Telephone conversations with Tgirl

[tgirloverct]

I see a lot of post up here where guys say they talked to this Tgirl or another on the phone and she was "sweet", "cool" etc,,etc. I'm actually questioning that. because I've called several numbers and the only thing I get is all business,,like,,"just call me an hour before you are ready for an appointment",,or,,,"call back when you are in town".
That to me is somewhat of a turn-off,,,because like anything else,,,I'd like to at least have a general conversation with the person and see where they are coming from,,and vice-versa. Yeah,,,,I know the bottom line is that I'm tricking and going to be spending money,,,,but it seems like they would want to have a conversation as well,,,,to make me feel comfortable and to want to come spend my time and money with them. Also,,,this to me kind of relates to one of the other threads regarding HIV etc,,,because if you have a conversation,,,openly like we should be able to since it is really a business/pleasure deal,,,then we can have a brief oepn conversation (if deemed appropiate),,about what kind of people we are in general and that can help gage whether this person is the right one for me to hook up with. You never know,,,,but at least a nice conversation will help.
Is it just me,,,or is there some sort of telephone ettiqutte or buzz words I should know about when calling these cuties? The bottom line for me is that I am not desperate. Yeah,,I want to hook up with a nice,,beautiful big-cocked girl,,,but I'm not showing up at somebody's door or hotel room with my money without having at least a basic conversation with them.

[SexxxyJade]

Hi tgirlloverct, Im Jada, just thought I'd intorduce myself since I was the first one to reply to yiu thread. Anyway....
This has been said many times before and I will reiterate. True we are providers, we run ads and take clients as a profession, but we are also everyday people too. And we deal with everyday life situations. Our day doesn't go well all the time just because we are escorting. Girls have family issues, hormone stress, all types of problems which may cause them to be not so friendly over the phone. Then why answer your phone during these times? you ask. Well just because we're having a bad day doesn't mean we dont have to eat. Just because your having a bad day you still have to go to work right.
Personally I try to keep my cool and stay as friendly as possible over the phone, but I'm sure you understand that every guy that calls us isnt as sincere or as serious as you may be. We get alot of prank calls, alot of assholes, and alot of pure bullshyt on a daily basis. Alot of guys call us and ask us the very same questions that can be answered if they simply read our ads. How big are you? What size breast do you have? What is you rate? Some guy even asked me once what I looked like. wow! Also alot of girls get perturbed when a client calls her, thats not in her same city. Some one calls her from the other side of the country asking all types of questions when her main focus is on dealing with immediate local clients.
In my opinion the best way to communicate with a girl ( myself personally) is thru email. I'm at the computer at least 10 hrs a day and dont mind typing my azz off. Its true some girls don;t have email addresses, but you should try your best shot at the ones that do and trust me you will get a much more friendly response than using up her daytime minutes. When finding a provider it is always good to choose someone who has online reviews, verified photos ( when dealing with eros), email addresses, and websites. This lets you know that the girl is established,, and what she is all about.
I understand you wanting to call and converstae with your girl before seeing her, but it is your job as the seeker to research, and get all information about your provider before you see her. The information is out there trust me, if she is a serious provider. I hope this helps you and wish you nothing but success in the future when finding that right girl.
Kisses

[gaiseric]

Maybe it's a US thing - I've never had a problem talking on the phone to any of the girls that I see in London. :) I do sometimes send an e-mail first to say what I'm looking for and then I can refer to that when I ring up. The only negative I've had is when I wanted a 2 hour session and the girl I was speaking to said she only did 1 hour slots, :( so I said I'd ring her back. Other than that, no problemo. Mind you, these days I tend to restrict myself to a small number of girls - 3 or 4 - and that helps to build up a rapport. :D

[flabbybody]

you're right gaiseric about knowing a small group of girls. All the anxiety over calling a stranger is removed if you've already seen the girl and came (bad pun) away happy. Girls treat the regulars that they like real good. When you chase after every new pretty face on eros, you're setting yourself up for agro.

[tgirloverct]

Thanks for the responses,,especially you Sexxyjade,,I appreciate it,,,and I think in many ways you help make my point. I have a regular life as well,,and I'm also a business man,,,,so the best way to conduct business,,especially in this arena is to at least show that you value the customer and you want him/her to feel like you are cool and not about playing games,,becuase that can go both ways. I undersatnd that allot og guys might call just to bullshit or ask dumb and obvious questions,,,not me. I call because I want to get to know just a little more about how you vibe and flow before I decide to further pursue you. I also feel like if you want to be treated like the lady you say you are,,,you will aprreciate that. It's called basic socialism,,happens all the time. I mean,,,there's plenty of nice looking GG's that are fine as hell,,,but after a brief conversation with them I wouldn't give them the time of day,,let alone spend any money with them. You know what I mean.

[Ecstatic]

Jada, gaiseric and flabbybody all make excellent points, tgirloverct. The biggest factor in "cold calling" any girl (here in the states, anyway) is the sheer volume of calls they get, coupled as Jada says with the repetitive (and often demeaning even if unintentionally so) nature of the questions. Some girls have told me that 90% of phone calls go nowhere. Sure, they try to be polite, but they also want to keep things short so they can get back to business at hand. Sometimes I'll linger with a girl I know well past the allotted hour, just chatting, and she'll answer her phone while we're chatting (but never during the session itself). I've heard the one side of the conversation many times this way, and it so often goes like this: "yes, I'm in town, baby." "$$$, baby." "I'm six and a half inches (or whatever), sweetie." and on and on. You can hear the sigh in her voice as she answers these questions for the 20th time that day.

But when you get to know a girl, then she may get much more relaxed. Some girls like to talk, some don't, and any girl might be busy any given time you call. But once you get to know her, and you have established a rapport, then she'll be much more likely to talk. There are girls I can call up or IM and we'll chat for a half hour or an hour because we know each other so well. But that takes time.

When you're "cold calling," be polite and respect her time and her character. Don't ask questions answered in her ad or which are too personal (some girls are ok with very explicit questions, others are very uncomfortable with those same questions). Tell her where you saw her ad or if someone recommended you, tell her your name and maybe what you do. Don't call if you just want to spin your wheels and really don't intend to follow through (at least not until you get to know her).