodoo is repetitive. I could never go every week, which some people do. More like maybe once every 3 months. But I don't hang out in any bars all that often anyway. I don't drink much either. It seems like around here tho', it's inevitable that someone talks me into going one place or another, just to chill for a lil' while.

[hotvegasguy26]

yeah i left vegas to get away from all the club shit/drinking/drugs so ive been pretty good since ive been here... but i'm not exactly gonna be meeting any tgirls at the grocery store or the library so i guess i gotts hit the clubs every now and again

[rockabilly]

I'd love a Tgirl librarian. ;)

[hotvegasguy26]

I'd love a Tgirl librarian. ;)


i wish.....

[rockabilly]

Wearing glasses , Hair in a bun and wearing a little sweater ... SHHH.

[hotvegasguy26]

hells yeah... and can actually read....mmmmmm

[NYTSJulie]

I wanted it at one time, now I am not sure. I don’t think the surgery is perfected. I have seen many girls with issues, not everyone has issues but many do. Often the labia is too large or just doesn’t look correct, or the depth is too shallow.

[BellaBellucci]

Wearing glasses , Hair in a bun and wearing a little sweater ... SHHH.

I pulled this out just for you. :)

~BB~

[yosi]

I read here opinions of one transexual who did it and happy about it : Danielle , let me congratulate you for this brave move .

and Janira on the other hand happy as she is , she still loves to use her magic stick .

do what makes YOU happy , even if some poeple tell you otherwise , for their reasons . not yours.

just my 2 cents

[LibertyHarkness]

Hey Astrid xxx

I agree with what your saying here...now i am not tall by any means for an English TS i come in at 5ft7 so i dont stand out to much I guess but I do get looks sometimes when out and all of my friends that are 6ft/5ft11 etc all say its the height,tits,blonde hair that draws attention ....but even my cousin and she is 23 and 6ft1 blonde gets lots of attention when she goes out...

i think alot of getting clocked is not just about looks, its about posturing how you present yourself...what are you wearing....For me I want to fix my face,ass and other bits first before i would even contemplate the designer vagina ...When i go out i am actually quite drab in that i am not a pretty girl, i rarely wear dresses,heels etc.. i love mostly in vests, combats and my converse , i dont wear makeup well other than some concealer ...unless i am going out somewhere special..

You will get the cash girl just takes time and realistic planning ... myself i am paying for all my surgeiries from escorting/webcamming ...once I have saved up my money needed i will knock it on the head .....as my main focus is photography and my modelling career and doing my 3 year degree in fashion photograpgy.

Do I think i should have been born a genetic girl...yes i do.....but this is me, this is what i am, i have a penis its just part of me that dont really affect me at the moment, well infact its what is actually making me earn my living at the moment....Though i would like to think that one day when i meet my partner they want to be with me for me, not whats between my legs..

Libb x


I want to have the bottom surgery but wonder now if I will ever have the cash for it.

I think I am making peace with the possibilty of having my penis for a while it looks like which at other points in my life would have been a non starter.

As for being 5'10" and being clocked.......... well my brother always told me best thing to do is "look them in the eye and put on your best shit eating grin". Most times your not being clocked and its because your a 5'10" blonde or brunette that is in good shape and it makes you exotic in most places except super large cities.

I was living in Ft Lauderdale Miami area for a while because I swear that in 6 months I saw only 2 girls (outside of south beach that is) that were 5'10" all the girls in South Florida are like 5'3" because of the heavy South American population so 5'10" blondes stand out. I was thinking god I have been living as a girl for 10 years and how can I pass when i stick out like a sore thumb in comparison to other girls. Then as a hurricane approached the guy that I was living with at the time called from work and told me to go out and purchase Hurricane supplies. I was at Winn Dixie and Home Depot and such and that day I had no less than 6 guys come up to me and say "I just had to come up and tell you your possibly one of the most beautiful and striking women that I have seen". Its like hurricanes put guys on the make?

Now I dont presume to think that I am perfectly passable I know that I am not but really 95% of the time if your 5'10" and a woman your going to be looked at. Especially if you have a rack and such. Most times though its for the right reasons not the ones your thinking. Even if its not you have to live your life and fuck the rest. I think it was Ruby that said though "tall gurls like us have to up our game and be better because we know in most situations were going to be looked at and investigated more". Also she is right there is a bunch of confusion now because most TG's dont look the way that people have stereotypical views of us anymore.

have a good night all,

Astrid Shay

[Mugai_hentaisha]

Wow what I thought when I first read it would have been a radioactive loaded question, turned out to be an actual great debate on both sides of the coin.

great answers ladies, well worth the read.

takes more than looks to be a lady and you ladies are the living proof of that.

[FIRSTTIMER]

You got that right Mugai_hentaisha.I was just thinking about this question the other day.Infact the day before Danielle posted it.And it completly answered my questions.

[daleach]

LOL THX YOU . The only drawback from having it is Tucking............. OH GOSH HOW I HATE IT.!!!!!!!............... ITS THE ULTIMATE WORST..... NO OFFENCE TO DANIELLE OR PEGGY, OR ANY OF THE OTHER GIRLS WHO ARE POST OP..... BUT FOR THE SAKE OF NOT HAVING TO TUCK EVER AGAIN I WOULD GET SRS,,,,LOLLL

Please pardon my ignorance but, what's so bad about tucking?

[daleach]

LOL THX YOU . The only drawback from having it is Tucking............. OH GOSH HOW I HATE IT.!!!!!!!............... ITS THE ULTIMATE WORST..... NO OFFENCE TO DANIELLE OR PEGGY, OR ANY OF THE OTHER GIRLS WHO ARE POST OP..... BUT FOR THE SAKE OF NOT HAVING TO TUCK EVER AGAIN I WOULD GET SRS,,,,LOLLL

lol i like a girl that tucks only when absolutely necessary.... sometimes me and my ex would go to get food or to rent movies or something and she'd stay untucked.... i think its hot personally

I have to agree, that is really hot but, I can understand a girl not wanting her business all out on the street like that.

[missbarbiedoll]

Urggg i hate the fact i need to wear a bathingsuite when i go swimming in public

Because bikini's almost always reveals my secret

Or i can't wear those cute PANDEXXX TIGHTTTS
because i don't wanna tuck it in all the time lol

Sometimes i wish i was build like a normal girl so i can behave normal dress normal

And not being scared all the time of the fact that somebody sees my secret

And don't let me start about sleepoversss lol

But my lifes ok

when the kids on school find out about my secret and bulled me
i just moved to another school
And start my life ALL OVER AGIAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And nobody now knows my secret unless i told them offcourse

And im so lucky i started my transition on a very young age

i was so HAPPYY when i bougt my first bra

I'm proud of my OWN GROWN cupsize B36 !!!




AND DON'T GET ME WRONG

I LOVE MY COCK!!
Hahahaha so much fun !!!!!!!!


now i just think of myself as a girl with a Little extra
so for now i won't get SRS


And enjoy my life a a PRE-OP!!!!!!

But in the future when i'm like 24 or something and finsihed college i will get SRS i think
(SORRY FOR THE BAD ENGLISH IM DUTCH LOL)

By the way CONGRATULATIONS Danielle!!!!

[LittleGuy]

Urggg i hate the fact i need to wear a bathingsuite when i go swimming in public

Because bikini's almost always reveals my secret

Or i can't wear those cute PANDEXXX TIGHTTTS
because i don't wanna tuck it in all the time lol

Sometimes i wish i was build like a normal girl so i can behave normal dress normal

And not being scared all the time of the fact that somebody sees my secret

And don't let me start about sleepoversss lol

But my lifes ok

when the kids on school find out about my secret and bulled me
i just moved to another school
And start my life ALL OVER AGIAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

And nobody now knows my secret unless i told them offcourse

And im so lucky i started my transition on a very young age

i was so HAPPYY when i bougt my first bra

I'm proud of my OWN GROWN cupsize B36 !!!




AND DON'T GET ME WRONG

I LOVE MY COCK!!
Hahahaha so much fun !!!!!!!!
And sometimes u can make some money of it lol

now i just think of myself as a girl with a Little extra
so for now i won't get SRS


And enjoy my life a a PRE-OP!!!!!!

But in the future when i'm like 24 or something and finsihed college i will get SRS i think
(SORRY FOR THE BAD ENGLISH IM DUTCH LOL)

By the way CONGRATULATIONS Danielle!!!!

wow how old are you then?

[missbarbiedoll]

18 Years

Why?

x

[missbarbiedoll]

18 Years

Why?

x

[rockabilly]

I think he's planning a trip to Amsterdam :lol:

I'd love to live on a houseboat there , that would be cool . Just relaxing w/ a lady and taking in the sights.

[CaptainGeech]

Very interesting thread indeed. Been wondering about this myself. Always curious to hear about the woman's views on there own private "situation". I know I am not the targeted demographic when it comes to this question (I'm a dude).... but I cant imagine giving up that pleasure. Touching, stroking, and having my cock licked. Not to mention cumming. Possibly losing those feelings forever would freak me the fuck out. I know many post-op women claim to still have amazing orgasms. I find this as difficult to believe as people who claim non-fat ice cream tastes just as good as the regular kind. I'm not saying they are lairs. Just that I have a hard time believing its as satisfying as the original. The mind is a powerful thing though.

[LittleGuy]

18 Years

Why?

x

wow youre really young. what age did you get started?

[missbarbiedoll]

Age 12.
The doctors thought i was crazy or something
but he's asshole

And he didn't want me to go to a specialist for transgenders

Soo my mom just orded the same night the hormones for me

And we never visted that doctor agian lol

I felt so happy and like a girl!

Because my friends on that age i started were growing breast ect aswell

When i was little my teacher got angry at me because i played with dolls all the time

And i would try on my sisters stuff
and wear my mothers shoes


My mother had like a big closet just for her shoes only



Now i'm at age 18 just living my life

[CaptainGeech]

Age 12.
The doctors thought i was crazy or something
but he's asshole

And he didn't want me to go to a specialist for transgenders

Soo my mom just orded the same night the hormones for me

And we never visted that doctor agian lol

I felt so happy and like a girl!

Because my friends on that age i started were growing breast ect aswell

When i was little my teacher got angry at me because i played with dolls all the time

And i would try on my sisters stuff
and wear my mothers shoes


My mother had like a big closet just for her shoes only



Now i'm at age 18 just living my life

It's cool that your mom was so understanding.

[missbarbiedoll]

Yeah i love her to dead!

She support me alot in every thing that i do

I'm lucky to have a mom like that


I hate the fact that some dads left there wife or don't want have anything to do with there transgender kids

a shame!

they need to be proud of us!

[rockabilly]

Very true , and best wishes to you missbarbiedoll in all that you do. :)

[missbarbiedoll]

ThankQ rockabilly!

[rockabilly]

Your welcome :)

[tsparisangelline]

i would love srs in a few years

but srs is my last surgery on a long road of them

since it doesnt help you pass in your day to day life

[tsparisangelline]

hmm she started at 12? but she looks like a tranny

how odd

[TsVanessa69]

hmm she started at 12? but she looks like a tranny

how odd
its the internet, what did you expect?

[tsparisangelline]

its the internet, what did you expect?

lmfao girl i just had to call it out though

[TsVanessa69]

Very interesting thread indeed. Been wondering about this myself. Always curious to hear about the woman's views on there own private "situation". I know I am not the targeted demographic when it comes to this question (I'm a dude).... but I cant imagine giving up that pleasure. Touching, stroking, and having my cock licked. Not to mention cumming. Possibly losing those feelings forever would freak me the fuck out. I know many post-op women claim to still have amazing orgasms. I find this as difficult to believe as people who claim non-fat ice cream tastes just as good as the regular kind. I'm not saying they are lairs. Just that I have a hard time believing its as satisfying as the original. The mind is a powerful thing though.
I agree with you and if I ever did want to get an srs, thaose are the reasons that would stop me.
SRS is ok if you don't like your penis.
Me I like mine, I like cumming, being sucked and the warmth of an asshole taking every inch with joy.
If I got rid of my working penis, I want a working vagina.
I want a wett pussy that has a clit, a period and ovaries, I don't think you can buy that yet

[TsVanessa69]

lmfao girl i just had to call it out though
I co-sign. Too made up sounding for me, plus no pics.
I mean if I was in school as a girl, wouldn't I have class pics to prove??
My daughter went to school as a tranny, and in her yearbook and pics, she is in drag. Plus the whole mother buying hormones on the internet because a doctor was crazy was a bit much

[tgirlzoe]

I don't know if any of you remember me, a conversation with my sister led me to this site again. I see things have been rearranged a bit.

Anyway, I haven't looked into surgery too seriously because my student loans eat up more of my extra income and the more I can whittle away at those, the better. If I get surgery, it will probably be in Thailand -- Suporn or Chettawut.

I'm fairly over the whole tranny thing, I don't go to chatrooms or forums, I don't know any trans people in real life and I certainly don't see myself in any sort of activist role. I like boys, I like sex. Just as I was five years ago, I have zero interest in any guys who are particularly into trannies or who are bisexual in any way. I still stick to that ideal of only becoming involved with guys who I meet just normally, who only know me as a girl, and then slowly revealing my secret (though a couple times it has been revealed behind my back by friends who knew).

I'm currently interested in two guys. One was someone I was involved with (mostly just sexually) in college a few years back and have maintained a friendship with (though mostly not in person) and we've talked about getting back together or at least hooking up. The other is a new boy who I don't know as well, but met through friends.

The first guy, when we became involved, I told him before we had even kissed. He very slowly became more and more comfortable with my body. The new guy, we didn't even talk about my transness really before we had sex. He found out after he had met me, from mutual friends. But we didn't talk really about it. Indeed, when we were making out in bed I was nervous because I wasn't entirely positive he really grasped the situation or what exactly he knew. But I went down on him (briefly) and then he went down on me. None of the guys I had been with before had ever gone down on me but were always kind of dubious about it (though I'm sure if I had longer relationships, it would have happened). It was just for a little while and then he came up and said, "I've never done anything like that before."

He was away for the summer so I haven't really seen him much but he told me that he's fantasized a lot about that night and the idea of taking me in his mouth was very fascinating and attractive to him. I've never been much for receiving oral sex (no bio-guys have gone down on me but GGs, FTMs and MTFs have) but in terms of acceptance of my body as sexual was what was more important. We're just starting this thing and seeing if it goes anywhere but I think he's much more comfortable with my body right off the bat than other guys have been. He has still been going through the "Does this make me gay thing?" and we've talked about that and what it means (I told him, "Not to mention exes but you are not the first guy I've had this conversation with, it's an extremely common worry.").

So he is fascinated by my penis but the other guy, who I was formerly involved with, seems much more ambivalent on the subject. He likes me for me, but he would probably be happier if I was a GG. We've talked about surgery before but he hasn't really said one way or the other what he would prefer.

As someone said above, of course I would rather be a GG than a tranny but that's not really a possibility. The question is only whether I want what is surgically possible or not. It's not like I'm going to have ovaries and a uterus and everything and be a normal woman. I'm simply going to be a tranny with a neo-vagina, which isn't nearly as appealing.

I'm 25 years old. When I was 18 or 20, being a tranny was very enticing -- scary but enticing. I was thinner and cuter and more bold about guys. But it's one thing for a guy to be into a cute little 20 year old with a penis, but could I imagine being a 60 year old woman with a penis? Could I imagine still having to take spiro when I'm 60?!? What about if I go to the hospital or die or something else happens and everyone finds out I'm a tranny? It's one thing to be looking into somebody's background and find something suspicious but to have a penis there to unequivocally define me as a tranny, that's so incredibly embarrassing. I'd rather that information be as private as possible.

I've never seen a neo-vagina up-close-and-personal so I can't say much about it other than seeing pictures online. I think having sex with a post-op would give me a much better understanding of what we're dealing with here in contrast to a natural one.

So it's an open question, I lean towards getting surgery simply because I could not imagine having a penis my entire life and having to hide it and never being able to have just normal sex. I try to be as normal as possible, I have a job (even if it sucks) where nobody knows about my condition, I do not at the moment have friends not from work who don't know but I like it when that happens, I just want to be normal. I want to have normal relationships and getting married and adopt kids (however unlikely that is to be allowed), I want resolution to this, I want to be settled into where I am going to be.

Getting surgery seems the best way to do that, not that I have any idea of how to do that, short of winning the lottery or finding a good man with a good job.

[rockabilly]

I always remember a cute redhead Zoe.

Good luck to you.

[Nicole Dupre]

If I have SRS, it will not be for a good 5 years.

I'll have an orchi much sooner; prolly within the next two years.

[tgirlzoe]

I always remember a cute redhead Zoe.

Good luck to you.

Thanks for remembering me.

I popped in because my sister was looking at porn. No, really, she said her friend's girlfriend did a Penthouse college shoot and was showing me. I said I had hotter (internet) friends who did porn...

A friend texted her and asked what she was doing, she said, "Looking at porn with my sister". LOL, yeah, we're perverts.

Anyway, the tranny drama doesn't hold my interest anymore, still I miss all you guys and girls!