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Lick UR Lovely
06-30-2008, 01:43 AM
I'm just wondering if you would take a Transgendered woman home to meet your parents, and would they be ok with you dating a TG? Would they dishone you or accept it?

Any answers will be appreciated.....

NYTSJulie
06-30-2008, 01:45 AM
if I brought a tranny home and said I was in a relationship with her it wouldn't go over too well, lol.

peggygee
06-30-2008, 02:09 AM
I meet the family, friends, co-workers, etc. Never been a problem.

Though I'm reluctant to bring them around my peeps until I know
they're stable, and are a keeper.

Lick UR Lovely
06-30-2008, 02:09 AM
Julie, Ur drop dead gorgeous baby.... I would introduce you even if they took me out of the will :D

Fox
06-30-2008, 02:10 AM
They wouldn't know because it's none of their business, unless she wanted them to know or if it was relevant somehow. My mom would probably be ok with it after some explaining, my dad is a homophobe so it'd be like talking to a brick wall.

Good thing I don't need anyone's approval. ;)

NYTSJulie
06-30-2008, 03:00 AM
Julie, Ur drop dead gorgeous baby.... I would introduce you even if they took me out of the will :D

Dont worry they wouldn't clock me, lol. I am not a super model but I am passable and attractive.

I have met the families of guys I have dated. Though my ex that I was with for 4 yrs eventually told his mother. She was a bit taken back but was ok with it and it was not an issue at all. His dad never knew. He loved me, he was kinda like the character Frank from the show Everyone Loves Raymond. He hated everyone but adored me.

My ex didnt walk around telling people and people didnt know, but if anyone ever found out he could of cared less. If anyone was to ever call me a man he would of probably replied with "well that's my man then" and punch them in the face.

He loved me for me, and didnt care if anyone found out and that's the best way to be if you date a tranny.

BeardedOne
06-30-2008, 03:02 AM
Well, my parents are history and I don't socialize all that much with family, so this question doesn't come up a lot.

My close friends know, as do my business associates, that I'm most likely to show up with a 'special' gurl on my arm, so it's never been an issue.

So, yah, if the circumstances were different, I'd have no problem taking her home to meet me mum.

kaiser1one
06-30-2008, 03:12 AM
My family wouldn't care too much. My mom would prefer odds are I date a real woman but she wouldn't make a big fuss over it. Nor my dad.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
06-30-2008, 03:29 AM
if I brought a tranny home and said I was in a relationship with her it wouldn't go over too well, lol.

Lmao :lol:

You're hilarious girl!

:P

~Kisses.

HTG

Justawannabe
06-30-2008, 03:52 AM
My family was fine for the most part... they only ever had one issue, and that was this odd business dinner/birthday party for my dad. They worried about causing waves for my Dad at work (well mom, sister and sister-in-law did), but he was fine with it, and no problems came up so they have kind of gotten over even that.

My one big issue, I argued often with folks that GLBT folks should be equal, so my girls had to deal with being clocked more than they should have been due to association with me. It's odd, I have a lesbian sister and two trans exes but everyone wants me to stay quiet on the issues, so I don't blow their cover. I just don't understand how we can change anything if we don't speak up.

- I at least understand being not 'part of the club' when I decided to not do anything my own gender issues, but someone has to speak up right?

sean

LTR_Seeker
06-30-2008, 03:53 AM
well my dadis passed away my mom wouldnt mind at all

BiGuy4TS
07-02-2008, 05:10 AM
My parents both know that I've dated TS women before, and have met one of them as well. They are totally cool with it.

LibertyHarkness
07-02-2008, 12:23 PM
Well my parents have really only just gotten used to the fact i now live as a girl....though we are an open family and i am upfront about my work i do etc so tehy know i get banged for bucks on films :)

In terms of dating interesting one i was in a 8yr relationship that ended in feb with my ex female gf, my parents are divided abit, mum would love me to have a boyfriend or trans partner where as my dad is still somewhat the caveman and is like get a normal bird :)

All in all i think they wouldnt really be bothered as long as i was happy....But its a good question as its one i have put to guys that hassle you to take you out.....would you take me out to your local? would you introduce me to your friends? would you introduce me to your family? are normally questions i ask :)

Well you can guess the response 99% of time :)

macfan
07-02-2008, 12:47 PM
I'm just wondering if you would take a Transgendered woman home to meet your parents, and would they be ok with you dating a TG? Would they dishone you or accept it?

Any answers will be appreciated.....

My mom is very liberal in using offensive homosexual terms, I know it just from the way she speaks when stories pop up on the news, but I am her only child and knowing her and her knowing me, she would be cool about it. I'm a very confident person and have no issues walking hand in hand with a TG girl if we are together.

My mom knows my personality and if I had to explain the TG subject to her I would be able to do so pretty convincingly.

macfan
07-02-2008, 12:52 PM
My ex didnt walk around telling people and people didnt know, but if anyone ever found out he could of cared less. If anyone was to ever call me a man he would of probably replied with "well that's my man then" and punch them in the face.

He loved me for me, and didnt care if anyone found out and that's the best way to be if you date a tranny.

I concur Julie, that is the way I look at it. Either way I'm cool with it, whether people know or not, you have to live your life and can't worry about others opinions to the detriment of your own happiness.

Odelay
07-02-2008, 04:49 PM
i'd only take a tgirl to meet my parents if she were 5'5 or shorter and had a super fem voice and passable face.

Make sure she's extra gregarious too. That will provide a lot of unintentional humor if she has a couple of glasses of wine in her and she accidentally blurts out that she's a transsexual. :twisted:

Nicole Dupre
12-05-2009, 03:49 PM
I'm just wondering if you would take a Transgendered woman home to meet your parents, and would they be ok with you dating a TG? Would they dishone you or accept it?

Any answers will be appreciated.....

"Dishone"? Oh, I'll dish one alright, sperm breath.

I would drill a hole in your skull, and funnel battery acid and malt liquor into it... because you have AIDS... and no one likes you anyway...

Oh, my! Did I just type that and press "Submi..." ???

irvin66
12-05-2009, 04:35 PM
I do not know if I would dare to tell it? Maybe? :roll:

-suo
12-05-2009, 04:49 PM
If she was passable I deff would bring her around. I don't think I would tell anyone because there is something hot about it being a secret. Something that you both hold as a secret together and when your with ur friends and family you look at each other and just know that you have something special that no one knows about. That's hot.

irvin66
12-05-2009, 05:43 PM
If she was passable I deff would bring her around. I don't think I would tell anyone because there is something hot about it being a secret. Something that you both hold as a secret together and when your with ur friends and family you look at each other and just know that you have something special that no one knows about. That's hot.

I agree! It's hot with a secret! :D

giovanni_hotel
12-05-2009, 08:52 PM
I'm just wondering if you would take a Transgendered woman home to meet your parents, and would they be ok with you dating a TG? Would they dishone you or accept it?

Any answers will be appreciated.....

"Dishone"? Oh, I'll dish one alright, sperm breath.

I would drill a hole in your skull, and funnel battery acid and malt liquor into it... because you have AIDS... and no one likes you anyway...

Oh, my! Did I just type that and press "Submi..." ???

LOLOL!!

Why do I feel so guilty when you make me laugh out loud, Nikki???

My pops is in the great beyond, and my mom is a prude, so, no, unless the girl could pass, it's unlikely we're going to my mom's house for too many Sunday dinners.

At least not at first. :)

Otherwise, socially, if I'm comfortable enough to fuck/suck you, I'm cool enough with myself to date you too.

phobun
12-06-2009, 02:54 AM
Julie, Ur drop dead gorgeous baby.... I would introduce you even if they took me out of the will :D

Dont worry they wouldn't clock me, lol. I am not a super model but I am passable and attractive.

I have met the families of guys I have dated. Though my ex that I was with for 4 yrs eventually told his mother. She was a bit taken back but was ok with it and it was not an issue at all. His dad never knew. He loved me, he was kinda like the character Frank from the show Everyone Loves Raymond. He hated everyone but adored me.

My ex didnt walk around telling people and people didnt know, but if anyone ever found out he could of cared less. If anyone was to ever call me a man he would of probably replied with "well that's my man then" and punch them in the face.

He loved me for me, and didnt care if anyone found out and that's the best way to be if you date a tranny.

What happened? He couldn't deal with the escorting?

Nicole Dupre
12-06-2009, 03:10 AM
What happened? He couldn't deal with the escorting?

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Would you like to thuck him right back, thailor?

I thay thith becauth I care.

How ith you cored-out crotch GF, Peggy Gee, doing? Sheeth thexy.

NYTSJulie
12-07-2009, 08:18 AM
Julie, Ur drop dead gorgeous baby.... I would introduce you even if they took me out of the will :D

Dont worry they wouldn't clock me, lol. I am not a super model but I am passable and attractive.

I have met the families of guys I have dated. Though my ex that I was with for 4 yrs eventually told his mother. She was a bit taken back but was ok with it and it was not an issue at all. His dad never knew. He loved me, he was kinda like the character Frank from the show Everyone Loves Raymond. He hated everyone but adored me.

My ex didnt walk around telling people and people didnt know, but if anyone ever found out he could of cared less. If anyone was to ever call me a man he would of probably replied with "well that's my man then" and punch them in the face.

He loved me for me, and didnt care if anyone found out and that's the best way to be if you date a tranny.

What happened? He couldn't deal with the escorting?

No I left him for someone else lol

blacktgirls
12-07-2009, 10:45 AM
I'm just wondering if you would take a Transgendered woman home to meet your parents, and would they be ok with you dating a TG? Would they dishone you or accept it?

Any answers will be appreciated.....

"Dishone"? Oh, I'll dish one alright, sperm breath.

I would drill a hole in your skull, and funnel battery acid and malt liquor into it... because you have AIDS... and no one likes you anyway...

Oh, my! Did I just type that and press "Submi..." ??? :lol: