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yeah2308
01-24-2009, 12:46 AM
I met this girl online, talked n dated for a couple of days, however i just had sex with her and the bad thing is i like her but I am marry. What should i do now?

johnie
01-24-2009, 12:50 AM
The answer is simple, keep having sex with her.

lahabra1976
01-24-2009, 12:54 AM
I met this girl online, talked n dated for a couple of days, however i just had sex with her and the bad thing is i like her but I am marry. What should i do now?

it depends

LG
01-24-2009, 12:59 AM
Sorry about the upcoming rant, but I'm old school on these things....



Here goes...

yeah2308, I'd be happy for you, but the last eight words ruined it for me...Either you're lying and just trying to stir up shit or, simply put: you're a jerk.

Sorry to be blunt but I'll say it again in case you didn't get it the first time: you're a jerk.

What are you doing meeting up with girls online then meeting them face-to-face and having sex with them? This ain't a chance meeting, getting drunk and rolling about, it's a premeditated attempt to get some on the side. Don't matter if it's a GG or a TG, bottom line is that unless you have an agreement with your wife about having sex with other people (as some members of HA do), then you're a cheating asshole with no respect for your wife or the vows you took when you got married. If you have any kids it makes you even more of a jerk.

My opinion on all this: if you want to pursue fun times with TGs while married, ask your wife about this. If she says "no" then it's your call: be a cheating asshole or put your hands to good use in the mean time and try talking to her again at some point. If she says "yes" then you're home free. And maybe she will join in. Woo-hoo! Lucky you!

Hendrix
01-24-2009, 01:09 AM
I met this girl online, talked n dated for a couple of days, however i just had sex with her and the bad thing is i like her but I am marry. What should i do now?
Timeout!!! Does you wife knows about you dating a Tgirl? If you are doing this behind your wife's back shame on you. Be honest with yourself and to your wife.

Hendrix
01-24-2009, 01:12 AM
Sorry about the upcoming rant, but I'm old school on these things....



Here goes...

yeah2308, I'd be happy for you, but the last eight words ruined it for me...Either you're lying and just trying to stir up shit or, simply put: you're a jerk.

Sorry to be blunt but I'll say it again in case you didn't get it the first time: you're a jerk.

What are you doing meeting up with girls online then meeting them face-to-face and having sex with them? This ain't a chance meeting, getting drunk and rolling about, it's a premeditated attempt to get some on the side. Don't matter if it's a GG or a TG, bottom line is that unless you have an agreement with your wife about having sex with other people (as some members of HA do), then you're a cheating asshole with no respect for your wife or the vows you took when you got married. If you have any kids it makes you even more of a jerk.

My opinion on all this: if you want to pursue fun times with TGs while married, ask your wife about this. If she says "no" then it's your call: be a cheating asshole or put your hands to good use in the mean time and try talking to her again at some point. If she says "yes" then you're home free. And maybe she will join in. Woo-hoo! Lucky you!
I agree with LG. If you two agree to have sex with other people that's cool,but if you are doing it behind her back then you are cheating on her.

Teydyn
01-24-2009, 03:25 AM
yeah2308, I'd be happy for you, but the last eight words ruined it for me...Either you're lying and just trying to stir up shit or, simply put: you're a jerk.
...
Don't matter if it's a GG or a TG, bottom line is that unless you have an agreement with your wife about having sex with other people (as some members of HA do), then you're a cheating asshole with no respect for your wife
This

Silcc69
01-24-2009, 04:04 AM
Learn some better grammar.

tsntx
01-24-2009, 04:11 AM
I met this girl online, talked n dated for a couple of days, however i just had sex with her and the bad thing is i like her but I am marry. What should i do now?
Timeout!!! Does you wife knows about you dating a Tgirl? If you are doing this behind your wife's back shame on you. Be honest with yourself and to your wife.


just to add on to that note... THIS is the reason girls charge you guys

1 too many guys made her think she had a boyfriend and BAM come to find out the faggots got a wife and ure just a toy

toys cost money... so pay up

Tepres
01-24-2009, 04:28 AM
The answer is simple, keep having sex with her.

Agreed. I think honesty is the worst policy in this case. Besides, All married men are entitled to have a mistress. The tough part is juggling it so you don't get caught. If you are worried, then end it now.

LAGent4ts
01-24-2009, 04:30 AM
Go home and fix your marriage. And if you were dumb enough to have sex without protection, stop and get some on your way home and figure out what you are going to tell your wife when she asks why you are using them next time you two are together. Nobody here is perfect, but I doubt you are going to find anyone on this site that is going to high five you for being a disloyal, cheating scum bag of a spouse.

And if you and your spouse do have an open marriage and you have fallen for another you need to tell her what's going on, because such relatiionships are built on honesty.

hippifried
01-24-2009, 04:35 AM
I met this girl online, talked n dated for a couple of days, however i just had sex with her and the bad thing is i like her but I am marry. What should i do now?
Buns up & have her invite her friends to the party. What the hell. You're already going to get divorced if your wife finds out.

What you shouldn't do though is go ballistic if you ever find out the Mrs snagged a little extra on the side. Sauce for the goose & all that...

dan_yearsgone83
01-24-2009, 05:58 AM
The answer is simple, keep having sex with her.

Agreed. I think honesty is the worst policy in this case. Besides, All married men are entitled to have a mistress. The tough part is juggling it so you don't get caught. If you are worried, then end it now.

Um, no. This would be wrong, in every way imaginable.

justatransgirl
01-24-2009, 09:06 AM
Oh come on... what's wrong with married guys cheating. I'd say 95% of the guys I've dated as an escort were married. Besides all men are cheating bastards. Just don't get caught.

Can I tell my story of getting caught, again? LOL

OK, I will anyway.

Sooo, a couple of years ago I went on this outcall date to this guys house in La Costa - a very exclusive and expensive part of San Diego. Multi million dollar home. His first time with a t-girl. So we're going at it, and suddenly he goes, "shhhh, I think my wife's home!"

So I hide in the guest room, while he goes downstairs. After a little while it dawns on me that I was trapped in the upstairs with no way out and he could call the cops and accuse me of being a burglar or worse, and that I d better haul my ass outta there before he got the idea too.

So I start creeping down the stairs in the dark. I hear him and the wife talking in the kitchen. The front door is open so I can make a quick quiet exit. I'm just a shadow on the wall slinking in the dark.

And then...

My cell phone rings!!!

I fumble to shut the damn thing off, dropping it in the process. It bounces out onto the marble lobby, which of course attracts the attention of the DOG! One of those little ankle biter yappy types that rich bitchy women own. So now the dog is barking, the jerk on the phone - who happens to be another girls slave I was supposed to train, starts ringing again. The lady of the house appears in the doorway of the kitchen - aghast. My ex-date has this "I'm gonna need a lawyer" look on his face.

I scooped that phone up and hit the door running, with the dog hot on my heels. I jumped the 6 foot patio gate miniskirt and all, got to my car hoping I wasn't going to get shot in the back and I didn't slow down until I hit the freeway!

And that my friends is why an escort ALWAYS collects her money in advance.

It is also a good reason not to cheat on your wife, unless you are sure you know where she is...

Giggles,
TS Jamie :-)

sammy2
01-24-2009, 10:11 AM
Jamie you are a stupid bitch.

sammy2
01-24-2009, 10:24 AM
As for the original topic, now is the time to put more interest in your marriage. You know its common knowledge a guy loses interest in his wife whenever he starts cheating. If you want to avoid any curiosity from your wife. And I hope you didn't let your ts friend fuck you, because it would mean you need a divorce.

Azanti
01-24-2009, 05:53 PM
Get a divorce and be true to yourself

Hendrix
01-24-2009, 06:14 PM
Jamie not all men are "cheating bastards".
If you want to have an open relationship where both partners can have sex with other people that's cool. If you don't love your partner you can leave too. I just don't think it's right to have sex behind your partner's back when they don't know it.
Jen you are right too! It's business! "If you are good at something,never do it for free" Plus there are guys out there that cheat on their partner and run after a Tgirl's cock,so pay up!
Anywho...those are my two cents :2cent

baileyandkc
01-24-2009, 08:05 PM
By the way, Heckuva first post!

Beats " Hi guys, I'm new here " all to hell,...

yodajazz
01-26-2009, 11:11 AM
Jamie you are a stupid bitch.

Why does Jamie have to be stupid for what she did? What puts you in position to be the judge of someone that you do not know?

Aren't you the one who made a thread about going to hell? There are many passages in the Bible that warn against judging others. The reality it that it is more important than sex in determining who you are.

I think that you even complained that the girls don't want to be friends and talk about their relationships. Yet when someone talks about thier experience, you resort to name calling.

We want this forum to be a place where people are free to be themselves, particularly the t girls. Your disrepectful attitude says more about you than it does her. You have some issues, my son.

clarknog
01-26-2009, 05:26 PM
...Besides, All married men are entitled to have a mistress.

Really? I was not informed. It must have been in the vows in small print.

In that case, off to find a secret lover.

Clark - No glasses

DL_NL
01-26-2009, 10:49 PM
You have to options: inform the wife or get a divorce straightaway. Up to you.

And no, cheating is not allowed.