I HATE ASSHOLES

[TsJamieCroft]

Why is that all men think that transexuals are a sex object. I mean yea I am an escort but I hate that men think they can just use you and speak to you however they want. Its often you hear from a client "Oh they all have attitudes" well maybe if you didnt come at me with such stupid questions and ask me everything that is written right in front of you then maybe we wouldnt get annoyed. Sometimes we just want to be treated like women regardless if were working girls or not. I got an email from a IGNORANT MAN, who messaged me on my yahoo account, and said he was from hung angels. This is what the message said.

From: slut4u@fastermail.com Add Mobile Alert
To: TsJamieCroft@yahoo.com
Date: Mon, 31 Mar 2008 02:16:01 +0800
Subject: hung angels

Jamie, I noticed you are a new poster on hung angels.

I checked your website and your pics look great :)

Do you consider yourself a Top or bottom?

I enjoy drinking milkshakes so I'm curious to know if you like to serve
them up?

slut

RETURNED MESSAGE THAT I SENT.........

Date: Sun, 30 Mar 2008 13:18:46 -0700 (PDT)
From: "Jamie Croft" <tsjamiecroft@yahoo.com> Add to Address Book Add Mobile Alert
Subject: Re: hung angels
To: slut4u@fastermail.com

If you saw my website you should know what im into. Im a lady and I have to much respect for myself for someone like you to come out of your mouth and say something like that, "That you like milk shakes". I have a profile on hungangels yes and that is to communicate with other girls and gentelmen. Im not looking for sex on there just sincere friendships. Be a little more respectable next time and maybe you might get your wish. Its hard for girls like me to only be seen as sex objects, thats not why I became a woman.

HIS REPLY............................................. ..........
From: slut4u@fastermail.com Add Mobile Alert
To: "Jamie Croft" <tsjamiecroft@yahoo.com>
Date: Mon, 31 Mar 2008 05:53:47 +0800
Subject: Re: hung angels

Get real, you are selling it.

[praetor]

First of all, its happen all the time here in Brazil also.
I agree with you Jamie, when you ask for respect. You are a human being like everybody here, have feelings, you cry, you laugh, have your needs, at last, you are a girl like everybody, not a sex object.
With my compliments, my best regards from Rio.

[Fox]

Not all men.

[bat1]

it boosts there ''EGO'' when they talk like that
since they have nothing to stand on
So many Jerks out there

[TsJamieCroft]

First of all, its happen all the time here in Brazil also.
I agree with you Jamie, when you ask for respect. You are a human being like everybody here, have feelings, you cry, you laugh, have your needs, at last, you are a girl like everybody, not a sex object.
With my compliments, my best regards from Rio.

Thanks, I appreciate your reply. Sometimes these guys are just so nasty. I dont get it.

[TsJamieCroft]

First of all, its happen all the time here in Brazil also.
I agree with you Jamie, when you ask for respect. You are a human being like everybody here, have feelings, you cry, you laugh, have your needs, at last, you are a girl like everybody, not a sex object.
With my compliments, my best regards from Rio.

Thanks, I appreciate your reply. Sometimes these guys are just so nasty. I dont get it.

[praetor]

First of all, its happen all the time here in Brazil also.
I agree with you Jamie, when you ask for respect. You are a human being like everybody here, have feelings, you cry, you laugh, have your needs, at last, you are a girl like everybody, not a sex object.
With my compliments, my best regards from Rio.

Thanks, I appreciate your reply. Sometimes these guys are just so nasty. I dont get it.

Jamie, we have an expression here in Brazil: caga e anda para ele (walk and shit for for him); means, don't care about it, dont wast your time with people like him, you are bigger than they.
Kisses from Rio.

[blacktgirls]

Why is that all men think that transexuals are a sex object. I mean yea I am an escort but I hate that men think they can just use you and speak to you however they want. Its often you hear from a client "Oh they all have attitudes" well maybe if you didnt come at me with such stupid questions and ask me everything that is written right in front of you then maybe we wouldnt get annoyed. Sometimes we just want to be treated like women regardless if were working girls or not. I got an email from a IGNORANT MAN, who messaged me on my yahoo account, and said he was from hung angels. This is what the message said.

From: slut4u@fastermail.com Add Mobile Alert
To: TsJamieCroft@yahoo.com
Date: Mon, 31 Mar 2008 02:16:01 +0800
Subject: hung angels

Jamie, I noticed you are a new poster on hung angels.

I checked your website and your pics look great :)

Do you consider yourself a Top or bottom?

I enjoy drinking milkshakes so I'm curious to know if you like to serve
them up?

slut

RETURNED MESSAGE THAT I SENT.........

Date: Sun, 30 Mar 2008 13:18:46 -0700 (PDT)
From: "Jamie Croft" <tsjamiecroft@yahoo.com> Add to Address Book Add Mobile Alert
Subject: Re: hung angels
To: slut4u@fastermail.com

If you saw my website you should know what im into. Im a lady and I have to much respect for myself for someone like you to come out of your mouth and say something like that, "That you like milk shakes". I have a profile on hungangels yes and that is to communicate with other girls and gentelmen. Im not looking for sex on there just sincere friendships. Be a little more respectable next time and maybe you might get your wish. Its hard for girls like me to only be seen as sex objects, thats not why I became a woman.

HIS REPLY............................................. ..........
From: slut4u@fastermail.com Add Mobile Alert
To: "Jamie Croft" <tsjamiecroft@yahoo.com>
Date: Mon, 31 Mar 2008 05:53:47 +0800
Subject: Re: hung angels

Get real, you are selling it. i think calling you a slut is way out of line, but i just looked at your website and under services avaliable you are vague. a lot of girls list massage and gfe but what do they mean by this? massage sounds like it means a handjob but gfe is anyone's guess. if the girls listed what they will do and what they will not then there would be no need for these types of questions. i asked the question on another thread if it's ok to ask the girl over the phone about what type sex you are looking for or does the client have to meet the girl before discussing sex. i am not trying to be a dick by asking these questions and i understand you wanting to keep your escorting seperate from HA and i would never call you names or put you down. i have no idea how the escort business works. i do know that if i meet one of you girls or any other escort i would treat you like the ladies that you are. whethere or not someone can clue me in i just want to say that you a very beautiful.

[bulldog]

you want his legs broken? :D

[TsJamieCroft]

you want his legs broken? :D
YES LOL

[JoHovian]

hmmm it looks like maybe he was just signing the email as slut, like as a short description of himself so that you would know that he was indeed a slut...information to prepare you for an encounter with him, so that you wouldn't be all surprised at his sluttiness. I've only been with an escort once and i was really nice to her even though she was nothing like her description and terribly unattractive to me. I think she was new too because she gave me her home phone number ...which i would think is something a vet wouldn't do. Anyway I think its like people who are rude to the cashier at McDonalds or the technical support guy over the phone ...we just don't consider how our rudeness will affect them. I'm sure everyone slips up and is rude to someone who doesn't deserve it at some point and it really is part of any job that involves service of any kind...cuz some people are dicks sometimes and some dicks are people sometimes but never all the people all the time..or something like that and you know as they say in Brazil caga e anda para ele

[bucatini70]

If you treat a transexual as a woman, love as a woman and with respect. I think you will find that you'll find a warm heart and great companion......its all about what you are willing to give

[justatransgirl]

Yes, I think JoHovian has it right. I think from his address the guy was just signing his "name" not meaning disrespect.

But really Jamie dear, I should think by now that you understand all men are little boys and must be treated as such. If they are good they get rewarded, otherwise...

As for the milkshake - toss it in his face, no nevermind, he'd like that. See how much he'd pay for it. No, I know sometimes money just isn't enough... :-)

Hugs and Giggles,
TS Jamie :-)

[tstv_lover]

Maybe he feel "brave" enough to treat you without respect in email but would be timid as hell if he met you in person.

Do you find that guys you meet are different in real life from their HA communications?

Going back to your question - it is never acceptable to treat people without respect. I agree with the other posters on this thread.

I can feel an "HA hug" coming on :)

[needsum]

I think the lack of respect that many men show is actually more a reaction based in fear and ignorance, over anything else. I know that there is a section of men who use escorts who are married and/or in a committed relationship, simply for the ease and ability of having sexual variety in their lives.

But many more people use escorts because they have no way of finding someone by using their wit, charm and any other personal assets they may (but most likely do not) have. These types of guys don't know how to talk with women. They most likely learn how to communicate with women by watching Porn.

Then when they actually work up the guts to contact a woman, especially a woman who works as an escort, all they see is the potential to get laid. She is not a person at that point, she is a means to an end. Therefore, she MUST enjoy talking sexually, explicitly, and with no candor or class. After all she is selling sex, right? Too many times I have heard these kinds of stories, and its always the same thing. Immature "men" who think that, because a woman is escorting, she is down for being treated like a porn queen.

So girl, don't take it to heart. Just rise above it if you can, because we all know that you ARE a real, sexy, beautiful and strong, capable woman. And you know it too, so let the losers slide off your back. In the end, it only makes the good guys seem all that much better.

[gjamestgirlfan]

Its guys like this that make us guys that appreciate Transgeder girls get the brunt of it sometimes, which is totally understandable, but its not fair on us guys who do appreciate and treat with respect, in my opinion i treat better than i would a genetic girl when dated, due to i care about what think of me more, this kind of guy makes me mad as reason why some girls turn to disliking guys.

[rockabilly]

Sadly i'm guilty of being a little forward like that before , not to that extent though.

But i was naive and still am in some regards , but being here and on other forums i've grown up and am ashamed of some things i've said.

[Nicole Dupre]

The BS of doing Q&A with a girl on the phone, when everything is already covered in the ad, is a transparent ploy to keep you talking. I've literally heard their breathing change as they try to simultaneously ask moronic questions like "what town are you in", and also try busting a nut. It's almost always the same; the more complicated they make doing something as simple as making an appointment, the more likely it is that they'll pull more shit later. They'll either show up with less roses, or not show up at all, or act stupid and immature, or have bad grooming habits, or try to be manipulative, and the list goes on and on. Basically, giving them an inch means they want to take a mile. Funny how it's always the guys, who are polite and keep it short and sweet, who never pull any dumbass stunts. The other guys are window shopping. Plain and simple.

Read the ad, follow the guidelines, make an appointment, and THAT'S ALL. It doesn't get any easier. If you're too fucking thick or stupid to read an ad which I took my time to carefully compose, to avoid this nonsense in the first place, I don't want to see you anyway! Get a clue. We already know every stupid move you a-holes pull all too well.

[Nicole Dupre]

Its guys like this that make us guys that appreciate Transgeder girls get the brunt of it sometimes, which is totally understandable, but its not fair on us guys who do appreciate and treat with respect, in my opinion i treat better than i would a genetic girl when dated, due to i care about what think of me more, this kind of guy makes me mad as reason why some girls turn to disliking guys.

There's a world of difference between MEN and LITTLE BOYS, who just happen to be 18+.

I LOVE men. However it's the little boys in men's bodies who I refuse to babysit.

[Willie Escalade]

Not all men.
Exactly.


If you treat a transexual as a woman, love as a woman and with respect. I think you will find that you'll find a warm heart and great companion......its all about what you are willing to give
Hear hear!

[LAGent4ts]

My experience is that individuals who have little if any respect for themselves show even less respect for others. Then there are others who were raised without being taught or shown the basics of civilized human interaction.

Respect Begets Respect.

[BellaBellucci]

The BS of doing Q&A with a girl on the phone, when everything is already covered in the ad, is a transparent ploy to keep you talking. I've literally heard their breathing change as they try to simultaneously ask moronic questions like "what town are you in", and also try busting a nut. It's almost always the same; the more complicated they make doing something as simple as making an appointment, the more likely it is that they'll pull more shit later. They'll either show up with less roses, or not show up at all, or act stupid and immature, or have bad grooming habits, or try to be manipulative, and the list goes on and on. Basically, giving them an inch means they want to take a mile. Funny how it's always the guys, who are polite and keep it short and sweet, who never pull any dumbass stunts. The other guys are window shopping. Plain and simple.

Read the ad, follow the guidelines, make an appointment, and THAT'S ALL. It doesn't get any easier. If you're too fucking thick or stupid to read an ad which I took my time to carefully compose, to avoid this nonsense in the first place, I don't want to see you anyway! Get a clue. We already know every stupid move you a-holes pull all too well.

Fucking A that was well said. I'd also add a suggestion to the girls reading this: invest in a phone line that rejects calls from Caller-ID blocked numbers and/or offers selective call rejection. I have and it's the best money I've ever spent. You can cut 90% of the riff-raff for $25/month at Voip.com. Before I got my line with them, I was literally hearing ringing telephones in my sleep and was so burned out with the bullshit that I was probably scaring away perfectly good clients.

~BB~