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Danielle Foxx
02-27-2009, 11:48 PM
I have a thing for really passible Str8 FTM, altho I have never been with one I was wondering if anyone shared my interest.

xoxo

bte
02-28-2009, 12:24 AM
I thought that was a genetic male at first. He is perfectly passable.

Tepres
02-28-2009, 12:33 AM
I have a thing for really passible Str8 FTM, altho I have never been with one I was wondering if anyone shared my interest.

xoxo

No.

Jericho
02-28-2009, 12:41 AM
Not my thing.

BeardedOne
02-28-2009, 12:41 AM
I've known some F2Ms and had one as a lover, so the interest has certainly been there.

Whether or not you could use the reference of 'straight' in those relationships, I dunno. :)

My intersexed lover, who identified as a gay male, wound up in an LTR with a F2M. Does that make him straight, gay/lesbian, or just happy?

JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
02-28-2009, 12:59 AM
Only on the L Word.................

Danielle Foxx
02-28-2009, 01:01 AM
I've known some F2Ms and had one as a lover, so the interest has certainly been there.

Whether or not you could use the reference of 'straight' in those relationships, I dunno. :)

My intersexed lover, who identified as a gay male, wound up in an LTR with a F2M. Does that make him straight, gay/lesbian, or just happy?

Agree, point well taken.

My problem is most FTM are Gay, meaning, they like Men, I am not sure why that is... I guess it would be the same as a MTF dating a Genetic Female or Transsexual right? Sexuality is really taking a huge turn these days and that's pretty cool. Hopefully one day we'll all just be Gay ( Happy )

That TrannyBoy is really cute - They tend to be sweeter and more intune with their emotions. I like that

dgs925
02-28-2009, 03:19 AM
I once hooked up with an FTM I met on craigslist. I thought it would be kinky. I'm the type that likes most any woman as long as she has a nice attitude (meaning confidence and comfort with her own body). I love it when a woman is comfortable enough with her own body that she doesn't need to conform to societal norms.

I like punk-rock chicks. I like girls who don't shave their legs or pits. I like girls with big noses (I love this aspect of a woman). I like a pussy so hairy I'm coughing up hairballs the next day. This is a long description of why I thought it would be hot to hook up with this "girl".

As you may suspect I didn't find it hot at all. While he had a pussy and a giant clit (love, love, love a big bodybuilder style clit), he was definitely a man to me. While I was able to get it up, I had to try real hard to finish the deed.

So now, years later I'm more educated on transgendered people and I realize I was reacting to the person's gender and not their biological sex. At the time I had a very underdeveloped understanding of the distinction between the two ideas.

Didn't mean to hijack your thread, just thought I'd share.

Danielle Foxx
02-28-2009, 03:54 AM
I once hooked up with an FTM I met on craigslist. I thought it would be kinky. I'm the type that likes most any woman as long as she has a nice attitude (meaning confidence and comfort with her own body). I love it when a woman is comfortable enough with her own body that she doesn't need to conform to societal norms.

I like punk-rock chicks. I like girls who don't shave their legs or pits. I like girls with big noses (I love this aspect of a woman). I like a pussy so hairy I'm coughing up hairballs the next day. This is a long description of why I thought it would be hot to hook up with this "girl".

As you may suspect I didn't find it hot at all. While he had a pussy and a giant clit (love, love, love a big bodybuilder style clit), he was definitely a man to me. While I was able to get it up, I had to try real hard to finish the deed.

So now, years later I'm more educated on transgendered people and I realize I was reacting to the person's gender and not their biological sex. At the time I had a very underdeveloped understanding of the distinction between the two ideas.

Didn't mean to hijack your thread, just thought I'd share.

That's a great response, I enjoyed reading it. Thanks for the honesty and I agree 100% with what you said. I see them as men, but there is a connection there, worth exploring.

I do like more masculine women, just not the girly girls... lol... I am weird

Danielle Foxx
02-28-2009, 04:26 AM
A few more trans dudes

tsmandy
02-28-2009, 06:33 AM
I don't think FTM are any more likely to be gay then MTF are to be lesbian. I have way more FTM friends than I do MTF, and some of them are straight some of them are gay. I have alot of queer femme friends who date straight FTM guys, and some of them are really hot.

I've played with several over the years, and some of the experiences have been awesome, and some have been so-so.

I was once in a three way with two FTM that turned into an orgy at a post halloween get-together. That was a funny experience.

Anyways, I vote yes.

Danielle Foxx
02-28-2009, 07:52 AM
I don't think FTM are any more likely to be gay then MTF are to be lesbian. I have way more FTM friends than I do MTF, and some of them are straight some of them are gay. I have alot of queer femme friends who date straight FTM guys, and some of them are really hot.

I've played with several over the years, and some of the experiences have been awesome, and some have been so-so.

I was once in a three way with two FTM that turned into an orgy at a post halloween get-together. That was a funny experience.

Anyways, I vote yes.

My clitty gets hard when I think about it lol

tsntx
02-28-2009, 11:57 AM
find some of them attractive? - definately... your first example is hot to me

would i be turned on enough to be w/ him? - not even a smidge of a chance


partly why i dont feel that men that sleep w/ cd/tv/ts are 100% straight
sure the package looks good... but the parts are all wrong from what should be there

Castor_Troy05
02-28-2009, 02:21 PM
Aint my thing as I'm not that type of gay, it's all the wrong way round.

Much respect to them for transitioning

DL_NL
02-28-2009, 04:18 PM
partly why i dont feel that men that sleep w/ cd/tv/ts are 100% straight
sure the package looks good... but the parts are all wrong from what should be there
It's about time we'd get over the rigid definitions of gay and straight. Sexuality's a wonderful thing to be enjoyed by everyone, in whichever way they please. If you find a soul mate who gives you everything you've ever wanted and really connects to you, who cares what really goes on? As long as you're both happy, everything's OK in my book.

Let's shake off the old (religion-dictated?) confines of sexuality and be just what you want to be.

That said and back on topic: no, I don't go for guys. The male physique just doesn't attract me.

tsmandy
02-28-2009, 08:10 PM
I think one of the things that I really appreciate about some of my FTM friends is the way they treat women. Kind of how guys say that they like TS women because we are more feminine than GG, well alot of trans guys are way more gentlemanly. I appreciate a guy who treats a woman with respect.

Danielle Foxx
02-28-2009, 08:26 PM
I think one of the things that I really appreciate about some of my FTM friends is the way they treat women. Kind of how guys say that they like TS women because we are more feminine than GG, well alot of trans guys are way more gentlemanly. I appreciate a guy who treats a woman with respect.

Indeed,

I have been with 2 MTF that I was actually attracted to, one who was post-op. It is a deeper connection then just the act of sex when you are with someone who is beyond sexuality. It is more about exploring each other's bodies as opposed to getting off, which is basically what most men are about. I can orgasm by myself but there is a deeper need for someone's touch and embrace.

I wish there was a way to meet one here, it's hard to find as I am not sure where to look. Maybe you can bring me one when you come to LA again Mandy... tee hee

igotmacedbymimi:(
03-01-2009, 12:57 AM
I think one of the things that I really appreciate about some of my FTM friends is the way they treat women. Kind of how guys say that they like TS women because we are more feminine than GG, well alot of trans guys are way more gentlemanly. I appreciate a guy who treats a woman with respect.

Indeed,

I have been with 2 MTF that I was actually attracted to, one who was post-op. It is a deeper connection then just the act of sex when you are with someone who is beyond sexuality. It is more about exploring each other's bodies as opposed to getting off, which is basically what most men are about. I can orgasm by myself but there is a deeper need for someone's touch and embrace.

I wish there was a way to meet one here, it's hard to find as I am not sure where to look. Maybe you can bring me one when you come to LA again Mandy... tee hee

You've just met the wrong men.

Ts meet the wrong men period.

No matter how good looking a ts is, or how passable she might be/become, whether she is post or pre op, the ts has (unfortunately) been pushed into one area of society that will prevent you from meeting the best men.

Firstly, how many gorgeous cheerleading chicks or fitness models would be going to f2m 'orgies' etc. They'll be copping off with the big hunky straight football players.

The ts of society hangs around first and foremost in the gay community where she starts (for acceptance purposes), then she moves on to the whole tranny websites, maybe does porn (seems to be very popular porn and escorting amongst ts women). Meanwshile she's experimenting sexually 'going to ftm orgies, lesbian side, transbian etc', yet the whole time she want a big knight in shining armour, not some tranny escort hire man or a wealthy old codger. Her knight in shining armour to come along, pick her up, treat her like the women that she is inside (and out) and connect on a one to one level beyond sexual gratification on a spiritual level.

How will most ts get this type of straight guy when they are hanging around on the gay/tranny scene, escorting, doing porn etc?

Honest question. So it is a double edged sword, they are trapped into that part of society. The men they want will be dating sexy and succesful GG's from well off families.

As for the f2m, more respect to them, they are becomming who they are on the inside. Some of them become relatively decent looking men as well, its all about finding peace within oneself. You set out on the journey and the journey changes you along the way, the real knowledge is not from the destination but what you learn along the route. All the more respect to them for doing what they do :)

ptyseminole
03-01-2009, 05:51 AM
pass...

justatransgirl
03-01-2009, 09:40 AM
Danielle, go to Trans Unity in June in LA. There's usually lots of FtM guys there. Trans men don't hang out much at bars from what I've seen, unless it's a drag show night at a lesbian bar and they are performing.

And from my limited knowledge FtM's seem about equally spaced between those attracted to women as men, and those who prefer sex with (other) men.

Besides, who in their right mind would want to cut off their boobs and stick a penis over their lovely vagina? JK

Giggles,
TS Jamie :-)

alyssats
03-01-2009, 07:15 PM
goshhh that FTM is hot
now im thinking that i might be attracted to shag him/her

Danielle Foxx
03-01-2009, 09:48 PM
Besides, who in their right mind would want to cut off their boobs and stick a penis over their lovely vagina? JK

Giggles,
TS Jamie :-)

Let me think.... ummmmm.... I have no clue .... seems crazy to me

RubyTS
03-02-2009, 04:58 AM
i think i would date a f2m easily. They're probably a lot better in relationships than most the losers ive dealt with. Only i have a huge cock fetish... so i think he would have to be open to involving others once in a blue

drock
03-02-2009, 07:57 AM
i think i would date a f2m easily. They're probably a lot better in relationships than most the losers ive dealt with. Only i have a huge cock fetish... so i think he would have to be open to involving others once in a blue

intresting.. I thought most of you wouldn't like f2m?

RubyTS
03-02-2009, 08:10 AM
well i DO LOVE COCK, but its not the most important thing, especially not in a relationship. a relationship is based more to me on companionship trust communication respect... so far i have yet to find a guy who can satisfy me all around. It seems the bigger a guys dick is the more of an asshole he is

TS_Ana
03-06-2009, 07:11 AM
I find ftm's extremely hot I would never and have never been with a gg but ftm's I find very attractive. I wouldnt be able to be with one if he had his breast still or was femme. That being said I would top him though lol.