How is a "regular" client valued ?

[MrF]

Questions for the escorts, because I'm curious ...

What fraction of your clients are regulars, versus 1-time deals ? How long do your regulars stay around ? Months ? Years ? And do you try to hang on to them, like calling them to remind them to come see you ? I can imagine what qualities you seek in a regular, but maybe you can expound on that. Finally, would you see it possible for a regular to remain a friend ?

I've been a regular of 2 TGirls for about 5 years, since their early 20s. It's more satisfying to me to stay with one (or a few) escort(s) if there's a connection. There's clearly a bond there, though it's complicated and I suppose they have many such bonds -- I don't know about that and am curious, yet reluctant to ask them about their business.

[JonnyT]

depends, do you pay their bills for them? :wink:

[justatransgirl]

When I was active I enjoyed dating someone regularly. You could get to know each other and what he enjoys. The relationship becomes comfortable, as friends. And to some extent it is safer.

But I also enjoy the variety of meeting new people. Maybe it's immature, but when you are with someone new the sex is fresh and more intense, and if you don't want involvement with someone it can require less personal involvement.

I know GG's who mostly only see "regulars." They date once or twice a day and see the same guys at the same time each week. I know guys who date GG's who spend $3-4,000 a month on their hobby. But I've never met a guy who dated t-girls who spent anywhere near that.

And perhaps a better term is "repeatedly," as often you might date someone more than once, but it might be a year between dates.

I think that with the exception of a few well known t-girls, who have guys who want to be topped regularly, most t-girls don't get as many regulars as GG's because many men are seeking a one time or very occasional "experience."

Just my thoughts on the matter.

Hugs,
TS Jamie :-)

[tsmandy]

I've had several clients that I've seen on a semi-regular basis, or regular basis over the years, but like Jamie said, nothing like my GG friends who will have a guaranteed income of 40-50k a year from one or two guys.

It's nice when a guy calls me up who I've seen over the years, especially after a long absence (like when I stopped hosting for a year and a half). After enough time goes by you start to know people, sometimes this is good and sometimes it is bad.

[MrF]

Thanks for the replies so far. Just trying to get more insight into my own experiences.

I understand about the excitement of meeting someone new, which seems to be a main point of hiring an escort. The difference with TGirls is they are rare and (at least in my experience) you have to share them. After awhile with a regular you settle into a pattern and it gets almost boring.

I can't afford to pay major bills but I have helped them out a few times when they really needed it.

My two TG friends are calm and rational, yet one of them will start calling me frequently if I haven't seen her in a month. The other will leave me alone but is sentimental and emotional, especially if I haven't seen her in awhile. It always surprises me.

Thanks again for the insight.

[ARMANIXXX]

Thanks for the replies so far. Just trying to get more insight into my own experiences.

I understand about the excitement of meeting someone new, which seems to be a main point of hiring an escort. The difference with TGirls is they are rare and (at least in my experience) you have to share them. After awhile with a regular you settle into a pattern and it gets almost boring.

I can't afford to pay major bills but I have helped them out a few times when they really needed it.

My two TG friends are calm and rational, yet one of them will start calling me frequently if I haven't seen her in a month. The other will leave me alone but is sentimental and emotional, especially if I haven't seen her in awhile. It always surprises me.

Thanks again for the insight.


What city are you from MrF?

[Ts CinthyaNY]

It is just safe to keep on seeing my regulars. I have a good number of regular clients since I started escorting, some of them take a break and come back after a few, others always there because they feel safe too and pretty much enjoy my company.
I have date a some of them in different levels and they became my friends after all, they understand me as the person I am but when it comes to the bedroom/sex part , they are my clients. In that part I keep it strictly professional, while they became my friends I might would never ask them for money or to help me with my bills. But if they still want some sex with me they know they have to be good to me and give me a nice gift.
Since most of them have families and they own life and I do myself, there is not much to ask, no drama and no bs but a good pals hanging around.
I met my late BF like that and I had no complaints about, he is wonderful and a total straight love for me, so there I crossed the line but it was a happy crossover.

Love...
Cinthya.

[BritneyBoykins]

Usually huge orgy's with all the other regulars :twisted:

[BeardedOne]

Hard to say what constitutes a 'regular'. I've seen one gurl four times, another twice, but I don't know if those numbers equate 'regular' to them.

I can assume that there is some sort of comfort in that niche. The gurl knows they aren't LE or on the cheap and has some feel for their personality (Or lack thereof).

I like to think that I'm a 'regular', but only the gurls can say for sure.

[sexyshana]

Usually huge orgy's with all the other regulars :twisted:

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