Taking it in the ass. An acquired taste?

[CaptainGeech]

So I have read and heard over the years about people who take deep pleasure in anal. Some say they almost get a high during and after a good session. Others have said they almost have an orgasm when their prostate is stimulated. Posters here often say how much they want one of the hungangels to take them from behind.

So my question is this.... does it take awhile to actually enjoy assplay? Do you have to work at it (like female virgins who after stretching out there vagina finally find sex pleasurable)? Over the years I have tried several things: Started out with my fingers. Then went to phallic objects around the house. Finally ending in actual sex toys. All the time I was thinking "Is that it? Is this what people are raving about?" It has never been what I would call pleasurable. The closest it has come is when I've had "interesting" sensations (from hitting the prostate). Now admittedly I have never had a real cock up there (probably never will). The amount of sex toys I have used has also been limited (didn't see the point of spending a great deal of money on something I probably wouldn't even like). Although I feel I have tried enough things of various sizes and shapes to know I don't like it.

So in the end it just seems that my ass is an "out" only zone. I have been hesitant to throw in the towel because I feel I might be missing out. It's like coffee. I didn't like coffee for the first 18+ years of my life. Then after awhile I grew to enjoy it very much.

[macjay18]

I think that is an interesting point. I am not into assplay and would agree that is probably an aquired taste. I couldnt imagine anyone else going near my ass, I am a man- dont shave back there, try to keep it clean etc but man that place is just off limits! Anyway enough with my rant.

[SarahG]

I fell in love with coffee immediately, that wasn't an acquired taste for me at all. By 12 I was drinking a pot a day, although I've cut back some more recently.

I am not sure anal is always an acquired taste, but it wouldn't surprise me if it was usually.

[lilly_exohexoh]

i think it has a lot to do with the mental aspect. the IDEA of anal sex. it also helps if there's an an actual person. and lube, lots of lube.

[runamok]

For me all it took was a girl to put a finger in my ass (unexpectedly) for me to go, Whoa! Now what is this about? After talking to her about that move, I was intrigued and told her, yeah let's take this up a notch.

After that anal toys became mandatory with all the girls in my relations. If they weren't into it I lost interest in them real quick.

[Nautica]

A lot of guys cum if you fuck them right. Don't even have to jerk them. It just blasts off. I find that interesting..

I think some have to get used to it and some like it immediately.

Nautica

[Alyssa87]

everyone taking it in the ass...

PLEASE CLEAN YOURSELF INSIDE.

I find it akward asking a man to douche.
ive never said it directly. but ive pranced around it to no avail.

[icarus2112]

It may take some getting used to or you may never like it. I enjoy some ass play without penetration, just a finger massaging the starfish can really finish things up nicely for me, while I have been with a TS girl that will pop off without even touching herself while she rode on top cowgirl style. Sounds like you may have played around enough to realize what levels of anal play you like or don't. Seriously if its not that enjoyable for you, you aren't missing anything.

Also not a huge coffee fan, except in iced mocha espresso form, its not always everyones favorite.[/u]

[hippifried]

Acquired taste?

You have to acquire somebody else's dick to do it.

[Instrumental]

The first time I tried it I enjoyed it and it only got better from there. I actually have orgasms from it alone *shrug* Everyone's different, it's understandable if you're not into it.

[Christastic]

I found that the idea of taking it in the ass was much hotter than actually, well, taking it in the ass, which was a lot of work for very little pay-off. I would definitely try it again, but it's not as mind blowing as some make it sound. At least it wasn't for me.

[MacShreach]

All I can say is, while sucking my dick very nicely indeed, a girl once tried to shove her vibrator up there--I think she thought I might like it....That was not the result at all at all-- ever heard of levitation?-- I swear I cleared the bed by a foot and proceedings came to a very sudden (and limp) stop.

She was very sweet and apologised, and then just about gave herself lockjaw to make up for it, so the BJ was excellent in the end. Real ISO 9001.

Ever since then I make it clear--that part is not one of my erogenous zones.

[Pepa_e_Mango]

My first experience was when I was 12 years old and loved it.

I had a soccer coach who was very attentive with me and I liked all the attention very much and always wanted to please him. He was probably as old as my dad at the time. One time while traveling for a tournament he let me stay in his hotel room with him since I couldn't afford it otherwise.

Our first night together I walked out of the shower naked and he was wearing nothing but a towel while waiting for the shower and when he saw me he got so hard he pitched a nice tent under there. I moisturized and dried my hair still naked; he came out of the shower not wearing the towel this time, very proud of his hard on.

I offered to put lotion on his back. He laid on my bed and I lotioned his back and then the back of his legs and he then turned around and asked me not to stop. By this time I was very turned on and there was no hiding it.

Without saying a word he turned out the lights and proceeded to play with my ass, licking and caressing it all over and then fingering it slowly for what seemed like an eternity. By the time he put his cock in me I was so turned on it didn't take but a couple of strokes before I started to come hard, without him ever touching my cock! He had a nice long but skinny cock that fit my virgin ass perfectly.

Since then I have perfected my technique so that I can always come while fucked in the ass and my man doesn't even have to touch my cock.

An acquired taste? May be. I think your first experience has a lot to do with it. :D

[2009AD]

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TMI :whoa

[Dinand]

It hurts even thinking about it. Never ever!

[CaptainGeech]

Thanks for the feedback guys.

That soccer story in particular was unbelievable. A situation that many would be traumatized by and seek legal actions later in life you describe as a fond memory. But I guess you were a little different than most 12 year olds that I knew. None moisturized. The closest they came was using lotion to masturbate.

It appears like many other things... Some people like it immediately. Some people like it after awhile. Some people never like it. Guess I am one of the later.

[phobun]

My first experience was when I was 12 years old and loved it.

I had a soccer coach who was very attentive with me and I liked all the attention very much and always wanted to please him. He was probably as old as my dad at the time. One time while traveling for a tournament he let me stay in his hotel room with him since I couldn't afford it otherwise.

Our first night together I walked out of the shower naked and he was wearing nothing but a towel while waiting for the shower and when he saw me he got so hard he pitched a nice tent under there. I moisturized and dried my hair still naked; he came out of the shower not wearing the towel this time, very proud of his hard on.

I offered to put lotion on his back. He laid on my bed and I lotioned his back and then the back of his legs and he then turned around and asked me not to stop. By this time I was very turned on and there was no hiding it.

Without saying a word he turned out the lights and proceeded to play with my ass, licking and caressing it all over and then fingering it slowly for what seemed like an eternity. By the time he put his cock in me I was so turned on it didn't take but a couple of strokes before I started to come hard, without him ever touching my cock! He had a nice long but skinny cock that fit my virgin ass perfectly.

Since then I have perfected my technique so that I can always come while fucked in the ass and my man doesn't even have to touch my cock.

An acquired taste? May be. I think your first experience has a lot to do with it. :D
This repulsive story describes nothing less than the rape of a child by a predator pedophile soccer coach.

There is no statute of limitations for that shit. That fucker needs to go to prison.

[jjhill]

My first experience was when I was 12 years old and loved it.

I had a soccer coach who was very attentive with me and I liked all the attention very much and always wanted to please him. He was probably as old as my dad at the time. One time while traveling for a tournament he let me stay in his hotel room with him since I couldn't afford it otherwise.

Our first night together I walked out of the shower naked and he was wearing nothing but a towel while waiting for the shower and when he saw me he got so hard he pitched a nice tent under there. I moisturized and dried my hair still naked; he came out of the shower not wearing the towel this time, very proud of his hard on.

I offered to put lotion on his back. He laid on my bed and I lotioned his back and then the back of his legs and he then turned around and asked me not to stop. By this time I was very turned on and there was no hiding it.

Without saying a word he turned out the lights and proceeded to play with my ass, licking and caressing it all over and then fingering it slowly for what seemed like an eternity. By the time he put his cock in me I was so turned on it didn't take but a couple of strokes before I started to come hard, without him ever touching my cock! He had a nice long but skinny cock that fit my virgin ass perfectly.

Since then I have perfected my technique so that I can always come while fucked in the ass and my man doesn't even have to touch my cock.

An acquired taste? May be. I think your first experience has a lot to do with it. :D
This repulsive story describes nothing less than the rape of a child by a predator pedophile soccer coach.

There is no statute of limitations for that shit. That fucker needs to go to prison.

Agreed, no telling if you was his first or last. That's a very sad story.

[Ryz]

why pepa... why

[ralph dibny]

[b]I like fingers and tongue on mine, and surely was fucked a couple of times by trannies. It´s not really my cup of tea, but it´s nothing to do with moral or hipocrisy. I´d really like to have an ass which could take anything, but anything bigger than a finger causes me an almost unbearable pain, along with a little pleasure. An interesting fact, though, is that on the next day, I usually can remember only the pleasure.[b/]

[tao1kiku]

From a physiological point of view, anal stimulation and penetration can include the prostate gland, giving much more intense orgasms

[MacShreach]

This repulsive story describes nothing less than the rape of a child by a predator pedophile soccer coach.

There is no statute of limitations for that shit. That fucker needs to go to prison.

I would agree if the story were true. I think it's just a sick fantasy though; it's not the first time I've heard one like it, and they always have the same basic outline. The key is the child's putative response, which is of course, quite unbelievable: this is the fantasy of an adult male with very serious issues.

I wouldn't let him within a Scots mile of my own children, that is for certain.

[Pepa_e_Mango]

I like being fucked in the arse and I also like older men. I love getting fucked in the arse by older men...

[Bobzz]

ASS...it's the new vagina!

[mreef]

Never had a dick, but my wife and I both love having anal plugs/dildos up both our asses while we are fucking.

It's intense for both of us.

[nylust]

The real thing is more enjoyable. It's part of a larger experience.

[phobun]

everyone taking it in the ass...

PLEASE CLEAN YOURSELF INSIDE.

I find it akward asking a man to douche.
ive never said it directly. but ive pranced around it to no avail.

In my humble opinion, any guy who asks a girl to ream him in the ass is not treating her like a girl. It always amazes me when I hear about girls who allow guys to treat them this way.

[phobun]

Never had a dick, but my wife and I

So, are you lesbians or something?

[phobun]

This repulsive story describes nothing less than the rape of a child by a predator pedophile soccer coach.

There is no statute of limitations for that shit. That fucker needs to go to prison.

I would agree if the story were true. I think it's just a sick fantasy though; it's not the first time I've heard one like it, and they always have the same basic outline. The key is the child's putative response, which is of course, quite unbelievable: this is the fantasy of an adult male with very serious issues.

I wouldn't let him within a Scots mile of my own children, that is for certain.

I think you are correct. What sort of a vile pervert would relish such a fantasy?

[Alyssa87]

everyone taking it in the ass...

PLEASE CLEAN YOURSELF INSIDE.

I find it akward asking a man to douche.
ive never said it directly. but ive pranced around it to no avail.

In my humble opinion, any guy who asks a girl to ream him in the ass is not treating her like a girl. It always amazes me when I hear about girls who allow guys to treat them this way.

lots of females blow their husbands and dont want to.
we all do things we dont really want to to please our partners.

[astridshayxxx]

Hey All

Actually when I was first starting out I didnt enjoy anal for like the first few times but then I started to like it and find it really erotic. At the time I had an Aussie boyfriend, okay what is it with ANZAC guys and Anal?, and actually didnt think I would enjoy it but or Butt I learned to love it.

Sort of the same with initially giving blowjobs but then again when I was younger I was much more into girls than the boys. Now love both.

I think it was partially letting myself enjoy different sexual pleasures as a girl and accepting myself more.

Cheers

Astrid Shay

[arnie666]

When I fuck a girl in the ass, I actually don't care about her douching an whatever you call it because I find quite a few girls get embarrased if there shit on your dick when you pull out and I enjoying seeing them look uncomfortable. The best time was when I fucking this girl up the arse who virtually everyone I know hated at a party, because she was a right bitch . Even when I was chatting her up she was interested she still acted like a bitch. But she got drunker and drunker and I fucked her up the arse. When I was done I went downstairs and said 'look she's shit on my dick '.

Next day she never talked to no one and even her own mates thought it was funny and people kept copying me in my accent saying 'look she's shit on my dick'.

I enjoy taking it from shemale escorts too. Why? because it's a bit naughty , I enjoy feeling dominated and used , and because strangely I know it will hurt a bit but have to take it so they get off. But they have to be very pretty though, and I pay big bucks to get very attractive girls to do it. But funnily enough I would never take a strap -on from a GG or even a finger as in relationships my shitter is exit only.

[ralph dibny]

Actually I got sick when I got shit on my dick after fucking some girl in the ass (it happens more with girls, since trannies usually are better prepared for these matters, though some accidents happen one time or another), but since anal sex is my favorite kind, I got used to it (obviously, I get up and go to the bathroom to have my dick cleaned as soon as I take my dick off her ass), and I think it´s a small price to pay for the huge pleasure given.

[RangeHova]

I have heard from some close friends who had prostate exams who said it was the first time that they ever had anything bear their assholes and they damn near came from that small amount of contact.

That gland is super sensitive. If it is touched the right way, you will enjoy it the very first time it is stimulated. It didn't hit me as being physically pleasurable until maybe my third time. The first few were just to make my ex feel like she was special (she was) and wanting to give her something no one else ever had.

For me, I only have let two very very serious girlfriends (and one very close fuck buddy) go there with me and to be honest it wasn't something either one of them really desired (not the fuck buddy). I wasn't itching to have them in me and visa versa. We did it just out of the heat of the moment and being so into one another that it just seemed to be taking sex to another level. I think the fact that there was a big emotional bond that it made it much more enjoyable.

I think if I just did it with someone who I didn't have a bond with it would feel a whole lot different, a whole lot less enjoyable. There is a certain amount of vulnerability in the act that for me would make it less enjoyable with a stranger no matter how attractive or sexy she was. I would need a lot of trust and comfort with the girl. If not I probably wouldn't be able to relax which is a vital part of the act to make it feel good. I think most guys (myself included) have that built in and built up anxiety with the asshole so it takes a lot to get past that.

In all relationships, I topped the girls 90% of the time. I much prefer to top. But on the same hand, when the moon and the stars aligned and my exes would hit it right and I was in the right mindset, had plenty of foreplay, was drunk with love, and into her completely, that act was something really special.

[Danielle Foxx]

everyone taking it in the ass...

PLEASE CLEAN YOURSELF INSIDE.

I find it akward asking a man to douche.
ive never said it directly. but ive pranced around it to no avail.

" Baby... have you ever had that not so fresh feeling??? "

[tstv_lover]

Hey All

Actually when I was first starting out I didnt enjoy anal for like the first few times but then I started to like it and find it really erotic. At the time I had an Aussie boyfriend, okay what is it with ANZAC guys and Anal?, and actually didnt think I would enjoy it but or Butt I learned to love it.


What do you mean? I'm strictly top in the relationships I've had with tgirls but never had anal sex with GGs, although that was mostly their choice!

[MacShreach]

(it happens more with girls, since trannies usually are better prepared for these matters, though some accidents happen one time or another),

+1

[GPrime]

I think a lot of it has to do with the emotional baggage you bring to the table. If you approach the idea of anal sex with the preconceived notion that anal sex (or sex in general) is somehow bad or dirty or wrong or immoral or whatever else then you are somewhat predisposed to not like it.

In talking about this with partners and friends I've also found quite a few that managed to grow up with a very uncomfortable attitude towards their own asses. It's fundamentally just another body part, and there's no real reason to regard it has horribly gross unless you're with someone who has some hygiene issues, and if that's the case you have larger problems.

This is all important because more than with any other type of sex you have to want anal sex to be enjoyable. If someone with even the most basic degree of skill starts sucking your dick you're going to feel pleasure, but anal sex can be exceedingly uncomfortable unless you are comfortable enough with your body, your partner, and the act of anal sex itself in order to relax your muscles and allow yourself to be comfortably (and pleasurably) penetrated.

This is why I get so damn mad at people who try the "oops" method of initiating anal sex. You can't just try and surprise your partner with a cock up their ass, and doing so not only gives them a negative association with anal play but makes it twice as hard for the next guy/girl to get past their anal defenses.

On a personal level, I approached anal sex with the utmost sexual curiosity and was very open to it. I was also young enough that any homophobic notions of "Oh, that's gay" hadn't entered my mind. I was therefore able to derive quite a bit of enjoyment from anal play early on, and have been lucky enough to find girls willing to indulge me.

As a man, I think anal play is particularly powerful because it allows us to experience something that is normally a "female" thing: being penetrated. Having an actual part of your partner's body inside you, whether it's a finger or a fist, is astonishingly intimate.