false accusations

[jjhill]

My gf currently thinks i'm cheating on her. I found this out from her best friend... "insert name here thinks your cheating on her with a ts" oh God this should be interesting.... no wonder why i've been getting the cold shoulder the past couple days.

What sucks the most is she think that she can't talk to me regarding this. She wanna block it. So I told her we gotta talk later. So I can explain. I never cheated in the four yrs i been with her and never will. This will be interesting.... I guess I know one thing is for sure. My flirtin days are over
cuz she's the last thing I wanna lose and plan on losing. Im not leavin this mf tho lol

*disclaimer* I'm well aware of my grammar/spelling

[Alyssa87]

good luck

[jjhill]

awwww thanks alyssa, damn i almost flirted just then =) this not flirtin thing gonna be hard lol

[Alyssa87]

youre welcome.

if you want, i wont talk to you anymore, if that makes it easier.

[jjhill]

noooooooooooo nooooooooo that's one of the last things i want. Imma keep all my friends lol, and I told you with you its on a whole nother level lol. Not just your gorgeous looks. ok im bout to do this right nowwwwwwwww lol

[thx1138]

I think she'll be placated if you give her a diamond ring.

[jjhill]

I think she'll be placated if you give her a diamond ring.

look like that whats gonna happen. i gotta holla at kobe and see where he got that I committed adultry ring from lol

[Alyssa87]

I think she'll be placated if you give her a diamond ring.

look like that whats gonna happen. i gotta holla at kobe and see where he got that I committed adultry ring from lol

conflict free only please

http://www.conflictfreediamonds.org

[SarahG]

I think she'll be placated if you give her a diamond ring.

look like that whats gonna happen. i gotta holla at kobe and see where he got that I committed adultry ring from lol

That could backfire real easy.

Why give up half your stuff b/c she thinks you MIGHT be cheating on her? If she doesn't trust you now, she isn't going to trust you with a ring on her finger.... and then there's costly divorce to worry about.

[jjhill]

I think she'll be placated if you give her a diamond ring.

look like that whats gonna happen. i gotta holla at kobe and see where he got that I committed adultry ring from lol

conflict free only please

http://www.conflictfreediamonds.org


lmfao...so she always knew that I liked TS and she told me don't let the blonde hair fool me. ( I thought she didn't know) She was worried that I was actually cheatin on her. So it's all good! :) that was about a 5 minute convo.

[jjhill]

I think she'll be placated if you give her a diamond ring.

look like that whats gonna happen. i gotta holla at kobe and see where he got that I committed adultry ring from lol

That could backfire real easy.

Why give up half your stuff b/c she thinks you MIGHT be cheating on her? If she doesn't trust you now, she isn't going to trust you with a ring on her finger.... and then there's costly divorce to worry about.

lol, i've honestly....(whoooow big breath) been engaged for the past two years. but we're both young and gotta get our shit together. we're both still in school, young, etc lol

[fred41]

Do yourself a favor ...and don't get married 'til you're in your thirties.

[jjhill]

Do yourself a favor ...and don't get married 'til you're in your thirties.

Dad is that you? lol naw j/p my dad always say that. thanks for the advice, idk if i wanna wait that long. 30 is a long way for both of us.

[fred41]

lol....I don't have any kids as far as I know ...but I'm saying that because the odds of a marriage lasting are better later on.

...it's like a good friend of mine told me when he heard my marriage was breaking up ..he said "we live too long now". Early marriages don't always make it.

[jjhill]

lol....I don't have any kids as far as I know ...but I'm saying that because the odds of a marriage lasting are better later on.

...it's like a good friend of mine told me when he heard my marriage was breaking up ..he said "we live too long now". Early marriages don't always make it.


true true! thanks for the advice fred, I'll really take it into consideration seeing how you know how it is yourself. Your friend is right

[Azrial]

My gf currently thinks i'm cheating on her. I found this out from her best friend... "insert name here thinks your cheating on her with a ts" oh God this should be interesting.... no wonder why i've been getting the cold shoulder the past couple days.

What sucks the most is she think that she can't talk to me regarding this. She wanna block it. So I told her we gotta talk later. So I can explain. I never cheated in the four yrs i been with her and never will. This will be interesting.... I guess I know one thing is for sure. My flirtin days are over
cuz she's the last thing I wanna lose and plan on losing. Im not leavin this mf tho lol

*disclaimer* I'm well aware of my grammar/spelling


WTF your acting like you did something wrong. a relationship is about trust. if you've never done anything to her in the past to warrant her not trusting, you then SHE'S WRONG FOR ACCUSING YOU. if i were you I'd tell her the fuck off. because if (a) you never gave her a reason to distrust, (b) you never cheated, then ther is absolutely no reason for her to be mad, in fact you should pissed off at her.

[gr4phic4rtist08]

And this my friends is why Azrail will never get married...let alone laid



My gf currently thinks i'm cheating on her. I found this out from her best friend... "insert name here thinks your cheating on her with a ts" oh God this should be interesting.... no wonder why i've been getting the cold shoulder the past couple days.

What sucks the most is she think that she can't talk to me regarding this. She wanna block it. So I told her we gotta talk later. So I can explain. I never cheated in the four yrs i been with her and never will. This will be interesting.... I guess I know one thing is for sure. My flirtin days are over
cuz she's the last thing I wanna lose and plan on losing. Im not leavin this mf tho lol

*disclaimer* I'm well aware of my grammar/spelling


WTF your acting like you did something wrong. a relationship is about trust. if you've never done anything to her in the past to warrant her not trusting, you then SHE'S WRONG FOR ACCUSING YOU. if i were you I'd tell her the fuck off. because if (a) you never gave her a reason to distrust, (b) you never cheated, then ther is absolutely no reason for her to be mad, in fact you should pissed off at her. :roll: :roll: :roll:

[Azrial]

yes, because it's perfectly acceptable to accuse your lover of cheating without absolute 100% proof. alright buddy.


get the fuck outta here. if you trust the person your with, they get the benefit of the doubt. no. fucking. questions. asked.

jealousy, insecurity, and distrust are the WEAK emotions. if you trust your partner, accusing them of cheating, particularly when they HAVEN'T CHEATED is fucked up. there is no reason why a man should just respond to such behavior by 'explaining himself' and acting like it's okay for his partner to behave in such a manner. this completely defies the basis upon which a trusting relationship is built.

[fred41]

yes, because it's perfectly acceptable to accuse your lover of cheating without absolute 100% proof. alright buddy.


get the fuck outta here. if you trust the person your with, they get the benefit of the doubt. no. fucking. questions. asked.

jealousy, insecurity, and distrust are the WEAK emotions. if you trust your partner, accusing them of cheating, particularly when they HAVEN'T CHEATED is fucked up. there is no reason why a man should just respond to such behavior by 'explaining himself' and acting like it's okay for his partner to behave in such a manner. this completely defies the basis upon which a trusting relationship is built.

Okay..first of all..she's young..I repeat - she's young. She's young and engaged. She's gonna be jealous of her man for just about anything at this point. That's perfectly normal.

If she knew he was on this site talking to hot young transsexuals..some of whom are escorts..she'd really be jealous (so let's not let her find out eh JJ)..and she'd have grounds to be jealous.

She seems fairly reasonable when you consider it all..he let her know they can discuss this kinda stuff and she got over it.No damage done. The engagement is still on!!

Oh, and jealousy and insecurity are NOT WEAK emotions ..they're JUST human emotions (sometimes impossible to control)...and she's a girl for crying out loud..not Charles Bronson.

[Azrial]

well, let it be known that my first response was to the original post, so if they talked about it and things were cool, then good shit.

but you make some valid points, and it IS normal to feel that way, HOWEVER, i don't feel it's OKAY to take those feelings out on your loved ones. if you're insecure enough to be jealous, just for one second consider the other person's feelings. what if they aren't cheating?

people follow emotion far too much over logical thinking, sometimes emotion needs to take a back seat to logic, a relationship is far more health because of it in the long run

[dan_yearsgone83]

Well, it's not like you didn't see this coming.

I'd say it's time to stop adding hot chicks on your myspace for a lil bit.

[jjhill]

Well, it's not like you didn't see this coming.

I'd say it's time to stop adding hot chicks on your myspace for a lil bit.


i think your right dan

[phobun]

awwww thanks alyssa, damn i almost flirted just then =) this not flirtin thing gonna be hard lol
If you are flirting with other women, then your relationship with your GF is not a committed one. Cheating emotionally with another woman can be very hurtful and damaging from the GF's perspective.

[fred41]

awwww thanks alyssa, damn i almost flirted just then =) this not flirtin thing gonna be hard lol
If you are flirting with other women, then your relationship with your GF is not a committed one. Cheating emotionally with another woman can be very hurtful and damaging from the GF's perspective.

I kinda agree with this..flirting, when in a commited relationship, only serves several purposes - and they all have to do with stroking the flirters ego. Either the flirter needs constant reminders that other people might still be interested in him (other than his SO that is)..that he or she "still got it" or ...sometimes the flirter isn't being honest with him/herself and SAYS they want to be monogomous..but they always push the envelope to see how close they can get to someone else without actually sleeping with them. Flirting always seems harmless to the flirter (because they never really want to stop)..but it almost never seems harmless when witnessed by the SO..especially if they don't do it (so if you're never gonna stop but don't wanna lose her..then keep it out of sight...like on here ..lol).

Sometimes you just gotta be honest with yourself and not just ask yourself if you're ready for a committed relationship, but ask yourself if you are ready for the type of commitment that your SO, or spouse to be,considers a commitment.

Good luck with whatever you decide

[MrsKellyPierce]

tell her to bend over

[jjhill]

tell her to bend over


lol I told you Kels, she's not into girls but she says you're hot! I haven't forgot my birthday wish lol :D