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aShemalesboyfriend
04-02-2009, 11:52 AM
Its kind of strange


I´ve met a lot of transsexual girls

Most of them I met private in their work rooms after work

I had 2 of the most beutiful Girls in Germany

When it comes to sex I don´t get a real erection it is like the so beautiful I donßt know

what could it be am I nervous, AM i gay?

On the not that good looking t-girls my boner gets hard


Strange thing, anybody knows something like that?

Maybe I feel more than sex cause I like t-girls or it is like with not that beautiful I feel more dominating and really dooing knd of nastier things

sorry for my english

T-girl hound
04-02-2009, 01:13 PM
Am I Gay, that stood out, I dont consider someone gay.Even if they only like ts

Richctdude
04-02-2009, 01:57 PM
nerves

fred41
04-02-2009, 02:23 PM
If I understand you correctly..you are asking why beautiful transsexuals don't arouse you ..but homelier (or perhaps, less passable) ones do.

No one can really answer that except for you. It's hard to determine what exactly arouses a person, and why..beyond the physical aspect. Everyone has a lot of stuff going on in they're heads that really determines what they like sexually..physical attributes aside. You have to determine for yourself what it is you really like..and learn to be comfortable with that and not worry so much as to what label that makes you, be it gay, bisexual, heterosexual but kinky, etc......(and as long as what you are doing doesn't harm anyone..lol)

One final note:looks are relative...one person's ideal of physical beauty doesn't necessarily match anothers (you know-"beauty is in the eyes of the beholder",blah,blah,blah..)...find out what you like in a girl...and go with that...labels be damned.

Good Luck!

MacShreach
04-03-2009, 09:49 AM
If I understand you correctly..you are asking why beautiful transsexuals don't arouse you ..but homelier (or perhaps, less passable) ones do.



Stress causes erectile dysfunction, and I think the OP is affected by a well-documented stress reaction, not restricted to encounters between men and transwomen, but quite common between men and beautiful natal women, that appears to be a form of performance anxiety that goes something like this:

"God she's so beautiful--I bet she's had some real studs--I really want to impress this girl--I want to have her so much--I better not fuck this up--Hello? Where did my erection go? Damn!"

A good professional has the techniques to help a man deal with this sort of thing. 8)

thx1138
04-03-2009, 03:03 PM
try viagra or cialis.

SarahG
04-03-2009, 10:03 PM
try viagra or cialis.

He could ask to borrow some from OEM or GSXR.

gr4phic4rtist08
04-03-2009, 10:26 PM
wow another am I gay thread...............epic fail

ImpulZ
04-03-2009, 10:35 PM
AM i gay?


well i think so.....you wanted a sheMALEPENIS...........so why the rush....relaxed man 8)

raiku9909
04-03-2009, 10:40 PM
smoking and bad heart health also contribute to erectile dysfunction, so consider dropping smoking and start excercising if either of those things apply to you ;p

T-girl hound
04-03-2009, 11:21 PM
maybe you just a bottom


Susi loves bottoms :D

TommyFoxtrot
04-04-2009, 10:37 PM
You're probably nervous.

marcelloNYC
04-04-2009, 10:57 PM
Ask yourself these questions:

1. Can you get an erection when masturbating?
2. Do you wake up with an erection?

3 .Do you smoke?
4. Do you have diabetes or family history of diabetes?

If you answered yes to 1 and 2 and no to 3 and 4 you most likely do not have an erectile problem.

Now you said that less "passable" TG's give you an erection and you are concerned that you may be gay.

~ Is there a desire to have sex with the more beautiful transexuals? If yes then you may have performance anxiety issues. The more attractive a girl is—the more nervous you get. nerves=no erection

If you said NO, then do men turn you on? (now there is also lots of different types of guys-hairy, muscular, feminine etc) look at all the types and see if there is an attraction. If yes then most likely you are bisexual and there is nothing wrong with that.

Lastly, you may also be more of a bottom.

sp fan
04-05-2009, 04:26 AM
low testosterone possibly, have your levels tested

ezed
04-05-2009, 08:26 AM
FOLLOW YOUR BONER, LUKE! USE THE FORCE! Or don't and keep posting.