"Straight" Men Can't Be Friends w/ TS

[Man Fuck It]

cause whenever you try to take them seriously on a friendship level they go and fuck it up...or certain broads get a little steady diet of stable dick (i.e. boyfriend/fuckbuddy) in they life and they totally forget about homeboy #1.

On a friendship level, onlike real broads, most TS friends won't give you the 'hookup' with one of her friends (they be on some jealous shit for no apparent reason)...
You can't talk to them like a real homegirl on some 'you really need a gameplan' shit cause they don't want to hear the truth.

So yeah, basically, i'm like fuck these hoes for real...1/2 them broads can't be trusted...which I guess makes them more woman than they could possibly comprehend :?

[partlycloudy]

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[DatNigga4Real]

cause whenever you try to take them seriously on a friendship level they go and fuck it up...or certain broads get a little steady diet of stable dick (i.e. boyfriend/fuckbuddy) in they life and they totally forget about homeboy #1.

On a friendship level, onlike real broads, most TS friends won't give you the 'hookup' with one of her friends (they be on some jealous shit for no apparent reason)...
You can't talk to them like a real homegirl on some 'you really need a gameplan' shit cause they don't want to hear the truth.

So yeah, basically, i'm like fuck these hoes for real...1/2 them broads can't be trusted...which I guess makes them more woman than they could possibly comprehend :?


I totally fucking agree, fuck them ho's. But honestly, im a friend to 2 particular trannies, havent been crossed yet. But yeah, fuck them other broke bitches.

[BADAZZBODY]

cause whenever you try to take them seriously on a friendship level they go and fuck it up...or certain broads get a little steady diet of stable dick (i.e. boyfriend/fuckbuddy) in they life and they totally forget about homeboy #1.

On a friendship level, onlike real broads, most TS friends won't give you the 'hookup' with one of her friends (they be on some jealous shit for no apparent reason)...
You can't talk to them like a real homegirl on some 'you really need a gameplan' shit cause they don't want to hear the truth.

So yeah, basically, i'm like fuck these hoes for real...1/2 them broads can't be trusted...which I guess makes them more woman than they could possibly comprehend :?

well i know i done hooked u up wit 2 of my girlfriends..and tried ova and ova again to hook u up wit one u are head ova heels wit.. and u know who she is well..but she is just not interested for what reason..its logical..and this is not coming from my mouth its from hers...she said "first impressions last foreva and when she was cool wit u..and yall was kicking it she saw that ya eyes was not totally on her "{i am putting this in nice words}and also being as though she view u as a typical tranny chaser she dont find that the most thrilling at all..

oh yeah she came down from jersey yesterday..and chilled wit me all day.. i let her read the im u sent me on yahoo and some of the stuff on hungangels that u and dat nigga was saying and stuff...she thought is was so funny...

i hope that comment was not for me cause i am not I dream of Jeanie and i cant wink and flop my ponytail and make someone want somebody, like they do if i could i would. cause i know u really like her but she just dont see it at all.. ill call her on 3 way if u dont believe me

and as for that jealousy..ive seen that before..and like i told u before when u asked me y do girls get like that that is because...niggas have different point of views about shit like that..unlike girls and trannys but its a few niggas thats dont like that either and it is:

Because if u meet a girl..u tell her u felling her..or u at least act like u do or what eva..they just fell disrespected cause u was hollaring at them first but now u see another ts now u wanna holla at them or u dont even have to holla u can just say "damn so and so is sexy" or she fine..so thats when they be on that shit ....they get jealous and most of them dont even have shit to say..i mean if u into a girl at least be into her until u have washed ya hands from her and u not still interested and yall have establish a friendship like family before u go on chasing..thats my advise to how u should deal wit them ..but hey i cant guarentee that they wont feel a lil up tight cause everybody is different..

thats just like u hanging wit a girl u felling and she see ya homeboy and be like "who him..mmmmm he fine...yall be together all the time"..and u be felling her like a mother fuker and she be all on ya mans and them..or better yet she ask u to hook u up wit him u might fell the same way..maybe even trying if u like a girl, just like them even if u see her wit friends that are fine too or even they try to hit on u too..just block it out of ya mind..and think of them as nasty..and see if that works

i know it works for me cause my ex boyfriend before this one..used to be a big time hustla and all his friends knew about me being a tranny and they used to try to holla at me all the time..i never been the type to like anyone of my mans friends or any of my girlfriends friends and i dont do set ups at all....i used to tell them ..to go head wit da dumb shit..and i would tell my man.....i

and i say that because..they are their friends not mine so they know them better than i do..they know how they get down and all that so i dont care to bother..

[Man Fuck It]

cause whenever you try to take them seriously on a friendship level they go and fuck it up...or certain broads get a little steady diet of stable dick (i.e. boyfriend/fuckbuddy) in they life and they totally forget about homeboy #1.

On a friendship level, onlike real broads, most TS friends won't give you the 'hookup' with one of her friends (they be on some jealous shit for no apparent reason)...
You can't talk to them like a real homegirl on some 'you really need a gameplan' shit cause they don't want to hear the truth.

So yeah, basically, i'm like fuck these hoes for real...1/2 them broads can't be trusted...which I guess makes them more woman than they could possibly comprehend :?

well i know i done hooked u up wit 2 of my girlfriends..and tried ova and ova again to hook u up wit one u are head ova heels wit.. and u know who she is well..but she is just not interested for what reason..its logical..and this is not coming from my mouth its from hers...she said "first impressions last foreva and when she was cool wit u..and yall was kicking it she saw that ya eyes was not totally on her "{i am putting this in nice words}and also being as though she view u as a typical tranny chaser she dont find that the most thrilling at all..

oh yeah she came down from jersey yesterday..and chilled wit me all day.. i let her read the im u sent me on yahoo and some of the stuff on hungangels that u and dat N***** was saying and stuff...she thought is was so funny...

i hope that comment was not for me cause i am not I dream of Jeanie and i cant wink and flop my ponytail and make someone want somebody, like they do if i could i would. cause i know u really like her but she just dont see it at all.. ill call her on 3 way if u dont believe me

and as for that jealousy..ive seen that before..and like i told u before when u asked me y do girls get like that that is because...N***** have different point of views about shit like that..unlike girls and trannys but its a few N***** thats dont like that either and it is:

Because if u meet a girl..u tell her u felling her..or u at least act like u do or what eva..they just fell disrespected cause u was hollaring at them first but now u see another ts now u wanna holla at them or u dont even have to holla u can just say "damn so and so is sexy" or she fine..so thats when they be on that shit ....they get jealous and most of them dont even have shit to say..i mean if u into a girl at least be into her until u have washed ya hands from her and u not still interested and yall have establish a friendship like family before u go on chasing..thats my advise to how u should deal wit them ..but hey i cant guarentee that they wont feel a lil up tight cause everybody is different..

thats just like u hanging wit a girl u felling and she see ya homeboy and be like "who him..mmmmm he fine...yall be together all the time"..and u be felling her like a mother fuker and she be all on ya mans and them..or better yet she ask u to hook u up wit him u might fell the same way..maybe even trying if u like a girl, just like them even if u see her wit friends that are fine too or even they try to hit on u too..just block it out of ya mind..and think of them as nasty..and see if that works

i know it works for me cause my ex boyfriend before this one..used to be a big time hustla and all his friends knew about me being a tranny and they used to try to holla at me all the time..i never been the type to like anyone of my mans friends or any of my girlfriends friends and i dont do set ups at all....i used to tell them ..to go head wit da dumb shit..and i would tell my man.....i

and i say that because..they are their friends not mine so they know them better than i do..they know how they get down and all that so i dont care to bother..


yeah i guess double standards is ok in ts land...it's okay for my mans and them to possibly fuck you for 150 an hour or my boss to piss in your face for 300 but let a dude think another ts is fly and he wrong? kinda shit is that? you can fuck and suck whoever in the name of it being an alleged client but let me see another bitch and be like she cute and i'm wrong. ts are some tempermental beings yo, for real. ain't like shortie is wifey or like i gotta ring on a bitch finger. not like a dude was fucking two broads at the same time. I guess that's why the vast majority of ts are lonely. I think yawl got women beat on that perception vs. reality shit.

[SexxxyJade]

When so called "straight" men start to realize that they're not straight, then maybe, just maybe they will be able to have a real friendship with one of us.

[Man Fuck It]

When so called "straight" men start to realize that they're not straight, then maybe, just maybe they will be able to have a real friendship with one of us.


I emphasized that word for a point. I don't label what I like. I let you all (society) do that for me. I like what I like. I like broads and I like TS, if that makes me a gay, oh well, i'll be one happy motherfucker.

[Dina Delicious]

I have many "straight" friends and i dont care who or what they like as long as they are cool with me and always have my back BUT the way you talk i would make believe i was deaf
i cant take someone seriously that speaks like that about "Broads" or "ts"
Dina

[Man Fuck It]

I have many "straight" friends and i dont care who or what they like as long as they are cool with me and always have my back BUT the way you talk i would make believe i was deaf
i cant take someone seriously that speaks like that about "Broads" or "ts"
Dina


obviously we are from 2 different cultures, you have your 'norms', i have mine. It's idiotic to judge a book by it's cover. I could talk/type in great depths with you about the apparent differences in the way I type vs. the meaning behind what I type but it'd be to no avail. Just to let you know though, "jus' cuz i type like dis and say broad and shit like dat" does not mean I am uneducated, unconcerned, or less of a friend to those whom choose to call me by that term of endearment.

Thank You,
'mah blakk azz' :o

[Dina Delicious]

Do you not feel your statements on broads and ts isnt judging a book by its cover re read your own post love
whatever culture your from doesnt matter
every culture believes in respect
Kisses to all my fine azz black brothas i love
Dina Delicious

[Man Fuck It]

Do you not feel your statements on broads and ts isnt judging a book by its cover re read your own post love
whatever culture your from doesnt matter
every culture believes in respect
Kisses to all my fine azz black brothas i love
Dina Delicious

Intellectual debate on a tranny message board beseiged by dicks, tits, and cumshots is trite in my honest opinion. The language is relative to the overall theme of this message board. Are you going to go over the escort section of this site and email every tranny on their advertising by telling them what they are doing is morally offensive and wrong? Nope, didn't think so. So obvioulsy, as I said before, it is all relative to ones culture...

FYI: I don't do the back and forth cat fight faggy shit, if you wanna have a debate hit my inbox and we can procede from their.

Thanks :wink:

[Dina Delicious]

oh please you dont do the faggy shit LMAO
you kill me lol

Mrs Delicious to you!

[Dina Delicious]

im gonna lay of this one because my back hurts from doin some faggy shit lol
bye boys
Dina Delicious

im not good im not bad im just rite

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

im gonna lay of this one because my back hurts from doin some faggy shit lol
bye boys
Dina Delicious

im not good im not bad im just rite


mmmmph
hi Dina
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[Dina Delicious]

Now are you gonna moderate me and put me in my place mmm i hope so

Simply Delicious

[Man Fuck It]

oh please you dont do the faggy shit LMAO
you kill me lol

Mrs Delicious to you!


FYI

Faggy shit = playing e-tag



Taking back shots = :lol:

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

I'll send my response privately, woman
LMAO

[BADAZZBODY]

yeah i guess double standards is ok in ts land...it's okay for my mans and them to possibly fuck you for 150 an hour or my boss to piss in your face for 300 but let a dude think another ts is fly and he wrong? kinda shit is that? you can fuck and suck whoever in the name of it being an alleged client but let me see another B***** and be like she cute and i'm wrong. ts are some tempermental beings yo, for real. ain't like shortie is wifey or like i gotta ring on a B***** finger. not like a dude was fucking two broads at the same time. I guess that's why the vast majority of ts are lonely. I think yawl got women beat on that perception vs. reality shit.

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that above does not have noffing to do wit me cause i dont have noffin do do wit it...i am just the middle girl..

u can call it what ever u want...as far as i am concern all of this shit is out of my hands it might be a double standered to u..but the funny part about it is u are the one thats doing the chasing...no one is chasing u..so with that i would suggest u play by the rules.. you are the one thats wanting to holla fuck or befriends ...u are the one thats putting ya fellings and what u want out of a person on the line...so if someone dont like the fact that u all on them and all on like 20 other trannys too and they choose not to deal then u cant fault them..u got to respect their mind and find someone that will...i mean u been chasing long enough by now u would think all this anger would be repressed...well maybe its not the trannys wit the problems maybe u need to sit down and really evaluate a self..

life aint fair baby..and people dont have to do what u want them to do and some people might just dont wanna be bother wit a nigga that they knows that likes trannys..how can u get mad at them for that...and yeah they can dat tranny chasers for money and the whole nine but if they dont wanna deal wit one as a boyfriend then thats their perogative..its sounds like a double standard or hipacritical but thats how some girls like it..

see the tricks dont have the anger as bad ass da tranny chasers...all yall expect..to do is get some ass and shit for free..and u want a girl to look hot and u want all this and that........first and foremost none of yall dont even know the half about how much it cost to even be a tranny hormones are like 100 dollars a bottle hopefully u got a pharmacy plan..bitch grow hair on the face..then societying and judgeing plays a lot on the mental too..its sooooooooo much of a constant stuggle growing up wit all this in side of u..niggas to a constant trying to suck the life out of u...

but in ya mind u aint thinking about shit except damn thats a hot tranny i want some ass ...and she want some fucking money...shit..

what i dont understand is how can a nigga ask u for some ass right...and dont even know u like that..noffing about u..how ya bills gonna get paid or anything..and then get mad real mad cause u ask him for money and u dont even know him... and the funny thing ,,they know u a escort..

niggas really fuck the damn game up sometimes..

no offence homie but come on now..

[hwbs]

i have a few friends that are ts....they are real close friends of mine and have been for years....i date and so do they...it doesnt interfere with the friendship...U have to put something into the relationship to get something out of it

[kingjohnson008]

First time I am posting here. I have one actual TS that is a firend. The way we became friends is we worked together, and could not act on our attraction to each other. Every other TS that has called herself being my friend is simply another one that wants dick. Calling me when they want some, and that is fine with me.

[tsarielblue]

:? can't we all just get along.... :wink:

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

:? can't we all just get along.... :wink:

obviously not

look many of the guys on here want to have tgirls as friends
seems to me that alot of them don't know how to approach them
so here's a few ideas for thoughts..................

#1: treat all women the same!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
don't walk up to a woman (gg or ts) and say some dumb shit expecting to get laid.....................and don't think that TS' are gonna be easier to run a b.s. line on; cmon now..................I only say it because I've actually heard some guys try it and fail

#2: less is more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !
½ you guys would get the pussy (lol) if you did less talking, sometimes you talk yourself right out of the bed..........................

#3: talk about things OTHER THAN SEX
now that you have a TS as a friend, treat her like one; don't fuckin call up just to talk about sex, who you wanna fuck, how you wanna fuck........... talk about normal shit, movies, stock market (lol), weather, tv shows, etc.
hell go over and play video games if thats up in the air, anything but sex

and finally #4: Listerine......................................
do something about ya breath before you hang out (really with anyone). don't think because you are hanging out with a TS that you can forgo the mouthwash, uh uh, go buy those listerine strips or something

(lol had to throw that in)

[Man Fuck It]

yeah i guess double standards is ok in ts land...it's okay for my mans and them to possibly fuck you for 150 an hour or my boss to piss in your face for 300 but let a dude think another ts is fly and he wrong? kinda shit is that? you can fuck and suck whoever in the name of it being an alleged client but let me see another B***** and be like she cute and i'm wrong. ts are some tempermental beings yo, for real. ain't like shortie is wifey or like i gotta ring on a B***** finger. not like a dude was fucking two broads at the same time. I guess that's why the vast majority of ts are lonely. I think yawl got women beat on that perception vs. reality shit.

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^
that above does not have noffing to do wit me cause i dont have noffin do do wit it...i am just the middle girl..

u can call it what ever u want...as far as i am concern all of this shit is out of my hands it might be a double standered to u..but the funny part about it is u are the one thats doing the chasing...no one is chasing u..so with that i would suggest u play by the rules.. you are the one thats wanting to holla fuck or befriends ...u are the one thats putting ya fellings and what u want out of a person on the line...so if someone dont like the fact that u all on them and all on like 20 other trannys too and they choose not to deal then u cant fault them..u got to respect their mind and find someone that will...i mean u been chasing long enough by now u would think all this anger would be repressed...well maybe its not the trannys wit the problems maybe u need to sit down and really evaluate a self..

life aint fair baby..and people dont have to do what u want them to do and some people might just dont wanna be bother wit a N***** that they knows that likes trannys..how can u get mad at them for that...and yeah they can dat tranny chasers for money and the whole nine but if they dont wanna deal wit one as a boyfriend then thats their perogative..its sounds like a double standard or hipacritical but thats how some girls like it..

see the tricks dont have the anger as bad ass da tranny chasers...all yall expect..to do is get some ass and shit for free..and u want a girl to look hot and u want all this and that........first and foremost none of yall dont even know the half about how much it cost to even be a tranny hormones are like 100 dollars a bottle hopefully u got a pharmacy plan..B***** grow hair on the face..then societying and judgeing plays a lot on the mental too..its sooooooooo much of a constant stuggle growing up wit all this in side of u..N***** to a constant trying to suck the life out of u...

but in ya mind u aint thinking about shit except damn thats a hot tranny i want some ass ...and she want some fucking money...shit..

what i dont understand is how can a N***** ask u for some ass right...and dont even know u like that..noffing about u..how ya bills gonna get paid or anything..and then get mad real mad cause u ask him for money and u dont even know him... and the funny thing ,,they know u a escort..

N***** really fuck the damn game up sometimes..

no offence homie but come on now..


yo this isn't a personal attack on you or any of your girls, it's a statement in general. And really don't act like we never had indepth real convo's on some real shit and on some get money shit. You know what i'm talking about to. And you know I ain't that type of dude. I am all about building wealth and helping mofo's out. Some mofo's just get into new situations and forget about all that shit or have really selective memories...lol

it's all good though.
I ain't chasing no ts or woman.
As far as 'that' situation is concerned I wish the best for her and her hubby...take it as a loss and move on. Maybe when I was like 20 all that having broads jock me shit was cool but for real, i'm too old for that kind of shit. Sure I could fuck probably just about any woman or ts I want to but that shit ain't fun, not what i want. So I mean, for all this philisophical shit niggas kicking on her and theoretical righteousness being spit, bitches can save it. It's not that deep.

[Man Fuck It]

:? can't we all just get along.... :wink:

obviously not

look many of the guys on here want to have tgirls as friends
seems to me that alot of them don't know how to approach them
so here's a few ideas for thoughts..................

#1: treat all women the same!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
don't walk up to a woman (gg or ts) and say some dumb shit expecting to get laid.....................and don't think that TS' are gonna be easier to run a b.s. line on; cmon now..................I only say it because I've actually heard some guys try it and fail

#2: less is more!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !
½ you guys would get the pussy (lol) if you did less talking, sometimes you talk yourself right out of the bed..........................

#3: talk about things OTHER THAN SEX
now that you have a TS as a friend, treat her like one; don't fuckin call up just to talk about sex, who you wanna fuck, how you wanna fuck........... talk about normal shit, movies, stock market (lol), weather, tv shows, etc.
hell go over and play video games if thats up in the air, anything but sex

and finally #4: Listerine......................................
do something about ya breath before you hang out (really with anyone). don't think because you are hanging out with a TS that you can forgo the mouthwash, uh uh, go buy those listerine strips or something

(lol had to throw that in)


JW...it's not that simple chief.
I know guys can be friends with TS.
But those are usually gay guys.
Either shortie ends up thinking you just trying to get free ass or she thinks your a tranny chaser cause all her friends like you or one of them kissed you or gave you head. Keep in mind, you don't go with any of them. Switch that around, if it was a group of girls and you were the only guy and they came at you on some sex me up shit or give you head shit...would it be any different? Hell to the nawl.

[Thuggish_Intellect]

JW...it's not that simple chief.
I know guys can be friends with TS.
But those are usually gay guys.



I can see your point on this. Most TS prefer gay males as friends. Those guys who want guys who look like guys. The ones I know (TS) are more thirsty then me when it comes to booty calls. They only call me to smoke weed and lay some dick down. So I think it's unfair for TS to say that it's a guys fault because they want to fuck every TS they see who's pretty. Cause I know many TS with boyfriends who still fuck me when they need that good dick. :wink:

[SexxxyJade]

You need to stop your mess...u really do. bytches aint dumb.

[BADAZZBODY]

People in this life style just get the whole fuking game all twisted..Now coming from a bytch thats..been their done that..i know mad cunts..from county to strippers..and mad thugs from murders to the button down type and growing up in one of the hardest hoods in bmore, where niggas are so grimy..then coming out and being a tranny and shit and still get mad fuking respect from niggas anywhere i go..i dont do gay clubs and when i go out i see mad niggas and bitchs when i go out..and i get mad fucking respect no ridicule or anything..bytches niggas trying to holla and niggas suppose to be straight messing wit my gg friends trying to holla.. People just dont understand the game nor do they understand people and situations..and every one is different:

Being if most people would spend more time tring to get to know people...and shit things would be whole lot better...they see a pretty face some ass or what ever then they down for whateva...just because a girl is a hoe or escort doesnt mean that u cannot approach her as if she was a county working girl that drives a benz..i think we should all approach people as if they all the same..get to know someone..then when shit dont go ya way at the end all u can blame is ya self because..u gave it time to find out more not just jumping off a cliff head first..

Bitches and niggas always coming for advice as to how u do this how u do that what u say..and bacially...

i know how to differnentiate between my real life as a escort/ webmaster..and also as a cool homegirl or a girlfriend and always keep it real and i dont lie period..i use my sexuality when it comes to my clients or niggas i meet that are a potential one..next when it comes to homeboys or niggas thats trying to holla...thats all out the door..u dont mix business wit pleasure and u got to know how to work both sides of the table and be real and honest as u do both..

yes u can be friends wit a nigga..its easy u view ya homeboy as if he was one of ya homegirls...yall do the same stuff like u would wit a friends..niggas be getting signals cross and so do girls..

yes its mad dick hungry ass transsexuals out here..all they want is attention from men and get fucked all day..but in reality they men too and regular men do the same shit they wanna hit and miss on who eva..thats how people roll..but hey thats them i dont give a fuk about how people grind..i concentrate on me..what i have to do..

[canihavu]

When so called "straight" men start to realize that they're not straight, then maybe, just maybe they will be able to have a real friendship with one of us.

Interesting...

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

any of you old-schoolers remember this thread?
hehe
pushed alot of anger buttons

[TomSelis]

Damn, some how I missed this one.

[andyuk]

cause whenever you try to take them seriously on a friendship level they go and fuck it up...or certain broads get a little steady diet of stable dick (i.e. boyfriend/fuckbuddy) in they life and they totally forget about homeboy #1.

On a friendship level, onlike real broads, most TS friends won't give you the 'hookup' with one of her friends (they be on some jealous shit for no apparent reason)...
You can't talk to them like a real homegirl on some 'you really need a gameplan' shit cause they don't want to hear the truth.

So yeah, basically, i'm like fuck these hoes for real...1/2 them broads can't be trusted...which I guess makes them more woman than they could possibly comprehend :?


to be honest that is bullshit.

[TJ347]

Depends firstly on your definition of "straight", I'd say. That resolved, I'd say the statement is true in my experience. And why? Because the girl you meet doesn't stay that same girl for too long. That sweet, gentle flower blossoms all too often into a raving lunatic of a bitch, leaving you heading for the hills in short order, wondering what the fuck went wrong and whether you were in any way to blame for it.

At least that's been my experience. Your mileage, of course, may vary.

[slinky]

I'd say the statement is true in my experience. And why? Because the girl you meet doesn't stay that same girl for too long. That sweet, gentle flower blossoms all too often into a raving lunatic of a bitch, leaving you heading for the hills in short order, wondering what the fuck went wrong and whether you were in any way to blame for it.

At least that's been my experience. Your mileage, of course, may vary.

And how is this different from GG's?

Some of this discussion is about TS's, it's the same between guys and GG;s, or, more widely, any two people who are sexually attracted to each other: can they be "just friends" with the sexual tension involved? As a total sex addict, I can say it's difficult, but doable if you just try not to be as self centered as most people are.

[TJ347]

And how is this different from GG's?


An interesting question, Danny. As to an answer, I'd say it'd be the percentage chance of it happening with a TG versus a GG. I'd imagine it's higher with a TG based on my experience, though as I said, your experience may be different. Mine is what it is.

[RangeHova]

From what I have seen it can be hard for 'straight men' to be friends with TS women. The fault usually lays with the guy. If the friendship is only about friendship and not about the girl being his liaison to meet and hook up with other girls.

If you can't chill out with the girl w/o talking about this and that other girl, if you can chill with her outside of the club (not only in the house), and if she has no feelings for you then it can work.

I have several TS friends.

I will admit that the jealousy thing has crept in the picture on more than a few occasions. I have one friend that hates on 90% of the girls that I meet but I know the difference between her general jealousy and when she really means this is a girl that you need to run from.

I had one girl that hyped up her friend to me for a year, telling me how perfect we were for one another. The minute that she comes to town and we hit it off and begin a very serious long term relationship the HATE comes out. All of a sudden my friend starts throwing herself at me, walking around her place half nude, and making it seem to her friends like I'm cheating with her (w/o actually saying that).

There is just something about TS women and other TS women. It is worse than with GGs. The shadiness of the scene just adds to it.

I think any different gender friendship has its challenges.

[mbf]

@DannyP:

I can relate to that. with an attractive woman there will ALLWAYS be sexual-tension in a "friendship", admit it or not. therefore, I say its hard to maintain such an arrangement. can be done with a woman who , well, is beeing liked mainly for her beautiful character....


but to elaborate the OPs question further, lets start with a definition of "friendship" first:

to me, friendship means, that you - the friend - will be there especially on rainy days, help when things are tough.

that you will give good advice,

tell the truth even when it hurts (and the thruth pretty much hurts all the time)

will stick up for your friend, when necessary.


@TJ:

yes, these are experiences which are not uncommon. you see the lovely down to earth tgirl, who - as time marches on - becomes the

DIVA.


as such, she will likely remove real friends (people that will provide what I stated above) in order to recruit an army of Yes-Men.

as time marches on, the DIVA will be more and more immune to constructive criticism, even more so, will consider that a personal attack.

usually with all that comes almost inevitably a drastic boost of her ego. inevitable, because the yes-men are unwilling and/or unable to pass on a genuine, heartfelt judgement other than "oh youre so great, lemme drink ur bathing wather"

sooner or later, the DIVA lives on planet diva.

(a sidenote: a diva neednt be a TS, divas are also male, or the CEO of a company. )

but from the moment planet diva is beeing inhabitated, doom is around the corner. namely, when real life strikes back, in whatever form (nervous breakdown, drug abuse, an accident etc.) the yes-men usually recede in high numbers if clouds come up, and chances are high the DIVA will have pissed off all her old friends so much she will be left in the cold in all her new-found misery.

[TrueBeauty TS]

I have no problems being friends with straight guys. REAL straight guys too, not the pretend ones around here. LOL


:lol:



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[dan_drade]

LOL Men can never have a girls as a "just a friend" type of realtionship. The guy will always fuck that up becasue he will eventually want to have sex with her. And it happens every single time. I don't care if the girl is a GG or a TG. The only exeption to that rule is if the girl is extremely ugly or the girl is your mother or sister or something like that.

[Man Fuck It]

Talk about blast from the past, made me come out of creep mode

[Man Fuck It]

I have no problems being friends with straight guys. REAL straight guys too, not the pretend ones around here. LOL


:lol:



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See this the type of catty bitch shit i'm talking about. If I were a lesser dude, i'd say i'm no less a straight guy than you are a gay guy, but I won't :D How is that it's OK for you to label yourself as a transsexual woman but not OK for a guy who's into you to identify themselves as a straight male? That's that shit right there

[hwbs]

its all good man fuckit...u can just tell those hecklers to massage those fuckin nuts with their chin...fuck, there goes that nice guy award ...ohh well congrats to the other steve guttenbergs !!!!

[TrueBeauty TS]

I have no problems being friends with straight guys. REAL straight guys too, not the pretend ones around here. LOL


:lol:



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See this the type of catty bitch shit i'm talking about. If I were a lesser dude, i'd say i'm no less a straight guy than you are a gay guy, but I won't :D How is that it's OK for you to label yourself as a transsexual woman but not OK for a guy who's into you to identify themselves as a straight male? That's that shit right there


Wow....!!!! Got a chip on your shoulder? :shock:

Back off a little, dude. Maybe you didn't see the "LOL" and the :D that usually means that the person is joking or jesting.

(And if you were really secure in your sexual identity, it wouldn't matter what anyone calls you.)


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[andyuk]

its all about respect at the end of the day.
the guys who are sex mad,could never be just friends with a girl i agree.

[TJ347]

Exactly right, mbf. Of course, you do realize that your eligibility for the "HA Nice Guy" award is in serious jeopardy should it get out you're saying things like that, right?

[downblow]

When so called "straight" men start to realize that they're not straight, then maybe, just maybe they will be able to have a real friendship with one of us.

Why can't a straight male be just friends with a t-girl without being considered a "closeted person"?

[mbf]

Exactly right, mbf. Of course, you do realize that your eligibility for the "HA Nice Guy" award is in serious jeopardy should it get out you're saying things like that, right?

TJ,

someone not willing to even listen to what you say in all honesty one could muster isnt worth the effort in the end. I have had such incidents in RL and online - and if that makes me look like the ass (that I probably am) so be it.

as for the award: next person that nominates me gets a kick in their teeth :lol:

[MacShreach]

Talk about blast from the past, made me come out of creep mode

Good to see you back Man Fuck It. When I saw your name for a moment there I thought I'd opened one of the threads JWBL's been exhuming.

[francisfkudrow]

I don't know about where you guys are from, but here in Central Pennsylvania, the line between "straight" and "homophobic" is pretty vague. 80% of the people who are straight are both, and thus couldn't possibly have a TS friend.

But for the remaining 20% it is possible. I actually used to know a straight guy who had a TS friend. Admittedly she was a former classmate of his, so he knew her when she was a guy, but still they stayed friends, which is cool.

[GIA LOVES RON]

I have a good amount of straight men that are platonic in relation. But most of them doesn't know about my past and I intend to keep it that way. As long as we're good friends that is all that matters. They have no bearing on my past, it doesn't have anything to do with friendship.

[Danielle Foxxx]

Because they chose not to...

[Caleigh]

Creepy image Danielle :)


About half of my friends are guys, the majority straight
and even though they know that I'm TS what I'm actually
surprised about is that they all kiss me on the lips when
we greet each other. No tongues, but a brother/sister kind
of kiss on the lips. I'm pretty sure none of them really want
to get with me (if any mention that they do I'm down with that) but what we do have is a really good friendship.

[Caleigh]

^
^
^
what she said

(accidental double post)

[GIA LOVES RON]

Creepy image Danielle :)


About half of my friends are guys, the majority straight
and even though they know that I'm TS what I'm actually
surprised about is that they all kiss me on the lips when
we greet each other. No tongues, but a brother/sister kind
of kiss on the lips. I'm pretty sure none of them really want
to get with me (if any mention that they do I'm down with that) but what we do have is a really good friendship.

This is very nice to hear coming from another ts girl like you Caleigh. Hope you find more genuine straight friends. When it boils down to it, detaching yourself from your sexuality and gender just to be real friends with real people whether they are ts, gg, men, gays, pansexual, metrosexual or whatever label is something that I find very brave and secure about themselves. Just because you have a transsexual friend doesn't mean your a fag or whatever people call nowadays. A friend is a friend and that is all there is to it. Your friends doesn't define who you are as an individual! HA!

[sdman]

When so called "straight" men start to realize that they're not straight, then maybe, just maybe they will be able to have a real friendship with one of us.

what in the heck are you talking about?

[OEMEnemyNum1]

I gotta wonder is there can't a damn grey region between gay and straight. Why is everything black and white.


I couldn't stand a straight up dude. I'd be like "dude you look just like me". I don't love myself that much.........Well.......

[yodajazz]

I've had few women that I was just friends with, that I suddenly felt a sexual attraction due to circmstances. But the other part of that is that I never acted on it, so we remained friends. The sexual part will go away if you don't act upon, although it may take years in some cases.

Another thing that was brought up earlier was the jealously of women. My SO knows that a heterosexual man is going to want to look at an attractive woman especially one that is dressed sexually. I will pretend not to look and she will say; "go on, I know you want to look". She is secure enough to know the difference in just looking and pursuing someone else. But even looking can go overboard if a man is not paying attention to his girl. I've done that too.

[canihavu]

When so called "straight" men start to realize that they're not straight, then maybe, just maybe they will be able to have a real friendship with one of us.

Interesting comment.

[Trogdor]

LOL Men can never have a girls as a "just a friend" type of realtionship. The guy will always fuck that up becasue he will eventually want to have sex with her. And it happens every single time. I don't care if the girl is a GG or a TG. The only exeption to that rule is if the girl is extremely ugly or the girl is your mother or sister or something like that.

THANK YOU. My problem is the oppsite.....I am not looking for mere friends...I'm looking for stuff well beyond that, but get left with the short end of the stick in the friendship zone. ~plays scary horror music~

I myself am NOT looking for any more friendships. Smeg, I got so many female friends ( and no lovers ), that it's embarrasing. :? And some complain of not having mere friendships......hard to believe.

I got folks always asking me, "Are you one of those closet gays?" or "You going to be a monk?"


Yes, only reasons why a dude would not wanna hop into bed with a chick is:

1: He's a homosexual.
2: He does not find you attractive.
3: He's with a chick much hotter than you are.
4: You're related to him.

I mean it.....get a hot chick, have her rip of her clothes or walk in, wearing just lingerie and high heels, and see if the dude in the same room goes,

"You're hot, and I dig you alot, but can't we just be friends? I'd hate to risk destroying the beautiful thing we have going on now!"

I'll eat a #2 sandwhich if a dude actually says that. :P

[Helvis2012]

Weird.......strange.

[jordyd19]

I know I'm bi wanna hang out ladies?

[Mz.Brownsugah]

I'm friend with a straight male that I've know since before transtioning. Although sometimes he can be a bitch, he's still my homie.

[bulldog]

wtf.....hell of a fuckin wierd way to resurrect this thread......


and I remember this, was lurkin under guest back then, was almost tempted to actually register JUST to reply to this thread, everyone go really fuckin pissed at a lot of people over this thread

[themadhatter]

im not understanding this one?

[Willie Escalade]

I'm friends with some superstars. Doesn't mean I want to fuck them all...and I don't. Real talk.

[OEMEnemyNum1]

I'm friends with some superstars. Doesn't mean I want to fuck them all...and I don't. Real talk.

But you would Willie :)

[Jackal]

I think being platonic friends with an attractive woman, be she GG or TG, can be a great experience.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

cause whenever you try to take them seriously on a friendship level they go and fuck it up...or certain broads get a little steady diet of stable dick (i.e. boyfriend/fuckbuddy) in they life and they totally forget about homeboy #1.

On a friendship level, onlike real broads, most TS friends won't give you the 'hookup' with one of her friends (they be on some jealous shit for no apparent reason)...
You can't talk to them like a real homegirl on some 'you really need a gameplan' shit cause they don't want to hear the truth.

So yeah, basically, i'm like fuck these hoes for real...1/2 them broads can't be trusted...which I guess makes them more woman than they could possibly comprehend :?


I want to know just where the fuck you learned how to speak English???

[fred41]

I want to know just where the fuck you learned how to speak English???

considering that he posted this in 2005 ...you may never find that out.

[CORVETTEDUDE]

considering that he posted this in 2005 ...you may never find that out.

Point taken....didn't notice that, thanks Fred.:hide-1:

[alyssaluxor]

I love straight guys! They always FUCK me so good! Uhmmm!

[Jackal]

I love Alyssa, she is so beautiful and fine!

[CORVETTEDUDE]

I love straight guys! They always FUCK me so good! Uhmmm!

This 'straight' guy loves you, too!!!:Bowdown::dancing:

[Boardwalkempire]

I love straight guys! They always FUCK me so good! Uhmmm!

Then show us straight guys some good lovin Alyssa

Post a pic up lol

[alyssaluxor]

I love Alyssa, she is so beautiful and fine!


This 'straight' guy loves you, too!!!:Bowdown::dancing:

I love Jackal and Corvettedude very horny guys who loves to FUCK me a lot! :jerkoff

[T$420]

Of course we can be just friends with ts women, why wouldn't we? You just have to establish it from the jump, just like any other female, you can't be misleading and try to fuck them. I am just friends with a couple of ts women and there are no issues at all...people are people, if you treat them with respect & are cool, its all good....

[Infern0]

That's bullshit, I can be friends with whoever the fuck I want, even if TS women were not on my radar sexually, I'd still be friends with them, I mean i have gay friends and i'm not gay, i have black friends and i'm not black.

only group of ppl i rule out as friends is the welsh

J/K

[CORVETTEDUDE]

I love Jackal and Corvettedude very horny guys who loves to FUCK me a lot! :jerkoff


And, you know dat!!!!:dancing::dancing::dancing:

[Bmoredominican]

damn they used to get it popping on hung angels back in the day...what happened? lmao :confused:

[smartsense]

From my understanding its possible. I know of a guy that was told after the girl revealed that she was with a TG. He was shocked to say the least, but he ended up being cool about it. They became friends, hung out, and He even helped her move I think with no sex strings attached.

[tsnajwa]

I think any two people can be friends.. it's just a matter of whether they're compatible as friends to begin with or not.
On that topic I have many straight male friends.. I've put every single one of them in the friend zone because I really just want guy friends I can hang out with and play video games with to unwind. Sometimes they can take that spending time as something a little more than friendship but I make it known nothing physicl is going to happen..
It just takes a certain type of guy and a certain type of girl to be good friends.