Who could have been a 'Gurl' ???

[steviedresses]

My wife knows I like looking at tgirl porn on the internet... (Did not clear my browser.. Stupid me) She thinks it is because I want to be WITH a tgirl. She doesn't understand I want to BE a tgirl. I've been crossdressing since I was 12. Now I'm 47.

I sometimes think that if I was 16 today I would start taking hormones and make the transformation.

I have a question for the older men who frequent this site. If you were born in 1990, would you be a tgirl today? I think I would be... Mainly because I grew up in a small town where such things were strictly taboo in the 70s' and I did not have the huge influence of the internet... Or am I just full of shit and just didn't have the balls to do it?

[francisfkudrow]

It is very likely. There was a period in my life when I wasn't sure that I was really meant to be a guy.

Also, I was very depressed and lonely at age 17 (the age I'd be now if I had been born in 1990). Given that being a guy wasn't working out for me, if I had known that it was feasible to become a girl, I very likely would have given it a shot.

[scroller]

Would also have had to grow up in a different region and family. Even 1990+ most places I think that's still impossible to really conceive.

[Fox]

Or am I just full of shit and just didn't have the balls to do it?

Apparently, you do have the balls. :wink:

[thefrakkincaptain]

As much as I adore tgirls. There's no way I'd be one. I'm attracted to them (almost solely) but I could never take that step. I see myself as a (mostly) straight man. If that's what you want, though, more power to you.

[js_tgirl]

I share steviedresses' sentiment.

Although I did not grow up in a small town, before the advent of the internet as we know it (c.1996), there were very few venues for minors to be exposed to the transgender lifestyle. You were typically too young to get into gay clubs that might have had drag performers, and too young to get into adult bookstores as well (again, usually). My first exposure to any kind of tgirl imagery took the form a small (and lame) advertisement in the back of one of my uncle's porn magazines.

I always sensed that my childhood and youthful dallying with boys was more than being bisexual, with which I identify to this day. But not having a since of identity, of being able to understand where I fit in along the fluid spectrum of gender identity was somewhat confusing and disconcerting back then. Once I became old (and bold) enough to venture into adult bookstores, I discovered TS/TV magazines and finally knew where I fell and how I identify. However, I was then in my 20s and passed what I now realize was the optimal time to transition (i.e., early to mid teen years, puberty).

Sure, many transwomen transitiion when they're fully adults, some beyond 30 or even 40. For example, I have a dear friend back in Ohio who is 37 and just had her name changed legally and has been on 'mones for a few years now, etc. But again, my life had already taken certain paths that has made it quite different than what it would have been had I had:


-knowledge/awareness of the transgender lifestyle
-access and sound guidance to hormone therapy
-the realization (and support) that it would have been my right to transition


Anyhow, thanks again for posting this thread since I suspect that there are a lot of other folks on here that share some similar experiences and ideas.

~Jacqueline

P.S. Here are some of me. Again, I always wonder how I would look had I started hormone therapy as a teen and gotten breast implants and consider it still.

[Pepa_e_Mango]

You are a very pretty lady!

[mikejones]

I have no interest in being a Tgirl. I like to fuck them.

I like Tgirls that are super fem and passive. Tgirls turn me on because many of them are even more feminine and passive than GGs. They are the perferct women.

[mrbig]

I have a question for the older men who frequent this site. If you were born in 1990, would you be a tgirl today?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uIp8VXiWecQ

mrbig

[Justawannabe]

Hard question to answer... to many variables...

I think I would have tried, even though I've never even tried dressing as the opposite gender. Was always about the skin in with me, and you only get one shot at doing the transition thing right. Trying and going back is much more viable than going late...

My identity split into halves when I was young and realized I wasn't going to grow up to be who I thought. I don't object to the man I grew into, I'm just not sure he and I are really the same person at times.

Eh, too complicated for an internet post.

Sean

[soulRipp]

why get married if you wanted to be a tgirl. why put your wife and if you have kids throught that.

[rickie]

Beeing a t-girl would have been the right sollution for me if the chance was given at right time. I would have been more comfortable with that in relation to my personality.

[Willie Escalade]

As much as I adore tgirls. There's no way I'd be one. I'm attracted to them (almost solely) but I could never take that step. I see myself as a (mostly) straight man.
This is how I feel, but more power to you none the less.