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RubyTS
11-29-2008, 12:24 AM
So i wake up yesterday (thanksgiving day) and i have a text on me personal cell from a guy we'll call "Jon" saying "hey its jon rom back in the day." I brushed it off assuming that it was a message for someone else, considerring its a fairly new number. So i went out to smoke my cigarette and i hear my hone ringing, When i get back in, i decided to check my voicemail (which i never do) and its "Jon." Saying hey we have a lot to catch up on and that i know him from Jr High school.

So i text him back asking "John Do?" He says yes. Now this guy was a pain in the ass to me in jr high and i had the most enormoussss crush on him, but he was so mean to me. I even got into a fist fight with hm during class, and yes, i won lol.

Jon: I saw ur pics
Me: Big change huh?
Jon: Yeah u look HOT!
Me: TY
Jon: Can i call you?
Me: I woke up late and im rushing to get ready for this party. Can i call u later?
Jon: BTW i wasnt talking about your myspace pics
Me: OMG lol (at that point i knew he was talking about my xxx pics)
Jon: But yeah like i said we have a lot to catch up on
Me: Ok imma call u later

And i did. The convo went well. He told me that he had seen my pics and another classmate who i ran into gave him my phone number. He sent me several pics of himself, and was very persistant, sending them to both my phones AND my email to make sure i got them. He apologized for being a dick in jr hi, and we were talking and texting most the night. He wants to fly me out to visit with him as well as pay my donations.

I dont know how this makes me feel. On one end im catching those feelings i had in jr high i mean i REALLY liked him. On another end, the whole escorting idea with him makes me queezy. Like i would prefer to meet him and hang out and see what could happen, but at the same time i dont wanna have regrets if hes a ass and i could've gotten paid off him lol. Ay i dunno, this is such a akward situation for me to be in especially since he knew me before my transition...
Alyssa87
11-29-2008, 12:30 AM
iiiinteresting.

dont get queezy. if he's flying you out, youre GONNA be hanging out with him. it wont just be an hour and buh-bye.
so take your coinz and have a good time with a hottie youre crushing on.



i kinda wanna beat u up right now.
bunzy
11-29-2008, 12:33 AM
Just give the dude a chance and see how it goes from there, act like you never had a crush on him, show a little indifference to see what he gots to offer. Good luck!
slinky
11-29-2008, 12:37 AM
Like i would prefer to meet him and hang out and see what could happen, but at the same time i dont wanna have regrets if hes a ass and i could've gotten paid off him lol.

And girls wonder why they can't find "nice guys" to have a relationship with: once you've gotten yourself so deep into the business that you can't even take a risk that you could have anything but a commercial relationship with a guy, you're down the rabbit hole. Once it's about money the first time, he's always going to be your trick and you're always going to be his ho. Girls sometimes try to turn tricks into husbands, and tricks very often try to turn working girls into GFs. It almost NEVER works - unless there was NEVER a commercial transaction to kick it off. I have dated many working girls, but NEVER when I started out as a trick. I can not stress strongly enough how this changes things.
Solitary Brother
11-29-2008, 12:41 AM
What happened to your guy friend Ruby?
RubyTS
11-29-2008, 12:44 AM
What happened to your guy friend Ruby?

i told him i needed my space
Solitary Brother
11-29-2008, 02:31 AM
What happened to your guy friend Ruby?

i told him i needed my space

Poor guy....
I feel bad for him.
Oh well.
RubyTS
11-29-2008, 02:44 AM
What happened to your guy friend Ruby?

i told him i needed my space

Poor guy....
I feel bad for him.
Oh well.

dont feel too bad lol he's taking me to DR on Monday. He's just a lil too clingy 4 me, so we're taking it slower. We are in a relationship, not a committment.
Odelay
11-29-2008, 03:03 AM
Your story sort of reminds me of this cool comic that I posted in the Toons thread... (scroll down to "Classmates")

http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?p=211588&highlight=#211588

Good luck, whichever way you decide.
menacingmethods86
11-29-2008, 04:51 AM
How do you know he doesn't want to... ummm... harm you?
flabbybody
11-29-2008, 05:09 AM
What happened to your guy friend Ruby?

i told him i needed my space

Poor guy....
I feel bad for him.
Oh well.

dont feel too bad lol he's taking me to DR on Monday. He's just a lil too clingy 4 me, so we're taking it slower. We are in a relationship, not a committment.

my whole life I've been lectured to about how guys suck and we can't commit.
but at the end of the day it's usually women who get that creepy "relationship" feeling and say they need to have their freedom.
So this guy's taking you to DR but he can't introduce you to his family as his gf?
how can he be happy with that? he must feel like shit
RubyTS
11-29-2008, 05:34 AM
How do you know he doesn't want to... ummm... harm you?

that went through my mind at one point but im a pretty good judge of character. aside from that the fact we've been texting and talking the past 2 nights non stop and he's sent me all types of crazy pics of himself ALL GROWN UP :wink: