Tips for the first timers going to escort

[themaster]

I have the money and this is my very first time, I had yet to make the call, I wonder if people can give a few tips on making that few moments great(From the phone call/email to the meeting)

[Belgie]

Don't be a dick.
If you call and make an appointment, don't chicken out.
Make sure your phone doesn't block your caller ID, or chances are she won't take your call.
Don't use text messages.


When you get on the phone with her, relax. Don't panic. She's a professional who has probably heard it all before. Open it with something simple. "Hi, I saw your ad, and I'd like to spend an hour in your company. Can you tell me when you'd have time to meet me?"

You can tell her you're a first timer when you see her face to face. If you mention it on the phone, she might assume you'll just chicken out and never go. Many first timers chicken out. Make sure that if you have any special requests, that you discuss them first. How much if she wears a costume? Do you want to be topped? Do you want to top her? Etc... Price can vary by what you want to do, so make sure you're not shy about asking for what you want, and what she's comfortable giving. Some girls don't top.

Make sure you get her address correct, and ask her for directions if you're not sure.

Before you go, take care of some personal grooming. Can't stress that enough. Shower, clean finger nails, brush teeth, check breath, etc...

Relax and be calm.

When you arrive, say hello and get the niceties, it's common to have your donation in an envelope for her. Large bills so it can be counted quickly. Like, if it was 300 dollars, then put in 3 hundreds or 6 fifties. It can kill the moment if she's counting out 200 singles.

Relax and stay calm.

As I said, you can explain that it's your first time, and that you might be nervous, when you get there. If she's a good escort, she'll make your first time special and be patient with you.

Beyond that, I would say simply have fun and try to enjoy yourself.

[farang]

Wash your Cock !!

[BigTSHunter]

Jerk off before you go so you can last longer with her!

[Dinand]

I don't see the point in jerking off before, that's like having a meal at home just before you go out for dinner.

I personally hope to see a tgirl for the first time this or next week, no escort, window in Amsterdam so this thread helps me also in a way.

[IsuckTgirlCock]

Tell her youve been with shemales before. when you get there, let her ask for the cash, let her tell you what to do and ask you what you want to do. i used to pay them extra if they said they couldnt cum, id offer another 150 or 200 and theyd always be able to shoot a nice load. but most can. if u want that, be sure to ask if they are fully functional before you go there also. you want one with balls, some have no balls and its a turn off

[popperluv]

Put the money on the table when you walk in and tell her its her gift. This will avoid any uneasy potentially incriminating conversation.

Also try and find reviews of the girl you are seeing before hand.

Phone manners are your first impression so be nice.

[LibertyHarkness]

Some people like the fact a Tgirl has had her testicles removed.....Depends what the client is looking for really.

If you phone the escort keep the conversation brief and to the point, no asking pointless sexual questions as alot will think your a wanker...as you most likely will have called them from their escort website or advert...so most escort sites have your questions answered.

Also dont bother calling an escort like 2 weeks before a meeting as its just really pointless....Also alot will want you to call them the day of the meet to confirm your on your way and to give you the address if its an incall...

I used to make people call me an hour before the session booked, if they didnt i took that as a no show.

Be polite and respectful on the phone, and as one of the above posters stated personal hygene is essential...So breath mints, washed fully, though when you get there perhaps go wash your bits again...

[melissacarter]

Some people are just dicks and will be dicks with an escort, waitress or anyone else. There seems to be about a 10% dickhead factor. Most others are cool. I always politely tell the prospect to call if he needs to cancel the appointment and by no-show/no-calling he'll be on my bad list and won't get another appointment.

I ask the client to show up:

1. clean
2. sober
3. respectful

That's all they need to be.

[melissacarter]

Don't be a dick.
If you call and make an appointment, don't chicken out.
Make sure your phone doesn't block your caller ID, or chances are she won't take your call.
Don't use text messages.


When you get on the phone with her, relax. Don't panic. She's a professional who has probably heard it all before. Open it with something simple. "Hi, I saw your ad, and I'd like to spend an hour in your company. Can you tell me when you'd have time to meet me?"

You can tell her you're a first timer when you see her face to face. If you mention it on the phone, she might assume you'll just chicken out and never go. Many first timers chicken out. Make sure that if you have any special requests, that you discuss them first. How much if she wears a costume? Do you want to be topped? Do you want to top her? Etc... Price can vary by what you want to do, so make sure you're not shy about asking for what you want, and what she's comfortable giving. Some girls don't top.

Make sure you get her address correct, and ask her for directions if you're not sure.

Before you go, take care of some personal grooming. Can't stress that enough. Shower, clean finger nails, brush teeth, check breath, etc...

Relax and be calm.

When you arrive, say hello and get the niceties, it's common to have your donation in an envelope for her. Large bills so it can be counted quickly. Like, if it was 300 dollars, then put in 3 hundreds or 6 fifties. It can kill the moment if she's counting out 200 singles.

Relax and stay calm.

As I said, you can explain that it's your first time, and that you might be nervous, when you get there. If she's a good escort, she'll make your first time special and be patient with you.

Beyond that, I would say simply have fun and try to enjoy yourself.

Perfectly stated! these guidelines should be on every escort review site. In my three months on the job, I've seen a lot. Two guys (separate occasions) each drove an hour to see me and showed up 100 shy and 150 shy respectively. I politely asked them to leave. I wouldn't take it even though they waved it in front of my face. I felt they were strong-arming me. I'm not a crack ho and not that desperate. One guy showed up so sauced I could smell liquor from two feet away. He too was told to leave.

Here's a funny story: a guy called, booked time and then no-showed/no called. Two weeks later he called again. I have an excellent memory and recognized him immediately by voice and phone number (he tried to be coy and use another name). I told him he would have to wait till I had an opening and finally set the appointment. He showed up, turned out to be a really good-looking well groomed guy and we got into it. In less than two minutes he screamed in pain. Turned out he pulled a hamstring and was so painful he had to stop. He dressed and literally limped out of my home. I actually felt bad for him, but not bad enough to give him a refund.

[Alyssa87]

i thought the girls dont talk about sex acts over the phone because it implies
Sex for $=illegal...rather than time for money.

am i wrong?

[Belgie]

Perfectly stated! these guidelines should be on every escort review site.

Well thank you! I must be doing something right with the girls I see.
8)

[Belgie]

i thought the girls dont talk about sex acts over the phone because it implies
Sex for $=illegal...rather than time for money.

am i wrong?

Depends where you are, I suppose. In Holland that's not a problem.

Still, in my experience, it depends. Things like costuming and that are obviously fine. (ie. "How much for you to dress in a schoolgirl outfit / nun outfit / nurse outfit") should be simple enough. Basically, anything that might require her to prepare in advance.

Some girls have different prices for what you want to do. They may or may not tell you over the phone what each price bracket entitles you to.
For example, the girls at www.chloee.be say
"We offer a basic service from 90€ to 165€ . And a special service at 200€."

In that case, maybe bring the 200, and decide when you get there how much you want to spend.

Or bring at least 90, and find out what that gets you.

[Gmanfromthechi]

Ive only seen 2 escorts in my time, and never went "all the way" so to say, but I am positive yer girl u see will be happy if you use an anal douche before hand. (if yer bottoming) Ive used it a couple times b4 gf used a strap on on me, and it makes things much much cleaner and easier.

Seriously, if shes gonna fuck u, invest in this mood enhancing bit. like 15 bux at any porn shop, and kinda fun to use. :-)

[slinky]

I have the money and this is my very first time, I had yet to make the call, I wonder if people can give a few tips on making that few moments great(From the phone call/email to the meeting)


What are you looking for in the experience? The advice would greatly depend on that. Do you already know who you are going to see, or is that yet to be decided?

[Odelay]

I have the money and this is my very first time, I had yet to make the call, I wonder if people can give a few tips on making that few moments great(From the phone call/email to the meeting)


What are you looking for in the experience? The advice would greatly depend on that. Do you already know who you are going to see, or is that yet to be decided?


themaster
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Something tells me that if he's been a member on this board for 3 years then he pretty much has a girl or girls in mind.

My advice might sound a little weird but I'm guessing most guys who go see a TS for the first time are probably going to experiment with giving oral. You might try practicing at home. If you have no experience then your eyes will water, sinuses will run, and ultimately have to answer questions like... "do you use cocaine?"

[ls1290]

Good info here. Keep it coming :)

[StraightThoughChaser]

when you get there, let her ask for the cash

Escorts: can you confirm this? I would have thought the opposite was true, for reasons of legal safety (this is USA-specific, by the way)

[slinky]

Yes, making the girl ask for the cash will make many of them very uncomfortable (but this is assuming you're talking about girls you find on the internet - which is why I think we all need some more info about what he's actually doing before giving specific advice, which might be different depending on what was really going on).

[ef9hatchman]

Jerk off before you go so you can last longer with her!
WTF use a condom. u last forever.

[Nikka]

I am never sober when I call a hooker

[BigTSHunter]

I don't see the point in jerking off before, that's like having a meal at home just before you go out for dinner.

I personally hope to see a tgirl for the first time this or next week, no escort, window in Amsterdam so this thread helps me also in a way.

If you dont jerk off prior, you will shoot your load way too quickly and you wont get your moneys worth.

[PapiQueRico]

Call? Why not just go to a club or give one a ride home after the club and fuck on the friendship tip?

[dan_drade]

1). Don't be cheap!!!!!!!

2.) Be clean (squeaky clean).

3.) Be respectfull (unless it is known that you are paying to be a rude freak).

4.) Be willing to leave her a nice tip if she is everything that you wanted.

[hwbs]

I have the money and this is my very first time, I had yet to make the call, I wonder if people can give a few tips on making that few moments great(From the phone call/email to the meeting)



i will give u the best advice.....stick to the videos and don't get involved !!!!

[blckhaze]

I have the money and this is my very first time, I had yet to make the call, I wonder if people can give a few tips on making that few moments great(From the phone call/email to the meeting)



i will give u the best advice.....stick to the videos and don't get involved !!!!

LMAO
you may be on to something there...

[BeardedOne]

On the cash angle: I've always had it ready, in an envelope, and usually with a card (I'm a sentimental git).

Only one gurl ever counted it at the outset (Thank gawd) and she discovered I'd miscounted it (Only time that's happened).

If you're honest and they're cool, this part usually flows seamlessly.

[bulletboy]

I have been with one escort and 3 shemales in windows in Amsterdam.

The first time was in Amsterdam. I didn't know she was one until after she had sucked me off.

I was surprised but interested, polite but very nervous.

She was very friendly and very considerated. I just couldn't manage it and made her nervous too. so we just had loads of mutual masturbation and oral sex. it was totally amazing.

2nd time was again in Amsterdam - I was again nervous, polite and considerate again just oral sex and mutual masturbation with 2 shemales.

3rd time again in Amsterdam and the same as above.

I was curious but scared of getting receiving.

I went to an escort was very nervous again - it does seem to put a dampner of things so to speak.

I called and was polite and did as a previous poster suggested.

I was let in, gave her the money and an extra gift.

sat on the bed naked for about 10 minutes she came back in I was a little terrified , no idea why , the windows in Amsterdam were no longer a problem but being in a private flat scared the hell out of me.

I performed oral sex on her and I still need practice with that and then she bent me over and fucked the living shit out of my arse.

It wasn't what I expected, I had been fantasing about it for ages and it wasn't the same, however I have been fantasing about it again.

I suppose what I am trying to say , on top of all the other good advice here is - Is it really what you want.

The reality is not always the same as the fantasy. Its one thing watching DVDs and another actually doing it yourself.

Although I got a hefty bonus this month and I thinking on blowing it on an escort

[BeardedOne]

Make sure to pay her in pennies. Escorts love counting coins.

At the moment, the scrap value of a copper-clad, alloy US penny is about 1.3 cents, so yah, a smart one may enjoy the gag and the bonus. Don't be surprised if she has a Klopp coin counter under the bed (I know one that carries a credit card imprinter with her when she travels). :)

Most of the advice here has been spot-on (Except perhaps, for the pennies).

The basic fact is that you are going on a 'date', and a rent-a-date should be no different than a regular one, sans the mind-reading, tap-dancing bullshit that invariably accompanies the former on the way to the goal that the latter most always guarantees.

Be clean, polite, and respectful. Don't waste her time on the initial call (Bonus if you have some previous communication - All that I have met had been in some email or IM/PM chats with me prior to the date - It helps her get a feel for who you are/what you want and gives you some insight to how well you might get on), and as much out of courtesy as out of respect for the rules of the call, don't discuss sex on the phone.

The tone of your time may be set by your moment of arrival. As in anything, first impressions count. One gurl appeared in street clothes, another in a fine-ass babydoll frilly, and another in a blouse and a smile. :D For my part, I date so infrequently that each is a special occasion and I dress accordingly. It got to the point that one gurl told me to 'frump up a bit' the next time I see her as she isn't quite attuned to clients showing up in a three-piece suit all the time.

On tipping: Oddly enough, though I tend to generously over-tip in 'real' life (A result of having worked in service industries during much of my wildly misspent youth), I have yet to extend a gratuity to one of the gurls I've been with. This is not because I didn't feel the need or want to or because I felt they didn't deserve such reward (Dear gawd!!! They all sooooo deserved it!), just that my monetary circumstances didn't allow such. I am, I believe, somewhat forgiven by the fact that I ordinarily book a two-hour window (And one all-day dalliance) and could, by my nature, be considered an 'easy trick' (I am just as likely to talk their ear off as try to fuck them).

To that end, if you have been saving your 'milk money' as I do, for such flights of fancy and are otherwise tapped out, at least try to bring a gift of some sort, or offer dinner (Though many may not accept the latter). No wine or food items, as they are clearly suspect (One gurl will accept wine, but only if shared - You drink first), but trinkets, jewelry, or some item that you know or think might be appreciated by that particular gurl can go far in tweaking your evening.

Be kind, be considerate, and (As one put it earlier) don't be a dick. :)

Oh, and I was joking. Don't pay in pennies. :wink:

[BeardedOne]

I am never sober when I call a hooker

I have noted this and will remember the next time you call me. :wink:

:lol:

[EzrinJemEzrinJem]

Some people are just dicks and will be dicks with an escort, waitress or anyone else. There seems to be about a 10% dickhead factor. Most others are cool. I always politely tell the prospect to call if he needs to cancel the appointment and by no-show/no-calling he'll be on my bad list and won't get another appointment.

I ask the client to show up:

1. clean
2. sober
3. respectful

That's all they need to be.You sure like to throw around the word "dick" and "dickheads" a lot, don't you, Melissa? Maybe clean up your language a little bit? It affects this site and turns it into a trashy slum!

[melissacarter]

no problem, dickface

[PeteIsHere]

I wouldn't mind having sex with Melissa right about now.

[EzrinJemEzrinJem]

I wouldn't mind having sex with Melissa right about now.All you have to do is say something with the word "dick" in it and she'll have a multiple orgasm right then and there.

[MacShreach]

no problem, dickface


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[MacShreach]

Maybe clean up your language a little bit? It affects this site and turns it into a trashy slum!

Hmmm. Given that this is a site where coprophagy, anilingus, fellatio, sodomy, sexual domination and so on are routinely and explicitly discussed, where penises and anuses are regularly displayed, it surprises me that you really feel that a word compromises the tone.

And what is that word?

Dick.

[jaberwocky]

Living in Australia has it's advantages in more way than one.
It's legal to be a working girl if your a "sole trader" working from home. This makes for very comfortable visits without having to undergo the cloak and dagger charade. I generally treat the girls with the utmost respect. That way they make you feel relaxed and you can share a few laughs, don't understand why guys treat working Tgirls like crap. A good time can be had by all, I mean that's why you're there isn't it?