How come...

[urscapegoat]

We dont hear more about tranny relationships...u know the kind u dont have to pay for. Its legal to get married in California, shouldnt there be more stories?

[Luna555]

maybe if there were more guys that were actually looking for a relationship with a ts girl there would be more stories. btw I also think it has to do with getting away from the party scene and the transsexual and guy also don't post about it. at least that what I do. Its not something im goi.ng to be announcing to the world.

[SarahG]

We dont hear more about tranny relationships...u know the kind u dont have to pay for. Its legal to get married in California, shouldnt there be more stories?

Probably not as many people talking about it as it happens because of stealth.

From both perspectives, there are no shortage of trans girls that don't want the whole world knowing they're trans.

And then there are guys who don't want everyone (friends, family, etc) to know their gf is trans.

Even if one of the two is ok with being "out" to such an extent as broadcasting the situation to the world online, I bet the couple would remain silent for whichever of them wants it to be a secret (or at least, not be made into a big issue).

There are girls who aren't stealth who would refuse to walk around in their day to day lives wearing a tshirt saying "I AM A TRANNY" in big bold letters. Everyone has their own idea of what amount of public disclosure is comfortable to them.

I'm not really in stealth insofar as people I am in relationships know, and there are others who know (who could have been kept in the dark), but it's just not an issue to the point where everyone who knows me knows. I have specialists, like the dentist who don't know I am trans, because it just hasn't come up (no rhyme or reason for it). In thinking about it, coming out to random people who know me sounds kinda awkward, not because of trans issues but because its just so far from being relevant. I can't picture myself going into get my teeth cleaned, and half way threw the procedure interrupting to go "oh btw, did you know I am trans?"

I also think there becomes a point where that type of "lets impulsively tell random people for no reason" just comes off as attention whoring.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

maybe if there were more guys that were actually looking for a relationship with a ts girl there would be more stories. btw I also think it has to do with getting away from the party scene and the transsexual and guy also don't post about it. at least that what I do.

:claps

Think about it, what girl in her right frame of mind wants a guy who chases after trannies and attends tg parties and actively seeks them out online? None. Talk about being relationship materials..lol I mean, if you're seeking that's fine but don't rub that on our faces and brag about it. Some guys though (even to the point), drop names etc. like we would really be impressed with your tg conquest history nor do we care to hear it about it! :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

[Luna555]

maybe if there were more guys that were actually looking for a relationship with a ts girl there would be more stories. btw I also think it has to do with getting away from the party scene and the transsexual and guy also don't post about it. at least that what I do.

:claps

Think about it, what girl in her right frame of mind wants a guy who chases after trannies and attends tg parties and actively seeks them out online? None. Talk about being relationship materials..lol I mean, if you're seeking that's fine but don't rub that on our faces and brag about it. Some guys though (even to the point), drop names etc. like we would really be impressed with your tg conquest history nor do we care to hear it about it! :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

I agree with both girls.

HTG thanks for posting that. I know I definitely don't want to know which famous ts girls a guy has been with. if a guy tells me, I know that he is not the guy for me.

SG yeah after a while its not relevent, there is no reason to tell every single person I interract with.

[hwbs]

done sharing anything that happens in the present or future...that is it ...short and simple...

[hondarobot]

I've been chasing after a girl for around four years now. I don't have to chase her, I have girls all over the place at work.

I do it because I love her, and I respect her, and sometimes I worry if she's OK (after some surgery or whatever).

[hondarobot]

She's doing OK. I can go back to bed now, since I have the day off from work.

[flabbybody]

maybe if there were more guys that were actually looking for a relationship with a ts girl there would be more stories. btw I also think it has to do with getting away from the party scene and the transsexual and guy also don't post about it. at least that what I do.

:claps

Think about it, what girl in her right frame of mind wants a guy who chases after trannies and attends tg parties and actively seeks them out online? None. Talk about being relationship materials..lol I mean, if you're seeking that's fine but don't rub that on our faces and brag about it. Some guys though (even to the point), drop names etc. like we would really be impressed with your tg conquest history nor do we care to hear it about it! :lol:

~Kisses.

HTG

How do you go about breaking a habit that you've had for years and has become instinctive, the way you think of food when you're hungry?

[scroller]

...u know the kind u dont have to pay for.

That would be kind of beside the point of this website. Or something.

[ottorocket]

Julianna, married recently to a great guy some of you might know about... There are plenty of marriage worthy women out there but the trans scene is highly confusing to itself with mixed messages being put out all the time.

[Luna555]

and ofcourse there are plenty of marriage worthy men out there too but sometimes things just don't work out. especially not in the ts scene especially if the girl is pre op. and especially since most of the guys in the ts scene are well different and in it for sex gratification and when its convinient for them. (i said most)

[trannybanger]

I think the idea of a relationship is between two people and that is it.

The need some people feel to discuss the ins and outs of their relationships with others is often the beginning of an erosian of said relationship regardless of gender or sexuality.

[SarahG]

The need some people feel to discuss the ins and outs of their relationships with others is often the beginning of an erosian of said relationship regardless of gender or sexuality.

Wouldn't that depend on how the talk is portraying it?

If someone talks about their relationship and it sounds like a nightmare horror story, then that isn't a good sign but what about when it is the opposite?

[cadcad]

I've been chasing after a girl for around four years now. I don't have to chase her, I have girls all over the place at work.

I do it because I love her, and I respect her, and sometimes I worry if she's OK (after some surgery or whatever).

you've been chasing a girl for FOUR years geezus christ get a clue already.

[trannybanger]

The need some people feel to discuss the ins and outs of their relationships with others is often the beginning of an erosian of said relationship regardless of gender or sexuality.

Wouldn't that depend on how the talk is portraying it?

If someone talks about their relationship and it sounds like a nightmare horror story, then that isn't a good sign but what about when it is the opposite?

My point is a relationship is a personal thing between two people, and when you start opening up to anything more than casual conversation then other people inevitably put in their opinions, they cannot help themselves. Good or bad, then it alters perspectives. I mean, for an extreme example, look at people on this board who post things about their personal relationships... positives and/or negative, does anyone really want to be with someone who can't keep things themself? Overall I think people that are serious about a relationship, content with themselves, and fulfilled people do not want to be a poster couple for a relationship good, bad or otherwise.

[hondarobot]

I've been chasing after a girl for around four years now. I don't have to chase her, I have girls all over the place at work.

I do it because I love her, and I respect her, and sometimes I worry if she's OK (after some surgery or whatever).

you've been chasing a girl for FOUR years geezus christ get a clue already.

What's the clue I should be getting? Please explain your post.

[ken41wood]

hi all to this i am engage to a ts who i love very much we plan to marry in 09 she has engagement ring and im paying on a wedding ring well wed in red sox town

[chrisraid3]

maybe if there were more guys that were actually looking for a relationship with a ts girl there would be more stories. btw I also think it has to do with getting away from the party scene and the transsexual and guy also don't post about it. at least that what I do. Its not something im goi.ng to be announcing to the world.


i look for an actual rel with a ts girl, my only problem is finding a girl

[urscapegoat]

I think the idea of a relationship is between two people and that is it.

The need some people feel to discuss the ins and outs of their relationships with others is often the beginning of an erosian of said relationship regardless of gender or sexuality.

I agree problems should not be discussed publicly--20% of the audience does not care and the other 80% r glad u have them.

[blckhaze]

because they leave all the cock pics and have normal lives.

[hondarobot]

I think the idea of a relationship is between two people and that is it.

The need some people feel to discuss the ins and outs of their relationships with others is often the beginning of an erosian of said relationship regardless of gender or sexuality.

I agree problems should not be discussed publicly--20% of the audience does not care and the other 80% r glad u have them.

I'd just slap the bitch up, spank her ass. She would like that...

:lol:

[hondarobot]

I wouldn't actually slap her, of course.

Good night.

[mikejones]

hi all to this i am engage to a ts who i love very much we plan to marry in 09 she has engagement ring and im paying on a wedding ring well wed in red sox town

Congrats to you dude!