Putting others down..

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Why do you do it?

I could see if someone was being full of themselves and needs a reawakening and be pulled back on the ground. I know everyone's got an opinion but sometimes 'some' opinions are better kept to themselves.

No wonder the transgender community never made any progress. Because for one or two steps forwards that we make, it takes one of two comments to bring us three or four steps back.

WHY? Isn't there enough hostilities as it is coming from outside our community? And the irony is, when you put the girl giving a negative comment with the one being commented on in one room. The commentee acts as if they were the best of friends..the room literally reaks of freshly picked flowers i.e. good words/praises etc. lol WTF?

~Kisses.

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[Balcanoid]

good question...to raise themselves above others, maybe?
to steam off daily frustrations? Too much badly treated chicken consumed perhaps? ;)

[sugdaddie69]

insecure

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Crab mentality
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Crab mentality describes a way of thinking best described by the phrase "if I can't have it, neither can you." The metaphor refers to a pot of crabs, and is used to describe any behavior inhibiting the free actions of another. Collectively, the crabs could easily escape from the pot, but instead, they grab at each other in a useless "king of the hill" competition.

This term is broadly associated with short-sighted, non-constructive thinking rather than a unified, long-term, constructive mentality. It is also often used colloquially in reference to individuals or communities attempting to "escape" a so-called "underprivileged life", but kept from doing so by others attempting to ride upon their coat-tails or those who simply resent their success.

It describes a selfish and desperate lust to pull other people down, denigrating them rather than letting them get ahead or pursue their dreams. It is an unwillingness to allow someone to get out of dire or bad life situations, often being foiled by friends and family members who keep sucking them back in. This trait can strike at several levels of life, like in office environments, particularly on promotion. It is a reflection of the famous saying “we all like to see our friends get ahead, but not too far ahead.”

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Crab_mentality

~Kisses.

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[ottorocket]

Too many put downs coming from all sides in this place

[tsmandy]

I've never really understood this either, anywhere. Every couple of months I decide I can't take the sheer venom that exists on these boards, not too mention the harsh things that people say about me (but I make the porno so I'm a public figure :oops: ).

Life is hard enough, and I sincerely believe that we should be offering each other a shoulder to lean on, rather than kicking the chair out from underneath one another.

Some people just have a lot of unresolved issues... I think they just need to smoke some weed and meditate or something.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Too many put downs coming from all sides in this place

Still doesn't make it right or excusable especially when it's coming another tgirl making such comments! ;)

~Kisses.

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[mistab]

Just my 2 cents...insecurity...and female hormones...I work mostly with women...very competitive to say the least...my observation:
men= black or white
women=black, infinite shades of gray,white
tgirls=black, infinite shades of all colors,white (due to the infinite number of issues which obviously go far beyond those of gg's....frankly, I don't know how a lot of you ladies hold it all together...live long and prosper!

[Fox]

Misery + company = BFF!

[rico87]

Why do you do it?

I could see if someone was being full of themselves and needs a reawakening and be pulled back on the ground. I know everyone's got an opinion but sometimes 'some' opinions are better kept to themselves.

No wonder the transgender community never made any progress. Because for one or two steps forwards that we make, it takes one of two comments to bring us three or four steps back.

WHY? Isn't there enough hostilities as it is coming from outside our community? And the irony is, when you put the girl giving a negative comment with the one being commented on in one room. The commentee acts as if they were the best of friends..the room literally reaks of freshly picked flowers i.e. good words/praises etc. lol WTF?

~Kisses.

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Never pass judgement on others it only makes you look like a frustrated individual. I was taught at an early age if you don't have something good to say about someone keep it to yourself. But jealousy will always exist among some girls , for those are the ones who hate their lives and love to be critical . But the flip side nothing wrong with expressing your opinion instead of being a phony, sometimes constructive criticism is good and may be helpful.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Never pass judgement on others it only makes you look like a frustrated individual. I was taught at an early age if you don't have something good to say about someone keep it to yourself.

Exactly my sentiments! ;)


But the flip side nothing wrong with expressing your opinion instead of being a phony, sometimes constructive criticism is good and may be helpful.

Correct, but I just feel that there are right and wrong time and subtle ways in expressing them? ;)

~Kisses.

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[AmyDaly]

You will rarely see me or hear me put someone down... I think I care too much about people's feelings.

If I do put anyone down, I usually don't mean it and am joking around. I hate reading that stuff too. I am usually the first one to stick up for someone if I see or hear someone getting talked down to for no reason.

I think alot of people do it because they think they are being funny on the internet and trying to look like they are cool or something. Also, because they have no care for how they are making that person feel.

[rico87]

I grew up with an physical and abusive father, the physical beatings I dealt with but the verbal put downs really stuck a knife in me.

As I got older and went off to college I never wanted anyone to go through what I went through as a kid so I made it my business to be respectful and considerate to others.

Kindness is the best gift on earth.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I grew up with an physical and abusive father, the physical beatings I dealt with but the verbal put downs really stuck a knife in me.

As I got older and went off to college I never wanted anyone to go through what I went through as a kid so I made it my business to be respectful and considerate to others.

Kindness is the best gift on earth.

Sorry to hear. I agree with you 101%. ;)

~Kisses.

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[msbhaven]

I guess some people have to try and build themselves up by trying to tear other people down. I've been very lucky that most of the people here have been very nice to me, but it doesn't change the fact that some people here are total shitheads, out to do nothing but make people feel bad. I guess there are always some assholes in every crowd.

Ashlee

[elo]

Like already said,insecurity.People who put other down don´t like their life.Someone is putting them down or they have a life without real happyness etc.They feel weak and they need someone they can put down.They don´t look for an opponent,they are looking for a victim.Someone who is supposed to be weaker than themselves,so they can feel strong.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Good analogy elo. :P

~Kisses.

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[Coroner]

Like already said,insecurity.People who put other down don´t like their life.Someone is putting them down or they have a life without real happyness etc.They feel weak and they need someone they can put down.They don´t look for an opponent,they are looking for a victim.Someone who is supposed to be weaker than themselves,so they can feel strong.

:claps

There is no universal feeling for a community inside the community itself. Outsiders probably speak of a community which they classify as a bunch of freaks and those who love them. All this negativity scares people off and some girls and guys probably stopped visiting this board because they´re sick and tired of hate spamming or fear from becoming a target of self-hating cynics.

[msbhaven]

Pot meet Kettle, Kettle meet Pot.

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

Let's be honest, no one ever really leaves this board. They might say they're leaving and log on under an alias account to browse pictures and read threads but they're here every day.
9 times out of 10 if a chick on here is nasty towards another chick it's usually because of
the other chicks looks
the amount of $$$ she's making at the time
the amount of admiration she's getting from the members of the opposite sex.

Personally I blame the drug dealers for all this hate, lol.
You've got chicks out there doing combinations of weed, cocaine, heroin, crystal meth and their usual supply of female hormones then coming out to party at various clubs 5 to 6 times out of the week. Their brains are fried for life, anyone thinking "why can't she be normal" is kidding themselves.

p.s. I will never say a guy on here is truly hating another guy for anything. While there is ALOT of argumentative data on HA between males in threads when 2 guys click "X" on their browsers and close out HA.com there's usually a genetic chick they're oogling on their desktop wallpaper, in their dvd player, or in the shower next door [yeah she leaves the window up]. I've been around this scene long enough to know guys don't take this shit seriously once offline.

[voy4her]

the viciousness of some the girls on these boards has really been bothering me lately, but mostly its just one or two repeat offenders, who obviously have some pretty severe issues. The need to attack other transitioners who havent given anybody any grief and who are baring their emerging identities in some cases for the first time, is really pitiful and disgusting. Theres one person in particular who is disgracefully pathetic in her spiteful attacks, these boards would be a much more welcoming and supportive place without her.

[msbhaven]

Before you go too far in slamming girl on girl attacks, you should know that there are plenty of guys here who are just as hateful. My mother always said that if you don't have something nice to say you shouldn't say anything at all. It's a pitty that some of the "admirers" on this board didn't learn the same leasons growing up.

Ashlee

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Before you go too far in slamming girl on girl attacks, you should know that there are plenty of guys here who are just as hateful. My mother always said that if you don't have something nice to say you shouldn't say anything at all. It's a pitty that some of the "admirers" on this board didn't learn the same leasons growing up.

Ashlee

That is very true! But negativity coming from fellow tg's are even worse!

~Kisses.

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[flabbybody]

problem with the net is you never know a person's tone. I think some of the girl vs girl stuff is tongue in cheek and not really meant to be mean towards each other.

I have a problem with guys who feel obligated to comment on a girl's pic in a negative way. If you think someone looks like a dude in a wig, why post that? cuz invariably there's someone else who thinks she could win a diva contest

[tsntx]

the viciousness of some the girls on these boards has really been bothering me lately, but mostly its just one or two repeat offenders, who obviously have some pretty severe issues. The need to attack other transitioners who havent given anybody any grief and who are baring their emerging identities in some cases for the first time, is really pitiful and disgusting. Theres one person in particular who is disgracefully pathetic in her spiteful attacks, these boards would be a much more welcoming and supportive place without her.

:violin fag

[hondarobot]

At certain times, certain people have to be insulted. The "bad people" are usually the ones most likely to make the most noise and start stirring up trouble for their own purposes. It's unfortunate but true.

One person can't really make much progress towards a perfect world, but you can keep the darkness subdued.

[ef9hatchman]

Im sorry to Add A bit of mean stuff but tsntx why do you add Things that can be seen Different through other people eyes.
What I mean is that little smiley with a violin sounds to me that your mocking the thread. You have a reputation to put others down,Then you add needless stuff, are you craving attention?

[msbhaven]

Before you go too far in slamming girl on girl attacks, you should know that there are plenty of guys here who are just as hateful. My mother always said that if you don't have something nice to say you shouldn't say anything at all. It's a pitty that some of the "admirers" on this board didn't learn the same leasons growing up.

Ashlee

That is very true! But negativity coming from fellow tg's are even worse!

~Kisses.

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I suppose that is true. Although there are some girls here that I have seen are just out and out bitches and I don't think being attacked by one of them would bother me so much. But if somebody like you, that I admire and respect, posted a personel attack against me that would be so much more devastating then anything a guy could ever post.

It bothers me that anybody, that is well established here as a long time member, would choose to attack another poster on HA. We get enough hatred and attacks from the rest of the world without having it inside our own little community. I'm glad that most of the people I talk to here have been very kind and generous to me. I hope it will remain that way.

Hugs
Ashlee

[tsntx]

Im sorry to Add A bit of mean stuff but tsntx why do you add Things that can be seen Different through other people eyes.
What I mean is that little smiley with a violin sounds to me that your mocking the thread. You have a reputation to put others down,Then you add needless stuff, are you craving attention?

i was mocking the faggot i quoted
if i wanted to mock the thread or the op i would have quoted them


i dont "need" it... i get plenty of it such as what you did by trying to call me out

[tsmandy]

the viciousness of some the girls on these boards has really been bothering me lately, but mostly its just one or two repeat offenders, who obviously have some pretty severe issues. The need to attack other transitioners who havent given anybody any grief and who are baring their emerging identities in some cases for the first time, is really pitiful and disgusting. Theres one person in particular who is disgracefully pathetic in her spiteful attacks, these boards would be a much more welcoming and supportive place without her.

I've never really had a problem with any of the other girls here, none of them have insulted me like the guys have. I'm a public figure, at least in this small little world, so I'm going to have to deal with the good publicity and the bad, still it stings when someone says I'm ugly, or I look like a dude. I have a pretty thick skin, but if I'm having a rotten day sometimes it can really make me want to avoid the internet.

But I've always been treated at the level of respect by the other women as I've treated them.

About the harshest thing anyone ever said was when Kelly told me I needed to lighten my eyebrows to go with my blonde hair, or Jen told me I should use highlights, and I don't see that as mean at all, just good opinions.

I know my experience is not the same as everyone else, but I've generally enjoyed the input from the other girls here.

[voy4her]

Im sorry to Add A bit of mean stuff but tsntx why do you add Things that can be seen Different through other people eyes.
What I mean is that little smiley with a violin sounds to me that your mocking the thread. You have a reputation to put others down,Then you add needless stuff, are you craving attention?

i was mocking the faggot i quoted
if i wanted to mock the thread or the op i would have quoted them


i dont "need" it... i get plenty of it such as what you did by trying to call me out

just out of curiosity Jen, if you and i happened to be in the same place, and a horde of violent homophobes looking for blood rushed in, which of us do you think would be called a faggot and dragged out into the alley? Since you've called me a faggot in at least three different threads now, i thought id ask.

[Jericho]

So...When's the name change?

[ef9hatchman]

Im sorry to Add A bit of mean stuff but tsntx why do you add Things that can be seen Different through other people eyes.
What I mean is that little smiley with a violin sounds to me that your mocking the thread. You have a reputation to put others down,Then you add needless stuff, are you craving attention?

i was mocking the faggot i quoted
if i wanted to mock the thread or the op i would have quoted them


i dont "need" it... i get plenty of it such as what you did by trying to call me out
Faggot-n.
A bundle of twigs, sticks, or branches bound together.
A bundle of pieces of iron or steel to be welded or hammered into bars.

Bigotry-
1. stubborn and complete intolerance of any creed, belief, or opinion that differs from one's own.
2. the actions, beliefs, prejudices, etc., of a bigot.

Truthfully using the word faggot is just unintelligent lower ones own mind power. Im not trying to say your a bad person but just try and keep it clean,are you or are you not an Adult?

voy4her Dude adding hate/Conflict isnt going to end her calling you that hateful word.why do it.

[El Nino]

Im sorry to Add A bit of mean stuff but tsntx why do you add Things that can be seen Different through other people eyes.
What I mean is that little smiley with a violin sounds to me that your mocking the thread. You have a reputation to put others down,Then you add needless stuff, are you craving attention?

i was mocking the faggot i quoted
if i wanted to mock the thread or the op i would have quoted them


i dont "need" it... i get plenty of it such as what you did by trying to call me out

just out of curiosity Jen, if you and i happened to be in the same place, and a horde of violent homophobes looking for blood rushed in, which of us do you think would be called a faggot and dragged out into the alley? Since you've called me a faggot in at least three different threads now, i thought id ask.

well said man.

[yosi]

Hara_Juku my dear

don't get insulted by those who don't deserve to be insulted by them, the "keaboard bullies" who think they are big heroes.......
when actualy you can see how tiny heroes they realy are.

it's their problems not yours , so feel good about who you realy are , a smart shemale , who tell her opinions in a very feminine beautiful way.

some of us guys , truely love you , I know it's hard to believe

kisses , wonderful kisses
yosi

[tsntx]

Im sorry to Add A bit of mean stuff but tsntx why do you add Things that can be seen Different through other people eyes.
What I mean is that little smiley with a violin sounds to me that your mocking the thread. You have a reputation to put others down,Then you add needless stuff, are you craving attention?

i was mocking the faggot i quoted
if i wanted to mock the thread or the op i would have quoted them


i dont "need" it... i get plenty of it such as what you did by trying to call me out

just out of curiosity Jen, if you and i happened to be in the same place, and a horde of violent homophobes looking for blood rushed in, which of us do you think would be called a faggot and dragged out into the alley? Since you've called me a faggot in at least three different threads now, i thought id ask.

well said man.

wtf is so well said about his bs post? nothing.
ive stood next to ppl that have been pulled out or called out in clubs b4... so im going to go w/ what i know from experience and thats that i pass when and where i need to.... noone is going to take me on nor are they going to go in a bar and select a person then and there... they wait til theyre alone.... just bc im not hiding in the closet or ashamed of who i am doesnt make you any less of a faggot moron.... it just means they cant see through your disguise like i can

[transmaven]

Hara,


Why do you do it?

I think we're dealing with a *notoriously bitchy* demographic here on HA.

What do you think, maybe? :wink:

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

Thanks Transmaven.


Hara_Juku my dear

don't get insulted by those who don't deserve to be insulted by them, the "keaboard bullies" who think they are big heroes.......
when actualy you can see how tiny heroes they realy are.

it's their problems not yours , so feel good about who you realy are , a smart shemale , who tell her opinions in a very feminine beautiful way.

some of us guys , truely love you , I know it's hard to believe

kisses , wonderful kisses
yosi

Yosi, I'm not at all insulted. But I am frowning in disgust that some people 'act' the way they do (hostile) towards others which was unnecessary and uncalled for. It has gone a long time now and NO ONE ever bothered to say something. That's all.

I am fully aware and know that it's really NOT my problem or the end of the world if I kept my opinions to myself BUT I think, not doing nor saying anything further demoralizes our very small community as a whole in the long run if we continue to allow or give free passes to girls especially when they feel high and mighty (cos they bought the femme and passable looks they sports today) and should be privileged to ridicule others out for their own amusement. It's sickening!

Furthermore, when they mock or make fun of a statement I made such as having a 'crab mentality', it only says a lot about them (not me) amidst all the cosmetic facade/glitz.

I know me saying this would ruffle feathers but what the heck..You can surely buy your looks, but you cannot buy good personality or breeding! Or maybe they do have the 4 B's (Beauty, brains, breeding and bounty) but they really shouldn't rub it on others faces.

~Kisses.

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[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

So...When's the name change?

:? Change name to? Thug Angels? lol :lol:

~Kisses.

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[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

So...When's the name change?

:? Change name to? Thug Angels? lol :lol:

~Kisses.

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Change it to SensitiveAngels by page 23 of this thread (probably by the end of December)..................

I think this is fair to say, might have already said it but I'll try to be brief.
There's ALOT of great people on this board. Many times they say some things which get taken out of context and get ripped to shreds for it. It is what it is. What I've discovered about HA is that folks can say things on here one year and the next year go about their business on the forum as if that earlier statement/thread/reply never took place.

Hopefully by now most of the users reading these threads know that these comments are for the most part "just comments."

[Justawannabe]

I've been mostly avoiding the place this week due to what happened to my nephew and the insensitivity to the damage words can do.

I did notice there was a number of references to things the 'guys' say and the 'girls' say. All I wanted to throw out there was don't be so quick to think of posters in either category, not because folks could be in both or either in the real world, but because I don't think there are many those are accurate groupings.

There are definitely rude folks in both camps, but I don't think either camp is dominated by rude or polite folks.

Sean

[MrF]

My guess: There's a disapproval by a large segment of society for the activity represented by HA, so maybe a lot (certainly not all) of people here feel stressed out and defensive about that ? Add to that the general problem of internet forums that occurs when people have the option to hide behind their anonymity.

I try to play nice on internet forums, but sometimes you have to say something controversial and it can get misunderstood as a personal attack. If someone replies to my post in a very negative way, I tend to answer only if it requires a clarification, like they misunderstood me. But if it's just a difference of opinion, I'd probably let it go. And if the reply is a crazy attack (like calling me a jerk for no reason) I'd probably figure the forum members can sort out the truth; and if not, then who cares about such a forum ?

This might be an algorithm for improved peace. However, with human nature being what it is, my advice will likely be ignored. :)

[tiffanydoll]

I grew up with an physical and abusive father, the physical beatings I dealt with but the verbal put downs really stuck a knife in me.

As I got older and went off to college I never wanted anyone to go through what I went through as a kid so I made it my business to be respectful and considerate to others.

Kindness is the best gift on earth.

Sorry to hear that as well. I totally agree with you 100%.

"Add to that the general problem of internet forums that occurs when people have the option to hide behind their anonymity"

bingo most people on the forums wouldn't say any of the shit to your face but since they hide behind a computer screen they feel all big.

[ef9hatchman]

So...When's the name change?

:? Change name to? Thug Angels? lol :lol:

~Kisses.

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Change it to SensitiveAngels by page 23 of this thread (probably by the end of December)..................

I think this is fair to say, might have already said it but I'll try to be brief.
There's ALOT of great people on this board. Many times they say some things which get taken out of context and get ripped to shreds for it. It is what it is. What I've discovered about HA is that folks can say things on here one year and the next year go about their business on the forum as if that earlier statement/thread/reply never took place.

Hopefully by now most of the users reading these threads know that these comments are for the most part "just comments."
:claps ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

[El Nino]

Im sorry to Add A bit of mean stuff but tsntx why do you add Things that can be seen Different through other people eyes.
What I mean is that little smiley with a violin sounds to me that your mocking the thread. You have a reputation to put others down,Then you add needless stuff, are you craving attention?

i was mocking the faggot i quoted
if i wanted to mock the thread or the op i would have quoted them


i dont "need" it... i get plenty of it such as what you did by trying to call me out

just out of curiosity Jen, if you and i happened to be in the same place, and a horde of violent homophobes looking for blood rushed in, which of us do you think would be called a faggot and dragged out into the alley? Since you've called me a faggot in at least three different threads now, i thought id ask.

well said man.

wtf is so well said about his bs post? nothing.
ive stood next to ppl that have been pulled out or called out in clubs b4... so im going to go w/ what i know from experience and thats that i pass when and where i need to.... noone is going to take me on nor are they going to go in a bar and select a person then and there... they wait til theyre alone.... just bc im not hiding in the closet or ashamed of who i am doesnt make you any less of a faggot moron.... it just means they cant see through your disguise like i can

Everything you just said about me is completely false, nice assumptions and profiling skills you got there!?!? God, you need some psychiatric help.

[Solitary Brother]

Let me chime in here (peanut gallery collectively rolls eyes).
I do say some viscous things to certain people but 99 percent of the time I dont mean it.
Lets take Jen Justice and Mimi.
I have read them viscously and they have called me a faggot in new and creative ways.
I dont take it seriously.
I actually like both of them although they make me mad sometimes but I know they are just having fun.
You have to meet me to understand me.......

I cant wait until Jen calls me a faggot(again)
Love your show bitch!

[thx1138]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MA-RWbZJsDM & http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0_IcnOTf3Kc

[tsntx]

Let me chime in here (peanut gallery collectively rolls eyes).
I do say some viscous things to certain people but 99 percent of the time I dont mean it.
Lets take Jen Justice and Mimi.
I have read them viscously and they have called me a faggot in new and creative ways.
I dont take it seriously.
I actually like both of them although they make me mad sometimes but I know they are just having fun.
You have to meet me to understand me.......

I cant wait until Jen calls me a faggot(again)
Love your show bitch!

if it was just me and mimi calling you a faggot it would be one thing



EVERYONE here has called you a faggot... who cares?

[tsntx]

Im sorry to Add A bit of mean stuff but tsntx why do you add Things that can be seen Different through other people eyes.
What I mean is that little smiley with a violin sounds to me that your mocking the thread. You have a reputation to put others down,Then you add needless stuff, are you craving attention?

i was mocking the faggot i quoted
if i wanted to mock the thread or the op i would have quoted them


i dont "need" it... i get plenty of it such as what you did by trying to call me out

just out of curiosity Jen, if you and i happened to be in the same place, and a horde of violent homophobes looking for blood rushed in, which of us do you think would be called a faggot and dragged out into the alley? Since you've called me a faggot in at least three different threads now, i thought id ask.

well said man.

wtf is so well said about his bs post? nothing.
ive stood next to ppl that have been pulled out or called out in clubs b4... so im going to go w/ what i know from experience and thats that i pass when and where i need to.... noone is going to take me on nor are they going to go in a bar and select a person then and there... they wait til theyre alone.... just bc im not hiding in the closet or ashamed of who i am doesnt make you any less of a faggot moron.... it just means they cant see through your disguise like i can

Everything you just said about me is completely false, nice assumptions and profiling skills you got there!?!? God, you need some psychiatric help.

wow way to take someone elses credit loser... i wasnt talking to you nor was i suggesting you to be the character in my situation

but hey that part about being a faggot moron seems to be pretty true

[Solitary Brother]

Let me chime in here (peanut gallery collectively rolls eyes).
I do say some viscous things to certain people but 99 percent of the time I dont mean it.
Lets take Jen Justice and Mimi.
I have read them viscously and they have called me a faggot in new and creative ways.
I dont take it seriously.
I actually like both of them although they make me mad sometimes but I know they are just having fun.
You have to meet me to understand me.......

I cant wait until Jen calls me a faggot(again)
Love your show bitch!

if it was just me and mimi calling you a faggot it would be one thing



EVERYONE here has called you a faggot... who cares?

Whats so funny is most of them called me that have sucks a dick or taken it in the ass before!
I havent.
If they did it in person they would be in big trouble........... :D

[Solitary Brother]

might makes right....
its the way of the world.

[Legend]

Im sorry to Add A bit of mean stuff but tsntx why do you add Things that can be seen Different through other people eyes.
What I mean is that little smiley with a violin sounds to me that your mocking the thread. You have a reputation to put others down,Then you add needless stuff, are you craving attention?

i was mocking the faggot i quoted
if i wanted to mock the thread or the op i would have quoted them


i dont "need" it... i get plenty of it such as what you did by trying to call me out

just out of curiosity Jen, if you and i happened to be in the same place, and a horde of violent homophobes looking for blood rushed in, which of us do you think would be called a faggot and dragged out into the alley? Since you've called me a faggot in at least three different threads now, i thought id ask.

well said man.

wtf is so well said about his bs post? nothing.
ive stood next to ppl that have been pulled out or called out in clubs b4... so im going to go w/ what i know from experience and thats that i pass when and where i need to.... noone is going to take me on nor are they going to go in a bar and select a person then and there... they wait til theyre alone.... just bc im not hiding in the closet or ashamed of who i am doesnt make you any less of a faggot moron.... it just means they cant see through your disguise like i can

Everything you just said about me is completely false, nice assumptions and profiling skills you got there!?!? God, you need some psychiatric help.


Didn't you want you name deleted here because you are ashamed of being associated with transsexuals?

[ef9hatchman]

[quote=Solitary Brother]Let me chime in here (peanut gallery collectively rolls eyes).
I do say some viscous things to certain people but 99 percent of the time I dont mean it.
Lets take Jen Justice and Mimi.
I have read them viscously and they have called me a faggot in new and creative ways.
I dont take it seriously.
I actually like both of them although they make me mad sometimes but I know they are just having fun.
You have to meet me to understand me.......

I cant wait until Jen calls me a faggot(again)
Love your show bitch!

if it was just me and mimi calling you a faggot it would be one thing



EVERYONE here has called you a faggot... who cares?

Whats so funny is most of them called me that have sucks a dick or taken it in the ass before!
I havent.
If they did it in person they would be in big trouble........... :D[/quote



Dude grow the Fuck up. Same goes for everyone else. Act your age.

[tsntx]

just out of curiosity Jen, if you and i happened to be in the same place, and a horde of violent homophobes looking for blood rushed in, which of us do you think would be called a faggot and dragged out into the alley? Since you've called me a faggot in at least three different threads now, i thought id ask.

90%+ of the people who visit and post on HA have male genitalia, it's safe to assume that homophobes would refer to all those HA members as "faggots."

http://www.truechristian.com/img/God_Hates_Fags_12-25-2002.jpg

TY!

i mean seriously im pretty sure the faggot into faggots in dresses is more offensive to the attackers then the faggot in a dress

ive seen a few news stories both real and fiction where the killers found the guys that could go back to their "normal quiet hedero lives" more offensive to them and "their fight"

depends on the hypothetical attackers, their agenda, the motives... etc etc etc

WHO GIVES A FUCK????? lmao

[uber_nerd]

The Y-Chromosome is an evil one.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

So...When's the name change?

:? Change name to? Thug Angels? lol :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

Change it to SensitiveAngels by page 23 of this thread (probably by the end of December)..................
<Snip>

Hmm..That's not what you were telling me on the phone! lol :lol:

Have you swallowed that opinion? Tehe ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

I suppose that is true. Although there are some girls here that I have seen are just out and out bitches and I don't think being attacked by one of them would bother me so much. But if somebody like you, that I admire and respect, posted a personel attack against me that would be so much more devastating then anything a guy could ever post.

It bothers me that anybody, that is well established here as a long time member, would choose to attack another poster on HA. We get enough hatred and attacks from the rest of the world without having it inside our own little community. I'm glad that most of the people I talk to here have been very kind and generous to me. I hope it will remain that way.

Hugs
Ashlee

Thanks hun. But from what I've seen and read YOU have been nothing but nice and congenial to others. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

[msbhaven]

I suppose that is true. Although there are some girls here that I have seen are just out and out bitches and I don't think being attacked by one of them would bother me so much. But if somebody like you, that I admire and respect, posted a personel attack against me that would be so much more devastating then anything a guy could ever post.

It bothers me that anybody, that is well established here as a long time member, would choose to attack another poster on HA. We get enough hatred and attacks from the rest of the world without having it inside our own little community. I'm glad that most of the people I talk to here have been very kind and generous to me. I hope it will remain that way.

Hugs
Ashlee

Thanks hun. But from what I've seen and read YOU have been nothing but nice and congenial to others. ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Thank you too sweetie. I always try to conduct myself with a certain civility and grace. All I ever ask is that others try and show me the same courtesy and respect.

Hugs and Kisses,
Ashlee

[bassman2546]

For the most part, I think people are cowards when hiding behind their computers. They feel they can say anything they want without the risk of getting their face busted in.

Put all of us in one room and tallk about the same topics and I'm sure that everyone would have different opinions (ones loaded with a healthy dose of ass-kissing) versus what they write on here. Sad world, isn't it?

[ef9hatchman]

For the most part, I think people are cowards when hiding behind their computers. They feel they can say anything they want without the risk of getting their face busted in.

Put all of us in one room and tallk about the same topics and I'm sure that everyone would have different opinions (ones loaded with a healthy dose of ass-kissing) versus what they write on here. Sad world, isn't it?
I have no idea of what your talking about Ethugs?
lolololololol I totally agree dude.