so whay is it that tgirls wil not talk to you in public.....

[slikrickdalicka]

I am a bit confused.......I have seen blogs on here asking whether or not a guy would be seen in public with a t-girl. Personally I have no problem with it. But why is it that if you notice a tgirl in the streets and say hi and ask how are you, the keep walking as if you are not standing there? I dont have a problem with talking and even grabbing a bite to eat for that matter. But it seems that when the shoe is on the other foot certain girls and it may not be all practically run when you try to approach them in the streets. I am confused, do I smell or do I HAVE A SERIOUS CASE OF BREATH? Let me know....

[TsVanessa69]

Some guys are on shady shit sometimes. I dont talk to guys in the streets either.

[scubaman]

i talk to everyone as long you aproach me with respect.

Just be careful if she has a bottle with her. You never know where it will end up. ;)

[SarahG]

I am a bit confused.......I have seen blogs on here asking whether or not a guy would be seen in public with a t-girl. Personally I have no problem with it. But why is it that if you notice a tgirl in the streets and say hi and ask how are you, the keep walking as if you are not standing there? I dont have a problem with talking and even grabbing a bite to eat for that matter. But it seems that when the shoe is on the other foot certain girls and it may not be all practically run when you try to approach them in the streets. I am confused, do I smell or do I HAVE A SERIOUS CASE OF BREATH? Let me know....

How are you approaching them? Could be you're unknowingly sending the wrong vibes.

[tsmandy]

It makes me uncomfortable when a guy comes up to me and says something like I know you're a Transsexual. That is not a welcome piece of news to me.

[marcelloNYC]

I think Mandy and Susi hit the nail on the head. You should approach a person with respect regardless of what their gender assignment is. I never approach a transgendered person any different than I would a girl or guy.

There will always be people that will shut you down regardless of how nice you are and how good looking you are, because they are conditioned to put up a defense mechanism due to of all the bullshit they deal with from disrespectful people. It's understandable.

RE: slikrickdalicka You probably do not smell, but may be overly aggressive. Chill, be yourself and be respectful.
:D

[LilWyte]

It makes me uncomfortable when a guy comes up to me and says something like I know you're a Transsexual. That is not a welcome piece of news to me.
:lol: great opening line

[bellamy]

Ok I may be wrong about this but I would assume you get about the same response from a GG when you just walk up to them on the street and say what ever it is you say. You're probably just not the guy for them or you come across to creepy.

[jjhill]

you can usually look at the girl and tell if she want you to approach her. Body language is key.

[Luna555]

Its mostlikely not that you smell, like mandy said, its not a wolcome piece of news, especially if she is walking around and going on with her day and she isn't thinking, god do people know that I'm TS and then when you come up to them its like you are clocking them and ruining their confidence... Its just plain creepy, also most ts girls don't want a guy to come up to them because they are TS.

[russtafa]

I DONT TALK TO PEOPLE ON THE STREET AND I DONT WANT THEM TO TALK TO ME=THATS STREET TRASH STYLE.I ONLY SAY HI TO PEOPLE I KNOW

[Floyd R]

If a guy on the street calls out your name, will you pretend like you didn't hear him and keep on walking?


Some guys are on shady shit sometimes. I dont talk to guys in the streets either.

[Alyssa87]

maybe she thought you were a trafficker.

thats the first thing that comes to mind when i see a man in the street looking at me.lol

[jjhill]

maybe she thought you were a trafficker.

thats the first thing that comes to mind when i see a man in the street looking at me.lol

I can't front, if I saw you in the street I would have to talk to you. Your bout one of the 5 girls that I would do that too :oops:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sjWG1h5j4eE

[Alyssa87]

maybe she thought you were a trafficker.

thats the first thing that comes to mind when i see a man in the street looking at me.lol

I can't front, if I saw you in the street I would have to talk to you. Your bout one of the 5 girls that I would do that too :oops:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sjWG1h5j4eE


Passin Me By? nice one! 8)
thank you

[jjhill]

maybe she thought you were a trafficker.

thats the first thing that comes to mind when i see a man in the street looking at me.lol

I can't front, if I saw you in the street I would have to talk to you. Your bout one of the 5 girls that I would do that too :oops:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sjWG1h5j4eE


Passin Me By? nice one! 8)
thank you

your welcome :D

[tsntx]

Ok I may be wrong about this but I would assume you get about the same response from a GG when you just walk up to them on the street and say what ever it is you say. You're probably just not the guy for them or you come across to creepy.

:idea:


i dont talk to guys in the streets period

if i wanna talk to you... ull know

[NYBURBS]

Ok I may be wrong about this but I would assume you get about the same response from a GG when you just walk up to them on the street and say what ever it is you say. You're probably just not the guy for them or you come across to creepy.

:idea:


i dont talk to guys in the streets period

if i wanna talk to you... ull know

So wait are you saying if I saw you in the street you wouldn't stop to call me a dirty faggot? :cry:

[LilWyte]

Ok I may be wrong about this but I would assume you get about the same response from a GG when you just walk up to them on the street and say what ever it is you say. You're probably just not the guy for them or you come across to creepy.

:idea:


i dont talk to guys in the streets period

if i wanna talk to you... ull know

So wait are you saying if I saw you in the street you wouldn't stop to call me a dirty faggot? :cry: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

[ARMANIXXX]

Ok....OP,

I'm curious,


What exactly did you say to the last TS girl that ignored you?

Explain how the scene went down in detail please.

Thanks.

[ARMANIXXX]

Also,

In general, What happens to you when you approach genetic girls in public?

[Legend]

I saw this girl today in the street going to her hotel around grand central today...mu jaw just dropped she is so hotttttt.....this picture really does not do her justice......she has an amazing body and face.....flawless....
i would have let her fucke me right in public

LOL,let me guess you asked this current girl to f**k you and she ran,smart girl.Serioulsy dude if you have things like that on your mind when you walk up to a girl wtf do you expect to happen.

[SarahG]

To be fair to the guy who started the OP, he didn't say that he walked up to a girl to say "hey, you're trans right?"

After all the OP says: "But why is it that if you notice a tgirl in the streets and say hi and ask how are you"

[alyssats]

me too I dont usually entertain strangers but if the guy seems to be nice and good why not ;)

[LibertyHarkness]

If someone smiles at me nicely, and is polite i will talk to them.. i have lots to say anyway all the time :)

but if someone is abit weird sleazy then i will just tell them to jog on before i give them a backhander xxx

[jjhill]

I was on the train today, and this girl asked this guy for his number, so dude typed it in. And the chick next to me tried the same thing with me....lol, needless to say, I didn't cuz I know who I gotta answer too.

Anyway I said all this to say, if a girl really wants to talk to you, she'll do it.

[Bob's Tgirls]

I am a bit confused.......I have seen blogs on here asking whether or not a guy would be seen in public with a t-girl. Personally I have no problem with it. But why is it that if you notice a tgirl in the streets and say hi and ask how are you, the keep walking as if you are not standing there? I dont have a problem with talking and even grabbing a bite to eat for that matter. But it seems that when the shoe is on the other foot certain girls and it may not be all practically run when you try to approach them in the streets. I am confused, do I smell or do I HAVE A SERIOUS CASE OF BREATH? Let me know....

My guess is that if they don't really know you or only know you as a client, they may want to keep business and personal separate. Again, that's just a guess.

[Ts CinthyaNY]

Some guys are sometimes shy to talk to a gurl on the streets because if you are sure she is TS well that's enough to men to feel a little shy because they tend to think everyone else would notice.

Personally if someone approach me and talk to me with with respect ans show me good manners, I do not see why not to talk to ... Unfortunately many times guys just want to flirt with the gurls and after talking for a couple minutes there it comes the sexual offer and that's not really nice if we trying to go about our lives and not to be taken as a sexual object or so.

Most times if a guy tells me straight up that he wants my number and that he would call me to business well I just give him my number and walk away.
But there are places and moments for it, if I am with my family, husband or bf and a get a man to talk to me, I find this very disrespectfully.

Slikrickdalicka, try not to look so desperate to a gurl or if she is not even looking at you just do not approach her. We live as any other woman; with all the precautions of any stranger, and as a TS woman that it makes us even more vulnerable and sensitive that not all men would be as gentle as you might be.
First why not to try eye contact and wait until she give a look and you may talk to her

Love...
Cinthya.

[slikrickdalicka]

thank you SarahG,for you are the only one that read what I wrote. If the people here were not so quick to judge and blot down their dumb repsone they would notice that I quoted "Hi" and "How are you?" as the words that I choose whether I am approaching a TG or GG. I understand that it makes some TGirls uncomfortable which is why I say it while I am walking and do not stop and hawk them down until they respond. I will say it in passing and if they do not respond I keep it moving. You people are so twisted.

[SirDrake]

me too I dont usually entertain strangers but if the guy seems to be nice and good why not ;)

so youre really stuck up when you're not on the clock?

[SirDrake]

I am a bit confused.......I have seen blogs on here asking whether or not a guy would be seen in public with a t-girl. Personally I have no problem with it. But why is it that if you notice a tgirl in the streets and say hi and ask how are you, the keep walking as if you are not standing there? I dont have a problem with talking and even grabbing a bite to eat for that matter. But it seems that when the shoe is on the other foot certain girls and it may not be all practically run when you try to approach them in the streets. I am confused, do I smell or do I HAVE A SERIOUS CASE OF BREATH? Let me know....

Maybe they're only nice to you if you're a client and paying them?

[Paladin]

maybe she thought you were a trafficker.

thats the first thing that comes to mind when i see a man in the street looking at me.lol

what the hell is a trafficker???

[a994]

It makes me uncomfortable when a guy comes up to me and says something like I know you're a Transsexual. That is not a welcome piece of news to me.


So Mandy, I guess coming up to you and asking if you are a top is out of the question then, right? :lol:

[SirDrake]

It makes me uncomfortable when a guy comes up to me and says something like I know you're a Transsexual. That is not a welcome piece of news to me.

maybe he just trying to break the ice? :)

[Helvis2012]

What chick would stop on the street and field an advance from some creeper slinking by?

Try going out to a party and try. Most of the girls are very friendly.

[youshouldtrythislol]

I have never tried to randomly talk to a girl on the street. If I open the door for her and she speaks to me first, I may actually attempt a brief conversation or something, but if there is no opening for a brief conversation, I am not just going to randomly go up and talk to a girl on the street.

[Infern0]

I wouldnt talk to some random person in the streets tbf

[Chris in LA]

I am a bit confused.......I have seen blogs on here asking whether or not a guy would be seen in public with a t-girl. Personally I have no problem with it. But why is it that if you notice a tgirl in the streets and say hi and ask how are you, the keep walking as if you are not standing there? I dont have a problem with talking and even grabbing a bite to eat for that matter. But it seems that when the shoe is on the other foot certain girls and it may not be all practically run when you try to approach them in the streets. I am confused, do I smell or do I HAVE A SERIOUS CASE OF BREATH? Let me know....

Either you're creepy looking or have no game....

[Caff_Racer]

I would never dream of talking to a total stranger in the street (and this is regardless of gender).

And to tell the truth, I wouldn't even talk unbidden to a girl at a party. I will always wait for her to strike up conversation with me. it's partly to do with the very strict way in which I was brought up, and also because I have always been aware of my limitations (I know that I'm not particularly good-looking, intelligent or witty), which turned me into a very timid and reserved person where the girls are concerned. And as the ladies usually look straight through me (for the aforementioned reasons), when you see me at a party I'm the Billy-no-mates sitting in the corner nursing a drink.

[amberskyi]

actually the creepiest thing happened to me about two weeks ago.the incident actually reaffirmed alot of the reasons why i choose to not escort in new york anymore.
so about two weeks ago i was on my way to get my nails done in queens.i was kinda hungry before hand and decided to stop in to this chinese joint that has great teriyaki chicken.so im sitting my the register and i notice this guy staring at me.he was with a girl and it was obvious from their body language they were some kind of item.so when the guy comes up to pay he drops his business card "accidentally" in front of me and kinda nudges my foot with his.i dont respond to this type of behavior regardless of if hes single or not.so i gave a deep,frustrated sigh and gave my best annoyed face (which wasnt hard to do cause i was).finally my food is ready.i pay and leave just to discover the fucker is outside waiting for me!! he tries to approach me and i of course ignore me.dude ends up following me down the street yelling after me how he knows who i am.this is the third time this shit has happened to me -__-.
oh and i also dont let guys approach me on the street because 5 out of 10 times once i tell him or he figures out im a ts he's no longer interested.then four out of those 5 guys left, once they find out what i am make sexual advances.so talking to strange guys on the street tends to just be a waste of my time.

[Infern0]

actually the creepiest thing happened to me about two weeks ago.the incident actually reaffirmed alot of the reasons why i choose to not escort in new york anymore.
so about two weeks ago i was on my way to get my nails done in queens.i was kinda hungry before hand and decided to stop in to this chinese joint that has great teriyaki chicken.so im sitting my the register and i notice this guy staring at me.he was with a girl and it was obvious from their body language they were some kind of item.so when the guy comes up to pay he drops his business card "accidentally" in front of me and kinda nudges my foot with his.i dont respond to this type of behavior regardless of if hes single or not.so i gave a deep,frustrated sigh and gave my best annoyed face (which wasnt hard to do cause i was).finally my food is ready.i pay and leave just to discover the fucker is outside waiting for me!! he tries to approach me and i of course ignore me.dude ends up following me down the street yelling after me how he knows who i am.this is the third time this shit has happened to me -__-.
oh and i also dont let guys approach me on the street because 5 out of 10 times once i tell him or he figures out im a ts he's no longer interested.then four out of those 5 guys left, once they find out what i am make sexual advances.so talking to strange guys on the street tends to just be a waste of my time.

Someone tried to mug me and my friend in new york, we had been sparring at paulie maglinaggis gym, and the pair of us were pretty bashed up, and some tosser asked for one of our wallets, then he took a closer look of us and fucked off.

I didnt have any money anyway lol

[Brittany St Jordan]

I don't mind guys talking to me or hitting on me but there is a certain boundary that I find acceptable if I don't know you. Flirting is one thing but when you go from nice smile to your dick in my ass in the same sentence then there is a problem. It is usually these assholes that ruin it for the nice guys who try and get turned down later on. So if you do get brushed off or turned down don't take it personally. Nine times out of ten it was probably some other asshole that ruined it for you.

[Infern0]

I don't mind guys talking to me or hitting on me but there is a certain boundary that I find acceptable if I don't know you. Flirting is one thing but when you go from nice smile to your dick in my ass in the same sentence then there is a problem. It is usually these assholes that ruin it for the nice guys who try and get turned down later on. So if you do get brushed off or turned down don't take it personally. Nine times out of ten it was probably some other asshole that ruined it for you.

My dear, if I had eleven roses and you, I'd have a dozen.














Made that one up myself!

[Brittany St Jordan]

My dear, if I had eleven roses and you, I'd have a dozen.


Made that one up myself!

And that is the proper way to get a lady's attention ;)

[Infern0]

And that is the proper way to get a lady's attention ;)

That, is how I roll.
8)

[Brittany St Jordan]

That, is how I roll.
8)

Well if you ever roll my way let me know ;)

[Infern0]

Well if you ever roll my way let me know ;)

heh, i guess you are in america?

thats a long way for me, but i might have to see what i can do.
8)

anyway off to bed for me, im spinning decks tonight on about 2 hours sleep.

Night Night :grouphug

[SirDrake]

I don't mind guys talking to me or hitting on me but there is a certain boundary that I find acceptable if I don't know you. Flirting is one thing but when you go from nice smile to your dick in my ass in the same sentence then there is a problem. It is usually these assholes that ruin it for the nice guys who try and get turned down later on. So if you do get brushed off or turned down don't take it personally. Nine times out of ten it was probably some other asshole that ruined it for you.

Going from nice smile to his dick in your ass is like going from 0 to 60 in two seconds. :):)

[Brittany St Jordan]

Going from nice smile to his dick in your ass is like going from 0 to 60 in two seconds. :):)

And you would amazed at how many guys attempt this type of shenanigan ;)

[SirDrake]

And you would amazed at how many guys attempt this type of shenanigan ;)

Seriously, I mean what are these guys expecting for you to say ok lets hurry up and lets run behind a dumpster or somewhere else for you to put your dick in my ass???

That's just totally disrespectful, I guess some guys just have all these sick fantasies about TS being overly horny and desperate to give up the ass anytime someone mentions dick? :):)

[Brittany St Jordan]

I guess some guys just have all these sick fantasies about TS being overly horny and desperate to give up the ass anytime someone mentions dick? :):)

Well, we are horny and desperate, just not THAT desperate lol ;)

[SirDrake]

Well, we are horny and desperate, just not THAT desperate lol ;)

wow... hahahaha.. I won't lie though sometimes just seeing a sexy TS and my dick will instantly get rock hard, but I just keep it moving and go in another direction..:):)