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FIRSTTIMER
05-05-2009, 03:37 AM
I have never done anal before,giving or recieving,and don't know if I would ever get a chance to.I have often wondered how you prepare for anal sex.I mean having anal sex is different from having vaginal sex,everything is not all that clean back there,neither are pussies but you get what I mean.
When you go out on the town for a good time and you meet a guy at a club and just so happen to sleep with him on a one-night-stand,I am pretty sure you don't give yourself an enema or "douche" every night thinking that you are going to get some dick.
I only ask this question because not everything is like a porno where after the dick comes out of the ass looking like it has been spit shined ready to provide the load.

Danielle Foxx
05-05-2009, 03:40 AM
I have never done anal before,giving or recieving,and don't know if I would ever get a chance to.I have often wondered how you prepare for anal sex.I mean having anal sex is different from having vaginal sex,everything is not all that clean back there,neither are pussies but you get what I mean.
When you go out on the town for a good time and you meet a guy at a club and just so happen to sleep with him on a one-night-stand,I am pretty sure you don't give yourself an enema or "douche" every night thinking that you are going to get some dick.
I only ask this question because not everything is like a porno where after the dick comes out of the ass looking like it has been spit shined ready to provide the load.

My booty was always immaculate when fucked on the regular. However I don't take it up the shiter as frequently as I should.

FIRSTTIMER
05-05-2009, 04:06 AM
Have you ever douched before going out or have done anything else to prepare for the night?
What do you do before you go out other than get ready and look pretty?

giovanni_hotel
05-05-2009, 04:25 AM
Good question, one I probably need answered to be prepared for possible encounters in the future.

Common sense says that if you shave, take a shower, etc. for most formal encounters with new people, having impeccable hygiene for first time anal intimacy would seem to follow.

I'm sure enemas are common in TS vids, except that aspect is left out of the scene.

It shouldn't be messy, IMO, unless you intend for it to be.

The only "mess" should be cumming out the head of a swollen cock!!!

Danielle Foxx
05-05-2009, 07:10 AM
Good question, one I probably need answered to be prepared for possible encounters in the future.

Common sense says that if you shave, take a shower, etc. for most formal encounters with new people, having impeccable hygiene for first time anal intimacy would seem to follow.

I'm sure enemas are common in TS vids, except that aspect is left out of the scene.

It shouldn't be messy, IMO, unless you intend for it to be.

The only "mess" should be cumming out the head of a swollen cock!!!

Hahahahah I think that got him hard

mrlaredo
05-05-2009, 07:18 AM
I recently been giving it up, the butt tha is, to a long time friend pretty regularly. Not eating too late really helps or not doing it after just eating.

You can kind of feel "backed up" and if you do dont go exploring.

alyssats
05-05-2009, 09:07 AM
do some pupu before going out and wash it clean down there

enema is always the best for me

kaientai
05-05-2009, 10:43 AM
whatever you do don't use enema's or douche's every day , you're bowlsystem will become accostemed to it and will start functioning less.

GPrime
05-05-2009, 10:59 AM
Obviously from a cleanliness standpoint it would be best to give yourself an enema (or do it with your partner) beforehand to make sure your back passage is cleaned out.

However, this is not exactly good for your intestinal health. Just like any other part of your body, your rectum and colon have a fairly delicate balance, and flushing them out all the time can affect their ability to do their jobs.

I generally save deep cleanings for first time play with a new partner or for special occasions where your back door will be getting an usually long or extensive workout.

The rest of the time you should be fine if you just visit the bathroom beforehand, have good basic hygiene, and make sure that your diet is healthy. If you're getting enough fiber, especially leafy greens and fruits, you really shouldn't have too much of a problem with backed up waste. Evacuating your bowels before sex should be fine.

The most important thing though, and the thing that it seems like a lot of people forget about, is that if you're really that uncomfortable with coming into contact with someone else's waste then you really shouldn't be going anywhere near their ass. Learn to not take sex and your bodily functions too seriously and if an unexpected mess occurs you can both laugh about it.

Richctdude
05-05-2009, 01:01 PM
interesting topic

dan_drade
05-05-2009, 07:36 PM
I have never done anal before,giving or recieving,and don't know if I would ever get a chance to.I have often wondered how you prepare for anal sex.I mean having anal sex is different from having vaginal sex,everything is not all that clean back there,neither are pussies but you get what I mean.
When you go out on the town for a good time and you meet a guy at a club and just so happen to sleep with him on a one-night-stand,I am pretty sure you don't give yourself an enema or "douche" every night thinking that you are going to get some dick.
I only ask this question because not everything is like a porno where after the dick comes out of the ass looking like it has been spit shined ready to provide the load.

My booty was always immaculate when fucked on the regular. However I don't take it up the shiter as frequently as I should.

But then you dont need to take it up the shitter anymore. :)

The Piper
05-05-2009, 08:50 PM
My booty was always immaculate when fucked on the regular. However I don't take it up the shiter as frequently as I should.


PMFLOL :lol:
You're the best

sunairco
05-05-2009, 10:27 PM
Do a search, this topic has been discussed several times on cleaning b4hand.

However, I would want to add a point. Prep cleaning and "taking an enema" are not the same thing. One involves flushing out the entire lower intenstines, the other just the rectum and lower colon from fecal matter. There's a big difference between the two with regard to the body's reaction and intestinal health.

If you watch some of Belladona's outake and behind the scenes videos, you would see what's happening. They are usually sitting on the commode or standing up in a shower and repeatedly using a small syringe or fleet enema bottle filled with tap water. Nobody is doing that laying down or in a position for the water to go deep, just enough to clean out the lower end of the colon. You'll also notice in the behind-the-scenes video that they frequently "stretch" for about a half hour b4 shooting. They're sitting around talking about everything under the sun while acclimating to a buttplug or graduated toy. During the shoot it appears as natural as can be and you don't see the wincing,pained expression, or reaching back to restrain the inserter. These are pros with many hours logged on their bottoms, yet even they need to dialate to work comfortably.

Everybody is different. Most ppl receiving on a regular basis have been doing it for quite some time. For some, it's much like unlearning a natural gag response and learning to relax on insertion. For others, it almost feels natural. For many people, if something hurts or is unpleasant the first time, they are hesitant to try again or have to overcome that inital bad experience. If you've never bottomed b4, you don't need the baggage from a bad experience.

SXFX
05-06-2009, 04:59 AM
Shower, shave, trim the boys....you know the optical inch.....some colone for me and the boys.
Clean clothes....and a smile!

FIRSTTIMER
05-09-2009, 03:41 AM
GPrime
Obviously from a cleanliness standpoint it would be best to give yourself an enema (or do it with your partner) beforehand to make sure your back passage is cleaned out.

However, this is not exactly good for your intestinal health. Just like any other part of your body, your rectum and colon have a fairly delicate balance, and flushing them out all the time can affect their ability to do their jobs.
I knew it is not good for your system.I have often wondered on how,being that I have never done it before,often someone who does use an enema,douche or just do a anal cleansing.

sunairco
However, I would want to add a point. Prep cleaning and "taking an enema" are not the same thing. One involves flushing out the entire lower intenstines, the other just the rectum and lower colon from fecal matter. There's a big difference between the two with regard to the body's reaction and intestinal health.

If you watch some of Belladona's outake and behind the scenes videos, you would see what's happening. They are usually sitting on the commode or standing up in a shower and repeatedly using a small syringe or fleet enema bottle filled with tap water.
sunairco
You'll also notice in the behind-the-scenes video that they frequently "stretch" for about a half hour b4 shooting. They're sitting around talking about everything under the sun while acclimating to a buttplug or graduated toy. During the shoot it appears as natural as can be and you don't see the wincing,pained expression, or reaching back to restrain the inserter. These are pros with many hours logged on their bottoms, yet even they need to dialate to work comfortably.
I have seen many of Bella's and others videos and this is what kind of propted this question.Because I have looked at those videos and knew that porn stars sometimes make videos many times during the week.
I have thaught to myself "That could not be good for thier asshole or system".

How often do you girls "stretch" your "gloryholes"?If any.