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alfredog
09-29-2005, 06:07 PM
A great answer, from shemaleblog.com. He was answering a woman who suspects her traany-loving boyfriend is gay. I agree 100% with the answer but usually don't hear it put so well:

A: So what’s up with the she-male thing? Straight boys love tits. Straight boys also love cock. In most cases straight boys are enamored of their own cocks exclusively, and there’s nothin’ queer about that. But for a tiny minority of straight guys, their love of cock extends to other cocks. This “thing” is most commonly expressed by a taste for straight porn that prominently displays cock. Most straight guys who enjoy cock in their porn identify with the other men’s cocks, enjoying the thrill of living vicariously through them. But a thin slice of these straight guys actually lust after cock—but just the dicks, not the dudes. Those in an even thinner slice of this already thin slice of the straight-guy pie actively long for dick—a dick other than their own—but they’re straight, and they don’t want to mess around with an actual dude, just a cock. And that’s where she-males come in—excuse me, cash in. They’ve got dicks, and their dicks aren’t attached to dudes. Their dicks are attached to babes, and cock-hungry straight boys will pay them good money for the pleasure of their company.

So is your boyfriend gay? No, he’s not. I don’t know any gay men who lust after she-males; that obsession is an exclusively straight-identified-male-with-a-hunger-for-cock phenomenon. His she-male obsession technically disqualifies him from the 100-percent-straight category, but it doesn’t necessarily make him bi or gay—just a touch queer. If you’re not down with that, well, then DTMFA

http://www.shemaleblog.com/?p=55

flabbybody
09-29-2005, 06:31 PM
this was posted before but worth a second look cause it seems like a logical explanation as to why guys chase tgirls.

but honestly, who really cares? I'm way past wondering why I am what I am.

Bigguy
09-29-2005, 06:32 PM
This “thing” is most commonly expressed by a taste for straight porn that prominently displays cock.
I must admit I was never really into lesbian porn that much unless one of the girls had a strap-on doing the other girl, so I can releate to this.

Spiderman
09-29-2005, 06:33 PM
Like flabby says who really cares, you should be past he you care if someone thinks your gay!

gaiseric
09-29-2005, 09:05 PM
I'm completely with flabby on this topic. I enjoy all the time I spend with T-girls. As yet not one of my friends has made a derogatory remark about it, but if someone was to object, why the hell should it bother me. I'm happy the way I am, so if someone doesn't like it, it's their problem.

BTW, is there any way we can finally lay this topic to rest. It seems to come up far too many times. :evil:

Kramer
10-01-2005, 05:45 AM
It seems pretty accurate, however, what about the anal sex obsession some of us have. How would that be explained.

I love anal sex, but I just could never find enough gg's that give it up. Shemales have little choice.

Risky
10-01-2005, 10:25 AM
Definitely don't care about cocks on shemales. I am straight, strictly top only when I am with shemales. Never sucked a she-cock and don't intent to do it soon. But I'm still attracted to shemales. Only explanation I can think of is because it's naughty. Am I alone? Anybody has a better excuse for me please :? ?

ezed
10-02-2005, 05:33 AM
Definitely don't care about cocks on shemales. I am straight, strictly top only when I am with shemales. Never sucked a she-cock and don't intent to do it soon. But I'm still attracted to shemales. Only explanation I can think of is because it's naughty. Am I alone? Anybody has a better excuse for me please :? ?

You will Luke Skywalker! You will care about the cock! By the way, the escorts must love you. A poke in the ass and they're on to the next trick, no fore play, just wham bam thank you mam....must take all of fifiteen minutes.

tsluva
10-02-2005, 03:32 PM
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Just like there is a health & safety guideline for sex
section , i'd always wish there was a " AM I GAY"
Q & A section available , dedicated to any inquiry/interest
regarding that frequetly asked question.


no matter how often it is asked and answered on message
boards , there probably will never be an end to it .

i could understand a newcomer confused with his interest for
shemales would explore this question and would want
to hear various opinions and views, but then there are times
when i think some people just want to instigate and be
annoying with it.

LG
10-02-2005, 05:07 PM
Am I Gay- Q & A Section with an Agony Uncle


Q: I have a thing about shemales. Am I gay?

A: What's a thing?

Q: I'm obsessed with them. I like to look at them and fantasise about having sex with one.

A: Do you have a thing about their thing? The thing is, having a thing about their thing may or may not qualify you as, what we technically call a phallophyllic heterotransmaniac, also known as a tranny lover or, less politely a tranny chaser.

Q: Is that bad?

A: It may be, especially if you masturbate whilst fantasising. Masturbation can lead to blindness, hearing loss, alopecia, haemmorhoids, chapped hands and mental instability.

Q: Really?

A: Not really, no, thank God. Maybe just carpal tunnel syndrome.

Q: How can I stop fantasising?

A: Drink a pint of whiskey every hour on the hour, each time followed by a six pack of beer and a Tylenol.

Q: Will that stop me fantasising?

A: Oh yes, definitely. I will also stop you breathing.

Q: I don't like the sound of that! Anything else?

A: Yes. Have an Altoid every half hour?

Q: Will that work?

A: I doubt it. But it will give you a fresh breath confidence.

Q: But seriously, is lusting after a shemale queer?

A: Not neccessarily. Although some people say it depends on whether you are a bottom (technically an phallophyllic anal recipient) or a top (known as a heterotransmaniac hypermaniac). Do you like men?

Q: God no!

A: Do you like hot, hung, lusty, sweaty, horny lumberjacks?

Q: Fuck no! That's a nasty thought.

A: Hairy, burly truck drivers? Young blond athletes?

Q: Absolutely not!!!

A: What a shame. But I suppose stricty speaking your're not homosexual. Your are rather a transexual-sexual.

Q: Are there lots of people like me?

A: Apparently they are a silent majority. We have reports, unconfirmed, of three film actors, seven politicians, and seventy nine rappers who may or may not be transexual-sexuals. Although one Republican politician said he'll never have sex with a girl who has a bigger cock than him.

Q: Why?

A: He feels threatened.

Q: How big do you think his cock is?

A: About three inches last time I checked.

Q: Well, thanks for your help.

A: No problem. Would you like a nightcap?

Q: No thanks.

A: We can have a coffee or a beer. I have some excellent champagne.

Q: No thankyou.

A: Can I interest you in my g-string collection.

Q: No!!! Goodbye.

A: Oh what a shame, goodbye.

Ecstatic
10-02-2005, 05:11 PM
:) :) :)

I especially love the term "phallophyllic heterotransmaniac"!

Dkg
10-03-2005, 01:19 AM
LOL @ LG

That was awesome. Btw, I heard Eddie Murphy had a thing for shemales.

I don't consider myself gay since I'm attracted to the feminie qualities in both GGs and TGirls.

markvictor
10-03-2005, 04:13 AM
Damn! Well I guess that makes me(censored)!

bananix
10-03-2005, 04:25 AM
I don't think it's correct to say somebody is gay if he doesn't find any male attractive on any gay porn site on the web unless it's a shemale site where they look pretty much like a female.

LG
10-03-2005, 09:04 AM
Glad you liked my Q&A session. I was feeling particularly whimsical yesterday :)

Adam_Thompson
10-03-2005, 09:21 AM
We just have a sexual orientation few could understand except guys like us and the ladies we love( or lust). We are simply guys willing to explore all facets of our sexual orientation...period. I know when I first saw TS porn and got the second biggest hard on in my life...I freaked out and thougt I was gay. So I actually looked at some gay pictures of guys having sex and was VERY VERY VERY relieved to see my penis as limp as a noodle....cooked noodle that is because an uncooked noodle would be pretty hard.
SO I know we're just open with our sexuality and whether we admit it...yes there is something about the cock we like...you may not wanna suck it and get fucked by it....or even see it hard...but you like the woman with the whole package too.

ezed
10-04-2005, 04:31 AM
We just have a sexual orientation few could understand except guys like us and the ladies we love( or lust). We are simply guys willing to explore all facets of our sexual orientation...period. I know when I first saw TS porn and got the second biggest hard on in my life...I freaked out and thougt I was gay. So I actually looked at some gay pictures of guys having sex and was VERY VERY VERY relieved to see my penis as limp as a noodle....cooked noodle that is because an uncooked noodle would be pretty hard.
SO I know we're just open with our sexuality and whether we admit it...yes there is something about the cock we like...you may not wanna suck it and get fucked by it....or even see it hard...but you like the woman with the whole package too.

Well said!