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TomSelis
06-08-2009, 05:19 AM
Ever wonder why men do what they do, say what they say, what they're thinking in a certain situation?

Ask me, you might like the answer, you might not, but it'll definitely give you something to think about.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
06-08-2009, 05:28 AM
1. Why do guys not call when they say they will?

2. Why do guys not call for days (3 days) after you sleep with them?

3. Why do guys expect girls to just give them ass when they holler? When they haven't even called and touched base with the girl since their last meeting?

Why Tom? Why is that? lmao :lol:

I find 1, 2 and 3 extremely annoying btw.. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

BLKGSXR
06-08-2009, 05:33 AM
1. Why do guys not call when they say they will?

2. Why do guys not call for days (3 days) after you sleep with them?

3. Why do guys expect girls to just give them ass when they holler? When they haven't even called and touched base with the girl since their last meeting?

Why Tom? Why is that? lmao :lol:

I find 1, 2 and 3 extremely annoying btw.. ;)

~Kisses.

HTGTOM has doomed us alll! lmfao jk....
Hara act likes girls dont do the same thing every once in awhile...I believe why most men dont call back after a fucking is the infatuation of being a shall we say Pimp-Wannabees...So many kids think having sex is the shit...Like they will be the coolest of a group if they do so..So they grow up with a fucked up mentality and eventually become arrogant asses...Does that sum it up good enough for you?

Hara_Juku Tgirl
06-08-2009, 05:35 AM
1. Why do guys not call when they say they will?

2. Why do guys not call for days (3 days) after you sleep with them?

3. Why do guys expect girls to just give them ass when they holler? When they haven't even called and touched base with the girl since their last meeting?

Why Tom? Why is that? lmao :lol:

I find 1, 2 and 3 extremely annoying btw.. ;)

~Kisses.

HTGTOM has doomed us alll! lmfao jk....
Hara act likes girls dont do the same thing every once in awhile...I believe why most men dont call back after a fucking is the infatuation of being a shall we say Pimp-Wannabees...So many kids think having sex is the shit...Like they will be the coolest of a group if they do so..So they grow up with a fucked up mentality and eventually become arrogant asses...Does that sum it up good enough for you?

Ehh shudup! This thread is to ask you guys..not the other way around. So either you answer my 3 questions at hand or take a hike! lol ;) I'm not convinced with your answers.. lol

We can discuss your questions at another thread. Feel?

lol

~Kisses.

HTG

BLKGSXR
06-08-2009, 05:39 AM
1. Why do guys not call when they say they will?

2. Why do guys not call for days (3 days) after you sleep with them?

3. Why do guys expect girls to just give them ass when they holler? When they haven't even called and touched base with the girl since their last meeting?

Why Tom? Why is that? lmao :lol:

I find 1, 2 and 3 extremely annoying btw.. ;)

~Kisses.

HTGTOM has doomed us alll! lmfao jk....
Hara act likes girls dont do the same thing every once in awhile...I believe why most men dont call back after a fucking is the infatuation of being a shall we say Pimp-Wannabees...So many kids think having sex is the shit...Like they will be the coolest of a group if they do so..So they grow up with a fucked up mentality and eventually become arrogant asses...Does that sum it up good enough for you?

Ehh shudup! This thread is to ask you guys..not the other way around. So either you answer my 3 questions at hand or take a hike! lol ;)

We can discuss your questions at another thread. Feel?

lol

~Kisses.

HTGYou might want to read the post again....1-Why guys dont call back-Infatuation of being cool...to their friends.
2-why some guys dont call back for a few days-Mostly dont want to look desperate
3-im just not answering because its obsolete....
Other than that I know you of all people arent telling me to not get off topic..I mean you do it Right? Everyone does but there are points in my previous post that were on topic...Just wanted to let you know that.

tsntx
06-08-2009, 05:40 AM
my question for the guys...

why would need to ask you anything that we already know the answer to?

look inside ladies :P

TomSelis
06-08-2009, 05:47 AM
1. Why do guys not call when they say they will?

Because guys like to play it cool. It's our version of playing hard to get. And sometimes stuff, really does come up....like Xbox and Basketball or the game.

2. Why do guys not call for days (3 days) after you sleep with them?

Because any sooner and then we look like needy bitches and then you'll never sleep with us again. It's a gamble, but it usually pays off. LOL

3. Why do guys expect girls to just give them ass when they holler? When they haven't even called and touched base with the girl since their last meeting?

Because a ranging hard dick makes you do crazy, irrational things sometimes.Like call a girl at 2am to get a piece. Especially when you've struck out at the clubs all night. Again it's a gamble, but you'd be surprised how often it works!

Why Tom? Why is that? lmao :lol:

I find 1, 2 and 3 extremely annoying btw.. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

My answers are in the quotes.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
06-08-2009, 05:50 AM
1. Why do guys not call when they say they will?

2. Why do guys not call for days (3 days) after you sleep with them?

3. Why do guys expect girls to just give them ass when they holler? When they haven't even called and touched base with the girl since their last meeting?

Why Tom? Why is that? lmao :lol:

I find 1, 2 and 3 extremely annoying btw.. ;)

~Kisses.

HTGTOM has doomed us alll! lmfao jk....
Hara act likes girls dont do the same thing every once in awhile...I believe why most men dont call back after a fucking is the infatuation of being a shall we say Pimp-Wannabees...So many kids think having sex is the shit...Like they will be the coolest of a group if they do so..So they grow up with a fucked up mentality and eventually become arrogant asses...Does that sum it up good enough for you?

Ehh shudup! This thread is to ask you guys..not the other way around. So either you answer my 3 questions at hand or take a hike! lol ;)

We can discuss your questions at another thread. Feel?

lol

~Kisses.

HTGYou might want to read the post again....1-Why guys dont call back-Infatuation of being cool...to their friends.
2-why some guys dont call back for a few days-Mostly dont want to look desperate
3-im just not answering because its obsolete....
Other than that I know you of all people arent telling me to not get off topic..I mean you do it Right? Everyone does but there are points in my previous post that were on topic...Just wanted to let you know that.

Sorry. I just skimmed your post. Structure it well (like how Tom did his) next time instead of having sentences followed by ... ;)

As for 3. How is it obsolete in your case? Explain.. lol

~Kisses.

HTG

TomSelis
06-08-2009, 06:02 AM
Keep 'em comin ladies. This could turn out to be fun and positive, as long as it doesn't degenerate into...well what usually happens.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
06-08-2009, 06:51 AM
Ok let's play along some more..here's some follow up questions:

1. Why do guys drink? Isn't there other better things to do and spend your leisure time with? ;)

2. (Pre GPS question) Why do guys refuse to ask for directions (even when they're already lost)? lol

3. Why are guys so afraid to show their emotions (aside from IT being seen as a sign of weakness or being gay)? :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

TomSelis
06-08-2009, 07:11 AM
Ok let's play along some more..here's some follow up questions:

1. Why do guys drink? Isn't there other better things to do and spend your leisure time with? ;)

Only if it's doing someone like you. But it's something primal about drinking a nice beer and then letting out a loud burp...kinda like guys and BBQ. (I just grunted)

2. (Pre GPS question) Why do guys refuse to ask for directions (even when they're already lost)? lol

Ok, god's honest truth: Because when you ask 7 times out of 10, the person you asked will get you even more lost! If you pull up at a gas station, usually the attendant doesn't know where he is, so how's he gonna help you!?

3. Why are guys so afraid to show their emotions (aside from IT being seen as a sign of weakness or being gay)? :lol:

That's easy. Because when guys start to get emotional, women get even more emotional. It's a sign that the situation is beyond repair. That's bad for everybody.


~Kisses.

HTG

Quiet Reflections
06-08-2009, 07:16 AM
Ok let's play along some more..here's some follow up questions:

1. Why do guys drink? Isn't there other better things to do and spend your leisure time with? ;)

2. (Pre GPS question) Why do guys refuse to ask for directions (even when they're already lost)? lol

3. Why are guys so afraid to show their emotions (aside from IT being seen as a sign of weakness or being gay)? :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

1. Because drinking is fun and legal. plus if you have good taste it tastes good.
2. theres lost then theres lost. in our designated home area we will explore because there is always a recognizable road. out of town we always ask or get a map
3. we show them to the ones that matter

yodajazz
06-08-2009, 08:42 AM
Ok let's play along some more..here's some follow up questions:
...
3. Why are guys so afraid to show their emotions (aside from IT being seen as a sign of weakness or being gay)? :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

Being seen as weak or gay is a pretty big thing for a man. It's probably the numero uno thing to provoke a physical confrontation. Feeling free to show emotions often shows a very high level of trust, as someone just said.

yosi
06-08-2009, 09:26 AM
Ok let's play along some more..here's some follow up questions:

1. Why do guys drink? Isn't there other better things to do and spend your leisure time with? ;)

2. (Pre GPS question) Why do guys refuse to ask for directions (even when they're already lost)? lol

3. Why are guys so afraid to show their emotions (aside from IT being seen as a sign of weakness or being gay)? :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

1. I don't drink ,there are certainly better things to do , like writing answers to Hara_Juku questions :wink:
2. when I get lost , I take up the map , see where I am , what was lost can be found.
3. it's the most basic instincts of all males, we are the providers , business is business , BTW business comes from the word : busy 8)
and it's easier to make business with a masqe on , we learned it from you ladies , and you ARE ladies , tricky ladies :lol:

hope I answered your question :wink:

MacShreach
06-08-2009, 10:30 AM
Ok let's play along some more..here's some follow up questions:

1. Why do guys drink? Isn't there other better things to do and spend your leisure time with? ;)

2. (Pre GPS question) Why do guys refuse to ask for directions (even when they're already lost)? lol

3. Why are guys so afraid to show their emotions (aside from IT being seen as a sign of weakness or being gay)? :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

1. Do you mean drink to get plastered, or a couple of glasses of wine with a meal or a beer or two in the afternoon? If the former, I think it is a social conditioning thing, which I no longer engage in, and if the latter, I personally do it because I am a civilised person and I enjoy it.

2. I always ask directions if I'm unsure. I don't have GPS. (Well not in my car anyway.) Nor would I. I have a good Scots tongue in my head and I like the social interaction. Plus I can read a map.

3. Insecurity about their own feelings, mainly. I think really powerful emotions, like grief, do affect men differently and I still have not figured that out for myself. Why couldn't I cry when my mother died, but still tear up about my dog? I don't know, Hara. You tell me.

blckhaze
06-08-2009, 10:48 AM
Ok let's play along some more..here's some follow up questions:

1. Why do guys drink? Isn't there other better things to do and spend your leisure time with? ;)

2. (Pre GPS question) Why do guys refuse to ask for directions (even when they're already lost)? lol

3. Why are guys so afraid to show their emotions (aside from IT being seen as a sign of weakness or being gay)? :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG



1. Why do guys not call when they say they will?

2. Why do guys not call for days (3 days) after you sleep with them?

3. Why do guys expect girls to just give them ass when they holler? When they haven't even called and touched base with the girl since their last meeting?

Why Tom? Why is that? lmao :lol:

I find 1, 2 and 3 extremely annoying btw.. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG


1) yes, but evrythings better inibriated

2) Ego. we like ours big

3) Because our friends are watching. behind close doors if we trust u wont hold it against us, we may give u a peek

4) Sometimes its by accident, but mostly, it wasnt pressing to be under u just yet.

5) Man rule. sorry. unless our sock popped off like rockets, we stick to the code

6) this one is a gem. he just sees u as a stop gate betweeen ex gfs. but..............itd be worse if he always called u. then, your the fuck buddy.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
06-10-2009, 07:33 AM
Hmm, no girl wants to play?..ok I will! lol :P

1. Why do men cheat (even if they already got a gf or wives)? I was never satisfied with what my dad told me so..let's hear it! lol

2. Why can't men admit when they're wrong?

3. Why are men forgetful i.e. putting the toilet seat down, anniversaries, birthdays etc.?

4. How can you play video games for hours? lol

5. Why do men think about sex all the damn time?

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

TomSelis
06-10-2009, 02:04 PM
Hmm, no girl wants to play?..ok I will! lol :P

1. Why do men cheat (even if they already got a gf or wives)? I was never satisfied with what my dad told me so..let's hear it! lol

2. Why can't men admit when they're wrong?

3. Why are men forgetful i.e. putting the toilet seat down, anniversaries, birthdays etc.?

4. How can you play video games for hours? lol

5. Why do men think about sex all the damn time?

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Thanks for playing Hara.

1) Men cheat for a bunch of different reasons. They can range from not being completely into a girl to totally comit to being unhappy to wanting something different.....as often as possible. See men like options.

2) A lot of times when men admit they're wrong women LOVE to rub it in and bring it up for a looooong time afterwards. Instead of letting it go, it's like giving girls ammo.

3) Despite not telling you, men have a lot on their minds. Since days blend together, days like the first time we met or the first time we said hi to you, really have to be subtly put back in our minds.

The toilet seat thing, well that's easy. We don't pee sitting down! (well, not sure about all the guys on here)

4) It's like the internet, it's a different reality. You lose track of the time easily. One more round, kill, game of Madden turns into hours. That's when you prance by in some lingerie and say "Are you going to play that all day or are you going to get some of this?" I guarantee you the controller will be dropped!

5) *imagines Hara naked*

.....What?

JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
06-10-2009, 06:34 PM
1. Why do guys not call when they say they will?

2. Why do guys not call for days (3 days) after you sleep with them?

3. Why do guys expect girls to just give them ass when they holler? When they haven't even called and touched base with the girl since their last meeting?

I find 1, 2 and 3 extremely annoying btw.. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Answers.........................by the most hated.

1. Guys do call when they say they will, the problem is chicks never answer because they a. have a client over
b. say they live alone but really have a gay roommate who is too high to get dressed and leave so the guy can come over and fuck her

2. Guys do call before 3 days. Some of us get annoyed when we call to thank you for the activities of the night just past and you confuse us with the "john' on his way over for an appt.

3. Because chicks expect guys to give them the DICK whenever they call. A guy can be tired from work, the drive via rush hour traffic home, the tedious ritual of cooking, laying out tomorrow's suit for work, etc. and the minute the 4th quarter or 9th inning of a game comes on SHE calls and says some dumb shit like what are you doing?
I need a ride
I need some weed
can you take me and my friend to the store
are you going to the party tonight? can you come get me? to name a few with the supposed "I'll make it worth your..........." to try and sway us into jumping in the shower, getting dressed, filling up the tank, etc. to get her lazy cheap ass........ for an end result of some mediocre sex at the end of the night with a chick that had too many Patron shots mixed with 3 Corona's who is barely able to stand let alone suck a dick.


Ok let's play along some more..here's some follow up questions:

1. Why do guys drink? Isn't there other better things to do and spend your leisure time with? ;)

2. (Pre GPS question) Why do guys refuse to ask for directions (even when they're already lost)? lol

3. Why are guys so afraid to show their emotions (aside from IT being seen as a sign of weakness or being gay)? :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

Answers [again] by the most hated...............
1. Guys drink to forget all the fucked up situations as I labeled in the first set of answers I gave, not to mention the bullshit routine we had to go through to even get to that stage over the past days/weeks/months, etc.

2. Because we're men, and women KNOW men don't like them to have a map LET ALONE say turn left over there...............WE KNOW BITCH!!!!!!!

3. Guys are afraid to show their emotions because of forums like this. Take this answer for what you will but if you search this forum many (and I mean MANY) of the girls that alot of you guys lust after have flipped the script on MANY a dude that they'd been with or talked to on some emotional level at one point. When the chick gets mad it all come out on a forum and the guy looks like the loser because the other dudes reading aren't man enough to back him up out of fear of the dreaded "if I ever meet her she'll remember I backed that dude up and I won't get sex" bullshit............

;) Enjoy your day

JWBL

Hara_Juku Tgirl
06-10-2009, 06:41 PM
lol@jwbl's last answer! IF he even get that far.. :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

blckhaze
06-10-2009, 06:50 PM
Hmm, no girl wants to play?..ok I will! lol :P

1. Why do men cheat (even if they already got a gf or wives)? I was never satisfied with what my dad told me so..let's hear it! lol

2. Why can't men admit when they're wrong?

3. Why are men forgetful i.e. putting the toilet seat down, anniversaries, birthdays etc.?

4. How can you play video games for hours? lol

5. Why do men think about sex all the damn time?

;)

~Kisses.

HTG


1) the offer was good. Even if he doesnt need the sex, he wants the attention. *stares @ haras butt*

2) Why cant women? stubborness is not a trait held in greed by men.

3) tiolet seat is pure luk of the draw. Most of us dont do it when we're little, cuz mom had her own place. Habit dies hards
Birthdays and other dates are another story. If they mean much, he'll remember. If he remembers the date of his first homer vs your first kiss, guess which meant more *stares @ haras butt*

4) Cause the game is good. How can yall watch daytime soaps and keep track of all of that going on? *stares @ haras butt*

5) Stimuli. *stares @ haras butt* its everywhere. *stares @ haras butt* I think women think about it often too. Its just softer and ends with "honey that was good" vs "well, time to hit the ole dusty trail..."
*stares @ haras butt*

baileyandkc
06-10-2009, 07:04 PM
if I had to pick a one word answer to almost any of these types of questions, it would be laziness (with selfishness a close second)

:oops:

Hara_Juku Tgirl
06-10-2009, 07:12 PM
lol@Haze..

*Squeeze's Haze's big package and caress it with her fingers.. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

archineer
06-10-2009, 08:05 PM
Hmm, no girl wants to play?..ok I will! lol :P

1. Why do men cheat (even if they already got a gf or wives)? I was never satisfied with what my dad told me so..let's hear it! lol

2. Why can't men admit when they're wrong?

3. Why are men forgetful i.e. putting the toilet seat down, anniversaries, birthdays etc.?

4. How can you play video games for hours? lol

5. Why do men think about sex all the damn time?

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

1. He dosen't love you

2. Because i'm never wrong

3. I always put it down, it stinks otherwise

4. They're fun

5. Its fun

blckhaze
06-11-2009, 08:22 AM
lol@Haze..

*Squeeze's Haze's big package and caress it with her fingers.. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG


See...


We on the same page.
Communication is the key.
8)

BLKGSXR
06-11-2009, 08:47 AM
lol@Haze..

*Squeeze's Haze's big package and caress it with her fingers.. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG


See...


We on the same page.
Communication is the key.
8)BTW hazel whats that girls name again? the one who kept you busy during the NBA finals?

blckhaze
06-11-2009, 08:59 AM
lol@Haze..

*Squeeze's Haze's big package and caress it with her fingers.. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG


See...


We on the same page.
Communication is the key.
8)BTW hazel whats that girls name again? the one who kept you busy during the NBA finals?



what day was it?
u know i lose track of my rotation sometimes.

BLKGSXR
06-11-2009, 09:03 AM
lol@Haze..

*Squeeze's Haze's big package and caress it with her fingers.. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG


See...


We on the same page.
Communication is the key.
8)BTW hazel whats that girls name again? the one who kept you busy during the NBA finals?



what day was it?
u know i lose track of my rotation sometimes.
O yeh those poor poor girls...HIV infested :shock: :twisted:

tstv_lover
06-11-2009, 09:26 AM
Try some self-testing using the "brain wiring test" from the book "Why Man Don't Listen and Women Can't Read Maps"
http://www.poalo.com/forum/viewtopic.php?t=12730

JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
06-11-2009, 09:44 AM
Any more questions? Before this thread goes the way of a crossdresser with bad makeup.

BLKGSXR
06-11-2009, 11:10 AM
Any more questions? Before this thread goes the way of a crossdresser with bad makeup.now u just tripping dont ALL HA threads go that way :twisted: