What do you girls look for in a possible hubby??

[Gmanfromthechi]

Ok, lotsa threads here about marrying a TS. Im sure its MANY mens dream, (mine included), but are you girls willing to marry, and, more importantly, what is it you look for/need in a hubby??

I wanna kno specifics. Money? Certain body build? Status? Details please. Help us men out here so we can make a bride outta one of you gals someday :-)

[wombat33]

Ok, lotsa threads here about marrying a TS. Im sure its MANY mens dream, (mine included), but are you girls willing to marry, and, more importantly, what is it you look for/need in a hubby??

I wanna kno specifics. Money? Certain body build? Status? Details please. Help us men out here so we can make a bride outta one of you gals someday :-)

# 1 Money

# 2 Your Looks

# 3 You not minding when they want to fuck other hot guys.


same as any girl

[Minutemouse9]

Ok, lotsa threads here about marrying a TS. Im sure its MANY mens dream, (mine included), but are you girls willing to marry, and, more importantly, what is it you look for/need in a hubby??

I wanna kno specifics. Money? Certain body build? Status? Details please. Help us men out here so we can make a bride outta one of you gals someday :-)

# 1 Money

# 2 Your Looks

# 3 You not minding when they want to fuck other hot guys.


same as any girl

How true
ROTFLMAO

:claps :claps

[blckhaze]

LMAO @ Wombat33

Ill add #4- not asking how big there cock is within 10 minutes of meeting them.

but for honest answers, build up a quality rapport with one of the ladies and ask her. Youd be surprised that they actually have brains. In most cases anyway.

[TsVanessa69]

Honestly, I don't care about your money, your job or your car. I don't NEED a man for material things. I am blessed in that I have my own. What I look for in a man is respect, and emotional support, and a guy secure enough in his manhood to be active in my life. Now it sound easy, but its NOT. Guys lie, guys lie and guys lie. Now on looks, hmmm. I am 35 but prefer to date a younger guy. Race is not an issue to me. A versatile top is great. At this point in my life, I want to enjoy it and make up for all the fun I missed out on for whatever reason, and life each day to the fullest!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Alyssa87]

vanessa, u so wise mama

[hwbs]

she is prob the only girl in history of ha that listed things other than physical attributes.....congrats :)

[TsVanessa69]

she is prob the only girl in history of ha that listed things other than physical attributes.....congrats :)I should be the pretty one in the couple!!! seriously, I hear guys complain how ts are all about the money and its not true. True I escort, thats a source of income. But I also found that I lacked in my life, someone I can enjoy their company and that they appreciate me and I appreciate them. O personally don't think I'm that bad of a catch. I'm young enough to turn heads when I walk in a room, yet old enough not to play stupid games. I'm a freak in the bed, not bad on the eye and not bad in the "clit" department either. I enjoy all types of food and music, I am affectionate and romantic too, and I appreciate a good hard working man. The only thing is I'm not that great of a cook, but I can do the basic's and if the meal isn't 5 star, the dessert shure as hell will be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[tstv_lover]

she is prob the only girl in history of ha that listed things other than physical attributes.....congrats :)I should be the pretty one in the couple!!! seriously, I hear guys complain how ts are all about the money and its not true. True I escort, thats a source of income. But I also found that I lacked in my life, someone I can enjoy their company and that they appreciate me and I appreciate them. O personally don't think I'm that bad of a catch. I'm young enough to turn heads when I walk in a room, yet old enough not to play stupid games. I'm a freak in the bed, not bad on the eye and not bad in the "clit" department either. I enjoy all types of food and music, I am affectionate and romantic too, and I appreciate a good hard working man. The only thing is I'm not that great of a cook, but I can do the basic's and if the meal isn't 5 star, the dessert shure as hell will be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Any man would be fortunate to be part of Vanessa's life. She has all the personality attributes to compliment her outstanding beauty. Just disappointed that she prefers younger guys :)

[justatransgirl]

Vanessa - you can't really be 35. Waaay too cute! What's the secret? :-)

As for the rest...

I'll go with Wombat. :-)

Money, power, cars, houses, yachts, and oh yeah, please send a photo of your thing, doesn't matter what you look like.

I got my own money, but I do need a man occasoinally. How much ya got baby?

And PS - "lover" I like older guys, Vanessa can have the kiddies, give me a man with experience!

Giggles,
TS Jamie :-)

[Alyssa87]

ok.. let me take a stab at this.

Let me say that I’m twenty years old.
I’m not really thinking about marriage.
But im feeling emotional and am very bored.

Money? … enough to pay half the bills.
Certain body build? …not obese or frail
Status?…(single?)

Mostly, my ‘thing’ is not being treated as a secret.
We’re gonna spend most of our time outside the bedroom (and each other)
… Yea, I wanna meet friends and family and all that.

I’d like someone in my age group that doesn’t repulse me when I look at him. Dare I say attractive?
Is genuinely kind and attentive. Has real feelings invested and isn’t motivated by a fetish.

Also, I think I will have to have to find a guy who is ok with me being pre-op,
and is also ok with knowing I will one day be post-op. I know this will not be easy to find.

No drugs. Non smoker. STD free. Non violent.
Able to verbalize himself well, without slang. Can make me cum.
& no cheating please!

^Yes, I know that’s slim pickens^
...But a girl can dream...

[Alyssa87]

# 1 Money

# 2 Your Looks

# 3 You not minding when they want to fuck other hot guys.


ok.. im feeling REALLY emotional and really bored...

Warning: I’ll be using this reply as an exacerbated rant. I’ll try to keep the tangents to a minimum.


My ex boyfriend and I were together for 8 months. We broke up 6 weeks ago.
I would have married him if he asked.
He possesed all those aforementioned qualities.

He isn’t comfortable with the idea of me stripping on cam and talking nasty with guys on niteflirt for pay. Mind you, I don’t fault him one bit for this. I wish with all my heart he could see past it, but I respect that he doesn’t. But I want my implants so badly and quickly, I have knowingly sacrificed an amazing guy and relationship.

looks
On our first date, I remember looking at him and not being impressed. But I wasn’t repulsed so I didn’t call it a night prematurely. We sat at the hibachi and juggled light conversation and watching the amazing tricks that the guy cooking in front of us could do. There was no awkwardness or uncomfortable pauses. We soon found out that we had the same show in common(among other things), LOST! He told me had seasons 1 and 2 on DVD. And just like that, we had a second date planned.

He came to my house 2 days later, DVD’s in hand. He respectfully introduced himself to my mom and lil sister. We proceeded upstairs to my room, with the door wide open! We watched as many episodes as we could before he would have felt too tired to drive home. He got a nice kiss goodbye, but no hanky-panky.

My mom and sister soon after berated me with questions about him. Both of them apparently found him more attractive than I did. But soon, his genuineness and brilliant smile won me over, in a big way.

To think… it was that common interest in a TV show that initiated something so great.

I could go on for hours (and paragraphs) about how what we had grew and grew, but I wont.

Money
He doesn’t have much. He’s a counselor at a middle school. He hardly ever gave me cash or brought me extravagant gifts. But we took exciting day trips and had great meals together out of his pocket :shrug

fucking other guys
I didn’t even THINK about it. I never even gave out my number to guys or even flirted. I didn’t take rides home from campus from guys I didn’t know. I didn’t even accept friend requests from guys on myspace.
I only wanted him. Even now, thinking about him makes me smile and gives me chills.

hung up?.. like a fucking rotary phone!! :?
*[edit]
here's a link to a (i think) beautiful poem i wrote about him and us.
(myspace blog) :cry:
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=3596283&blogID=329966221&Mytoken=825AF33B-ED94-4344-8F6B19D073B8E4F89621952

[rvince]

What I look for in a man is respect, and emotional support, and a guy secure enough in his manhood to be active in my life. Now it sound easy, but its NOT.

A couple weeks ago I followed a talk on that very topic in a group of tgirls. Some where escorting and some were not (and never did).
The main argument of the non-working girls was: These guys do exist, but: 1/ they are not so easy to find indeed but most importantly 2/ those guys don't settle with working girls.

[TomSelis]

# 1 Money

# 2 Your Looks

# 3 You not minding when they want to fuck other hot guys.


ok.. im feeling REALLY emotional and really bored...

Warning: I’ll be using this reply as an exacerbated rant. I’ll try to keep the tangents to a minimum.


My ex boyfriend and I were together for 8 months. We broke up 6 weeks ago.
I would have married him if he asked.
He possesed all those aforementioned qualities.

He isn’t comfortable with the idea of me stripping on cam and talking nasty with guys on niteflirt for pay. Mind you, I don’t fault him one bit for this. I wish with all my heart he could see past it, but I respect that he doesn’t. But I want my implants so badly and quickly, I have knowingly sacrificed an amazing guy and relationship.

looks
On our first date, I remember looking at him and not being impressed. But I wasn’t repulsed so I didn’t call it a night prematurely. We sat at the hibachi and juggled light conversation and watching the amazing tricks that the guy cooking in front of us could do. There was no awkwardness or uncomfortable pauses. We soon found out that we had the same show in common(among other things), LOST! He told me had seasons 1 and 2 on DVD. And just like that, we had a second date planned.

He came to my house 2 days later, DVD’s in hand. He respectfully introduced himself to my mom and lil sister. We proceeded upstairs to my room, with the door wide open! We watched as many episodes as we could before he would have felt too tired to drive home. He got a nice kiss goodbye, but no hanky-panky.

My mom and sister soon after berated me with questions about him. Both of them apparently found him more attractive than I did. But soon, his genuineness and brilliant smile won me over, in a big way.

To think… it was that common interest in a TV show that initiated something so great.

I could go on for hours (and paragraphs) about how what we had grew and grew, but I wont.

Money
He doesn’t have much. He’s a counselor at a middle school. He hardly ever gave me cash or brought me extravagant gifts. But we took exciting day trips and had great meals together out of his pocket :shrug

fucking other guys
I didn’t even THINK about it. I never even gave out my number to guys or even flirted. I didn’t take rides home from campus from guys I didn’t know. I didn’t even accept friend requests from guys on myspace.
I only wanted him. Even now, thinking about him makes me smile and gives me chills.

hung up?.. like a fucking rotary phone!! :?
*[edit]
here's a link to a (i think) beautiful poem i wrote about him and us.
(myspace blog) :cry:
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=blog.view&friendID=3596283&blogID=329966221&Mytoken=825AF33B-ED94-4344-8F6B19D073B8E4F89621952

Damn, we dated?

[Fox]

ok.. let me take a stab at this.

Let me say that I’m twenty years old.
I’m not really thinking about marriage.
But im feeling emotional and am very bored.

Money? … enough to pay half the bills.
Certain body build? …not obese or frail
Status?…(single?)

Mostly, my ‘thing’ is not being treated as a secret.
We’re gonna spend most of our time outside the bedroom (and each other)
… Yea, I wanna meet friends and family and all that.

I’d like someone in my age group that doesn’t repulse me when I look at him. Dare I say attractive?
Is genuinely kind and attentive. Has real feelings invested and isn’t motivated by a fetish.

Also, I think I will have to have to find a guy who is ok with me being pre-op,
and is also ok with knowing I will one day be post-op. I know this will not be easy to find.

No drugs. Non smoker. STD free. Non violent.
Able to verbalize himself well, without slang. Can make me cum.
& no cheating please!

^Yes, I know that’s slim pickens^
...But a girl can dream...

As ridiculously cheesy and predicatable this sounds... you just described me.

[blckhaze]

ok.. let me take a stab at this.

Let me say that I’m twenty years old.
I’m not really thinking about marriage.
But im feeling emotional and am very bored.

Money? … enough to pay half the bills.
Certain body build? …not obese or frail
Status?…(single?)

Mostly, my ‘thing’ is not being treated as a secret.
We’re gonna spend most of our time outside the bedroom (and each other)
… Yea, I wanna meet friends and family and all that.

I’d like someone in my age group that doesn’t repulse me when I look at him. Dare I say attractive?
Is genuinely kind and attentive. Has real feelings invested and isn’t motivated by a fetish.

Also, I think I will have to have to find a guy who is ok with me being pre-op,
and is also ok with knowing I will one day be post-op. I know this will not be easy to find.

No drugs. Non smoker. STD free. Non violent.
Able to verbalize himself well, without slang. Can make me cum.
& no cheating please!

^Yes, I know that’s slim pickens^
...But a girl can dream...

As ridiculously cheesy and predicatable this sounds... you just described me.

And you know fox, a guy like you will not get a look cause you aint a flashy type a dude. Thats what kills me when I talk with girls, gg and TS.

[ARMANIXXX]

The truth is, and I know it's been said before,

If you are a working girl, no REAL guy with REAL potential as a mate is gonna be cool with his woman fuckin other dudes.

I've never seen a "webcam" working girl, but I'm gonna assume that there'd be some serious problems and restrictions with that too.


I ain't one who's gonna stop anyones hustle, I'm just sayin, if she's fuckin, then you better know that I am too.

And That's real

[trish]

ARMANIXXX says,
I ain't one who's gonna stop anyones hustle, I'm just sayin, if she's fuckin, then you better know that I am too.

And That's real

I'd be cool with that, as long as you're getting paid for it.

[ARMANIXXX]

I ain't one who's gonna stop anyones hustle, I'm just sayin, if she's fuckin, then you better know that I am too.

And That's real

I'd be cool with that, as long as you're getting paid for it.



ARMANIXXX the chocolate Gigalo........



I guess that could work out.

:wink:

[trish]

mmmmmmmmmmmm chocolate

[hwbs]

just do what i do....don't call them your gf and when they gotta leave u just keep that door wide open...i am not going to try to force a girl i am seeing to stop her hustle but i am not going to call her my gf either...

[trish]

If someone (not you, hollywood...) were to "force" a girl to stop her hustle...what would that "force" consist of? What sort of ultimatum would you consider coericion in this context?

[TS DANIELLE FOXXX]

A man that doesn't read this board or is into transsexuals... Does that clear it? lol

[the_corner]

A man that doesn't read this board or is into transsexuals... Does that clear it? lol

Ohh I guess that leaves me out of luck! :cry:

Maybe then I shouldn't tell anyone I read this forum :?

[Alyssa87]

fox. if u ever find yourself in jersey..lemme know :)

*[edit]
and armani..i already said that i understand and respect my exes boundaries.
im a cam girl, and i have knowingly let him go because of it.
(even tho i dont consider it cheating)
i wasnt saying he's wrong for leaving me. i agree with him!
please dont rub it in, playa.



and blckhaze has selective reading :roll:

[hwbs]

one thing i will admit that this place is the worlds worst place 4 meeting ts...just 4 entertainment purposes only !!!!!

[ARMANIXXX]

Holla

[unctrld1]

she is prob the only girl in history of ha that listed things other than physical attributes.....congrats :)I should be the pretty one in the couple!!! seriously, I hear guys complain how ts are all about the money and its not true. True I escort, thats a source of income. But I also found that I lacked in my life, someone I can enjoy their company and that they appreciate me and I appreciate them. O personally don't think I'm that bad of a catch. I'm young enough to turn heads when I walk in a room, yet old enough not to play stupid games. I'm a freak in the bed, not bad on the eye and not bad in the "clit" department either. I enjoy all types of food and music, I am affectionate and romantic too, and I appreciate a good hard working man. The only thing is I'm not that great of a cook, but I can do the basic's and if the meal isn't 5 star, the dessert shure as hell will be!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Keep the faith Vanessa. With those attributes happiness is bound to result. Be patient, a good man is on his way.

[bulldog]

nowadays, nice guys dont finish at all, so I have basically given up on relationships. :shrugs:

[Gmanfromthechi]

Some interesting responses. Im particularly confused about how u dont want a man who is into tgirls Danielle. Just doesn't make sense to me, esp if a man is so much more willing to love a ts way more then a gg.

[Supai]

Pretty much what Alyssa said; Be able to support yourself, not be obese or a twig and most importantly don't treat me as a secret to be hidden from anyone.

[ARMANIXXX]

fox. if u ever find yourself in jersey..lemme know :)

*[edit]
and armani..i already said that i understand and respect my exes boundaries.
im a cam girl, and i have knowingly let him go because of it.
(even tho i dont consider it cheating)
i wasnt saying he's wrong for leaving me. i agree with him!
please dont rub it in, playa.



and blckhaze has selective reading :roll:



I'm sorry baby


The wine makes me get real.

:wink:

[blckhaze]

and blckhaze has selective reading :roll:

LOL i was making a general statement. Ive only met a few girls who have proved me wrong, and if your one of them, I commend you and will add you to the "down ass chicas" list. Just as the terms "fag","tranny chaser" or "cock hound" dont effect me because they dont apply to me, my statement shouldnt offend you unless its true.
There's nothing wrong with liking the finer things, but there arent any cats riding horse in armor, with long flowin locks and blue eyes comin to rescue you from whatever hole you in.
It is nice to see a young girl with a lil wisdom though. VERY rare.

[Alyssa87]

thanks armani- were cool. lay off the booze, your brain cells will thank you :p
*[D.A.R.E. kid 4 Lyfe]

and haze- yea, add me to the list. im not in any hole, and am not looking to be saved from anything but the lonelies.

[ARMANIXXX]

thanks armani- were cool. lay off the booze, your brain cells will thank you :p
*[D.A.R.E. kid 4 Lyfe]

and haze- yea, add me to the list. im not in any hole, and am not looking to be saved from anything but the lonelies.




White Wine Sangria, fresh cut red cherries, pour chilled.......

guarantee you'll thank me.



Brain cells are a dime a dozen.

:wink:

[blckhaze]

and haze- yea, add me to the list. im not in any hole, and am not looking to be saved from anything but the lonelies.

added.

[slinky]

1) Whether they care to admit it or not, no one can be in the sex business and have it NOT change them. "When you dance with the Devil, the Devil doesn't change, the Devil changes you". It is very difficult to have a relationship with someone who has been in the sex biz, now or in the past.

2) Even for the few guys who are "cool with it", it's almost impossible, because of this Catch-22: If you want to try to get her to stop working, you're a controlling bastard, and if you DON'T try to get her to stop working, you're an uncaring asshole ("How could you care about me if you don't mind if I do this?").

[hwbs]

1) Whether they care to admit it or not, no one can be in the sex business and have it NOT change them. "When you dance with the Devil, the Devil doesn't change, the Devil changes you". It is very difficult to have a relationship with someone who has been in the sex biz, now or in the past.

2) Even for the few guys who are "cool with it", it's almost impossible, because of this Catch-22: If you want to try to get her to stop working, you're a controlling bastard, and if you DON'T try to get her to stop working, you're an uncaring asshole ("How could you care about me if you don't mind if I do this?").



no2 =bullseye

[trish]

Even for the few guys who are "cool with it", it's almost impossible, because of this Catch-22: If you want to try to get her to stop working, you're a controlling bastard, and if you DON'T try to get her to stop working, you're an uncaring asshole


That's a good reason not to marry anyone with a dangerous job: career soldier, policieman, fireman, etc. ; as well as a job where one is expected to express pretend affections: escort, actor, therapist, etc.

But it's a reason only if your soldier or therapist presents you with the aforementioned dichotomy. Many will not think you uncaring and many of those who do will not think you controlling. If the "object" of your love is important enough, you will broach these topics with him or her and not assume your relationship is doomed by a preordained circular logic.

[tstv_lover]

And PS - "lover" I like older guys, Vanessa can have the kiddies, give me a man with experience!

Giggles,
TS Jamie :-)

Hi Jamie, thanks for the encouragement :)

[tstv_lover]

Yes, lots of interesting comments here.

For the guys who put Danielle down for not wanting guys who visit HA, remember that Danielle is now post-op. If she was looking, it wouldn't be for someone who wants ts with extras. She's a beautiful woman and would be looking for straight guy - makes perfect sense.

Gotta agree with Armani that guys would have a lot of difficulty maintaining a serious relationship with girl who's business is sex. To be truly empathetic, supporting and a partner then it requires openness and understanding. While it's certainly possible to intellectually understand why a girl would wish to maintain income and friends in the sex business it must be impossible to emotionally accept it - unless you only care about the girl's money. Girls can certainly leave the sex business & have relationships but don't expect them to endure a return to escorting.

As for guys, he must be prepared to accept the emotional roller-coaster that sometimes comes with hormone regime changes, must be loving, supportive, faithful and open. He must accept if she decides on SRS and provide her with love and support during the change. He must be prepared to lose friends, colleagues and family members who don't understand his decision. But that isolation is nothing compared to difficulties the girl encounters.

It's a tough relationship to make work and I have enormous admiration for the girls and guys here who have succeeded in maintaining open LTRs.

OK, that's my longest post here. Hopefully some of it resonates!

[sucka4chix]

1) Whether they care to admit it or not, no one can be in the sex business and have it NOT change them. "When you dance with the Devil, the Devil doesn't change, the Devil changes you". It is very difficult to have a relationship with someone who has been in the sex biz, now or in the past.

2) Even for the few guys who are "cool with it", it's almost impossible, because of this Catch-22: If you want to try to get her to stop working, you're a controlling bastard, and if you DON'T try to get her to stop working, you're an uncaring asshole ("How could you care about me if you don't mind if I do this?").

Preach brother preach! Drop the science! I've known many many strippers over the years and they can be friends, but beyond that it can never work! Never. If you are cool with what she does, you really don't have the soul required to share a life with someone, and if you're not cool, she'll never change. The ol' "you can't change a ho into a housewife" syndrome.Ok nothing's impossible but it's highly unlikely. Strippers, pornstars, sex trade workers USUALLY start out far from perfect--- the average girl can't do these jobs. Then the job itself has devastating effects psychologically! I have a friend that relates sex with money, period. That's just how she is!
She's been getting paid for so long.
I recently tried to start a relationship with someone who really struck me as awesome for years. I found out she was stripping and I shoulda stopped right there. But she convinced me that she hates what she does and she's really a shy down to earth person with strong morals, and she's just trying to pay her bills. Talking and chatting, she was so sweet. But when we went out, she was an attention hog trying to do the most outandish crazy shit in public, it was embarassing. Her myspace page literally made me sick, because I actually cared about her.
Do what you gotta do and don't live for anyone else, but any guy who can "get past" you making sex your life isn't going to be a worthhile mate in the long run.

[Leeloo]

I have a question for the girls on here that's been puzzling me...

Most of you include the following two requirements in potential mates:

1. He should not be ashamed of you ("I don't want to be a secret")
2. Guys who are into TSs are creepy ("A man that doesn't read this board or is into transsexuals")

Aren't these two things contradictory and hypocritical? How can you blame him for being sensitive to what his family and friends might think if it even freaks you out?


And my advice for what it's worth (mostly nothing) for any girl who is having trouble finding a nice guy, is to forget the asshole guys hitting on you in the club and go talk to the quiet guy in the corner who's reading a book.

[slinky]

Trish, just so it's clear, this is not an assumption. I've dated a fair share of working girls and a lot all the relationships ended over exactly this.

[BeardedOne]

I'm just catching up on this, so please bear with me...


A man that doesn't read this board or is into transsexuals... Does that clear it? lol

Jeez, Danielle, poke me in the eye with a fork, why don'tcha! :o

There are those of us who have the fetish who are not so focused as to treat the women we adore as animals. Rare, yes, non-existent, no.


im a cam girl, and i have knowingly let him go because of it.

That's sad, really. Not because of your decision, but because of his narrow-mindedness. I've dated strippers, hookers, porn stars, and never had issue with their =JOB=. If they could seperate their real life from their work life, there was no reason that I couldn't do the same. Granted, sex industry work is a far cry from flippin' burgers or telemarketing, but it is still a means to an income and should be seen as same.


You want him to court you and then upon learning that you have a whang and pelotas, want him to embrace them wholeheartedly without a moment's hesitation?

Well, as is pretty common knowledge at this point, Danielle dropped her whang and pelotas in Thailand not long ago. :wink: But there does come a time in a relationship where honesty is the best policy and there's no telling how the other party may react. Some Ts have gone into relationships, complete with enactments of the 'two-backed beast', and their partners were none the wiser (The miracles of modern surgery at work). If a relationship is truly rooted in the emotional, then revelations of the physical should be no more than sidenotes.


Just as the terms "fag","tranny chaser" or "cock hound" dont effect me because they dont apply to me,

Haze knows (As do others) that these terms, for real or for shade, apply to me as refers to T-gurls. I try to be, and somewhat am, respectful of the women here, but it's common knowledge that I have a root interest in that 'little extra' that many of the gurls share. Yet I am not one to piss and moan when the likes of Niki, Danielle, or Victoria (A personal issue that I am going through right now) have their SRS and fulfill their goal of becoming the person they needed to be.

Do I miss the T-clit? You betcha! Am I mad at the gurl for going the full route? No! That's just fucking silly and selfish.


...and if you DON'T try to get her to stop working, you're an uncaring asshole ("How could you care about me if you don't mind if I do this?").

Yah. *Sigh* This has been my experience. :cry:


no2 =bullseye

Like I said...

Lastly...

Interesting that there has been no mention of bisexuality/pansexuality or polyamorous relationships. That's where I come from. I'm decidedly bi/pansexual and am comfortable in alternative relationships (Triads, group marriages, etc.). There have been times in my life where I was in plural realtionships (More than one wife/girlfriend/boyfriend) and, so long as the involved parties are in tune to the situation, things get along well.

Though I've long held an interest/fetish in T-gurls, it is only recently (The past three years) that I've been actively involved in friendships, etc. with them (Though I have had passing relationships over the years). I've never hidden them or my interest in them, never treated them as anything other than a friend or lover, and have actually celebrated my friendships with them.

Before you, the gurls, review what it is that you seek in a 'hubby', perhaps you should first review what it is that you have in yourselves.

You are: Conceited, vain, narcissistic, proud, selfish, self-serving, distrustful, jealous, envious, short-tempered, ill-mannered, distrusting, homophobic, and have a shitty self-image.

Now, before you all stab me in the eye with a fork, you are also: Caring, attentive, focused, driven, attractive, sharp-witted, imaginative, passionate, and capable of seeing as definitive goals things that most people can't even dream of.

Someday, that FOG (Fat Old Guy) will sidle up to you at the club and you might, just maybe, see that he could be the one. Lord knows, I've seen enough sadness from the relationships based on hunkiness.

[peggygee]

Ok, lotsa threads here about marrying a TS. Im sure its MANY mens dream, (mine included), but are you girls willing to marry, and, more importantly, what is it you look for/need in a hubby??

I wanna kno specifics. Money? Certain body build? Status? Details please. Help us men out here so we can make a bride outta one of you gals someday :-)

Personality: Smart, good sense of humor, communicative, emotionally
stable and open, substance free.

Physical: Looks aren't a deal breaker, tall, average build to even a little
heavy, any race, over 35.

[trish]

Trish, just so it's clear, this is not an assumption. I've dated a fair share of working girls and a lot all the relationships ended over exactly this.

In so far as it is a generalization based on a finite sample of people from your own experiences it IS an assumption when applied to someone outside that sample. For example, you yourself are a common factor in all the relationship failures of which you cite. How do you know that element isn't essential to your generalization?

[Angel Jones]

I'd love to marry a man one day. I agree with Vanessa - I look for experience, wisdom, strength - a man who has the courage to marry a tgirl - mature, older than me - the list goes on...

[Dragonxxx]

I'd love to marry a man one day. I agree with Vanessa - I look for experience, wisdom, strength - a man who has the courage to marry a tgirl - mature, older than me - the list goes on...

Hi, this is my first post here, I just wanted to let all the t-girls out there know that I have the courage to marry a t-girl, and I wouldn't care if she was in the adult entertainment biz cuz I know there's a difference between love and sex, and I want to get into the adult entertainment industry also.

[bat1]

a big fat wallet would help if you want to really marry one ...

[alyssaluxor]

hmmm for me:

1. a guy that would truely love me and could see his love and seriousness to me, im tired of fake dates and games lol

thats it!

being hot and horny is a plus ;)

kisses
Alyssa Luxor

[Nicole Dupre]

I definitely need sanity, intelligence, and honesty. I hate hitting a wall in a conversation, and I hate catching people in pathetic lies.

Beyond that, I appreciate creativity. I like artists. They're usually more interesting.

I like to be challenged, on all kinds of levels. It helps you grow as a person, and makes the relationship more stimulating. If it borders on friction, I can deal with that too, but not if there's an ultimatum or dealbreaker involved. I'm not putting up with condescension or a task-master.

I like guys with a sense of humor. Life is filled with all kinds of absurd ironies, and I need someone who sees it that way, and can laugh at the small crap.

Other than that, I want a good-looking, well groomed, somewhat tall man with a nice build. You don't have to be a 'roided out narcissistic freak, but you need to be fairly healthy.

And of course i want you to have some money. I mean, you don't have to be filthy rich, but I'm not dealing with any struggling bums. Make an honest woman out of me.

[speedking59]

they say that marriage is a mistake you only make twice but i would definitely make an exception to that rule for Nicole.

[SXFX]

The girl and I who were dating for a few months indicated she liked how i could walk down the street with her and not worry.
Then again she was and is very beautiful so it wasn't an issue.
She also liked how I wasn't a meet head, that I had a personality and that I was able to hold a conversation not only with her but with her friends.
I liked her, she was and is an amazing girl. We broke up because of me.
I'm the one that had life issues. who knows maybe I'll be lucky to date some one like her again one day.

[Solitary Brother]

In my opinion none of these chicks are really looking for a husband....they just arent build like that.
I dont know any good looking married or even settled down trannies....not even 1.
In my opinion trannies sleep around either professional or for recreation but they sleep around they dont settle down.
I think the idea of the domesticated tranny is just that an idea a concept not reality.
Even if they found that perfect guy they would cheat on him.....real talk.

[Nicole Dupre]

In my opinion none of these chicks are really looking for a husband....they just arent build like that.
I dont know any good looking married or even settled down trannies....not even 1.
In my opinion trannies sleep around either professional or for recreation but they sleep around they dont settle down.
I think the idea of the domesticated tranny is just that an idea a concept not reality.
Even if they found that perfect guy they would cheat on him.....real talk.

That's exactly what all chasers want to, and need to, believe. It's the only way they can bear to face the reality that trannys are actually using them, and not the other way around. lol

Anyway, you can only speak what you know. Obviously, for you, it's not a reality and never will be. There's obviously something you lack. What a shame. lol

[Nicole Dupre]

I love how some fool, who's not even in the running to be anyone's husband, stumbles blindly into this thread and starts essentially protesting that 'all women are whores'. This is a man who's known he can't have what he wants, and who gave up and started fronting, ages ago. Wow. How sad. But then again, how funny. lol For sexworker trannys, these guys are fish in a barrel more than any others. They don't need to pay us in cash, because they pay us 100 times more in entertainment. lol

[alyssaluxor]

In my opinion none of these chicks are really looking for a husband....they just arent build like that.
I dont know any good looking married or even settled down trannies....not even 1.
In my opinion trannies sleep around either professional or for recreation but they sleep around they dont settle down.
I think the idea of the domesticated tranny is just that an idea a concept not reality.
Even if they found that perfect guy they would cheat on him.....real talk.

i agree with Nicole no offense but youre completely unaware of what youre saying

i have so many TS friends who have bf now and they love their bf so much that theyll do everything to make their bf happy. even wash their clothes, cook food for them and give them massage every night and so on. they dont even look for other guys anymore they are completely focus on their bf and no other guys in this world but only their boyfriend. even GGs have no match for the love and compassion a TS girl can give to a guy. in my country theres a saying "masarap magmahal ang bakla" it means TS girls would love you very nicely ;)

i also have many TS friends who are married to a guy and now living in US, Germany and Sweden. They love their husbands so much that they even left their career and their family just to be with their husband. I rarely even communicate with them since they are so busy taking care of their hubby ;)

PAK!

:fuckin:

[Nicole Dupre]

i agree with Nicole no offense but youre completely unaware of what youre saying

i have so many TS friends who have bf now and they love their bf so much that theyll do everything to make their bf happy. even wash their clothes, cook food for them and give them massage every night and so on. they dont even look for other guys anymore they are completely focus on their bf and no other guys in this world but only their boyfriend. even GGs have no match for the love and compassion a TS girl can give to a guy. in my country theres a saying "masarap magmahal ang bakla" it means TS girls would love you very nicely ;)

i also have many TS friends who are married to a guy and now living in US, Germany and Sweden. They love their husbands so much that they even left their career and their family just to be with their husband. I rarely even communicate with them since they are so busy taking care of their hubby ;)

PAK!

:fuckin:
Girl, if all a man does is stare at the strolls, or the ads, or the girls werking in clubs, his perspective will be slanted. Pay him no mind. One minute he says he doesn't sleep with trannys, and the next he's an expert on us all and has some vast number of examples to base his silly opinions on. There's something very sketchy and shady about that. I bet he lives with his mother. lol

Tranny chasers feed themselves all kinds of little lies so they can sleep better at night. But the fact is, they are not husband material and they know it, so they insist that it's the girls who can't be in a LTR. Please. :roll:

Yes, relationships for trannys do have their challenges and complexities, but they do exist. We would know, and he would not.