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transmaven
12-07-2008, 05:57 AM
By MARC LACEY

Published: December 6, 2008

Mexico City — Mexico can be intolerant of homosexuality; it can also be quite liberal. Gay-bashing incidents are not uncommon in the countryside, where many Mexicans consider homosexuality a sin. In Mexico City, meanwhile, same-sex domestic partnerships are legally recognized — and often celebrated lavishly in government offices as if they were marriages.

But nowhere are attitudes toward sex and gender quite as elastic as in the far reaches of the southern state of Oaxaca. There, in the indigenous communities around the town of Juchitán, the world is not divided simply into gay and straight. The local Zapotec people have made room for a third category, which they call “muxes” (pronounced MOO-shays) — men who consider themselves women and live in a socially sanctioned netherworld between the two genders.

“Muxe” is a Zapotec word derived from the Spanish “mujer,” or woman; it is reserved for males who, from boyhood, have felt themselves drawn to living as a woman, anticipating roles set out for them by the community.

Anthropologists trace the acceptance of people of mixed gender to pre-Colombian Mexico, pointing to accounts of cross-dressing Aztec priests and Mayan gods who were male and female at the same time. Spanish colonizers wiped out most of those attitudes in the 1500s by forcing conversion to Catholicism. But mixed-gender identities managed to survive in the area around Juchitán, a place so traditional that many people speak ancient Zapotec instead of Spanish.

Not all muxes express their identities the same way. Some dress as women and take hormones to change their bodies. Others favor male clothes. What they share is that the community accepts them; many in it believe that muxes have special intellectual and artistic gifts.

Every November, muxes inundate the town for a grand ball that attracts local men, women and children as well as outsiders. A queen is selected; the mayor crowns her. “I don’t care what people say,” said Sebastian Sarmienta, the boyfriend of a muxe, Ninel Castillejo García. “There are some people who get uncomfortable. I don’t see a problem. What is so bad about it?”

Muxes are found in all walks of life in Juchitán, but most take on traditional female roles — selling in the market, embroidering traditional garments, cooking at home. Some also become sex workers, selling their services to men. .

Acceptance of a child who feels he is a muxe is not unanimous; some parents force such children to fend for themselves. But the far more common sentiment appears to be that of a woman who takes care of her grandson, Carmelo, 13.

“It is how God sent him,” she said.

link to slideshow: http://www.nytimes.com/slideshow/2008/12/07/weekinreview/1207-MUXE_index.html



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Ts CinthyaNY
12-07-2008, 07:29 AM
There it's so much truth in what it says in this article. Actually I am native Transsexual from Juchitan, Oaxaca Mexico and very much proud of being one of them "Muxhe".

Traditions are very much obliged and people really stick with it and all "Muxhes" are part of it.

I remember coming out as a Muxhe did not caught by surprise to my parents and now that I am more like a woman they kinda like it or at least to say I am a pretty one.

It's more of a blessing to have a Muxhe in the family since we are supposed to take care of our parents until they last breath and somehow be the guardians of the family in a way.

We do have a party once a year where there straight people and all the "Muxhes" gather together in harmony.

I believe since we live there in a so called the Mexican Matriarchy and the mother impose her authority and manners so I think to me and others it our mother influence in our life and gender identity .

When I moved here I thought the American society would be even more open mind than we are there, sad to say it's not much of it.

I am so proud that the first transsexual to try and be a in the congress it is from my city. Unfortunately she did not success .

Hope you all enjoy these videos :

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bz-NL1HcGaA&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AvOolVF0wzo&feature=related

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MA8MmmrX-6s&feature=related

Dravina
12-08-2008, 04:24 PM
very interesting, thank you for posting this and also thank you to Cinthya for the 3 videos.
makes you wonder why more countries and cultures can't be more tolerant of their citizens.
ciao
DT