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andyuk
03-05-2008, 05:40 AM
i was wondering if anyone else has ever tried it ?and for how long?
i decided after my last relationship ,to have a break from sex,and up to this day,over 3 years now i have remained celibate.sure i have been tempted and things,but i have never really been into 1 night stands,and i can"t see that special someone coming into my life any time soon.i know this is probably the wrong subject to bring up on this forum,but what the heck i"m intrigued about what answers i will get :)

GroobySteven
03-05-2008, 06:34 AM
... but why?

chefmike
03-05-2008, 06:52 AM
...but i have never really been into 1 night stands

Do you enjoy sex?

Have you ever had a one night stand?

What's not to like?

justatransgirl
03-05-2008, 06:53 AM
Celibacy?

Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha...

Look where celibacy has brought you - to asking a porn producer and a hooker if they are celibate. LOL :-)

Can we sell you some videos dear?

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

OK, I'll relent for a moment. Yes I have had my moments of celibacy. When I was around 18-21 I went nearly three years. And when I was around 30 something I went a few years. But it wasn't really by choice. More that I was dealing with my gender issues and just couldn't find a SO.

Hara_Juku Tgirl
03-05-2008, 06:58 AM
AndyUK, Life is too short..why be celibate? I'd say enjoy it while you can (just use protection)! LOL ;)

~Kisses.

HTG

slinky
03-05-2008, 07:09 AM
Does it count if it's not self imposed?

trish
03-05-2008, 07:16 AM
Actually I have. I was pretty sore after my last surgery and decided to remain celibate during my recovery. The first four hours after my release was difficult. I thought I'd go nuts. Then the male nurse showed up at my door and fucked my brains out. That was great. Maybe I should try celibacy again sometime.

andyuk
03-05-2008, 07:51 AM
...but i have never really been into 1 night stands

Do you enjoy sex?

Have you ever had a one night stand?

What's not to like?

i do enjoy sex sure with the right person,as for 1 night stands i have had them in the past,and no doubt i could find 1 night stands again,but they are just not for me.

andyuk
03-05-2008, 07:52 AM
Celibacy?

Ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha, ha...

Look where celibacy has brought you - to asking a porn producer and a hooker if they are celibate. LOL :-)

Can we sell you some videos dear?

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

OK, I'll relent for a moment. Yes I have had my moments of celibacy. When I was around 18-21 I went nearly three years. And when I was around 30 something I went a few years. But it wasn't really by choice. More that I was dealing with my gender issues and just couldn't find a SO.

never been into watching either :)
well perhaps when i was 15,lol.

AllanahStarrNYC
03-05-2008, 08:06 AM
In my very early 20's- I was celibate for about two years. But that had to do mostly because of my not being comfortable with my body.

It was alright though.

mikey_stl
03-05-2008, 09:01 AM
I've tried celibacy. I was very promiscuous at one point in my life, and found it became very empty. Rather than just sleep with someone for the purely selfish reason of sexual satisfaction, I'd rather abstain from sex until I find someone that I want to get serious about -- and I am somewhat picky.

Also, I've had problems with sexual addiction and have found that if I start getting involved in sexual activity, it takes over my life, with the same disastrous consequences that other types of addiction has on other people -- financial problems, health problems, relationship problems, etc. It's much better for me to remain chaste and only have sex with someone that I've truly made a lifetime commitment to.

yodajazz
03-05-2008, 09:56 AM
I was wondering if people who call themselves celibate still mastrubate or not?

bulldog
03-05-2008, 12:23 PM
ive been celibate for 21 yrs lol :violin :sadcry

Ben

bulldog
03-05-2008, 12:25 PM
I was wondering if people who call themselves celibate still mastrubate or not?

yea, cuz guys can explode if we dont get release every so often lol :lies

ptyseminole
03-05-2008, 04:50 PM
the longest period I have gone without sex is 1 month...

mikey_stl
03-06-2008, 07:25 AM
I was wondering if people who call themselves celibate still mastrubate or not?

Some do, and some don't. Some may not stop completely but limit their masturbation. I think part of it depends on their reasons for celibacy. For a healthy man, there's a build-up of seminal fluid, and that has to be eliminated some way -- either through masturbation or through a nocturnal emmission (wet dream). I've had a few wet dreams in my life, but they were when I was a teenager. I have gone 32 days without having an orgasm. You would not believe the amount of cum I squirted after that.

bulldog
03-06-2008, 12:46 PM
ive been celibate for 21 yrs lol :violin :sadcry

Ben

someone shoot me and put me out of my misery :cry :frustrated

bob69
03-06-2008, 02:13 PM
Yup I have been celibate for about 3-4 months. I didn't have a choice in the matter.. there really wasn't anything good to be had... .but why oh why would you want to do it by choice? Sex is sex and if you can do in with someone that turns you on and you aren't hurting anyone (unless they want you to :P) then why not go for it?