HAS ANYONE HERE EVER TRULY BEEN IN LOVE WITH A TRANNY?

I'M CURIOUS IF ANYONE (ATLEAST 1 PERSON, SHEESH!) HAS EVER SHARED A LONG TERM ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP WITH A TRANNY WHO THEY TRULY LOVED.

AND ALSO HAS ANYONE EVER LIVED LONG TERM WITH A TRANNY.

LONG TERM AS IN ATLEAST A YEAR.

[shanghai'd]

In a five year relationship, living together now.

Very normal life (even boring at times!)

A relationship is never impossible, just takes work.

[castabyss]

My answer: No.

But I've only been in two relationships that ever lasted more than a year anyway. I'm a Gemini, I'm fickle.

Most trannies don't seem to like me anyway, so I don't see the opportunity presenting itself. It would be interesting, but I can't honestly say how I'd react if the situation DID present itself.

[Capable Black Man]

No; never dated transsexuals currently dating a regular (genetic) female of 2 years.

[mixedprettyboy]

Nope. How can you love someone who's selling their body to strangers? It's almost like cheating in my opinion, even if you're getting paid for it. I wouldn't date a GG who was an escort and I sure won't date a tranny who is one either.

[Ecstatic]

Mixedthug, why are you assuming that all trannys are escorts? .'s question was whether anyone has been in an LTR with a tranny, not with a tranny escort. Not all trannys are escorts; in fact, I think only a small percentage of them are. Many work normal jobs, have careers, and don't publicize themselves. A few even hang out on this board from time to time.

some trannys dont sell there body. they sell the idea n fantasy of people havin sex with em.

[Ecstatic]

Hey CBM, I like your avatar, but could you maybe shrink it to about 1/2 its width? You're pushing all the content of the posts over to half the screen width--and that's on my monitor set to 1152x864.

[mixedprettyboy]

Mixedthug, why are you assuming that all trannys are escorts? .'s question was whether anyone has been in an LTR with a tranny, not with a tranny escort. Not all trannys are escorts; in fact, I think only a small percentage of them are. Many work normal jobs, have careers, and don't publicize themselves. A few even hang out on this board from time to time.

I've been with a few, they were escorts and although they didn't charge me, I was turned off by the fact that they were fucking all these nasty men for money. And I don't know to many who ain't escorts. Most of them ARE, especially the ones we see on the websites. The ones that ain't escorts are the ones who are far from attractive. I'm picky and like trannies who look totally female. I could never be seen with a spookable tranny that peeps would be talking behind my back about.

u say the same shit every day thug. kinda obsessive compulsive pa.

[Ecstatic]

Well, you wouldn't know many from the context: they are not normally found on porn websites, escorting, or otherwise marketing their bodies. So how do you know most of them are escorts? You only know that most of those you've met in these places are escorts (and even that's not true). And how on earth do you know that the ones who don't escort are "far from attractive"? There's a whole lot of unfounded assumptions going on there.

[mixedprettyboy]

And how on earth do you know that the ones who don't escort are "far from attractive"? There's a whole lot of unfounded assumptions going on there.

Because they don't have the money like the ones who are escorts have to modify things. Most still look like crossdressers or at least androgenous men. I'm not knockin escorts, but I don't understand why they continue to do it after they're transitioned. It's as if they refuse to find a respectable career.

mixed thug when did u get your master's degree in tranny sciences? lmao. :lol:

[hillbilly]

ok for arguments sake how many TS' does anyone know that aren't or have never been escorts.

[Ecstatic]

Many trannies have money from other sources and don't need to escort or do porn to make the coin for their transition. Others work bloody hard to get there. Some do porn or escort because they want to, not because they have to.

[mixedprettyboy]

ok for arguments sake how many TS' does anyone know that aren't or have never been escorts.

Good question my man.

I never thought I'd say this, but I have a lot more respect for some of you guys who are labeled 'tranny chasers.'

i love how people constantly change my topics i create. i didn't have much hope for this thread seeing as how not all but most of the people with opinions here at HA are unhappy individual and who could ever love someone who doesn't love themself. not me. the internet world is growing increasingly boring to me. i think im bout hire someone to run my sites so i dont even have to interact with such negativity.

[mixedprettyboy]

Many trannies have money from other sources and don't need to escort or do porn to make the coin for their transition. Others work bloody hard to get there. Some do porn or escort because they want to, not because they have to.
They're escorts because it's easy money. It's the only way you can make $2,000+ a week. You can't do that with a normal 9-5 job unless you've been to college and have the degrees for it. But I've noticed the girls will get their surgery, ect, and STILL escort as if it's going to be their life long career.

[hillbilly]

its called a conversation. trying to dictate where it calls certainly would make it dull wouldn't it?

so why dont u support them then if u wanna be with em. if they love u they will stop. but u need to be prepared and be a man and hold shit down.

matter fact with my ex... i stopped and had a job out security for 2 months just to prove a point to him.

[Ecstatic]

ok for arguments sake how many TS' does anyone know that aren't or have never been escorts.

Good question but the wrong forum, hillbilly. We are a deeply skewed population here, hardly representative. :)

Given the nature of transgenderism, statistics are fluid and hard to come by, but estimates of the MTF transsexual population of America today are somewhere over 40,000. There ain't that many ads on Eros.

Yes, escorting is easy money. It's also risky money, and many (but by no means all) of these girls blow through their money like crazy buying Gucci and Prada or coke or whatever. Such girls like the fast lane life: but where will they be in 10? 15? 20? Smart girls who need the coin may escort, but they also bank it wisely.

[mixedprettyboy]

so why dont u supprt them then. if they love u they will stop. but u need to be prepared and be a man and hold shit down.

Why should I? They're not my kids. They should go back to school and and make their money like everyone else does. And no they won't stop. Once they get sucked into it they can't get out. They're obsessed with the money.

[hillbilly]

they won't stop. half of them are addicted to the attention. shit they lie like dogs to one another and say to their "friends" they aren't turning tricks then you see them standing in the shadows at trannylicious.

one girl was complaining to me (setting me up) that she wanted to get away from it. i said um then get away from it. her remarkably stupid response was "yeah but i like the shopping". shit i didn't know whether to laugh or cry.

that is a stereotype and its wrong. n with your pessimistic attitude toward ts girls thug i doubt u will ever find ur dream gurl. n how can u act like u only mess with the best when a few of the ts i heard u been wif are considered fat, ugly, n have poor hygeine by quite a few folks?


why should u? cuz MEN provide for their woman and family.

[hillbilly]

you'd have to be making like $200,000 to support one. 100 for me and 100 for her and even then it wouldn't be enough.

[hillbilly]

thats true Ecstatic. i was saying that this is our perspective and experience. sometimes an unfortunate one at that.

[Ecstatic]

True, true.

thats baloney. im 1 of the most money spendin gurls n i only make around 125,000 a year so u dont need 200,000. to tell u the truth i would trade everything to go back in time n bew tih the dude i love again (provided he wouldn't cheat with GG's) when we were struggling n only had each other.

[hillbilly]

i have a girlfriend and trust me she wouldn't want me to support her and by no means does she need me to. that is ridiculous. it would be hard for me to respect any woman with so little ambition. don't you have your own goals and things you want to accomplish independant of anyone?

[hillbilly]

i said one for me and one for her. so with your math then i come up short.

you're talking suburban baltimore prices. you get here and trust me we would just be scraping by.

[Quinn]

My answer to the thread's original question is as follows: yes, I have been in love with a TS during a somewhat lengthy relationship.

It’s a bit of a long story, but here goes. When I turned 24 (I’m now 34), I took a computer job in the Pocono Mountains (Pennsylvania) to get away from my all too villainous friends in New Jersey. A friend of mine who worked with me was an accomplished musician and really into the local Jazz scene. That year, he took my friends and I to the annual Delaware Water Gap Jazz Fest where he introduced me to a “female” friend with whom he had set me up in advance. I never do blind dates, but this individual is a man in whom I place great trust, so I made an exception and agreed to it.

She was Cuban and Spanish, presenting one of the most alluring images of feminine beauty I have ever scene (and NYC is full of very beautiful women). She had previously lived in Spain and then France for a long time and had recently moved back to the U.S., buying a house in the Pocono Mountains of all places. Needless to say, I didn’t have a clue as to what she was when I first met her.

To my surprise, we hit it off immediately. I felt it in my chest within the first hour I spent with her. Later, I found out that she had experienced the same feeling. Our relationship lasted roughly 11 months, with my living with her for perhaps 5 of those months. It’s hard to remember exact timeframes. Anyway, we eventually parted ways do more to age-related differences than anything else. I was 24 and she was 34. She was wealthy (family money) and wanted to move to Miami and open a Cuban-style restaurant. Its hard to explain everything, but in my gut I knew I didn’t belong in Miami; I felt that there were many things I had to accomplish before settling down – like build my own wealth and experience more of life. We parted ways, and she went to Miami; I found my way to NYC.

The time I spent with her – part of the roughly two years I spent rebuilding myself in the Pocono Mountains – was critical to everything I have today. Without the healing time I spend with her, I would have eventually wound up dead or gone back to jail with the psychos I grew up with. Today, I can safely say that I’ll be able to retire to Europe within the next four years. Had I not met her, I would have never made the decisions that made this possible and would have likely remained the vicious product of my incredibly violent youth.

Ironically enough, she who taught me most about how to live was murdered roughly six years ago by an unknown assailant. Today I am married, but with my wife’s knowledge and permission, occasionally date other women, including a few who are of the TS variety and are long-time friends who know the value of discretion.

-Quinn

[Ecstatic]

Quinn, I was captivated by your story...and then to hear about her murder, my god. That is horrible. I know it was long ago now, but still, I'm saddened to hear that, but your story of her impact on your life is very uplifting.

[hillbilly]

thanks for sharing Quinn.

[ONEWORLD]

... the internet world is growing increasingly boring to me. i think im bout hire someone to run my sites so i dont even have to interact with such negativity...

LOL, THERE'S HOPE FOR YOU YET...

I MEAN HONESTLY, HOW MUCH TIME CAN YOU SPEND AROUND TRICKS, HOES, AND PORN PURVEYORS BEFORE YOU NEED AN EMOTIONAL AND SPIRITUAL CLEANSING?…

[shanghai'd]

I know who girls who have never been escorts, some who have been previously and some who are. I think it all depends on where you are and what scenes you hang out in.

In many places, "emerging" tgirls hang in the gay scene, a scene many members of this board would not be comfortable hanging in. They may not look 100% passable, but on the other hand may be only a short time away from doing so.

In other places, say thailand in particular, the tgirl scene is distinctly separate from the gay scene. Lots of tgirls in these places are not escorting.

The bottom line is you have to know what you want and what your expectations are.

If you want to have a relationship with a tgirl you have to realize that even the most beautiful tgirl is not perfect, looking or otherwise, whether an escort or not. Photoshop is quite a masker of imperfections. But imperfections are a part of life. Life wouldn't be very exciting without them.

hillbilly im the wrong person to ask if i have goals and ambitions. i been incorporated since i was 19 years old. here lemme give u my 800 number. lol.

[Capable Black Man]

.,

With all honesty I dont think any guys on this board could fathom a relationship with a transexual beyond just sex.Thats all majority of the guys want. A big dick which is kinda gay to me.I couldnt see myself dating or meeting any guys off this site ugh.The thought that a guy only wants to be with me only because I have a dick is so nasty.Thats why the guy im dating now loves me for me and even knew me when I was a boy.

I'm not one to pick hairs on this site but if he knew you as a boy and loved you then as he loves you now, doesn't that make him gay?

Don't take it the wrong way princess, I just don't like it when people make unproven generalizations (i.e. every guy on this site is attracted to my di*k therefore gay)

[hwbs]

ive had 2 ltr with a ts both over a year....both of them were cheaters...dont know if i would allow myself to get sucked in again....im more focused on my goals these days,less distracted..

[magic9inch]

nobody falls in love with a tranny, fuck out of here

[dajuicy]

thanks quinn, for your story....sometimes on this board, little gems kinda sneak thru and pass down the stream, going by silently amidst all the self serving hipe an horseshit, which lately has overwhelmed the airwaves here. your story was real and struck a chord....as for this thread, have you ever fallen in love with a t girl....the answer for me at least, would have to be yes, and i dont know if it was love, but it was "something" beyond just the usual lust bull. this was years ago, over 20 i suspect, and i met a t girl in a bar, ( nyc on 48th st. ) where 90percent were hustling for trick cash....somehow, this t girl, johanna...and i talked a lot at the bar, we didnt for whatever reason get on the trick/john assembly line, although looking back, i dont rmember if she was turning tricks out of there or not....it was a very different kind of scene back then..but we finally got together, and like with a gg, i was the "man" in the hookup.....the emotional thing that i felt, actually scared the shit out of me, and like a scared rabbit, i ran away from the whole thing...how could i fall in love with a girl with a dick!...what would people/friends say...i was young at the time, and times were a little different bac then....but as far as people's understanding, i guess we havent progressed too far. Im not proud of what i did, and i guess some of the conflict in men, is something that many t girls have unfortunately had to ddeal with...a guy that digs them but ultimately cant seem to handle it. theres a t girl in nyc in the bronx, who at one point was on one of thse early taxicab confessions, talking about being put out of her house, and haveing a guy she was desperately in love with go south on her.....it was sad..... these days, that same girl, advertises on craigslist and is a hard core t girl escort.....anyways....human emotion/love is gonna pop up sometimes when you lest expect it, and sometimes like in myself i wasnt prepared to deal with it...so i skated.....funny the shit you remember....dajuicy

people do fall in love with TS. i not too long ago ended a relationship wif a boi who i know loved me and i loved him as well. i didn't cheat or rip n run the streets at night. we lived together 3 years. but he cheated wif a genetic gurl so i had no choice to end it. to this day i dunno if i'll ever feel the way i felt about him again with anyone. o well. maybe das y i'm cold hearted now.

[wbilly]

I'm now in a permanent & loving LTR with a girl who is a manager at a Fortune 200 firm. My previous LTR was the front-of the-house manager at a large restaurant. Neither ever escorted or did porn. :D

Seems like most people on this board make comments based on no experience at all, looking at porn sites or from a few inept encounters with escorts. The wonderful thing about the internet is that no matter what a pathetic phony a person actually is, they can pretend to be a player. :roll:

[magic9inch]

people do fall in love with TS. i not too long ago ended a relationship wif a boi who i know loved me and i loved him as well. i didn't cheat or rip n run the streets at night. we lived together 3 years. but he cheated wif a genetic gurl so i had no choice to end it. to this day i dunno if i'll ever feel the way i felt about him again with anyone. o well. maybe das y i'm cold hearted now.

damn right, he went back to being normal, ts girls are just a fling you grow out of, hopefully for some of you lames

[Tanabata]

I've been in love with three tgirls, they were great in many ways, but sadly (and not to my great surprise) the relationships just didn't work out ---------

[BeardedOne]

ok for arguments sake how many TS' does anyone know that aren't or have never been escorts.

Just a quick guess, off the top of my head, at least three. All rather attractive. Two are in software engineering and are probably making =more= than escorting (And have health benefits, some of which cover TS issues).

[BlackAdder]

Alot of bullshit in this thread among the good posts as usual lol.... Im wondering why you asked the question .?? Just curious, not an attack for once:)>

And Shalaya...Im shocked that your so narrow minded..but you are only 18..../shrug....

Everyone's entitled to there opinion, but I can say for myself at least that the only reason Im on this board is because I wanted to learn more about TS relationships since Im considering on committing to one. I just havent found the right person yet; the insights provided here have helped however, at least in weeding out what I am NOT looking for:).

[hotfireman69]

I for one am on this post, like blackadder to learn more of the TS world and the relationships developed within, and ., I think it was a very good question. I would love to find a TS and fall in love with her, to me it would be just like falling in love with a GG. It is the person not what is between the legs that you fall for. It is hard to find someone where I live, (rural county) but maybe someday one will come along, you never know. It is not all a fantasy with the girls, maybe to start with it is, but like I said you have to look at the person and what is within.......

[MarylandsMighty]

What I find amusing are the TS's who say "no man from this site could fathom dating a transexual. If he just wanted me because I have a dick, its nasty"

Newsflash. This page is called Hung Angels

Hung, as in well hung. Big dick.

Last time I checked it was not DontlovemeformycocklovemeformeAngels.com

LOL

Just so sick of the derisive attitude some of the girls have towards the men from this site.

The men here can not generalize ALL TS, based on actions or mindset of ONE, and the ladies here can NOT lump ALL the guys together when some of the comments are made.

As for the topic here. Never have dated one, certainly would. Same as a GG, if I find them attractive, fun, intelligent, and get on good with them, I certainly would date them.

[lar2564]

lol...Maryland your comments are always funny and true

[Vicki Richter]

I think there are two sides to the equation... First the side which is the girls posting on a site that has a large membership of men who are sexually attracted to TS in some form. Of course we want to be perceived as women, but true that this is not a dating site.

I also agree that this is site is an adult site, while a lot of other topics gets discussed, it boils down to it being by adults for adults and is highly sexually charged by nature. It isn't called "transsexualangels" as the other guy mentioned.

So guys be sensitive that some of the girls here want to be seen as more than objects and girls be sensitive of the fact that guys want to come here and find new things to wank off to... many which involve girls with dicks.

[MarylandsMighty]

Ms. Richter,

You hit the nail on its well hung head.

:)

I agree. I straddle the fence, yes it hurts my bollocks, however I am sexually turned on by many TS and certainly fantasize, etc. But I would also date a TS much as I would a GG and it would be about more than just the sex.

So both sides need to be equally appreciated. You said it best.