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blackrob
05-01-2008, 11:26 AM
I'm asking this because when I was on my myspace page I sent a tranny a friends request. I didn't even send her a message or nothing just a simple friends request and she sends me back a really shitty email which i'll post in a second. I was just wondering how or why would a tranny talk about other trannies in such a negative light calling them men and stuff when they're the same thing if we go there. I was really surprised because I remember that this tranny who's really fine as hell and I thought a nice woman because she used to post on this site for a short period and she seemed to be really nice? I don't want to say who she is but she's a beautiful black tranny that used to post here. Now i'll post her response to me for just sending her a simple freinds request and she's not the first tranny that i've gotten a nasty email from primarily talking about other trannies??? So i'm wondering why trannies have so many issues?

blackrob
05-01-2008, 11:31 AM
This is the response I got from her after she checked out my page and I have a lot of GG women on it as well? Talking about how she almost threw up and calling the other trannies men?? :shock: :shock: :shock:



you have got to be kidding me. i almost threw up when i viewed ur page.. i udnerstand dealing the the trannys but what u have accumalated on that list with all those men is disgusting. how dare u even come at me like that. take care and god bless.

MrsKellyPierce
05-01-2008, 11:34 AM
Maybe because of your stereotypical mind. You base a whole community off a few transsexuals you have encountered. WOW..............we are all different. I assume you are black by your name, you should know better than to oppress a whole community with this silly judgement and post!

And please don't act like the sunshine comes out of your ass. We all have issues. A lot of transsexuals start later in life, and even though beautiful, they don't have the self esteem yet. So they feel the need to hate on other transsexuals to make themselves feel better about themselves. Its quite simple logic and psychological.

Yawn..I'm done.

Have a great day, and try expanding your mind, before you make another stereotypical post.

blackrob
05-01-2008, 11:46 AM
Maybe because of your stereotypical mind. You base a whole community off a few transsexuals you have encountered. WOW..............we are all different. I assume you are black by your name, you should know better than to oppress a whole community with this silly judgement and post!

And please don't act like the sunshine comes out of your ass. We all have issues. A lot of transsexuals start later in life, and even though beautiful, they don't have the self esteem yet. So they feel the need to hate on other transsexuals to make themselves feel better about themselves. Its quite simple logic and psychological.

Yawn..I'm done.

Have a great day, and try expanding your mind, before you make another stereotypical post.

Damn did I ever say the sunshine comes out of my ass and i'm sure that even though a lot of the guys kiss your little ass on this site kelly that no sunshine comes out of your ass either!

And it's not a sterotypical post either this she wasn't the first one to post some lame crap like that but I expected better from her because she seemed like a cool chick when she used to post here.

Yes i'm black so what does that have to do with anything???

d
05-01-2008, 11:52 AM
you have got to be kidding me. i almost threw up when i viewed ur page.. i udnerstand dealing the the trannys but what u have accumalated on that list with all those men is disgusting. how dare u even come at me like that. take care and god bless.



his tranny who's really fine as hell and I thought a nice woman because she used to post on this site for a short period and she seemed to be really nice?


name names or this post is worthless

yodajazz
05-01-2008, 11:55 AM
This is the response I got from her after she checked out my page and I have a lot of GG women on it as well? Talking about how she almost threw up and calling the other trannies men?? :shock: :shock: :shock:



you have got to be kidding me. i almost threw up when i viewed ur page.. i udnerstand dealing the the trannys but what u have accumalated on that list with all those men is disgusting. how dare u even come at me like that. take care and god bless.

I feel you Blackrob. People want love and accpetance, but then turn around and attack someone with similar characteristics. Of course it is not all, but probably far too many as I have heard of things like this before many times. The other side is that most girls have a ts mentor who supported their transition. But the example you cite shows that there are some deeper issues that I suspect is more than that one person.

P.S. to D: I wouldn't say that this post is worthless without a name. The larger issue is about being judgmental, and a form of self-hate.

blackrob
05-01-2008, 11:57 AM
you have got to be kidding me. i almost threw up when i viewed ur page.. i udnerstand dealing the the trannys but what u have accumalated on that list with all those men is disgusting. how dare u even come at me like that. take care and god bless.



his tranny who's really fine as hell and I thought a nice woman because she used to post on this site for a short period and she seemed to be really nice?


name names or this post is worthless

lol I try to have a little bit of respect for people but I might do it in this case.

MrsKellyPierce
05-01-2008, 11:59 AM
Maybe because of your stereotypical mind. You base a whole community off a few transsexuals you have encountered. WOW..............we are all different. I assume you are black by your name, you should know better than to oppress a whole community with this silly judgement and post!

And please don't act like the sunshine comes out of your ass. We all have issues. A lot of transsexuals start later in life, and even though beautiful, they don't have the self esteem yet. So they feel the need to hate on other transsexuals to make themselves feel better about themselves. Its quite simple logic and psychological.

Yawn..I'm done.

Have a great day, and try expanding your mind, before you make another stereotypical post.

Damn did I ever say the sunshine comes out of my ass and i'm sure that even though a lot of the guys kiss your little ass on this site kelly that no sunshine comes out of your ass either!

And it's not a sterotypical post either this she wasn't the first one to post some lame crap like that but I expected better from her because she seemed like a cool chick when she used to post here.

Yes i'm black so what does that have to do with anything??? It is a stereotypical post. READ THE DAMN NAME OF THE THREAD. That is stereotypical. And I really don't give a rats ass who kisses my ass on HA or Who doesn't. Men on here take a man giving you a compliment as ass kissing. Don't act like you know me, because you don't! Don't presume to know the relationships I have with the men, that you say kiss my ass. A lot of the men that are "supposeably" kissing my ass I have spoken to in chat and they know what I am about and who I am as a person. So save your judgements for GOD.

And it has everything to do with being black! How would you like if I made a thread that read. WHY DO BLACK PEOPLE TALK FUNNY? WHY ARE ALL BLACK PEOPLE GHETTO? These two statements are not true, but yet I made the stereotype, because of encountering a few that may have been. Which is what you did, when you made the statement. WHY DO ALL TRANSSEXUALS HAVE ISSUES? If you can't see what you did, I feel sorry for you.

blackrob
05-01-2008, 12:00 PM
This is the response I got from her after she checked out my page and I have a lot of GG women on it as well? Talking about how she almost threw up and calling the other trannies men?? :shock: :shock: :shock:



you have got to be kidding me. i almost threw up when i viewed ur page.. i udnerstand dealing the the trannys but what u have accumalated on that list with all those men is disgusting. how dare u even come at me like that. take care and god bless.

I feel you Blackrob. People want love and accpetance, but then turn around and attack someone with similar characteristics. Of course it is not all, but probably far too many as I have heard of things like this before many times. The other side is that most girls have a ts mentor who supported their transition. But the example you cite shows that there are some deeper issues that I suspect is more than that one person.

Right you would think if anybody who would be understanding and accepting of a tranny would be another tranny but I guess it doesn't work like that. From what I got out of our brief exchange is she thinks she looks better than other trannies and she's more passable than they are but a lot of the trannies I had on my page look better than she did. you right when trannies are comming up most of them had a mentor or some kind of support system but after they think they're the shit they start tearing down other trannies and I don't get it?

MrsKellyPierce
05-01-2008, 12:04 PM
SOME TRANSSEXUALS, stop grouping us all together........ Good lord.

blackrob
05-01-2008, 12:07 PM
Maybe because of your stereotypical mind. You base a whole community off a few transsexuals you have encountered. WOW..............we are all different. I assume you are black by your name, you should know better than to oppress a whole community with this silly judgement and post!

And please don't act like the sunshine comes out of your ass. We all have issues. A lot of transsexuals start later in life, and even though beautiful, they don't have the self esteem yet. So they feel the need to hate on other transsexuals to make themselves feel better about themselves. Its quite simple logic and psychological.

Yawn..I'm done.

Have a great day, and try expanding your mind, before you make another stereotypical post.

Damn did I ever say the sunshine comes out of my ass and i'm sure that even though a lot of the guys kiss your little ass on this site kelly that no sunshine comes out of your ass either!

And it's not a sterotypical post either this she wasn't the first one to post some lame crap like that but I expected better from her because she seemed like a cool chick when she used to post here.

Yes i'm black so what does that have to do with anything??? It is a stereotypical post. READ THE DAMN NAME OF THE THREAD. That is stereotypical. And I really don't give a rats ass who kisses my ass on HA or Who doesn't. Men on here take a man giving you a compliment as ass kissing. Don't act like you know me, because you don't! Don't presume to know the relationships I have with the men, that you say kiss my ass. A lot of the men that are "supposeably" kissing my ass I have spoken to in chat and they know what I am about and who I am as a person. So save your judgements for GOD.

And it has everything to do with being black! How would you like if I made a thread that read. WHY DO BLACK PEOPLE TALK FUNNY? WHY ARE ALL BLACK PEOPLE GHETTO? These two statements are not true, but yet I made the stereotype, because of encountering a few that may have been. Which is what you did, when you made the statement. WHY DO ALL TRANSSEXUALS HAVE ISSUES? If you can't see what you did, I feel sorry for you.

Kelly you are such a little queen ain't you?? I've been on this site long enough to know that you get your jollies off by how much ass kissing the guys do to you and how catty you can be when another chick starts to get a lot of attention. Even though I don't post that much in here I might not know you like that but I do know the kind of behavior i've seen from you in here. And please Kelly stop playing games in here cause you and I both know that i'll never get to know you like that so stop tripping!

And being Black still ain't got shit to do with this so don't be comming in here with that. I see the point you're trying to make but I don't think it's revelant here.

If you saw a pattern of white people who seemed to hate white people or black people who seem to hate black people then you'd think they were crazy too! How many KKK rallies have you seen where they were going after white people so don't come at me with this shit!

MrsKellyPierce
05-01-2008, 12:09 PM
ROFLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLl shut up you fool. You know nothing about me, and I don't care about attention.

Half the posts I made on HA in the past were for jokes and laughs, you would know that if you ever spoke to me in the chatrooms. Instead of taking everything so literal.

And you are oppressing a community, when you make those stereotypical views.

A queen? wow more discrimination.

Why don't you just call me a fag and be done with it.


PATHETIC

And I have never been catty to girls. I always praise other girls I think are pretty. So shut your piehole on my personality.

blackrob
05-01-2008, 12:15 PM
LMAO stop playing Kelly I meant like a dramma queen and that you know you can be and are a lot of times!

MrsKellyPierce
05-01-2008, 12:16 PM
LMAO stop playing Kelly I meant like a dramma queen and that you know you can be and are a lot of times! never? I say what I mean as of late and mean it.

I am highly offended with this post.

You crazy fool.

blackrob
05-01-2008, 12:18 PM
OK this is the chick i'm talking about. She's beautiful and fine as hell I must say but she's full of issues. I told her she'd fit in nicely. Damn the things i'd do to her sexy ass!!!

blackrob
05-01-2008, 12:21 PM
LMAO stop playing Kelly I meant like a dramma queen and that you know you can be and are a lot of times! never? I say what I mean as of late and mean it.

I am highly offended with this post.

You crazy fool.

awe you poor baby. i'm sure you'll soon forget about it when you get enough of your croonies in here telling you how sexy you are .

MrsKellyPierce
05-01-2008, 12:25 PM
LMAO stop playing Kelly I meant like a dramma queen and that you know you can be and are a lot of times! never? I say what I mean as of late and mean it.

I am highly offended with this post.

You crazy fool.

awe you poor baby. i'm sure you'll soon forget about it when you get enough of your croonies in here telling you how sexy you are . oh is that so? I could care less about that. I just don't like being grouped or stereotyped.

Celeste
05-01-2008, 12:47 PM
Hmmm.... Id say 50% of us are crazy and the other 50% just have alot of issues :screwy

blackrob
05-01-2008, 12:57 PM
Hmmm.... Id say 50% of us are crazy and the other 50% just have alot of issues :screwy

I'm really taking a liking to you for something other than your body now!! :lol: :lol:

muhmuh
05-01-2008, 11:02 PM
I'm really taking a liking to you for something other than your body now!! :lol: :lol:

and youre suprised others think youre a douche why exactly?

lahabra1976
05-01-2008, 11:22 PM
Hey aint that the chic that got attacked by her boyfriend cause her boyfriend saw pictures of her youth and found out she was a tgirl

lahabra1976
05-01-2008, 11:25 PM
any case, this issue isn't really one to talk about cause its been discussed several times already and no one changes their opinion

Guys think the trannies are mean, so they think guys are assholes, which in turn reinforces the guys opinions and vice versa.

yodajazz
05-02-2008, 10:01 AM
you have got to be kidding me. i almost threw up when i viewed ur page.. i udnerstand dealing the the trannys but what u have accumalated on that list with all those men is disgusting. how dare u even come at me like that. take care and god bless.
........
Truth of the matter is that we are all the same. Anyone who was physically born a certain gender and choses to express themselves contradictory to the norms assigned to that gender by society is transgender. Once we able to accept each other and the various way we express our gender, then we would be better able to advocate for ourselves. Until then, "mainstream" society will continue to use us and laugh as they watch us destroy ourselves.

I think this part of the statement deserves to be highlighted. I strongly believe this myself. This is what this thread is about in the first post. It is about acceptance and identifying with the struggles of others. Strength comes in numbers. But I would go beyond this and include gay people. This does not mean that the person who supports them identifies as gay. This just means that trans people can identify with them as a group who are fighting for acceptance. Too often on this board the term ‘fag’ is used as an insult. I find it particularly ironic that many girls here have expressed disdain for gays like they are better than them. Some societies of the world use this as a divide and conquer technique accepting trans while denying gays, or others deny trans saying they are really gay instead.

But in a few societies trans people are viewed as good. They are viewed as having the power to better understand both the male and female principles in life. This strain of thought is even somewhat accepted here in the US and other places, as cross gender entertainers like RuPaul or Dame Edna can be mainstream entertainers. I am saying this to amplify what Reyna has said. Power in general comes from accepting others, rather than separating or thinking that you are better than them, like the person in the original post of this thread.

(For those that may wonder about me, I am a sociologist by training and tend to look at the larger meaning of personal events.)

drock
05-02-2008, 10:30 AM
you have got to be kidding me. i almost threw up when i viewed ur page.. i udnerstand dealing the the trannys but what u have accumalated on that list with all those men is disgusting. how dare u even come at me like that. take care and god bless.

I think that within every cultural group they're cast systems emplace that prevent them for truly being unified. Unfortunately the transgender community is not immune from self- discrimination. They are some girls that transition early in life and therefore are completely passable. Some of them, put themselves on a pedestal. They believe themselves to be better than other members of the transgender community. Likewise others transgender people might discriminate towards transsexual because they themselves are not full time and can pass as "normal". Transexual, transvestite, transgenderist, pre-op, post-op, gender variant, crossdresser, ftm, mtf, cross gender, drag queen, drag king, androgynous, genderqueer. Truth of the matter is that we are all the same. Anyone who was physically born a certain gender and choses to express themselves contradictory to the norms assigned to that gender by society is transgender. Once we able to accept each other and the various way we express our gender, then we would be better able to advocate for ourselves. Until then, "mainstream" society will continue to use us and laugh as they watch us destroy ourselves.

I've actually come across a couple of trannies like this myself. One of them is a good friend of this chick here and she calls her this chicks half sister but i'm not sure if they're really sisters or they just call themselves that? From my experiences it's just trannies trying to distance themselves from other trannies because they feel they're better than other trannies and it might increase their chances of being clocked if they're seen with other trannies but I don't understand why the need to talk bad about other trannies and degrade them. If they want people to be accepting of them then why would some of them spew so much venom at other trannies??

I think it could be like a subculture of trannies that are passable and they just look down upon other trannies who aren't as beautiful in their opinion? We've actually seen that kind of behavoir displayed on this board time and time again too between posters like MimiPlastic and Brenda and Vanessa.

blackrob
05-09-2008, 11:54 AM
I'm really taking a liking to you for something other than your body now!! :lol: :lol:

and youre suprised others think youre a douche why exactly?

Shut the f up!

muhmuh
05-09-2008, 02:19 PM
exactly

BrendaQG
05-09-2008, 02:50 PM
I think it could be like a subculture of trannies that are passable and they just look down upon other trannies who aren't as beautiful in their opinion? We've actually seen that kind of behavoir displayed on this board time and time again too between posters like MimiPlastic and Brenda and Vanessa.

Drock what you have wrote is another stereotype at work. Based on the scant interactions you have online (yeah chat is still online it's more than text but not like knowing people IRL day in day out) and stereotypes you think you know what was going down?

IF ANYTHING OUR FRIENDSHIP DEFIED MANY OF THESE SO CALLED BOUNDARIES.

Each of us were quite different in age, age of transition, results or hormones, cosmetic work done, education, desire for SRS, blah, blah, blah, etc. etc.

That is the truth of the matter. Another truth is that those divisions always mattered more to the people we interacted with as a group than to us. That different treatment in different situations built up resentments on the part of all parties involved. That as much as anything anyone of us did lead to our falling out.
________

Drock is right about one thing though. Because of such differences their are ladies who will not try to form such friendships at all.

Nowhere
05-09-2008, 03:12 PM
So i'm wondering why trannies have so many issues?

Um, I think that any woman on the planet who has been through half as must crap as the average tgirl has to go through would have twice as many 'issues' as many of them do.

I mean, being tormented as kids, abandoned by their family and friends, being systemically denied any professional job, no matter what their experience or education, denied being able to be with the people they're attracted to, then when they transition, being able to have sex with them, but not the way they want to, and most often nothing resembling a healthy relationship (the whole bottoms 'chaser' thing, at best). Being treated by freaks on the street, even if they become passable, and if they pull that in an unobvious way, having the consistent threat of being killed if they reveal that to the wrong person, "'I'm wondering why trannies have so many issues", too?

:roll:

yodajazz
05-09-2008, 08:13 PM
So i'm wondering why trannies have so many issues?

Um, I think that any woman on the planet who has been through half as must crap as the average tgirl has to go through would have twice as many 'issues' as many of them do.

I mean, being tormented as kids, abandoned by their family and friends, being systemically denied any professional job, no matter what their experience or education, denied being able to be with the people they're attracted to, then when they transition, being able to have sex with them, but not the way they want to, and most often nothing resembling a healthy relationship (the whole bottoms 'chaser' thing, at best). Being treated by freaks on the street, even if they become passable, and if they pull that in an unobvious way, having the consistent threat of being killed if they reveal that to the wrong person, "'I'm wondering why trannies have so many issues", too?

:roll:

You make a strong point and I respect what you have said, however there is one major thing being left out. Too many in the community lack the basic spiritual lessons for happiness. These lessons are not judge others harshly, treat others the way you would like to be treated, and practice love as much as you can. I am not saying everyone by any means.

The things you list are true, but some use it as an excuse to indulge in negative behaviors. These behaviors include such things as stealing, cheating, or self destructive behaviors like drug abuse. They are not taught enough that their own negative behaviors start a new chain of consequences which comes back to them. One example would be when someone charges $200+ per hour for their time, and does not provide good service. No amount of past mistreatment justifies them to mistreat others. Basic spiritual lessons translate down to good business practices.

Someone brought up the feud between Brenda, Vanessa and Mimi. I think that does prove a point. Mimi’s attack especially was very personal on Brenda, posting unflattering pictures, etc. And the names Brenda was called were as bad as any transphobic person could do, which included making fun of her appearance and calling her by a male name. So when somebody else later attacked Mimi very few people came to her defense. And several people wrote in to specifically say because of her past behaviors justified someone else insulting her. Her harsh judgments of others came back on her, even though I argued on her behalf.

Transsexuals are born into a world with many obstacles in their path. But everyone else also has things that they must work to overcome. Those that do overcome and find ways to express Love, in the spiritual sense, are given more special gifts.

So I go back to answer the title of this thread. Yes, transsexuals do have a lot of issues. They are given many issues by society. But those who overcome these issues to lead successful lives are shining examples of humanity, even though most people are slow to understand this. This is why I love trans women.

AsiaMei
05-09-2008, 08:44 PM
Hey aint that the chic that got attacked by her boyfriend cause her boyfriend saw pictures of her youth and found out she was a tgirl

no that was a big ole' fake rumor posted on mediatakeout.com

lahabra1976
05-09-2008, 09:06 PM
another issue to think about this tgirl told me is that tgirls for the most part "are passing through." They dont want to be bothered with these issues that society thinks of them cause they will evenutally get SRS surgery and be away with the tg community. I am sure this isn't true with all tgirls, but I guess most of them the final goal is SRS surgery.

TomSelis
05-09-2008, 10:56 PM
I'm asking this because when I was on my myspace page I sent a tranny a friends request. I didn't even send her a message or nothing just a simple friends request and she sends me back a really shitty email which i'll post in a second. I was just wondering how or why would a tranny talk about other trannies in such a negative light calling them men and stuff when they're the same thing if we go there. I was really surprised because I remember that this tranny who's really fine as hell and I thought a nice woman because she used to post on this site for a short period and she seemed to be really nice? I don't want to say who she is but she's a beautiful black tranny that used to post here. Now i'll post her response to me for just sending her a simple freinds request and she's not the first tranny that i've gotten a nasty email from primarily talking about other trannies??? So i'm wondering why trannies have so many issues?

It's never fair to generalize. But at the same time, I understand the spirit of your post. So I'll try to put it another way.

You saw a transexual on myspace that you thought was hot and wanted to add to your friends list. You sent her the request and she sent you a flame back, dissing you and the other transexuals on the page. That made you wonder why some transexuals have issues with guys that have other transexuals as friends, or even sillier friends on myspace (which really doesn't mean anything). So you're wondering what the deal is?

That about sum it up?

Short answer: :shrug It is what it is. You don't want any part of someone like that anyway.

Long answer: ........well, I'm not going to get into that.

hwbs
05-09-2008, 11:51 PM
i have had that happen..i even had that happen to a girl who i didn't send out a friend request to...she felt like dropping me an email to tell me what she thought of my friend .....

TomSelis
05-10-2008, 03:23 AM
The funny thing is, I'm willing to bet she had like 8000 myspace friends.

peggygee
05-10-2008, 03:34 AM
I'm gettting a sense that some folks need to get know more transwomen
in general, and a more diverse populace specifically.

Much like any other group, some transwomen make out very well in life,
and some catch Hell.

As always your mileage may vary :shrug

Nikka
05-10-2008, 03:50 AM
lol at this thread :)

blackrob
07-13-2008, 03:53 PM
you have got to be kidding me. i almost threw up when i viewed ur page.. i udnerstand dealing the the trannys but what u have accumalated on that list with all those men is disgusting. how dare u even come at me like that. take care and god bless.

I think that within every cultural group they're cast systems emplace that prevent them for truly being unified. Unfortunately the transgender community is not immune from self- discrimination. They are some girls that transition early in life and therefore are completely passable. Some of them, put themselves on a pedestal. They believe themselves to be better than other members of the transgender community. Likewise others transgender people might discriminate towards transsexual because they themselves are not full time and can pass as "normal". Transexual, transvestite, transgenderist, pre-op, post-op, gender variant, crossdresser, ftm, mtf, cross gender, drag queen, drag king, androgynous, genderqueer. Truth of the matter is that we are all the same. Anyone who was physically born a certain gender and choses to express themselves contradictory to the norms assigned to that gender by society is transgender. Once we able to accept each other and the various way we express our gender, then we would be better able to advocate for ourselves. Until then, "mainstream" society will continue to use us and laugh as they watch us destroy ourselves.

I've actually come across a couple of trannies like this myself. One of them is a good friend of this chick here and she calls her this chicks half sister but i'm not sure if they're really sisters or they just call themselves that? From my experiences it's just trannies trying to distance themselves from other trannies because they feel they're better than other trannies and it might increase their chances of being clocked if they're seen with other trannies but I don't understand why the need to talk bad about other trannies and degrade them. If they want people to be accepting of them then why would some of them spew so much venom at other trannies??

I think it could be like a subculture of trannies that are passable and they just look down upon other trannies who aren't as beautiful in their opinion? We've actually seen that kind of behavoir displayed on this board time and time again too between posters like MimiPlastic and Brenda and Vanessa.


I think you might be right.

blackrob
07-13-2008, 03:57 PM
I'm asking this because when I was on my myspace page I sent a tranny a friends request. I didn't even send her a message or nothing just a simple friends request and she sends me back a really shitty email which i'll post in a second. I was just wondering how or why would a tranny talk about other trannies in such a negative light calling them men and stuff when they're the same thing if we go there. I was really surprised because I remember that this tranny who's really fine as hell and I thought a nice woman because she used to post on this site for a short period and she seemed to be really nice? I don't want to say who she is but she's a beautiful black tranny that used to post here. Now i'll post her response to me for just sending her a simple freinds request and she's not the first tranny that i've gotten a nasty email from primarily talking about other trannies??? So i'm wondering why trannies have so many issues?

It's never fair to generalize. But at the same time, I understand the spirit of your post. So I'll try to put it another way.

You saw a transexual on myspace that you thought was hot and wanted to add to your friends list. You sent her the request and she sent you a flame back, dissing you and the other transexuals on the page. That made you wonder why some transexuals have issues with guys that have other transexuals as friends, or even sillier friends on myspace (which really doesn't mean anything). So you're wondering what the deal is?

That about sum it up?

Short answer: :shrug It is what it is. You don't want any part of someone like that anyway.

Long answer: ........well, I'm not going to get into that.

you summed that up very well. If you dont' want to be added to my friends list that fine but to go off talking about how horrible every tranny on my list looked was just taking things a bit far. Hell to be honest most of the ones I had on my top list looked better than she did so I was shocked to hear a tranny talking about she almost puked looking at another tranny and how she's better than they are would never allow herself to be put in with another group of trannies??

blackrob
07-13-2008, 03:59 PM
another issue to think about this tgirl told me is that tgirls for the most part "are passing through." They dont want to be bothered with these issues that society thinks of them cause they will evenutally get SRS surgery and be away with the tg community. I am sure this isn't true with all tgirls, but I guess most of them the final goal is SRS surgery.

I dont know or dont think most trannys plan on getting SRS.

goldensamba
07-13-2008, 04:44 PM
Maybe because of your stereotypical mind. You base a whole community off a few transsexuals you have encountered. WOW..............we are all different. I assume you are black by your name, you should know better than to oppress a whole community with this silly judgement and post!

And please don't act like the sunshine comes out of your ass. We all have issues. A lot of transsexuals start later in life, and even though beautiful, they don't have the self esteem yet. So they feel the need to hate on other transsexuals to make themselves feel better about themselves. Its quite simple logic and psychological.

Yawn..I'm done.

Have a great day, and try expanding your mind, before you make another stereotypical post.

Damn did I ever say the sunshine comes out of my ass and i'm sure that even though a lot of the guys kiss your little ass on this site kelly that no sunshine comes out of your ass either!

And it's not a sterotypical post either this she wasn't the first one to post some lame crap like that but I expected better from her because she seemed like a cool chick when she used to post here.

Yes i'm black so what does that have to do with anything??? It is a stereotypical post. READ THE DAMN NAME OF THE THREAD. That is stereotypical. And I really don't give a rats ass who kisses my ass on HA or Who doesn't. Men on here take a man giving you a compliment as ass kissing. Don't act like you know me, because you don't! Don't presume to know the relationships I have with the men, that you say kiss my ass. A lot of the men that are "supposeably" kissing my ass I have spoken to in chat and they know what I am about and who I am as a person. So save your judgements for GOD.

And it has everything to do with being black! How would you like if I made a thread that read. WHY DO BLACK PEOPLE TALK FUNNY? WHY ARE ALL BLACK PEOPLE GHETTO? These two statements are not true, but yet I made the stereotype, because of encountering a few that may have been. Which is what you did, when you made the statement. WHY DO ALL TRANSSEXUALS HAVE ISSUES? If you can't see what you did, I feel sorry for you.

Eveyone on here uses sterotypes to evaluate people whether we want to admit it or not. It's funn you chose those two xamples as the stereo type model since quite a few girls on here claim they don't deal with black men because "they don't like to pay."

I don't think he was meaning to lump everyone together I think what he was getting at was why he has experinced hostility by such a large number of girls.

Justawannabe
07-13-2008, 07:21 PM
A couple folks had some really great posts in here...

The one about the caste system that most minorities fall into is particularly good, and something I wish would change. I tried to find some support for trying to transition when I was in my late 20's and found out that even my friends in the community were going to distance themselves from me until I got to a respectable appearance, say after a couple years of work. I was stunned... luckily I guess my mother got sick and I tabled the whole thing as I couldn't do it to her when she was so weak... so I got to keep my friends, yay me.

second one that really stood out was that many Trans folks really do feel that this is a stop over on the way to being 'real women' post surgery. So they feel no sense of community with the 'freaks' and the 'perverts' they have to use to get back to being part of normal society.

On the other side the post about all the girls have to go through to get where they want is true too. I did feel the line about the 'bottom chaser' thing was maybe not right... but I don't know specifically what that means to various people as the topic is being debated constantly.

Sean

TS DANIELLE FOXXX
07-13-2008, 07:23 PM
Both... But just as much as the men who love them

I think the people who think they are "normal" are the ones with the issues.

EVERYONE has problems, issues, drama, bad times....

As Madonna says " And I am not sorry, it's human nature "

totalhonesty
07-13-2008, 07:36 PM
Maybe because of your stereotypical mind. You base a whole community off a few transsexuals you have encountered. WOW..............we are all different. I assume you are black by your name, you should know better than to oppress a whole community with this silly judgement and post!

And please don't act like the sunshine comes out of your ass. We all have issues. A lot of transsexuals start later in life, and even though beautiful, they don't have the self esteem yet. So they feel the need to hate on other transsexuals to make themselves feel better about themselves. Its quite simple logic and psychological.

Yawn..I'm done.

Have a great day, and try expanding your mind, before you make another stereotypical post.

Damn did I ever say the sunshine comes out of my ass and i'm sure that even though a lot of the guys kiss your little ass on this site kelly that no sunshine comes out of your ass either!

And it's not a sterotypical post either this she wasn't the first one to post some lame crap like that but I expected better from her because she seemed like a cool chick when she used to post here.

Yes i'm black so what does that have to do with anything??? It is a stereotypical post. READ THE DAMN NAME OF THE THREAD. That is stereotypical. And I really don't give a rats ass who kisses my ass on HA or Who doesn't. Men on here take a man giving you a compliment as ass kissing. Don't act like you know me, because you don't! Don't presume to know the relationships I have with the men, that you say kiss my ass. A lot of the men that are "supposeably" kissing my ass I have spoken to in chat and they know what I am about and who I am as a person. So save your judgements for GOD.

And it has everything to do with being black! How would you like if I made a thread that read. WHY DO BLACK PEOPLE TALK FUNNY? WHY ARE ALL BLACK PEOPLE GHETTO? These two statements are not true, but yet I made the stereotype, because of encountering a few that may have been. Which is what you did, when you made the statement. WHY DO ALL TRANSSEXUALS HAVE ISSUES? If you can't see what you did, I feel sorry for you.Rob, dont waste you're time with this science experiment. She/he put the I in issues.

totalhonesty
07-13-2008, 07:39 PM
Hmmm.... Id say 50% of us are crazy and the other 50% just have alot of issues :screwyThanks for the honesty. Damm, call it what it is.

totalhonesty
07-13-2008, 07:46 PM
OK this is the chick i'm talking about. She's beautiful and fine as hell I must say but she's full of issues. I told her she'd fit in nicely. Damn the things i'd do to her sexy ass!!! Hey Rob, I've seen this chick posting on Nudeafrica.com. She always claims she's looking for a relationship. I think she's in Virginia somewhere.

tssexychanel
07-13-2008, 07:48 PM
I'm asking this because when I was on my myspace page I sent a tranny a friends request. I didn't even send her a message or nothing just a simple friends request and she sends me back a really shitty email which i'll post in a second. I was just wondering how or why would a tranny talk about other trannies in such a negative light calling them men and stuff when they're the same thing if we go there. I was really surprised because I remember that this tranny who's really fine as hell and I thought a nice woman because she used to post on this site for a short period and she seemed to be really nice? I don't want to say who she is but she's a beautiful black tranny that used to post here. Now i'll post her response to me for just sending her a simple freinds request and she's not the first tranny that i've gotten a nasty email from primarily talking about other trannies??? So i'm wondering why trannies have so many issues?


MANY GIRLS HONESTLY HAVE A GOD COMPLEX AND WHEN ANY MAN SHOWS AN INTREST IN THEM ALL OTHER TRANNIES AND ESPECIALLY GENETIC WOMEN SHOULD CEASE TO EXIST TO YOU.

ITS UNFAIR BUT SO MANY HAVE ESTEEM ISSUES AND I HAVE TO CALL IT WHAT IT IS AND THEY NEED THAT STROKING AND VALIDATION FROM ME TO FEEL OK WITH THEMSELVES.

DONT SWEAT IT I WAS THAT WAY IN MY YOUTH, HAVE FRIENDS THAT WAY NOW AND WITH AGE ALL THINGS COME INTO A NEW PERSPECTIVE DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL.

THEN SOME OF THEM ARE TRUELY CRAZY AND THOSE YOU HAVE TO LEAVE TOTALLY ALONE CAUSE THERE IS NO HELP FOR THEM THEY THINK THAT TRANSFORMATION IS LIKE THE SECOND COMING OF CHRIST AND THEY HAVE DONE SOMETHING SO MAGICAL THAT THE WORLD SHOULD KISS THEY ASS. LOL

goldensamba
07-13-2008, 08:10 PM
I'm asking this because when I was on my myspace page I sent a tranny a friends request. I didn't even send her a message or nothing just a simple friends request and she sends me back a really shitty email which i'll post in a second. I was just wondering how or why would a tranny talk about other trannies in such a negative light calling them men and stuff when they're the same thing if we go there. I was really surprised because I remember that this tranny who's really fine as hell and I thought a nice woman because she used to post on this site for a short period and she seemed to be really nice? I don't want to say who she is but she's a beautiful black tranny that used to post here. Now i'll post her response to me for just sending her a simple freinds request and she's not the first tranny that i've gotten a nasty email from primarily talking about other trannies??? So i'm wondering why trannies have so many issues?


MANY GIRLS HONESTLY HAVE A GOD COMPLEX AND WHEN ANY MAN SHOWS AN INTREST IN THEM ALL OTHER TRANNIES AND ESPECIALLY GENETIC WOMEN SHOULD CEASE TO EXIST TO YOU.

ITS UNFAIR BUT SO MANY HAVE ESTEEM ISSUES AND I HAVE TO CALL IT WHAT IT IS AND THEY NEED THAT STROKING AND VALIDATION FROM ME TO FEEL OK WITH THEMSELVES.

DONT SWEAT IT I WAS THAT WAY IN MY YOUTH, HAVE FRIENDS THAT WAY NOW AND WITH AGE ALL THINGS COME INTO A NEW PERSPECTIVE DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL.

THEN SOME OF THEM ARE TRUELY CRAZY AND THOSE YOU HAVE TO LEAVE TOTALLY ALONE CAUSE THERE IS NO HELP FOR THEM THEY THINK THAT TRANSFORMATION IS LIKE THE SECOND COMING OF CHRIST AND THEY HAVE DONE SOMETHING SO MAGICAL THAT THE WORLD SHOULD KISS THEY ASS. LOL

:claps :claps :claps :claps :claps :claps :claps :claps

SexxxyJade
07-13-2008, 08:35 PM
When I first read this post I thought the poster was talking about myself, until I read the part about dissing other girls. My persepctive is this. I get alot of friend request and messages on myspace fron guys telling me they love my movies, asking to be in my movies, and even to the extreme of leaving comments on my page saying how much they wanna suck my big blk cock. Anyone who's seen my myspace page notices that its actually my "personal" myspace page. There is nothing pretaining to "SexxxyJade" porn, movies, etc. Just mainly personal stuff, family, friends etc. I mean every member of my family is on my top friends list.
So my delima is this, there are so many venues online where you can find me, chat with me, correspond with me, my website, hA, etc. so why must guys go to my personal page just to tell me they love my big cock, or loved me in Rogue Adventures 29? Maybe its some guys way of trying to get to know you on a personal level, outside of the XXX scene, by finding what personal information you have online and contacting you that way. But when you have a myspace handle like, Trannylover06, or BigblkdickLover, I dont feel a need to correspond with you on my personal page. Its ironic because I just had this discussion on my video blog( http://www.sexxxyjade.com/jadetv.php ) about guys and myspace.
As far as dissing other girls, its something I never do, but I do try and filter my page to try to keep out anything XXX or pretaining to my movies and what not. I understand its the industry I'm in but also I have a right to a personal page just as anyone else. I just feel that there are so many ways online for meeting TS, so many websites dedicated to just that, that we should utilize those instead of venuring out into what may not be the best way. Because fact is, some girls just dont wanna be bothered.

tssexychanel
07-13-2008, 08:57 PM
When I first read this post I thought the poster was talking about myself, until I read the part about dissing other girls. My persepctive is this. I get alot of friend request and messages on myspace fron guys telling me they love my movies, asking to be in my movies, and even to the extreme of leaving comments on my page saying how much they wanna suck my big blk cock. Anyone who's seen my myspace page notices that its actually my "personal" myspace page. There is nothing pretaining to "SexxxyJade" porn, movies, etc. Just mainly personal stuff, family, friends etc. I mean every member of my family is on my top friends list.
So my delima is this, there are so many venues online where you can find me, chat with me, correspond with me, my website, hA, etc. so why must guys go to my personal page just to tell me they love my big cock, or loved me in Rogue Adventures 29? Maybe its some guys way of trying to get to know you on a personal level, outside of the XXX scene, by finding what personal information you have online and contacting you that way. But when you have a myspace handle like, Trannylover06, or BigblkdickLover, I dont feel a need to correspond with you on my personal page. Its ironic because I just had this discussion on my video blog( http://www.sexxxyjade.com/jadetv.php ) about guys and myspace.
As far as dissing other girls, its something I never do, but I do try and filter my page to try to keep out anything XXX or pretaining to my movies and what not. I understand its the industry I'm in but also I have a right to a personal page just as anyone else. I just feel that there are so many ways online for meeting TS, so many websites dedicated to just that, that we should utilize those instead of venuring out into what may not be the best way. Because fact is, some girls just dont wanna be bothered.


Now I have to agree with Jade here. I dont answer all those messages I get all the time and I have something total seperate set up for people that I really know and family. Again calling it what it is all my stuff on mysapce and other sites is work related. It is rather disrespectful and also annoying when people go to my facebook or other more personal pages and always have references of a sexual nature or concerning my adult work.

Sometimes too guys dont see we are multi dimensional and not just what you saw in a movie or pic. They dont know the proper way to come to a girl.

Jade I had been meaning to message you for a while I been watching you blossom and I have been watching for a long time. You doing your thing. I love it.

SexxxyJade
07-13-2008, 09:14 PM
thx MaMa, hit me up anytime sexytsjade@aol.com

gunn
07-13-2008, 10:54 PM
They are crazy and also have issues,i love it lol.

gunn
07-13-2008, 10:56 PM
thx MaMa, hit me up anytime sexytsjade@aol.com

Can i watch :?: :lol:

evavortexfan
07-13-2008, 11:10 PM
hi jade1 are you online gorgeous/

SexxxyJade
07-14-2008, 12:55 AM
hi jade1 are you online gorgeous/

always here lurking

jimbobw2
07-14-2008, 01:36 AM
I'm asking this because when I was on my myspace page I sent a tranny a friends request. I didn't even send her a message or nothing just a simple friends request and she sends me back a really shitty email which i'll post in a second. I was just wondering how or why would a tranny talk about other trannies in such a negative light calling them men and stuff when they're the same thing if we go there. I was really surprised because I remember that this tranny who's really fine as hell and I thought a nice woman because she used to post on this site for a short period and she seemed to be really nice? I don't want to say who she is but she's a beautiful black tranny that used to post here. Now i'll post her response to me for just sending her a simple freinds request and she's not the first tranny that i've gotten a nasty email from primarily talking about other trannies??? So i'm wondering why trannies have so many issues?

Look in the mirror at yourself and say to myself over and over again till you get or grow up

"i am an ass"

see dont you fell better already

sdman
07-14-2008, 05:49 PM
Both... But just as much as the men who love them

I think the people who think they are "normal" are the ones with the issues.

EVERYONE has problems, issues, drama, bad times....

As Madonna says " And I am not sorry, it's human nature "

That actually looks like a real pussy Danielle?

sdman
07-14-2008, 05:53 PM
I'm asking this because when I was on my myspace page I sent a tranny a friends request. I didn't even send her a message or nothing just a simple friends request and she sends me back a really shitty email which i'll post in a second. I was just wondering how or why would a tranny talk about other trannies in such a negative light calling them men and stuff when they're the same thing if we go there. I was really surprised because I remember that this tranny who's really fine as hell and I thought a nice woman because she used to post on this site for a short period and she seemed to be really nice? I don't want to say who she is but she's a beautiful black tranny that used to post here. Now i'll post her response to me for just sending her a simple freinds request and she's not the first tranny that i've gotten a nasty email from primarily talking about other trannies??? So i'm wondering why trannies have so many issues?

:lol: :lol: :lol:


MANY GIRLS HONESTLY HAVE A GOD COMPLEX AND WHEN ANY MAN SHOWS AN INTREST IN THEM ALL OTHER TRANNIES AND ESPECIALLY GENETIC WOMEN SHOULD CEASE TO EXIST TO YOU.

ITS UNFAIR BUT SO MANY HAVE ESTEEM ISSUES AND I HAVE TO CALL IT WHAT IT IS AND THEY NEED THAT STROKING AND VALIDATION FROM ME TO FEEL OK WITH THEMSELVES.

DONT SWEAT IT I WAS THAT WAY IN MY YOUTH, HAVE FRIENDS THAT WAY NOW AND WITH AGE ALL THINGS COME INTO A NEW PERSPECTIVE DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL.

THEN SOME OF THEM ARE TRUELY CRAZY AND THOSE YOU HAVE TO LEAVE TOTALLY ALONE CAUSE THERE IS NO HELP FOR THEM THEY THINK THAT TRANSFORMATION IS LIKE THE SECOND COMING OF CHRIST AND THEY HAVE DONE SOMETHING SO MAGICAL THAT THE WORLD SHOULD KISS THEY ASS. LOL

Alyssa87
07-14-2008, 05:59 PM
i for one am crazy. thankfully though, i dont have too many issues.

the_bo
07-14-2008, 06:21 PM
I have lots of issues....I have issues of Time, Newsweek, Tv guide!!!
I can share my issues if you'd like!!!!! :) :lol:

Beaner
07-16-2008, 03:29 PM
When I first read this post I thought the poster was talking about myself, until I read the part about dissing other girls. My persepctive is this. I get alot of friend request and messages on myspace fron guys telling me they love my movies, asking to be in my movies, and even to the extreme of leaving comments on my page saying how much they wanna suck my big blk cock. Anyone who's seen my myspace page notices that its actually my "personal" myspace page. There is nothing pretaining to "SexxxyJade" porn, movies, etc. Just mainly personal stuff, family, friends etc. I mean every member of my family is on my top friends list.
So my delima is this, there are so many venues online where you can find me, chat with me, correspond with me, my website, hA, etc. so why must guys go to my personal page just to tell me they love my big cock, or loved me in Rogue Adventures 29? Maybe its some guys way of trying to get to know you on a personal level, outside of the XXX scene, by finding what personal information you have online and contacting you that way. But when you have a myspace handle like, Trannylover06, or BigblkdickLover, I dont feel a need to correspond with you on my personal page. Its ironic because I just had this discussion on my video blog( http://www.sexxxyjade.com/jadetv.php ) about guys and myspace.
As far as dissing other girls, its something I never do, but I do try and filter my page to try to keep out anything XXX or pretaining to my movies and what not. I understand its the industry I'm in but also I have a right to a personal page just as anyone else. I just feel that there are so many ways online for meeting TS, so many websites dedicated to just that, that we should utilize those instead of venuring out into what may not be the best way. Because fact is, some girls just dont wanna be bothered.

you probably thought he was talking about you because you act shitty to the guys on myspace too.

blackrob
07-27-2008, 11:07 AM
Maybe because of your stereotypical mind. You base a whole community off a few transsexuals you have encountered. WOW..............we are all different. I assume you are black by your name, you should know better than to oppress a whole community with this silly judgement and post!

And please don't act like the sunshine comes out of your ass. We all have issues. A lot of transsexuals start later in life, and even though beautiful, they don't have the self esteem yet. So they feel the need to hate on other transsexuals to make themselves feel better about themselves. Its quite simple logic and psychological.

Yawn..I'm done.

Have a great day, and try expanding your mind, before you make another stereotypical post.

Damn did I ever say the sunshine comes out of my ass and i'm sure that even though a lot of the guys kiss your little ass on this site kelly that no sunshine comes out of your ass either!

And it's not a sterotypical post either this she wasn't the first one to post some lame crap like that but I expected better from her because she seemed like a cool chick when she used to post here.

Yes i'm black so what does that have to do with anything??? It is a stereotypical post. READ THE DAMN NAME OF THE THREAD. That is stereotypical. And I really don't give a rats ass who kisses my ass on HA or Who doesn't. Men on here take a man giving you a compliment as ass kissing. Don't act like you know me, because you don't! Don't presume to know the relationships I have with the men, that you say kiss my ass. A lot of the men that are "supposeably" kissing my ass I have spoken to in chat and they know what I am about and who I am as a person. So save your judgements for GOD.

And it has everything to do with being black! How would you like if I made a thread that read. WHY DO BLACK PEOPLE TALK FUNNY? WHY ARE ALL BLACK PEOPLE GHETTO? These two statements are not true, but yet I made the stereotype, because of encountering a few that may have been. Which is what you did, when you made the statement. WHY DO ALL TRANSSEXUALS HAVE ISSUES? If you can't see what you did, I feel sorry for you.

Eveyone on here uses sterotypes to evaluate people whether we want to admit it or not. It's funn you chose those two xamples as the stereo type model since quite a few girls on here claim they don't deal with black men because "they don't like to pay."

I don't think he was meaning to lump everyone together I think what he was getting at was why he has experinced hostility by such a large number of girls.

She choose that sterotype because she's one of them that does it.

blackrob
07-27-2008, 11:10 AM
I'm asking this because when I was on my myspace page I sent a tranny a friends request. I didn't even send her a message or nothing just a simple friends request and she sends me back a really shitty email which i'll post in a second. I was just wondering how or why would a tranny talk about other trannies in such a negative light calling them men and stuff when they're the same thing if we go there. I was really surprised because I remember that this tranny who's really fine as hell and I thought a nice woman because she used to post on this site for a short period and she seemed to be really nice? I don't want to say who she is but she's a beautiful black tranny that used to post here. Now i'll post her response to me for just sending her a simple freinds request and she's not the first tranny that i've gotten a nasty email from primarily talking about other trannies??? So i'm wondering why trannies have so many issues?


MANY GIRLS HONESTLY HAVE A GOD COMPLEX AND WHEN ANY MAN SHOWS AN INTREST IN THEM ALL OTHER TRANNIES AND ESPECIALLY GENETIC WOMEN SHOULD CEASE TO EXIST TO YOU.

ITS UNFAIR BUT SO MANY HAVE ESTEEM ISSUES AND I HAVE TO CALL IT WHAT IT IS AND THEY NEED THAT STROKING AND VALIDATION FROM ME TO FEEL OK WITH THEMSELVES.

DONT SWEAT IT I WAS THAT WAY IN MY YOUTH, HAVE FRIENDS THAT WAY NOW AND WITH AGE ALL THINGS COME INTO A NEW PERSPECTIVE DONT TAKE IT PERSONAL.

THEN SOME OF THEM ARE TRUELY CRAZY AND THOSE YOU HAVE TO LEAVE TOTALLY ALONE CAUSE THERE IS NO HELP FOR THEM THEY THINK THAT TRANSFORMATION IS LIKE THE SECOND COMING OF CHRIST AND THEY HAVE DONE SOMETHING SO MAGICAL THAT THE WORLD SHOULD KISS THEY ASS. LOL

LMBAO wel thank you sexychanel.

blackrob
07-22-2010, 02:45 AM
some transsexuals, stop grouping us all together........ Good lord.


well youre a quite typical tranny

blackrob
07-22-2010, 02:46 AM
you probably thought he was talking about you because you act shitty to the guys on myspace too.


im sure she does probably just another bitch

KimberlyBanxxx
07-22-2010, 04:38 AM
ohmyheavens!

drock
07-22-2010, 06:14 AM
Hey Rob, I've seen this chick posting on Nudeafrica.com. She always claims she's looking for a relationship. I think she's in Virginia somewhere.


HOw many times we hear trannys are looking for a relationship when we all know that 99% are full of shit and only looking for money!!

kyoJecours
07-22-2010, 02:54 PM
blackrob u crackhead

blackrob
07-22-2010, 04:15 PM
blackrob u crackhead


Your moms a crackhead and I probably fucked her for a rock.

FreddieGomez
09-21-2010, 08:35 PM
Iono but from the ones i've observed online i'd say they kinda crazy