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duncan12
03-28-2008, 07:39 PM
I'm a happily married guy and have become more and more resigned to the sad truth that I will never be able to enjoy the pleasure of one these lovely Hung Angels. I can only dream about it because I love my wife and won't hurt her.

I wonder how many other guys on this board have resigned themselves to the same straight sex future.

sigh...

The_Cap
03-28-2008, 08:00 PM
I feel for you mate, if it makes you feel any better i find it comforting to know there another guy out there who wouldnt ruin something so good for a whim based on a feeling he may or may not regret acting on.

Walk tall and take some comfort in knowing you doing the right thing.

Rich

El Nino
03-29-2008, 12:41 AM
Mannn.... I care for my gf too but I still plan on finding the chance, the one chance to fuck around with a hung bitch. I must experience all the pleasure that is a hung angel. My GF will never know, and I won't feel guilty at all. Its just that those Eros sites freak me out a little because of potential legal trouble, i.e. set-ups and stings. Is Eros safe by and large? Anybody?

The_Cap
03-29-2008, 12:48 AM
My GF will never know, and I won't feel guilty at all.

Sometimes i pity the species, i really do...

Daponster
03-29-2008, 12:54 AM
Maybe you can make her wear an strapon or something.

Or get in a threesome.

Or whatever, even if shemales are beautiful you should be grteful you have a wife tha you love and that she loves you

BeardedOne
03-29-2008, 01:06 AM
To the OP: My hat's off to you. Your lady has one special guy in her life and you're earning her respect in ways that she may never clue into.

I'm a different sort in that I am initially of a poly mindset (Non-monogamous), further tweaked by my being genuinely bi and sealed by the fact that too long of a train of bad relationships was trailed by a caboose that triggered a near-suicidal breakdown. Hence my not being in, or very interested in entering into, any sort of marriage relationship.

To the later question about Eros: As with any consumer venue, it is caveat emptor. Do your research, know who you're dealing with, and tread carefully. Any gurl that I've met via Eros was already known to me and the website was only a point of schedule confirmation. Your mileage may vary.

revinsx
03-29-2008, 01:22 AM
that sucks man i got over my fear and told my girl about my fantasty and she wants me to fufill, and if possible she said she wants to watch, take the chance and tell her if she loves you it will turn out better than you expect!

redtiger
03-29-2008, 03:54 AM
The only thing that sucks as far as I'm concerned is that, as I get older, sex becomes less of an issue.

hardharry585
03-29-2008, 04:18 AM
im in the same boat... not overly sad about it though

mischelle
03-29-2008, 04:29 AM
Awwww, I almost feel sorry for you all, wanting a shemale yet you just don't have the balls to follow through. You know something I understand though. I want something also, guess my balls are bigger then yours though because I am doing what ever it takes to accomplish my dreams. Well, sorry to interrupt your man thread, just not having a very good day.

youcancallmeclaire
03-29-2008, 05:13 AM
I'm in that boat too, and I'm mildly annoyed. My sex life is pretty much dead, but atleast I have someone who loves me and will be there for me forever.

I just wish my partner was more of a nympho... I would have far less to complain about in that case.

Maybe I could slip some viagra into her dinner or something. haha.

stimpy17
03-29-2008, 02:29 PM
I'm a happily married guy and have become more and more resigned to the sad truth that I will never be able to enjoy the pleasure of one these lovely Hung Angels. I can only dream about it because I love my wife and won't hurt her.

I wonder how many other guys on this board have resigned themselves to the same straight sex future.

sigh...

No, you're not alone.

trannybanger
03-31-2008, 01:25 AM
some things are better left as fantasy.... do you really think you could only try just once? its just a little better than a lays potato chip. more like heroin.

Ecstatic
03-31-2008, 01:38 AM
I'm a different sort in that I am initially of a poly mindset (Non-monogamous), further tweaked by my being genuinely bi
I also am polyamorous, though primarily attracted to women (genetic or trans, pre-, non- or post-op). Fortunately, my wife and the love of my life for nigh on 34 (! :shock: !) years fully understands and supports my occasional sexual daliances with other women.


To the later question about Eros: As with any consumer venue, it is caveat emptor. Do your research, know who you're dealing with, and tread carefully. Any gurl that I've met via Eros was already known to me and the website was only a point of schedule confirmation. Your mileage may vary.
Eros: Your Source for Schedule Confirmation! :)

BeardedOne
03-31-2008, 02:31 AM
Eros: Your Source for Schedule Confirmation!

You betcha! :D

bat1
03-31-2008, 02:48 AM
find one you like have a few hours with her
bust a nut then pay her and move on...

back to the married life

IT'S JUST LUST! you don't have to fall in love with it

many married guys do it...

justatransgirl
03-31-2008, 08:50 AM
Ok, as a provider in a LTR here's how we do it.

"Business is business, and pleasure is cheating." What that means is so long as there's money involved it isn't cheating. Which is why I make videos with my ex-BF with the big schlong... LOL

Now, as the "other woman" the way I see it is if a guy is with me it's really not cheating. I'm just providing a little exploratory fun.

And a final option might be to get your wife involved... a threesome with a t-girl who can boink you both! To me that's the best fun there is. Of course then you run the risk of your SO and your provider hooking up and cutting you out entirely...

Giggles,
TS Jamie :-)

bob69
03-31-2008, 10:57 AM
I am fairly open minded, but it has been my experience that if you involve someone else in your sex life, (threesome etc) your intimacy changes and a seed of mistrust is always there. I had a girlfriend who was bi and when we further explored the "possibilities" it freaked her out a bit to see me do things to another girl. Mind you, it was a lot of fun, but I find that there is some level of jealousy in most relationships. This is especially the case in my current relationship. She is very open minded sexually, but any time I mention a threesome it makes her all edgy, and not in a good way. She definitely would not be comfortable with a girl, as she would be too jealous, and I would not be turned on by a man. I have hinted at another possibility several times where we would both get the fantasy we wanted, but she either didn't get it, or she pretends not to. Still, her and a tgirl at the same time would be by far the hottest thing. This raises two problems though:
1-Would we ever be able to do without the third partner?
2-Would the trust that is there remain after such an experience?
I would never have the heart to just go and do things behind her back, as I wouldn't accept the same treatment from her.
Oh well... guess I have to be more patient.

justatransgirl
04-01-2008, 05:48 AM
Bob, you make some good points. I think for a couple to be comfortable in a more open relationship they both have to be very independent. OR one has to have a reason not to care who the other is with.

I know a couple of couples who have been together many years, and date others separately and together. It seems to work for them. But I have to agree that for the majority it doesn't. I'm kind of that way myself. While with Jessica, if there's money involved it's one thing, I don't seem to get a jealousy complex. But if she was to go off with someone behind my back I'd be devestated.

I've also noticed in some cases where one party (usually the female) is non-seuxal they really don't care if their SO get's some elsewhere, it relieves the burden from them. Sometimes these relationships are great friendships and that's all there is.

I've dated a number of great gents who told me they hadn't had sex in ages. That they loved their wives, but they weren't sexual with them. And people do need a little nooky on occasion. That's why I've never felt bad about being an escort.

I suspect that eventually Jessica and my relationship will evolve to something like that after our SRS surgeries. I LIKE men, I like having a cock inside me. Jessica doesn't. And she is really kind of ambivilant about being a top. I think once she doesn't have a boy-toy our sex life will be more that of freinds and cuddling - and I'll have to scare up a hot young stud from HA on occasion...

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

Trogdor
04-01-2008, 09:11 AM
Makes me glad I am not married even more. I don't wanna get restrictions.

Claire, if you ever want a more active sex life, imagine if you are with a fellow who has not been with a chick in 9 years.....this dragon's has alot to vent, you know. :wink:

Trogdor
04-01-2008, 09:16 AM
I've also noticed in some cases where one party (usually the female) is non-seuxal they really don't care if their SO get's some elsewhere, it relieves the burden from them. Sometimes these relationships are great friendships and that's all there is.

I've dated a number of great gents who told me they hadn't had sex in ages. That they loved their wives, but they weren't sexual with them. And people do need a little nooky on occasion. That's why I've never felt bad about being an escort.

Another reason I don't wish to get married. It's bad enough to be placed in the dreaded friends zone to begin with, but being married to someone that does that......just the thought of that is terrifying.
Plus another reason why I am ready to quit on GG's all togather. <_<