I think I have met the man of my dreams.

[BrendaQG]

You can skip the first two paragraphs if legal shit bores you.

Ok here's the back story. I had a shady landlord who had trouble paying his bills. With him I agreed that I would pay him rent out of my student loan monies. He welched on his obligations, did not pay for trash pick up. So I sue him. The bank sues him to foreclose the building and gets posession. No one can find him to bring him to court. The bank, only after I complain about code violations sues me for "Forcible entry and detainer". I go to court and demand a Jury. Planning to use the defense that I had this verbal amendment to my lease and that this is little more than retaliation and discrimination against me because I am TS.

Before it goes to trial I write him a letter offering a settlement. After some wrangling. I get their case dropped if I move out by the end of the month, which was the last month on my lease anyway, Don't have to pay them a dime, but waive my right to sue them as well. That's no rent paid since May. It's like I made $2400. :-) I go into court this morning expecting some old fat guy and instead.....

He was, as Mimi's gay children say, a papi. In an earlier thread it was asked of us girls to describe our perfect men and for me here he was. Almost perfect. 6' athletic, brown eyes, a Lawyer at a down town lawfirm, just a bit older than me, he knows my T and dosen't seem to care. If we had been in the elevator leaving the courtroom alone it would have been hard for me to hold off sucking his cock right then. I got a strong vibe that if it would not be a conflict of interest he would have taken me to lunch or asked me out. I am floating on a cloud right now. Praise be to Allah! I hope he ask me out after this matter is closed.

Or was he just being a good lawyer by giving me that impression. What says the room?

[flabbybody]

what about the back rent you owe him?

[dreamer]

pros and cons ---there are two sides to every crush ----maybe he was just doing his job ---maybe he was attracted to by how cute you are ------

you're excited ---

but like I said ---two sides to every crush -------for your sake --we can only hope (for now) ---that he felt the way you felt ---feel -----

---

[Alyssa87]

loka try not to live too much for the boys.

[hondarobot]

What? I have no idea what's going on in this thread. Relationships are complicated, trust me on that statement. Stick with it until the ship sinks, or sails.

:)

[Tomfurbs]

You should always get leases witnessed. What is your laywer's opinion of the 'verbal amendment'?

Either way, Congrats. I hope it all goes well with this guy and your case.

[TsVanessa69]

Hmmmmmmm, was it one sided. Did he give any hints of personal interest? Did you guys have conversation on a personal level? Or just professional. Any casual physical contact, a subtle wink??

[BeardedOne]

It is unclear who you met in court: The landlord (If so, base your crush on his previous poor performance as a human being), his attorney (If so, base your crush on his lacking of being human), or the rep for the bank (If so, request cash in advance with a security deposit equal to one year's alimony).

Personally, I would advise that you avoid anyone that you meet in a courtroom or JP office. No one there is a happy person, ever. After I turned my back on the governor's bid I was asked to be a JP magistrate and, after some fiendish fantasizing, decided against it figuring that after I made enough people cry in one day one or more of them would meet me in the parking lot with a baseball bat. Needless to say, I don't 't see the venue as a very healthy dating pool, either.

[BrendaQG]

what about the back rent you owe him? They have release me from all liability. No back rent, no damage to the apartment, nothing. I also released them from all liability, nothing for the violations of Chicago's ordinance (something called the"Residential Lanlord and Tennants Ordinance"), Or for how their building manager violated my civil rights as a transsexual woman.

Basically neither of us wanted to try and see who the jury would hate more. TS women or mortgage bankers.

[BrendaQG]

Hmmmmmmm, was it one sided. Did he give any hints of personal interest? Did you guys have conversation on a personal level? Or just professional. Any casual physical contact, a subtle wink??

Yes we spent like 15 minutes after court just talking about our personal lives. He confided in me about how little money lawyers at his stage really make. I confided in him about how tough it is in science. There was a bit of flirtatious touching. Smiles. Let me put it this way. It was way too friendly to just be 100% professional. It was more like he had to fight his impulses, and I mine in order to keep it professional.

Or that could be that he is just a smooth player trying to make sure I keep my end of the deal and get out.

[BrendaQG]

@ Tomfurbs and Beardedone.

I have the canceled checks that show how I actually paid rent. I paid $3200 twice and was due to pay another $4000 at the end of the lease to the original landlord. Pay to him out of student loan funds. (Where if anyone's curious working goes towards paying off other smaller bills, utils, credit cards, savings and "walking around money".)

I met the lawyer. The landlord is now a bank, the bank that gave the old landlord a mortgage, so they send their lawyer to represent them.

It ain't something until it's something. But It was just so nice to get those kind of vibes from a young, successful, man who knows my T and does not care.. So there is hope for meeting such a man, for any of us.

[TsVanessa69]

What? I have no idea what's going on in this thread. Relationships are complicated, trust me on that statement. Stick with it until the ship sinks, or sails.

:)
What relationship?????????????????????????????/
Now I'm, confused

[TsVanessa69]

@ Tomfurbs and Beardedone.

I have the canceled checks that show how I actually paid rent. I paid $3200 twice and was due to pay another $4000 at the end of the lease to the original landlord. Pay to him out of student loan funds. (Where if anyone's curious working goes towards paying off other smaller bills, utils, credit cards, savings and "walking around money".)

I met the lawyer. The landlord is now a bank, the bank that gave the old landlord a mortgage, so they send their lawyer to represent them.

It ain't something until it's something. But It was just so nice to get those kind of vibes from a young, successful, man who knows my T and does not care.. So there is hope for meeting such a man, for any of us.
What vibes!!!!!!!!!!!
Do tell!
Was it how he gazed into your eyes??
Did he rub your leg under the table??
Did he give you ANY clue as to HIS interest in YOU???
Lawyers and clients go to lunch all the time.
Thats not a conflict of interest.
I mean you are paying him right?

[2pert4ya]

who in the world would find you attractive let alone consider you for a relationship? i am sure that you are the man of his nightmares .

[JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel]

@ Tomfurbs and Beardedone.

I have the canceled checks that show how I actually paid rent. I paid $3200 twice and was due to pay another $4000 at the end of the lease to the original landlord. Pay to him out of student loan funds. (Where if anyone's curious working goes towards paying off other smaller bills, utils, credit cards, savings and "walking around money".)

I met the lawyer. The landlord is now a bank, the bank that gave the old landlord a mortgage, so they send their lawyer to represent them.

It ain't something until it's something. But It was just so nice to get those kind of vibes from a young, successful, man who knows my T and does not care.. So there is hope for meeting such a man, for any of us.
What vibes!!!!!!!!!!!
Do tell!
Was it how he gazed into your eyes??
Did he rub your leg under the table??
Did he give you ANY clue as to HIS interest in YOU???
Lawyers and clients go to lunch all the time.
Thats not a conflict of interest.
I mean you are paying him right?

LMFAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

flatlining in 3 2 1_________________________________________________

[hondarobot]

Heh. I was . . .

I'm not even going to complete this post.

:P

[BrendaQG]

@ Honda
Not a relationship yet. The confusing ness of this mess is why I advised people to skip those first paragraphs of the first post. Though the last one does not make total sense without them. :-?

The lawyer representing the bank, is hot and seems to have taken a liking to me pre-op Ts and all. Which to me is about as perfect of a possible match I could hope for. This excites me and I wanted to share it with the girls here.

If there is someone out there as down on men as I was I hope this can give some hope to them. I am not the best looking, nor am I the ugliest, Yet I can get that vibe from such a man. If I can anyone can. There is hope, at least, for any of us looking for a good man.

[Justawannabe]

Well it all sounds good to me... if he doesn't chase you at least give it one try chasing him... sometimes even the good ones need a kick.

Sean

[Tomfurbs]

Who's taking who to court again? I'm getting a bit confused.

[TsVanessa69]

@ Honda
Not a relationship yet. The confusing ness of this mess is why I advised people to skip those first paragraphs of the first post. Though the last one does not make total sense without them. :-?

The lawyer representing the bank, is hot and seems to have taken a liking to me pre-op Ts and all. Which to me is about as perfect of a possible match I could hope for. This excites me and I wanted to share it with the girls here.

If there is someone out there as down on men as I was I hope this can give some hope to them. I am not the best looking, nor am I the ugliest, Yet I can get that vibe from such a man. If I can anyone can. There is hope, at least, for any of us looking for a good man.
What signals did he give you that he was interested??
So he is not your lawyer, but the lawyer suing you??
So would be like sleeping with the enemy??

[MrsKellyPierce]

congrats

[TsVanessa69]

Who's taking who to court again? I'm getting a bit confused.
Me too
So the lawyer suing her is madly in love?
or the lawyer defending her??
Has there been subliminal messages?
Any casual contatct?
Coffee dates?
Is there hope for me too??

[BrendaQG]

@ Tomfurbs and Beardedone.

I have the canceled checks that show how I actually paid rent. I paid $3200 twice and was due to pay another $4000 at the end of the lease to the original landlord. Pay to him out of student loan funds. (Where if anyone's curious working goes towards paying off other smaller bills, utils, credit cards, savings and "walking around money".)

I met the lawyer. The landlord is now a bank, the bank that gave the old landlord a mortgage, so they send their lawyer to represent them.

It ain't something until it's something. But It was just so nice to get those kind of vibes from a young, successful, man who knows my T and does not care.. So there is hope for meeting such a man, for any of us.
What vibes!!!!!!!!!!!
Do tell!
Was it how he gazed into your eyes??

Yes.



Did he rub your leg under the table??

We did not sit at the same table. He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.


Did he give you ANY clue as to HIS interest in YOU???

Yes. All I can say is body language and the tone of his conversation with me. I mean we are on opposite sides of the case. He is not my laywer. He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.


Lawyers and clients go to lunch all the time.
Thats not a conflict of interest.
I mean you are paying him right?
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.

That is why there would be a conflict of interest.

Is that crystal clear now?

I can understand why it may not have been clear. I mean who would think I could just go to court represent myself and do a good enough job to force a corporate lawyer to advise his client to cut a deal with me? (People tend to skim when reading boards like this. Then miss details.) Well that's what I did. That was all by email and court filings, never spoke to the guy, never saw the guy until today.

Perhaps I could have made my first post more understandable.

[TsVanessa69]

@ Tomfurbs and Beardedone.

I have the canceled checks that show how I actually paid rent. I paid $3200 twice and was due to pay another $4000 at the end of the lease to the original landlord. Pay to him out of student loan funds. (Where if anyone's curious working goes towards paying off other smaller bills, utils, credit cards, savings and "walking around money".)

I met the lawyer. The landlord is now a bank, the bank that gave the old landlord a mortgage, so they send their lawyer to represent them.

It ain't something until it's something. But It was just so nice to get those kind of vibes from a young, successful, man who knows my T and does not care.. So there is hope for meeting such a man, for any of us.
What vibes!!!!!!!!!!!
Do tell!
Was it how he gazed into your eyes??

Yes.



Did he rub your leg under the table??

We did not sit at the same table. He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.


Did he give you ANY clue as to HIS interest in YOU???

Yes. All I can say is body language and the tone of his conversation with me. I mean we are on opposite sides of the case. He is not my laywer. He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.


Lawyers and clients go to lunch all the time.
Thats not a conflict of interest.
I mean you are paying him right?
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.

That is why there would be a conflict of interest.

Is that crystal clear now?

I can understand why it may not have been clear. I mean who would think I could just go to court represent myself and do a good enough job to force a corporate lawyer to advise his client to cut a deal with me? (People tend to skim when reading boards like this. Then miss details.) Well that's what I did. That was all by email and court filings, never spoke to the guy, never saw the guy until today.

Perhaps I could have made my first post more understandable.
So it was like the scene in that movie where Sharon Stone crossed and uncrossed her legs and flashed her vee-ganina??
How did you dress??
Tight pencil skirt?
Low cut blouse?
Stilletto heels
glossy red lips?
Chanel No.5 perfume??
So you are a female fatale after all!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow!

[2pert4ya]

there is no hope for you in this ... he is going to see your beard ... he is going to find out you are a student that is extremely broke and have done an unsuccessful porno shoot with black tgirls - Trust me i saw the photos and damn near threw up cuz. You wild out dog . You iz out the game . DAMN

[hwbs]

i trust lawyers about as much as GWB or a car salesman !!!!!

[BrendaQG]

Who's taking who to court again? I'm getting a bit confused.
Me too
So the lawyer suing her is madly in love?
or the lawyer defending her??
Has there been subliminal messages?
Any casual contatct?
Coffee dates?
Is there hope for me too??

I never said he is madly in love. He just showed signs of interest. There was casual contact.

But for him to take me on a "coffe date" would be a conflict of interest. Which is a big no no for a lawyer.

Just imagine if I were on trial in a cirminal matter and the prosecutor took me on a date. Would that fly? Would the prosecutor risk loosing his job and being disbarred? Neither would this guy no possible relationship could be worth that.

Yes there is hope four you and me and everyone. I mean heck the last thing I was doing was looking for a man and whoomp! Here is a prime candidate right in my lap! :-)

[BrendaQG]

there is no hope for you in this ... he is going to see your beard ... he is going to find out you are a student that is extremely broke and have done an unsuccessful porno shoot with black tgirls - Trust me i saw the photos and damn near threw up cuz. You wild out dog . You iz out the game . DAMN

Ohh bitch that's some really expert reading. Well let me put this to ya.

There is more hope for me to get a hot sexy young lawyer than there is for you. You probably looking like a butch queen in drag for the first time, ratty wig, shoes you stole from your mama, razor bumps all over, track marks all up in your ass hole, tryin to read while standing in line at the free clinic, which your ghetto looking ass. The only lawyer who would speak a word directly to you is the public defender at your prostitution trial.

Bitch.

[trannybanger]

ok, let me get this straight... a corporate lawyer for a large company that probably has a stable life and makes a good living would be interested in going on a date with a transexual (debatable use of term) that he is in the process of evicting through a court proceeding....

yeah this is completely possible.... :roll:

[BrendaQG]

@ Tomfurbs and Beardedone.

I have the canceled checks that show how I actually paid rent. I paid $3200 twice and was due to pay another $4000 at the end of the lease to the original landlord. Pay to him out of student loan funds. (Where if anyone's curious working goes towards paying off other smaller bills, utils, credit cards, savings and "walking around money".)

I met the lawyer. The landlord is now a bank, the bank that gave the old landlord a mortgage, so they send their lawyer to represent them.

It ain't something until it's something. But It was just so nice to get those kind of vibes from a young, successful, man who knows my T and does not care.. So there is hope for meeting such a man, for any of us.
What vibes!!!!!!!!!!!
Do tell!
Was it how he gazed into your eyes??

Yes.



Did he rub your leg under the table??

We did not sit at the same table. He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.


Did he give you ANY clue as to HIS interest in YOU???

Yes. All I can say is body language and the tone of his conversation with me. I mean we are on opposite sides of the case. He is not my laywer. He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.


Lawyers and clients go to lunch all the time.
Thats not a conflict of interest.
I mean you are paying him right?
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.

That is why there would be a conflict of interest.

Is that crystal clear now?

I can understand why it may not have been clear. I mean who would think I could just go to court represent myself and do a good enough job to force a corporate lawyer to advise his client to cut a deal with me? (People tend to skim when reading boards like this. Then miss details.) Well that's what I did. That was all by email and court filings, never spoke to the guy, never saw the guy until today.

Perhaps I could have made my first post more understandable.
So it was like the scene in that movie where Sharon Stone crossed and uncrossed her legs and flashed her vee-ganina??
How did you dress??
Tight pencil skirt?
Low cut blouse?
Stilletto heels
glossy red lips?
Chanel No.5 perfume??
So you are a female fatale after all!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow!

Lol girl. Fatale me? If you say so. I think they settled because I had a reasonably strong case to present a jury.

Well for court you have to go a bit conservative. So I wore this tight blue sweater dress from banana republic, flat black slippers, the wig of course, and no stockings. I just made sure to shave then moisturize my legs before I went. That dress shows allot of leg so maybe he's a leg man? I painted myself with my usual foundation , eyeliner, lip liner, and eye shadow, no lipstick. (My foundation is IMAN "clay" #5 and I wear eye shadow of the same brand. It's made to look good on women of color and can be found at Macy's and Walgreen's in black neighborhoods. )

He was wearing a steely grey business suit, cotton by the feel of it and some Italian loafers I can't identify the brand. Since we could conceivably been before the jury this same day I'll bet he wore his best and that the suit was tailored for him it fit so well. Though to be honest I have a thing for men in suits I find. Even a fat guy in a suit looks twice as good to me.

[BrendaQG]

ok, let me get this straight... a corporate lawyer for a large company that probably has a stable life and makes a good living would be interested in going on a date with a transexual (debatable use of term) that he is in the process of evicting through a court proceeding....

yeah this is completely possible.... :roll:

Actually a young lawyer like him is not in as stable of a position as you may think. The way he tells it to me there are too many lawyers in the world, he is very replaceable and his bosses let him know that every once in a while. But hey at least he has a job with real potential, a future possibility of the real big bucks.

The bank in this case is not huge so he's not their direct employee. He works at a law firm. Forcible detainer is usually a simple matter and so an relatively inexperienced lawyer would be assigned. It's just thanks to my defending myself and keeping good records I could make a case against the bank in court every bit as strong as theirs against me. Perhaps that also impressed him on a intellectual level. That is possible you know to some people it's just as important as the body.

[JANIRA]

loka try not to live too much for the boys.



AMEN...!!! BOYS DO PLAY A ROLE,, THANK GOD I COULD SEE A ACT WHEN ITS INFRONT OF ME.. AFTER HE'S DONE I CLAP..... AND WALK OFF!


Being that im a Libra and a Hopeless romantic. I tend to to feel that the older i get relationships tend to get harder & harder,, thats not to rule love out completely, I belive in love even, throughtout the sour times i've had in love, what keeps me going is the Idea of love, not to mention having found the one true love of my life.......ME!

[TsVanessa69]

Here is what happened to me yesterday!
I was on the Red Line train going to The Baton to pay for my table for the Miss Continental Pageant. I noticed a cute latino papi eyeing me and smiling. So I proceed to get off at Grand, and am on the escalator going up and listening to my Ipod. Out of nowhere I feel a tap on my waist,it was the young man from the train. He introduced himself, and ask me my name. I was all wrmn and fuzzy inside. We alighted the stop and are now on the street. He puts his arm around my waist as we walk down Grand to Clark, he asks me where I am going and if he can walk with me. We chat and laugh walking down the street, his arm around me the whole time. He tells me he would love to hang out with me and puts his number in my phone. He gives me a quik kiss on the lips and I go take care of business. He called me a few minutes ago, asking why I had not called him yesterday when I was done.
Now is this love???????????????????

[TsVanessa69]

@ Tomfurbs and Beardedone.

I have the canceled checks that show how I actually paid rent. I paid $3200 twice and was due to pay another $4000 at the end of the lease to the original landlord. Pay to him out of student loan funds. (Where if anyone's curious working goes towards paying off other smaller bills, utils, credit cards, savings and "walking around money".)

I met the lawyer. The landlord is now a bank, the bank that gave the old landlord a mortgage, so they send their lawyer to represent them.

It ain't something until it's something. But It was just so nice to get those kind of vibes from a young, successful, man who knows my T and does not care.. So there is hope for meeting such a man, for any of us.
What vibes!!!!!!!!!!!
Do tell!
Was it how he gazed into your eyes??

Yes.



Did he rub your leg under the table??

We did not sit at the same table. He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.


Did he give you ANY clue as to HIS interest in YOU???

Yes. All I can say is body language and the tone of his conversation with me. I mean we are on opposite sides of the case. He is not my laywer. He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.


Lawyers and clients go to lunch all the time.
Thats not a conflict of interest.
I mean you are paying him right?
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.

That is why there would be a conflict of interest.

Is that crystal clear now?

I can understand why it may not have been clear. I mean who would think I could just go to court represent myself and do a good enough job to force a corporate lawyer to advise his client to cut a deal with me? (People tend to skim when reading boards like this. Then miss details.) Well that's what I did. That was all by email and court filings, never spoke to the guy, never saw the guy until today.

Perhaps I could have made my first post more understandable.
So it was like the scene in that movie where Sharon Stone crossed and uncrossed her legs and flashed her vee-ganina??
How did you dress??
Tight pencil skirt?
Low cut blouse?
Stilletto heels
glossy red lips?
Chanel No.5 perfume??
So you are a female fatale after all!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow!

Lol girl. Fatale me? If you say so. I think they settled because I had a reasonably strong case to present a jury.

Well for court you have to go a bit conservative. So I wore this tight blue sweater dress from banana republic, flat black slippers, the wig of course, and no stockings. I just made sure to shave then moisturize my legs before I went. That dress shows allot of leg so maybe he's a leg man? I painted myself with my usual foundation , eyeliner, lip liner, and eye shadow, no lipstick. (My foundation is IMAN "clay" #5 and I wear eye shadow of the same brand. It's made to look good on women of color and can be found at Macy's and Walgreen's in black neighborhoods. )

He was wearing a steely grey business suit, cotton by the feel of it and some Italian loafers I can't identify the brand. Since we could conceivably been before the jury this same day I'll bet he wore his best and that the suit was tailored for him it fit so well. Though to be honest I have a thing for men in suits I find. Even a fat guy in a suit looks twice as good to me.
Well girl, that where your problem was. You didn't wear lip gloss!
If you would have glossed those lips, instead of typing here on HA you would be in a nice htel room having mad passionate monkey sex!
Gloss girl!!

[mimiplastique]

Brenda congratulations on your new found relationship ...
now th next time you go to court and meet him wear the dress that i wore to do jessica rabbit in and have a hat cocked to the right ... a big huge hat with a veil and some fire red lipstick
5 inch pumps and a ciggy in one hand and let him have it :)
i am sure he will go up for you in more than one way if you catch my drift

[mimiplastique]

here is an example of what you should wear :)

[BeardedOne]

Even a fat guy in a suit looks twice as good to me.

Ah, so even =I= have a chance, eh? :P

Even if you have the hots for a *Kaff* *Gag* lawyer, you can sweep aside the conflict of interest thing once the case is decided. As neither of you would be in a position to sway the decision at that point, it is free game.

Good luck.

[Paladin]

Deardedone is correct, once this is settled, there's no possible conflict of interest.

[mimiplastique]

does he know the dirt ????
because here where i am now ...there is this boy that happens to be from chicago THAT DOES NOT KNOW and i am terrified of him finding out so i have just stayed to myself in my hotel suite .

[TsVanessa69]

does he know the dirt ????
because here where i am now ...there is this boy that happens to be from chicago THAT DOES NOT KNOW and i am terrified of him finding out so i have just stayed to myself in my hotel suite .
Oh girl, they know, he just called me and said he didn't know why you were acting funny. He TVO'd your recent Jerry episode. So if anybody ever had a doubt, Jerry and Tevis cleared that up today. You may know life without worry. EVERYBODY knows! Be free! And find a lawyer. Maybe you can be a witness in Brenda's case and secure a verdict in her favor :wink:

[Felicia Katt]

The difference between a lawyer and a rooster is that a rooster wakes up in the morning and clucks defiance :)

meow

FK

[Intrepid]

Damn Janira....You too fine!!!

[JANIRA]

Thx you sweety.....

[BrendaQG]

Even a fat guy in a suit looks twice as good to me.

Ah, so even =I= have a chance, eh? :P

Even if you have the hots for a *Kaff* *Gag* lawyer, you can sweep aside the conflict of interest thing once the case is decided. As neither of you would be in a position to sway the decision at that point, it is free game.

Good luck.

That's what I will hope for. Meeting men like this one is hard.

@Vanessa

Love? In my experience guys like that one just want sex. Which is sometimes all I want too. Ya know though I get tired of that and wish for more. That's all I'm saying.

@Mimi

:-) That's something I could do. That and lip gloss.

@Janira

I don't live for boys. It's just not often that a good one comes along.

@ no one in particular.....

This is like some mutated form of liking a bad boy. I mean hell he's suing me in court and I can only think of ripping his clothes off and riding him like a prize bull.

[hondarobot]

I would have to agree with the post about Janira being hot. That's about all the sense I can make out of yet another Brenda/Mimi/Vanessa fight thread.

:?

[mimiplastique]

I would have to agree with the post about Janira being hot. That's about all the sense I can make out of yet another Brenda/Mimi/Vanessa fight thread.

:?


no bodys fighting baby

[hondarobot]

Oh, Ok then. I wasn't sure what was going on, and I'm trying to enjoy a nice steak at the moment. Please carry on.

:)

[TsVanessa69]

I would have to agree with the post about Janira being hot. That's about all the sense I can make out of yet another Brenda/Mimi/Vanessa fight thread.

:?
We are not fighting!
We are encouraging Brenda and trying to decifer if this is love or a crush on Brenda.

[TsVanessa69]

Even a fat guy in a suit looks twice as good to me.

Ah, so even =I= have a chance, eh? :P

Even if you have the hots for a *Kaff* *Gag* lawyer, you can sweep aside the conflict of interest thing once the case is decided. As neither of you would be in a position to sway the decision at that point, it is free game.

Good luck.

That's what I will hope for. Meeting men like this one is hard.

@Vanessa

Love? In my experience guys like that one just want sex. Which is sometimes all I want too. Ya know though I get tired of that and wish for more. That's all I'm saying.

@Mimi

:-) That's something I could do. That and lip gloss.

@Janira

I don't live for boys. It's just not often that a good one comes along.

@ no one in particular.....

This is like some mutated form of liking a bad boy. I mean hell he's suing me in court and I can only think of ripping his clothes off and riding him like a prize bull.
U never know, I found love for a breif second when I was in Puerto Rico.
He was far from a lawyer.
He was 19, poor, well hung, romantic,and crazy just like me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
We loved many of the same things.
Puppy love, but I felt like a teenager again!
Life is short, and for us, LOVE is rare and short lived.

[JANIRA]

Even a fat guy in a suit looks twice as good to me.

Ah, so even =I= have a chance, eh? :P

Even if you have the hots for a *Kaff* *Gag* lawyer, you can sweep aside the conflict of interest thing once the case is decided. As neither of you would be in a position to sway the decision at that point, it is free game.

Good luck.

That's what I will hope for. Meeting men like this one is hard.

@Vanessa

Love? In my experience guys like that one just want sex. Which is sometimes all I want too. Ya know though I get tired of that and wish for more. That's all I'm saying.

@Mimi

:-) That's something I could do. That and lip gloss.

@Janira

I don't live for boys. It's just not often that a good one comes along.

@ no one in particular.....

This is like some mutated form of liking a bad boy. I mean hell he's suing me in court and I can only think of ripping his clothes off and riding him like a prize bull.





Brenda , best of luck! alil advice, dont get too crushed on this guy or any guy for that matter,, you wouldn't want the crush to turn into a crash. Be suttle with a hint of flirtatious, remember it's best to remain a creature of mystery. :wink:

[uber_nerd]

Brenda , best of luck! alil advice, dont get too crushed on this guy or any guy for that matter,, you wouldn't want the crush to turn into a crash. Be suttle with a hint of flirtatious, remember it's best to remain a creature of mystery. :wink:

but make sure he knows there's a pecker in your shorts....

[uber_nerd]

why do my quotes always pop up all shitty?

[PeteIsHere]

Alyssa, I'll live for you if you want me to? Just say yes and I'm at your beck and call.


loka try not to live too much for the boys.

[mimiplastique]

Alyssa, I'll live for you if you want me to? Just say yes and I'm at your beck and call.


loka try not to live too much for the boys.


look brenda pete wants to cheat on me with alyssa

[juancarlos]

There's little in the world as wonderful as having the right girl or guy smile at you. Good for you, even if nothing comes of it. And nobody's said it yet, but good for you for going into court prepared to defend yourself - that takes guts.

There are some lawyers that are scoundrels, but most are good and honest, even noble. You're right about the conflict of interest: even though the case is technically over now that you've settled, it would still be difficult for him to have any personal involvement with you until you've officially moved out and any remaining business is wrapped up. But after that, you're free game. Is he preparing a settlement agreement? If so, call him and tell him you'll be downtown on whatever day next week and suggest you meet for coffee to get everything signed. Cool and breezy.

[TsVanessa69]

Alyssa, I'll live for you if you want me to? Just say yes and I'm at your beck and call.


loka try not to live too much for the boys.


look brenda pete wants to cheat on me with alyssa
He was jacking off to my cock pics earlier, gag on that!

[thongfanatic]

well,i can add this!
if this been your lawyer for awhile,then you can say its strictly friendship.
but,since you just retained him,i might wanna bang you?
try this,grap his cock and see how he react's, if he go'es off and turn
over the table and make threat's to do bodily harm to you,then it was'nt meant to be. 2. if he look's at you,and say,you like that huh? he might wanna hit it and 3. if he grabs your cock,i strongly suggest that might be your man!

[BrendaQG]

There's little in the world as wonderful as having the right girl or guy smile at you. Good for you, even if nothing comes of it. And nobody's said it yet, but good for you for going into court prepared to defend yourself - that takes guts.

There are some lawyers that are scoundrels, but most are good and honest, even noble. You're right about the conflict of interest: even though the case is technically over now that you've settled, it would still be difficult for him to have any personal involvement with you until you've officially moved out and any remaining business is wrapped up. But after that, you're free game. Is he preparing a settlement agreement? If so, call him and tell him you'll be downtown on whatever day next week and suggest you meet for coffee to get everything signed. Cool and breezy.

The agreement is already signed. We both contributed to the final draft. However in it I have obligations to fulfill. To move out in good order and hand over the keys.

I suppose if he is interested I will find out after the status hearing in two weeks. If not then oh well. Life goes on. I have invites to two very different parties in that time period and a few things I have wanted to do since I moved to this hood that I have been putting off (just things that the park has to offer nothing sexy.)

[BrendaQG]

well,i can add this!
if this been your lawyer for awhile,then you can say its strictly friendship.
but,since you just retained him,i might wanna bang you?
try this,grap his cock and see how he react's, if he go'es off and turn
over the table and make threat's to do bodily harm to you,then it was'nt meant to be. 2. if he look's at you,and say,you like that huh? he might wanna hit it and 3. if he grabs your cock,i strongly suggest that might be your man!

I thought I made this clear. The guy is the opposing council. He is for the plaintiff and I am the defendant. There is no reason on earth he should speak to me about anything at all other than points of law yet he did...talk to me as if we met in a bar instead of at the bar (next to the judges bench).

[BrendaQG]

@ Thano's

Ignore button. >>IGNORE<< Click!

[will802]

The tell tale sign will be after the proceedings are finished. Thats when you'll know...like janira said remain a creature of mystery and don't strap on those cement shoes as you don't want to sink...feel the water first before jumping in with both feet..

[trannybanger]

stupid 250 character limit, I had to alter the quote a tad, but it's still a great sig...

maybe after this is settled, your lawyer boyfriend can help you get your cell phone back, :roll:

you are beyond a lunatic...

i was almost crying over this shit.... fucking hilarious

[BrendaQG]

stupid 250 character limit, I had to alter the quote a tad, but it's still a great sig...

maybe after this is settled, your lawyer boyfriend can help you get your cell phone back, :roll:

you are beyond a lunatic...

i was almost crying over this shit.... fucking hilarious

I have a newer better cell phone now. Didn't you hear that. All of the youtube video's and pictures I have posted in 2008 came from it's camera. :roll:

It must be a horrible world to live in where those who are victims of crime are to be mocked. I suppose two of three generations of crack smoking mothers will do that. Or maybe Thanos is ahead of his time. If he lived in the future shown in this clip he would fit right in with everyone. (http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L0yQunhOaU0)

[TsVanessa69]

Well good news! In your neighborhood tomorrow there is a Latino Gay Pride Party in Humbolt Park! And yours truly will be one of the entertainers performing in the afternoon! The show starts at 2pm and I am scheduled to go on at 3:15, then Me and a few girlfriends will be there hannging out en femme!

[BrendaQG]

>>UN-IGNORE<<CLICK!
Just long enough to explain this.

On boards where one actually has the option of ignoring someone you can still see it when others quote them like in the message I responded to.

Ignore button >>IGNORE<< Click!

@Vanessa

I'll be there.

[mimiplastique]

brenda have you seen drak thanos tag ???

how could you ignore that ??? lol wow what a e signature


anyway ask the man can you suck his dick and then post pics doing it !!!!!


he ill like that , provided you don't scare him with all that talk of <>>>>CLICK<<<<< IGNORE shit .. what is that girl ??? LMAO


you so crazy

[BrendaQG]

That is a reference to the fact that on many other message boards out there one has the option of "ignoring" another person. It's like a sort of personal ban. When you look at the message board after you have "ignored the person" you and only you don't see what they post just a message that says you are ignoring them. Doing this usually prevents them from sending you PM's either.

Since there is no official, functional ignore button I put my own in >>IGNORE<< get it.

That what that shit is about. Have you never heard of this?

Posting pics sucking the guys dick...that's more of a thing to do with random trade. It also wouldn't prove anything about the man in the picture only that I got a white guy to let me suck his dick.

[BrendaQG]

Here is why I don't care about his signature line. It makes no sense.

Basically the person he's quoting makes this argument.

I did a photo shoot for black tgirls,

Some of the girls on black t-girls are not very pretty in fact they are described on the site as "boys with wigs",

Brendaqg did a photo shoot with black tgirls and Mimi posted the waste pics that she stole (and for this like a good Muslim I have forgiven her but not forgotten.) Pics from bad angles and with none of the photo shopping that does get done to pics on any and all porno sites.

Brendaqg's pics never showed up on black tgirls therefore they must have been unuseably bad. Worse than the worse pics on there.

Therefore Brendaqg must when totally naked look worse than the worst looking girl on black tgirls.

__________

The problem with this argument is that it assumes what the motivation of the person who own's that site are. It assumes that the reasons he would not use my set are on me and not the photog at all (who in his defense was distracted by some person who was at my shoot walking into frame, trying to gain his attention, and irritating his model).

This argument assumes basically that he'll use any pics of anyone who looks just good enough to make him money.

That dose not make sense.

While it is true his motivation is profit and making money and looks are a factor it's is but one in deciding weather or not to use a particular set.

What I did in my solo video was play with my self, then give a pee shot, then as if that weren't enough I got as close as I could to "fisting myself". I got all four fingers and thumb up there I just did not make an actual fist. So excuse me if my asshole looked a little strange after that. I did the shoot in two different outfits and in two different locations both in this apartment. We must have shot hundreds of pictures and based on just the few waste pics Mimi posted in anger and the fact that my set was never used some people on here judge me "the ugliest tranny alive" (which shows how little RL experience they have.) I tried my best to give a cum shot but under those circumstances I just could not.

Then there was a technical fact. According to my photographer a problem with my vid was that in all the confusion it got recorded on an older vhs camera instead of a newer digital camera and therefore did not have the picture quality. The stills were criticized for all having the same poses (I don't know what I could do about that. A girl only has arms and legs there's just so much that can be done with them.)

There are factors that have nothing to do with the models attractiveness at work in these decisions.

I asked the man who's decision it was to not use my pictures and as I recall he echoed those concerns to me in a PM. He's a poster here but I am sure the industry expert that Thanos is quoting knows this. :roll:

So I conclude that anyone who's opinion matters to me even a little on here would see right through that bull shit.

[mimiplastique]

@ brenda ,. with all due respect i am not tring to bring up old news but i posted every picture .... sorry ... but i just did
please do not be another person to say that their failure or mishap was all my fault i mean come on we did just now become "cool" again ....
now would'nt you rather not have those pictures on black tgirls ??? i mean you complain about it as if it were a bad thing ! i mean if i took the pictures and got paid ,.. and they were never posted

mama i would not have pressed the issue ! okay i would have rejoiced that i was paid for pictures that were thrown away !!!! SO in a way a thank you to mimi is in order !!!! i mean she did ruin you being put on the site . AnD you STILL GOT PAID !!!!!!!!!!!!
GIRL !!!!!

DO NOT MAKE THIS MY FAULT !!!!

[uber_nerd]

crazy hoes

[trannybanger]

I would suggest that you brief your new found lawyer boyfriend with a file including all your posts on here as well as your Black T-girl photos shoot including the aforementioned fist in ass attempt ( :puke ). It should give him a thorough understanding of you inside and out. Now if that doesn't send him to the alter immediately, nothing will.

[BrendaQG]

Mimi you posted every picture? :-?

First you only took one of the two CD's. You also could not have shown the video because I was not given a copy. (I am told a splice was needed to edit out every time you were visible or audible in the video even after you knew we were shooting).

Second of all there were dozens and dozens of pictures even on that one. Your showing them to the public in an uncontrolled fashion probably did ruin them being on that site, but that's kind of what I wanted. It's not for another to decide what is good for me. You had no rite and what you did was very wrong.

But that was old news and I have forgiven you and moved on so to heck with it.

Besides in the above the role you play is not that huge and could almost be left out. Even if you had all the pictures so that you could show all the pictures and then did show all the pictures..... The line of thought that would lead someone to say "BrendaQG is known to have shot for BTG and then not been used on the site therefore she must be worse looking than anyone on that site (btw then men thinking this may already be down on sista's to begin with)." That could still be their thought process even without seeing any pictures for themselves. Therefore even then one could not construe it as being "all your fault".

What deepens the mystery is that the photographer who we both know is no Daddy Warbucks did pay me off once Grooby paid him. So what the heck? Why not use what hasn't been shown? He has told me of and shown me pics of girls who Seanchi outright refused to even pay him for pictures of for various reasons.

LOL@ Trannybanger
That may not be a good idea. What he might see in that is things that I could sue people over. ':- ) You didn't think about that aspect did you? lol.

[TsVanessa69]

U did wayy too much work on that shoot. Nobody fists themselves, pee's and cums! Girl you work hard for the money!

[SarahG]

Mimi you posted every picture? :-?

First you only took one of the two CD's. You also could not have shown the video because I was not given a copy. (I am told a splice was needed to edit out every time you were visible or audible in the video even after you knew we were shooting).

Second of all there were dozens and dozens of pictures even on that one. Your showing them to the public in an uncontrolled fashion probably did ruin them being on that site, but that's kind of what I wanted. It's not for another to decide what is good for me. You had no rite and what you did was very wrong.

But that was old news and I have forgiven you and moved on so to heck with it.

Besides in the above the role you play is not that huge and could almost be left out. Even if you had all the pictures so that you could show all the pictures and then did show all the pictures..... The line of thought that would lead someone to say "BrendaQG is known to have shot for BTG and then not been used on the site therefore she must be worse looking than anyone on that site (btw then men thinking this may already be down on sista's to begin with)." That could still be their thought process even without seeing any pictures for themselves. Therefore even then one could not construe it as being "all your fault".

What deepens the mystery is that the photographer who we both know is no Daddy Warbucks did pay me off once Grooby paid him. So what the heck? Why not use what hasn't been shown? He has told me of and shown me pics of girls who Seanchi outright refused to even pay him for pictures of for various reasons.

LOL@ Trannybanger
That may not be a good idea. What he might see in that is things that I could sue people over. ':- ) You didn't think about that aspect did you? lol.

I know "dead tree" publishing companies (like books) often won't consider publishing new works that have already been distributed in the public domain...

If I were to write a book and go around posting it on P2P, you think I'd have an easy time finding a traditional publisher to print it for book stores? Probably not.

I would imagine that adult entertainment is not any different in that regard.

[BrendaQG]

@Sarah
No doubt but the consumers of porn don't know the inside politics that can go into this business.

@ Vanessa

I had to make a point. That I could do it if I wanted to. Talk is cheap and I had to put it where my mouth was....almost literally. lol

[trannybanger]

The politics or porn are simple. Sell what people will buy!!