Methodologies of a player................

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Let me run a scenario by you and you tell me whether or not the guy in the situation is a player (playa).

Chick comes home (let's for the sake of this board say she's a TS) and she climbs in bed with her man and she openly tells him that she fucked a girl earlier in the night. Now the guy has on multiple occasions dabbed his dick in a plethora of holes other than hers which she accepted and moved on after hearing but when the dude hears this he goes ballistic.

After a long drawn out soap opera like scene (either ABC or Telemundo style) the dude makes the chick feel uncomfortable about it and she gets all teary eyed and emotionally distraught.

In your opinion is a guy like this the ultimate player, or is he a simpleton of man?

Personally I would be turned on if a chick I was dating (TS that is for the sake of this forum) came home and told me she banged a GG. I'd want to hear about it, see if she exchanged #'s with the chick , maybe set up a 3some sometime in the future, but that's just me............

your thoughts?!?

[bte]

I was in a similar situation such as this a couple of years ago. I cheated on my fiancee repeatedly with another woman, then when my fiancee cheated on me. I kind of went off the wall. Kind of stupid now that I think about it. The point is that when people cheat on their spouses or partners then they don't expect for them to cheat on them. The guy is a playa, but he got what was coming to him. I am amaze that the girl stayed with the guy after he cheated on her.

[Ts CinthyaNY]

Gonna love this !! :popcorn :popcorn :popcorn

[fred41]

What if he never cheated on her? Ever

[ed_jaxon]

This unfortunately gives away some of the code but what the fuck.

There are a couple of different ways for a player to handle this scenario.

Disclaimer!!!! I AM NOT A PLAYER!!!!!

If the goal is to influence her behavior so she will be more freaky with you, one would not say "Oh that's hot" because she could then use that against the player.Bottom line....never let em know what you are really thinking.

One possible play is to make her feel guilty through either the nonchalance attitude or through the "I can't believe you would do that shit to me" position. Either way it hands the power to the player because she thinks she has fucked up a good thing.

Then eventually after a period she knows she has to make it up to you to get back to where you guys were and she will do just about anything. Naked pics, threesomes etc.

Problem with this strategy is that many babes with self respect eventually wise up if they have any self respect at all so you have to be able to really walk.

I DO NOT ENDORSE SAID POLICY TOWARDS WOMEN AS IT IS MISOGYNISTIC AND MANIPULATIVE

BUT THE SHIT DOES WORK

[elo]

Def a full of himself EGOMAN,Playa or whatever you want to call him. :roll:


BTW,Cinthia i like you new Avatar!

[sugdaddie69]

He opened her up emotionally,now he has to close her back healthy.Kiss her tears away,pampers her,
fuck her brains out.All the while letting her know he
was more upset at not being included.Since he's
already cheating,there is nothing loyal in this
"relationship".

[fred41]

But what if he wasn't cheating?

[blckhaze]

If the dude is salty, hes a fool and a half.

NOT ONLY is being a hypocrite, but hes throwin away a chance for two things that many of us dream of:
1) a ts that accepts that he'll never truly forget about pussy, and is happy to join in if he gets the itch.
2) a gg who is not only accepting of ts, she is down for it just as much as he may be, maybe more!!!


I mean, if you took a poll, you'd be hard pressed to find a guy who WOULDNT pass the chance of a MTF (man, ts, female) threesome if he knew the ts was was into it, and that the gg completely is on board.

[sugdaddie69]

"The guy HAS dabbed his dick in a plethora of holes other than hers!!!!"

[Ts CinthyaNY]

Def a full of himself EGOMAN,Playa or whatever you want to call him. :roll:


BTW,Cinthia i like you new Avatar!

"Playa" all along? gosh.

My avatar it's the cartoon of your dream coming true Elo. lol. 8)

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

But what if he wasn't cheating?

that's not the discussion though...........

the discussion is as stated

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

to keep things interesting let's throw in an extra play

say the chick had a close friend who she talked to and spent time with when her man was too busy.......... they hung out together, shared A&W Ice Cream Floats, etc. blah blah blah
really chummy duo

and she called him up for "support" after her man tried to play the "I'm going to act mad so I can keep this 'get out of jail free card' when I fuck a chick and get caught by her'" routine; only to receive the same type of response from him also.......

would you say that the friend is ALSO being a player (playa) to hold a "just in case" advantage for future mishaps?!?

[hwbs]

i will tell u str8 up the lesbian /transbian chicks are great lovers but after that it gets way to complicated , lmfao....have a couple gf like that and u will have a total different perspective on it...i guess it is a little diff if the girl is open and she is up front on it...then it is on u then...


fuck on lesbians , lmao

[BeardedOne]

This reeks too much of my last 'relationship' with a 3G (Gay GG). She was OK with my poly lifestyle and had no issue with my being with other women. She was also rather accepting of the fact that I was tooting on the occasional skin flute with a male lover.

Yet when the scenario included my doing the sucky/fucky thing with her ex fiance, she totally blew all her gaskets and gave me a virtual kick in the teeth to end our relationship.

That was when I stopped trying to figure out the emotional logistics of relationships. It's just not worth it.

:smh

[elo]

"Playa" all along? gosh.

[/quote]Don´t get it.Maybe my english is too bad.myabe i dont really understand what a playa is


My avatar it's the cartoon of your dream coming true Elo. lol. CoolWouldn´t mind it if a bunch of beautiful ladies would want to do a orgy with me.We could do it vice versa too.You in the middle.We talked already about it. 8)

[LTR_Seeker]

I would be extrmely upset & hurt but them i dont like mutiple woman when im with one lady exclusively so im not best to reply but did anyway lol

[Odelay]

This unfortunately gives away some of the code but what the fuck.

There are a couple of different ways for a player to handle this scenario.

Disclaimer!!!! I AM NOT A PLAYER!!!!!

If the goal is to influence her behavior so she will be more freaky with you, one would not say "Oh that's hot" because she could then use that against the player.Bottom line....never let em know what you are really thinking.

One possible play is to make her feel guilty through either the nonchalance attitude or through the "I can't believe you would do that shit to me" position. Either way it hands the power to the player because she thinks she has fucked up a good thing.

Then eventually after a period she knows she has to make it up to you to get back to where you guys were and she will do just about anything. Naked pics, threesomes etc.

Problem with this strategy is that many babes with self respect eventually wise up if they have any self respect at all so you have to be able to really walk.

I DO NOT ENDORSE SAID POLICY TOWARDS WOMEN AS IT IS MISOGYNISTIC AND MANIPULATIVE

BUT THE SHIT DOES WORK

ding ding ding! :!: :!: :!:

I don't need to read the rest of the replies. Ed nails it.

Knowledge is power. And secret knowledge is greater power. In relationships, even loving relationships, you don't play all your cards unless you want to end up a chump.

Like Ed, I'm not a playa. I don't go out of my way to make my lover feel bad. But then again, I try to avoid being a chump too. And in order to avoid that fate I have to keep some stuff secret, and at other times over-react to things she says or does. She doesn't know I'm over-reacting but I know I'm putting on an act. I don't over-react without purpose.

Nice topic.... Johnny.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

This unfortunately gives away some of the code but what the fuck.

There are a couple of different ways for a player to handle this scenario.

Disclaimer!!!! I AM NOT A PLAYER!!!!!

If the goal is to influence her behavior so she will be more freaky with you, one would not say "Oh that's hot" because she could then use that against the player.Bottom line....never let em know what you are really thinking.

One possible play is to make her feel guilty through either the nonchalance attitude or through the "I can't believe you would do that shit to me" position. Either way it hands the power to the player because she thinks she has fucked up a good thing.

Then eventually after a period she knows she has to make it up to you to get back to where you guys were and she will do just about anything. Naked pics, threesomes etc.

Problem with this strategy is that many babes with self respect eventually wise up if they have any self respect at all so you have to be able to really walk.

I DO NOT ENDORSE SAID POLICY TOWARDS WOMEN AS IT IS MISOGYNISTIC AND MANIPULATIVE

BUT THE SHIT DOES WORK

ding ding ding! :!: :!: :!:

I don't need to read the rest of the replies. Ed nails it.

Knowledge is power. And secret knowledge is greater power. In relationships, even loving relationships, you don't play all your cards unless you want to end up a chump.

Like Ed, I'm not a playa. I don't go out of my way to make my lover feel bad. But then again, I try to avoid being a chump too. And in order to avoid that fate I have to keep some stuff secret, and at other times over-react to things she says or does. She doesn't know I'm over-reacting but I know I'm putting on an act. I don't over-react without purpose.

Nice topic.... Johnny.

thank you sir

[blckhaze]

This unfortunately gives away some of the code but what the fuck.

There are a couple of different ways for a player to handle this scenario.

Disclaimer!!!! I AM NOT A PLAYER!!!!!

If the goal is to influence her behavior so she will be more freaky with you, one would not say "Oh that's hot" because she could then use that against the player.Bottom line....never let em know what you are really thinking.

One possible play is to make her feel guilty through either the nonchalance attitude or through the "I can't believe you would do that shit to me" position. Either way it hands the power to the player because she thinks she has fucked up a good thing.

Then eventually after a period she knows she has to make it up to you to get back to where you guys were and she will do just about anything. Naked pics, threesomes etc.

Problem with this strategy is that many babes with self respect eventually wise up if they have any self respect at all so you have to be able to really walk.

I DO NOT ENDORSE SAID POLICY TOWARDS WOMEN AS IT IS MISOGYNISTIC AND MANIPULATIVE

BUT THE SHIT DOES WORK

ding ding ding! :!: :!: :!:

I don't need to read the rest of the replies. Ed nails it.

Knowledge is power. And secret knowledge is greater power. In relationships, even loving relationships, you don't play all your cards unless you want to end up a chump.

Like Ed, I'm not a playa. I don't go out of my way to make my lover feel bad. But then again, I try to avoid being a chump too. And in order to avoid that fate I have to keep some stuff secret, and at other times over-react to things she says or does. She doesn't know I'm over-reacting but I know I'm putting on an act. I don't over-react without purpose.

Nice topic.... Johnny.


What they said.
Once she has the physical power, the rest is easy. If she plays hard to get, you play "i'll wait, but my options are not limited to you."
Liek Ed said, some girls will just cut you loose, but more times than not, there tryin to see how long they can string you out.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

I understand where Ed was coming from regarding the code, for the record. But this is a tranny site, protecting the code on a site like this is futile, the game won't be affected by what's spoken on here.............. most of the trannies I know are some of the best playas I've ever met........

[Ts CinthyaNY]

I understand where Ed was coming from regarding the code, for the record. But this is a tranny site, protecting the code on a site like this is futile, the game won't be affected by what's spoken on here.............. most of the trannies I know are some of the best playas I've ever met........

Names? :twisted:

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

I understand where Ed was coming from regarding the code, for the record. But this is a tranny site, protecting the code on a site like this is futile, the game won't be affected by what's spoken on here.............. most of the trannies I know are some of the best playas I've ever met........

Names? :twisted:

Do you REALLY want me to name names love?

[Ts CinthyaNY]

I understand where Ed was coming from regarding the code, for the record. But this is a tranny site, protecting the code on a site like this is futile, the game won't be affected by what's spoken on here.............. most of the trannies I know are some of the best playas I've ever met........

Names? :twisted:

Do you REALLY want me to name names love?

I dare you... :twisted:

[brickcitybrother]

First, I haven't read all the posts so I don't know what was said before. In my opinion, the guys a fool who doesn't care about the woman. Only a foll feels it necessary to belittle someone. Plus, a real playa would've asked enough questions to see if his girl's "Confession" was in fact her way of feeling him about whether another 'twist' on their relationship was possible. Just stupid to go off on someone (you never learn anything that way ... other than how well someone can spit venom back at ya).

[IndyCloset]

Obviously it's all about control people.

A manwhore cant have his Friday night girl out there screwing random people like he is.....

I mean that could be chaos 8)

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Nah I'm not taking that dare, that'd be like an escort giving up her clients list and what they did in the privacy of her 2nd apartment ;)

[RubyTS]

oh what a loooong list that would be

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

lol, that list would take up all of page 1

[justatransgirl]

I mean, if you took a poll, you'd be hard pressed to find a guy who WOULDNT pass the chance of a MTF (man, ts, female) threesome if he knew the ts was was into it, and that the gg completely is on board.

Absolutely I agree! The only thing better than MTF sex is MTTF sex with a MF couple and two T-girls!

There are just so many toys to play with, and there is nothing better than giving a guy two girl head with a GG!

I don't know about the "code." But in our house it's not cheating if we are both part of the party, or if there is money involved.

LOL,
TS Jamie :-)