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bulldog
05-03-2008, 12:21 PM
Any guys in here actually have trouble achieving orgasm? Not staying hard just achieving orgasm. Reason I ask is one of the meds I take makes it damn near impossible to reach orgasm and I was wondering if anybody has had anything similar happen to them.


FYI it fuckin sucks



Ben

crinkle
05-03-2008, 01:30 PM
My brother-in-law is on anti depressants, he has the same issue. My sister loves it.

dreamer
05-03-2008, 02:24 PM
yeah --same here (anti depressants) ---my girlfriend uses her hand to make me come ---and even though I never think she'll be able to bring me --she always does --

Marinus
05-03-2008, 03:31 PM
Yep, it's a side-effect of a lot of anti-depressants. Especially the SSRI's and SNRI's ...

bassman2546
05-03-2008, 08:28 PM
You realize that the pharmaceuticals intentionally make erectile difficulties a side effect of all anti-depressants so men will have to take another drug (viagra/cialis) , an expensive one at that.

Although some people need these anti-depressants, I think that 90% of people taking them don't. It's an easy way out for doctors just to write a prescription and send a patient on their way. I've been down that road before and did what my doctor told me but decided that sex was such a huge part of my life that I was going to do something else for the down days. Working out and eating properly have helped me way more than an anti-depressant ever would.

Now I'm back to my ol' sexual self with hard-ons galore and achieving my multiple orgasms like I used to (five to eight on average).

I encourage everyone to strongly evaluate whether you truly need the meds. If it's a proven chemical imbalance, then sure. But if some days are down and you can't get off the couch. Then get off the couch and go to the gym and burn off some stress and turn that somber day into a great day. Follow it up with good healthy (non-processed foods) eating and you'll be on your way to a better lifestyle.

peggygee
05-03-2008, 09:00 PM
Yep, it's a side-effect of a lot of anti-depressants. Especially the SSRI's and SNRI's ...


My brother-in-law is on anti depressants, he has the same issue. My sister loves it.

It's definitely a known side effect of many anti-depressants, and may
cause some folks to discontinue their use or to not utilze them at all,
which could be ill-advised.

Seeking the right psycho-tropic med, the right dosage can be a trial and
error process with your clinician, but it can be worth it to maintain a
good quality of life.

So bottom line my partners mental health and overall well being is
my paramount concern, we can 'twerk out' any sexual difficulties.

And quite frankly I love a man with a slow hand. :wink:

monkey2006
05-03-2008, 09:12 PM
My friend... Same problem (anti depressants)...

Google "Tribulus Terrestris" .. Its an herb and work very well for me...

http://www.thesupplementguide.co.uk/tribulus.htm

thx1138
05-03-2008, 11:22 PM
Flomax and similar medications for urinary difficulties have pretty much the same side effect as anti depressants. :>)

Marinus
05-04-2008, 11:02 AM
Seeking the right psycho-tropic med, the right dosage can be a trial and
error process with your clinician, but it can be worth it to maintain a
good quality of life.
That's true!

I've tried several meds, but each has a different outcome. You can't even compare the side-effects: it differs from one person to the other.

For instance: I tried Remeron, but it caused anxiety attacks which had an enormous impact on my life. Zoloft: didn't get any sleep and made me agitated (got up in the morning and was thinking about punching someone in the face without any reason).

Now I started using Cymbalta, but it's still a challenge to get passed the side-effects (dizzy, nausea, strange view) ...

OEMEnemyNum1
05-04-2008, 11:05 AM
I have that problem when I wear condoms that are too tight. I'm definitely a fan of the Magnums.....

Though it can be kind of nice to impress a girl with your amazing stamina. It just sucks when you can't pop at the end. Oh well, I just blame the condoms and it works out.

bulldog
05-04-2008, 12:04 PM
Seeking the right psycho-tropic med, the right dosage can be a trial and
error process with your clinician, but it can be worth it to maintain a
good quality of life.
That's true!

I've tried several meds, but each has a different outcome. You can't even compare the side-effects: it differs from one person to the other.

For instance: I tried Remeron, but it caused anxiety attacks which had an enormous impact on my life. Zoloft: didn't get any sleep and made me agitated (got up in the morning and was thinking about punching someone in the face without any reason).

Now I started using Cymbalta, but it's still a challenge to get passed the side-effects (dizzy, nausea, strange view) ...

Yea the main med that I was talking about was zoloft, I have been on it for the last 8 or more yrs and will probably be on it for the rest of my life, however I didnt start having this problem until I started taking another of my more recently prescribed, Buspar, for anxiety. I believe combined its like a double whammy, cause they are both known to cause ejaculation failure(one apparent medical term for it) I am definetly talking to my doc soon to get me off of the Buspar.

bulldog
05-04-2008, 12:06 PM
I have that problem when I wear condoms that are too tight. I'm definitely a fan of the Magnums.....

Though it can be kind of nice to impress a girl with your amazing stamina. It just sucks when you can't pop at the end. Oh well, I just blame the condoms and it works out.

Quit braggin :D