I'm getting married

[gotenks]

Hey guys,

Long time lurker, few time poster here.

I'm getting married soon, and I'm really bummed the whole "experience with a transsexual" thing probably just isn't going to happen for me. I'm 27 now, and can remember being attracted to them as an early teenager. It just kind of sucks that will strictly remain in fantasy land for me - maybe it's better that way?

I love my fiancee very much, and have never cheated on her during our years of dating, and don't plan on doing it during our marriage. She's completely unaware of my "interests," and even if she was, she's not the type for a threesome, letting me roam, etc.

Anyway I know this thread is pretty worthless, but there's really no one else I can express this too, so thanks for listening. It feels good to at least get it off my chest. In return, my dream girl:

[AngelinaTS]

Comgratulation Gotenks !! :wink:

[lilly_exohexoh]

aww congrats. you'll do fine.

[gotenks]

Hehe...beautiful girls replying to my post isn't helping my cause! Thank you :D

[gotenks]

Hehe...beautiful girls replying to my post isn't helping my cause! Thank you :D

[lahabra1976]

congrats, dont worry its no big deal about the tgirl fantasy, I lived out my fantasy with some tgirls, but ended up realizing, a life with a GG is much better.

[latinpapi]

aww congrats. you'll do fine.

Wow you are beautiful, speaking of marriage are you in the market for a hubby? hehe

[lassolasse]

what is it that make you T-girls so special. I just can't get you off my mind. For me the big turnon is your facial lines that are distinct and feminin in a unuseal way for a girl. I would like to make out with a T-girl just for the kissing and warmth of your body close to mine.

[Tarissa]

congrats, dont worry its no big deal about the tgirl fantasy, I lived out my fantasy with some tgirls, but ended up realizing, a life with a GG is much better.
And you are still on this website, hmmm, why is that?

[Fetish Fanatic]

You and your wife could get a strap-on dildo if you know what I mean..

[yodajazz]

Congratulations on your upcoming marriage. I did the same thing myself. Since you have never acted on your fantasy it might be ok to tell your partner. Down the line you may be able to watch ts porn together. You may think that she will disapprove, but she will appreciate your honesty if you do tell her. The other side of not telling her is that down the line she might find out, but if she does she will feel that you have been hiding part of yourself, and will wonder what other secrets are you hiding.

Of course make sure that she knows that you will never cheat on her. You may be surprised at what she will do to make you happy, if she trusts you completely.

I am glad that I told my wife before we were married cause she would have used it against me during an argument, later. People grow and change throughout life. The relationships changes with you. The more open and honest you are with one another help both people grow in the same direction.

[lahabra1976]

congrats, dont worry its no big deal about the tgirl fantasy, I lived out my fantasy with some tgirls, but ended up realizing, a life with a GG is much better.
And you are still on this website, hmmm, why is that?

Well hell I dont know, but not sure if my statement implies I dont like tgirls. Just simply states my preference. If it did, I appolize.

[sunairco]

Have to agree with Yodajazz. Clear the air b4 the ring goes on. It's really a female radar transponder that's activated and once it's on, you can't run or hide anything. You're a marked man once that happens. Every chick you meet afterwards, her second look will be your ring finger. Big difference in her mind between her knowing your secret and her finding out about your secret. If she know ahead of time, it's like a security deposit. Her brain translates this as guaranteed fidelity and an intimation of trust. She knows of your little secret and "he wouldn't dare stray" OTOH, if she finds out on her own....and trust me, she will, it's going to be a nightmare that she'll never forgive you for(even if she says she does). To her it won't be any different then you cheating on her. Guys love to look at porn and other gg's(or tg's) just to look. Most GG's aren't clear on this concept. Every imaginable thought that's a threat to her relationship will overwhelm her thinking after the intial shock. Everthing from you desiring someone else to are you gay? That's bad enough. Once her mother,sisters,and girlfriends get into the support loop and her judgement is mediated by comittee, you're toast. To GG's from girlhood, secrets and intimations are the things that strong relationship bonds are made of. If she's really the one that you want to spend your entire life with, this can be a wonderful thing as long as she always knows that she's your heart's desire. If not, reconsider or God help you if you break that trust.