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tsbrenda
09-23-2005, 01:09 AM
techniques and how to cum from being bottomed without jacking off?

any info on this subject? I know you have to stimulate the prostate!

BlackAdder
09-23-2005, 02:08 AM
The hands free orgasm....thats like the holy grail lol....Seriously, I think you have to be able to, cause from what ive read not everyone can. I know I cant....well maybe if i went without sex for six months...maybe:).

ANIYAH
09-23-2005, 04:58 AM
Well i have had that happen before to me but only by one man ......I like to get fucked really harddd with quick strokes and deep..and he used to do so for long periods of time and he was also very attracted so looking at him and being turned on in addition to him fuckin me senseless...Made me orgasm with out touching myself everytime we had sexx...I also think me riding his dick and my penis bouncing up and down on his stomach aided in my unhelped orgasm aswell

hondarobot
09-23-2005, 05:20 AM
I think the "hard fucking" is really the key. I have to (reluctantly) admit I'm usually a more sensative, compasionate guy. That's just kinda my nature, I'm a pretty nice guy when I'm not being a jack ass.

But hard, deep fucking, the girls gotta have it some times.

chefmike
09-23-2005, 05:27 AM
that's right, honda!! give em 3 inches the hard way!!! dammit!!

Ecstatic
09-23-2005, 05:33 AM
BlackAdder is right, that's the holy grail. Sometimes I get incredibly hard when I'm bottom, and sometimes I go limp as a wet noodle no matter how good it feels, but I've never cum just from being fucked. Yet just a little touching can be all I need, especially if she's on top and jerking me off at the same time. Then the pressure on the prostate really does the trick.

I've also never been with a girl who was bottom and came from just being fucked.

hondarobot
09-23-2005, 05:51 AM
chefmike, have you been peeking in my windows? By the way, my massive three inches have only been obtained through a combination of internet pills and a bizarre pump like device. Following my intended surgery, I plan to top the charts with a swoon inducing 3 and a half inches, in order to compete on the same level as yourself.

:roll:

chefmike
09-23-2005, 05:55 AM
chefmike, have you been peeking in my windows? By the way, my massive three inches have only been obtained through a combination of internet pills and a bizarre pump like device. Following my intended surgery, I plan to top the charts with a swoon inducing 3 and a half inches, in order to compete on the same level as yourself.

:roll:yeah...I'm planning on the pump to put me over four inches...dare to dream...

SexxxyJade
09-23-2005, 06:26 AM
This is something that cannot be obtained from nothing but experience. If being a bottom is primarily your thing, you have been doing it for a very long time, and you enjoy it immensely, then u can accoplish an orgasm by being topped. It happens to me occasionally, but as Aniyah says, you really have to be turned on by the person, and enjoying the session.

hondarobot
09-23-2005, 06:39 AM
Personally I think good sex is 20% physical, 20% mental, and 60% primal, just wanting to fuck.

But, of course, there's a ton of other factors.

tsbrenda
09-23-2005, 11:42 AM
these things have worked for me.
create sexual tension. then do not satisfy it and it puts you on the edge. after that grelax and get topped.

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2nd way
I use medical tape to tuck,cause tension build up when I get an erection but it can not go no where.

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3rd way
a certain position tends to rub the prostate more then others i.e.
misionanary with the bottoms hips on a pillow.

Lobo
09-23-2005, 07:53 PM
For people that aren't able to achieve this on a regular basis, I found two ways that can be successful:

You might want to try while you are the most horny. A lot of people have their "most horny time of the day". You know, that time of day where you are most like to want to have sex. Try to achieve your hands free orgasm during whatever time in the day you are usually most horny, your chances of being successful will be increased.

#1- Don't have any sex for a few weeks (2 - 3 weeks, 3 weeks would be best). This takes discipline but the payoff is amazing in the end. You'll be hornier than hell, if you hit the right spot while being fucked it can and will be done with ease. Missionary and reverse cowgirl are good positions for this, but everyone's got their own favourite position.

#2- While getting fucked you can help yourself along by jacking off a bit with a stoke or two here and there, but not too much. Once you feel like you're a couple of minutes away from cumming don't touch your cock anymore, a minute or two later you WILL come thanks to whoever it is pounding your ass with their cock.

I used to experiment with trying to find ways to come with the least amount of contact to my cock, just to see how far I could go.
I once came by holding my cock in my hand only just below the head, I didn't jack off, I didn't move my hand at all, all I did was hold my cock and willed myself to come, it took awhile but I did it.
I also managed to come twice by not even touching my cock, I went 3 weeks without sex or masturbation just to see how long I could go without having sex or jacking off and too see how intense of an orgasm I could eventually achieve by holding out so long.
I finally decided I'd had enough and would go crazy if I didn't cum soon.
So I layed down in bed and popped a porn in the VCR (this was years ago).
I managed to cum without touching my cock at all, but it wasn't what you would call premature ejaculation. There are muscles in your cock and what I did was flex them off and on. Because I hadn't had sex in 3 weeks, flexing these muscles was enough stimulation to get me to come, but I also had to concentrate very hard, it was very difficult to do, but trust me when I tell you it's the most intense feeling I've ever had other than cumming while stimulating my prostate. It was very much a mental excercise with a great physical payoff in the end.
It's great excercise for the mind and body, seeing how far you can take an orgasm and experimenting with it.

Lobo
09-23-2005, 11:03 PM
The other thing I have noticed about a prostate induced orgasm without jacking off is this:
Sometimes you can get and hold the sensation of the beginning of an orgasm while being fucked.
This can usually only be accomplished if you aren't jacking off while being fucked.
What I sense happening is that while stimulating the prostate, you begin to enter the first phase of the orgasm, if you leave your cock alone and don't touch it, it's possible for you to hold that feeling and delay your climax, it is without a doubt one of the craziest feelings you can ever experience, it's almost like you are stuck just past the beginning point of an orgasm, and that feeling stays there as long as you are being fucked and as long as you don't touch your cock, this feeling is a bit much for some people to take because it can drive you crazy to have that feeling of being right at the start of an orgasm yet not have it progress further than that, it has happened to me twice while stimulating my prostate, it's kind of like the feeling you get the split second before you actually cum and shoot a load, you know the feeling that sometimes makes you catch your breath or gasp a bit? imagine being in that state for 30 seconds or more than a minute, it's incredible and almost unbearable at the same time, it's not easy to achieve and hold, but if you can ever get that feeling and hold it, it's the most jaw dropping feeling you'll ever experience.

tsbrenda
09-24-2005, 03:13 AM
there is a sexual position that always hits or rubs against the prostate gland.
the person who is topping has to have there pennis at an angle that cause the most friction.

i.e. if doing doggie style the dominate persoon needs to be higher then the bottom person.
in missionary the bottom need to behigher then the dominate top.

magic9inch
09-24-2005, 08:04 PM
Well i have had that happen before to me but only by one man ......I like to get fucked really harddd with quick strokes and deep..and he used to do so for long periods of time and he was also very attracted so looking at him and being turned on in addition to him fuckin me senseless...Made me orgasm with out touching myself everytime we had sexx...I also think me riding his dick and my penis bouncing up and down on his stomach aided in my unhelped orgasm aswell

you make me horny just readin your qoutes

tsbrenda
09-25-2005, 01:24 AM
what do you think of my position advice?

Ecstatic
09-25-2005, 01:28 AM
Good advice, Brenda. My favorite partner has a nicely curved cock which hits the spot just right for me, depending on the position we're in. I've never had a full-blown orgasm just by being topped, but I have had "dry" orgasms that way, which can also be intense.

tsbrenda
09-26-2005, 02:33 AM
a curved pennis

tsbrenda
09-27-2005, 10:52 AM
no more information from anyone?

rvince
09-27-2005, 01:21 PM
happened to me a few times while eating my (GG) partner.
Was definately a great feeling...