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Hara_Juku Tgirl
09-06-2008, 02:13 PM
Or a switch and why or why not?

~Kisses.

HTG

MonsieurValentine
09-06-2008, 03:19 PM
Dominant. I like control.

kellymann69
09-06-2008, 03:51 PM
i can be either, i guess it has alot to do with the personality of the person im with.some have more dominate personalitys than others but, i have no problem letting a sexxy ts take the lead:)

william.howl
09-06-2008, 04:06 PM
always submissive

Takingbackme
09-06-2008, 04:16 PM
Deffinatly both! More fun that way!

switchnyc
09-06-2008, 04:24 PM
Switch!!!

You have to experience one to truly appreciate the other!

JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
09-06-2008, 04:40 PM
dominant: wouldn't have a choice even if i wanted due to skintone

ARMANIXXX
09-06-2008, 04:54 PM
dominant: wouldn't have a choice even if i wanted due to skintone



Feel you.

JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
09-06-2008, 05:01 PM
dominant: wouldn't have a choice even if i wanted due to skintone



Feel you.

http://www.iolani.org/upload/image.jpg

saifan
09-06-2008, 05:07 PM
Dominant.

Haven't really been with anyone who wanted it any other way.

Alyssa87
09-06-2008, 05:29 PM
i'm ALONE in my bedroom. lolhttp://l.yimg.com/us.yimg.com/i/mesg/emoticons7/30.gif

unctrld1
09-06-2008, 06:45 PM
dominant: wouldn't have a choice even if i wanted due to skintone



Feel you.

http://www.iolani.org/upload/image.jpg

Word . . . . Life

sheyum
09-06-2008, 07:48 PM
no choice due to skintone???
wtf does that mean???

blckhaze
09-06-2008, 07:50 PM
dominant: wouldn't have a choice even if i wanted due to skintone



Feel you.

http://www.iolani.org/upload/image.jpg

yall a trip
LMAO

OEMEnemyNum1
09-06-2008, 08:00 PM
Dom dom dom..........

sheyum
09-06-2008, 08:08 PM
so funny to me how people seem to feel the need to prove them selves DOMINANTTTTT!!!!!


lol

2754tim
09-06-2008, 08:52 PM
Dom...As You Well Know And Have Experienced Hara

NYBURBS
09-06-2008, 09:13 PM
Or a switch and why or why not?

~Kisses.

HTG

Switch, because it's all about having fun. A lot depends on chemistry, and always playing the same role gets old.

Ballgagg
09-06-2008, 11:15 PM
Or a switch and why or why not?

~Kisses.

HTG

Dominant Male!

why, thats who I am.

StaggerLee
09-06-2008, 11:40 PM
Dominant. It's not any kind of statement about anyone else, no need to get defensive. To each his own, right? I prefer the traditional male/female roles in the bedroom, be it with a gg or ts.

Nowhereboy
09-07-2008, 12:12 AM
I guess I am in the wrong place, not the dominant type in the bedroom, just little (okay, not so little) old submissive me

south09
09-07-2008, 01:19 AM
Dominant, with the occasional (rare) style switch.

I'm not aggressive, but assertive.

LTR_Seeker
09-07-2008, 01:51 AM
I really enjoy having the woman below me

absolutecarla
09-07-2008, 03:43 AM
submissive

Wino the SuperHero
09-07-2008, 07:28 AM
Dominant.
I like to seduce.
So women usually want me to take the lead in sex.

SarahG
09-07-2008, 07:34 AM
If into sub/dom roles at all with someone, I'm always a sub.

TsJennifer
09-07-2008, 07:49 AM
I love doing both. My moods change. Theres a few days i feel like being a total bottom and then theres days Im in a total top mood. You could ask my Bf about that....lol You can always tell the days im in a top mood cause my bf walks funny...lol

sheyum
09-07-2008, 08:16 AM
please jennifer--youre killing me with this talk
and who is that lucky fuck boyfriend of yours??
tell us about him---we want to know--(or at least I do) what kind of guy gets a jennifer paris--and what kind of guy a j paris goes for..
seriously--it would be really interesting...
whats he like? whats he into? what does he look like? how old is he?
lets get the profile...

Quiet Reflections
09-07-2008, 09:55 AM
it depends on the person im with. 60/40 dom

Ren_Ludwig
09-07-2008, 10:03 AM
o

panty princess
09-07-2008, 03:05 PM
Submissive!

mikejones
09-07-2008, 03:16 PM
Dominant. A submissive partner is a turn on sexually. This is part of what makes them desirable for me.

Justawannabe
09-07-2008, 03:25 PM
Depends who I'm with. I like both roles, but in some ways it's what the other person draws out of me. Sadly I've never found another Switch to play with, only folks who play one side of the coin or the other.

To Jennifer... sheyum has a point... give us some insight into your guy. What type does get your attention, it would be enlightening.

To way back at the beginning, I feel ya Alyssa... right now I'm not with anyone... sad sad day it's become...


Sean

hwbs
09-08-2008, 12:36 AM
please jennifer--youre killing me with this talk
and who is that lucky fuck boyfriend of yours??
tell us about him---we want to know--(or at least I do) what kind of guy gets a jennifer paris--and what kind of guy a j paris goes for..
seriously--it would be really interesting...
whats he like? whats he into? what does he look like? how old is he?
lets get the profile...

met him...real nice guy...

chrisraid3
09-08-2008, 12:41 AM
a switch

slinky
09-08-2008, 02:20 AM
You can always tell the days im in a top mood cause my bf walks funny...lol

I thought it was just the bowling shoes.

sheyum
09-08-2008, 03:03 AM
Skintone, meaning race.


no choice due to skintone???
wtf does that mean???


I still have NO fucking idea what youre talking about!! You have no choice whether to be dom or sub due to your race??? what does that MEAN?
this is 2008--Barack Obama is gonna be our next president...
what race are you--and what does that imply???

SarahG
09-08-2008, 03:07 AM
Skintone, meaning race.


no choice due to skintone???
wtf does that mean???


I still have NO fucking idea what youre talking about!! You have no choice whether to be dom or sub due to your race??? what does that MEAN?
this is 2008--Barack Obama is gonna be our next president...
what race are you--and what does that imply???

No, I get what he means entirely. I know a girl fairly well who is a professional dom (as in she does paid sessions but doesn't escort, she also is not trans btw) and she's had friends explain that it doesn't feel right to them to sub in role playing because being black while being called "slave" acts as a turn off, but dom'ing with the same person doesn't act as a sexual turn off because its not hitting that close to home.

Entirely understandable IMHO, everyone has their own unique turn ons/turn offs, as long as they're not hurting anyone who cares what works for them.

Just my 2¢

sheyum
09-08-2008, 03:14 AM
still dont get it

all of sex is roleplay in a way--and Im sure there are plenty of Black people---men and women--who enjoy the sub role--without bringng slavery into the discussion!


wouldnt you say?

SarahG
09-08-2008, 03:18 AM
still dont get it

all of sex is roleplay in a way--and Im sure there are plenty of Black people---men and women--who enjoy the sub role--without bringng slavery into the discussion!


wouldnt you say?

What do you think about nazi or holocaust role playing then? What do you think of Mosley's bust in the UK in that genre?

For most situations I agree, BDSM is just a type of sexual role playing, nothing to read into. But there are times where, because of who the participants are or what the participants gut feelings are towards a scene, it may change the dynamics to the point where it just "isn't a turn on"

No one here is saying, as far as I can tell, that someone allowing someone black to sub is "racist"

Justawannabe
09-08-2008, 03:46 AM
No, but a lot like the gut reactions to 'fag' and 'your gay' comments on here, it can open up issues that shouldn't matter to the individual but do, because of a lifetime of social programming. Very few people can completely rise above the atmosphere they grew up around.

Sean

SoCaliDude
09-08-2008, 03:50 AM
Giving and taking is always good but it really depends on the girl. I like to accommodate my partner.

blckhaze
09-08-2008, 04:13 AM
while keepin alll that slave shit outta this, Ill say this.

Most brothas aint into being the catcher, let alone into being he one not in control on a regular basis. Its a culture thing, going back to childhood. black boys are raised to take control. period point blank. whethers its in school, on the bball court, and especially in relationships, We the head, end of story. All that soap opera shit is a farce. Now you got exceptions, just like every where, but the few and far between, unless its behind closed doors. Now you do have black guys who bottom for the girls(i do if Im in a LTR), but not as often as you see other people switch hitting.

hwbs
09-08-2008, 04:16 AM
does putting the girl in a camel clutch count as dominant hahahaha

blckhaze
09-08-2008, 04:19 AM
does putting the girl in a camel clutch count as dominant hahahaha

as long she giving u a reach around
ROFL

Justawannabe
09-08-2008, 06:38 AM
Thought I said it was cultural... but yeah... he's in a better position to say than me...

Sean

salvador
09-08-2008, 06:48 AM
Not really interested in being poked :P

At least I don't think so :lol: :lol: :lol:

Alaska Guy
09-08-2008, 11:06 AM
I'm mostly dominant, but being submissive is hot too! Being submissive for me is linked to me feeling a trust/chemistry/bond, and loving that I can fulfill pleasure for her in a different way.

So if I had a gf that loved to take control, I would be happy to oblige. That's why I want a girl that truly enjoys both, to me that is so much more,but that's just me. Oh yea, and this only applies to tgirls. Period. lolz!

ps. Jennifer Paris, that's hot as hell!

Alaska Guy
09-08-2008, 11:43 AM
please jennifer--youre killing me with this talk
and who is that lucky fuck boyfriend of yours??
tell us about him---we want to know--(or at least I do) what kind of guy gets a jennifer paris--and what kind of guy a j paris goes for..
seriously--it would be really interesting...
whats he like? whats he into? what does he look like? how old is he?
lets get the profile...

For those who are wondering, here is the profile of Jennifer Paris's bf: (i.e. one lucky S.O.B.! lol)


*NOTE: the man in the pic may not be her actual boyfriend :lol:

http://www.michigan.gov/images/lottery/20080617-57000000MegaMillions-FredTopous_238450_7.jpg

theplaymaker
09-08-2008, 11:49 AM
Both (switch)..both have to enjoy being either dominant or submissive:)

francisfkudrow
09-08-2008, 05:24 PM
I'm about 80% submissive, 20% dominant, but I'm too much of a nice guy to be a really good dominant.

ARMANIXXX
09-08-2008, 06:31 PM
I'm more of a top,

But I can, have, and will bottom for said ts girl if she likes/wants to.


But I'm not a sub.


There's a difference between bottoming and subbing.....2 different things that I'm not sure that everyone gets.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
09-08-2008, 06:39 PM
Dominant. A submissive partner is a turn on sexually. This is part of what makes them desirable for me.

I feel the same way..so I switch for the right guy ;)

And for the record, Being submissive doesn't necessarily translate to you being a bottom and vice versa. Like Armanix has said, those are two different things.

~Kisses.

HTG

sugdaddie69
09-09-2008, 04:21 AM
Switch.It depends on my partner.For a long time total Dom.I love spanking women,talking dirty,hair pulling,etc.Then i fucked around some years ago and let a friend of mine,who is a pro-domme spank my ass,talk dirty to me,i shave my head,so she didn't have hair to pull,lol.But i fell in love with my submissive side.I have to be in control at work,and
in my personal life.Its nice to hand control over to someone else for a change.

a994
09-09-2008, 06:57 AM
I can be either with the woman I love, but I find my energies swinging more toward the dominant side as time goes on.

a994
09-09-2008, 07:01 AM
Dominant. A submissive partner is a turn on sexually. This is part of what makes them desirable for me.

I feel the same way..so I switch for the right guy ;)

And for the record, Being domme doesn't necessarily translate to you being a bottom and vice versa. Like Armanix has said, those are two different things.


Fine with me, Hara. That would just give me more chances to enjoy your breasts and your fine behind. :D

theplaymaker
09-09-2008, 11:38 AM
Dominant. A submissive partner is a turn on sexually. This is part of what makes them desirable for me.

I feel the same way..so I switch for the right guy ;)

And for the record, Being submissive doesn't necessarily translate to you being a bottom and vice versa. Like Armanix has said, those are two different things.

~Kisses.

HTG

Perfectly said...being submissive dosent mean specially being bottom and being dominant dosent mean specially being top....specially cause you can dominate from bottom also ...and being submissive on top :D ...got it?!

Hara_Juku Tgirl
09-10-2008, 05:50 AM
Fine with me, Hara. That would just give me more chances to enjoy your breasts and your fine behind. :D

Well then, worship away! lol ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

anonymoussonny
09-10-2008, 07:17 AM
Dominant and Proud!

brickcitybrother
09-10-2008, 10:22 AM
Dominant, but considerate.

Prospero
09-12-2008, 10:49 AM
Whoah... careful talking about the Mosley case in the UK. he won a court case after there were claims his games had a nazi theme.
Re domme and sub - its interesting that most of the guys say they're domme, most of the t-girls (not all) say they're sub.
Me... well check my avatar. I do like to top eventually, but I just LOVE well endowed and gorgeous girls who'll take control. That's part of the attraction. With GGs its the other way around.

theplaymaker
09-12-2008, 12:24 PM
Whoah... careful talking about the Mosley case in the UK. he won a court case after there were claims his games had a nazi theme.
Re domme and sub - its interesting that most of the guys say they're domme, most of the t-girls (not all) say they're sub.
Me... well check my avatar. I do like to top eventually, but I just LOVE well endowed and gorgeous girls who'll take control. That's part of the attraction. With GGs its the other way around.

Never got the chance to experience that..but sure I would Love It also...so well put it Prospero :)...with GGs we always get the same...this should be wonderful for a guy to experience with a T-Girl at least once in his life ...i think...I should defenetlly try it to :)

Human-After-All
09-12-2008, 04:36 PM
Most of the time I like to be dominant, but it does depend, a girl like Vaniity for example, she would most definitely make me her bitch.

ptyseminole
09-14-2008, 01:00 AM
Dominant...sometimes...

ChicagoTbone
10-12-2009, 06:38 AM
i could go either way. For me if the Ts has skills as a dom, i am on the bottom all day long!

anonymoussonny
10-12-2009, 06:46 AM
Dominant. A submissive partner is a turn on sexually. This is part of what makes them desirable for me.

DITTO!!!

Caramel
10-12-2009, 08:46 AM
Mostly dominant but I'll switch for the right guy or girl, regardless of race. I can see where racial issues cause conflict for a lot of people with sexual roleplay, but not for anyone I enjoy it with personally. Ethnic and racial issues with bdsm are such an unhealthy and ancient mix.

cassieukts
10-12-2009, 09:37 AM
sub, it's the only way for a lady

Ponyboy
10-12-2009, 11:33 AM
I''m submissive

Hara asks why we are like that???? - that's a good question. Are we like that because people put us in that role or is it because of our own tendency?

I have a very gentle (some people say beautiful) appearance. My ass is tight and curvy (many people say sexy). I find I attract dominant people who go straight for my ass.

At the same time, I am very comfortable on the bottom and now I dont know any other way. I like to be penetrated by another person. To feel another person inside me is the ultimate in submission - I feel they have complete control of me. I am their bitch.

And when I feel someone play with my ass hole, knowing they are going to take me, I get so excited.

My ass is very sensitive and the feel of cock against it is so beautiful. It is also exciting because I know at some point they will enter me. It's the sensual beauty of cock against my ass combined with the anticipation of what is about to happen - the ultimate submission.

I know that when they enter me it may hurt and I always hope it doesnt because I genuinely want to please my partner..

I love it when some one gets an errection when they see my ass. It makes me feel so sexy and so desirable. I want them to have me.

mikejones
10-12-2009, 12:58 PM
I''m submissive

Hara asks why we are like that???? - that's a good question. Are we like that because people put us in that role or is it because of our own tendency?

I have a very gentle (some people say beautiful) appearance. My ass is tight and curvy (many people say sexy). I find I attract dominant people who go straight for my ass.

At the same time, I am very comfortable on the bottom and now I dont know any other way. I like to be penetrated by another person. To feel another person inside me is the ultimate in submission - I feel they have complete control of me. I am their bitch.

And when I feel someone play with my ass hole, knowing they are going to take me, I get so excited.

My ass is very sensitive and the feel of cock against it is so beautiful. It is also exciting because I know at some point they will enter me. It's the sensual beauty of cock against my ass combined with the anticipation of what is about to happen - the ultimate submission.

I know that when they enter me it may hurt and I always hope it doesnt because I genuinely want to please my partner..

I love it when some one gets an errection when they see my ass. It makes me feel so sexy and so desirable. I want them to have me.

Very hot post! Definitely got me excited.

cindi4554
10-12-2009, 03:04 PM
After years of being a sub, mostly in maid service, I recently took the plunge and have begun exploring the dominant role.

SexSlave1972
10-12-2009, 03:12 PM
Sub, if U' got a cock.
Switch if U' don't.

Deepdarkfucker
10-12-2009, 05:36 PM
Dominant and love to pound that ass

Ponyboy
10-14-2009, 08:39 AM
I''m submissive

Hara asks why we are like that???? - that's a good question. Are we like that because people put us in that role or is it because of our own tendency?

I have a very gentle (some people say beautiful) appearance. My ass is tight and curvy (many people say sexy). I find I attract dominant people who go straight for my ass.

At the same time, I am very comfortable on the bottom and now I dont know any other way. I like to be penetrated by another person. To feel another person inside me is the ultimate in submission - I feel they have complete control of me. I am their bitch.

And when I feel someone play with my ass hole, knowing they are going to take me, I get so excited.

My ass is very sensitive and the feel of cock against it is so beautiful. It is also exciting because I know at some point they will enter me. It's the sensual beauty of cock against my ass combined with the anticipation of what is about to happen - the ultimate submission.

I know that when they enter me it may hurt and I always hope it doesnt because I genuinely want to please my partner..

I love it when some one gets an errection when they see my ass. It makes me feel so sexy and so desirable. I want them to have me.

Very hot post! Definitely got me excited.

Thank you mikejones

I wish more people would describe their feelings. I want to know if other submissives feel the same way I do. And I want to know what dominants feel.

Hara asked why we are submissive or dominant, and I forgot to say one thing I noted. A lot of dominant people like ass but I think submissives love cock. I love cock.

I met one dominant Tgirl who told me to take my clothes off and get down on my knees. She then came over smacked my face, pulled her cock out and ordered me to suck it. She then slapped my face again, and rammed her cock down my throat. - The truth is she didnt need to slap my face or order me to suck it because I love cock so much, I would have done it anyway. I think a lot of submissives love cock. I love to kiss it, stroke it, suck it. I love it when its hard and smooth. I love to make it hard.

I love it when dominants tell me to get down on my knees and they put their cock in my face. I love it when they smack my face with their cock. I love the feel of cock against my lips and the way it feels against my skin.

I also like it when dominants tell me what to do. Although the dominant Ts I talk about above didnt need to slap my face or order me to suck her cock, it added to the excitement.

When one male dominant found out how much I love cock, he called me a slut and told me to bend over the table and pull my pants down. He put his cock up my ass and called me a fucking slut. He pulled my hair, smacked my ass and squeezed my nipples. He then fucked me hard until he came inside me.

I dont like pain but it excited me to be degraded - I dont know why. Any psychologists here?

sdbob
10-14-2009, 09:51 AM
Well I can be both. To be completely honest, I just want my partner to have as much pleasure as I do, which means making her cum. If she wants to cum by playing with my ass, well I'm okay with that or if she wants me to suck her off I can do that too. I can throw her on the bed and ravis her as well. it just seems to be what mood we both are. If I was paying for it, I think I would take charge, but paying for it means I want what I wat right then and there. Frankly, I really enjoy both sides, but it could be just because I'm a horny bastard... LOL

eclipsemint
10-14-2009, 11:50 AM
I think I'm always Dominant. But let me just check...

Hara Juku? Am I dominant or submissive, my sweet beautiful mistress?

florida_raul
10-14-2009, 12:48 PM
Everything goes, no limits.

TsVanessa69
10-14-2009, 05:47 PM
dominant: wouldn't have a choice even if i wanted due to skintone
Oh my, the others did not get the memo!
You better get the word out fast!
LOL :wink: :wink:

TsVanessa69
10-14-2009, 05:50 PM
To be honest, I am dominant for business, but in my private life I enjoy being submissive.

TsVanessa69
10-14-2009, 05:52 PM
no choice due to skintone???
wtf does that mean???
Covering for the otha brotha's :wink:

TsVanessa69
10-14-2009, 05:55 PM
I''m submissive

Hara asks why we are like that???? - that's a good question. Are we like that because people put us in that role or is it because of our own tendency?

I have a very gentle (some people say beautiful) appearance. My ass is tight and curvy (many people say sexy). I find I attract dominant people who go straight for my ass.

At the same time, I am very comfortable on the bottom and now I dont know any other way. I like to be penetrated by another person. To feel another person inside me is the ultimate in submission - I feel they have complete control of me. I am their bitch.

And when I feel someone play with my ass hole, knowing they are going to take me, I get so excited.

My ass is very sensitive and the feel of cock against it is so beautiful. It is also exciting because I know at some point they will enter me. It's the sensual beauty of cock against my ass combined with the anticipation of what is about to happen - the ultimate submission.

I know that when they enter me it may hurt and I always hope it doesnt because I genuinely want to please my partner..

I love it when some one gets an errection when they see my ass. It makes me feel so sexy and so desirable. I want them to have me.
Yea I am that way too, especially with the type of guys that I like, which I'm lucky are the guys that I attract without fail!
You worded it perfectly!

TsVanessa69
10-14-2009, 05:58 PM
still dont get it

all of sex is roleplay in a way--and Im sure there are plenty of Black people---men and women--who enjoy the sub role--without bringng slavery into the discussion!


wouldnt you say?
Somethings you are not allowed to talk about in public.
But let me tell you, when they call a girl from Eros, its a totally different story.
To be a fly on the wall in my work area would be PRICELESS!!!!!

Ponyboy
10-17-2009, 09:41 PM
A question or two for dominant people 1. describe one of your best dom experiences and what was it that made it so good?

2. what do you look for in bitch? tight ass? fat ass? gentle and submissive? wild to be tamed? or don't you care - you just want something to hammer.

Vanessa69 Thank you for your feedback. I love your coffee coloured skin, especially in the photos where you wear black and red. Those colours really compliment your tone.

TsVanessa69
10-17-2009, 10:06 PM
A question or two for dominant people 1. describe one of your best dom experiences and what was it that made it so good?

2. what do you look for in bitch? tight ass? fat ass? gentle and submissive? wild to be tamed? or don't you care - you just want something to hammer.

Vanessa69 Thank you for your feedback. I love your coffee coloured skin, especially in the photos where you wear black and red. Those colours really compliment your tone.
Thanks babes!

Ponyboy
10-18-2009, 10:02 AM
Hara Juku,

You started this thread - what do you enjoy about being dominant?

By the way, have you noticed when we have finished writing our post, we must click the button labelled 'submit'. (I've heard rumours that dominant people must click a label entitled 'dominate')

ChicagoTbone
10-19-2009, 05:22 AM
I prefer submissive with a competent dom, but am good at either.

ChicagoTbone
10-19-2009, 05:23 AM
in fact i like being very submissive.

gotchagood
10-19-2009, 05:55 AM
I'm about 85% dominant and then I like to occasionally lay back and get a good work over. Show me what cha know.


Have a great day

ChicagoTbone
10-19-2009, 07:14 AM
http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=49913&highlight=

tsslutboy
10-19-2009, 10:58 AM
like to dom most of the time but sub is good to

mactown
10-19-2009, 05:47 PM
with tg I am a sub, gg def more dom...

Deepdarkfucker
10-19-2009, 06:29 PM
Dominant

alyssats
10-19-2009, 07:03 PM
depends on my partner and chemistry with him

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-22-2009, 01:41 AM
Hara Juku,

You started this thread - what do you enjoy about being dominant?

By the way, have you noticed when we have finished writing our post, we must click the button labelled 'submit'. (I've heard rumours that dominant people must click a label entitled 'dominate')

I love control (the power) that comes from dominating people. Subservient men willing to do anything to please Mistress is just a huge turn on for me. :P


with tg I am a sub, gg def more dom...

Nice avatar err I mean ass! lol ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

BellaBellucci
10-22-2009, 01:54 AM
Hara Juku,

You started this thread - what do you enjoy about being dominant?

By the way, have you noticed when we have finished writing our post, we must click the button labelled 'submit'. (I've heard rumours that dominant people must click a label entitled 'dominate')

I love control (the power) that comes from dominating people. Subservient men willing to do anything to please Mistress is just a huge turn on for me. :P


with tg I am a sub, gg def more dom...

Nice avatar err I mean ass! lol ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Finally we agree on something: a man's place is under a woman's heel. :)

~BB~

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-22-2009, 02:00 AM
Hara Juku,

You started this thread - what do you enjoy about being dominant?

By the way, have you noticed when we have finished writing our post, we must click the button labelled 'submit'. (I've heard rumours that dominant people must click a label entitled 'dominate')

I love control (the power) that comes from dominating people. Subservient men willing to do anything to please Mistress is just a huge turn on for me. :P


with tg I am a sub, gg def more dom...

Nice avatar err I mean ass! lol ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Finally we agree on something: a man's place is under a woman's heel. :)

~BB~

Um, so you're saying, that your place is under mines? lol Pardon me, but I just don't see you ever being dominant (looks at your 'home maker" type avatar), just a loud mouth bitch. :lol:

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

BellaBellucci
10-22-2009, 02:06 AM
Hara Juku,

You started this thread - what do you enjoy about being dominant?

By the way, have you noticed when we have finished writing our post, we must click the button labelled 'submit'. (I've heard rumours that dominant people must click a label entitled 'dominate')

I love control (the power) that comes from dominating people. Subservient men willing to do anything to please Mistress is just a huge turn on for me. :P


with tg I am a sub, gg def more dom...

Nice avatar err I mean ass! lol ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Finally we agree on something: a man's place is under a woman's heel. :)

~BB~

Um, so you're saying, that your place is under mines? lol Pardon me, but I just don't see you ever being dominant (looks at your 'home maker" type avatar), just a loud mouth bitch. :lol:

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Wow. That's cold. I can't even agree with you without backlash? Why are you so bitter? :lol:

~BB~

speedstick112
10-22-2009, 02:21 AM
I always wondered if there is a dichotomy of dominant and submissive in any relationship/sex act. Can people just be completely neutral?

I guess I'm dominant. I like to get on top, don't know any other way to do it.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-22-2009, 09:36 PM
Hara Juku,

You started this thread - what do you enjoy about being dominant?

By the way, have you noticed when we have finished writing our post, we must click the button labelled 'submit'. (I've heard rumours that dominant people must click a label entitled 'dominate')

I love control (the power) that comes from dominating people. Subservient men willing to do anything to please Mistress is just a huge turn on for me. :P


with tg I am a sub, gg def more dom...

Nice avatar err I mean ass! lol ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Finally we agree on something: a man's place is under a woman's heel. :)

~BB~

Um, so you're saying, that your place is under mines? lol Pardon me, but I just don't see you ever being dominant (looks at your 'home maker" type avatar), just a loud mouth bitch. :lol:

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Wow. That's cold. I can't even agree with you without backlash? Why are you so bitter? :lol:

~BB~

Haha.. Me bitter? And what am I bitter about YOU so suddenly? I got a job, You don't! I had an armful of clients back when I provided bdsm, You don't (I've gotten paid 1k for an hour, You obviously have NOT)! I transitioned at 14, You on the other hand just 3 years ago, I transitioned from being a cute boy to being a cute ts, You obviously was an ugly man and transitioned to still be an ugly ts, I don't wear drapes or table coths as outfits, you however.. I could go on.

So what else should I be so jealous of you? Tell me cos the facts does NOT convince me I should! Lmao :lol:

Next time, assess your response to me before you post them. And while I'm at it, leave me the fuck alone. You trans-lesbian, psychotic turd! I don't give you the time of day and won't be your friend in real life and you're hurt. Get over it!

~Kisses.

HTG

BellaBellucci
10-22-2009, 09:41 PM
Haha.. Me bitter? And what am I bitter about YOU so suddenly? I got a job, You don't! I had an armful of clients back when I provided bdsm, You don't (I've gotten paid 1k for an hour, You obviously have NOT)! I transitioned at 14, You on the other hand just 3 years ago, I transitioned from being a cute boy to being a cute ts, You obviously was an ugly man and transitioned to still be an ugly ts, I don't wear drapes or table coths as outfits, you however.. I could go on.

So what else should I be so jealous of you? Tell me cos the facts does NOT convince me I should! Lmao :lol:

Next time, assess your response to me before you post them. And while I'm at it, leave me the fuck alone. You trans-lesbian, psychotic turd! I don't give you the time of day and won't be your friend in real life and you're hurt. Get over it!

~Kisses.

HTG

I didn't even read you post and I only have one thing to say: I just signed on 5 minutes ago. Waiting all morning for me to get online to post this could be considered stalking. Go get a few more bedpans... and a life.

That is all.

~BB~

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-22-2009, 09:43 PM
Hara Juku,

You started this thread - what do you enjoy about being dominant?

By the way, have you noticed when we have finished writing our post, we must click the button labelled 'submit'. (I've heard rumours that dominant people must click a label entitled 'dominate')

I love control (the power) that comes from dominating people. Subservient men willing to do anything to please Mistress is just a huge turn on for me. :P


with tg I am a sub, gg def more dom...

Nice avatar err I mean ass! lol ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Finally we agree on something: a man's place is under a woman's heel. :)

~BB~

Um, so you're saying, that your place is under mines? lol Pardon me, but I just don't see you ever being dominant (looks at your 'home maker" type avatar), just a loud mouth bitch. :lol:

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

Wow. That's cold. I can't even agree with you without backlash? Why are you so bitter? :lol:

~BB~

Haha.. Me bitter? And what am I bitter about YOU so suddenly? I got a job, You don't! I had an armful of clients back when I provided bdsm, You don't (I've gotten paid 1k for an hour, You obviously have NOT)! I transitioned at 14, You on the other hand just 3 years ago, I transitioned from being a cute boy to being a cute ts, You obviously was an ugly man and transitioned to still be an ugly ts, I don't wear drapes or table coths as outfits, you however.. I could go on.

So what else should I be so jealous of you? Tell me cos the facts does NOT convince me I should! Lmao :lol:

Next time, assess your response to me before you post them. And while I'm at it, leave me the fuck alone. You trans-lesbian, psychotic turd! I don't give you the time of day and won't be your friend in real life and you're hurt. Get over it!

~Kisses.

HTG

I didn't even read you post and I only have one thing to say: I just signed on 5 minutes ago. Waiting all morning for me to get online to post this could be considered stalking. Get a life. That is all.

~BB~

Says someone who has me no.1 on her shit list! Get REAL.. :roll:

~Kisses.

HTG

BellaBellucci
10-22-2009, 09:48 PM
Says someone who has me no.1 on her shit list! Get REAL.. :roll:

~Kisses.

HTG

Exactly. I don't like you and you're exemplifying why that is RIGHT NOW. All I did was mention that I don't like you (shitlist). So what's the problem? It's not as if it was some startling revelation to anybody. If you don't like me either, then you should ignore it, but you can't because you're obsessed with tearing me down after my all-too-accurate psychoanalysis of you as if accomplishing that will somehow magically change the circumstances of your life. I'm here to tell you that it won't.

The fact that the mere mention of your name forces you to go nuclear is also very telling of your clearly unstable personality.

~BB~

BellaBellucci
10-22-2009, 09:55 PM
In fact let me draw a diagram so that your ESL-ass will better understand what I'm talking about.

Moral high ground/BB
_______________
Depths of hell/HTG

In war, the high ground is always where one prefers to be. I'm not relinquishing and I never have. That's why so many of you girls are so frustrated with me - I can tear anybody apart without so much as an insult (although those can be fun too in moderation). All I have to do is tell the truth. I'd imagine that would be scary for someone with so many insecurities considering that all you can do is recycle the same old lame insults.

I think we're done here, but knowing you, you don't realize that it's time to quit what is obviously a losing battle. Try again when you actually find my weak spot... and good luck with that. :roll:

~BB~

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-22-2009, 10:02 PM
Says someone who has me no.1 on her shit list! Get REAL.. :roll:

~Kisses.

HTG

Exactly. I don't like you and you're exemplifying why that is RIGHT NOW. All I did was mention that I don't like you (shitlist). So what's the problem? It's not as if it was some startling revelation to anybody. If you don't like me either, then you should ignore it, but you can't because you're obsessed with tearing me down after my all-too-accurate psychoanalysis of you as if accomplishing that will somehow magically change the circumstances of your life. I'm here to tell you that it won't.

The fact that the mere mention of your name forces you to go nuclear is also very telling of your clearly unstable personality.

~BB~

And I should care because..? The feeling is mutual, in case ou haven't noticed! :lol:

So we don't like eachother, therefore YOU should stop mentioning my name and using it in your vain attempts at keeping the spotlight to yourself! Because at the end of the day, YOU can bicker and fight with people on the internet yet that does NOT make your phone ring for any business. Get it, loser troll? Now look who's showing their instability mentally and otherwise? lol

~Kisses.

HTG

BellaBellucci
10-22-2009, 10:08 PM
Says someone who has me no.1 on her shit list! Get REAL.. :roll:

~Kisses.

HTG

Exactly. I don't like you and you're exemplifying why that is RIGHT NOW. All I did was mention that I don't like you (shitlist). So what's the problem? It's not as if it was some startling revelation to anybody. If you don't like me either, then you should ignore it, but you can't because you're obsessed with tearing me down after my all-too-accurate psychoanalysis of you as if accomplishing that will somehow magically change the circumstances of your life. I'm here to tell you that it won't.

The fact that the mere mention of your name forces you to go nuclear is also very telling of your clearly unstable personality.

~BB~

And I should care because..? The feeling is mutual, in case ou haven't noticed! :lol:

So we don't like eachother, therefore YOU should stop mentioning my name and using it in your vain attempts at keeping the spotlight to yourself! Because at the end of the day, YOU can bicker and fight with people on the internet yet that does NOT make your phone ring for any business. Get it, loser troll? Now look who's showing their instability mentally and otherwise? lol

~Kisses.

HTG

You're obviously not paying attention to the reality here.

*crickets chirp*

~BB~

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-22-2009, 10:10 PM
In fact let me draw a diagram so that your ESL-ass will better understand what I'm talking about.

Moral high ground/BB
_______________
Depths of hell/HTG

In war, the high ground is always where one prefers to be. I'm not relinquishing and I never have. That's why so many of you girls are so frustrated with me - I can tear anybody apart without so much as an insult (although those can be fun too in moderation). All I have to do is tell the truth. I'd imagine that would be scary for someone with so many insecurities considering that all you can do is recycle the same old lame insults.

I think we're done here, but knowing you, you don't realize that it's time to quit what is obviously a losing battle. Try again when you actually find my weak spot... and good luck with that. :roll:

~BB~

I'd be insecure too (just like you) and probably torment myself IF i ended up looking anything like you! Omg, to quote what some guy said about you, "Look at you! You're a mess!" But I guess, all your friends were always polite to your face hence this false sense of self from their warped validation, huh?

GTFO :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-22-2009, 10:12 PM
Says someone who has me no.1 on her shit list! Get REAL.. :roll:

~Kisses.

HTG

Exactly. I don't like you and you're exemplifying why that is RIGHT NOW. All I did was mention that I don't like you (shitlist). So what's the problem? It's not as if it was some startling revelation to anybody. If you don't like me either, then you should ignore it, but you can't because you're obsessed with tearing me down after my all-too-accurate psychoanalysis of you as if accomplishing that will somehow magically change the circumstances of your life. I'm here to tell you that it won't.

The fact that the mere mention of your name forces you to go nuclear is also very telling of your clearly unstable personality.

~BB~

And I should care because..? The feeling is mutual, in case ou haven't noticed! :lol:

So we don't like eachother, therefore YOU should stop mentioning my name and using it in your vain attempts at keeping the spotlight to yourself! Because at the end of the day, YOU can bicker and fight with people on the internet yet that does NOT make your phone ring for any business. Get it, loser troll? Now look who's showing their instability mentally and otherwise? lol

~Kisses.

HTG

You're obviously not paying attention to the reality here.

*crickets chirp*

~BB~

You mean, I obviously can't stop looking at a Trainwreck such as yourself? :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

BellaBellucci
10-22-2009, 10:14 PM
You mean, I obviously can't stop looking at a Trainwreck such as yourself? :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

Same lame insults.

*chirp, chirp, chirp*

God DAMN you're stubborn.

~BB~

PS: Will you PLEASE learn how to block quote? Your two sentence quips take up the whole damn page!

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-22-2009, 10:20 PM
You mean, I obviously can't stop looking at a Trainwreck such as yourself? :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

Same lame insults.

*chirp, chirp, chirp*

God DAMN you're stubborn.

~BB~

PS: Will you PLEASE learn how to block quote? Your two sentence quips take up the whole damn page!

Truth hurts don't it? You wanna be a porn star, yet so far..not too many are willing to work with you and your fucking attitude! Yes news gets back at me from people you've worked with. And I'm NOT a bit surprised, one even wants to charge you to do your photo-shoot! :lol: You also want to provide as an escort, but because you're ain't hot and femme enough and with that kind of attitude, your phone doesn't even ring, even if you give your services away for free! What a JOKE you are. Lmao

~Kisses.

HTG

BellaBellucci
10-22-2009, 10:23 PM
Truth hurts don't it? You wanna be a porn star, yet so far..not too many are willing to work with you and your fucking attitude! Yes news gets back at me from people you've worked with. And I'm NOT a bit surprised, one even wants to charge you to do your photo-shoot! :lol: You also want to provide as an escort, but because you're ain't hot and femme enough and with that kind of attitude, your phone doesn't even ring, even if you give your services away for free! What a JOKE you are. Lmao

~Kisses.

HTG

This from a girl who did one shoot for Yum 9 years ago wearing the same wig she does now and begged Steven for about 8 of the years in between to take it down. News travels, indeed.

*chirp, chirp, chirp*

~BB~

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-22-2009, 10:31 PM
Truth hurts don't it? You wanna be a porn star, yet so far..not too many are willing to work with you and your fucking attitude! Yes news gets back at me from people you've worked with. And I'm NOT a bit surprised, one even wants to charge you to do your photo-shoot! :lol: You also want to provide as an escort, but because you're ain't hot and femme enough and with that kind of attitude, your phone doesn't even ring, even if you give your services away for free! What a JOKE you are. Lmao

~Kisses.

HTG

This from a girl who did one shoot for Yum 9 years ago wearing the same wig she does now and begged Steven for about 8 of the years in between to take it down. News travels, indeed.

*chirp, chirp, chirp*

~BB~

Sorry to break it to you, my hair is real (the photog can confirm that) and I never begged Steven for anything. So whatelse you got concocted, you loser wannabe porn/tranny escort that isn't lame?

~Kisses.

HTG

baileyandkc
10-22-2009, 10:32 PM
Hey how about them Phillies!

BellaBellucci
10-22-2009, 10:33 PM
Sorry to break it to you, my hair is real (the photog can confirm that) and I never begged Steven for anything. So whatelse you got concocted, you loser wannabe porn/tranny escort that isn't lame?

~Kisses.

HTG

There isn't a girl on this board who will vouch for you. In fact, where do you think I heard what I did? Deny all you like; the truth is well known. :)

~BB~

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-22-2009, 10:39 PM
Sorry to break it to you, my hair is real (the photog can confirm that) and I never begged Steven for anything. So whatelse you got concocted, you loser wannabe porn/tranny escort that isn't lame?

~Kisses.

HTG

There isn't a girl on this board who will vouch for you. In fact, where do you think I heard what I did? Deny all you like; the truth is well known. :)

~BB~

I don't need any girl to vouch me. I knew pretty well where that rumor came from. ;) What matters to me are the guys who's met and or been with me. The girl or girls who say such thing are driven by one thing - jealousy..quite alot like you! Their words holds no validity whatsoever! And I fucking live! :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

BellaBellucci
10-22-2009, 11:02 PM
I don't need any girl to vouch me. I knew pretty well where that rumor came from. ;) What matters to me are the guys who's met and or been with me. The girl or girls who say such thing are driven by one thing - jealousy..quite alot like you! Their words holds no validity whatsoever! And I fucking live! :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

Yup, you have us all figured out. We're all jealous of you because your so... umm... uhh... what is it we're jealous of again?

Why you mad?

~BB~

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-22-2009, 11:03 PM
Mad? I'm not. You are though.. and you know it! ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

BellaBellucci
10-22-2009, 11:05 PM
Mad? I'm not. You are though.. and you know it! ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

:roll:

~BB~

Willie Escalade
10-23-2009, 02:30 AM
Hey how about them Phillies!
Fuck the Phillies. I'm pissed. :evil: Fuckin' Broxton...

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-23-2009, 02:45 AM
Now back to your regularly scheduled program.


I think I'm always Dominant. But let me just check...

Hara Juku? Am I dominant or submissive, my sweet beautiful mistress?

I dunno, have we chatted online somewhere? :confused:

~Kisses.

HTG

Hara_Juku Tgirl
10-23-2009, 02:48 AM
I prefer submissive with a competent dom, but am good at either.

I hear you. As one guy from another site told me.. "There's just too many whores with paddles around who doesn't really know what their doing!" Lmao

;)

~Kisses.

HTG

ChicagoTbone
10-30-2009, 08:44 PM
It is Absolutely true; one of the more distrubing points about finding someone who has the skills as a dominant is going through the disappointments.

It seems like any twit in garters, heels and a leater dress wants to call herself a dom.

skill is something else.

citoyen
10-30-2009, 10:45 PM
prefer to switch

citoyen
11-01-2009, 01:30 AM
Or a switch and why or why not?

~Kisses.

HTG
the same way - so it should be

bridgetbbyxo
11-01-2009, 01:52 AM
more submissive by nature, but can be dom from times...

ptyseminole
11-02-2009, 10:00 PM
dominant 95% of the time....