Would you date a tgirl escort?

[nevadasmith74]

I have a date with an escort, not a professional appointment, rather a personal one. I was looking for people's opinion on whether this could work out if she were or were not to give up working. If things work out and we end up as a couple there is no way I could deal with my GF fucking several other guys a day for money. Not sure if I could even deal with her past if she were to give up working. She is a stunningly beautiful woman, intelligent and sweet from our conversation. Has anyone else been in this situation? Was there just too much baggage to make it work?

Thoughts comments?

[happychris]

If you cannot deal with her profession, then why bother?

[62des]

Only if she alllowed me to have sex with other escorts. She won't be the only one having sex with others.

[nevadasmith74]

If you cannot deal with her profession, then why bother?

The reason I am bothering is that I want a true relationship with a tgirl so I am willing to try even with her chosen profession.

[nevadasmith74]

Only if she alllowed me to have sex with other escorts. She won't be the only one having sex with others.

I think that is definitely where the rubber hits the road, I doubt she would be too happy with that demand, but would justify doing it herself.

Would be a funny concept though she would get paid the money in and you would turn around and pay it to another escort leaving the couple in the same position as before, just an amusing thought

[sana_ne]

Absolutely. It's her profession. Why even ask this question?

My issue is finding such a girl in Minnesota. You can understand their hesitation about a personal relationship.

[nevadasmith74]

My problem is her profession. Would you like your wife having sex with someone while you are in the office? Would that not play on your mind?

After all seal clubber and drug dealer are also professions but would someone want to date one?

[peggygee]

I have a date with an escort, not a professional appointment, rather a personal one. I was looking for people's opinion on whether this could work out if she were or were not to give up working. If things work out and we end up as a couple there is no way I could deal with my GF fucking several other guys a day for money. Not sure if I could even deal with her past if she were to give up working. She is a stunningly beautiful woman, intelligent and sweet from our conversation. Has anyone else been in this situation? Was there just too much baggage to make it work?

Thoughts comments?

I have a few thoughts:

1. At this point, you have a 'date'with her, you two are a long way away
from a relationship. There are many other things that could crop up
before you two become an item.

2. For some women there can be emotional scars left from working
as an escort. There may be trust, fear of intimacy issues, etc..

3. Financially she may not be willing or able to give up escorting. She may
need or want the money that it provides. She may genuinely enjoy the
work that she does. Or she may not have other marketable skills that she
can fall back on.

Bottom line escorts need love too, but you two may have a rough row to hoe.

[dan_drade]

Ok, so I'll put in my 2 cents here. I have not been posting much as of late. I've just been a little too busy.
However, as far as dating a working girl, I don't really see a problem with that. There are lots of working girls that are just as nice as anyone else. It may be a little tougher to date an escort than it is to date a girl that is not an escort. But if you don't at least try dating her for a little while you might find that you are missing out on a very nice relationship. I have never dated a girl that was actively escorting, but I did date a girl that was an escort at one point in her life. She is probably the most level headed and sweet girls that I have ever dated. So IMHO I would say go for it. It's not like you have anything to lose from going on a date or two. And who knows, she just might be a great girl.
Although as Peggy say's, you might have a tough row to hoe.... Or is that a tough hoe to row. LOL

[igotmacedbymimi:(]

Ask yourself this:

WOULD YOU EVEN CONSIDER HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FEMALE PROSTITUTE?

If the answer is NO, then why are you considering having a relationship with a ts prostitute?

Do std's and hiv not scare you at all either?

I presume youd want unprotected sex with your 'girlfriend'. How some of you could sit there behind a computer screen and say youd be willing to date a prostitute because 'its her job' is quite pathetic really.

Sorry lads, didnt you learn anything whilst growing up? Do you not realise the emotional state of prostitutes either?

The longer theyve been prostituting and on the game, the more they will have to try to seperate their soul from their body, the more of a closed person they become and harder it is to have a relationship with them anyway, even if you could look past the fact they are selling their body for money everyday.

To put it simple...other guys are treating your girl as a piece of meat, they are paying her to cum inside her arse or over her tits, you think you can deal with this?

Would you do it with a female prostitute? NO, so why do it with a ts prostitute or a male prostitute?

Find a ts who isnt a prostitute or porn girl.

Why the hell would you want to date a girl who is a prostitute? I simply cant understand that one.

You asked for advice, the advice im giving is to be v cautious, maybe have a fling with her and then leave her, or just be friends. Either way, shes a prostitute mate, shes not exactly the one to start making demands is she???

Just one last thing. I know and have met several girls from this board in real life, they dont know i post here nor do i even know im into ts. Ive also had quite a few sexual encounters with ts (non paid). Let me tell you this my friend, in terms of real practical advice in the real world, you need to avoid havinga relationship with this girl

There are girls on this board and im not going to name drop who have some serious drug problems. The whole 'lavish life of the escort' is a complete myth. In reality prostitution is selling ones soul, the drugs are there because of the crowd they get mixed up in. Its a pathetic waste of life.

In the end youll do what you want to do and no one will change your mind, but be cautious.

[peggygee]

Although as Peggy say's, you might have a tough row to hoe.... Or is that a tough hoe to row. LOL

Yeah I was setting that one up for someone to get the hit. :lol:

[TheOne1]

Ask yourself this:

WOULD YOU EVEN CONSIDER HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FEMALE PROSTITUTE?

If the answer is NO, then why are you considering having a relationship with a ts prostitute?

Do std's and hiv not scare you at all either?

I presume youd want unprotected sex with your 'girlfriend'. How some of you could sit there behind a computer screen and say youd be willing to date a prostitute because 'its her job' is quite pathetic really.

Sorry lads, didnt you learn anything whilst growing up? Do you not realise the emotional state of prostitutes either?

The longer theyve been prostituting and on the game, the more they will have to try to seperate their soul from their body, the more of a closed person they become and harder it is to have a relationship with them anyway, even if you could look past the fact they are selling their body for money everyday.

To put it simple...other guys are treating your girl as a piece of meat, they are paying her to cum inside her arse or over her tits, you think you can deal with this?

Would you do it with a female prostitute? NO, so why do it with a ts prostitute or a male prostitute?

Find a ts who isnt a prostitute or porn girl.

Why the hell would you want to date a girl who is a prostitute? I simply cant understand that one.

You asked for advice, the advice im giving is to be v cautious, maybe have a fling with her and then leave her, or just be friends. Either way, shes a prostitute mate, shes not exactly the one to start making demands is she???

def. gatta agree with some of these views...

[dan_drade]

Although as Peggy say's, you might have a tough row to hoe.... Or is that a tough hoe to row. LOL

Yeah I was setting that one up for someone to get the hit. :lol:

LOL, then I guess I decided to rejoin all the fun and festivities at just the right time!!! I have missed this place, so I guess it was just a matter of time before I came back.

[tstv_lover]

Ask yourself this:

WOULD YOU EVEN CONSIDER HAVING A RELATIONSHIP WITH A FEMALE PROSTITUTE?

If the answer is NO, then why are you considering having a relationship with a ts prostitute?

Do std's and hiv not scare you at all either?

I presume youd want unprotected sex with your 'girlfriend'. How some of you could sit there behind a computer screen and say youd be willing to date a prostitute because 'its her job' is quite pathetic really.

Sorry lads, didnt you learn anything whilst growing up? Do you not realise the emotional state of prostitutes either?

The longer theyve been prostituting and on the game, the more they will have to try to seperate their soul from their body, the more of a closed person they become and harder it is to have a relationship with them anyway, even if you could look past the fact they are selling their body for money everyday.

To put it simple...other guys are treating your girl as a piece of meat, they are paying her to cum inside her arse or over her tits, you think you can deal with this?

Would you do it with a female prostitute? NO, so why do it with a ts prostitute or a male prostitute?

Find a ts who isnt a prostitute or porn girl.

Why the hell would you want to date a girl who is a prostitute? I simply cant understand that one.

You asked for advice, the advice im giving is to be v cautious, maybe have a fling with her and then leave her, or just be friends. Either way, shes a prostitute mate, shes not exactly the one to start making demands is she???

Just one last thing. I know and have met several girls from this board in real life, they dont know i post here nor do i even know im into ts. Ive also had quite a few sexual encounters with ts (non paid). Let me tell you this my friend, in terms of real practical advice in the real world, you need to avoid havinga relationship with this girl

There are girls on this board and im not going to name drop who have some serious drug problems. The whole 'lavish life of the escort' is a complete myth. In reality prostitution is selling ones soul, the drugs are there because of the crowd they get mixed up in. Its a pathetic waste of life.

In the end youll do what you want to do and no one will change your mind, but be cautious.

Although I totally disagree with some of these points, others are certainly worth noting.

Personally, I would have a hard time establishing a serious relationship with a ts girl (or any girl for that matter) who was still escorting.

That's not to say there's no future. If a girl wants to move out of escorting then she needs support, moral, emotional and financial. If she's the right girl for you and she's committed to leaving escorting then I see no reason why this can't work.

Peggy makes good points, as always. A girl coming from escorting background will have issues - certainly trust, maybe drugs, maybe lack of self worth, etc. She will need help, especially when she relapses.

One piece of advice. It's often the small things that make a huge difference. When I got into a relationship with an ex-prostitute she often commented how amazing it was to be in a restaurant or other public space without me looking out for familiar faces or trying to hide!

If she's wanting to leave escorting and she's worth it then I wish you every success. If she's going to remain in escorting then you really need to think whether you can handle this.

[ilove2swallow]

TOTALLY FREAKIN AGREE WITH THAT LONG PARAGRAPH like 2 or 3 posts ago....

A RELATIONSHIP WITH A WORKING "GIRL", TS at that!!!!!

CUUUUUUUU'MON

[bat1]

If you cannot deal with her profession, then why bother?

agreed

[nevadasmith74]

All things considered I think it would be a reach to establish a relationship with someone who is actively escorting. The emotional detachment necessary for such a job just couldn't lend itself to being in a relationship. On top of that there is the very good point of std's. I know most girls are safe but what happens if a condom breaks inside her, a gum bleeds etc.

I really appreciate the advice. I will meet her just in case she is about to get out and by some miracle it would work. After all I buy a lottery ticket every now and then. Although I think the odds of winning the pottery are probably better than having a relationship with an active escort seems to be the consensus.

[ilove2swallow]

NOPE... don't meet her, just have the fling b/c
"DEALING WITH HER PAST" will eat you alive also.

go find a sexy gay dude with a big winky and turn him into a non- escorting TS... (NEVER HEARD OF RIGHT?) LOL

then marry and all that! lol

[Yoda Rules!]

I would never consider dating an escort, I am much too needy and ego-centric to be capable of sharing someone I love with paying consumers.

I'm not judging those who escort, every individual has a right to pursue their own path to happiness and I would never wish ill will to anyone for any reason. Its just a personal choice and opinion, not a statement of what's right and wrong.

[tstv_lover]

I'm not judging those who escort, every individual has a right to pursue their own path to happiness and I would never wish ill will to anyone for any reason.

Escorting seems to be more a path to survival that one to happiness, but the girls can comment on this much better than me. Perhaps you meant it as a throw-away comment.

[peggygee]

I'm not judging those who escort, every individual has a right to pursue their own path to happiness and I would never wish ill will to anyone for any reason.

Escorting seems to be more a path to survival that one to happiness, but the girls can comment on this much better than me. Perhaps you meant it as a throw-away comment.


Peggy makes good points, as always. A girl coming from escorting background will have issues - certainly trust, maybe drugs, maybe lack of self worth, etc. She will need help, especially when she relapses.



Thank you for that tstv_lover. :wink:

But indeed the fact pattern and scenario for each woman may be different.

Some women truly enjoy their occupation. Yet they may enjoy it for a
variety of reasons:

1. Clearly there is the money, but we must also bear in mind that not
every girl can command $300 - $400 per hour, most earn significantly
less than that. And even those that can may have a finite window during
which they can.

2. Maybe it's the flexibilty of their jobs, they can work as needed, basically
they are their own bosses.

3. 'The stroking', and no I don't mean the physical stroking of sex, which
can be gratifying up to a point. No the stroking that I speak of is the
stroking of the ego.

In her profession an escort garners the adualtion, and adoration of many
men. She may have many men tell her how beautiful, and desirable she
is, they may even professs their love to her, if but for a moment.

4. We've discussed previously that she may not have any other
marketable skills, either due to lack of education, a work history, or
because of her transtatus.

5. Compound this with any drug problems, emotional issues, citizenship
status, or other legal issues she may have related to her occupation, such
as 'pross busts' and the like, and she is truly between the rock and the
hard place, and this may force her to remain in the industry to survive.

[tstv_lover]

Thanks. I repeat - Peggy makes good points, as always :wink:

[desolationangel]

Are you all so lacking in self-confidence that the idea of your girl having completely emotional-less sex with another man for money is somehow a threat to your masculinity? If she chose you, over all those paying customers, to be the person she wants to be with for FREE, then perhaps you should stop looking a gift horse in the mouth and enjoy the kind of relationship that some of us would kill for.

As for the rest of you, stop making broad, sweeping generalizations about t-girls and escorts as if you really know anything. Every person on Earth is different. I got really angry when I read those recent posts about how "all" tranny chasers act. Reading these posts about how "all" escorts act makes me just as angry.

Let's try to treat one another as individuals instead of just copies coming out of a mould.

[2754tim]

I date an escort,she keeps her business to herself and I don't get involved,the only time I would if someone put a hand on her then all bets are off.
It's not an easy relationship.It's wild and extreme and crazy.
She's also a lot younger then I am.A lot youngerYou know I've done a
lot of things in my life I'm not proud of.Frankly,if anyone wants to condemn
someone for being an escort they need to take a damn good look at themselves.
Hey,she asked me out and wanted a relationship,which I tell her sometimes.
I didn't meet her on a date.I told her I wasn't a trick or a john or a date right from the get go.
Do I buy her things?Yep.Anyone I Go Out With I Buy Things For.
I don't pay her rent.
Why all the negativity about someone being an escort?I wish my G/F didn't
do it,but she does and I knew what I was getting into.I'm a big boy.
I have a lot of fun with her,life is short,she's a good kid,have fun :D

[CORVETTEDUDE]

It's a DATE, man....you're not frickin' gettin' married. Or, are you making decisions for her BEFORE you get started?!

[igotmacedbymimi:(]

Are you all so lacking in self-confidence that the idea of your girl having completely emotional-less sex with another man for money is somehow a threat to your masculinity? If she chose you, over all those paying customers, to be the person she wants to be with for FREE, then perhaps you should stop looking a gift horse in the mouth and enjoy the kind of relationship that some of us would kill for.

As for the rest of you, stop making broad, sweeping generalizations about t-girls and escorts as if you really know anything. Every person on Earth is different. I got really angry when I read those recent posts about how "all" tranny chasers act. Reading these posts about how "all" escorts act makes me just as angry.

Let's try to treat one another as individuals instead of just copies coming out of a mould.

Truly laughable.

Infact beyond pathetic.

You wouldnt mind if your wife or gf was having 'meaningless sex with other guys?'

Totally pittiful!

Firstly your girlfriend would be performing an illegal job. Lets not forget that prostitution is ILLEGAL!

Secondly your girlfriend is TOTALLY DEGRADING HERSEFLF! You would feel ok that your beloved girlfriend needs to sell her body to earn money?

People on this board are obviously so fixated on their stupid fantasies that they forget that prostitution is DEGRADING! It is selling ones body for money, selling the one thing that is private to a woman.

If sex was a simple commodity and selling ones body was 'legitimate' then youd class rape as simply 'stealing a commodity from a woman?' How pitiful.

Prostitutes have ti end their head that they are 'sexy seductresses', what they fail to recognise is that there are millions of girls out there prettier than they are and who have brains and would never lower their standards and morality to sell their body for money.

Rape is stealing a persons most valued posession, a part of them, their intimacy! Likewise prostitution is a person giving their intimiacy away for a quick bundle of cash. With this they give away a part of their soul.

You might not care if your girlfriend has to degrade herself to earn money by selling her body to dirty little men and women.

You might not care that another mans cum is flowing over your girlfriends tits.

You might not care that prostitution is illegal and that it is morally bankrupt.

BUT MANY MEN DO CARE!

These are the men who would much rather have a peaceful loving relationship with their girlfriend/wife and be a family man.

Infact as it happens, the men who ts want the most, are men who they will never stand a hope in hell of getting whilst they are prostituting (or escorting if you want to call it the 'nice' term).

Most men wouldnt want their girlfriend who they love to have to degrade herself.

NOW ASK YOURSELF THIS:

Would you care if your mother was a prostitute?

Would you care if your sister was a prostitute?

Would you care if your daughter was a prostitute?

Dont say you dont care, because you know very well you would not be 'ok' with it and simply accept it as her 'legitimate profession'.

As it happens i have the balls to say 'i do have something against prostitutes'. I believe they spread std's, in some cases they are morally bankrupt people, a massive majority are drug users and i do not agree that anyone needs to degrade themselves by selling their body.

No they arent the 'worst criminals in the world', there are far worse criminals than prostitutes but they are still doing a filthy and degrading job.

No matter what they might think of themselves as they walk down the road with vuitton shoes and gucci glasses, they are an example of how the weak people on this planet are slaves to capitalism, it shows weak mindedness (albeit not in all cases however in MOST cases it shows weak mindedness) and it shows how articulate someone really is and how much they value themselves.

Ie. Some foolish prostitutes have it in their head 'im so sexy, i can charge 500 dollars for a man to fuck me, im so good'. So it shows how mentally immature she is that she is willing to sell her body for sex to pamper her ego (as peggy said).

There are girls out there who would never ever sell their body for money because it is the most degrading job to them in the world!

Where is morality? Out the fkin window obviously in capitalist drug infested america.

[igotmacedbymimi:(]

I date an escort,she keeps her business to herself and I don't get involved,the only time I would if someone put a hand on her then all bets are off.
It's not an easy relationship.It's wild and extreme and crazy.
She's also a lot younger then I am.A lot youngerYou know I've done a
lot of things in my life I'm not proud of.Frankly,if anyone wants to condemn
someone for being an escort they need to take a damn good look at themselves.
Hey,she asked me out and wanted a relationship,which I tell her sometimes.
I didn't meet her on a date.I told her I wasn't a trick or a john or a date right from the get go.
Do I buy her things?Yep.Anyone I Go Out With I Buy Things For.
I don't pay her rent.
Why all the negativity about someone being an escort?I wish my G/F didn't
do it,but she does and I knew what I was getting into.I'm a big boy.
I have a lot of fun with her,life is short,she's a good kid,have fun :D

Feel sorry for you if that is your perpective on life.

escort = prostitute = degrading

Would you be ok with your mother or sister or daughter being a prostitute? Then why are you ok with your girl doing it?

Like i said, i feel sorry for you.

[LibertyHarkness]

lol this post is quite amusing to read....

Moral this moral that, peoples morals vary massively as does religion....the morals that people seem to work from are so ancient and from a time that has really no baring on the world as it stands...

So i take it then tgirls that are pornstars are immoral as they sell there body for sex???if so then why are you here on a TS site that is filled with adult models??? just curious really, surely for a moral man that goes against your moral beliefs????

[2754tim]

igotmacedbymimi wrote


Feel sorry for you if that is your perpective on life.

escort = prostitute = degrading

Would you be ok with your mother or sister or daughter being a prostitute? Then why are you ok with your girl doing it?

Like i said, i feel sorry for you.

No need to feel sorry for me,I'm not a hypocrite who calls up Eros and has someone come up to their Hotel Room.The Adult Movie and Internet Biz makes 10 Billion Dollars A Year,More Then Pro Sports,Who Knows What The Escort Biz Makes.
I'd rather she do something else,but that's her choice.
When I was doing certain things in life my family didn't want me doing them,but it was my choice.
You are on a porn site,why are so concerned with this question anyway?
So if most of the women on this site escort they are degrading,right?
Then why are hanging around degrading people?
Oh,but it's ok to pay someone like they're a piece of meat?
But they aren't a person?
Right?

[BeardedOne]

Oh my! A discussion of morals on a porn forum! Just what I've been looking for. Not! :roll:

I'm the last one to speak on how to have a happy relationship or whom to have it with (It's public knowledge how 'happy' I am), but this whole concept of dating an escort (Or, dare I say it? Whore,) is so deeply subjective as to be impossible to discuss.

You can't really help who you fall for. I thought my last lover was the bees knees. Good looking, sharp as a whip, small hands and big kink ( :D ), she was perfect for me. That she would later be referred to as my =LAST= lover was never something I expected. :cry:

I dated a street whore for a while when I was much, much younger. Please note that I use the term 'street whore' as a description, not a derogatory label. I actually knew her from earlier friendships with her brother and family and her profession only came to light in later years. She literally worked the streets and some of the lesser clubs in the city.

Yah, I had issues with what she was doing and can't begin to count the number of times that I found myself driving out to East Bumfuck in the middle of the night to rescue her ass from some abusive john. But she was the girl that plucked my heartstrings and you find that you can tolerate or overlook some pretty egregious habits and activities under that spell.

Things didn't work out for us, though it was more from other things that we grew distant. As I recall, though I wasn't hot on her profession, I saw it as just that: A profession. Maybe it's because I am bi and poly, two traits that lessen the one man/one woman concept of a relationship definition.

Would I ever date or have a relationship with an escort/sex worker again? Who knows. It has more to do with whether or not I'd ever even =DATE= again. I've been with some incredible people, on a professional level, in recent years and they've each left their mark.

There's always the fantasy that there is someone out there that is 'right' for me and I see someone that escorts in no different light than someone that is a lawyer or an insurance adjuster. They all fuck people for a living, at least some of their clients come out happier than others.

[igotmacedbymimi:(]

lol this post is quite amusing to read....

Moral this moral that, peoples morals vary massively as does religion....the morals that people seem to work from are so ancient and from a time that has really no baring on the world as it stands...

So i take it then tgirls that are pornstars are immoral as they sell there body for sex???if so then why are you here on a TS site that is filled with adult models??? just curious really, surely for a moral man that goes against your moral beliefs????

Porn is bordering but id say its ok, it is safer for both the performer and is regulated, also it is not illegal.

Have you ever worn a crucifix around your neck? If so, why do you wear that if you do not believe in morality?

Morality is important in this world because without it, the world would be a terrible place. Forget being an 'escort', because without morality youd end up having your appartment broken into, being battered to shit, raped and robbed, then maybe beung tortured for being ts.

So id say morality is v important. Just think of ts activists/gay activists, are they not doing it for moral reasons? Are they proud of prostitution in their community? What do you think?

I never clamied to be a supreme moral person, we are all human and we have all sinned at one point or another. But i dont have an immoral and degrading job.

I think that for the original poster some of your questions have been answered simply by seeing the attitudes of people on this thread:

Surely you want a compassionate, caring and moral girlfriend to have a close relationship with?

You think you can achieve that with a ts prostitute? :lol:

[RMan1]

To answer the original question, hell no.

[S6XN9NE]

From someone that lived with a stripper/escort for 4 years a while back I say, hell yes.......Just make sure "the house" gets it's cut. My relationship helped me start my business I am in, and I could not have lasted thru the tough beginning years if it wasn't for her help. You do, however, have to have a remarkable ability to become detached from emotions, which isn't that difficult if you are a man and not a "puppy".........

[2754tim]

igotmacedbymimi wrote


Porn is bordering but id say its ok, it is safer for both the performer and is regulated, also it is not illegal.

Have you ever worn a crucifix around your neck? If so, why do you wear that if you do not believe in morality?


You'd say it's ok?Who the fuck are you to dictate terms of people's behavior?You self righteous,low life sleazy,motherfucker.Are you married?
Have a girlfriend?Tell her that you cruise a Transexual Porn Site?Morality?
I have more morals in my little finger then you have in your whole body.
You seem to have some sort of hatred for prostitutes.You are a very sick person.
Again,why are you here?Getting your kink fulfilled?
Checking out the girls so the next time you go on a business trip you can
call up Eros,maybe get a little coke,no one will know.Get your rocks off.
You are a piece of shit.
Tell your wife of g/f you have this little fasination with Transexuals,you being such a moral person.
Lowlife hypocrite internet troll

[LibertyHarkness]

I wear a crucifix because it goes with the gothic look i have for my work, other than that the crucifix means nothing to me other than visual look..

Myself i dont beleive in god or follow any religion..so the whole morality of a crucifix for me is void...

The world is a terrible place fullstop, look at the human race as a whole, we are a wretched species kill, maim, destroy, bleed dry....

[ilove2swallow]

POINT BLANK, SELLING YOUR BODY FOR SEX IS WRONG..... WHERE'S THE COMMON SENSE THESE DAYS.

AND NO, I WOULD NEVER DATE OR MARRY A SLUT

[LibertyHarkness]

POINT BLANK, SELLING YOUR BODY FOR SEX IS WRONG..... WHERE'S THE COMMON SENSE THESE DAYS.

AND NO, I WOULD NEVER DATE OR MARRY A SLUT


i put it to you for your view, is a porn model bad?

They sell they bodies for sex to a degree do they not.. I mean shit i turn up to a studio get told what scene i am doing, fuck with some people i have never met in my life, then get paid for it at the end....


Common sense has nothing to do with it, to many it is sensible i am going to take the porn industry as an example....

Now before i got into modelling i used to work in IT and Recruitment, was boring as hell, money was so so but generally the day was spent cold calling, client meetings with being harrassed by a boss to make more numbers, more calls, stay later earn more money......

common sense told me this bloke is starting to take the piss out of me, trying to make me feel guilty and work later and longer hours to line his pocket for no extra salary other than i may earn some more commission....

Right so lets take this to my current proffession....I am now not answering to any twat that is moaning at me to be on the phone, giving me stress, i am not lining anyone elses pockets with the money i get paid for shoots or selling my content i produce... I have a great lifestyle, while not rich rich, i am able to enjoy myself and look after my family, i can choose my own hours, i work with some amazing interesting people and love my work with a passion..---So common sense would tell you this is the better move eh, less stress, more work satisifaction, more money and interesting lifestyle.....


Now i know the escorting proffession is slightly different, and yes i can comment on it as i have been an escort before and while i enjoyed some of it, i just found it wasnt really for me, i couldnt be arsed with the waiting around for clients, no shows....

What you have to look at with prostitution is that it falls into a few catogories:

Those Forced into it out of need (junkies, homeless etc)

Independantly do it for extra money (student, low income main job)

Those that think fuck it i look hot and can coin it while i have my looks. (those that want to coin some dollar, and dont give a toss using their bodies to manipulate men into paying, hell its your body why shouldnt)


Remove the street hookers, and ones doing it for a laugh as just some extra dosh, take the the career escorts they are usually very focussed, take low risks, have a game plan...Well the ones around me in london i know and hang out with do anyway..

So to say common sense in regard to selling sex is in my view abit lame, yes that maybe your view but then who is to say if its right or wrong..The end of the day people will do what they feel is best for them...

The original poster asked would you date/marry a escort, the answer is probably no for most people...but would you date or marry a

Drug Dealer,
Convicted Criminal,
Gold Digger that just wants your money.....to name just a few..
Porn Star


but then to flip it again, Girls would you date or marry a guy that visits escorts.....

[tsfarrah]

All i will say is that it dosent work for everyone


but if you get the right two people it can

I've been with my bf for 8yrs this year!

[maxraw1]

how is this for an odd comment, i am old fashioned and i want my lady all to myself!!!!!

i guess i had trouble sharing when i was a child :)

marriage or a LTR to a lady is certainly a dream of mine!

[celticgrafix]

hell no

[igotmacedbymimi:(]

POINT BLANK, SELLING YOUR BODY FOR SEX IS WRONG..... WHERE'S THE COMMON SENSE THESE DAYS.

AND NO, I WOULD NEVER DATE OR MARRY A SLUT


i put it to you for your view, is a porn model bad?

They sell they bodies for sex to a degree do they not.. I mean shit i turn up to a studio get told what scene i am doing, fuck with some people i have never met in my life, then get paid for it at the end....


Common sense has nothing to do with it, to many it is sensible i am going to take the porn industry as an example....

Now before i got into modelling i used to work in IT and Recruitment, was boring as hell, money was so so but generally the day was spent cold calling, client meetings with being harrassed by a boss to make more numbers, more calls, stay later earn more money......

common sense told me this bloke is starting to take the piss out of me, trying to make me feel guilty and work later and longer hours to line his pocket for no extra salary other than i may earn some more commission....

Right so lets take this to my current proffession....I am now not answering to any twat that is moaning at me to be on the phone, giving me stress, i am not lining anyone elses pockets with the money i get paid for shoots or selling my content i produce... I have a great lifestyle, while not rich rich, i am able to enjoy myself and look after my family, i can choose my own hours, i work with some amazing interesting people and love my work with a passion..---So common sense would tell you this is the better move eh, less stress, more work satisifaction, more money and interesting lifestyle.....


Now i know the escorting proffession is slightly different, and yes i can comment on it as i have been an escort before and while i enjoyed some of it, i just found it wasnt really for me, i couldnt be arsed with the waiting around for clients, no shows....

What you have to look at with prostitution is that it falls into a few catogories:

Those Forced into it out of need (junkies, homeless etc)

Independantly do it for extra money (student, low income main job)

Those that think fuck it i look hot and can coin it while i have my looks. (those that want to coin some dollar, and dont give a toss using their bodies to manipulate men into paying, hell its your body why shouldnt)


Remove the street hookers, and ones doing it for a laugh as just some extra dosh, take the the career escorts they are usually very focussed, take low risks, have a game plan...Well the ones around me in london i know and hang out with do anyway..

So to say common sense in regard to selling sex is in my view abit lame, yes that maybe your view but then who is to say if its right or wrong..The end of the day people will do what they feel is best for them...

The original poster asked would you date/marry a escort, the answer is probably no for most people...but would you date or marry a

Drug Dealer,
Convicted Criminal,
Gold Digger that just wants your money.....to name just a few..
Porn Star


but then to flip it again, Girls would you date or marry a guy that visits escorts.....

Good points. You see when you construct a good argument and raise sych points it becomes a good debate and i have respect for what youve written so will give you the courtesy of a response.

No is te answer, i would not date a drug dealer. Possibly a convicted criminal but it depends on what the charge was for (if its prostitution then no way, murder then no way, but if its a speeding fine then its no prob). I would not date a gold digger either. I have dated a female ponstar and numerous strippers though and it doesnt work out, i have found them out to be very self conscious and not secure with themselves, they become very clingy and in my case ended up bein very jealous of me.

The thing that makes a relationship is love, ONLY LOVE!

Money can not carry it, sex can not carry it, family can not carry it, for it to be succesful one must be in love, nothing else matters.

Be honest with yourself here, do you think (put yourself in the guys perspective) if you were in a relationship with a guy of your dreams, a who spent lots of time with you, someone who you were totally drawn to, someone who treats you totally like the woman you are inside and not for being mistakenly put into the wrong body by nature, sees you for you! You think a guy like that would stick by you if you were a sex worker? That he would share the same breath as you and together you both look in each others eyes and see/feel the love. Can you honestly say that this would happen?

Girls dont want to be with someone who is a 'client', lets be real about it, how many clients fit the whole big buff sexy caring man image i described above? How many clients know how to treat women? They are clients because they dont know how to chat women up, the ts is the 'taboo' and they dont even see them as a woman, so no of course the girls dont want to date these guys.

But like you said the flip side, why would a dream man want to date a sex worker when he can get a great looking girl (ts or female or guy if he wants) that has a legit job and isnt embarrassing for him.

Bottom line is that whilst being a sex worker there is v low chance of meeting a dream guy:

1. Its embarrassing for the man that his gf has to sell her body, she lowers herself to this level to get money, what dream guy is realistically gonna stand by without feeling embarrassed and sad for his girl having to do this?

2. Its illegal. If its safe sex there are still risks of some diseases, albeit a lot less. Its not drug dealing/murder/rape etc, but it is illegal and immoral. Would a dream man want a girlfriend like this?

3. Could a ts sex worker continue her work if she met the man of her dreams? Would she not herself feel that she wants to devote herself to her man in a true loving monogamous relationship full of love?

[blacktgirls]

i don't no about serious dating but i would definiatly love to be friends with her and do regular stuff like going to restaurants, the mall or the beach. maybe i can teach her how to hit golf balls at the driving range like in the movie " there's something about mary "

[tstv_lover]

Don't think I would and after reading one of the other threads

http://www.hungangels.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=23368

and seeing Vanessa and Allanah's perceptions I'm now certain I wouldn't!

[indeed]

Im married, but I would date a passable latina TS on the side.

[qeuqheeg222]

i would like to know how many of these escort girls supposed "boyfriends" are into the escort thing as well or maybe old boottom sugar daddy types that have no where else to get some dick....

[62des]

I cant think of any reason why a person could justify why a guy should be with a porn model in a serious relationship unless he's into that kind of thing. Then the girls actually have the nerve to get mad? This is life, suppose she caught something. Aside from that she's getting all the sex she wants but he's stuck with just her. It's NOT a profession its prostitution. Don't be fooled. Escort is just a better sounding term for it as someone said before. Why date an escort when you can date a girl that doesn't? There's are other professions out there and I think that escorts already know the consequences of the job before they even enter it. Atleast strippers can say they dont go around having sex with everyone, they atleast have that much to say. I just think a girl shouldn't expect a boyfriend when she has a job like this, or atleast a good one.

[Jay Jay]

Reading some of these posts tell me some people are having some real mental tug of wars. Firstly it is a date. The idea of date dosen't mean anything than really getting to know a person. Normally if you cant deal with a person you will know in a few dates. I have dated GG prostitutes before and I would not do it again but no two people are the same in how they deal with things. There are a lot of drug abusers in the profession. You obviously like the person so why would you not go on a date? The moralist individuals need to go on another board.

[Hara_Juku Tgirl]

To answer the original question, hell no.

Oh cut the BULL! Let us repeat this phrase.."You are an aged/ancient manwhore/gay escort!"

~HTG

[spankrod]

Would I date a tgirl escort? Sure. Would one date me? Magic 8-ball gave me a resounding, "no."

[MacShreach]

Lets not forget that prostitution is ILLEGAL!

By no means everywhere. In most of Europe it is quite legal, alongside most of South America and elsewhere. In fact even within the US, as I understand it, the position varies from State to State.

Just speaking from my own experience and the girls I've spoken to, none of whom are in the States (which is why the above) TS prostitutes actually seem to be better at handling outside-work relationships than female ones. This may be because of the different reasons for entering the profession-- many females I've spoken to are single mothers, had run up debt or otherwise felt coerced into the business, and I think this feeling can translate into mistrusting all men. Makes them very demanding of their partners, as several have openly admitted.

This seems to be much less the case for the TS prostitutes I've spoken to, most of whom are South American in origin. Seems more like a career for them, and they value the career rewards, mainly financial, that the profession gives them. I have met females who take this view but they are more unusual.

However, both TS and female escorts do definitely build up very strong means of insulating themselves from the emotional damage that prostitution clearly does. I think it would take a strong, and probably a more mature man, to handle this AS WELL AS the facts of her shagging anyone with the requisite fee, the phone constantly ringing, calling off a dinner-date because a high-rolling john is in town, that sort of stuff, not to mention the very real danger a prostitute is in whenever she meets a client, which her lover is bound to worry about, etc etc.

I don't think there's any issue with ex-prostitutes, btw-- I have known and still know several (females) who settled down into very happy LTR's after they left the business. No idea whether this is also true of TS prostitutes.

(I have to state that there is a real problem with talking openly with prostitutes in that they have a habit of saying what they think you're paying them to say; however if a girl relaxes with you she will often open up. Women of both persuasions can be surprisingly candid if they do--that there's nothing to prove in the relationship, it being defined by the payment of money, probably helps here.)