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SXFX
03-12-2009, 12:45 AM
So it's 1 in the afternoon and I am in need of lunch so a friend of mine and I go out to get something to eat. While eating we notice these two relatively attractive girls flirting with these.....well let's just call them white collar thugs.
My friend and I know these two jokers, rims worth more than their leased cars, hustling variable rate high risk mortgages and refinancing to those who for a lack of a better word aren't all there.

But never the less it was funny, my friend and I are what you would call professionals, both of us have an MS. Make good money, drive a nice car live in nice condos and tip well. We are by no means rich, but we are doing well and when we go out we also do well. So any way long story short, we just found it interesting that no matter the age some girls will just go after the thug. No matter how badly they screw the girl over, how much the slap her around and take her cash....the girl will never learn..she will go for the thug.

Now I as any guy knows women don't want to be treated like gold.....yeah they ask for it but if you give it to them they will walk away. But I also know you have to be a man and be respectful and not back hand the girl and pork her best friend.....unless she is into that kind of thing. But still.......my friend and I can't seem to figure it out. Is our point of view flawed? Are women as smart as men? Or are these chicken heads dumber than a box of shit?

Girl, you know he's going to back hand your skinny little ass and take your money........what ya thinking?
Her response "He drive a nice car, he's making deals, he looks like a tan collin farell......"
Yeah.

So what is it? Are girls really that dumb? I hope not because.....well.....I work with many and don't wish to think less of them. Or am i missing something here?

BLKGSXR
03-12-2009, 12:47 AM
So it's 1 in the afternoon and I am in need of lunch so a friend of mine and I go out to get something to eat. While eating we notice these two relatively attractive girls flirting with these.....well let's just call them white collar thugs.
My friend and I know these two jokers, rims worth more than their leased cars, hustling variable rate high risk mortgages and refinancing to those who for a lack of a better word aren't all there.

But never the less it was funny, my friend and I are what you would call professionals, both of us have an MS. Make good money, drive a nice car live in nice condos and tip well. We are by no means rich, but we are doing well and when we go out we also do well. So any way long story short, we just found it interesting that no matter the age some girls will just go after the thug. No matter how badly they screw the girl over, how much the slap her around and take her cash....the girl will never learn..she will go for the thug.

Now I as any guy knows women don't want to be treated like gold.....yeah they ask for it but if you give it to them they will walk away. But I also know you have to be a man and be respectful and not back hand the girl and pork her best friend.....unless she is into that kind of thing. But still.......my friend and I can't seem to figure it out. Is our point of view flawed? Are women as smart as men? Or are these chicken heads dumber than a box of shit?

Girl, you know he's going to back hand your skinny little ass and take your money........what ya thinking?
Her response "He drive a nice car, he's making deals, he looks like a tan collin farell......"
Yeah.

So what is it? Are girls really that dumb? I hope not because.....well.....I work with many and don't wish to think less of them. Or am i missing something here?
That should be in the stories section but Funny at that...Wtf kind of rims...Only rims I know cost that much are VOLK's or SPOONS

jjhill
03-12-2009, 12:53 AM
Girls like rebels, we all know that. Also they go for the guys that their parents tell them to stay away from. Basically the opposite. I'm not a girl, but my mom told me no white girls. And.........anybody who knows me knows I love white girls

SXFX
03-12-2009, 12:54 AM
Figure of speech. Seeing how you can no longer really install a new radio into a leased car with out voiding the lease. But you get the picture?
A least G-35 with a few K invested in rims.

Nowhere
03-12-2009, 12:55 AM
There is no answer to this dilemma.

It's true, treat most women like gold, like they haven't been their whole lives and they'll either be turned off immediately or confused and run away.

Treat most women relatively bad, and they'll come back for more.

Psychologically I think it's all a biproduct of what you're raised under, and what your mind wraps itself around defining "love" as. There are a lot of bad parents out there, and their bent relationship with their children founds what those children (years later, the women in front of you) see "love" as, and forever in their life, they will seek a similarly bent relationship and only fall for people who give them that.

But, if you're a moral or ethical person, knowing that really doesn't solve anything.

The closest thing i've come to a reconciliation is playing aloof, as in not treating them bad but also being a little teasing and not giving them what they want, but that can only go on for so long.

It IS a dilemma. Treat them bad and get them, but feel terrible all along the way or treat them well and be on your own, feeling comfortable with your conscience, but lonely.

What can you do?

Note: What I said is "most" not "all," so no one take this so personally...

flabbybody
03-12-2009, 01:00 AM
I guess I was in the 7th or 8th grade when it became painfully obvious that the girls I wanted the most were chasing the bad boy thugs. It almost seemed like the worse a guy was the hotter the girl he got. They didn't have words like ghetto boy or hood rat back then, but thats what they were.

Now that I'm grown up and have a mature outlook on life I can confidently say that not a freakin thing has changed. Its in my nature to treat women with respect and be generous with them, so I gues I get laid less and spend more.
But we are what we are and nothing can change that

SXFX
03-12-2009, 01:06 AM
The closest thing i've come to a reconciliation is playing aloof, as in not treating them bad but also being a little teasing and not giving them what they want, but that can only go on for so long.

BINGO! You got it! I've never spent more than $10 on a girl. No girl was ever worth it. You want a drink? Get it your damn self! And get one for me too! A girl friend that's different. A girl....treat her as you would treat any other guy.

But the thug thing gets me, these girls are treated like shit, and there are endless hours of shows on life time and opra and god knows what else that should in theory educate these girls to stop chasing the abuse. It's sad, and sadly funny. I do have to admit, and I do know it's wrong, I love it when a thug breaks one of these girls hearts. It's like watching a train wreck...you know it's wrong...but you can't help getting a folding chair a few drinks and calling your buds to check this shit out!

And you know....I'm kind of glad these girls go after the thugs...no really! If they didn't....what would the show COPS be like?

menacingmethods86
03-12-2009, 01:07 AM
alot of trannys are the same way :lol:

SXFX
03-12-2009, 01:11 AM
menacingmethods86, I have noticed that as well. But that's different. I think that has to do with masculinity.
As an "office" guy I'm in shape. But compared to a thug who spends hours a day at the gym....I'm skinny.
And your average TS girl wants to be and is a girl. Hanging out with Mr. Skinny Mc Nobiceps.....well.....isn't her gig. Because it doesn't accentuate her inner radiant femininity. For in effect Mr. Skinny may make her look....less feminine.

Alyssa87
03-12-2009, 01:12 AM
The hate is heavy in here.

SXFX
03-12-2009, 01:16 AM
The hate is heavy in here.
I'm sorry hun? How so? I don't hate any one. I just observe, and study.
Blame my educational background. Sure I can't spell worth a dam, but sure as shit....I can observe and take notice of subtle fluctuation.

As stated earlier, I can understand perhaps why TS girls will date your average meat head thug....that' jives with the sociological model of using others to accentuate ones inner self. ...the hot chicks having the ugly friend.

But your average GG.....that I find interesting.

flabbybody
03-12-2009, 01:16 AM
think its more bewilderment than hate

jjhill
03-12-2009, 01:18 AM
The hate is heavy in here..


you single? lol

BLKGSXR
03-12-2009, 01:18 AM
Lmfao@ jjhill

sugdaddie69
03-12-2009, 01:19 AM
Most,not all,think if you don't beat their ass,you don't love them.Then you have a great deal of women,who,once they figure out you won't pop they ass,will do everything in their power to provoke you too.Including,but not limited too,slapping you,cursing you,destroying your property.It doesn't matter how they were raised,what race they are,or how old they are.
Once they are abused,old and used up,THEN they want that nice guy who will treat them"right"

SXFX
03-12-2009, 01:19 AM
By nature I'm an inquisitive person. Not the best thing but I am. I love people watching and studying their behavior. It has served me well in the board room and the bed room. But still there are things that make me wonder.
Hell even look at Rhiana? Guy beats the shit out of her and what does she say? Thug love is so strange.

sugdaddie69
03-12-2009, 01:20 AM
alot of trannys are the same way :lol:

TRUE

jjhill
03-12-2009, 01:21 AM
By nature I'm an inquisitive person. Not the best thing but I am. I love people watching and studying their behavior. It has served me well in the board room and the bed room. But still there are things that make me wonder.
Hell even look at Rhiana? Guy beats the shit out of her and what does she say? Thug love is so strange.


That's why i put that quote up on my profile a couple weeks ago

sugdaddie69
03-12-2009, 01:27 AM
By nature I'm an inquisitive person. Not the best thing but I am. I love people watching and studying their behavior. It has served me well in the board room and the bed room. But still there are things that make me wonder.
Hell even look at Rhiana? Guy beats the shit out of her and what does she say? Thug love is so strange.

yeah,but until it happened,NOBODY would have picked chris brown as a smack em down.Fuck,you'd predicted bow-wow,usher,fuck even justin,but not lil ole chris.

SXFX
03-12-2009, 01:28 AM
Mate, I have friends in the PR world in NYC.....and well given enough money....they could have convinced the world that James Brown was white! We don't know the guy, we know of him but we don't know him.

sugdaddie69
03-12-2009, 01:31 AM
can't disagree with that.

addicted
03-12-2009, 01:46 AM
fuck all these homo thugs

SXFX
03-12-2009, 01:48 AM
fuck all these homo thugs
OK that there is hate!
Relax boss.....every other second a hot piece of ass comes on the market.
And well you could always wait till these girls are pimp slapped and you can pick up some sloppy bitchy seconds?

LilWyte
03-12-2009, 01:58 AM
So it's 1 in the afternoon and I am in need of lunch so a friend of mine and I go out to get something to eat. While eating we notice these two relatively attractive girls flirting with these.....well let's just call them white collar thugs.
My friend and I know these two jokers, rims worth more than their leased cars, hustling variable rate high risk mortgages and refinancing to those who for a lack of a better word aren't all there.

But never the less it was funny, my friend and I are what you would call professionals, both of us have an MS. Make good money, drive a nice car live in nice condos and tip well. We are by no means rich, but we are doing well and when we go out we also do well. So any way long story short, we just found it interesting that no matter the age some girls will just go after the thug. No matter how badly they screw the girl over, how much the slap her around and take her cash....the girl will never learn..she will go for the thug.

Now I as any guy knows women don't want to be treated like gold.....yeah they ask for it but if you give it to them they will walk away. But I also know you have to be a man and be respectful and not back hand the girl and pork her best friend.....unless she is into that kind of thing. But still.......my friend and I can't seem to figure it out. Is our point of view flawed? Are women as smart as men? Or are these chicken heads dumber than a box of shit?

Girl, you know he's going to back hand your skinny little ass and take your money........what ya thinking?
Her response "He drive a nice car, he's making deals, he looks like a tan collin farell......"
Yeah.

So what is it? Are girls really that dumb? I hope not because.....well.....I work with many and don't wish to think less of them. Or am i missing something here?

so while theyre gettin laid with two relatively attractive girls ur writing that long ass post on a porn msg board about them :lol: oh well at least you have fun tipping well

Fox
03-12-2009, 02:01 AM
The hate is heavy in here.


think its more bewilderment than hate

Legend
03-12-2009, 02:10 AM
I tend to not even care i don't wanna be that guy who stays aside and be like oh why is that girl dating that guy it makes you sound bitter and a total hater, there are alot of girls out there who don't like those type of guys and i'll pay attention to them.

SXFX
03-12-2009, 02:15 AM
so while theyre gettin laid with two relatively attractive girls ur writing that long ass post on a porn msg board about them Laughing oh well at least you have fun tipping well



I have this thing called a job. You know 8-7 kind of gig. Sorry, I know I let every one down but well....I had to go to work, we all can't be white collar thugs.

And they weren't my kind of girls, I hate nothing more than a girl who is faked out to believe she is Paris Hilton.....fake glasses, fake purse, fake shoes...fake fake fake fake and fucking loud.
Cute yes. Would I fuck them? Man I would fuck a fur lined glove! Worth missing out on a meeting I was running? Ahhh....fuck no!

As I said, I observe, and some times, it's interesting.

Alyssa87
03-12-2009, 02:24 AM
sorry if i offended you buddybear!

it read like you were hating because you seemed to be putting these people down, while boosting yourself up.

if i sat and 'obderved & studied' how much more attention skinny, blonde, bubbly, white genetic girls got from guys than i do-
i would put myself in check and call myself a hater.

SXFX
03-12-2009, 02:39 AM
sorry if i offended you buddybear!

it read like you were hating because you seemed to be putting these people down, while boosting yourself up.

if i sat and 'obderved & studied' how much more attention skinny, blonde, bubbly white genetic girls got from guys than i do-
i would put myself in check and call myself a hater.

Not hating hun, life is life, people are people, they do what they do.

Some times it makes sense such as skinny blond bubbly white girl getting hit on...she is obviously attractive, her looks and physic indicate healthy body capable of producing offspring and thus jive with our primal instinct to find a healthy mate. Being bubbly she is a joy to be around and further reinforces the health aspect of mating. All makes sense.

Now, guys hitting on a girl who is of questionable background and shape and is a known bitch.......that would be odd and you would have to ask...."What gives?"

And that's what I'm doing, asking "What gives?"
OK the guy is well dressed, more logos on his shirt then on an F1 car but still.....well spoken.....if ebonics were a language and spoken in the burbs....ok. From his actions a bit manipulative and knowing his line of work....sketchy....and crass.
(ok that was a bit of hate.... :D )

Of all that what gets the girls to go over....that's what I want to know.
I fully understand girls on average aren't into the well spoken well mannered guys unless he's driving a $70k car. But the girl knows full well that a thug is going to use her and leave her.

Ok sure I'll buy the girls perpetual instinct to "change him for the better" heck I've seen it in the business class world. But is the same flawed instinct in effect here? Or is it a form of Oedipus, where by these girls are seeking guys who are like their fathers....crass...loud...abusive and questionable?

It's social science question which in my mind had no real answer, but if sure fun to think about when one has the free time.

Alyssa87
03-12-2009, 02:53 AM
oh.
i think you would like my philosophy class.

yesterday we were lectured on the meaning of time and existentialism.

Celeste
03-12-2009, 02:59 AM
They are usually HOT, with HOT bodies, and FUCK sooo good :wink:

lol @ lil wyte

SXFX
03-12-2009, 04:27 AM
oh.
i think you would like my philosophy class.

yesterday we were lectured on the meaning of time and existentialism.
Yeah I think I would have.
I'm an engineer but I have a minor in the humanities and if the pay weren't crap I would have preferred a less technical life.

But I think that Celeste may have the answer. I'm a guy, as a guy I have no clue what the hell girls find attractive. A few ideas sure, an idea no. So it may simply be an issue of the dumb giggly hot blond chick.
Except in this case it's dumb a bit abusive thug.

See, we talk we discuss we communicate and through it we learn about each other and the world becomes a better place.

BLKGSXR
03-12-2009, 04:31 AM
They are usually HOT, with HOT bodies, and FUCK sooo good :wink:

lol @ lil wyteHrm...make sure they got STAMINA EH?

dj4monie
03-12-2009, 04:47 AM
So it's 1 in the afternoon and I am in need of lunch so a friend of mine and I go out to get something to eat. While eating we notice these two relatively attractive girls flirting with these.....well let's just call them white collar thugs.
My friend and I know these two jokers, rims worth more than their leased cars, hustling variable rate high risk mortgages and refinancing to those who for a lack of a better word aren't all there.

But never the less it was funny, my friend and I are what you would call professionals, both of us have an MS. Make good money, drive a nice car live in nice condos and tip well. We are by no means rich, but we are doing well and when we go out we also do well. So any way long story short, we just found it interesting that no matter the age some girls will just go after the thug. No matter how badly they screw the girl over, how much the slap her around and take her cash....the girl will never learn..she will go for the thug.

Now I as any guy knows women don't want to be treated like gold.....yeah they ask for it but if you give it to them they will walk away. But I also know you have to be a man and be respectful and not back hand the girl and pork her best friend.....unless she is into that kind of thing. But still.......my friend and I can't seem to figure it out. Is our point of view flawed? Are women as smart as men? Or are these chicken heads dumber than a box of shit?

Girl, you know he's going to back hand your skinny little ass and take your money........what ya thinking?
Her response "He drive a nice car, he's making deals, he looks like a tan collin farell......"
Yeah.

So what is it? Are girls really that dumb? I hope not because.....well.....I work with many and don't wish to think less of them. Or am i missing something here?
That should be in the stories section but Funny at that...Wtf kind of rims...Only rims I know cost that much are VOLK's or SPOONS

I have VOLK Gram Lights...


http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y20/djfourmoney/DSCF0552.jpg


He is more than likely talking about either those overpriced luxo wheels you see on Caddy Trucks or really expensive 3pc Billet wheels, either way its hard for those wheels to be more expensive than a leased car of recent vintage unless they bought a 10 year old SUV...

Its not women of any age, its women that think their don't have a limited shelf life. When in FACT they do, many a 30something gets traded in for a tender 20something all the time, especially if you have money or power or both.

Men don't get older they get distinguished, especially if they stay in shape otherwise and take care of themselves.

As I said in another post, men don't want 30something women with children and don't want old trannies either.

All this is pushed by the Princess mentality, she's been told her whole life she can get whatever she wants and is always right. This is an American thing, trust me Europeans and South Americans women generally don't feel this level of entitlement.

SXFX
03-12-2009, 05:01 AM
That is true, for better or for worse we men age like fine wine and women more like french bread. But that's decides the point. Though I have to admit thugs age like goat cheese......i mean really beer bellies and Caddies? WTF? Going to the shore, and slapping your belly like it were some sort of ripe water melon?

Here is another one that perplexes me, our office lobby has one of those cafe stands. A cute girl works there, she's about 27ish. Some what smart and very friendly. Every guy on the block has hit on her but she's dating white thug USA, typical guy, leased car, big talk, small time biz in the mortgage refinancing bizz...basically the shit that got us into this economic mess.
So any way I'm big on small talk and am a total flirt so I know her well. And I know she wants to go to school but due to being a moron she has the credit rating of a crack head....hey fake designer digs cost big bucks! Any how do you know what she told me yesterday?
"He said he would pay for my classes in the fall if he has money."

With a straight face. And here I thought the girl was at least some what intelligent....what next....yeah hun i'll just put the head in!
Oh well she's fucked.....or is being fucked.
The hardest part was not to laugh out loud....i mean really! WOW!
I'm sure in 5 years she'll date and marry one of our IT guys. Best ass he'd ever gotten, only security she will ever have.
But still you have to laugh "He'll pay for my school if he has money in the fall....."

dj4monie
03-12-2009, 05:02 AM
sorry if i offended you buddybear!

it read like you were hating because you seemed to be putting these people down, while boosting yourself up.

if i sat and 'obderved & studied' how much more attention skinny, blonde, bubbly, white genetic girls got from guys than i do-
i would put myself in check and call myself a hater.

You could look at it that way, but knowing what usually happens with T-girls in search of finding men accepting of them, that wouldn't be the right way to look at it.

Do we REALLY have to visit the reasons why men rather chase around GG girls, despite how "Good" you look?

I don't play games with American born women anymore. They are the problem, us normal hard working men are not the problem.

SXFX
03-12-2009, 05:10 AM
I know plenty of Russian girls who date abusive thugs as well. Same with Latin girls and Asian.
I think it's a global issue.

dj4monie
03-12-2009, 05:18 AM
That is true, for better or for worse we men age like fine wine and women more like french bread. But that's decides the point. Though I have to admit thugs age like goat cheese......i mean really beer bellies and Caddies? WTF? Going to the shore, and slapping your belly like it were some sort of ripe water melon?

Here is another one that perplexes me, our office lobby has one of those cafe stands. A cute girl works there, she's about 27ish. Some what smart and very friendly. Every guy on the block has hit on her but she's dating white thug USA, typical guy, leased car, big talk, small time biz in the mortgage refinancing bizz...basically the shit that got us into this economic mess.
So any way I'm big on small talk and am a total flirt so I know her well. And I know she wants to go to school but due to being a moron she has the credit rating of a crack head....hey fake designer digs cost big bucks! Any how do you know what she told me yesterday?
"He said he would pay for my classes in the fall if he has money."

With a straight face. And here I thought the girl was at least some what intelligent....what next....yeah hun i'll just put the head in!
Oh well she's fucked.....or is being fucked.
The hardest part was not to laugh out loud....i mean really! WOW!
I'm sure in 5 years she'll date and marry one of our IT guys. Best ass he'd ever gotten, only security she will ever have.
But still you have to laugh "He'll pay for my school if he has money in the fall....."

That is funny... Whatever happen to getting school loans or taking some of that cafe money you make and going to a Community College and then transfer to a 4 year???

That story is rich!

She's a Bimbo, waiting for a man to do something for her? NOW would take her bathroom pass away, all their bra burning for THIS???

Thugs are meaningless. Nice guys can get laid just as often with women that look just as good, we just have to do things differently that's all...

Trophy Fucks are a DIME A DOZEN...

russtafa
03-12-2009, 05:21 AM
old gangsters are the best but very afraid of the law hehehe

dj4monie
03-12-2009, 05:32 AM
I know plenty of Russian girls who date abusive thugs as well. Same with Latin girls and Asian.
I think it's a global issue.

We should start our own thread..lol

Yeah Russian chicks are a trip. They like MEN to be MEN, if you get my meaning. Notice I didn't say abusive, I didn't say controlling, I just mean running the show.

I wouldn't fuck with a Russian chick already here. Go to Russia and get one... My homie did!

Some cultures don't have the push back of the feminist movement we do here, nor the political power. Here the majority of registered voters are women...

For whatever its worth, elsewhere on the planet, men are treated like men, not as nuances that get in the way of the feminist agenda. Not that I have a problem with women, but I don't believe in selective equal rights. In other words Ruby bitching about paying for some entertainment on a vacation a man paid for hotel and airfare for I find totally hilarious.

justatransgirl
03-12-2009, 06:12 AM
I've never spent more than $10 on a girl. No girl was ever worth it. You want a drink? Get it your damn self! And get one for me too!

Aha, maybe that's the problem hun. :-)

LOL,
TS Jamie :-)

justatransgirl
03-12-2009, 06:16 AM
For whatever its worth, elsewhere on the planet, men are treated like men, not as nuances that get in the way of the feminist agenda. Not that I have a problem with women, but I don't believe in selective equal rights. In other words Ruby bitching about paying for some entertainment on a vacation a man paid for hotel and airfare for I find totally hilarious.

LOL - obviously a man from Mars... :-) Honey doll, haven't you learned yet that men were put here to serve women and to turn your money over to us to invest in shoes and such? Obviously you need some remedial training.

LOL,
TS Jamie :-)

gr4phic4rtist08
03-12-2009, 06:57 AM
SXFX

You are a fucking idiot and this has to be an even gayer post than the "Am I gay threads." Your a fucking loser because of the fact you have to justify yourself against these supposed thugs. Maybe there are people in the world that have money and your mad because you live pay check to pay check in your shit condo. Plus condos are almost a worst investment than a apartment because you can get rid of them once you have them. Good luck getting ahead in life you fuck.

LilWyte
03-12-2009, 07:07 AM
ill bet anything that the threadstarter pays for sex

Odelay
03-12-2009, 07:09 AM
Yes, I find the thread funny but probably not the way the author intended it.

Frankly, I've found sort of a reverse truth when looking at my own luck with women. Sure I've had some dry times but sometimes I'm amazed by my luck. Really nice, good looking women paying attention to me to the point where I'm looking around behind me wondering who it is she really wants and finding no one behind me. Really average joe here.

The other thing I find funny is an engineer/scientist who makes sweeping conclusions/generalizations from his anecdotal studying of society without a well defined population, without a decent sample size, without a control sample, and without any rigorous analysis to determine whether his original hypothesis was total bullshit.

Well, we all have our blind spots... even in our supposed areas of expertise.

Odelay
03-12-2009, 07:10 AM
ill bet anything that the threadstarter pays for sex

LMAO! LilWyte you fuckin thug! 8)

Shining Star
03-12-2009, 07:53 AM
There is a world of difference between gym rat, body building, muscular sort of guy and your average "Joe Guidio", "Don Pepe", "Hood Rat".

Trannies and most girls have long gone for muscular guys. It was that way back in the 1980's and 1990's as well. If the guy did ski and the girls knew he had, all the better.

Go into a trannie or "hood" bar most anywhere in the world, and watch what happens when a gym or hood rat walks in. Girls will start putting it out there as if their lives depended upon it.

Thing is word would soon work it's way around the trannie circut which of these guys were looser, thugs, users and in general not the best choice for a bf, but it didn't matter. Soon as they dumped on girl, they moved on to the next.

NYBURBS
03-12-2009, 08:41 AM
I guess I was in the 7th or 8th grade when it became painfully obvious that the girls I wanted the most were chasing the bad boy thugs. It almost seemed like the worse a guy was the hotter the girl he got. They didn't have words like ghetto boy or hood rat back then, but thats what they were.

Now that I'm grown up and have a mature outlook on life I can confidently say that not a freakin thing has changed. Its in my nature to treat women with respect and be generous with them, so I gues I get laid less and spend more.
But we are what we are and nothing can change that

Amen and well said. The angry baby approves this post 8)

yosi
03-12-2009, 03:08 PM
So it's 1 in the afternoon and I am in need of lunch so a friend of mine and I go out to get something to eat. While eating we notice these two relatively attractive girls flirting with these.....well let's just call them white collar thugs.
My friend and I know these two jokers, rims worth more than their leased cars, hustling variable rate high risk mortgages and refinancing to those who for a lack of a better word aren't all there.

But never the less it was funny, my friend and I are what you would call professionals, both of us have an MS. Make good money, drive a nice car live in nice condos and tip well. We are by no means rich, but we are doing well and when we go out we also do well. So any way long story short, we just found it interesting that no matter the age some girls will just go after the thug. No matter how badly they screw the girl over, how much the slap her around and take her cash....the girl will never learn..she will go for the thug.

Now I as any guy knows women don't want to be treated like gold.....yeah they ask for it but if you give it to them they will walk away. But I also know you have to be a man and be respectful and not back hand the girl and pork her best friend.....unless she is into that kind of thing. But still.......my friend and I can't seem to figure it out. Is our point of view flawed? Are women as smart as men? Or are these chicken heads dumber than a box of shit?

Girl, you know he's going to back hand your skinny little ass and take your money........what ya thinking?
Her response "He drive a nice car, he's making deals, he looks like a tan collin farell......"
Yeah.

So what is it? Are girls really that dumb? I hope not because.....well.....I work with many and don't wish to think less of them. Or am i missing something here?

oh yes , you missed the blond that sat next to you, if you didn't miss her you were probably trying to flirt with her only because she's blond :wink:

JHANIAH L0VE
03-12-2009, 03:47 PM
I LOVE THUGS!!! they usually have BIG FAT LONG ENORMOUS!!! GIGANTIC well personalities. every girl has a right to her own preference.

TheLongChodeAhead
03-12-2009, 04:39 PM
women that respond to that type of shit may occasionally be good looking, but i guarantee they're nuttier than squirrel turds

Solitary Brother
03-12-2009, 05:06 PM
The real funny part is when these "THUGS" beat the shit out of the women and everyone says....."a man should never hit a woman".

NOW THATS FUNNY! :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

sugdaddie69
03-12-2009, 05:36 PM
I LOVE THUGS!!! they usually have BIG FAT LONG ENORMOUS!!! GIGANTIC well personalities. every girl has a right to her own preference.

As long as they aren't black.

JHANIAH L0VE
03-12-2009, 05:44 PM
I LOVE THUGS!!! they usually have BIG FAT LONG ENORMOUS!!! GIGANTIC well personalities. every girl has a right to her own preference.

As long as they aren't black.no blak ones are fine lol :lol:

Ts CinthyaNY
03-12-2009, 06:19 PM
Some guys find hard to accept that a "white collar thug" can get the girl he wants without putting much effort while others have to pay for. Jealousy it's sin...

It feels so good to liberate that feeling here, where you can't be embarrassed since no one really know who you are.

Love...
Cinthya.

LilWyte
03-12-2009, 07:43 PM
I LOVE THUGS!!! they usually have BIG FAT LONG ENORMOUS!!! GIGANTIC well personalities. every girl has a right to her own preference.
i gotta long ass personality..im not a thug tho

BLKGSXR
03-12-2009, 07:47 PM
Some guys find hard to accept that a "white collar thug" can get the girl he wants without putting much effort while others have to pay for. Jealousy it's sin...

It feels so good to liberate that feeling here, where you can't be embarrassed since no one really know who you are.

Love...
Cinthya.O shut up you know you like it lol.....Where ya beeen cin?

MrF
03-13-2009, 01:07 AM
I guess being a "thug" is something attractive -- strength or courage or an arrogance that is deserved for some reason. Hence the girls are attracted. Big deal !

There are all kinds of girls who like all kinds of guys. For example, some girls like "nice" guys. It depends on how they are brought up, and in some cases it depends on the girl's age and maturity level.

Now if nobody is attracted to you, with whatever qualities you possess, then you indeed have a problem, but shouldn't blame it on thugs. Work to correct your weaknesses. (This comment isn't directed at the original poster; it's just a general comment.)

SXFX
03-13-2009, 01:23 AM
I've never spent more than $10 on a girl. No girl was ever worth it. You want a drink? Get it your damn self! And get one for me too!

Aha, maybe that's the problem hun. :-)

LOL,
TS Jamie :-)
Hun it's my way of saying, look if you want to be with me be with me if you want money....well go talk to that guy. Yeah dinner no problem, a few drinks ok.
But if I'm paying your cell phone bill and buying you a new set of shoes every other week......how dumb would I look?

OK I'm sorry I think I may have hit a nerve . I don't care who these girls chase, for the most part they aren't my cup of tea. Yeah sure fun for a quick fuck and a BJ but....as filling as a Ritz Cracker.

My question based on my observation was based on the assumption that these girls/women had a definite sense of self. Yeah yeah yeah....I know you listen to Tank Ass Baince and can do that cobra Opera head shake thing and wear t shirts that say respect on them.....yeah that's all well and good. But do you have a sense of self worth? And I started my observation with the assumption that they did, thus my confusion as their actions. They know full well that Mr. Variable Rate Mortgage slapped around his x girl friend, has at least one kid out of wedlock and isn't going to make much more with a neck tattoo but still the girls flirted. Just didn't jive with your typical Darwinian model. And that was all, hence my confusion.

But I should have known it wouldn't, since I had that conversation with the girl at the coffee stand and her "He will pay for my school, when he has money in the spring...." comment. Yes very nice girl, some what well spoken but absolutely no sense of self nor self respect and thus easily manipulated and seduced by the fakeness of her own hand bag.

fred41
03-13-2009, 02:01 AM
Different girls like different guys for different things. You can't get hung up on why certain girls prefer qualities in a guy you find distasteful (when you do that ..the assumption is: "...when in fact they should be much more interested in you." ...but then sometimes you wind up overlooking your own possible weaknesses and instead concentrate on the girls shortcomings for not liking you, as opposed to someone you deem unworthy).

Instead..use your own positive qualities to find a young lady who's into you (for those qualities)...and appreciate her all the more for it.





...and if it makes you feel any better...a lot of thugs still live with their Mom.(Hope that brightens your day................unless, of course YOU still live with your mom J/K)

russtafa
03-13-2009, 07:01 AM
is an ex bouncer a thug?

LilWyte
03-13-2009, 07:12 AM
I've never spent more than $10 on a girl. No girl was ever worth it. You want a drink? Get it your damn self! And get one for me too!

Aha, maybe that's the problem hun. :-)

LOL,
TS Jamie :-)
Hun it's my way of saying, look if you want to be with me be with me if you want money....well go talk to that guy. Yeah dinner no problem, a few drinks ok.
But if I'm paying your cell phone bill and buying you a new set of shoes every other week......how dumb would I look?

OK I'm sorry I think I may have hit a nerve . I don't care who these girls chase, for the most part they aren't my cup of tea. Yeah sure fun for a quick fuck and a BJ but....as filling as a Ritz Cracker.

My question based on my observation was based on the assumption that these girls/women had a definite sense of self. Yeah yeah yeah....I know you listen to Tank Ass Baince and can do that cobra Opera head shake thing and wear t shirts that say respect on them.....yeah that's all well and good. But do you have a sense of self worth? And I started my observation with the assumption that they did, thus my confusion as their actions. They know full well that Mr. Variable Rate Mortgage slapped around his x girl friend, has at least one kid out of wedlock and isn't going to make much more with a neck tattoo but still the girls flirted. Just didn't jive with your typical Darwinian model. And that was all, hence my confusion.

But I should have known it wouldn't, since I had that conversation with the girl at the coffee stand and her "He will pay for my school, when he has money in the spring...." comment. Yes very nice girl, some what well spoken but absolutely no sense of self nor self respect and thus easily manipulated and seduced by the fakeness of her own hand bag.
http://churchcrunch.com/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/facepalm_picard.jpg

yosi
03-13-2009, 09:03 AM
SXFX

not all shemales are the same , got it? 8)

2009AD
03-13-2009, 10:25 AM
I LOVE THUGS!!! they usually have BIG FAT LONG ENORMOUS!!! GIGANTIC well personalities. every girl has a right to her own preference.

As long as they aren't black.no blak ones are fine lol :lol:


http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?p=618306&highlight=#618306


OH MY FUCKING GOD!!!!!!!!!!! IM DONE WITH BLACK MEN REAL TALK, this shitt gets me very UPSET poor rhianna... i hope she makes a full recovery. people are entitled to their own opinion.

What a clown!

addicted
03-13-2009, 02:04 PM
fuck a thug

jjhill
03-13-2009, 02:08 PM
what about educutated thugs? lol

SXFX
03-13-2009, 03:06 PM
I think I may have hit a raw nerve.
Many girls here may have or still do date thugs and many guys are either trying to be or are thugs.

Never the less there has been some very interesting discussion. And I don't think I'll ever find an answer why some girls chase low level thugs. But its still fun to watch. Even if it falls apart.
http://www.cnn.com/2009/SHOWBIZ/Music/03/12/chris.brown.rihanna.duet/index.html
# Music producer says Chris Brown and Rihanna recorded a duet this week
# Charges have been filed against Brown in an alleged assault against Rihanna
# Media reports say the couple has reconciled, but neither has confirmed
You can pull the kid out of the "thug" life but you can't pull the thug out of the kid.
Like I said, boy is it good fun to watch!

werwt22
03-17-2009, 08:49 PM
Treat women like dirt and theyll stick to you like mud. =D

Tepres
03-18-2009, 01:28 AM
Treat women like dirt and theyll stick to you like mud. =D

And you don't have to be a thug, to know that.

hwbs
03-18-2009, 02:21 AM
seeing that is easier for me...that way i know that i don't need to be wasting my time on them hehe...

Quiet Reflections
03-18-2009, 04:54 AM
Girls don't like thugs they like honesty and when someone that's "close to the streets" comes in their life it refreshing to them seeing how most people on earth are very fake. that's why fake thugs get exposed by ladies all the time.Girls are drawn to things that are real period. If a man is sitting pussy back and judging others of course they aren't going to get what they want but if your honest with yourself and them they will see that you are the better person, however if your a hideous C.H.U.D all the honesty in the world wont help you. physical attraction is what gets the ladies 90% of the time the first time you meet them. in my experience The girls I've dated that were with "thugs" before me were usually a little rough around the edges themselves

Quiet Reflections
03-18-2009, 05:02 AM
I think I may have hit a raw nerve.
Many girls here may have or still do date thugs and many guys are either trying to be or are thugs.

Never the less there has been some very interesting discussion. And I don't think I'll ever find an answer why some girls chase low level thugs. But its still fun to watch. Even if it falls apart.
http://www.cnn.com/2009/SHOWBIZ/Music/03/12/chris.brown.rihanna.duet/index.html
# Music producer says Chris Brown and Rihanna recorded a duet this week
# Charges have been filed against Brown in an alleged assault against Rihanna
# Media reports say the couple has reconciled, but neither has confirmed
You can pull the kid out of the "thug" life but you can't pull the thug out of the kid.
Like I said, boy is it good fun to watch!
Chris brown is a woman beater not a thug!!! he never was a thug and never will be, but because hes black people will call him that. FFS all his songs are about sex and he grew up in the middle of nowhere Virginia dancing/singing in a church choir watching his mom get beat by her backwoods ass boyfriend. Hes and idiot not a thug not even a low level one. if he was anything like DMX i could understand the outrage but he was a good kid that did some bad (to me unforgivable) stuff.