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totalhonesty
07-14-2008, 05:28 PM
This is the internet. Ok, we've established that. But when you come here disrespecting the same men that you look to for rent money and bills, make-up, money to transition, money for shoes and handbags. Then why do you get so upset when someone like myself disrespects you back? I walk down a two-way street with everyone. Trannies are no different. And I can say that there are only about 4 trannies that post here that this applies to. Other girls that post here I have no problem with. And some I take with a grain of salt. Maybe for some here, a person can come aboard and make a complete ass of themselves by offending men. Calling them fags and the like. And make a couple of idiotic youtube vids and all of the sudden, their image is repaired. For me thats bullshit. First impressions are lasting. What I say here, my views and opinions, are the same IRL. I don't change for anyone or anything. And I no longer live in the fantasy of being with a trannie. I've had plenty of them and currently working on a relationship. So this allows me to see the human being. The 4 I singled out are pretty ugly people on the inside. Very disturbed. Well, thats their cross to bear. But when they cross my path the wrong way, I will never bite my tongue. I'd like to thank Vicki(if she's still around) Jade, Allanah, Sunny, Nikka, Brenda, Hara, Wendy Williams, and a few others that dont post on a regular. Thanks for either ignoring what I say and moving on, or just allowing me to have my say. And not coming behind me to attack me cause I'm not kissing every trannies ass that posts here. Come behind me and say what you may, whatever. Keep it respectful and I will do the same. You wanna get gutta, me being an educated man can go there to. Although I prefer not to.

TomSelis
07-14-2008, 06:21 PM
The only thing I'm gonna say is, what you're seeing now is relatively tame and respectful.

totalhonesty
07-14-2008, 06:25 PM
The only thing I'm gonna say is, what you're seeing now is relatively tame and respectful.I know Selis. Its been worse.

Alyssa87
07-14-2008, 06:56 PM
uhh... hit the general discussion link and check out another thread?

thats what i do. and im deeply disturbed by a lot of what i read on this board. but eh, its better to ignore it/roll my eyes/ laugh- and let it go, no?

hwbs
07-14-2008, 06:58 PM
so how many other screen names have u had here ?

flabbybody
07-14-2008, 07:04 PM
so how many other screen names have u had here ?

you can fool me once....

yodajazz
07-14-2008, 08:56 PM
This is the internet. Ok, we've established that. But when you come here disrespecting the same men that you look to for rent money and bills, make-up, money to transition, money for shoes and handbags. Then why do you get so upset when someone like myself disrespects you back? I walk down a two-way street with everyone. Trannies are no different. And I can say that there are only about 4 trannies that post here that this applies to. Other girls that post here I have no problem with. And some I take with a grain of salt. Maybe for some here, a person can come aboard and make a complete ass of themselves by offending men. Calling them fags and the like. And make a couple of idiotic youtube vids and all of the sudden, their image is repaired. For me thats bullshit. First impressions are lasting. What I say here, my views and opinions, are the same IRL. I don't change for anyone or anything. And I no longer live in the fantasy of being with a trannie. I've had plenty of them and currently working on a relationship. So this allows me to see the human being. The 4 I singled out are pretty ugly people on the inside. Very disturbed. Well, thats their cross to bear. But when they cross my path the wrong way, I will never bite my tongue. I'd like to thank Vicki(if she's still around) Jade, Allanah, Sunny, Nikka, Brenda, Hara, Wendy Williams, and a few others that dont post on a regular. Thanks for either ignoring what I say and moving on, or just allowing me to have my say. And not coming behind me to attack me cause I'm not kissing every trannies ass that posts here. Come behind me and say what you may, whatever. Keep it respectful and I will do the same. You wanna get gutta, me being an educated man can go there to. Although I prefer not to.

I wholeheartedly agree. All it takes is one irrational person and then others agreeing to create a hostile atmosphere. I was recently very offended by someone’s comments, but it has died down in the last few days. I’m am going to follow my own advice to not feed into the negativity, by giving it so much attention. I admit to using the negative terms she said in different posts. My purpose was to get someone else to say this is not the truth about us. I even considered leaving the forum.

So many times here women say they want to make it easier for those coming up behind them. Like someone else has said; some of the attacks on men increase men’s feelings of guilt and makes it more difficult for younger men, who are struggling to identify themselves. I have taken the position that labels are not that useful or important, to help fight some of the guilt.

The nail in the coffin of negativity burned in my mind, was in a recent thread, where a woman was arguing that ts escorts can make up to $250,000 a year. So it hit me that most people here are enjoying themselves, or at least taking advantage of business opportunities.

Bottom line like "totalhonesty" says, were all human beings,

totalhonesty
07-14-2008, 10:00 PM
This is the internet. Ok, we've established that. But when you come here disrespecting the same men that you look to for rent money and bills, make-up, money to transition, money for shoes and handbags. Then why do you get so upset when someone like myself disrespects you back? I walk down a two-way street with everyone. Trannies are no different. And I can say that there are only about 4 trannies that post here that this applies to. Other girls that post here I have no problem with. And some I take with a grain of salt. Maybe for some here, a person can come aboard and make a complete ass of themselves by offending men. Calling them fags and the like. And make a couple of idiotic youtube vids and all of the sudden, their image is repaired. For me thats bullshit. First impressions are lasting. What I say here, my views and opinions, are the same IRL. I don't change for anyone or anything. And I no longer live in the fantasy of being with a trannie. I've had plenty of them and currently working on a relationship. So this allows me to see the human being. The 4 I singled out are pretty ugly people on the inside. Very disturbed. Well, thats their cross to bear. But when they cross my path the wrong way, I will never bite my tongue. I'd like to thank Vicki(if she's still around) Jade, Allanah, Sunny, Nikka, Brenda, Hara, Wendy Williams, and a few others that dont post on a regular. Thanks for either ignoring what I say and moving on, or just allowing me to have my say. And not coming behind me to attack me cause I'm not kissing every trannies ass that posts here. Come behind me and say what you may, whatever. Keep it respectful and I will do the same. You wanna get gutta, me being an educated man can go there to. Although I prefer not to.

I wholeheartedly agree. All it takes is one irrational person and then others agreeing to create a hostile atmosphere. I was recently very offended by someone’s comments, but it has died down in the last few days. I’m am going to follow my own advice to not feed into the negativity, by giving it so much attention. I admit to using the negative terms she said in different posts. My purpose was to get someone else to say this is not the truth about us. I even considered leaving the forum.

So many times here women say they want to make it easier for those coming up behind them. Like someone else has said; some of the attacks on men increase men’s feelings of guilt and makes it more difficult for younger men, who are struggling to identify themselves. I have taken the position that labels are not that useful or important, to help fight some of the guilt.

The nail in the coffin of negativity burned in my mind, was in a recent thread, where a woman was arguing that ts escorts can make up to $250,000 a year. So it hit me that most people here are enjoying themselves, or at least taking advantage of business opportunities.

Bottom line like "totalhonesty" says, were all human beings,Well said Yodazz.

totalhonesty
07-14-2008, 10:00 PM
This is the internet. Ok, we've established that. But when you come here disrespecting the same men that you look to for rent money and bills, make-up, money to transition, money for shoes and handbags. Then why do you get so upset when someone like myself disrespects you back? I walk down a two-way street with everyone. Trannies are no different. And I can say that there are only about 4 trannies that post here that this applies to. Other girls that post here I have no problem with. And some I take with a grain of salt. Maybe for some here, a person can come aboard and make a complete ass of themselves by offending men. Calling them fags and the like. And make a couple of idiotic youtube vids and all of the sudden, their image is repaired. For me thats bullshit. First impressions are lasting. What I say here, my views and opinions, are the same IRL. I don't change for anyone or anything. And I no longer live in the fantasy of being with a trannie. I've had plenty of them and currently working on a relationship. So this allows me to see the human being. The 4 I singled out are pretty ugly people on the inside. Very disturbed. Well, thats their cross to bear. But when they cross my path the wrong way, I will never bite my tongue. I'd like to thank Vicki(if she's still around) Jade, Allanah, Sunny, Nikka, Brenda, Hara, Wendy Williams, and a few others that dont post on a regular. Thanks for either ignoring what I say and moving on, or just allowing me to have my say. And not coming behind me to attack me cause I'm not kissing every trannies ass that posts here. Come behind me and say what you may, whatever. Keep it respectful and I will do the same. You wanna get gutta, me being an educated man can go there to. Although I prefer not to.

I wholeheartedly agree. All it takes is one irrational person and then others agreeing to create a hostile atmosphere. I was recently very offended by someone’s comments, but it has died down in the last few days. I’m am going to follow my own advice to not feed into the negativity, by giving it so much attention. I admit to using the negative terms she said in different posts. My purpose was to get someone else to say this is not the truth about us. I even considered leaving the forum.

So many times here women say they want to make it easier for those coming up behind them. Like someone else has said; some of the attacks on men increase men’s feelings of guilt and makes it more difficult for younger men, who are struggling to identify themselves. I have taken the position that labels are not that useful or important, to help fight some of the guilt.

The nail in the coffin of negativity burned in my mind, was in a recent thread, where a woman was arguing that ts escorts can make up to $250,000 a year. So it hit me that most people here are enjoying themselves, or at least taking advantage of business opportunities.

Bottom line like "totalhonesty" says, were all human beings,Well said Yodazz.

Moon
07-14-2008, 10:14 PM
I agree some here do have a lost of issues.

I have had 3 relationships with tg girls in the last 20 years and I am currently living happily with my 4th tg partner.

None of the ones I have met have had the kind of attitude some here have.

I treat as I am treated and always respect others opinion.

Moon

Overlord Abomination
07-15-2008, 02:50 AM
Why does everyone want the world to be a nice place? I honestly think if you take some shit someone types on a msg board to heart you better learn to reinforce yourself and be stronger. Its a computer. If someone calls me anything I'll either do the same in return or laugh at that shit. Stop wearing your heart on your sleeve laugh and say fuck it.

Were fuckin typing to each other.

I didnt read this entire thread

totalhonesty
07-15-2008, 03:27 AM
Why does everyone want the world to be a nice place? I honestly think if you take some shit someone types on a msg board to heart you better learn to reinforce yourself and be stronger. Its a computer. If someone calls me anything I'll either do the same in return or laugh at that shit. Stop wearing your heart on your sleeve laugh and say fuck it.

Were fuckin typing to each other.

I didnt read this entire threadYou are from Philly right? It shows. The opening line in my post establishes that this is the internet. And it was posted to the ladies. Fucking Filthadelphia people. Priceless.

Overlord Abomination
07-15-2008, 03:40 AM
lol you wimp. ahahahahaha I knew you established it. But if you established the fact your fuckin whining and lookin at a monitor (In your case probably for...ever) then why the fuck are you gettin so hurt. Once again i didnt read your crybaby thread I just wanted to tell you to cheer up. So heres me saying it again, Whiny. :cry: Go Wipe your tears with your keyboard. Who loves ya?

totalhonesty
07-15-2008, 04:00 AM
lol you wimp. ahahahahaha I knew you established it. But if you established the fact your fuckin whining and lookin at a monitor (In your case probably for...ever) then why the fuck are you gettin so hurt. Once again i didnt read your crybaby thread I just wanted to tell you to cheer up. So heres me saying it again, Whiny. :cry: Go Wipe your tears with your keyboard. Who loves ya?Just like I said. Philly, the city of jackasses.