Saleslady at Victorias Secret called me Brenda??? :-?

[BrendaQG]

So, I just came from my surgeon, Dr Pensler's office, he told me I could go get an underwire bra.

His office is just off Lake Shore Drive here in Chicago. The nearest place I can think of is Victoria's Secret at water tower place (A high end mall in downtown)

I ask for a bra fitting. The lady measured me and lead me to a fitting room. No questions asked.. . .

Then when I am in the Fitting room I hear the voice of I think this other employee say "that's a man." Said quietly.

Then when I come out having selected my size for that style. that employee asked my name.. So she is showing me their Products. I noticed she was referring to me as Brenda. I asked why and she said "you look like a Brenda." I don't call myself brenda IRL.

There is only one way someone could say that. Somehow they know about HA .

As I was shopping I recognized a twisted old post op from a support group that I sometimes attend. I have never had a real personal problem with this person. I don't call them twisted because they are post op, I have no problems with post ops. The way this particular triathelte acts cannot be described. Obnoxious. (Others from Chicago will know who I mean.)

Or that one lady at victorias secret looks at HA.

If I had just been clocked then whatever, but calling me Brenda and saying "you look like a Brenda". :-?

I think that post op reads HA and outed me, and told them all about me. Can anyone tell me another explanation? Why say I look like a brenda?

[Alyssa87]

people are so shady to you!

i'm truly sorry.
and yeah, i think you hit the nail on the head with your guess.

[sugdaddie69]

Life is to short and unpredictable to worry about chance encounters.Let it go.

[Coroner]

The "you look like a Brenda" quote would make sense if you looked like this:

http://film.widarsson.se/images/shannen_doherty.jpg

However, a GG lurking around here doesn´t sound probabilistic at all. But there are other t-girls from Chicago posting here, so who knows. :wink:

[Suckalot1]

oh woww......you seem to be a victim of so much......


give me a break. I think you just heard what you wanted to hear and thought it was about you. Oh well. poor victim!!

[RubyTS]

people are so shady to you!

i'm truly sorry.
and yeah, i think you hit the nail on the head with your guess.


give that carta bitch

[RubyTS]

so brenda when r u gonna post pics of the bags?

[Danielle Foxx]

So, I just came from my surgeon, Dr Pensler's office, he told me I could go get an underwire bra.

His office is just off Lake Shore Drive here in Chicago. The nearest place I can think of is Victoria's Secret at water tower place (A high end mall in downtown)

I ask for a bra fitting. The lady measured me and lead me to a fitting room. No questions asked.. . .

Then when I am in the Fitting room I hear the voice of I think this other employee say "that's a man." Said quietly.

Then when I come out having selected my size for that style. that employee asked my name.. So she is showing me their Products. I noticed she was referring to me as Brenda. I asked why and she said "you look like a Brenda." I don't call myself brenda IRL.

There is only one way someone could say that. Somehow they know about HA .

As I was shopping I recognized a twisted old post op from a support group that I sometimes attend. I have never had a real personal problem with this person. I don't call them twisted because they are post op, I have no problems with post ops. The way this particular triathelte acts cannot be described. Obnoxious. (Others from Chicago will know who I mean.)

Or that one lady at victorias secret looks at HA.

If I had just been clocked then whatever, but calling me Brenda and saying "you look like a Brenda". :-?

I think that post op reads HA and outed me, and told them all about me. Can anyone tell me another explanation? Why say I look like a brenda?

We have a secrete society and we are after you Brenda, not because you hate us or have anything against us, but for your insensitive comparison of a sick man cutting off his penis and gender reassignment surgery in a previous post.

[Alyssa87]

So, I just came from my surgeon, Dr Pensler's office, he told me I could go get an underwire bra.

His office is just off Lake Shore Drive here in Chicago. The nearest place I can think of is Victoria's Secret at water tower place (A high end mall in downtown)

I ask for a bra fitting. The lady measured me and lead me to a fitting room. No questions asked.. . .

Then when I am in the Fitting room I hear the voice of I think this other employee say "that's a man." Said quietly.

Then when I come out having selected my size for that style. that employee asked my name.. So she is showing me their Products. I noticed she was referring to me as Brenda. I asked why and she said "you look like a Brenda." I don't call myself brenda IRL.

There is only one way someone could say that. Somehow they know about HA .

As I was shopping I recognized a twisted old post op from a support group that I sometimes attend. I have never had a real personal problem with this person. I don't call them twisted because they are post op, I have no problems with post ops. The way this particular triathelte acts cannot be described. Obnoxious. (Others from Chicago will know who I mean.)

Or that one lady at victorias secret looks at HA.

If I had just been clocked then whatever, but calling me Brenda and saying "you look like a Brenda". :-?

I think that post op reads HA and outed me, and told them all about me. Can anyone tell me another explanation? Why say I look like a brenda?

We have a secrete society and we are after you Brenda, not because you hate us or have anything against us, but for your insensitive comparison of a sick man cutting off his penis and gender reassignment surgery in a previous post.

that was a different brenda

[Danielle Foxx]

Ok I am confused... LOL

Girl... I am officially confused hahahahah

[RubyTS]

lmao

[Alyssa87]

the person you're speakin about is crazy ass 'TSBRENDA' from the 'hollywood hills' (hollywood blvd).
this is BRENDAQG' from Chicago.

[Danielle Foxx]

the person you're speakin about is crazy ass 'TSBRENDA' from the 'hollywood hills' (hollywood blvd).
this is BRENDAQG' from Chicago.

Girl, puff puff pass... Roll me another... I need some serious shit to deal with some of these idiots.

Sorry Brenda, girl... Why you shopping at Victoria's Secrete anyway, Target has some cute braws nowdays... lol

Now where's that prozac???

[fred41]

oh woww......you seem to be a victim of so much......


give me a break. I think you just heard what you wanted to hear and thought it was about you. Oh well. poor victim!!

Are you for real?? How could a name like Brenda possibly be a coincidence?? It's not like she mistakenly heard her say "Brenda"...the saleslady admitted she said it. How common do you think that name is?? It's like if someone in a store came up to me and said I look like a Fred41 (Okay, Okay ..that might be a bit of an exaggeration). No one has a right to "out" another person...and for what possible purpose. That's just bullshit....and Fuck the store too.

..and Suckalot, as far as "poor victim" is concerned..how would you like everyone in the store to know you post on HA..a TS sex site mostly dealing with transsexual pornography and escorts...be honest.

[tsntx]

lolz the dramaz

bitch doesnt read ha

post op didnt out you

she prob watches mimis youtubes as mimi is a very loyal and very frequent shopper at the water tower VS.... she prob remembers you from all the vids

be glad she didnt call you hontas farmer and ask where your burkah was

[CaptainGeech]

Oh shit! The secret is out! You are the star of a secret television show that we all watch and love. They loosely based the movie "The Truman Show" on your life. Nothing is real and everybody knows you. :P

But seriously that is creepy. I'm guessing by your reaction you had never been to that store or paid for anything yet. If any of those things indeed happened before they called you Brenda then maybe they saw your ID or credit card info.

[BrendaQG]

so brenda when r u gonna post pics of the bags?

In the sexy new bra I bought, tomorrow. Bare... whenever the stitches disolve... As a matter of fact pic of me in a sport bra lookin swollen is up here already..

[BrendaQG]

So, I just came from my surgeon, Dr Pensler's office, he told me I could go get an underwire bra.

His office is just off Lake Shore Drive here in Chicago. The nearest place I can think of is Victoria's Secret at water tower place (A high end mall in downtown)

I ask for a bra fitting. The lady measured me and lead me to a fitting room. No questions asked.. . .

Then when I am in the Fitting room I hear the voice of I think this other employee say "that's a man." Said quietly.

Then when I come out having selected my size for that style. that employee asked my name.. So she is showing me their Products. I noticed she was referring to me as Brenda. I asked why and she said "you look like a Brenda." I don't call myself brenda IRL.

There is only one way someone could say that. Somehow they know about HA .

As I was shopping I recognized a twisted old post op from a support group that I sometimes attend. I have never had a real personal problem with this person. I don't call them twisted because they are post op, I have no problems with post ops. The way this particular triathelte acts cannot be described. Obnoxious. (Others from Chicago will know who I mean.)

Or that one lady at victorias secret looks at HA.

If I had just been clocked then whatever, but calling me Brenda and saying "you look like a Brenda". :-?

I think that post op reads HA and outed me, and told them all about me. Can anyone tell me another explanation? Why say I look like a brenda?

We have a secrete society and we are after you Brenda, not because you hate us or have anything against us, but for your insensitive comparison of a sick man cutting off his penis and gender reassignment surgery in a previous post.

LOL.

Trust me Danielle, there is no comparing the person in question to you.

They walk like their panties hurt their johnson and supposedly they are post op.

[BrendaQG]

@Captain Geech. I had been in that particular VS once or twice before... but it had been a long while. There are stores in the burbs where I live that have free parking. Heck even when I lived in the city I preferred to shop in the burbs because of the free parking.

@Ahh lol girl. I'm sure that's it. The 45-55 year old woman who was serving me watches allot of youtube. :-/

Trust this particular post op...let me put it this way she walks like her underpants hurt her johnson, she herself was denied entry to a ladies locker room, even though post op she was clocked off . As wrong as that was i cannot help but think that perhaps she felt a little bitter that a pre-op like me can stroll on into spaces where she gets chased out.

How can I put the comparison. As much as I do not look like say a Danniell Foxx... the person I think outed me out of bitterness is 150-200 times worse looking than me...This is supposedly after all kinds of cosmetic work on her part.

I just needed a bit of a sanity check before I reacted the way I am going to react when I next see this person. I'm not going to get loud, But I'm going to let her know her place in the world.

[tsntx]

i think she already knows her place

:(

[Merkurie]

Brenda Im sure youre right. Usually people are on their best behavior in that part of town. But some people as we know have no manners.

No disrespect intended but there are more queens within 4 blocks of Water Tower Place than you can count. The Magnificent Mile is truly that. Home of high class shade.

[RubyTS]

get used to being spotted girl, its an everyday occurrence for a lot of us.

[Ts CinthyaNY]

Girl I think you just should not worry about other people saying. No matter how much into transition are you ( pre- op, post- op ) we always get someone to clock us.

You might right and the other post op girl may spotted you but do not sweat thing like that, sometimes they do not try in a mean way or even if they do it's out of envy or just not to feel alone in the train and show to the world that they are not the only "freak" in the world. About the comment " She is a Man" well that was mean, but you shouldn't react in all upset it gives you an opportunity to educate those women and showed then that we TS woman are not "twisted" but that we are strong minded different people who have the right to be happy and not afraid to extraordinary challenges in life such as change our whole physique to match our mindset.

If that just do not work , oh well just be as shady as they can be.

Love...

Cinthya.

[Danielle Foxx]

So Brenda,

I met this guy at a Gas station about 60 miles from where I live. I went to get a desk for my studio. He comments on my tats, we chat... He asks for the digits...

He calls me and we get to hangging out, few glasses of wine. He leans to kiss me and I stop him and started to hint of my T. He guesses right... and what's even more fucked is that he mistakingly called me Danielle when I specifically told him my legal name...

So... I get clocked all the time but people aren't mean to me - not the strangers at least - some are actually puzzled by what they see in the media.

I have to deal with that when I meet a regular guy all the time... Is he approaching me because he finds me attractive or is he approaching me because I am T?

Sucks... That is why I am always myself and I know who I am. That way small little things like these don't get to me as much.

Smile!

xoxo

At least you she did not mistake you for crazy TS BRenda from Hollywood Hills like I did hahahahahahahah

[tsntx]

^lol^

[RubyTS]

So Brenda,

I met this guy at a Gas station about 60 miles from where I live. I went to get a desk for my studio. He comments on my tats, we chat... He asks for the digits...

He calls me and we get to hangging out, few glasses of wine. He leans to kiss me and I stop him and started to hint of my T. He guesses right... and what's even more fucked is that he mistakingly called me Danielle when I specifically told him my legal name...

So... I get clocked all the time but people aren't mean to me - not the strangers at least - some are actually puzzled by what they see in the media.

I have to deal with that when I meet a regular guy all the time... Is he approaching me because he finds me attractive or is he approaching me because I am T?

Sucks... That is why I am always myself and I know who I am. That way small little things like these don't get to me as much.

Smile!

xoxo

At least you she did not mistake you for crazy TS BRenda from Hollywood Hills like I did hahahahahahahah


ughhhh i hattte thatttt!!! LMAO its like a slap in the face.

[BrendaQG]

Thanks for the words girls you all helped in your own ways.

[BrendaQG]

Brenda Im sure youre right. Usually people are on their best behavior in that part of town. But some people as we know have no manners.

No disrespect intended but there are more queens within 4 blocks of Water Tower Place than you can count. The Magnificent Mile is truly that. Home of high class shade.

No disrespect taken. Every T can get clocked by a trained eye. This I know...

Had it just been their reckoning that I was T that would be one thing...but knowing my screen name here. WTF? I did not get agitated, in fact they treated me just fine. But calling me Brenda and saying "you look like a Brenda." With that person being there... That's as much of a coincidence as getting hit by a bus, while being stuck by lighting, while holding a winning lotto ticket. Accidents like that don't happen.

There had to be some reasonable explaination. Now I have two....

I am recognizeabe enough from HA, youtube, (the only media where "brenda" has been associated with my image) ... that even people just on the edges of "the community" could recognize me.

Or

A "lady" who is as clockable as big ben, and has been treated poorlyw because of it saw me getting treated well... could not deal....and not only outed me but told my life's story to them. like "You won't fit me for a bra, but you'll fit that transsexual prostitute" brenda..."

[sugdaddie69]

Your Life story---get real Brenda.Over Reacting again.Maybe you're suffering some emotional effects from your surgery and the least little thing is setting you off.The shit was over the moment you exited V.S.Feel better-Heal well,and get ready to show off those TITS.

[Danielle Foxx]

Your Life story---get real Brenda.Over Reacting again.Maybe you're suffering some emotional effects from your surgery and the least little thing is setting you off.The shit was over the moment you exited V.S.Feel better-Heal well,and get ready to show off those TITS.

Nothing like a brand new set of tits. I remember how happy I was to get mine. It's like you are finally a grown up woman. Great feeling - stick with that and forget the haters mama. You are an intelligent woman, no need to dwell on the little things.

" I never did mind about the little things " quote from the movie "Point of no return "

[FREEFALLL666]

No disrespect but some just scream " T " it may be a shame but most of the girls peeps say are feminine resemble Michael Jackson with tits. I also have a feeling that this person was white, as different races can be easier to identify as male or female.

[BrendaQG]

No disrespect but some just scream " T " it may be a shame but most of the girls peeps say are feminine resemble Michael Jackson with tits. I also have a feeling that this person was white, as different races can be easier to identify as male or female.

I hate to tell you this... but whoever you see here that you think is manly is nothing compared to what's out there. Every HHA, is not just good looking, but commercial. We have all made some amount of money off our looks. Not every transsexual can do that. That's the nicest way I can put it.

I should add that looks do not determine a persons worth as a human being or legitimacy as a woman. But a great difference in looks can, in some personalities, lead to jealousy, and hostility , or on the other hand thinking your shit don't stink because you look good. Our ":community" has all kinds.

[FREEFALLL666]

No disrespect but some just scream " T " it may be a shame but most of the girls peeps say are feminine resemble Michael Jackson with tits. I also have a feeling that this person was white, as different races can be easier to identify as male or female.

I hate to tell you this... but whoever you see here that you think is manly is nothing compared to what's out there. Every HHA, is not just good looking, but commercial. We have all made some amount of money off our looks. Not every transsexual can do that. That's the nicest way I can put it.

I should add that looks do not determine a persons worth as a human being or legitimacy as a woman. But a great difference in looks can, in some personalities, lead to jealousy, and hostility , or on the other hand thinking your shit don't stink because you look good. Our ":community" has all kinds.Dont forget that this is Porn, just the knowledge of what someone is is novelty enough for the fantasy. There are T girls in porn that if they were regular girls with their faces they wouldn't get work.

Course you are right I guess it could be a conspiracy of someone who doesn't like you convincing shopkeepers to call you by name somehow dehumanizing you by hearing the power of your own moniker......

[daleach]

so brenda when r u gonna post pics of the bags?

Good question.
If Dr Pensler is her doctor then they must be really nice boobs.
That man makes beautiful tits.