Frustrated

[Reyna]

Hey everyone,

I want to start by formerly introducing myself. My name is Reyna. I'm 28 years old and have been transitioning for the last eight months.

So, when I began transitioning I made a promise to myself (however unrealistic) that I was not going to let myself be used for sex by any man. For the most part this has been easy. Since I'm on hormones and have a very low libido. Of course there are times when I experience urges and have to take care of them "manually".

For a couple of months now, I been hanging out with a great guy who treats me like a lady. He has no problem taking me out (and paying) and being seen in public(during the day) with me. When I needed to update my license after my name change, he proved it to me by taking me to the DMV.

Anyways, he's ten years older than me and is undergoing post treatment for testicular cancer. Because of his medication he has no sexual libido and therefore we've yet to consummate our relationship. This is often not that big a deal but as we continue hanging out I find myself wanting for him to take care of my urges, which are now being triggered by him . He of course is not able to help me out. I like him a lot but the whole situation has me feeling those celibacy blues for the first time since I began transitioning. I guess I'm just a little sexually frustrated and needed to vent. Thanks for listening, I'm quite sure that I'll get over shortly.
Ughhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[thx1138]

Have you asked him to satisfy you orally?

[Jasadin]

It might be a good thing that you two haven't done it.It sounds like some real feelings are there which can only heighten when you actually have sex.You two also have the option to find some creative ways to get off.You have the will so there's definitely a way.If you and your bf put your heads together then I'm sure you can cum up with something.Good luck :)

[tao1kiku]

If it's a matter of him not being able to get it up, there are many other ways of being intimate as well. Oral, toys, fingers, whatever the imagination can think of.

[ARMANIXXX]

Hey everyone,

I want to start by formerly introducing myself. My name is Reyna. I'm 28 years old and have been transitioning for the last eight months.

So, when I began transitioning I made a promise to myself (however unrealistic) that I was not going to let myself be used for sex by any man. For the most part this has been easy. Since I'm on hormones and have a very low libido. Of course there are times when I experience urges and have to take care of them "manually".

For a couple of months now, I been hanging out with a great guy who treats me like a lady. He has no problem taking me out (and paying) and being seen in public(during the day) with me. When I needed to update my license after my name change, he proved it to me by taking me to the DMV.

Anyways, he's ten years older than me and is undergoing post treatment for testicular cancer. Because of his medication he has no sexual libido and therefore we've yet to consummate our relationship. This is often not that big a deal but as we continue hanging out I find myself wanting for him to take care of my urges, which are now being triggered by him . He of course is not able to help me out. I like him a lot but the whole situation has me feeling those celibacy blues for the first time since I began transitioning. I guess I'm just a little sexually frustrated and needed to vent. Thanks for listening, I'm quite sure that I'll get over shortly.
Ughhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Hi Reyna,

I'm glad that you took the time to share with us. I hope that you are able to find the happiness and coupled needs fullfulment that you seek babe...for real.


At anyrate, I was wondering, if you wouldn't mind,

What is the ethnic/racial background of your now sick boyfriend?

Thank you.

Take care.

[El Nino]

Give the man some viagra and tell him to stick it in your ass

[yodajazz]

My humble advice is to tell him how you feel without telling him exactly what to do at first. He’ll figure it out what to do, his own way. The other thing is that good things are worth waiting for. Show him some patience, even while letting your feelings be known. He’ll make it up to you, believe me. It will be worth it.

[justatransgirl]

Eros.com baby... get paid while having fun and satisfying your needs! LOL

:-) :-) :-)

Just joking honey. Try a vibrator or take top!

Hugs and sympathy,
TS Jamie :-)