Any Indian members

[Ponyboy]

What is the Indian attitude to transvestites?

I am quite feminine with long hair, but white. I have some Indian friends. One is a female prostitute and the other is her bi-sexual boyfriend. They both like me (sexually) and have suggested I start wearing a sari and wearing make-up. I am excited by the idea but don't want to end up doing something stupid.

Of course, it doesnt matter what we do at their house, but I know they will probably suggest we take it further.

I welcome any advice.

[sammy2]

Post pics of yourself

[menacingmethods86]

I just know from working with some that alot of them don't wear deodorant.

[Ponyboy]

Post pics of yourself

I might post pics in a month or two - I'll wait and see what sort of make-up job she can do

[alyssats]

I have many Indian friends and most of them like TS a lot. Most dont care if your a boy as long as your a beauty and looks like a GG. Only problem with Indian guys they cum so fast usually 5-10 seconds of shagging only :(

[dekagunda]

i'm indian and love me some TG women...

[Ponyboy]

Thank you for the feedback

I don't mind if they cum quickly. The biggest cock I ever had in me was Indian and he literally ripped me open. And he didnt stop with the blood or maybe he didnt notice. I dont want to go through that again.

I think becuase a lot of Indian men have arranged marriages young they don't get much chance to explore sexually, which is a pity. I like Indians.

Last year I had two married Indian men come on to me quite strongly. One was cute and I still may say yes. The other was quite intimidating but I thought of doing it for money, but he sold his shop and I never saw him again.

Unfirtunately I am getting older and I know of the importance of getting make-up correct - the right colours to match skin tone, etc. If I dont look feminine enough, I will look stupid.

Alyssa - I just had a look at your website and you look great.

[tgirlfansg]

I'm indian but from Singapore.

The idea of a tgirl in sari's is very exciting.

[2009AD]

Post pics of yourself

What is it with you? One day you swear off your attraction to tgirls, the next day you want to see pics of them, in other words, they still make your cock hard.

[alpha2117]

I had an ex who is of Indian extraction. Her family were pretty cool to her. They do have TS's in Indian culture. India is very funny because it all works in social stratas. The old caste system has been replaced by one for personal wealth. Indian culture is so diverse that some Indians would be totally cool with TS's but some people from a slightly different area, religious group or scial strata would be very negative. I suppose thats really no different to the west

[Ponyboy]

I'm indian but from Singapore.

The idea of a tgirl in sari's is very exciting.


Yes but how do you feel about a white tgirl in a sari? I have blue eyes and goldy-brown hair. My skin is very white. There is no way you will think I am Indian.

[FREEFALLL666]

I'm indian but from Singapore.

The idea of a tgirl in sari's is very exciting.


Yes but how do you feel about a white tgirl in a sari? I have blue eyes and goldy-brown hair. My skin is very white. There is no way you will think I am Indian.Usually results in an I Dream Of Genie look..

[Alyssa87]

I'm not Indian, but i know a little bit about the 'Hijra' of India.
They're something like TS's but not quite.
They're part of the 'untouchable' class. Until recently, they have been both revered and feared by society at large. Partly because they are believed to have superhuman powers (like witches).

But as western civilization encroaches on Indian culture, making it more advanced and secular, less and less people hold the Hijra in high esteem.
Many of them are turning to (who would have guessed it?) prostitution as a means to survive.

here's a youtube video with some pics of the Hijra.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iRUdQEDshFg

[Alyssa87]

http://www.glbtq.com/social-sciences/hijras.html

Hijras

The Hijras--men who dress and act like women--have been a presence in India for generations. Within South Asian society they maintain a third-gender role that has become institutionalized through tradition.

Hijras are often defined as eunuchs (castrated males) and acknowledged both in Hindu and Muslim cultures. Numerous references to eunuchs in the royal courts of India's Muslim rulers are cited as the Hijras' legacy. The fact that many don't consider themselves true Hijras until they have undergone the "emasculation operation" links them to this tradition, as do elements of Islamic practice that they observe, such as burying rather than cremating their dead.

Dual-gender figures in Hinduism provide other sources of identification in a religious context. The deity Shiva sometimes assumes the form of a woman; Arjuna in the Mahabharata epic lived as a eunuch during his exile. Both Hindu and Muslim Hijras are devotees of the mother goddess Bahuchara Mata; her temple in the state of Gujarat is one of their cultural centers.

Traditional Social Organization

Hijras refer to themselves using feminine pronouns and expect others to do so. They typically live together in the traditional commune arrangement of five or more "chelas" (disciples), supervised by a "guru." When a new chela is accepted into a Hijra household, she assumes not only the guru's surname but also membership in the guru's "house," one of seven fictive lineages that confer a sense of kinship and identity, each house having its own history and rules of behavior. She receives training in singing, dancing, and other activities to enable her to earn a livelihood.

Chelas are expected to turn their earnings over to the guru, who manages the funds for household upkeep. Gurus are expected to meet chelas' needs for food, clothing, and pocket allowance. Sources of livelihood include performing at marriage and birth celebrations, begging for alms, and prostitution.

The Hijras' conduct at wedding and birth celebrations has won them a colorful (and licentious) reputation. At the news of a wedding or birth of a male child in the neighborhood, a troupe of Hijras will show up unannounced--and uninvited--to bless the event by singing, drumming, and dancing. The ostensible purpose of the performance is a ritual entreaty for fertility on behalf of the bridegroom or newborn son. Their dancing and behavior are sexually suggestive, a deliberate attempt to perturb the party's decorum, with the implication that if appropriate recompense is not forthcoming they will escalate their outrageousness to more shocking extremes.

Payment, or "badhai," consists of flour, sugar, sweets, cloth or a sari, or money. If the hosts are stingy or refuse to pay, the Hijras retaliate by exposing their genital areas, loudly ridiculing the family to the neighbors, or cursing the hosts. The emasculation ordeal is thought to confer special powers to the Hijras, and to incur their curse is considered particularly unlucky.

Contemporary Issues

An estimated 50,000 Hijras lived in India as of 1990 but census data on them does not exist, making accurate enumeration impossible. They persist as a marginalized and secretive subculture in poorer urban districts of Bombay, Hyderabad, Ahmedabad, and Delhi; there are also Hijra communities in southern India, Pakistan, and Bangladesh.

Available information varies considerably. Anthropological accounts focus on Hijras' role in traditional society, with an emphasis on conditions prior to modern Western or Asian influences. At the other extreme, myths and stereotypes about Hijras are constantly recycled as attention-grabbing headlines. South Asian tabloids exploit the belief that Hijras kidnap male children to increase their membership and recount lurid descriptions of castration.

Modernization of Indian society threatens to curtail opportunities for Hijras to practice traditional occupations and may be increasing their dependence on prostitution. Nowadays they also dance at college functions and stag parties.

In recent years organizations such as the Dai Welfare Society and Hijra Kalyan Sabha have been formed to address HIV/AIDS awareness and human rights issues. Some Hijras have become involved in politics--in 2000 "Aunt" Shabnam Mausi was elected to her state legislature, and Kamla Jaan and Asha Devi were elected mayors of their towns.

Hijras have been likened to transsexuals but the label is problematic given that most Hijras don't attempt to "pass" as the opposite sex (they are unmistakably visible as Hijras), and engage in behaviors considered inappropriate for ordinary women. However, writer Zia Jaffrey did meet one American male-to-female transsexual who had been accepted into a Hijra household.

To anthropologist Serena Nanda, Hijras described themselves simply as "neither man nor woman." Nanda argues that Hindu thinking allows for overlapping--even contradictory--categories, thus accommodating flexibility in gender roles. Regardless of one's analytical perspective, for those interested in cross-cultural perspectives on sex and gender, the Hijras will likely always inspire fascination.


Ruth M. Pettis

[Alyssa87]

another video. of Hijras in Bombay speaking on their lives.
this is really really interesting.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szZu-OKjqpo&feature=related

[alyssats]

Alyssa - I just had a look at your website and you look great.

thanks sweety i know you too :wink:

[alyssats]

another video. of Hijras in Bombay speaking on their lives.
this is really really interesting.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=szZu-OKjqpo&feature=related


wow such a nice info I think ive also seen some documentary about this on Discovery Channel

[Ponyboy]

Alyssa you are wonderful - I hope someone smothers you in kisses from head to toe tonight.

I found this comment interesting... "Hijras described themselves simply as "neither man nor woman" -

A lot of men who put on women's clothes still end up looking like a man in drag. I will probably look like a woman, but a masculine woman. To be succesful, you have to look like a feminine woman. For that reason, I was beginning to think I shouldn't do it - it really depends on what I end up looking like, but its amazing just how complicated it is - for example, to loose weight I have been going to the gym, but my shoulder muscles started to develop and that is not good for a feminine look. There are so many small things you dont think about.

I thank you for all your comments. - Alyssa, you are a babe!!!!

[Ponyboy]

I forgot to say that if it does happen, escort work is a distinct possibility. My friends boyfriend would get the custom. But it would be a very small market - Indian men who want a white tranny, so I will have to keep my day job. - that could be a problem

Basically you would see a blue eyed girl in a sari. Lift up the sari and you get a creamy white ass, not a brown one. If you like to pull hair when you fuck someone, my hair is be golden-brown.

[domme]

Ponyboy, I guess the blue eyed t-girl in sari would be a nice change from the regular stuff.

But then we would really like a demo.

Anyway, where do you live?

[Ponyboy]

At the moment, I'm far away from you guys in the south Pacific, but I will be making a trip to the US and UK later in the year. This gives me time to learn about the body, skin, etc and how I can best present myself. I dream of looking like either the two Alyssa's who have posted on this thread - but I'm also a realist.

Thank you to everyone who has posted - If it turns out OK, I will post again in a couple of months with pictures.

Thank you

[mrtron]

thanks to alyssa87 for the brilliant enlightening post. THIS is way you're so hot...and that round booty helps too!

[dan_drade]

I'm not Indian, but i know a little bit about the 'Hijra' of India.
They're something like TS's but not quite.
They're part of the 'untouchable' class. Until recently, they have been both revered and feared by society at large. Partly because they are believed to have superhuman powers (like witches).

But as western civilization encroaches on Indian culture, making it more advanced and secular, less and less people hold the Hijra in high esteem.
Many of them are turning to (who would have guessed it?) prostitution as a means to survive.

here's a youtube video with some pics of the Hijra.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iRUdQEDshFg


Lots of unibrow goin on in thos pics. LOL

[alyssats]

yes Ponyboy nice if we could meet sometime soon and party jeje

[Ponyboy]

yes Ponyboy nice if we could meet sometime soon and party jeje

Hey Babe - that will be nice. Check your mail